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| 59 | Comic tells a sad story and how he dealt with it and feeling like he had to 'man up' [warning: tear jerker] | catfingers64 | /r/MensRights | 14/12/12 05:17 PM |
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| 9 | TIL withholding sex and affection is considered "Sexual violence" according to the university of michigan.Your vegetarian chili sucks dick better than you do ftfy | /r/MensRights | 13/08/14 03:05 PM |
| 12 | TIL withholding sex and affection is considered "Sexual violence" according to the university of michigan.By the sound of her debt, I think she already lived a lot and could use some hard-learned lessons about money management. But that kind of thing usually has to come from within and just being enforced by an outside entity isn't always enough to make a permanent change. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/14 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Rape Jokes. Where's the line? Amazing Atheist responds.There are definitely better ways to go about doing those types of jokes, and if an entire show was based on putting down one group of people I think everyone could agree that that's a shit way to do stand-up (you've got to mix it up a bit). | /r/MensRights | 02/08/14 02:51 AM |
| 8 | Rape Jokes. Where's the line? Amazing Atheist responds.Either everything is okay to joke about, or none of it is. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/14 11:39 PM |
| 1 | 21 Men Holding Signs Quoting Their RapistsProbably one of the transgender that the disclaimer mentions. UPDATE 11/19/13 We can not make gender assumptions. Some of the courageous people in these photos may be transgender, and therefore, I can not assume that they are male or female. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/14 05:39 PM |
| 25 | 21 Men Holding Signs Quoting Their Rapists2 looks like he/she is wearing a bra and some of the quotes are directed at a girl, but the person holding the sign looks like a man. So I'm guessing, a couple of the people in the group are transgender. Also, one actually states that fact on the sign. So it's obviously relevant to these photos. I agree, if this post is going to have that disclaimer then all similar posts should too. | /r/MensRights | 28/06/14 05:36 PM |
| -2 | Dying father stages mock wedding as he won't live long enough to see his daughter get married. Feminist blogger describes this as 'beyond fucking creepy', whilst commenter suggests that he's 'abusingA man has every right to marry his daughter, obviously /s | /r/MensRights | 07/04/14 03:31 AM |
| 60 | 60 Minutes admits feminism has stifled scientific research which is now showing the genders are very different on a cellular level.But you have to consider that many if not most studies are done on male subjects. (I don't have a citation, but from what I've heard other experts say this seems to be accepted) So yes, of course, furthering our understanding of sex differences in medicine will make everyone's lives better, but specifically researchers need to include more trials on women. Edited to add: This NPR article that was linked in /r/science could be used as one example. The studies referenced were done only on men to d… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/14 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Hunting for Archetypes: I want to tell you a story...Interesting story. What is the relevance to men's rights? | /r/MensRights | 15/02/14 03:25 PM |
| 8 | Can we have a serious critique of Karen Straughan's talk at Ryerson?To be fair, "so there you go" is kind of like GWW's catch phrase. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/14 01:27 AM |
| 10 | I think I've figured out feminism , and I've decided to write a book about it.<your writting something something plank in your own eye | /r/MensRights | 03/02/14 04:02 AM |
| -1 | Mother's rights groups call for a boycott of Divorce Corp. Your activism needed.That statement is as false as the reverse. We don't need to use such absolutes. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/13 04:23 PM |
| 14 | Feminism: "Why do people think we hate men?"Pants-on-head retarded I love that phrase. Thanks for the laugh! | /r/MensRights | 21/11/13 01:43 AM |
| 4 | What made you realize that Mens Rights was a legitimate issue?You have to admit, it's an interesting description of the reproductive process. Totally wrong in saying 'you were inside your mother,' because no, actually, only half of you was. The other half didn't exist until the sperm was made inside your dad. Which is an interesting concept, but totally irrelevant to this thread. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/13 07:42 AM |
| 11 | What made you realize that Mens Rights was a legitimate issue?When my dad told me that my mom physically abused him, but their couples therapist told him it was his fault. At the time I didn't know about the men's rights movement but when I got older I found this sub. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/13 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Men can say "no" tooWhy it was news: growing up as a girl, I often heard about how men want sex and will do anything to get it. It had never crossed my mind that a man could be aroused and without wanting sex. What changed my mind: this sub! There was another thread where they discussed that men have no way to control their arousal coupled with the fact that many women experience arousal during rape. Put them together and it makes sense. Also, there have been many other comments around reddit about the number of un… | /r/MensRights | 02/11/13 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Men can say "no" tooI think 'idiot' is a bit harsh, maybe wildly underinformed. I had to explain to a guy that I have no way to predict when my period will begin or end except based on past periods and assuming that they follow some pattern. Edit to say: the congressman and anyone who believed him are definitely idiots | /r/MensRights | 02/11/13 01:19 AM |
| 1 | The article is about the way society has redefined rape and propagates the idea that sexual abuse is common. A UK article. "Some rape victims have a moral responsibility for their fate".I would disagree. A coworker had her work laptop stolen out of her office and she seemed extremely shaken up about it. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/13 12:58 AM |
