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lol you keep that same energy when men are here bashing woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:02 PM
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lol huh? Show me the data
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:01 PM

Like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:25 AM
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You realize statistically people who marry young have some of the highest divorce rates - right? Are you adding in them being religious bc that plays a HUGE part into why so many people who get married younger and appear to stay together longer isn’t always due to the dying love the have for one another but of social and religious pressures to stay together. That’s your assumption / insecurity that just because he isn’t the first guy, he isn’t “special” to her. “Pairbonding” is idiotic. People w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:14 PM

Do you really look at real life and only see tall Chad looking men in relationships and having kids and getting married ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:37 PM

Do you think sexual attraction matters in a relationship ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:36 PM

It’s either women’s standards are too high or Apparently too low.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:35 PM
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What makes you think early 20’s will stay together? Pair bonding is load of BS And what can make a guy “high value” in his EARLY 20’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:32 PM
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How? Do you not think trauma effects people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:56 PM
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They have no chance at a relationship because they cannot deal with the life of competing with other men. And make their life only about how to fuck someone’s daughter. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:24 PM
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Answer my question. And speak English
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:23 PM
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The tall broke dude vs the short decent guy with a job have always been in the same situation at the same time, showing the same amount of interest and have the same personality for the girl to then choose the tall one because he’s taller? Be foreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:11 PM
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Oh so it’s women making men kill themselves? And what do you want women to do about the men killing themselves - Have sex with them? Or are they killing themselves due to the pressure of the patriarchy, the expectations of men created by men and the competition with other men ? Or even the idea of what “men” are supposed to be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:04 AM
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That is such a blanket and wrong statement. It’s mostly MEN who are laughing at other men who are crying or showing emotions. Be for real
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:19 PM
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Most women? What world do you live in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:17 PM
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This is weird…. Who does this? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:13 PM
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The fact that you resort to her being “emotional” is so lame my guy. Actually try winning an argument with facts lol. Take your own advice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:12 PM
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That if she’s carelessly swiping, she’s obviously going to have a lot of matches lol she’s a woman on tinder. Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:15 AM
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….. and your point? If she’s getting 100’s of matches she is swiping 100’s of people too lol. She doesn’t seem to be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:25 AM
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She can only get 100’s of matches if she’s swiping on them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:54 PM
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Men like sex. It’s not a huge compliment. They will fuck anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:10 PM
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So she was just swiping on everyone then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:08 PM
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No hard evidence but there’s still shots of him? So because of YOUR ignorance you think black women are vindictive and liars. Go hug your mom bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:01 PM
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Sir. Do some healing. It would be the same shit if they were white. Stop taking this personally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:59 PM
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Controlling is trying to publicly shame someone. The funny thing is that it’s not even like he said “I don’t like my partner” it’s “you’re a mom” If he’s so traditional he should of married her before he had a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:20 PM
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Lol. That’s not grinding. Grinding it ass to genitals or genitals to legs - vigorously hitting them. That looks like a father / daughter dance at a wedding Aside from her attire of course but no. That’s not GRINDING
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:19 PM
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It’s men having specific standards of women that they do not have of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:16 PM
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Lol what the fuck is this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:10 PM

No thanks. You’re not worth it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:59 AM

Sir. No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:11 PM

Looool. aside from recent what has been “toxic” about feminism when women had lesser rights my guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:08 PM
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Lol please tell that to the men here who think Women should lower their look standards because ugly men don’t since - because they have fewer options therefore will treat the woman like a queeeeeen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:59 PM

No because there is a nuance in each and every single of those. It’s not a blanket statement. Personality does matter. A woman can be turned off by an overall good looking guy with a douche bag personality or no personality. Looks do matter. What women are saying here is that even if he isn’t the HOTTEST guy his personality can make him be even more attractive even if he isn’t at first glance. Women are REACTIONARY for the most part which is why it’s not as black and white as men want it to be. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:42 PM

Lie about… what? Needing to be attracted to their man? In any capacity?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:37 AM

Why would he want to be in a relationship with someone that’s not attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:58 PM
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LMFAO oh please. Men here are the number 1 pushers of not having high physical standards and will “take what they can get” as long as she isn’t xyz
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:45 PM
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Women look for men who can provide so that when she gets pregnant she can take care of the child without having to rush back into work. Let’s be for real. Let’s not pretend that youth and beauty for women and the ability to “provide” for men has not been the most basic things in human existence. Whether you agree or not, I don’t care. What’s the first thing a father asks about a man that his daughter is seeing “what does he do for work” “what are his plans” so don’t try and pretend it hasn’t bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:27 PM
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Getting down the basics of attraction - not necessities * I said agreeable, submissive and feminine - which feminine can be attributed to her character and personality. And if that what she wants - to be so. Just like some men are attracted to young “hot” women because it gives them status and a sense of ego boosts. You can look at her position wrong all you want, as I stated in my initial comment there are men who do things 1. Out of the fact that women don’t have to be the best looking as long…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:54 PM
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You realize that when it comes down to most basic necessities women do prefer men who can provide due to the fact that they give birth and men usually dont care too much about looks but how the women can make him feel as a man? Men and women are different therefore what they find attractive in a partner is going to be a bit different as their first indications of selection. You’re looking at this from a bruised ego perspective. Get out of your feelings and understand that concept ^ stated above …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:08 PM
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You just went on a rant that made no sense. I’m talking about MEN who say that about women. Not women who make those their only attributes. It’s what men find attractive in women when they state that she doesn’t need to be prettiest or the hottest as long as she can do “xyz”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:25 PM
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Don’t you mean how men say “women don’t have to be hottest, as long as she’s agreeable, submissive and feminine then she’s a wife material”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:11 PM
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Very true. My step dad and father are excellent cooks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:15 PM
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Nothing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:59 PM
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Is anger and aggression…. not an emotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:36 PM
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No rebuttals ? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:34 PM
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Lol do you think would be ok if a woman did it!?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:59 PM

They can’t hear you over all the crying about wearing a condom and wanting the ability to paper abort because women have bodily autonomy for it to be equal as if women don’t financially support a child too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:45 PM
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None of my hairdressers looked like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:38 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:46 PM
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What’s wrong with hairdressers? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:14 PM
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Settling vs settling down, is very different. Idt most know the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:03 PM
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They see “settling down” and see red. No one can convince them of the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:02 PM
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LMAO you’re wrong. Deal with it. So sensitive, this must have struck a cord 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:14 AM
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Lol in Canada, atleast where I am there is the ever going joke that “Catholic girls are the biggest sluts” and that is just because of how deprived the education system is and what they are taught. Tell a child / teenager to not do something and they will want to do it even more. That’s basics. I was taught birth control will prevent having future children and ruin the lining of the uterus. There’s a reason for the stereotype and many of the girls I knew in hs are all single moms now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:46 AM
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Well adjusted people don’t even ask the question 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:34 PM
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Well yeah. People who have experience esp men don’t bother asking that information bc they know they have experience lol. No well adjusted person sits down and talks about sex like THAT. Relationship experience yes. But if the shoe fits for you, wear it. Don’t be upset at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:28 AM
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Like you’ll ever get the real number 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:33 AM
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“Town bike” you’ll ever know all that information unless you actually know men who have slept with her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:29 AM
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Even so, who does that? That’s trashy as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:17 AM
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Lol I don’t know any well adjusted women or men that think it’s OK to discuss their sexual partners or experiences to an extent to a new person they are interested in. That’s disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:12 AM
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And how would you ever know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:26 PM
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No. I do not agree. But just because those men are the ones that women can communally agree on. It does not mean the rest of the 80% is ugly, unattractive and unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:42 PM
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Lol what are the right qualities ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:37 PM
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Where did you get this from? That is not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:36 PM
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Yes? I stated that the rest of the 80% can still be filtered into hot, ugly, dateable and non dateable. A majority of women are no longer just dating men for the sake of being in a relationship. Is it not men that are stating women have unrealistic standards and should lower them - because they ARENT dating the average man? Which means most women are choosing NOT to just settle. Women settled for safety and security. Not many were based on love back in the day. It was necessity. I would say you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:28 PM
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If it makes him happy - what it is to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:06 PM
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I think the issue with this “women only like the top 20%” is majorly flawed and trying to make women view men the way men view women. Yes there is only a small percentage of men that let’s say “ALL” women would want, as in as soon as they look at them without knowing anything else about them it drives the animalistic instinct - that men have - of “oh that person is really fucking hot” which I would assume is the 6ft +, good hair, good hygiene, nice jawline, nice body, etc But just because those …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:03 PM
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Emotions and feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:55 PM
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So get a test
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:20 PM
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Lol why do many men want be called that? “Mami, momma, mama” etc is used by men too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:46 AM
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Yes which according to you all - would be unfair for women to have more time off due to being pregnant and the after care / maternity leave of her pregnancy no? So you all go… try? Who’s fighting this fight for you all to present it to the government? Are you acting upon it? I won’t frame something so it doesn’t hurt your feelings. People have been telling girls from when they get their period not to be stupid as the consequences of their actions for sex heavily follow her. Women are exposed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:42 PM
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Lol. Fathers and mothers spending time with their children is not biological it’s social. Nothing that a man was born with that relates to his genitalia or internal organs prevents him from spending time with his kids. Ok but we are talking about right now not things to be put into place - that I doubt will happen anyway. Where they are already trying to abolish abortion you think they are going to let mine sign their rights away? Lmao. What is the grounds of that, when would he sign the papers?…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:17 PM
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It will never be equal. Only a woman carry children. Knowing this fact - men should be taking more steps instead of busting their nut inside a women then having no other choice to then be a dead beat dad or involuntary dad paying money for a kid he didn’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:59 PM
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Then he shouldn’t have ejaculated inside of her knowing that fantasy world is not rainbows and butterflies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:22 AM
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When have I ever bitched? How about focusing the discussion on hand or are you unable to look separately at both of the responsibilities between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:21 AM
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This is not about me. I’m careful enough on my own and if I fuck up guess what? I can go get an abortion if needed. What can men do when the laws are fully against them and they can’t ? Keep bitching about it? How about the protect themselves and be fucking careful. But it seems like you’re against men taking personal accountability. How ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:54 AM
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Just like men who bitch about being baby trapped and paying for a kid. They shouldn’t have sex as per my OP. So what’s the point of your point? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:19 AM
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Again we are talking about men. Don’t know how to control your nut? Weak pull out game? Premature ejaculation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:31 AM
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Men if you don’t want to have kids you don’t want that you can’t abort yourself - wear a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:18 AM
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First of all we are talking about a man’s responsibility within this act knowing full well he can’t make a women do anything once she is pregnant. Don’t project yourself assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:49 PM
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Idk why you’re going on a tangent about rape - because that was never ever my argument. We were NEVER talking about rape and if that’s your argument because you somehow think I agree with that? You’re arguing for the sake of hearing yourself because I never stated anything along the lines of rape victims. I will state it again - in accordance to RAPE - men and women should both have the choice to no longer participate financially or delivery wise in regards to that. I am speaking about VOLUNTARY…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:58 PM
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Go argue with someone else who made the claims that you believe you I did, bc you’re arguing with a ghost. It’s not convenient - it’s just not what I’m talking about. See my comments below A response to another comment since you can’t seem to stay on topic and stay relevant to a discussion at hand No. My stance is not why. Rape is very clearly a specific case to which nobody should be subjected to carry or finance a child against their will. So what are you going to argue now? When there is phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:26 PM
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We aren’t taking about rape. Stop acting like we are. I have already made my comments about that. You’re trying to use exceptions to disprove the rule? Get a better argument. I’m not entertaining it bc that is not what this discussion is about. You guys keep bringing equality into this. There is NO equality in reproduction. Until a man can carry his child in his body, there will NOT be equality. Just like there will never be equality in a woman playing a man’s sport - why? Because of biology and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:16 PM
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Hilariously enough many women are able to tell when the girl is a gold digging, bitchy, control freak but alas, sexual attraction and feelings come into the mix.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:05 PM
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Yeah bc everyone has X-ray vision and can read minds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:14 PM
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They do have reproductive rights. As soon as he chose to ejaculate inside of her. That was from HIS body no? That was HIS choice no? That was HIS right, no? Just like carrying a then child to term is a woman’s because it’s from HER body no? HER choice, no? From HER body, no? Don’t cum inside women getting them pregnant. It’s really that simple. But no, men want to raw dog it and complain as if they had no idea what ejaculating inside of a woman could lead to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:13 PM
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There is not an alternate world. We are in reality. Talk about the facts right now. If not, I’m sorry but you don’t have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:41 AM
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Girl. I like you. You’ve been holding this thread down. Thank you for all your insights. I look forward to hearing more from you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:22 PM
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That man did not have sex and ejaculate inside of a woman voluntarily my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:12 PM
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Women have been aborting fetuses for hundreds of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:44 PM
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I’m a woman. You’re being weird. Get a better argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:31 PM
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If you think that’s what it is. You have bigger problems my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:28 PM
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Women to stop being so reckless with their wombs - while men can continue being reckless with their sperm? Spread the word of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:12 PM
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I do but nothing you have said negated my point. At all. There will never be equality rights in reproduction. You think the government wants more families relying on assistance? You think in the midst of some governments banning abortion they will also at the same give men the rights to sign their child away? Make it make sense. It’s nothing more than wishful thinking. And until your wishful thinking comes into reality - what are you telling young men to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:04 PM
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You said a whole lot of nothing. Take responsibility for where you cum, bc as of right now the privilege of choice does not apply to you. So you’re going to continue to preach to men to cum where they want in the hopes and prayers of financial abortion? Wishful delusional thinking. Take some accountability. There are methods for men to not make this ever happen but for some reason you’re against men using them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:15 PM
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Why aren’t men providing their own condoms and why are men still ejaculating into women even if she is on birth control in the first place? Why aren’t men taking extra precautions to ensure his actions (cumming) doesn’t result in a pregnancy chance? So don’t - ever in your life - do that. Do not decide to live common law with a single mother to whom you do not want to be tied to. I’m not saying it’s right - but it’s within your control to not subject yourself to that law, right? There are many m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:12 PM
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Because they are the carrying the kid. Men can’t try and fight for the same rights when there involvement carrying the child to term or not is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:57 PM
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You are right. I did not because it’s not the men who want children who want the right to financial abort or factor in baby trapping. But if the case that she leaves - he should be able to access certain rights and custody hearings if he wants to be in the child’s life. I don’t agree with women taking their children who were born away from willing men. It’s cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:10 PM
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Please expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:05 PM
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Stop giving me what if’s and fantasy situations and talk about the situation at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:52 PM
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Women had their time to decide. Men had their time to decide Just because one is “longer” doesn’t make it unfair. It’s the reality of it. If she chooses to do one of those outside of the time frame given for her to make a choice - she will face the consequences Just like men had their time to decide to give up their control during sex - he will face the consequences Which is why financial abortion will never be legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:51 PM
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“Yelling match” no one is yelling nor will it turn into yelling. You’re the one who went ahead first with the insults - not once have I called you anything but the same cannot be said for you. Calling me a misandrist with no proof other than your feelings is enough. My time around men has been amazing. You are not all men nor do you make up the viewpoint of men. I know logical, responsible and respectful men. You’re irrational temper tantrums don’t reflect that you are one of them. You need a so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:46 PM
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Sorry unlike you I don’t make assumptions, I couldn’t care less if your pro-choice or not because that’s not what we are discussing. We are discussing men’s responsibility in the act before he whines and complains about people baby trapping him. My blood is not boiling- again another assumption nor am I yelling. Speaking firmly on the stance for men to not put themselves in stupid situations somehow feels like I’m yelling to you - you have bigger issues to worry about about yourself. My ego? Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:22 PM
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A deep contempt for men? When me and my bf have sex carefully and I’ve never been pregnant because he’s able to control where he cums to not put himself in the predicament of having an unwanted child? There are men who wouldn’t even fathom cumming inside of a girl whether she’s on birth control or not. You should meet these men. They are reasonable and level headed. Not submitting to animal instincts and not caring about their nut. If you think I hate men you just clearly hate women and women te…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:54 PM
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Because it’s her body. It’s as simple as that and until men can bring life into this world, there’s no need for policing of the bodies or forcing someone to carry a child to term in that body. That’s a function men will never understand Abortions have been going on for hundreds of years. Women have always found ways to not subject themselves to parenthood - because they can. Are men trying to find ways to make their sperm less potent? When financial abortions become a legal thing - talk to me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:40 PM
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It was serious. If men wants to complain about baby trapping women - don’t have sex, be responsible or get a vasectomy. Sure you can say the same for women but it’s a fact that women have more choice. So why are men being stupid enough knowing this but still fucking women and getting them pregnant knowing they will be trapped? A woman can go and get an abortion, take plan B, or have the kid, it’s up to her. He doesn’t get to enforce a decision that includes him for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:29 PM
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So use condoms. I’ve also stated this. If they used condoms there wouldn’t be a child in the first place. Don’t have raw sex. And yeah but right now that’s not the reality. The reality is that there are other methods FOR HER NOT FOR MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:25 PM
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Because there wouldnt be a child without his sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:25 PM
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I mean that’s just normal - is it not? For men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:09 PM
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Women not only have access to abortion. They have access to the morning after pill, spermicide, and other ways to stop pregnancy or to eliminate pregnancy. Why? Because her body was designed for it. And women will always have choices available post sex. Men will not. So again. Why do it knowing that’s the reality and you cannot force an action upon her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:07 PM
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IUDs can be extremely painful. I’m glad you both came to that decisions after exhausting the other possibilities and stayed responsible. Need more people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:05 PM
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Happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:56 PM
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Fortunately women have options available for them once’s it’s inside their body. Men don’t and probably won’t. Damage control - yet men seem to argue here they are incapable of it when it comes to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:48 PM
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Did I not also say get snipped? Read it again. You proved nothing lol also condoms are a choice And again. Stop avoiding the question Tell me a situation other than getting your dick wet, that you’d sign up for voluntarily knowing once you provide the key ingredient you no longer have control and your life is at the mercy at someone else’s decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:47 PM
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Let’s stay rooted in my guy. Not a fantasy world you want. People will have sex. “If women want all the say” they don’t want it. It’s theirs. Until men can birth a child, it will always be. Go argue with evolution. Tell me a situation other than getting your dick wet, that you’d sign up for voluntarily knowing once you provide the key ingredient you no longer have control and your life is at the mercy at someone else’s decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:43 PM
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Just like how men can state that it’s biological for them to not want to marry women who had sex with multiple men due to their hardwirings it’s baffling that it’s the same men who all of a sudden are up in arms about the actual facts of biology. Aren’t women supposed to suck it up and just not fuck a lot of men due to men’s biology of not wanting a “whore”? Are men incapable of understanding the unfair reality of reproduction and CONTINUE to fuck raw and not control where they cum until a “fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:34 PM
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Telling you be more careful where you cum is being a misandrist? Lmao the cackles
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:29 PM
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Women still pay taxes - therefore your comment is idiotic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:27 PM
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The time clock will never the same. Tell me a situation where you’d provide the key element knowing once you release it you no longer had a choice and gave the control to someone body else ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:26 PM
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Is that a threat? Go on ahead kid How about you actually have a conversation instead of trying to instigate a stupid fight. You realize this is my OP. Go make another one for other topics lol the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:25 PM
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AGAIN. Get out of the fantasy world and into reality. The reality is due to the fact women carry the child and has resources available to rid the child (whether that’s medical, pills, spermicide etc) the time clock will NEVER be the same. Men know this but still give it up. Then whine about it. Why would you do in the first place knowing full well that’s the reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:24 PM
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Nobody has provided a counter argument
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:22 PM
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Ok - keep your dick in your pants and you won’t have to worry about a kid you don’t want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:21 PM
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Make more sense. Come back to me with a proper reply
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:20 PM
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Losing? Men need to work harder to come up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:16 PM
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Oh I didn’t mean only have sex during your period lol. I meant that I agreed with the statement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:50 AM
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It’s the deciding factor of bringing life into the world or not. I’m pro choice for women when it’s in her body. I’m pro choice for men when it comes to choosing where to leave their sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:54 AM
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Most women will leave men when it’s apparent emotional intelligence is not a strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:16 AM
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Emotional intelligence does not equal weakness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:15 AM
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Women cannot have a penis unless they suffer from a medical condition. Rape cases are different and I’ve stated my stance on it. But continue to put words into my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:04 AM
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so what is the point you are trying to make? Where in anything did he say that was rooted in biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:45 AM
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That is a fantasy wish. It’s rooted in the biology of reproduction. Men’s control of conception will always be when he decided to ejaculate inside of her. That is the KEY point. Do men not have control over that? Does he want some more time for post nut clarity?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:45 AM