| 5 | The article is about the way society has redefined rape and propagates the idea that sexual abuse is common. A UK article. "Some rape victims have a moral responsibility for their fate".I understood Hewson's words to mean that she was setting legal responsibility aside and focusing on moral responsibility. So what she's talking about wouldn't be used in court to determine a legal conclusion, but rather to change the way we talk about rape and the fact that comments are completely dismissed as victim-blaming if they allude to the fact that drinking less is probably a good idea if someone wants to avoid a misunderstanding in the bedroom. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/13 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Men Its Time To Boycott Marrige Until Laws Change & Here Is Why! Pt 1Using us/them terminology probably isn't the best, but I agree, it's nice to see more diversity in the group of people who hold these opinions. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/13 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Men can say "no" tooI agree. I think I saw a couple posters before, but I'd like to see more of a 'arousal =/= consent' campaign. As a woman, this was news to me and I think more people need to be aware of it. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/13 01:29 AM |
| 26 | Chuck E. Cheeses Refuses to let Man assist Disabled Daughter in Women's Restroom even when it is emptyOr a family bathroom. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/13 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Computer Science at all-girl's colleges: the lack thereofI think you could broaden the question to engineering. Why aren't there more engineering (or any) at all-women's colleges? I have no evidence for this except my own viewpoint (as a female mechanical engineer) that when looking for a good school for a technical degree, the technical universities are at the top of the list. Then when it comes time to find a job, I not only have the degree but also the prestige of the university I chose. It's about being competitive in the work-force. If I want to … | /r/MensRights | 17/10/13 01:51 AM |
| 1 | "But by age 18, girls had become much more involved in preying on others, to the point where they were almost as likely to be perpetrators as were boys."Hey now, not all pit bulls are like that. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/13 04:25 AM |
| 1 | radical feminism's radical vocabulary.TIL 2009 is forever ago | /r/MensRights | 18/09/13 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Public reactions to women abusing menCan we just not hit anyone? Doesn't anyone use their words anymore? | /r/MensRights | 01/09/13 04:03 PM |
| 12 | Public reactions to women abusing menYep, women can do anything men can, unless it's bad /s | /r/MensRights | 01/09/13 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Top judge says mothers should have children taken away if they don't let fathers see themThere's always weekend jail | /r/MensRights | 29/08/13 01:33 PM |
| 1 | THIS IS WHAT THEY DO TO BABIES? IN THEIR FIRST WEEK OF LIFE?If you read the blog, the author outlines some good points. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/13 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Women never have bad attitudes. Men are just weak!Or starts throwing things | /r/MensRights | 12/08/13 11:41 AM |
| 2 | I want to talk about "fake geek girls"I don't feel like looking it up, but there's a blog post that goes in depth about why BBT is really laughing AT geeks instead of WITH geeks. It boils down to when the laugh track is played. It plays whenever one of the guys makes a geeky reference. Not because what he said is actually funny, but because he said something geeky and therefore it's funny. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/13 09:47 PM |
| -3 | That husband who recorded his wife flipping out? Surely he did something to her first. Also, it would apparently be funny for her to record his implied lackluster performance in the sack. Girl power! Mom power!I'm sure all panic attacks are the same for all people. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/13 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Why isn't each parent's spouse's income taken into account for child support?While I agree with you, your ex is not the only one who has done this. When my mom remarried, she and my step-dad agreed that while he would pay for the house, bills etc. my mom would still be solely responsible for my and my siblings' expenses. Granted, I lived with my dad (sister lived with mom and older brother joined the army) so it wasn't really that big of a deal. And thankfully my parents had a relatively amicable divorce, so no court ordered child support. Unfortunately, when applying fo… | /r/MensRights | 09/08/13 01:25 AM |
| -8 | Apparently bitching about other people's work is more important than the actual work. (x-post gaming)How is this related to men's rights? | /r/MensRights | 26/07/13 04:44 AM |
| 1 | "Girls are better than boys, but we should all be equal!"I agree. Their first statements seem to be an observation on how society sees boys and girls based on sentencing. But yes, they could have done a much better job of expressing these ideas. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/13 05:30 PM |
| 2 | I like this model for sexual terminology... But now I'm hungry.Agreed (on both points). It gives agency to all parties involved and is open to more interpretations than just heterosexual encounters. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/13 03:50 PM |
| 2 | An average woman and her MensRights man...It sounds like she's attacking right back, albeit behind his back: "retard", "stupid". Yeah, using those kinds of words will make for a great relationship. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/13 02:34 PM |
| 1 | No real point, just wanted to share this with someoneHow is this neoteny? | /r/MensRights | 14/07/13 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Single Father on 4Chan (SFW)I would have demanded a free cruise in addition to this one | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Brian Banks (Man falsely accused of rape) talks about his experience, interesting to say the least.The shit lawyer that his mom had to sell her house to pay for. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/13 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Feminist says 5 day work week is sexist: "many have argued for the four-day workweek, or flexible hours in general, as a way to retain talented female workers who might otherwise quit altogether in order to have children."Your statement is doubleplusgood. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/13 10:22 PM |
| 4 | "brainwash" -- norwegian documentary examines how fields like sociology and feminist studies reject actual science because it doesn't fit with their ideologyI'm glad I read your comment. That was indeed amusing. Sometimes satire is a great way to make a point. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/13 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Would being in my child's life only part of the time be detrimental to his well being?I agree that you'll never get those moments back, but those are moments that your child won't remember if you were there or not. I would recommend being there as much as possible during the time of life that they'll remember (as a priority. be there as much as possible overall, but if you have to pick, pick the time they'll remember). Source of experience: I started out being raised primarily by my mom (dad in the navy, away a lot). Then they got separated/divorced and dad left active duty and w… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/13 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Imagine if a quiz on racism only asked you how you felt about Asians...It seems we all agree that the questions are poorly worded. I would recommend to the professor to word them with a statement of an action, then listing the options as no women do this, few women do this, some women do this, most women do this, all women do this (vice versa for men if they bothered to ask about men). | /r/MensRights | 24/06/13 01:58 AM |
| 1 | I am a divorce lawyer, AMAMy parents' divorce was like that (thank God). I picked where I wanted to live and we (all three of us) figured out when I would be where. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/13 10:31 PM |
| 1 | I am a divorce lawyer, AMAYou have to do whatever you can't not do. - Cloud Atlas | /r/MensRights | 23/06/13 10:29 PM |
| 2 | I am a divorce lawyer, AMAWhile we're on the topic of prenups, do you know of any data showing that couples with prenups are more likely to get divorced than couples without prenups? Or perhaps you have some personal experience to expound upon? | /r/MensRights | 23/06/13 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Men Falling Behind - The Silver Lining to the CloudWhat is your job? | /r/MensRights | 23/06/13 03:02 PM |
| 3 | I have been active on these issues for over 15 years. I am tired of beating my head against a brick wall. I'm done.You don't have to be a nurse to open a clinic. The important parts, the infrastructure, contacting people and getting them on your side, none of that requires a degree. You have a beautiful dream. Please don't give up. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/13 02:53 PM |
| 1 | I like Lulu because it is a feminist’s dream app...the guys can’t see a thing.. and women hold all the power. It might seem a bit unfair to guys, but hey, we deserve it.I think it's going to be like my search for a new blender. All the one-star reviews make me think all blenders are shit. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/13 02:05 PM |
| 4 | Why is male objectification acceptable?I think it's worse when the two are combined, whereby men are used only for the reproductive value and can be tossed out after. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/13 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Wale Odunsi: What if men menstruate, get pregnant? A voice for womenI left this comment: Do you wake up every day, look in the mirror and say "Today, I'm not going to rape anyone." No? That's because not every man is a rapist. | /r/MensRights | 21/06/13 06:47 PM |
| 6 | [Spain] Neighbours rally to prevent the eviction of a man in a divorce process from the family home. Man and daughters living with no power, gas or running water because he's jobless; wife demands alimony payments.How can she do that to her own children? How can anyone do that to another human being? | /r/MensRights | 21/06/13 06:42 PM |
| 14 | Why do feminists do this?I hate the word 'mansplain'. There's a tumblr that I like reading because I either sympathize with the real cases of sexism or laugh at the cases of stupidity on the author's part: http://mansplained.tumblr.com/. With that said, the term is stupid because all of those cases of giving explanation where none is needed or assuming that someone doesn't know something are things that EVERYONE does. I (female) do it a lot (sad to say) and it's stupid to think that only one gender does it. Like I said,… | /r/MensRights | 21/06/13 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Title: "For men, having children is a career advantage. For women, it’s a career killer." Article misses how women could have stay at home fathers while women could maintain the heavy workload demanded during child-rearing years.Working more is also a soul killer... why don't they realize this? | /r/MensRights | 18/06/13 12:23 AM |
| 7 | And what about talking to your son about safety?I think the implication of the slogan is that typically people talk to their daughters about consent, and talk to their sons about safety (make sure you wear a condom). Ideally, parents would talk to their kids about both topics regardless of gender. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 01:13 AM |
| 10 | Ten years after he was sent to prison for sex crimes he didn't commit, Steven Phillips and his wife divorced. In 2009, he was exonerated and awarded nearly $6 million in compensation. His ex-wife says she's entitled to some of it.How did she burn her ovary? | /r/MensRights | 17/06/13 12:38 AM |
| 1 | A double standard that has been killing meBut you'll never know which one | /r/MensRights | 12/06/13 01:46 AM |
| 5 | Stockholm's male train drivers wearing skirts to workShut up and take my money | /r/MensRights | 08/06/13 05:42 PM |
| 3 | A double standard that has been killing meWomen have been treated like children for ages. Isn't this called equality? Putting down one to raise the recently oppressed? /s | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 08:55 PM |