Resort to getting out of your feeling before you talk to me again. If you don’t, this conversation will not continue. Reproduction will never be equal. Get that through your head. Until a man can carry a child, the women will have the brunt of that responsibility along with the choices. Why are you so against men controlling where they land their seeds? Do men not have self control? Do men not know how to use to a condom? How much of an irresponsible idiot can someone be to fully participate and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:41 AM
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What’s the point of a CMV if it’s neutral?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:20 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:20 AM
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You’re reading it right. Men want to the ability to forfeit their rights not realizing it will give women no incentive to have them in their child’s life. Men talk about the decline in marriage and the destruction of women for having children out of wedlock and the inequality of men being in their child’s life yet they want to actively pursue to contribute even more to it. They didn’t think it through. Only for men who want to have sex with women with no strings attach and impregnate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:19 AM
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Bc women don’t work or pay taxes right
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:16 AM
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And those women could burn. They are disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:09 AM
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Yeah bc women are telling men “damn I wish it was me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:55 AM

Actually she doesn’t because she’s carrying the child to term and within a certain timeframe has a choice to continue the pregnancy or not. Do men have that privilege? I didn’t think so. So yes bc men do not have that right - which he never will, his choices are determined pre-conception to guess what? Not conceive. Don’t cum inside a women knowing full well once it’s in her body you don’t have a choice. What do you not comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:50 AM
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Men do not have control where their sperm goes? They do have control to take their dick out of a vagina before they cum? You all need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:47 AM
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And his reasoning would be? And obviously the fuck not. It’s her body. Do you really think carrying a child to term and financially aborting a child will carry the same weight? god. It’s like it’s children here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:44 AM
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You control where your sperm goes. Or do you suffer from premature ejaculation that you don’t have control? And I guess you are physically incapable of throwing your condoms out… by yourself? Sounds like a bigger problem to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:42 AM

A man loses his credibility/control when he decides to CUM inside of a woman making it 100% her choice once a child is inside of her. That’s just facts and biology. Are you forgetting that men can control where they cum or do you think women just get pregnant by themselves through fairy dust? Men have the absolute control during sex. She CANNOT get pregnant without his sperm. Why are you so triggered about men controlling where they ejaculate? The timeline for opting out of parenthood for men is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:41 AM
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A respond to another comment since you can’t seem to stay on topic and stay relevant to a discussion at hand No. My stance is not why. Rape is very clearly a specific case to which nobody should be subjected to carry or finance a child against their will. Its your fellow gender and their ideas around sex why male rape is not taken seriously. Go sort that out then come to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:34 AM
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He made his decision when he had sex, unprotected and ejaculated in her. Be more cautious during the time you have control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:25 AM
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A women will find a way to not have a child. There are others ways other than medical abortions. As I’ve stated “your body your choice” doesn’t not equate to “your money your choice” unfortunately. So until a man can have a child - the decision to bring life into this world will remain solely on the person carrying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:23 AM
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Because it won’t be. When will a man be able to prove he no longer wants a child? When can a man no longer opt out of financial abortion? What is a man going to prove to why he cannot provide for the women? Are his excuses going to be “I just don’t feel like being a dad and it was a mistake?” And that is to be taken to court in front of a judge ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:21 AM
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And as I stated life isn’t fair. Until a man has the ability to have a child the decision will be hers. Are men going to just continue fucking women and knocking them up and then crying about equality? Get a grip. That’s not reality. The reality is you either pay child support, be in the child’s life or become a dead beat father. You can wish all you want but financial abortions will most likely not happen due to ethics of a conceived child living in society. Either wrap it up or shut up about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:19 AM
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We aren’t talking about rape. Get your straw man out of here and focus on the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:15 AM
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Because it’s his child. He can also chose to be a dead beat - which many are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:14 AM
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Wear a condom ………
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:11 AM
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“Women taking money from a man” You mean a man paying for a child he made? I find it absolutely hilarious that men with all their statistics and degradation of single mothers for submitting children to poverty and crime are actually trying to compare a woman’s ability to not bring a child into the world of that - to their stance of contributing even more to it by wanting their offspring to be subjected to it, sign their child right up for it. Its absolutely fascinating the cognitive dissonance y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:07 AM
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So….. wear a condom or get snipped? Not sure what your argument is there bud
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:41 AM

They won’t. Tell your fellow men to hurry up and push out those birth control pills as fast as they launched viagra for your whiskey dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:34 AM
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He’s therefore harming HER / attempting to kill her and drug her - not only the unborn child. In what world would this ever be okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:34 AM
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Yet the first line of your response was “funny how so called feminists” who were you speaking to / referring to when you are responding directly to me? There will never be true equality with the sexes as long as women give birth and have monthly periods and so on and so forth. Would you also like the option to see a gynaecologist since you believe in true equality or is that diminishing on your egalitarian rights to acknowledge the differences between the sexes? No. My stance is not why. Rape is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:32 AM
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Girl/guy tbh I have no idea. But I guess these men want to ability to say that they forfeit any rights to the child beyond conception therefore being able to knock up women then say dueces when they feel like it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:19 AM
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When did I ever say I was a feminist? So that’s hilarious. Keep assuming. Unlike you I’m rooted in reality that there will never be true equality with the sexes due to biological differences. Pregnancy being one of them. And since men are well aware of this inequality - take responsibility for what you can control or reap the consequences. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:18 AM
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Nobody hurt me - I don’t know why you think I’m resorting to feelings when I’m clearly stating a fact. It’s rooted in biology and when a man can not have say whether a woman chooses to keep the child or not - which then cascades down into the issues you stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:16 AM
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And it will continue to be unfair unless men can intervene in evolution and be able to have children. Due to biology this is the case. Due to morals of society once a child is born you will be a dead beat father Take control of the little control you have in this situation and be more diligent. It’s not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:05 AM
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Did I say dying in childbirth? No. Welp, women can abortions and will continue to. Men are the ones bitching and that won’t end. Shut up and wear a condom or get snipped knowing full well you don’t have any control once a woman decides to keep a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:02 AM
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Unfortunately not having access to abortions does not only include just “unwanted” children but fetus’ who are deemed a threat to the women’s life. But either way - women have always found ways to rid unwanted pregnancies and it will continue. Men on the other hand want to continue to bitch and complain about finances. Get snipped or wear a fucking condom
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:51 AM
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Go on and explain
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:49 AM
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Completely agree. Men don’t have the burden of pregnancy therefore dont worry as much as women but they need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:43 AM
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Sounds like a straw men. Come back when you have more relevant points of conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:20 AM
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So work harder. The fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:09 AM

Women have control over the consequences. She either keeps the child or doesn’t. Men know they don’t have a choice, why fuck around to find out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:41 PM
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If he didn’t want the child - he shouldn’t have had unprotected sex knowing he doesn’t have an out upon her decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:39 PM

I’m not a feminist so try again. Um it’s called protecting yourself when you have no control over the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:39 PM

Why would I be too young to here? Your comment doesn’t discredit the fact that I stated lol but thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:38 PM
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Lmao telling me he doesn’t want to talk to me yet still on my post, responding to comments he didn’t make for me to answer? Okay. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:13 PM
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Ok? He already made a comment to “not talk to me” yet he’s replying to everything else after the fact. Get some context before you reply
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:59 PM

Fucking weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:48 PM
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Period
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:47 PM

You’re talking about the morning after pill. Aka plan B. Not necessarily the commonly used birth control that women either take daily, injection or have inserted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:47 PM
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Exactly and it’s exactly why financial abortion will not be the norm. They are hoping for it. But in reality they need to either stop having sex, or get snipped or be extra cautious about pregnancy. Knowing that someone else has an out - while I am essentially at their mercy and have little to no decision would make me hyper vigilant. But not them. They blame women anyway for their own lack of responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:46 PM
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Here you are again. Stop stalking me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:40 PM

The fact that there are current laws in place to advocate women’s choice and not for men in regards to financial “abortion” men should 100% do what they need to do to protect themselves if they don’t want children. Just like women had illegal abortions - they found a way. Unfortunately for men - the law are not on their side. So what are you they going to do? Continue to have raw sex and blame women for trapping them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:39 PM

Lmfao. Considering birth control needs 5 days to become affective if not taken on the day after your period ends - you’re too young to be here. Don’t have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:37 PM

You’re too young to be here if you think that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:19 PM

Yet here you are. If I get one more notification from you you’re clearly obsessed with me. Move along and keep it pushing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:17 PM

Why are you not advocating for men to be safer in having sex and protecting themselves from evil baby trapping women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:16 PM
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“Economically vulnerable men” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:15 PM

I guess you don’t understand that connection of children, uterus’ and vaginas. Talk to me when you understand biology
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:14 PM

That’s all you have to say? Shucks, thank you sweets. Until you get a vagina, you can’t. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:10 PM
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So men should start developing birth control and pushing it out. Why aren’t more men doing so or pushing those for those rights? Men were very quick to develop viagra.. Wasn’t there a clinical test that men actually did not want to take the birth control due to the side effects?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:00 PM

You don’t have a vagina. Therefore sorry but you don’t have a say for a women carrying a child or terminating a child, that’s just how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:59 PM

You’re going to compare money to the ability to carry children? One is rooted in biology. Get out of your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:57 PM
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Or start taking matters into your own hands and get snipped if you think so firmly of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:49 PM

The world is unfair. As long as women are the sole population of carrying and delivering a child. This will never be an equality debate. Sorry Because people lie, including women, including about being on birth control, to get pregnant when they know then man involved does not want that, and that is absolutely no excuse when the child support corporation decides to destroy his life. Why are you trusting a women to be on birth control. If you don’t want your life “ruined” but want to engage in ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:48 PM

Absolutely wild. Then cry about being trapped. It makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:40 PM
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And women are only dating men they are attracted to. So why do men have their panties in a bunch?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:13 AM
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Feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:23 PM
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Lmao what is your personal lived experience and scientific data that people cannot pair bind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:23 PM
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Lol you know or assume
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:15 PM
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Lmao the go to insult for men to women is a single cat lady 😂 what are you saying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:24 PM
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How do you know every single woman you dated; history of dating chads and being rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:20 PM
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Her “ego exploded high enough” that she doesn’t want to give her best years to a fat, poor, boring man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:33 PM
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What is a regular Joe blow? What does he consist of?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:22 PM
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Lool the average women is not getting dm’d by “high value men” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:40 PM
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Yes it would actually and I’m going to compare SINGLE behaviour to SINGLE behaviour to make this point more cohesive. If a man told a girl he used to be a gamer and played video games daily for hours, didn’t work, and kept his place dirty asfuck bc he was young and didn’t care, do you think a women should disqualify him bc of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:13 PM
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You can judge anybody for anything lol. Using cheating behaviour to compare to single behaviour is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:01 AM
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Older women whom you are saying lived great lives based on “relationship” satisfaction are the same ones telling women to not get married bc of all the shit they put up with. Have you actually TALKED to older women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:25 AM
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Answer my questions Women were not having orgasms period. Also people were not more religious with more social backlash if they divorced Why is it that almost every married women (older) tell other women to enjoy their freedom and to choose wisely? Women put up with a lot of shit and if the home functioned properly with two parents - outside of their emotional / physical compatibilities they were happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:05 AM
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Women were not having orgasms period. Also people were not more religious with more social backlash if they divorced Why is it that almost every married women (older) tell other women to enjoy their freedom and to choose wisely? Women put up with a lot of shit and if the home functioned properly with two parents - outside of their emotional / physical compatibilities they were happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:41 PM
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Lol I know my current bf is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:36 PM
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Lol it’s the case for me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:53 AM
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Exactly lol they are thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:32 PM
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He’s telling those average men to do better and to stop crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:26 PM
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90-95 get nothing? So children born into poverty, ghettos, trailer parks all have above average men in them having sex with those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:11 PM
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Lol did you even read what he said? He actually said he has no problem getting women. Comprehension is important
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:10 PM
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Men create that standards for women bc they are thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:08 PM
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Is it not men that are complaining about the modern women’s standards and their inability to have sex? Even if it’s a small minority - it’s not women going on killing sprees bc men won’t look at them. If they are complaining, this a solution that targets THEM. And let’s face it. Men are thirstier than women. I would say many more average women - take care of themselves in the most basic ways, compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:03 PM
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Lol bullshit. Women are just choosing not to put up with bullshit from men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:03 PM
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Lmao women still do that. Do you think because a man is less attractive = a nice guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:05 PM
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I would say women are more emotionally intuned. Not intelligent because at the end of the day everyone is a victim to manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:59 PM
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Lmao so then you admit that women say “looks don’t always matter and personality is important” is in fact not a lie - like what other (majority) of men seem to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:48 PM
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What do you want women to do about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:35 PM
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Men are charmed by DT traits in other men. Just like women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:40 PM
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Lol majority of women are not attracted to EVIL men. If you look at DT traits majority of them are held by men of power and those people don’t get to power without men and women admiring them, looking up to them, being charismatic, charming, etc. Men look at those men with social admiration Women look at those men with sexual admiration because they are sexually attracted to men who will make them feel good and important and special. Do yourself a favour and understand psychology You’re trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:29 PM
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Straight men find it admirable and make them lose logic. Professional educated men when he was on trial for being a serial killer. Women find it admirable and make them lose logic He has the same effect on people, women are just attracted to him bc he is a man - that is a symptom. He was able to prey on both men and women. Men take into consideration personality too and how the women makes him feel. Don’t be ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:44 AM
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Lol Ted Bundy literally had the judge, lawyers and prosecutors in his hands. He toyed with all the grown men with his charm and intellect - DT traits are not only used on women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:43 AM
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This is interesting. You should make a post about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:38 AM
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Lool you were also a child………….
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:30 AM
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What did you open up about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:35 AM
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This is very interesting to me because as a women I want the men I’m with to dive deep with me and I have been with men who have done so. While we broke up for different reasons I have never ever been turned off by a man’s emotional state. My current bf cried infront me of a few days about how much he loves his parents, then about the regrets he had for treating his brother in a way. I hugged him and thanked him for being open with me and it brought me closer to understanding him. I’ve never use…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:34 AM
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lool I don’t even know who Jon Hamm is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:16 AM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 06:45 PM
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And how do you know those men would make better long term partners to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:19 PM
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So you don’t think that the SAHM factors in your pay check up until the point she can become a SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:33 AM
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So how are you meeting women? Are you choosing women who are only working part time while you are vetting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:32 AM
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I have a friend group and the guy who is 5’3 - 5’4 has had a few ex’s and currently in a relationship with a girl who is like 4’11 / 5ft
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:21 AM
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Like all of RP LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:31 PM
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Ah so not rooted in anything I said above, just how you feel. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:24 PM
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What you are describing is growth and maturity. Tell me one man that didn’t grow up and start to believe “personality over looks matters more” when he started looking for a wife? “As long as she gives me peace” even if he desires big boobs and big asses. Yet it’s somehow only rooted for female desire to do the same. The progression of female desire is rooted in a revenge fantasy, that you just laid out in the way you did - where men are hoping to reject the women that rejected him before now tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:38 PM
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“Don’t believe everything on the internet” so believing you is out of the question. How one feels about the truth doesn’t dismiss it or make it false. This conversation is done. I won’t be replying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:17 PM
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So cite yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:13 PM
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Where are the sources that it’s due to women’s own personal spending habits that they are worse off financially after divorce? And not the fact that she is now taking care of a child on her own - with maybe some money from the husband, and taking lower paying jobs to adjust to the childcare schedule + taking more time off. Along with during the marriage not being able to upgrade her skills for further job growth (if she was the primary caregiver) therefore worse off after the divorce when her sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:13 PM
6