| 3 | A double standard that has been killing meYup, because if a man says something he obviously means it seriously and if it's of sexual nature you can expect him to rape her within 5-7 days. /s | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 08:53 PM |
| 1 | A double standard that has been killing meI've honestly never seen the comparison. Could you elaborate? | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 08:52 PM |
| 2 | A double standard that has been killing meMaybe she is the Highlander, you don't know. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/13 08:51 PM |
| 8 | Facebook wastes no time in banning the truthThere's another one. Report it too: https://www.facebook.com/Misandry4life | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 07:49 PM |
| 5 | Found this in a CALM textbook from the '90sWhy are we talking about fat people? | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 12:07 AM |
| 44 | Found this in a CALM textbook from the '90sAt least there will be rainbows | /r/MensRights | 04/06/13 12:06 AM |
| 4 | Amy Alkon & Helen Smith on how society has become anti-maleIt's a little long for me. Does anyone have a synopsis? | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 03:48 PM |
| 30 | A Feminist admits Feminist men turn her off.The problem is that they way feminism is currently structured, the men who agree and fight for it will subjugate themselves in order to be accepted, therefore no longer equal. The men who will fight for themselves and fight to be equal won't like her something something and leave. I wasn't completely sure why those guys are leaving and didn't read far enough to really figure it out. Essentially, the person she wants to be with doesn't exist. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Poem about female on male domestic violence. (Or is it the other way around?)Men's strength is their weakness. Women's weakness is their strength. -Warren Farrell | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 03:38 PM |
| 3 | The failures of academic feminism - Cathy YoungThis sounds interesting. By non-traditional, I assume that you're older than the average student and so that means you aren't easily swayed by bullshit. Could you elaborate with some examples from class? | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 03:22 PM |
| 1 | The failures of academic feminism - Cathy YoungIt says it's hyperbole. As a women who, before seeing the complete rape statistics, did think rape was a real concern for myself and was on my mind at least once a week (probably not every day). But now I'm more educated, in part thanks to this sub, and I know that not every man is a rapist and I don't actually need to fear the man walking down the street. If anything, it's the men I know personally who are more of a threat, but still not that much of one. All of that to say that the fear is rea… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 03:18 PM |
| -7 | Why feminism isn't compatible with modern relationships and sex.Right, because women don't actually have agency... wait, isn't that totally contradictory to the whole premise of feminism? /s | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 02:32 PM |
| 1 | False accusation of gang rape has boomeranged on a 20-year-old girl. The Court noted: “It is very regrettable that a trend has set in nowadays where the investigating officers dance to the tunes of the girl complaining of rape, completely throwing to winds their duties and responsibilities.”Thank you, I wanted to say something similar. It's no excuse for falsely accusing, but at least the police there are taking the accusations seriously. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 02:28 PM |
| 1 | False accusation of gang rape has boomeranged on a 20-year-old girl. The Court noted: “It is very regrettable that a trend has set in nowadays where the investigating officers dance to the tunes of the girl complaining of rape, completely throwing to winds their duties and responsibilities.”Thank you for bringing in your perspective. Please add paragraphs to make reading easier: put two spaces at the end of a line for the next part to start on a new line. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 02:26 PM |
| 0 | How dare women be victimized for 3 minutes while you brutally kill millions of men in video gamesWhy not link to youtube? | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 02:17 PM |
| 1 | I found this interesting and rather surprisingAfter looking at the first site (where it presents two words and you pick), I don't think too many meaningful conclusions can be drawn from the final rankings. It says how many times each word was compared, but not to what they were compared in each instance. Most words seem to be compared a similar number of times, but we don't know if they're compared to the same thing each time. I think there can be no conclusions draw without answering those questions first. It's interesting, certainly, but … | /r/MensRights | 02/06/13 09:08 PM |
| 8 | Based on an analysis of PayScale's 40 million career profiles, PayScale Announces New Report On Salary: Women at Work: PayScale Redefines the Gender Wage GapIn some careers there really is a wage gap... women earning MORE than men. (I don't have sources cuz I'm too lazy to find them, but it's been sourced around here before) | /r/MensRights | 02/06/13 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Female Breadwinner Couples Sign 40% More Divorce PapersI believe hypergamy is the word we're looking for? | /r/MensRights | 02/06/13 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Is the word "female" really a derogatory gender slur?That would be silly. I think there's a certain tone that goes along with it in the few situations that I've heard male/female used for people in a way that I would find rude. So it's not just the word itself but the perceived implications of the word as well. But nonetheless my choice to be offended about silly words. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/13 08:19 PM |
| -1 | Is the word "female" really a derogatory gender slur?We don't have to deconstruct anything, that's just my opinion. male/female for animals other than human (unless in a medical context), man/woman otherwise and especially if you're talking in a social context. And it's my choice to get offended if someone refers to me as something I don't like. Edit: I guess I did deconstruct it, but it was more for clarity than anything. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/13 08:16 PM |
| 1 | "Consent to sex is consent to fatherhood" -- arguments for and againstIt definitely gives the woman yet another option. So from that perspective Plan B serves a similar purpose to abortion (in terms of reproductive rights). I'm glad I commented because I don't think I would have realized that was your point otherwise. And a good one at that. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/13 08:08 PM |
| 3 | This is the series of campaign posters published in 2011 by the home office in Britain. They denote abusive relationships among teenage girls. It should be made known that no converse campaign detailing the abuse teenage boys suffer has come into fruition yet.It would be nice if it wasn't gendered. As an example of what they could/should do, my campus has posters around that say "If it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't". They're about all kinds of things, partner abuse, peer pressure, etc. They often depict animals in strange situations (penguin in the desert) but also often people, men and women looking distraught. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 02:56 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm late to the AR party... is this accurate?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jhGRuSvWOc | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 02:37 PM |
| 17 | Boomer Suicide In Men May Be Caused By Loneliness (you're just gonna love this: it's because it's lonely at the top)I wonder if this is linked at all to the phenomenon (if that's the right word to describe it) that I learned about in a sociology class: men are more likely to die soon after their wife dies as opposed to women dieing after their husband dies. The hypothesis for why is that the wife is typically the man's link to a social network, so after she dies he gets lonely, sick and dies. But the woman has her social network to support her after her husband dies so she's not as lonely. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 01:30 PM |
| 1 | The Double Standard I have the hardest time withI thought the labia were supposed to be functional during childbirth and can be a source of pleasure during intercourse. Also, I don't think it's helpful to argue more/less functional when it comes to genital mutilation. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/13 05:37 PM |
| 1 | A male perspective on objectification and video game protagonistsRight now the top post is Sulu (asian, no beard, not very muscular), but I get your point. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/13 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Why are men so on the fence about the ''guys only want sex '' thing?That may be true, but I, like OP, was told this by my dad and brother. And I've heard it from other men in my life. I'd put my money on the 'protect teh womenz' hypothesis. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 02:24 AM |
| 2 | "Consent to sex is consent to fatherhood" -- arguments for and againstPlan B does not abort a fetus. It prevents the egg from being fertilized and/or prevents the fertilized egg from implanting into the wall of the uterus. If the egg has already implanted, then Plan B does effectively nothing. Maybe some consider implantation prevention to be abortion, but I do not. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 02:13 AM |
| 2 | 18yo female arrested for relationship with minor. If the 18yo was a male, would there still be this giant push to free him? Equal rights = equal punishment under the lawThe mom of the accused girl says towards the end of the article that she would have talked with the parents and the girls, if the parents had just approached her. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Masculinity is considered evil until butch lesbians try to emulate itSo utilitarian of you | /r/MensRights | 21/05/13 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Teen girl arrested for biting penis of her boyfriend after he refused to have sexWith immature actions like hers, definitely a teenager. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/13 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Men account for 53% of rape victims in the US military.There's a lot missing, unfortunately. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/13 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Is the word "female" really a derogatory gender slur?Yeah, derogatory is a bit much. But I do see it as rude to use male/female as nouns when talking about humans (that female/male over there, or that group of females/males). | /r/MensRights | 17/05/13 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Men account for 53% of rape victims in the US military.They do, and even though these issues have been mostly stamped out in civilian rape cases, it can be very hard (no matter the gender of the victim) to bring up sexual assault. I don't have any data to back up these claims, but given the nature of the military, I'm not surprised they're behind the times when it comes to taking sexual assault claims seriously and having open channels for making those claims. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/13 07:44 PM |
| 6 | Men account for 53% of rape victims in the US military.I know this is terrible, and I'm probably going to hell for it: Butt rape is everyone's issue. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/13 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Gender Against Men - A film that exposes the hidden world of sexual and gender-based violence against men in the conflicts of the Great Lakes Region. (2008. Running time: 44 minutes)Wow, I hadn't heard those statistics (or forgot I had heard them). Yeah, we need to fight for everyone. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/13 01:24 PM |