You just said “don’t believe everything off the internet” to a post that has sources. You asserted it was wrong. Cite your sources
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:06 PM
11

You realize average people, making average wages, are not living glamorous lifestyles?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:05 PM
10

You realize women also have the think about children and the type of life those children would have? You also realize the requirement for being a successful adult? Do you also realize that when it comes to relationships women have been taught to choose the best that is available to her? You say it’s women. Back when many women didn’t have the choice for marriage was it not her parents (specifically father) who were choosing her mates based on what the guy can provide? Is it not men (fathers) who…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:00 PM
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“They never adjusted their spending to their new smaller income” You must not be talking about the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:55 PM
8

It’s a proven fact that women are less off after divorce than men. Cite your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:50 PM
1

Who said she rejected him in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:49 PM

If she is irregular. Yes. So explain all of the “unexpected pregnancies” these men keep talking about then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:25 AM

Idolized? So men and women who grew up with a single mother and have done well and seen their mom struggle to ensure they live a good life, shouldn’t be proud of their mother? They should tell their mom she was an idiot for doing it alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:14 AM

No. But sperm can live in a woman for a few days so unless she is completely on point and on top of her cycle, the risk will always be there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:34 AM

Lmao demand - the conversation can end right here my guy The subtle “we” - my god. Alright then, since comprehension is clearly hard here, do you really think that majority of the population of men are what you describe above ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:19 AM

Because you’re slow. Tinder has like 70+ million users and 75% of those users are men. Most men or atleast ALOT of them do not take care of themselves - hence your comment. Do you really think the average guy is doing what you said above? Lmao give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:03 AM

Ah so you mean a woman disrupting her entire menstrual cycle and pumping herself with hormones to ensure the sperm that the man is carrying not does impregnate her with the child he doesn’t want. Men want to access a woman’s body with the only real protection of him not getting her pregnant is the trust HE is putting in her. And you talk about accountability. Pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:55 AM
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Yet around 75% of the users are men. Further proving my point that most MEN - especially the average man, does not take care of themselves And even better. Let the men here know they are having issues with online dating bc they generally are not attractive And last but not least. I suggest you make a tinder profile as a woman and see the slim pickings of the average man there is,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:51 AM

Why would the father be able to tell if she couldn’t. What about the mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:41 AM
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And how many men do this. Go take a look on tinder and see how many men actually take care of themselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:59 AM

Not held to that similar standard when they are raising the kids ????????????? What would you like society to do to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:56 AM

“If you can’t tell the difference, ask your dad” What the fuck do you think that’s implying?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:55 AM

You guys are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:55 AM

The grandpa? LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:54 AM

So you think all dead beat dads are chads? Sounds like you have a complex with chads to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:53 AM

There is a risk of pregnancy every time you have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:52 AM

Great so next until they confirmation happens. For fucks sake, as if men don’t LIE to get some pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:51 AM

Lmao you want women to have xray vision for the future, along with having a stricter standard for dating - yet, isn’t it now that men are saying women’s standards are so unbelievably delusional that they need to lower them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:49 AM
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Agreed. If we are looking at men in photos without knowing any other type of quality I would say off of first glance most men are not “head turners” - most men do not care about their physical attractiveness on the level that a woman does. I can only think of a few examples of men that made me go “WOW he’s hot” with no other substance needed. Absolutely eye candy. Just an immediate primal rush. Maybe it’s how men feel about most most? but only a few men have initiate that immediate response and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:55 PM
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Your projection and deflection off my looks prove nothing but your inability to cultivate a mind provoking argument other than “women don’t know themselves and I know women” you need to grow up, kid. It does not matter. I have men 5’10 - 6’5 grovel over me, fit, educated, well dressed come to me not for sex, but for deeper connections/relationships. And after accepting and getting to know them, I have ended things. You don’t know who you’re talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:24 PM
2

Great assumptions, you need to live in reality more. It holds a lot more weight than you can imagine which is why you’ll find - if you actually talk to women instead of thinking you know them, saying that a man’s personality has made him even MORE attractive over time. Obviously including that he reached her threshold of attraction in the first place. Personality cannot make a man who is a 1 to one women, into a 10 to her. This is where men fail to realize, that should be obvious. It’s not a spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:09 PM
1

So?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:43 PM
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First of all, men and women who are attractive all benefit from “pretty privilege” outside of sexual relationships. You’re speaking like you have 0 experience in human interactions and relationships. Sure there are SOME WOMEN who would stay - but it probably is not ONLY because he is “hot” and you would find a slither of women who would accept certain behaviours based off of looks alone and it being nothing to do with his personality when is not being an asshole. You’ll also find women who stay …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:43 PM
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Doesn’t mean the women are having great sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:15 PM
1

Women are the “choosers” that’s already the reality in nature, so if someone asks her that the answer in mind is that the guy has already passed looks criteria to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:13 PM
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When did we say we didn’t? That’s the bare minimum. It’s after the looks qualify you see the person deeper and go from there. For women, a hot guy isn’t going to keep her interested if he’s an asshole. Maybe some women who have unresolved trauma but not many are staying just FOR looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:09 PM
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You’re the reason why male rape is not seen as something serious. Being preyed upon is not fun. And even though not every man is like that, the men who are have preyed upon or tried to enough that almost every single woman has the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:50 PM
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Both are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:48 PM
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No. That’s bullshit. If she does not like the physical sensation of her ass being forced open, it’s bc she doesn’t find her partner attractive? You’re fucking delusional lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:11 AM
1

Lmao you think anal is simple? Please stick a dick up on your own ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:23 AM
1

Men are willing to fuck anything. Not “be” with someone as in being in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:11 AM
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So if she has anal sex once you’re entitled to it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:08 AM

They just think all sex that wasn’t with them = bad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:24 PM

I always find this ridiculous as if context doesn’t matter. Past promiscuity while single could be a habit, just like remaining monogamous in a relationship without cheating is a habit. Why do people confuse single behaviour choices to relationship behaviour. So if you sit and play video games 13hrs a day bc your single and that’s how you spend your time, if you found a partner and you’re showing them you won’t be spending that much time yet they bring up what you used to do when you were single…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:15 PM

“Men are more efficient” lmao you mean they just don’t care as much ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:09 PM

100% She tells me all the time that she loves her girls but if she could go back in time she would choose differently for herself, so young deciding such a huge part of her life. For herself, she feels empty. Unable to accomplish the things she wanted for herself, her own accomplishments - such as finishing school or staying in the job market to keep her skills fresh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:35 PM

My best friend was 20 when she met her husband - he was 35. Married by 22. Two children now at 28. Trad wife is and mother has been her life but guess who wants a divorce? She does. He’s mentally abusive, has gained a ton of weight, didn’t want to have sex during her pregnancy and post pregnancy. The work she does around the home, for her kids, for her family is never acknowledged, to simply ask for a foot rub or massage is met with destain. She keeps herself fit, lost all her baby weight, does …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:52 PM
1

And most men that some women know are cheaters and rapists. So it’s true?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:45 PM
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Lool people can get into relationships without knowing the amount of sex someone had. Ask them about past long term relationships and other things that tell you about a person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:39 PM
1

What made you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:15 PM
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Ask a proper question with specifics. Are you talking about video games? Porn? Dressing up like a woman? Use your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:15 PM
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Did he give a proper example?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:14 PM
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Bc you one date with a woman that expresses that view, you know all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:10 PM
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Lmao user of Reddit!?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:11 PM
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Done by mostly women? I’m sorry, do you not realize that women with men in their lives will be taught “he only wants one thing” because men know how men are and want to protect the people they love ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:56 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:01 AM
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Lol now they are going to use the tactic that it’s not RP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:54 AM

Looks like you want to troll. Waste of time engaging with you if you can’t understand two people having heterosexual sex is the same thing. Whatever you end up saying after this to soothe your ego or tickle your arguing kink, won’t effect me and you’ll get blocked. Can’t stand the annoyance of man children
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:46 PM

Reads username No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:40 PM
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And lots of men go and marry virgins from other countries. Doesn’t mean it’s not hypocrisy or a double standard If the shoe fits then it fits, if it doesn’t - go on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:07 PM
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And how many women date rich men lol If you don’t have a problem dating a woman who engaged in casual sex and you have then there is nothing to discuss. If you do but want a virgin you have a hypocritical stance. Stop trying to moralize you’re demoralizing behaviour and go on with life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:50 PM
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Delicate sensibilities that make you a hypocrite. Sex takes two people. You’re simultaneously adding to a woman’s count while wanting to settle with a woman who is a virgin, it’s hypocritical at best. Especially if the excuse is riddled in the idea that a women is damaged, can no longer “pair bond” on the sole fact that she is a woman doing what you are doing. Double standard is essentially what it is so look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:43 PM
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Which is why past the age of 25, the number conversation shouldn’t even come up. Because it’s better to assume your partner has had sexual partners before. Frankly - it’s extremely strange to me that a conversation with grown adults would still come up, considering by 30+ people already have had divorces, children, etc that add way more layers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:31 AM
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They haven’t proven anything to you. And if you met that person AFTER “in some time” what would You do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:03 PM
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Meh. If they wanted to engage in casual sex during a time of being single what’s the issue. Along with having a LTR too when they did have a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:57 PM
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Bruh. It is hypocrisy when men want to engage in casual sex and have sex with 20 women but calls women a slut if she has the same count as him or more or less (whatever the number is to him that he seems slit territory) It’s really not hard. Don’t engage in the act if you can’t seem to muster the idea of women doing the same. Majority of men who do will say “well women are different than men”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:54 PM
2

Big mess ? How
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:50 PM

…………… I have no comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:44 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:45 PM
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All men are not RP but you asked a question and I answered it. Just like not all women call men creeps and pedos also, I’m not upset. I agree that things can and should be done on a case by case basis. Which usually is what happens. People can judge all they want at the end of day but people shouldn’t have to feel the need to explain their decisions bc it goes against the norm. As long as people are informed, making informed decisions are better than not. But before I go on to make my point, wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:43 PM
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“But when it comes to sex everyone is freaking out” Girl. This is a post. People are so quick to use the age card when trying to invalidate experience and wisdom in certain areas but yet once a woman turns 18 then she’s perfectly capable of making the best decisions for herself then. How ironic once the subject matter is sex with older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:34 PM
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Yes? Isn’t the real RP about not getting married and fucking plates bc western women are doomed for longevity? Isn’t it about IF you do get married to marry a low n count / low experienced women? Don’t men call other men simps and cunks (?) if he marries outside of those parameters. Aren’t men telling other men to not pay fully for dates, to go parks instead, to not be her free meal of the week? If you can point me into the direction of older women telling younger women to NOT date them - full s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:27 PM
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Do you think men who have had bad experiences with women and or marriages should not try to guide their younger counterparts or at the very least give them some wisdom to navigating situations, if they see them going down a path that lead them down a bad road?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:06 PM
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Are people physically stopping women from dating these men? No. They are simply giving out their advice and warning them, as they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:01 PM
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Men who are there just to cum don’t care about her cumming and majority of women do not cum via penetration. How many ONS are going down a girl ? Almost 0. So very very plausible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:10 PM
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What’s wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:08 PM
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30mins is pretty normal. Especially for a guy figuring out her body for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:07 PM
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LMAO WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:06 PM
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It’s really not. Some of them - sure. Others are giving women a heads up for the possible life she may have to endure due to their own experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:04 PM
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You are hostile as fuck. “You don’t get to tell me” is essentially “bc you’re a woman - shut up” is what you’re saying. I wonder how the conversations go before women start calling men that and it’s like I said, probably men coming at them sideways, hostile, rude, and passive aggressive (like above), in their feelings but thinking they are not emitting emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:31 PM
-2

Lol you need to heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:25 PM
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I’ve heard men talk and it’s mostly men who are competing against other men in regards to attaining sex and using that as their social status amoungst other men. So you can believe what you want and think it’s only women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:40 PM

Once a connection is established consistency is key. Along with dating with intentions. Knowing what it is you want and knowing what to walk away from and compromise on. I’ve met men like you, dated a few and I ended them all bc it’s was just stupid and immature. Of course they all ended up coming back after self reflection but it was already too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:02 AM

That’s sounds awful to be honest and since it’s the same exact advice women are getting and listening to as-well - you will find nothing but emotional unavailable people and not be successful in dating. (You = general people) That doesn’t sound hot and cold that just sounds cold and way too guarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:57 AM

Meh. To a certain degree. Keeping some distance for allure sure in the early stages but to maintain a successful long term relationship that will not work out in your favour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:38 AM

The fact that you think that any women can just decide to be in a relationship - committed long term relationship is so incredibly wrong. As if men don’t also have requirements for one and will just take any women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:54 AM

And? He still has a wife to come home to and enjoy life with. Id say he’s lucky that he found someone who shares his views without getting stuck into the social pressure of what a relationship is suppose to be like. How many people have gotten married and then divorced due to cheating? How many arguments have ensued in those marriages about jealousy? He’s living his best life, for him, don’t be so judgmental
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:49 AM

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:39 AM
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I actually think men judge other men much more harshly on the fact that he is a virgin. Incel is different as I am pretty sure men who are actually also carry a grudge against women and come at them in that light.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:30 AM
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I think men think this. Even more so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:27 AM
1

Is the act of having less conditions supposed to be noble. What did you not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:03 PM
1

That is literally my friends. Wtf are you talking about lol All I’m saying that sure filter how you want but it doesn’t necessarily guarantee anything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:05 AM
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What are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:43 AM
0

Ya’ll take this place too seriously and it shows. When I have the TIME I’ll find some just for you bb💗💗
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:21 AM
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Ew LMAO To have that time right now means you’re a child. Continue on in this sub and it’ll come to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:09 PM
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Lol and how would you know her past? The one girl that I know that did not participate in hook up culture, met her husband at 20 and he was 35, SAHM, 2 kids now is in the middle of going through a divorce. A women who had hook up culture in her 20’s and now 40 is in a loving relationship with her husband for the past few years and they love eachother to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:05 PM
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You haven’t been on this sub nor frequent it long enough. Do you think I have everything saved and documented over the last 5 - 6 years participating in this sun and watching RP content to finally just provide it when asked? Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:26 PM
1

Is that suppose to be Nobel?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:15 PM
1

You obviously haven’t been here long enough then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:14 PM
0

Oh please, having any type of discussion with these men here and age is brought up - if a woman is 25+ that is the FIRST thing they bring up to try and debunk anything a woman is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:43 PM
1

So is mens. The foundation of it is give and take. If you think someone will love you like your mother you’ve been coddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:06 AM
1

L m f a o
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:05 AM
0

Lmao it’s always the women’s fault huh? Like men can’t be doing anything, anything at all in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:01 AM
1