| 1 | It's the equivalent of blasphemy in the Western worldOh man, my heart goes out to your brother-in-law. I hope they aren't going to a counselor like my parents went to (pre-divorce). And I hope he brings up his issues with the counselor and with his wife. My mom was abusing my dad and older brother (I was too young and oblivious to really grasp what was going on). So when it got brought up in counseling, the woman told my parents that my dad was actually the abuser and my mom the victim. My dad wasn't the best husband, but he never laid a hand on h… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 05:45 AM |
| 1 | It's the equivalent of blasphemy in the Western worldWow, that's a long thread. It probably wouldn't add much to the discussion here anyway. I just like reading ridiculous things. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Found out yesterday that my wife had an abortion without telling me a few weeks ago...How are abortions not safe and legal for everyone right now? I'm assuming you meant the U.S.A. when you said "in the States" | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Found out yesterday that my wife had an abortion without telling me a few weeks ago...It is interesting, that being married means you have the right to being privy of things, but not necessarily required to share those things with a spouse. So you get to visit them in the hospital, but if they go to the hospital for one thing or another they aren't required to tell you about it. Not entirely relevant, just thought it was interesting. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 02:42 AM |
| 25 | The Onion - Desperate Mom Okays Male BabysitterAll men are child molesters, duh. /s | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 02:01 AM |
| 2 | It's the equivalent of blasphemy in the Western worldCould you post the rest and/or the whole thing? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 01:46 AM |
| 15 | It's the equivalent of blasphemy in the Western worldAnd many respond to a woman beating a man with the comment "He must have done something and therefore deserves it" | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 01:45 AM |
| 1 | It's the equivalent of blasphemy in the Western worldI hope you warn her future boyfriend/husband... | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Gender Against Men - A film that exposes the hidden world of sexual and gender-based violence against men in the conflicts of the Great Lakes Region. (2008. Running time: 44 minutes)I just finished watching and I definitely recommend it. I've heard about these issues a little from a GirlWritesWhat video, but to hear and see it in this documentary makes it real. I can't find it right now, but she talks about the violence done to men by men as well as the asymmetry in support for men and women. Something she talks about that this video doesn't is the violence done to men by women, which is quite astonishing to hear about especially because of how violent it is (raping with ob… | /r/MensRights | 16/05/13 12:57 AM |
| 1 | My ex just told me, I need to teach my two boys not to rapeI'm curious about this as well. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 10:48 PM |
| 1 | A collection of WTF whiteboard messages by feminists (x-post from r/rage)You asked about Adria Richards' degree, couldn't find what it was by googling, and commented that she doesn't seem like a geek. I interpreted that as you wanted to know what her degree was in so that you could definitively determine if she is a geek or not. Maybe that's not what you meant, but that's how it came across to me. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 08:21 PM |
| 2 | How can I protect myself from future false rape accusations?Wow, thank you for explaining that. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 08:18 PM |
| 1 | The pay gap myth was disproved as early as 1981Oh, I definitely agree that part time work deserves part time pay. I must have misread the thing I quoted. I really wish the U.S. would have better parental leave... | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 08:16 PM |
| 2 | 11 year old boy violently stripped naked by 2 girls in florida - the 2 girls were not charged with a crime. (video 3 min.)Does punching/kicking a boy in the balls because you think it's funny count? Unfortunately, I must confess that back when I was a stupid child (2nd grade), I did that. I don't recall if I ever got called out on it, or punished in any way. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Re: Why You Shouldn't Compliment Random Women (the real reason)There's an undergrad in my lab and I've been tempted to compliment him on his hair. But then I stop myself because it's none of my damn business. Seems a bit silly in hind sight, but I also feel like it could be an awkward compliment in a work-type situation. I dunno. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/13 02:22 AM |
| 1 | The pay gap myth was disproved as early as 1981I think everyone in the thread did a good job of ignoring race with their discussion of sexism (or lack thereof). So, while I believe your concern to be valid, it isn't necessarily of issue here. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/13 02:03 AM |
| 1 | The pay gap myth was disproved as early as 1981Its also not economically viable, btw, to force companies to pay full time wages for people who work part time. Or force companies to pay those people the same high wage as those who have shown they are willing to sacrifice their personal time for the good of their company. But then how do countries where parental leave can be up to a year (paid I believe) pull it off? | /r/MensRights | 14/05/13 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Good News StorySo she gets full ownership simply for having birthed the baby. And he gets nothing, even though he's been the sole provider. Edit: thinking about this again, I'm reminded of my own situation 6 years ago. My parents were divorced with joint custody and I grew up in Maryland with my dad, but wanted to be granted in-state tuition in Virginia (requires being counted as a Virginia resident). Well, my mom had been living in Virginia for over 5 years prior. Because she could prove that she had provided… | /r/MensRights | 14/05/13 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Good News StoryAnd yet he's also probably better off for having not married her. Seems a bit of a catch 22. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/13 01:16 AM |
| 4 | How can I protect myself from future false rape accusations?How does that work? I'm unfamiliar with the act and how it applies to texts. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/13 12:58 AM |
| 7 | A collection of WTF whiteboard messages by feminists (x-post from r/rage)Male issues boiled down to penis problems... | /r/MensRights | 11/05/13 11:29 PM |
| 4 | A collection of WTF whiteboard messages by feminists (x-post from r/rage)How does a degree define geek status? | /r/MensRights | 11/05/13 11:25 PM |
| 5 | so apparently the draft is discrimination against women.Women are objects to be acted upon, and men are the actors who act upon women and the world around them. Under this view women can never hurt men. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/13 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Some girls took it upon themselves to post these flyers around the school today. What does /r/mensrights think about them?Clothes under lab coats optional | /r/MensRights | 11/05/13 01:21 AM |
| 0 | Some girls took it upon themselves to post these flyers around the school today. What does /r/mensrights think about them?You assume she's not wearing underwear. Oh, who am I kidding? Of course she isn't! | /r/MensRights | 11/05/13 01:19 AM |
| 9 | Friend posted this on FB. It's nice to know some people respect our right to like different body types.Pink eye is very contagious. You should get that looked at. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/13 01:06 AM |
| 3 | "Approximately 10.4% (or an estimated 11.7 million) of men in the United States reported ever having an intimate partner who tried to get pregnant when they did not want to or tried to stop them fromYup | /r/MensRights | 08/05/13 04:20 AM |
| 2 | "Approximately 10.4% (or an estimated 11.7 million) of men in the United States reported ever having an intimate partner who tried to get pregnant when they did not want to or tried to stop them fromAnd to think many would do it with the false fantasy that a baby will 'fix' the relationship... | /r/MensRights | 08/05/13 04:19 AM |
| 3 | I am supervising university final exams and today we had the training session. When it comes to checking bathrooms, there are different rules for men and womenWhy does a supermarket want anyone to leave bags at the door? To prevent shoplifting? What if a guy had some sort of emergency meds in his bag? Just seems silly to make a distinction. And if the woman needs something, she can walk herself back to the door. Oh no, such a horrible inconvenience on the poor woman (/s). | /r/MensRights | 04/05/13 03:36 AM |
| 1 | I am supervising university final exams and today we had the training session. When it comes to checking bathrooms, there are different rules for men and womenThat's what RAs in college dorms do. They have to check the bathrooms on nightly rounds. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/13 03:34 AM |
| 0 | I am supervising university final exams and today we had the training session. When it comes to checking bathrooms, there are different rules for men and womenGirlWritesWhat does a good job of explaining the differences in men's and women's responses to attention. Basically taking it back to our ancestors and how unwanted attention from men has high risks for women (pregnancy, cost of the pregnancy and the cost of the time until she can get pregnant again with a more desirable mate), whereas attention from women has many benefits for men and little to no risks. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/13 03:32 AM |
| 8 | Florida lawmakers move to end permanent alimony, as governor weighs legislationI think my dad helped pay for my mom's two year nursing degree during/after the divorce proceedings. I don't recall if this was forced by the courts (my guess is not as it was a fairly calm and civil divorce agreement), but my main point is that requiring whoever would have paid alimony to help pay for a degree for the alimony receiver would be better than alimony. Give a man a fish, etc. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/13 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Florida lawmakers move to end permanent alimony, as governor weighs legislationIf it's a cushy federal prison, maybe not so bad? | /r/MensRights | 23/04/13 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Florida lawmakers move to end permanent alimony, as governor weighs legislationIt was mentioned towards the end of the article that women pay alimony too. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/13 09:40 PM |
| -6 | Florida lawmakers move to end permanent alimony, as governor weighs legislationWhen filing for custody is a way to get back at an ex, yes that counts as abuse. My friend's mom had to fight for custody because the man that abused the mom wanted the girls just so that he could use that as another way to control friend's and mom's life. One example, but just so you know that it does/can happen that way. Anyone in a relationship could use child custody battles to ruin another's life. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/13 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Write to NewspapersWould you want to make bacon when mostly naked? | /r/MensRights | 18/04/13 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Write to NewspapersBut if they wear bikinis, then they won't want to make bacon... I'm a woman, so it's okay to joke like that, right? | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Article by the President of the National Coalition for Men – Montana State UniversityDid you read the article? She mentions protecting her four sons several times. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Found this in a high school classroom. I politely asked the teacher to take it down. She laughed and told me to lighten up.That bothers me, that posters thought you were a woman and therefore pointing out the hypocrisy was not valid. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/13 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Why don't you just grow some balls?That's an interesting duplicity in definition. | /r/MensRights | 28/03/13 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Why don't you just grow some balls?I'm a girl and a lot of my men's rights views come from my dad, particularly because he raised me by himself after the divorce. Edit: And the point of that story is to say, "please do teach your daughter. And even if you don't say things outright, she'll see how you live your life as a man and take that as an example of what makes a 'real man.'" | /r/MensRights | 28/03/13 10:56 PM |