How do you think people dated before OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:58 AM
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While I can agree with the sentiment of people letting themselves go BUT you’d have to consider their weight before they even had children and secondly the care and time it takes after having children. Most women don’t even feel like themselves for about 3 years (during pregnancy and after) Plus, if you’re breastfeeding you have to be eating more often than usual as you are ensuring a good healthy supply of milk for your child. Add in poverty, postpartum depression, going back to work, less time…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:55 AM
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And how is this different from men. How is this different from the fundamentals of a respectable and growing relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:05 PM
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And you don’t think the same happens for a man who has a good woman? Lol like let’s be serious This is about people respecting their partners. If a man locks down an amazing women, who knows will have multiple suitors after her he’s going to act as if HE can’t be replaceable? The way you all jump through hoops to try to define regular basic relationship fundamentals is so ridiculously amateur.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:09 PM
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So if a man cannot be a player a woman is no longer attracted to him, is essentially what the OP saying. The way that you guys are spinning it to make it all about SEX is the problem. A woman likes a man who is competent, successful, attractive, etc. is the by product of him having those things having women desire him? Sure. But it’s not because he can go fuck Betty and Sally that she is getting her shit together terrified he is going to leave. A man who goes into a relationship with a woman who…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:19 PM
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Of course they do - but the way it’s being spun to fit a particular narrative is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:03 PM
5

Strange that you think every interaction with every single person will be exactly the same to have the same timer on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:03 PM
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The way you’re trying to tell women how they are is astounding lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:57 PM
2

So you’re using her until you can find someone to commit to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:41 AM
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I find it extremely odd that women are bragging about their hook ups. While I have dabbled in hook up culture I would never and I mean NEVER talk about sex with other men to a man I am interested in. Nor would I want to hear his stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:39 AM
1

What is your opinion on maturity as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:33 AM
1

I’m pretty sure that’s a list that is commonly used by other men aswell to insult another man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:22 AM
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Lol nature allows girls to have their periods starting from as young as 8. Is an 8 year old ready to be a mother just because nature said her body was ready to start releasing eggs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:14 AM

How is this different than any other time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:09 AM
0

Tell us why it’s dehumanizing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:06 AM
1

LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:26 PM
1

So what is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:23 PM
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So you don’t think women who you are meeting also have parents of their own who want the best for them? Lol you don’t think this might be way there is a generation of girl bosses because both men and women who are raising their children want them to be self sufficient
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:25 PM
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Learn how to use English and understand what your initial message entails about what you get vs someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:10 PM
2

Wow so much sass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:45 PM
2

Yeah go look outside lol or get to know people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:38 PM
2

You do realize most people with similar backgrounds end up with each other for the long term right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:25 PM
-1

You’re talking a lot for no reason. You don’t understand what your question entailed but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:23 PM
4

You are all missing the point. He said “a hoe with everyone BUT you” as in they got something from her that he wasn’t getting. I’m asking if she’s giving you that and more - what’s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:01 AM
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So then what you said in your first answer was irrelevant by stating “everyone but you” as you are comparing the sex she gave to someone to sex she gave you to - as if the sex you would be getting wouldn’t be satisfactory she could of been in a relationships, which have her practice you should ALWAYS get an STD test with any new partner unless she’s a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:42 AM
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No. “A hoe with every previous partner but you” You’re saying that the sex you’d get in the relationship would be bad. I’m ASKING you. What if it was good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:20 AM
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What if the sex was great?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:48 PM
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Or a man who was a hoe himself and he doesn’t view women as damaged goods lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:47 PM
1

And men see women as children. What’s your point now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:44 PM
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They are telling them to not get married because of their EXPERIENCE. Just like older women are telling younger women to not settle for a man and if he’s older make sure he’s not just using you and to ensure you have something of your own due to EXPERIENCE
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:43 PM
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You sound jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:53 PM
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Nope. Cute and simple. If I have it my way id just have the band
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:07 PM
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Do you only think CHADS do this? This is why women take the advice and try to date someone “uglier” than her type let’s say and he does the same shit because it was ingrained that we are picking wrong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:36 AM
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No lol. That’s too feminine. I’m actually more intrigued if the person I’m dating has no social media at all. The heavy and obsessive online presence correlates to the same attention seeking and narcissistic traits for men as it does for women and no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:29 PM
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What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:42 PM
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I answered. Hilarious “Answering a question with a question” May I direct you to our past conversation The first solution is how you look at it. I told you to stop. Do you need step by step lessons on social awareness ? So are you accusing me of something? Sounds like you’re truly unaware of yourself. Check yourself before you hurt your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:36 PM
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Are you guilty of something? I said not to use blanket statements in regards to the situation of rape, which you did. Do you need further clarification on how to comprehend what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:49 PM
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The first solution is how you look at it. I told you to stop. Do you need step by step lessons on social awareness ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:16 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:19 PM
2

What characteristics do you believe are a traditional man that you would not want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:15 PM
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Fair!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:14 PM
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I do not believe everyone is angry. The men here ? Most are yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:13 PM
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Bro. Do you realize that you took my initial comment of ASKING? I’m the OP of this post, just because you had the time to look at his numerous replies to other people explaining his situation, I did not as my notifications are flooded. You’re taking an outsider with no information other than “I refused to leave” and trying to shame me for asking questions because I want to know more about the situation. Since you’re coming from a place of angry and not having common sense, whatever I wrote in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:36 AM
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If a man was following your mother or sister around and she told him to leave her alone but he persisted, what would you tell her to if he is continues to become a threat in her space? If a gay man, taller and stronger than you approached you and sat beside you, asked you out and you said you’re not interested but continued to linger around you and come on stronger, what would you do? If a man grabbed your dick while walking infront of him at a club, what would you do? Again. I’m not justifying …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:09 AM
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Hate between genders is not healthy. Recognizing that we are different and thus have different strategies to approaching each other in regards to dating, like a dance, should be expected
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:55 AM
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You realize he said “I refused to walk away from a young women I have been chatting to” right? The key word is refused. Was he following her? Was she shutting down his advancements but he wouldn’t leave her alone? All of these are important questions to understand the social context of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:45 AM
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I agree with you on the dating apps. I will never use it again lol it’s really the worst of the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:33 AM
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We can feel empathy but how does that translate into action that is deemed necessary to show we feel that way? By having sex with more men? By listening more to the struggles of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:28 AM
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Like I said it’s disgusting and those women should be socially “cancelled” and it’s a damn shame that they were not along with the audience. Disfigurement and mutilation is a crime and not to be joked about. So I have a question for you then. The recent video of fresh and fit where they had a self proclaimed rapist on their show whom openly admitted to raping and forcing of gang bangs on women - no one in the chat or in that studio said what he did was fucked up. They actually all laughed it off…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:21 AM
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You have so much anger and resentment it’s actually impossible to have a civil and logical discussion with you. Men figuring out what is holding them back or figuring out their mental well being is important and should seek therapy. I’ve had two relationships where I advocated for them to go to therapy because they had childhood issues that were clearly unresolved and could not acknowledge it - thus bled out into adult romantic relationships. I’ve done enough figuring things out on my own and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:13 AM
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Because I’m asking the context of the situation. Did I ever say it was justified? Do you not know what’s it’s like to have a conversation with someone where you aren’t trying to put words into their mouth and actually letting them speak? And yes if someone told me they got stopped by a random guy who wouldn’t let go of them I would ask them where they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:01 AM
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Lol when did I say everyone is angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:59 AM
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My god. That is disgusting, I’m sorry that happened to you. Yes women can be batshit crazy, there is no denial in that. Women can do terrible things with a feeling of no remorse bc they know they won’t be seen as an actual abuser due to social expectations of what a women is. My mother told me that if I hit a man expect to be hit back. But my mother also taught me and told me she told this to men she dated - if he ever laid a hand on her he better hope she doesn’t get up because she will kill hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:27 AM
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Completely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:21 AM
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Can you repeat that or frame your answer in a different way. I’m not understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:21 AM
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Definitely and it is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:20 AM
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Out of all the things that you mentioned within your bullet points - do men actively take those things into consideration when dealing with other men? Not accusing men of being abusive or demanding by default Fair enough. While I don’t think it’s fair to point a blanket statement among all men, the obvious advantage men have of strength is there along with men being socialized to be more combative and blunt is true. I’m not saying it turns in automatically turns into abuse but it can go there wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:18 AM
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And he finds out she was with men who were not a 6 before him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:46 AM
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Some men like to say they don’t want women to “settle” for them because they were the safe option and she “lowered” her on standards to be with them. That’s the only reason I said it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:26 AM
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Know how to express boundaries lol do you know what’s it like to have a man who’s 2x more powerful and stronger than you, who is horny and asking him to stop politely and he listens?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:14 AM
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Men use anecdotal evidence ALL the time Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:58 AM
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“Putting forth actual effort toward our issues” Can you elaborate on this? I’ve heard too many times from other men that other men’s problems are not their own as men are seen as competition towards each other. Women come together as a community as work towards their issues when they feel it is necessary. Men don’t necessarily come together to fight men’s issues / rights. So do you want women to pick the slack of the male community that other men don’t want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:56 AM
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Can you give me an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:46 AM
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Okay. Let’s talk about the litter. What do you think it is ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:46 AM
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Makes sense. Would you then agree with the flip side of seeking out men for stability and safety for raising children as settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:45 AM
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I completely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:44 AM
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Lol fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:43 AM
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I totally agree with this. Learning, evolving and critical thinking towards choosing a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:43 AM
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To your last paragraph; women are told that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:10 AM
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And how do you expect this social situation to play out? I’m actually truly curious of how you play this out in your mind What would you like someone you are approaching at the bar to say to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:09 AM
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This is a social condition. Studies show that women are more passive and agreeable. Many are taught harsh truths are rude and to coddle. For the women who have done this, it was not taken with grace as men seem to believe men would react.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:22 PM
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I can acknowledge and do consider that some women can be ruthless and pretty rude, but I don’t think many have the balls to do what happened to you at the club. I’m sorry you had that experience. When you say you refused to walk to away.. did she ask you to stop talking to her? Were you trying to flirt with her? Nobody should put their hands on anyone, period. While yes men should get less rejection in a perfect world. It’s not perfect. For the women who have been honest to men; men are humans t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:18 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:21 PM
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Are you saying hypergamy in general as if it is something bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:17 PM
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Women (atleast older women I know) know this already and actually warn young girls about it. Men know this too and warn their daughters about it. But it seems like some men acknowledge this fact but want their daughters to find unicorns amongst the crowds. Women also know that but doesn’t mean it’s needs to be tolerated if they don’t want it be. So are you saying that you want women to acknowledge this, tolerate it (as women in generations did before) and just shut up ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:16 PM
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Yes. There definitely is a problem one that has already been there BUT is heightened more with the technology advancement. Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:13 PM
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So again, what do you want ppl to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:11 PM
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No. I guess you’ve never been in a situation with a man who gets aggressive bc you don’t want to fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:52 PM
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So what do you want people to do about it? What is your solution instead of drilling in into ppl that you have it hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:51 PM
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Stop acting as if every situation of rape is preventable and somehow making it the victims problem by throwing the idea of accountability, as a blanket statement. It is appropriate when applicable. The idea of rape culture existing is bc SO many young women and some young men have experienced sexual assault, harassment or rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:47 PM
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The person said they don’t want to go somewhere where numerous men came IN. I’m saying that that doesn’t always happen during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:38 PM
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Have you not heard of condoms or a pull out method? Do you think everyone is just getting cream pied out here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:32 PM
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They did not defend him. What are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:53 PM
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So does rape not happen in heavily religious cultures where women are dressed head to toe? Is rape not usually happening by people who are close to the victim such as men in the family? Rape happens to young boys in CHURCH for goodness sake - should the boys have not went to church? Rape happens to young girls - is it their fault when they start reaching puberty and have young disgusting pedophiles sexually assaulting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:51 PM
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Why do equate sex to semen in her vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:39 PM
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She’s using it bc men always use the analogy of cars and miles to discuss women and past sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:36 PM
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You seem more of an introverted person. So meeting women at the bars would just be attracting the people whom I don’t necessarily think you’d be into? Yeah you can start with some more social hobbies - idk if you’re still in uni but joining some clubs? Even Reddit has some subreddits in things that you are already interested in? You said that you are not very religious- do you have a type of women that you are looking for? Age, ethnicity, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:24 AM
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No problem I’m also not just saying it. You should keep your face as it is. Don’t change it unless you want to and not for anyone else. Do you have a close friend circle? What do you do outside of work? What are your hobbies ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:48 AM
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I didn’t expect these answers but it’s really sad and this fuels why the posts are what they are here. Lots of low self esteem, self hating and doubting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:21 AM
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Hm, what is your approach to meeting women? Also what are your hobbies if you don’t mind me asking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:18 AM
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Please do not get surgery. You look absolutely fine. If you go to the gym - maybe work on bulking? You have sweet eyes and a very genuine smile. Why do you not have opportunities with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:14 AM
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Wow the sweetest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:40 PM
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Maybe no women has showed attention not because of your looks but the other things you mentioned. How have you been trying to improve those?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:45 PM
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Yup thanks ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:42 PM
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Lmao care to elaborate? I feel the same but I don't show it so I probably seem very shy and closed off but when you know me, I'm a little odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:41 PM
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As another commenter said - different situations different responsibility therefore different actions Someone is hooking up with people and their relationship status is SINGLE is different than someone who has a history of hooking up with people while in a RELATIONSHIP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:02 PM
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I love this one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:00 PM
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Okay is that supposed to mean anything to me? I'm saying what HE said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 12:35 PM
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He has already stated on fresh and fit that he was getting women before he was famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:59 AM
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So what exactly is your point? Women = bad, men = good Women are different than men. Such a shocker. Yes men will end up doing more labour intensive work than women. But when those men needs hospitals and care and what not who are majority of people in the health care sector? In the nurseries? In the schools? In the day cares? In the cleaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:53 AM
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LMAO pls stay in whatever country you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 03:11 AM
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What makes you think that virgin would want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:02 PM
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So you wouldn't date a women who had casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:01 PM
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I believe it's actually 3-9 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 04:00 PM
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And you still think they didn't ? Lol What a wonderful fair world you seem to live in
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 03:53 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:26 AM
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Men here are hyper emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:13 AM
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So women realizing this and choosing to stay single is somehow a problem.....?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:09 AM
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Loooool it shows what everyone cares about since you can only swipe on attraction, wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:01 PM
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What? This happens SO often.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:37 PM
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Or just not make your entire identity as being a wife or mother so you don't feel like you've failed in something you cannot control
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:36 PM
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I was more so getting to this point with my answer (below) There are many things you can tell with someone before you get married knowing how you are going to live with them. I don't think many people have a capability over so many years to not show their habits especially if you've went on trips and spent many, many days together in a row, old habits die hard and most issues that couples have when they get married are habitual behavioral patterns that are hard to miss. Most people know this abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:43 AM
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Lmao I knew you were going to do that. So predictable First off - it's a question of preference and finding out whether you like something or not. So if she found out she doesn't like anal sex or being chocked or whatever and she explored with her ex and came to that conclusion that she infact hates it and will not do it again you think YOU are entitled to that experience dispite her dislike for the act not her dislike for YOU? Man: Okay. How about we split the bill 50/50 coz I'm not comfortable…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:38 AM
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It depends on what? You already know you don't like sushi, so you should force yourself to do it again knowing you're going to throw up after eating it? Probably not but no matter what you did with your ex before taking a women to McDonalds and KFC and expecting an adult relationship is already placing you were you need to be in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:23 PM
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Lol let's hope you also don't use the car analogy to talk about women then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:24 AM
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I'm not understanding. Can you elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:15 AM
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I guess because people don't grow and find out they don't like something? If you ate sushi with an ex and found out you hated it, you feel you are obligated to go with your new gf just because you went before?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:12 AM
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I'm not sure about this. While you have your individual spaces, a partner can stay with you for a few days during the week. Within this you also see how they keep their place and inturn how they respect yours. After spending enough quality time together let's say over years of dating and going to and from eachothers home, those signs will show up on how things will be when you live together as you're able to see the person's habits; cleaning, organization, grocery shopping, cooking, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:58 AM
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He’s saying men are more willing to work on issues and women are trying less in relationships than ever. This is not true. Majority of women before they break up have voiced their unhappiness ALOT which is left on dead ears. It's only when men realize she is serious about leaving is when they decide they want to actually listen. Men might be okay with a loveless relationship but women now a days must have realized they would rather be alone then deal with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:33 AM
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So why do you like women? Go have sex with men if women are horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:23 AM
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Lmao that sounds so ridiculous, idk what kind of women you are dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:30 PM
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This sounds like you're dating a small town. There is a no way a woman will gain a huge reputation in a large city of even new city. She's eventually out herself - how?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:22 PM
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Lol why would any women do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:17 PM
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This is just an irrational fear. How will he ever know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:14 AM
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nor they have any real struggle socially as vagina gives them a floor of privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:04 PM
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The fact that you can respond this way after typing the comment you said shows how ingrained it is, or the subs you frequent often have normalized it. Like I said, this conversation is done because I'm not going to go into a pissing contest with you to talk about women and their struggles they face since you don't believe women can truly have any. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:57 PM
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I'm sure the first are like 10x more men than the later. Which is better for women since women prefer older men. And to second point, okay? We were talking about attention and attraction. Your despise for women is starting to creep in. So this conversation is done now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:51 PM
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Men still want women younger than them. Young men still have older women fetishes. Women will not have the same type of loneliness than a man does. Everyone in life, whether it's because they gain weight, stop looking after themselves or age will not have the same prospects anymore OR they will just be different. As I said, life is what it is and aging isn't something new to women or men. The people who understand this realization the most are women who were at their peak and used to attention t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:44 PM
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Agreed, but it is not as young as women want to believe either. At that age you have lost most of your eggs and infertility rises by the year, and so the chances of abortions and birth defects. Sure but we live in a different society today. Many women may want children but are opting for when she is financially stable along with her partner to actually RAISE children not just have them and leave with them nothing, which so many generations did because of the need for population. Life is what it …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:35 PM
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What??? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:23 PM
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wow I really got to you Followed by you just used every insult I used on you and threw them back at me. So he admits that you got to him first to have had to throw insults you in the first place 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:34 PM
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You said this already. So you would not let her pursue higher education even for her own self development and knowledge bc that will run the risk of her meeting better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:59 AM
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Okay. So you're with her in the hopes well in your case certainty that she will never want to progress to a level high enough? Even if it's just for herself and her interest? And got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:37 AM
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Well said. I concur
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:27 AM
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I would not consider enter into a relationship with someone that can meet someone on my level or better in any category/trait. No reason to risk it. But yet you said that if she wanted to pursue higher education you would "let her" and if she wanted to study to become proficient in a career isnt that a risk? So you're advocating for women to not go to school or work to vet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:26 AM
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Yes there are risks. Are there men like you out there? Sure. But should a woman wait and do nothing while she waits and vets? I believe you said in a reply that you wouldn't want someone educated because it opens her chances to meet more people that might be better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:20 AM
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It is a unicorn relationship. How many women in a homeless shelter can say that the experience you are providing is something that they will get? Should they all wait for a guy like you to save them? Definitely not. You sought her out for a year you said, how many men are looking for their FP and doing so in the way you did? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:15 AM
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Depending on who she chooses to do that to. There are women who are fiercely loyal to their partners but unfortunately chose the wrong ones to do it with. Not all men appreciate that or are capable of financially ready or even mentally capable of appreciating someone like that. Their loss yes - she chose wrong yes. But in reality there are many different factors that come into play to find a long term partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:14 AM
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That makes sense. This post wasn't meant to put women down who choose to stay home, granted that its a decision made for the both. I think you were able to have the best of both worlds by being able to be independent, focus on your career, build yourself then be in a union that supports that independence and doesn't see it as wrong. You didn't and I would assume he didnt go into the relationship on financial dependance. Being a SAHM/W is definitely tough work. I applaud a women who chooses to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:11 AM
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I think you have hopeful thinking to be very honest. But it's your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:05 AM
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Completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:04 AM
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Amazing. You both went into the union smart and independent it seems. Once the decision was made as a family you both knew eachother enough to take the risk, trust it and not base it out of feelings or necessity. I agree that most people do not have family planning on their mind before they chose to have children granted how so many people in the world today are functioning out of childhood trauma and impacts on the way they grew up. It sounds like you have a strong household with strong morals.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:04 AM
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Do you believe that men are just ready and willing and capable of being a husband and proposing in months time?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:59 AM
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So that approach seems to have worked for you and if you are both happy that is truly awesome but don't compare your anecdotal, unicorn relationship to the vast majority. You know your intentions therefore you know that it works and how you will run the relationship. Your boundaries, your vetting, etc. But not everyone is like that, which means a women would be taking that risk and a risk that envolves her entire life in your hands vs having agency to grow. So if your current gf wanted to go to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:58 AM
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I understand the male mindset of "women have so many options. She can find a guy tomorrow to take care of her" No. She can find a man tomorrow who wants to have sex not take on the role of being a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:52 AM
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Curious. How far into the relationship would you start providing fully for her then? Is it when you just meet? 5 years? 10 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:48 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that. Staying an abusive relationship is probably the worst thing someone can do, especially if staying because they have no means to leave. Temp while preschool, I do agree with that. I would hope I could either save enough or my partner is able to provide during that time for me to work minimally or part time. It cut costs tremendously for daycare. So I do see why people are choosing to forgo having kids all together right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:46 AM
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Not understanding. Please expand more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:35 AM
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Of course bb, 🤗💞
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:46 AM
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Ignored??? Or asked more questions, or used information that I know is different from what they present or just haven't replied yet. You should really learn what a discussion is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:41 AM
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You're the one following me on more than one comment and looking at my comments thought the day 😭 the fact that you even did that shows how triggered you are lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:40 AM
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Ew are you a gaslighter? You do know this a discussion post and there hasn't really been anyone that I have fully disagreed with here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:33 AM
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Who says I'm over 30 ? I am not. And who cares if I am on bumble? I got a dates lined up with a few guys already so what's your point? Sorry that you're really having a hard time digesting my post that you took the time to try and get personal with inaccurate facts about me lmao. If you want to think that way so be it lol you're so emotional its crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:31 AM
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Who is stressed? I enjoy dabbling into these topics. Just because you use this as a diary doesn't mean everyone else does my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:22 AM
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I dunno. seems like theres a plethora of other reasons you are not having success with men, besides being "educated and career focused This is a projection or a bad assumption because you believe me defending women with careers means I have a problem with men lol. I saw a post on ask old people today and as a long term lurker/old poster of this sub I brought it here for discussion. Not everything here is personal just an FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:22 AM
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No. I do not think I am an "independent boss bitch who need no man" because those words are not in my vocabulary. I love men and appreciate the harmony each gender brings to the table. I simply advocate to keep my progression as a human being so I don't have to put my entire life and future life into the grace of someone else's dependant on a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:09 AM
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Why does this matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:00 AM
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Fair enough. If someone is always going to chose happiness then they will always take the easy road in life. I see the point you were connecting now. It would be nice to be able to look back and even though some roads led you astray you can look back and be content with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:00 AM
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Unless you are planning to raise children in a saner society, it is almost irresponsible to bring children into a collapsing civilization. Lol as a women and after Covid, I have actually changed my mindset on having children - even though I truly want to be a mother. I just don't think it's responsible right now to do so. Even if you somehow find a traditional wife, she will sooner or later go astray with her enabling "friends". Hmm. I don't think this is true but what do.you think her "friends"…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:58 AM
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So you dont want to live a happy life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:56 AM
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modern woman" is mostly referring to dating etc. And do you not think having a career focused women is apart of a dating choice that was not as prevalent as before? Having a good career or making lots of money just doesnt make a woman more attractive to men. I never said it did. But it doesn't stop women from wanting to have their own money and focus on themselves without thinking of a man to take care of them I really havent listened to much fresh and fit or kevin samuels, but from what I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:56 AM
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Tbh I'm not sure I'm understanding your point in correlation to the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:47 AM
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Hmm well don't forget mental health for a long was stigmatized. Even my mother's generation - born in 60's doesnt take depression and other mental health disorders seriously. So like in my OP people were just more tolerant that that was their life and how it was going to be. Housewife psychosis, hysteria, etc all come to mind for women the 40's - 60/70's
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:46 AM
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So many men in the manosphere. If not - why the terminology of the "modern" women being negative? Why the hate for Feminisim? Why is a women being educated or career oriented seen as masculine - to some degree? The traditionalist role of a homemaker is being missed and attributed to women wanting to be "equal" to men. Go listen to Andrew Tate, Fresh and Fit, even Kevin Samuels had that button "I'm a PHD" to mock women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:37 AM
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Have you ever thought that maybe a lot of men aren't looking for women to be professionals? Did you read my post......?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:31 AM
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So is what you're saying relevant to my post or PPD in general, if your zoning in on people even talking about these topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:30 AM
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But I believe majority of women arent necessarily looking for someone to be a SAHD. As a women, the dating pool does shrink even more significantly when you start to date men in their 30's who are either freshly divorced, wanting to have "fun" spending their 20's married, or probably just not on dating apps. What do you mean that women have more options now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:29 AM
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So I'm truly - truly curious. What is your advise to women to finding an life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:23 AM
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While I do agree with you in the sense that many things boil down to '"grass is greener" coming from people who give up their autonomy and years creating a full life for themselves (not just catering to other people) is not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:22 AM
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Exactly lol it cannot be topped to become your own individual person!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:14 AM
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On the same boat as you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:13 AM
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Yeap. But yet compared to modern women - they were the steals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:09 AM
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What kind of issues were not super common? And in regards to the timelines - don't have a date for you. It's men who state "enjoy the decline" and coined the term "modern women" or state that the women as being a different subset of women then let's say our parents generation - who are more independent and not as invested in becoming a wife or mother before finishing education. which in a way intertwins the chaos of the wall and settling and the rise of Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:06 AM
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Love to hear that!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:59 AM
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Women's primary goals in life should to be a wife and mother and that Feminism and the idea of dual income (or a woman having an actual career not working at Starbucks Do you want your future spouse to be a career oriented women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:54 AM
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Oh god. Did you end up doing either??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:52 AM
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Completely agree girl. I think if anything I MIGHT want to stay home during the formative years of my kids - so before they go into preschool but other than that, giving up my finances and freedom is something I couldn't do and wouldnt advise. Yes! That is so true. It's those women who are older now advising women to be very stern on their independence and to not live life dependant on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:51 AM
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Very true. Dual income is definitely needed in today's society. Do you think with the idea of a household having two working parents/partners, domestic gendered work should still be prevalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:47 AM
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Fair enough and agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:46 AM
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Okay. Are you going to answer the other questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:45 AM
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They "want" them. Does it mean they are going FOR them ONLY? Men "want a skinny, young hot women" does it mean that is who is dating ONLY?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:12 PM
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"traditional standard" Are you ready to be the primary income in the home and capable of making your wife a SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:07 PM
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That's not how women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:05 PM
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No man who's looking for a wife will get pissy if she doesn't put out immediately BS. unless she's had a few hot girl summers before. How will he know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:04 PM
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There is literally nothing insecure about not wanting a girl who a lot of guys had. It when when the followings thoughts are "she's not giving me her best" "anything she did with one guy she must do with me. " "im getting left overs and have to work harder than the guys she fucked before" "she fucked alpha Chad's with big dicks - she will cheat on me" I may not be the best person to answer that question but I would wonder why not instantly turn them down. Again, I'm not someone obsessed with wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:57 PM
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Where are those studies, are you sure it's the ncount that is the deciding factor or is it other issues correlated to having a high N? Date someone and see how things go. Dating is a risk anyway. There is no perfect formula to seeing how someone is going to be with you. There is no controlling other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:28 PM
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This is true. As a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:39 PM
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You don't seem to know how to answers questions. I asked you a few. What were you saying YES to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:02 AM
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So you're upset that women younger than you don't like you. So you're bitter and emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:58 AM
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So your post has no meaning. Do you feel the same way about parents protecting their children or fathers being protective over their daughters just because you want permission to fuck them? I find it hilarious. Men can warn men all they want about Gold diggers - sugar babies, "whores" because it's all about how to prevent heartbreak yet when women do it you're somehow annoyed and complaining about it? If you're having so much success with dating younger women why the fuck do you care? Or are you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:51 AM
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Okay and? Are people stopping others from dating them or are women and adults in their life giving other women a warning for what to becareful with?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:46 AM
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Being successful in life does not only attribute to wealth. There are many things people can have in common aside from how much money they make when you're looking at the person, their personality, their likes, how they carry themselves and conversations they get into with eachother. You really think the only exchange in a relationship is money and if someone has money they have absolutely NOTHING in common with someone else? If you think that way you'll be a great sugar daddy one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:40 AM
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People within her social circle might give her a side-eye along with adults in her life - including her father and brothers, due to that fact that is doesn't have much life experience and would be wondering what a 30yr old man has in common with a woman almost straight out of highschool. Don't only pin this on women while most men agreeing with you are thinking with their dick. Not if they were the father of the women they want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:33 AM
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You need to actually start looking at the ages people are talking about. Can you not comprehend? Do you think people give a fuck about a 30yr old women dating a 40yr old man? Or a 40yr old women dating a 50yr old man? No one does. As I said most people are looking at women from 18-24ish dating that much older. Once women get older MOST are looking for men older than them anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:29 AM
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You do realize that most women who are talking about age gaps are more so talking to women who are below the age of 23-25 right? Entertaining men who are 10-15yrs older? And as soon as you people get daughters, I wonder how many want their 18yr old daughter dating a 40yr old man straight out of college. Once you men turn fathers, your tune will change - drastically. Until then youre just thinking with your dick wanting to fuck any young girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:24 AM
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Do you mean a 25yr old dating a 30-35yr old? An 18yr old dating a 40yr old? A 30yr old dating a 60yr old? Like let's be specific here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:17 AM
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Complain about what????.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:14 AM
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Men, regardless of their age, tend to say women in their early 20s look best, LOOK BEST. This is not news. Where is the data that these men will settle down with them and date then seriously? We all know no matter what age men want to fuck women from 16-20. Women know this as soon as they start to develop breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:13 AM
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Oh you really don't understand what she is saying lmao. What age gaps are people complaining about when it's been said OVER and OVER again that after a certain age it doesn't even matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:10 AM
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Honestly you're looking at very specific rhetoric that is paraded and does not mean the entire population listens to it. How many women compared to men have eating disorders? Body dismorphia, anorexia, bulimia? Up until just a few years ago the trends of what makes a woman beautiful was being skinny-model skinny with little to no curves. Is it women or men going under the knife for body enhancement or removal surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:58 AM
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You're a communist, so you believe in the structures of the North Korea, China, Russia, etc ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:55 AM
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Lmao pls tell me how men know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:29 PM
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........ What the fuck are you talking about? A young women with a older man is going to take care of an old man + her children. What a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:54 PM
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How old are these women? As women get older the age gap doesn't seem to matter much. That is common sense because now they are both adults with life experience and can share the same values and have opinions on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:43 PM
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Majority of men who fall into the category that will agree with you are men who have a revenge fantasy of turning down women who turned them down as they are getting older. So ironic that you speak of bitter women. If you speak to the majority of men - yes they find younger women attractive but to date them is usually a no go let alone build a life with them. There is a small amount of men in this population that GET to do that. Most 18yr olds are NOT attracted to men 10-15yrs older than them. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:41 PM
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And if you're not a virgin she should do it anyway. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:23 AM
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If not caught in time. Women have PAP smears and gynecologists for a reason and only very specific types and strains of HPV will lead to high grade abnormalities which is caught and acted upon extremely quickly. So you should let your 21yr gf know to get her PAP tests done since most men are carriers and do not know as it's not a routine check for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:21 AM
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I don't think you understand HPV. If you did a very quick google of your claim you will see it is untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:15 AM
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HPV can cause female infertility, yes. Very rare for that to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:29 PM
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Lol so men who don't want kids meet women who also couldn't have kids are instantly put off? My god. It's called preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:23 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:22 PM
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There's nothing to critically think about with this question. A 10 year difference is barley a game changer considering they both apparently look 8/10 and takes care of themselves. Once looks is set and attraction is set, it's about how the person makes them feel, how they treat them, how their chemistry is together. This was a very stupid question and you didn't help yourself trying to defend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 12:24 AM
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Why do you think women's standards are of men who do not exist. What are womens "high standards" that are so unrealistic that those men cannot be real?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:54 PM
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So why does your tune change when it's a women with standards vs men with standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 12:52 PM
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If a guy who has the standard to only date women that did not participate in casual sex, but his only options are women who have done casual sex in the past - is it his choice to not wife her or there is just no women that would meet his standards therefore he is single and fine with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:59 AM
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I think it sums up that women are more accepting of it when their time comes and it hasn't happened yet. While yes there are the "no good men" and some turn bitter. There's a reason why older women advocate that women assert their independence and not "settle" as living life with a partner just to say you have one, or kids just for societies sake - but living a life is stress, to them is not worth it. I find the people/cultures who got arranged marriages are more likely to assert the fact of fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:45 AM
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So odd. It's really not hard to stay fit. I'm 29 and still looking good and ID'd. I feel like it takes MORE effort to let go and gain a bunch of wait. Fasting on a 16-7 schedule has been great for me. Buying a treadmill aswell for those cold months to not walk. Idk. Everyone is just lazy as hell now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:40 AM
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You realize within your comments you're telling women that if they were in healthy relationships they wouldn't / shouldnt be here and letting them know that if they are they are essentially high N ? To my point. Did you expect this sub to be filled with women who cannot get men - therefore your "advice" would reach them deeply and you can give them advice on how to get a man? The majority of men that make up this subreddit are men that CANNOT get women. While yes there are some that does not app…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:15 PM
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Lol are you trying to gatekeel this subreddit? You realize this is purple pill debate - not just red. You're going to get people who don't have the same experiences as you nor look at life the same way. Did you expect this sub to be an echo chamber of bashing women? And women from FDS screeching and clawing lool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:30 AM
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Good looking to ME - The amount of family members - men and women who's response was "oh. That's him" "so, what do you see in him" "how old is he? He is balding" was infinite. I don't have orbiters around me, I don't even have male friends. What is this ideocracy? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:59 AM
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Are you still talking. I said I was bored with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:21 PM
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Lmao I knew you would try to take it there. I now I understand your level of comprehension along with your ability to attend to cherry pick. Googles definition clearly states Google: make a whistle, shout, or comment of a sexual nature You think just because you provide me ONE definition when I have provided you plenty makes you right? You have more issues than I anticipated. But I was bored and you kept me entertained. Now you're busy too stupid for me to bare it lol. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:13 PM
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Google: make a whistle, shout, or comment of a sexual nature to a woman passing by. Your own reference: the act of shouting harassing and often sexually suggestive, threatening, or derisive comments at someone publicly OR is very important in both of these definitions - that state comments as well. Reading is important. I used both definitions you provided aswell. Oh yes because you are the expert of catcalling LMAO Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:45 PM
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Google: make a whistle, shout, or comment of a sexual nature to a woman passing by. Your own reference: the act of shouting harassing and often sexually suggestive, threatening, or derisive comments at someone publicly OR is very important in both of these definitions - that state comments as well. https://www.garbo.io/blog/catcalling-street-harassment Examples of catcalling Most young women and girls experience cat calling as their first instance of sexual harassment. Some examples include: 1) …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:30 PM
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"that's just insane" You have no idea what's it's like to be a woman. So no you did not win. The amount of guys who have approached me, trying to say something in my ear, made comments as I walked passed them in lines, waiting for the bus, and simply walking on the street is uncountable. It does not have to be a SHOUT of "HEY MAMI LOOK AT THAT ASS" A comment simply walking passed right BESIDE the person saying "damnn you look good" in a normal tone or under their breath is the same. So don't get…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:08 PM
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Guess you'll just gloss over "comments of sexual nature" being made , not necessarily always shouting. But I guess you also don't understand English nor context. But continue to make up your own definitions. Fucking hilarious. Google is your friend, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:53 PM
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Being approached in a sexual way, comments being said are all forms of catcalling. Guess you don't know the definition. Sigh. "make a whistle, shout, or comment of a sexual nature to a woman passing by"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:27 PM
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LOL it rarley happens!? Oh lord.... This could happen almost everyday, in any type of setting. Grocery store, gas station, getting on the bus, walking on the street, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:53 PM
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You're so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:07 AM
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Sigh. I guess you don't like answering questions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:49 AM
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Keep adding to your comment ma'am or sir after you press send. Makes you look really strong! Oh so now only topics of the subreddit aren't relatable when it's shows true life situations. Got it! Get outta here normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:10 PM
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No circle jerking actually, lots of constructive conversations that surround around my question. Without my personal experience - men can't seem to fathom women's experiences with average men are real. So had to pad it. But continue. Glad you could smile and laugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:59 PM
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Sigh. I guess you didn't understand the question or you're getting defensive because you can't answer it. Can't coddle your ego, sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:53 PM
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Welp! I also guess asking men to look at themselves doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:48 PM
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Whatever you are - go continue being super and perfect. Loving it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:24 PM
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Oh yes because you are super human. Pls continue to save the world super man!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:18 PM
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And you realize people minimize, rationalize and deny things due to feelings and that's also called being human or do you think all humans are perfect? It takes situations and stepping outside of your feelings to see it as most don't when they are so close. Do I need to pick up on red flags much easier and faster? Yes. Do I need to stop giving the benefit of the doubt? Yes. But atleast this is only 6-7months of my life and not years like others before a lesson is learned. But you keep being PERF…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:43 PM
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You realize this is a sub about men and women dating and those dynamics... I brought up all of these things from personal experience. Are you okay? Such a backhanded compliment, are you a gaslighter too. Okay csb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:37 PM
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You realize it takes time for people to see "actions > words" correct? You realize that is the part of dating. You realize most people do not put everything they have on the table in the first few months.. like you know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:22 PM
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My opening lines are "coming from my personal experience" you should of stopped reading from there, but you didn't. Secondly, this does because the entire premise aside from my relationship is bringing up the fact of Manosphere men and the ability to look at themselves and see what they offer before going on tangents about women's standards - which I am a very average women - yet, seems like mine are "too high" This is the life of an average women wanting an average man. Which seemly is hard to …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:21 PM
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It's called "letting things out" after going through countless arguments I was left to think I was a selfish, unsupportive gold digger. So hearing opinions help to sort out those thoughts. Along with discussions on gender that are pretty apparent in this subreddit. So what is it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:08 PM
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I'm concerned about my future..... As I should be and any grown adult should be. You should try it out!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:05 PM
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First off; I think he's attractive - most of my family / friends do not. Try again my love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:23 PM
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He's attractive to me; none of my friends think he's attractive, he's the same height as me, he's bald, and not "fit". Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:25 PM
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Thanks for the reply and lol at the harpies! 1. This is my exact thought; it's not like things ended a few years ago, it was last year so he was 32/33 and not building with her in exchange for her support. Apparently they fell out of love, she couldn't have children and apparent lack of ambition, she was unemployed for a while, they were also a "party" couple for most of their relationship, everyone told him he could do better, etc. They were both extremely irresponsible it sounds like. 2: Exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:22 PM
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Love this. You're spot on, perfectly said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:09 PM
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To men, maybe not? But you sound high value to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:00 PM
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I think most women want to be married. But they don't want to be wives (wifely duties). Traditional women are pretty hard to find. Especially ones who are humble and submissive. This is a very important distinction that I agree with. People love the idea of marriage not realizing the work it takes to be a good wife and to be a good husband. Once children are all grown up and living their lives, who do you have? You have eachother. I think the bond/love between the two partners need to be the str…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:57 AM
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Interesting... I'll have to keep an eye out, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:51 AM
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You took the words right out of my mind. Its definitely different to find a man who established himself to a certain point (he doesn't need to be at the end of his success, he can be in the middle depending on his age) and he has his own goals, aspirations and is actively working towards it before meeting a woman, compared to a guy who is just starting but also needs alot of guidance to get the ball rolling - her support turns into turning him into a man. Guy #1 can find a woman, tell him his li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:51 AM
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Yeah - he's very critical of "feminine" men and what a "real man" consists of. Sad thing is that we tried conversations for the last two weeks, while I do see my mistakes in my communication style that I'm horrible at being direct, it went all over the place lol. It's simply resulted in "you should be supportive, maybe I should find a more supportive girl, I'm getting pressure from parents you shouldn't be adding to it" then it turned into income and my concerns there "give me time, I just start…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:31 AM
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Yeah that is true and I think the man in a woman's life whether it's a dad or brothers will have a better judgement as they are looking at it from a man's point of view without the emotions attached to the person. So I agree with you there and thanks. I'll definately be thinking about it hard. Goodluck, there definitely are women in the west that want a simple life that you described. I wonder if it's truly that rare. What have your experiences been? if you don't mind sharing. competence, hardwo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:53 AM
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There's no need to argue my guy. This is a discussion not a debate. I think what is described is a situation that has a high probability of failing as a relationship. I just see you listing his inadequacy without assisting a potential partner into greatness and success with you. Yes you're right it's conditional. While that is true and it's what is causing me internal conflict because he treats me well and I treat him well too. We see alot of women who go through the same thing, supporting their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:39 AM
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What is that lol I urban dictionary it but I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:25 AM
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Lol well it's things I do, ontop of being a very feminine women. Maybe I need to pull backkk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:23 AM
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Both sexes have conditional love towards eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:23 AM
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To answer your first question. The answer is simple. Average women simply do not want average men. Maybe it's where you live, the men are bums. But most guys have their stuff together. I have my stuff together but can't find a wife For example, I live in NYC, I'm a traditional man that wants a traditional wife and family. Chances are, I'm not going to find that in NYC. So, I plan to purchase a home or condo somewhere else and move soon to find what I want. Can't find what you want ? Improve or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:22 AM
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Not blaming them at all and dating is apart of vetting. He's deep in the manosphere; which is not a bad thing. I think men need a place to go. But really picking the brains to see if guys actually see what they bring to the table before they start spouting about women, dating and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:00 AM
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I can't tell if you're being sarcastic lol but if you're not, thank you - I appreciate it and I hope so. Just need to figure this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:34 AM
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When we go deeper into the manosphere or atleast things I've seen - aside from the ridiculous women who wants to be taken out and wined and dined all the time, from the average people around me they just want average men - adulting men. Yet it seems like THAT is difficult to find. If most men who are complaining about the standards of women are average and many women want average men(when they aren't being asked to build their fantasy partner) but men are not meeting those standards; doesn't tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:32 AM
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I definitely did but he basically says that I should wait as he will be a provider and I should support him - as a woman should and in turn when he's able to take care of me, he will. Oh that's cute lol. I like that, that's definitely an ideal. Honestly if you live a good life with your wife, you both compromise and are willing to listen to eachother and solve problems - do your "duties" as she does hers to ME that's a high value man and I'm sure the way your wife respects you would show that to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:44 AM
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I know hed love to spend time with kids and have a job where both parent would be able to be at home and raise the children - but I don't think he'd want me to be the breadwinner while he's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:41 AM
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That said… the way you roll your eyes at the thought of being feminine Explain? I eyeroll in sarcasm because those are fundamental basics. I don't feel I need to classify it as feminine because it's naturally things I do, I love being feminine and think it's great for a woman to embrace it - but doing so because of the nature of this subreddit. And what me and my bf discuss in terms of the differences that feminity and masculinity brings to a relationship for harmony. and boast loudly about your…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:35 AM
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Explains the crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:31 AM
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This is very true. Thanks for this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:38 AM
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Also no one "should be a ride or die". All love is conditional. All relationships are, at their core, transactional. If he'd not giving you what you need or agreed to "exchange" for, bounce. Unless you guys agreed to have this dynamics where he does very little and provides very little...leave. Yes. This is naive. No one is loved unconditionally except children by their parents. If I was not who I was I wouldn't expect someone to put their future in my hands just because.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:38 AM
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I got an earful calling it gambling lool. It's "investing"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:36 AM
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Sounds like you're living a good life if you can pay for someone to do so for you, congrats on that. Yeah he definitely benefits from his dad which is good. I don't care much about cars, I drive a 13 yr old car and paid it cash like 4 years ago. It's the sense of responsibility I guess that comes with it. But yeah when his dad is using it, we use mine lool. Agreed. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:33 AM
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Yeah, I'm a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:12 AM
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Goodlooking to me, honestly none of my friends think he's attractive and he's my height 5'8. Nothing Godly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:11 AM
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Lmao his dad snatched up a mid 40's women already and is marrying her soon
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:08 PM
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LOL yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:55 PM
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Lol this is a male revenge fantasy of women not dating them right now. They hope those same women are going to contact them so that they can reject them THIS time. It's foolish and barley happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 03:26 PM
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Sooooo true!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:38 AM
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I'm not a man, so I have no comment on that. But do you sir!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:14 PM
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🥲 Understood
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:13 PM
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LOL! Let's say she's a fairly attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:12 PM
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I could imagine that many people judged you for your life decisions. If you don't mind me asking, if you recieved backlash, was it more from women or men? Level headed response. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:09 PM
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Gotcha lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:07 PM
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It's society pal. Everyone has something to say about something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:02 PM
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Hmm, interesting reply. Let's say not marry but date - with purpose then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:01 PM
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Gotcha lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:59 PM
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Makes sense! So do you feel there definitely is an "age limit" even if both are legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:59 PM
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Would the age be a big worry to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:58 PM
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Interesting, thank you for the reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:56 PM
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No pearls were clutched. This is a debate sub. If you can't handle your position being questioned it's time for a new time pass, love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:16 PM
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I'm not a liberal. If you don't want people to talk bring up your point on race comparison learn to format your point better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:37 PM
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Well when you're using different races to state that it sounds like your saying it's a race thing not a body thing. A Swedish woman who is short vs a Swedish person who is tall would have made your comparison sound more logical. While it sounds like common sense - a woman who is tall doesn't not mean she has a longer vagina than a short women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:20 PM
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If that was the case black women would have the "biggest" vaginas because it's stereotyped that black men have the biggest dicks. Is that what you believe ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:03 PM
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So you think minorities have bigger vaginas....?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:29 PM
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No. It doesn't make sense lool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:28 PM
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Smaller vaginas......? What do you mean by this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:28 PM
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Why are you asking this question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:20 AM
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So it's poor impulse not loyalty. To be disloyal you need to be put in a situation where being loyal is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:17 AM
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You're point is redundant and unoriginal. You had no point other than sluts = bad/gross/mortal sinners and you know some ppl who weren't good in LTR's. If you're not going to discuss then stfu and stop talking lol weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:05 AM
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So goodbye lol the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:02 AM
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Aka you didn't have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:59 AM
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So what's your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:54 AM
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I've known women who only had sex with their husbands initially and still cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:50 AM
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Yes, we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:14 PM
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While I agree that women are also responsible and the burden falls on her but let's not forget that men still have control where they cum. If men who are the ones that carry the sperm they have the responsibility and control to not go raw or cum inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:09 PM
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Men have the ultimate form of contraception which would be "do not cum inside her" or are men not able to control themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:06 PM
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Understood
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:04 PM
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So if she slept around but didn't make you wait - would you feel the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:57 PM
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Good for you, that's what they are there for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:15 AM
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I don't really care, that's the reality of the sexes. Do you want sympathy or a metal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:11 AM
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Well no wonder you think 10 is alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:09 AM
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You can just answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:04 AM
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Not the cause tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:30 PM
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So even with your gf having a high n, you are still dating her because she acknowledged it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:27 PM
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And how many have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:25 PM
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Gotcha, so instead of now fighting for more sex education to the poorer people and teaching women how to own their bodies you want them to stay poor and uneducated. And still be coddled for their poor choices so they continue making the same mistakes. You're such a saint to your community, did you know that ? It's people like you again, keeping the black community down because any chance of change where they need to make better decisions you have a list of excuses as to why they can't and should…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:19 PM
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You poor thing. I pity you. I made no excuses but go off LOL I don't have a "preferred" method of birth control. I'm literally talking about SAFE SEX TO PROTECT YOURSELF FROM PREGNANCY. But I guess you think women are incapable of taking ownership of their bodies and they have no self control or common sense. Im a woman who cares about other women. Making sure they take the proper steps and provisions to not end up needing an abortion. But you just want people to continue fucking like crazy and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:22 PM
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Sigh, you obviously have reading comprehension issues. So let me say this one last time to get through your thick skull. Your entire argument makes zero sense dear. You’re screaming that women need to use contraceptives which we already do. My entire argument is that women need to be even more careful and protect themselves from pregnancy. If that means doubling up on contraceptives then so be it. If we know that BC fails why are women using ONLY that and still surprised when they get pregnant? …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:43 PM
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Which makes sense, since woman generally date a few years older anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:33 PM
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Oh you really need help, huh? So please go vote and stop discussing it online where you are screaming into an empty void, silly. Did I ever say 1% or did I just say minority? That's you adding statistics not me. Yes actually it's called an opinion. I can support the lives of rape victims and medical emergencies where those cases happen while also supporting that women, especially in relationships, should be more careful about their reproductive choices. But I guess you like it when ppl are in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:14 AM
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I don't care yet... ? Rape is a minority of cases so stop trying to use the exception. I've already stated that that is another story along with life threating situations that endanger the mother - That's obviously just common sense. Reading comprehension is important Please try that rhetoric on someone else. It's getting old and you're making yourself look really foolish lmao. I guess you actually don't like to read and want to continue being a victim and not taking accountability because every…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:51 AM
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Oh so now you make this about race and rape because you can't stay on topic. Gotcha. Did you know planned parenthood was actually founded by a racist women named Margret Sanger that believed blacks and other minorities shouldn't breed, which brought upon birth control and abortion rights? Sanger also believed in eugenics — an inherently racist and ableist ideology that labeled certain people unfit to have children. Eugenics is the theory that society can be improved through planned breeding for …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:23 AM
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I'm 28 years old as well so been active for a while too. Do you want a metal? Rape is a minority of cases so stop trying to use the exception. I've already stated that that is another story along with life threating situations that endanger the mother - That's obviously just common sense. Reading comprehension is important. If you're not advocating for women to be more careful, women to be further educated in sex and teaching woman that they have the power of reproduction - when and how it happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:42 PM
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Taking responsibility for your body I guess is something that you don't like to do because you want to go raw and not take other precautions so spare me the insult. Women should stop trying to pretend to be victims in this and take back their power and control reproduction as that is the main thing we can do. Be more cautious and careful and picky about who goes and how they go inside of them (aside from rape) and if a guy wants to give an excuse of why then tell him to go fuck himself. Oh so it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:06 PM
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First of all, no one is calling any one a whore. Married women can’t sleep with their husbands now? Why do I need to use condoms with my husband? That’s what birth control is for. Now you're being hysterical, and like I said before I am a woman. You do know that condoms are not only for STD's but it's for pregnancy prevention. So just because he is your husband you can't practice safe sex to not get pregnant? That sounds idiotic. You’re trying to dictate what type of birth control women use. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:25 PM
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So I found this. If youre interested A majority of abortion patients are in their 20s. Just 9 percent are under 20, and around a third are over 30. Teenagers used to make up a higher share, but there has been a sharp decline in teen pregnancy in the United States, starting in 1991, and a corresponding drop in abortions among teenagers. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2021/12/14/upshot/who-gets-abortions-in-america.html
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:11 PM
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So you take 0 responsibility in how you ended up pregnant? You don't think people should be advising others to have safe sex and double up on protection - since you don't want to get pregnant and have accidents. Stop letting men cream pie you for fun. Start practicing safER sex. Protect YOUR body. Take Plan B right after sex. Don't be daft.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:01 PM
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Use birth control and also make sure a man wears a condom. Don't let him cum inside of you because he wants to. Don't let him convince you that just because your on bc he is good to go raw Protect yourself FIRST as much as YOU can. That makes your statement false. I could be using BC and still end up pregnant. Now what? Have you never heard of plan B
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:48 PM