| 1 | The poster I made for the recently linked "My Bad Sex Wasn't Rape" article.Maybe not, but it can at least serve to get the conversation started. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/13 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Reproductive RightsMaybe freedom/option would be a better term. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/13 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Reproductive RightsDo you mind expanding? The only reason I can think of, as a woman who has never used one, is that they feel weird during sex. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/13 02:09 PM |
| 1 | "Man jailed for poking holes in condoms to get his girlfriend pregnant" ...but if the shoe was on the other foot he'd be on the hook for 18 yearsWould it show if she was already pregnant? I thought the hormones in pills are similar to the ones the female body naturally produces during pregnancy which hinder egg production. Not an expert, that was just my understanding. Also, now we're splitting hairs. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/13 08:06 PM |
| 6 | "Man jailed for poking holes in condoms to get his girlfriend pregnant" ...but if the shoe was on the other foot he'd be on the hook for 18 yearsI agree that women who say they're taking the pill and then don't on purpose should be prosecuted. However, let's remember that pill's aren't 100% effective. At best they're 95% effective, and that's when taken correctly (same time every single day, don't miss a day). So if a woman who says she's on the pill goes 'oops, I got pregnant', I don't think it's fair to jump to the conclusion that it was malicious. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Saw this on Facebook. What?Ok, but is that different from minimum wage? | /r/MensRights | 07/03/13 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Saw this on Facebook. What?I confused about why 'unconditional basic income' is a good and necessary thing. Could you please elaborate? | /r/MensRights | 06/03/13 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Saw this on Facebook. What?There's a student in my office that is the assistant to the front desk, so he's kind of a secretary. He fills in during her lunch hour and when she's out. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/13 01:38 PM |
| 15 | I was raised by two radfem, anti-male protesters...and have been secretly presiding a group for MRA-supportive women for 7 years.only have 28 comment Karma isn't exactly helping Some people lurk, some people comment. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/13 05:13 PM |
| 6 | 3 boys rape a third on school bus, outrage at victim because he told on rapistsI think this other article does a better job of explaining the parents' outrage: http://www.nbc11news.com/localnews/headlines/149255115.html. Apparently the principle has ignored other hazing incidents but now that his son is the victim he's finally stepping up. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/13 01:54 AM |
| 6 | Why does Planned Parenthood limit clinic hours for men and not women?Perhaps it has to do with the urgency of some pregnancy related issues, like needing to get Plan B right away to prevent pregnancy. Still doesn't make sense to restrict men's hours of availability. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/13 05:28 PM |
| 4 | Woman convicted of raping, pimping and filming her 14 y/o daughter having sex. Not called a rapist, pedophile or child pornographer. Headline says she "exploited" her daughter.I understand the double standard being pointed out, but what do articles like this really do for the discussion on Men's Rights except to get a few people riled up? | /r/MensRights | 12/01/13 12:31 AM |
| -4 | against the grain in /r/funnyapply | /r/MensRights | 29/12/12 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Well, they did it again, they found a way to make it our fault...You sir, have a deal | /r/MensRights | 21/12/12 04:21 AM |
| 25 | Well, they did it again, they found a way to make it our fault...Hey, if you aren't collecting apocalypse chocolate for when the US economy permanently collapses, don't come crying to me. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 12:19 AM |
| 25 | Double standards in sportsDamn, I never thought guys would want male exclusive gyms but it makes sense for the same reasons women want single gender gyms. Maybe one gym could offer male, female and co-ed sections. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 02:07 AM |
| 10 | Double standards in sportsAren't the rules for some female versions of a sport different and thus make them less exciting? Like in Lacrosse and Field Hockey? | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 02:03 AM |
| -2 | Another man's life ruined.If a female politician brought it up the feminazis would burn her at the stake. No one, regardless of gender, would dare to make the age lower. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/12 05:06 PM |
| 8 | Another man's life ruined.facepalm | /r/MensRights | 17/12/12 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Rape culture controversy at my universityLOL, woman with a flute in OP's barstoolu link | /r/MensRights | 15/12/12 05:17 AM |
| 1 | I am putting this here because I will be ridiculed elsewhered'awww | /r/MensRights | 14/12/12 08:57 PM |
| 0 | I know nothing about Australian Politics- Curious what is your take on this?I just can't take politics seriously when spoken with an Australian accent | /r/MensRights | 10/12/12 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Femitheist Divine explainedIt sounds crazy enough to be satire (ala Modest proposal: solve world hunger by eating our kids), but then it's the only video of hers I've seen or care to see. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/12 04:21 AM |
| 4 | What are the "perks" that men have?Actually, the effects of the menstrual cycle is more like 2-3 weeks depending on how severe the symptoms are. Example: my mom got severe migraines the week leading up to the period itself. Other things also happen the week before and after: soreness, bloated, etc. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/12 03:42 AM |
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