Where is the responsibility on the woman who had access to prevention? Your body, your choice right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:35 PM
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I'm telling you as a woman, to stop trying to make excuses anf ensure the safety of your body. Your body, your choice right ? So many women are choosing to get pregnant, choosing to practice unsafe sex and choosing to not use methods provided to them to not get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:34 PM
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I see. So what benefit do you think this plays for them? I'm actually curious to know your thoughts on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:09 AM
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Rooting for you. Hope it goes well, whenever you get it lol But until then be safe!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:03 AM
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Oops, a misunderstanding of your last sentence on my end. Exactly - so why are there protests and uproar about the abortions being taken away and not of what you just mentioned? That is what women should be fighting for - the root cause. Not the aftermath.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:58 AM
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Completely understandable and fair. Yeah I've heard of doctors refusing vasectomies and tube tying depending on age - which is crazy to me, considering people can get a sex change and start taking hormones but that's another topic. This method works for you. It's definitely fool proof and you don't want to worry. It's a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:23 AM
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Sorry to hear that. I hope you're able to get diagnosed before any major decisions. I see and that's fair. As someone who doesn't like surgical intervention unless needed - taking your chosen contraceptive and your partner wearing a condom is essentially fool proof. If you have regular periods - tracking it may be useful to. But I'm not certain if a side effect of PCOS is irregular periods. But at the end of the day it's what you want to do to ease your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:08 AM
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That is definitely a concern. I am Canadian (lol) and someone sent this to me in regards to US Data on abortions. Here if you are interested to read the whole thing https://givingcompass.org/article/the-demographic-breakdown-of-women-who-are-getting-abortions One thing that stood out to me was: Among women with unintended pregnancies, 54 percent were using no birth control. Another 41 percent were inconsistently using birth control at the time of conception. And The most common reason cited is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:03 AM
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Very interesting. I'll definitely take a look. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:50 AM
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I do worry about them and it's why I think women now should be fighting for more widely set sex education and more access to contraception. We have fallen into a victim mentality of blaming everyone but the actions we, as women have control over. I believe woman should see this as a turning point to be even more picky with men and be more mindful of who we are choosing to lay down with because it IS something we control (not rape of course) The access to our body in a relationship or a ONS first…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:41 AM
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If you're on BC, he is also wearing a condom and you take Plan B...and it makes it, that thing is Jesus lool. Oh, you are getting your tubes tied?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:26 AM
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Agreed. If women cannot get abortions, men should not be able to get paper abortions - as both people were irresponsible, even with the amount of prevention methods that are available. Too many people want the easy way out - be responsible from the beginning and it would never happen. And I'm a women - there is no need to be celibate with various methods of contraception, plan B and my ability to say fuck off to a guy who even thinks about pressuring me into unprotected sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:21 AM
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The condom could break Take Plan B the pill could be out of stock Then tell him you're not having sex until you're protected the man could take the condom off in the middle of sex without telling you or sabotage your BC in other ways, Take Plan B - if you're having sex with a guy that you thinks that is even a possibility, re-evaluate him you could accidentally skip a day on your birth control and forget, Don't let him cum inside at any time and also wear a condom. Take Plan B if you're unsure a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:13 AM

So take Plan B if he slips up? Be on birth control and make him wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:00 AM

Who is forcing women to have sex? Women don't have contraceptives and plan B available to them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:59 AM
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Why are women fighting for the rights of that and not fighting the reasons as to why people are getting pregnant so much and not wanting it? This sounds like a turning point to be even more picky with who is having sex and how sex is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:58 AM
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That's a horrible comparison - even if I drive safe it doesn't mean that other people will. Other people that I have no idea what mental state they are in while driving. That's protection for external circumstances. Are you saying - leading up to the act, during and after women have no control of a man cumming inside of them? They have no choice at all? Does she also not have things designed to prevent pregnancy from contraceptives to Plan B? If so woman gets pregnant while on BC, making the guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:55 AM
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So women should learn to take back their power and say NO. Women should learn that even if in a commitment relationship, if a guy says not wearing condoms doesn't "feel good" he can go fuck himself and not enter. Women should learn even if she is on BC there is a still a chance of pregnancy - SHE will have to deal with, as it is her body. So stop letting men cream pie you for the sake of their pleasure If you do not want a foreign assembly of cells in your body that you have to either keep or di…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:20 AM

If you're scared of becoming pregnant/don't want to be pregnant - why are you not protecting yourself more?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:13 AM
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So double up. BC and condom. If he came inside, go get plan B asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:59 AM

Do you think men should be 100% responsible for the child when it's born?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:57 AM

Why are you having unprotected sex in the first place? Why are you letting him cum inside?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:54 AM

Don't you think it's better then that people learn to have safe sex - and use contraception so an abortion is not even on the table in the first place? And do not use the extreme cases of rape - that is a small percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:52 AM
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So no. I wouldn't agree with you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:17 AM
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What do you perceive as being dominant though? Because I can say that my man does do sensitive love making. He's not "rough" at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:38 AM
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I really think this depends on the woman. I've had "rough" sex and while I thought it was great at that time, I've met my boyfriend and I can honestly say he is the best I ever had. If we ever broke up, I don't know what I would do because nothing compares to him lol. He's tender, loving and gentle, all while being dominant. I don't know what he does but I always go straight to bed after and ko. Strangley enough, we have been together for a few months and we have never even given oral to eachoth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:16 AM
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Glad you wised up. Not a good place for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:59 PM
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Because they are trying to say that when you ready, you'll settle for a guy you don't really like because your biological clock is ticking. I am assuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:08 PM
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Fucking around while you are single is not relationship behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:13 PM
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First off - how old are you guys? Secondly - as a women, that is the logic but maybe for 3-5dates compared to ONS or something. If it's been 9 months and she is not a virgin and spoke about her past sexual experiences, she needs to go on her born again religious 'journey' alone and your friend needs to break up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:30 AM
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This would only make sense if you are comparing his RELATIONSHIP behaviour - if he was a cheater, to his relationship behaviour now. You cannot compare single behaviour to relationship behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:24 AM
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Now that I am a bit older, I don't get into a relationship with anyone who hasn't maintained a LTR before. That's the indicator I use, not the n-count. Fully agree. Not being in a relationship is a bigger red flag to me than sleeping with 50 ppl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:41 AM
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So 20-30 is no big deal ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:40 PM
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You think a few dates us comparable to a woman's most important years? And how many women are actually doing that? If she is. She's not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:26 PM
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Yeah then when women do this men constantly say "she didn't love him, only that status mattered, woman don't want to build with a man " etc etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 11:24 PM
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Sounds like the woman you have experienced were extremely immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:24 AM
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What robot women are you talking about? And what feelings? You think showing showing affection is weakness?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 04:01 AM
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Yeah I completely understand what you're saying - but getting back to the point of KS and him telling women that being in shape is one of the ways to be more successful in finding a partner a LTR / marriage partner (not that you won't get a hook up) I don't disagree because at the end of the day, if you want a certain man, if you want a certain lifestyle you (in general) better be living it. So I don't agree that he was telling ppl to stay away from obese women, he was telling women and respectf…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:41 AM
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There will always be another side to the coin. Nothing is one sided - I don't believe he or nor am I agreeing that if ppl follow him step by step they will get this "HVM" He does do the wrong thing by classifying "HVM" as a HVM may have different features - but to me, he is breaking it down by class, occupation and income then how likely it is for women in a certain area would be to meet those men and then what those men want from them. I don't ever think he he ever said - no body will ever find…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:36 AM
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It most definitely is being celebrated - fatphobia is now a coined term. Women embrace the idea of "be you and don't let anyone change that - he should love you for you and not your body - if he can't handle it it's because he's not a man" etc etc Society as a whole has embraced and took away personal responsibility for the lack of effort in our appearances. I grew up poor - but I didn't grow up fat. Teaching children self control, teaching adults self control, teaching ppl to go out and walk or…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:22 AM
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When I first started watching it that is exactly what I took from it - but I started to watch it without thinking of exceptions in mind and just started to hear it out because if we are being honest - now a days when a man rejects a woman he's doesn't get as much as a pass then women do, even if women's are a bit unrealistic. Most advice isn't for the exceptions - it's the rule but then you can weed them out later on and im sure you'll have many ppl and others supporting it. Everyone is going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:31 PM
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Got it. And yeah I guess we can agree to disagree. I wouldn't say what you're saying is wrong because I do know those types of women - but I don't think it applies to all of these women because issues with dating/relationship problems between men and women (esp bw and bm) have been warned out. Hence this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:05 PM
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6:36 "My number one message is about being your best weight. It's not about being a size 0, it's not about being a runway model it's about what is the healthiest best weight for you - you tell some women that they are working out so they can hold 160 a bit better so sometimes it's not even about the number, it's you being in your best shape" I truly do not believe he's talking about some women who have a bit of extra weight on them - he's talking about women who like he said are obese and at an …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:00 PM
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Great for you, I'm genuinely glad - sounds like you have a really good future ahead with your fiance. A woman making 50k or less just needs to bring whatever the man is asking for. Which I agree and I believe what KS is doing was simply just setting a base - yes of course not every single man on this planet is going to agree with him, not every single man is going to say exactly what he is says but he's speaking generally for "most" Where he is saying most men wouldn't want someone who is extrem…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:52 PM
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Did you actually watch what you sent me? And if you did can you tell me exactly what was wrong with that conversation ..? 2:10 "one of the challenges with this hook up generation is that alot of women confuse sexual attention to long term retention. They confuse that just because someone will have sex with you doesn't mean they are going to want to marry you - if you're advising young women what are some things that men are looking for in a woman if they are desiring long term / marriage"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:36 PM
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No I meant following my comments bc you commented on all of mine, even those where I wasn't talking to you. I wouldn't say so, bc I think some of those women actually had the mindset and shared the same views of many other women. Maybe their mental illness gave them the confidence to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:24 PM
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Which means you're (specifically you now) above average. Do you want and are trying to stay at home with your kids after you have them? If so, you'll need a man making high 6 figures not only 100k or about that. Those guys are a small percentage no? But every single women wants them. Puts them in pretty high demand. If you're a high earner, do you have a man? If not, why not? I'm sure you should be doing okay with your network. But if a woman who makes 50k or less expects to find a man who is go…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:21 PM
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Aw are you following me? Women called into his shows - and ppl follow money, unfortunately but doesn't mean that everything he said was completely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:06 PM
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Lool show me the videooo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:05 PM
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Why are you screwed and doomed with a man who is employed making 50-60k and so do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:04 PM
1

we read about a girl who says she has a high number but has slowed down now. Now she’s “just in a healthy relationship with 5 guys :)”. You realize she is probably polygamous right? And isn't the idea of "slowing down" signs of improvement and self awareness?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:53 PM
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He started out by bashing men and telling them to stop being lazy and fat and do something with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:49 PM
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Lol fucking or dating and considering for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:20 PM
3

He never said that lool . He never said fat women couldn't get one night stands with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:58 PM
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To my understanding he's saying women's standards (no matter what they bring to the table) will always be a HVM and he lists out the consequences of dating or only seeking out these HVM as you stated above. He is telling women to have realistic standards when it comes to dating, date and marry average men - if she is an "average" women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:56 PM
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And most guys don't have issues with women who had casual sex because we are in a hook up culture and most attractive women are not hung up on Chad's. Where is your proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:43 PM
1

Ya.... No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:38 PM
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You’re following a fraud, clown, and a loser. If you feel like he can lead you to marriage you’re lost. The pick me level is high right now My god, you ppl need to come with better insults. So him talking about not sleeping around, to start getting ready for marriage by vetting men, not wasting their time with men who aren't serious about them, not having children with men who weren't going to marry them, being and staying fat, and to atleast bring to the table feminine qualities when they are d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:10 PM
5

At 22 but your count isn't low? As a woman I'm curious - what is yours? If you care to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:55 AM
1

When?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:47 AM
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Well he was looking at why black men and black women don't marry and what's happening to the black American society. Aside from him regurgitating the studies, what else exactly did he say that showed he hated black women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 01:47 AM
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Damnn I'm gonna search that up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:46 PM
1

Damn. It really got that bad? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:20 PM
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Lmaoo omg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:10 AM
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Do you actually think that? That most people don't grow?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:45 AM
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Which could have been a phase in her/his life. But if she/he continued to have great sex with you and everything else was good, would it be a huge deal breaker ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:36 AM
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No there is no pills. Do you not know what kegals are and why I referenced it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:58 PM
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What is worse - Her vagina wall or the thought of it to men? Realize you brought up the fact that "men's dicks don't get smaller" so you must think "womans vaginas get stretched out" that's the only equal comparison. Simple question - is that what you are TRYING to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:55 PM
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So you do believe women get looser over time by the amount of DICKS she has had - not by the amount of times she has been penetrated, not by the size of the dicks, not by her age, but the amount. That is what you're trying to argue. Just take a step back and realize how stupid that argument sounds. If you said something along the lines of because of age - which would make MORE sense as just like men need Viagra to get a hard on as they age, women's muscles weaken over time (kegals are important)…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:50 PM
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Read your comment again. What are you trying to compare here? coz your a women? and your Husbands di*k don’t get smaller due to his N count and hence your sex life wont get affected? Again. Do you think women's vaginas get stretched out everytime a dick enters it? I'm simply talking about the functionality of the vagina since you seemed to have brought up "men's dick shrinking"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:28 PM
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So you're trying to tell me men can feel difference from her vagina whether she had sex with 100 men or 1 man. Okay what if she had sex 1000 times with 1 man? But had sex with 100 men once? LOL Ya'll can't tell. Stop the lies lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:31 PM
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Sorry do you think women's vagina gets stretched out with each new partner and men could somehow tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:50 AM
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That's true. This is the most common case
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:36 PM
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What a weird conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:46 PM
1

They are saying that in response to men who think women who have a high count = want sex more = want sex more with different men. It's an illogical point to prove how illogical high n = cheating, sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:42 PM
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You ppl confuse me. Was it not Will himself that says they have an open marriage? Why you tryna make a Will a victim so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:39 PM
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Well that's humans for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:07 PM
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I'm explaining the way some women view it. And ppl care because they are still in the impression stage in the beginning when they really like someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:16 AM
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What happens is someone like you who really wants a relationship ends up sleeping with a guy you like and ends up ghosting you or giving you bs excuse as to why he isn't ready to date Speak for yourself. You don't know anything about me. This does not reflect my relationships or my experiences, so try again. HVM are for the majority married and have families by mid 30s Yeah that's why men here claim how much of HVM they are yet cannot find a gf, let alone get women to date them. What happened to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:19 AM
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Irrelevant. Majority of men who can be seen as HVM men are in their mid to late 30's - by that time, no sane man who has had his experiences of relationships and most likely hookups are in this immature mindset of insecurity thinking of the amount of men she fucked before. He is looking at how she presents herself, how she carries herself, how she is with his family and ultimately how she will be as a wife and mother. If men 30+ are asking this question. He is not High Value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:20 AM
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I'm 5'8. Dated a guy who was 5'8, then it went to 5'10, then 5'11, then 6'2 - this was all coincidence as I did not seek these men out for height. then back down to 5'9.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:14 AM
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Still don't ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:08 AM
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This is weird. Why are you comparing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:07 AM
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This is the worst logic I've ever heard and you all continue to use this fake science. It's honestly laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:06 AM
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after by guys clearly superior than you who Huh? What an assumption. Sounds like you aren't too confident in the bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:57 AM
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Well if you're not planning on fucking a virgin you better be getting checked with every new partner you have, regardless of count. If she's openly discussing it because she thinks it will give her brownie points she delusional - because I still don't understand why men or women want to talk so openly about the things they have done with the amount of people they've done it with. Seems tacky and immature in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:53 AM
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Funny. If a man ever asks me - I'll write him off for commitment and not further engage with him as it implies much more issues he has to deal with himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:45 AM
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I find it weird when guys ask about the amount of partners. When you're dating 25+ It's more about "what have you experienced/what have you tried" not "how many guys did you bang" In my experience my best relationships were with men who didn't ask. The one relationship I had was with a guy who flocked to TRP because he was hurt from his ex - would try to "impress" me about how many women he fucked and all in all was immature. In my own experience - men who are asking have an underlying issue wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 04:43 AM
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Lmao keep it to the discussion. Don't come back to me, do whatever the fuck you want. I don't care. What a weirdo lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:47 PM
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You don't have a solid answer for abortions and you had a nonsensical answer. Come back to me when you make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:39 PM
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So you want all the blame and responsibility on women when it's seems fit but that somehow turns when you involve a mans feelings. You cannot have it both ways. It's either women have full and complete rights to her body and her choice (when there is consent) - whether it's sex, pregnancy, abortion under any circumstances or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:13 PM
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So can I ask you if you support abortions, even if the father wants the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:05 AM
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I think this is all in context of the situation and the dates they are going on. Is he comparing himself to a guy she met at a club / night out / drinks and essentially knew it would be a hook up? While he (new guy) took her on a coffee date and a walk? Did he expect her to start sucking his dick at the park or in the store? Did he make a move and did she reject him? Were they in a setting that sex was going to happen or leading up to it getting hot and heavy? Many questions but to me unless she…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:59 AM
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Most women feel that the men she likes more will in turn not see HER as girlfriend material if she slept with him on the first date. That it would be a turn off for him, that she doesn't want to labeled as easy or in a negative way to a guy she sees potential in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 04:48 PM
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.... Do you read what majority of these men say? Do you think TRP are for people who don't need help with women or haven't been jaded by women? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:59 AM
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So you're turned off because your partner is good at sex? That sounds like an insecurity problem of your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:24 PM
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You have way too many incorrect assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:49 PM
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Nothing I said suggested this obsession with appearances. I'm talking about women in long term relationships. Well you found it because of that. So the people/men this sub attracts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:43 PM
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These women. They scare men away as appearing as high maintenance, with daddy issues What are you talking about? But just how many of these women have been in 6 year relationships? All of them. Not sure about that, I only found TRP about 10 years into relationship. And was your relationship fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:14 AM
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I suppose, this is a scare for the men who usually don't have a great sex life or haven't had one in the past. So I'm not surprised by the answers here granted the community it is and the men it attracts. It's odd because the women I surround myself with actually have the opposite problem and it's their man who feels too tired or doesn't want to have sex with them once the relationship gets comfortable and these are women who take care of themselves and look good. I've also had this experience t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:05 AM
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So why can't you take that the beginning part and apply it to the other person as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:01 AM
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How old are you? This still entertains me that people don't think there is a "single mindset" and then a "relationship" mindset. If someone who was a virgin at 30 and only got off my self pleasure and men watching her - you think you can teach her how to be in a intimate relationship with only you? Especially using your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:48 PM
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Yeah I can't use my own experiences because I guess I'm someone who wants to enjoy their partners and try new stuff all the time and also dtf with them, I can't imagine a women not having lust and attraction to her partner for LIFE. That wouldn't even be an option for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:44 PM
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It's facts that most men really only care about the quality of sex. If they have a great sex life I'm sure he wouldn't care. If she slept with him on the the first date, I'm sure he wouldn't care. It's when he feels cheated, he will care. If a woman maintains a good sex life with her man this is not even a discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:51 PM
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So you think it's impossible for someone to want to have sex with one person after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:41 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:55 PM
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This makes no sense. This would only be s concern if you guys have a fucked up sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:40 PM
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That's when men are "settled" and want children / marriage / relationships, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 06:35 PM
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Tsk. And all men are rapists and pedophiles since men here want to be ignorant and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:23 PM
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Maybe the women you've encountered. Get better taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:21 PM
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If you aren't taking this so personally, why did you respond? What's the issue? If you didn't take the question so personally why did you quote an imaginary woman to respond to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:16 PM
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Girl to guy shes not going to date - "You're husband material" = easy let down for being a nice guy but no sexual attraction. When has this ever been said to a man from a woman as rejection Aka what women say to men. Reading is fundamental.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:15 PM
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Coming from someone who went on an entire quoted rant from an imaginary women. You're the only one taking things personal bud lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:09 PM
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Bullshit. Stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:48 PM
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Girl to guy shes not going to date - "You're husband material" = easy let down for being a nice guy but no sexual attraction. When has this ever been said to a man from a woman as rejection? Girl to guy she is going to date "you're husband material = good" You forgot that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:47 PM
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Nah ... You can easily look back to highschool years books, documentaries, etc and people looked ALOT older and more mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:35 PM
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Obviously. Gay men take much better care of themselves than straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:34 PM
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No one is telling women to date them. Majority of women won't hold that against the guy. He is the one that stated that the past is the best prediction for the future. When it comes to himself or men who struggled in the past - it's clear he doesn't believe that THAT past is true within his statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:45 PM
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Power? Now your living your fantasies through Reddit comments? That fact that you think me writing back, is you having power makes sense sort of sad but keep em coming babe !!!!!! I'm here all night xoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:09 AM
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No you're getting boring. Making up nonsensical points about a point you brought up. Fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:05 AM
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He's not a prince. I guess you can't read. Clearly you do since you commented it. Sigh. I guess you really don't understand the point of 'entertaining fools'. Don't want to debate in good faith then shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:02 AM
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It's called entertainment. The fact you think I "fell for anything" because you were stupid enough to try to get serious about something that would end up proving my point "fictional or not" is laughable. But keep up that strange energy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:55 AM
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Yeah that's why you used it in the first place. Idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:51 AM
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Also I wanted to see how long you would humor a fictional animated film as serious "evidence" lol You seem to be pretty serious about the idiotic example. I didn't ask about initial reactions. The fact that she stayed with him and married him really just emphasis my point even more, that at the end of it women don't give a fuck about what you did - as long as you are good to her NOW, the present overrides the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:38 AM
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He was not of royal blood - therefore him becoming a prince, an "actual" prince is still a lie. And your entire premise is false because they end up being together even after the truth is unfolded. So again, your point is what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:22 AM
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It appears that you accidentally mistook a fictional animated film as a serious argument. Very well. You mean I commented on a response? What the fuck lmao. He was not still a REAL prince. You can stop this conversation now since I can tell its so close and sincere to your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:11 AM
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He was a theif and at the time was pretending to be a prince. He wasn't an actual Prince who 5 years ago was a theif.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:28 PM
2

I responded to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:21 PM
2

It is! Online dating is tough. People are just shittier
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:20 PM
1

I wouldn't say it's a redpill. But I'm also not a guy. I would just call that common sense and the experience of one bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:10 PM
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You have a great point - the only thing I can say here is that I believe there is a difference between a man who views sexual acts as a service to be done to him because it was done to others and a woman who is not okay with a bisexual man. And that boils down to sexual orientation. Men are okay with women being bisexual or having lesbian experiences in the past because it turns them on. It is sexually attractive to men. Many straight men's fantasies are of threesomes (FMF) Women are not okay wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:08 PM
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Sorry to hear that. That's actually horrible on her end but kudos to you on yours for bettering yourself. Women who think men didn't have to struggle never had to struggle in their own life. So her reality was shattered. Good riddance to her though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 11:00 PM
2

I'm confused by your comment. Are you agreeing with me or disagreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:56 PM
1

That's why you have men who are angry and become self fulfilling cycles of their own failures with women as they project this notion to every single woman they meet. Your comment is exhibit A. I won't be responding to you after this because this sub isn't allowed to get personal. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:47 PM
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Why would this change her viewpoint of him now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:45 PM
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That's why you have men who are angry and become self fulfilling cycles of their own failures with women as they project this notion to every single woman they meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:42 PM
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Show me where women are attracted to a man, are ready to be his girlfriend and he tells her about his life in his 20's and she runs away from him because he was a bum BEFORE but now he's nothing of the sort. I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:40 PM
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And she did those acts because she thought he loved her but really he pushing her boundaries and only cared about his pleasure. There's a really big difference between women who try sexual acts and realize they don't like them and women who have tried everything and everything but won't give it up to their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:39 PM
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We understand just find. You're using women as a product and something that deteriorates over time and with use. Just don't get upset when women view men as investments and something to stock up her lifestyle with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:37 PM
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That's bullshit. If he got her now and he is doing great? Why the hell would she use his past behaviour against him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:35 PM
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She did prior acts with her other BFs because she was attracted to them, because they were attractive. She didn't do them with Current Guy because CG is not attractive So explain how women finding out they don't like something is different from what you just explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:34 PM
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past behaviour is an indication of future behaviour. You said it. Unless you don't think ALL behaviours are an indication of future behaviours and only when it comes to women to sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:32 PM
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You take dick up your ass? She had painful sex with previous partners 😭😭 because she loved them and fulfilled their needs. Because she had no boundaries. So if men realized they were 'betas' before and took their gf's out on dates all the time, bought her flowers, vacations, then realized he was being used and started to assert boundaries with new women - he loved his previous gf's more than his new ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:31 PM
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past behaviour is an indication of future behaviour. Oh so only for women right ? Not applicable to men and their behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:29 PM
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She did prior acts with her other BFs because she was attracted to them, because they were attractive. She didn't do them with Current Guy because CG is not attractive Women cannot experience things and find out they dont like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:28 PM
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People who think this way are why they have problems with women. Men who think women = Gucci bag, should have no problem with women who think men = wallet and beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:27 PM
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Oh god. So if a man sat on their ass for 5 years, did nothing, were inexperienced with women, couldn't talk to women, lived in their parent basements and played video games - a woman should hold him accountable for this past life ? Got it. Makes SO much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:25 PM
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You realize people can try something and realize they DON'T like it? The fact of the matter is that it's the act itself that was unpleasant. Getting a dick up your ass - you either like it or you don't. You want someone to experience pain just to show you that they "love you" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:22 PM
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Because you're making this one sided. Using your logic, a woman should not claim a man unless he's married to her. Which means that she / they should maintain being "single" because her being a relationship with him to you - does not count. So what's the point of being in the relationship? Sounds like youre telling women not to count their eggs before they hatch because there is no ring. A ring does NOT change a person's attitude or actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:51 AM
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A woman is coming on here and talking about her bf. Men, including you are stating that she does not have the "right" to talk about him in such a way - because she is still a girlfriend - not a wife. So you expect women to only talk positively about her man and claim him when he's a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:20 PM
1

Cool, so when you see women telling other women to continue fucking men and keeping their options open while in relationships with prospective men, don't say anything. You're literally advocating for branch swinging
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:33 PM
1

They are in a monogamous RELATIONSHIP. So there is no commitment in a long term relationship? Women can fuck and continue talking to guys while she has a boyfriend because they aren't married / engaged yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:38 PM
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Got it. So a woman shouldn't claim her boyfriend because he hasn't married her yet. Backwards fucking logic on your end
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:21 AM
1

There is no standard. It should be when both are ready. That's why divorce is out the roof and modern relationships are doomed, with all these "timelines" as if everyone is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:03 AM
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No. Two years is not a Forever girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:02 AM
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Lmfao, if a woman said this - you guys would be losing your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:01 AM
1

Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:02 AM
0

So men cannot be high value unless they are married?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:00 AM
3

It's only 2 years. Do you expect women to have unrealistic expectations and get married within 6 months ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:00 AM
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So a woman cannot be proud of her man or call him a HVM until she is married?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:00 AM
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The fact that you said all is important. If you don't like English - just say that. 1). Only want men who want you. 2.) No sex before commitment/no casual sex 3.) Don't be a pickmeisha. 4.) Don't be forever girlfriends/placeholder until his actual dream girl comes/life roommates 5.) Stop lowering standards for ugly and unattractive men. 6.) Stop tolerating men with poor hygiene. They can put the same hygiene effort as women. 7.) Vet men before you let them into your lives. These men are doctile,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:43 PM
3

So only men making 100k are in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:41 PM
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Because the type of man that are willing to abide by all these rules are the type of men who women find too docile, sensitive, or just plain boring, so they won’t date them anyway All the 7 rules - so you think taking care of yourself is doctile, sensitive, or boring ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:39 PM
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This is men thinking that is what a women thinks a HVM is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:36 PM
1

What is the problem of being in a two year relationship with no ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:34 PM
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You weren't specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:32 PM
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You don't seem to like women either , as per your above comment. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:39 PM
1

Still in the angry phase I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:12 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:06 PM
1

You still don't understand that this is based on how the opposite sex selects eachother and the drivers for it. RP tells men THEY fucked up, therefore THEY gave that impression to women to treat them in that way. FDS tells women THEY fucked up because THEY decided and chose to entertain and be with a man like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:06 PM
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At its core, I believe that FDS feels that women are better than men. TRP believes this of men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:34 PM
1

Just like men's obsession to be a beta buxx ......? Both are avoiding getting used by the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:33 PM
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Men who come on here with their baggage and think every women is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:01 PM
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SOME* women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:47 AM
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Lmaoooooo you guys get so defensive while in the same breathe do what he is doing to you to women. If a women responded the way you just did - we would be called emotional. This place is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:45 AM
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No. You turned this into me thinking negatively for some reason about what men chose to do. Go read all the fucking articles you want, if someone has to ability to decipher your interests on what you decide to talk to them about then that's on their right of judgement in social interaction. You want to paint the picture of a woman being wrong sooooo bad. Follow your own train of thought next time and address a topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:04 AM
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You realize the thread you have responded to was how a woman would catch if someone was TRP and she used examples in the language or topics one would bring up as an identifier. Men bringing up 80/20 in today's dating market will be outings themselves as TRP because most men who have already internalized this concept as reality of "win some lose some" are not talking to their dates about the scientific study of attraction. Men who feel they have found some rare secret theory, are the ones to talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:58 AM
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Like you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:18 AM
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Indeed, researching and trying to obtain knowledge about a particular state of affairs is definitely abnormal. Bringing it up to someone you want to fuck about how they chose their partners is. Cool - men search this up and it's knowledge to them but MOST men who ARE searching this up is because they are trying to understand and justify why they are failing. Most are hurt and jaded from their experiences. Which is clear in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:17 AM
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If you're dating someone and they start asking you for commitment, if you're playing around with them, talking to other girls, etc - you've baited yourself out already. You seem to have an egotistical view of yourself by comparing how well you "hide" yourself compared to other "bozos" If you're truly MGTOW or TRP, you wouldn't be dating anyone in the first place. But I guess - here you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:42 PM
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Because normal men who have normal dating lives, and process rejections along with success as being a way of life - isn't going to be SEARCHING up these scientific studies let alone bringing it up in conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:38 PM
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Learn to use what you have. If someone doesn't want you because of your dick size being normal then that's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:56 PM
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4-6 is not bad at all. I've obviously heard of small dick jokes, but women are not out here stating inches. They are just saying SMALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:43 PM
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If you have a micro dick or something that is abnormal, sure. Other than that, learn to use what you got.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 09:41 PM
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So 1/4? Wow what a shame against men and that means ALL women HATE average sized dicks and ALL women SHAME men. I'll repeat: Most women advocate for NORMAL AVERAGE DICKS But men, wrapped up on their dick size, comparing their dicks to porn stars, and wondering how her last ex fucked her is somehow women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:11 PM
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So out the amount of girls your friends fucked or been with one of them said something about their dick. Maybe that ONE women out of many had a preference for a bigger one When you talk to women most do not care in the depth way about dick size than men think they do. When I say "do not care" I'm excluding the exceptions of small dicks/micro dicks that are not in the norm You will also get women who will not want a man who is TOO big and it results in painful sex. Most women advocate for NORMAL …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:41 PM
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Do your friends have average dick sizes? Do you know the size of their dicks? And are those the only women they have ever dated or tried to have sex with in their life? If it's not, you're using minority examples and exaggerating it to all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:35 PM
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Women do care about height, most of the time. Everyone cares about the body of the opposite sex Show me where average dicks are getting shamed on a regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:39 AM
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"If you're below 7 inches you're worthless!" When was this ever said lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:51 PM
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No. Men talk about their dicks and care more about their size then women do since men are constantly competing against eachother and want to be the "biggest" and "best she ever had"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:38 PM
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Leggings as pants as in wearing a top that doesn't cover their ass!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:16 PM
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Omg dainty hands. I really don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:13 PM
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No and it's why Chad = The asshole that men here aspire to be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:37 AM
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Yeap. They get to avoid these men and not fuck or date them, leaving these men even more pathetic and lonely than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:56 AM
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Pretty sure it did. My ex used to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:52 AM
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And why do you not think women feel the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 01:39 PM
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Most of the good looking husband material men ARE married and snagged up quickly. They understand the importance of image and having a good looking wife at home and raising his children. Most men who go the bachelor route do so later on life, once he's already been married and has kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:26 AM
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Well because she probably thinks you're not getting deeper emotionally invested and only wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:25 PM
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Hmmmm this makes total sense. Your own personal opinion, do you prefer to live in "now" or would you hope for as time goes on those answers get mentally checked off in your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:37 PM
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That can definitely be apart of it, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 08:34 PM
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I didn't come here for relationship advice, I broke up with the dude years ago, so you can "ay ay ay" that back up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:47 PM
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Not all men, especially men who are already attractive don't live their life hoping to fuck as many women as they can. It's men who cannot and have not been successful with women or sex that obsess about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:23 PM
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If that makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:30 PM
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Because not all men are casual sex seeking ..... ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:49 AM
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I don't think this is true - people's behaviours do have an influence on attraction. Which is why a woman can become more attracted to a guy over time or less attracted over time, due to being around him. Emotional connection is how someone makes you feel and how you feel around that person aswell. If you are feeling, lonely, unheard, unseen and lacking intimacy then that can change the emotional investment you are putting forth into a relationship. And when I say "lonely, unheard, unseen" this …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:36 AM
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Yeap. Can you expand on your last sentence, that's more so what I'm getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:49 AM
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You're making 0 sense. Make your own post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:03 AM
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I don't require a "deep emotional connection" to sleep with someone, as I'm realistic that most times, deep feelings of love do not happen before getting physically intimate - atleast in my opinion, if there is not a long period of the talking stage. Of course I need to like them, I need to enjoy spending my time with them beforehand, be attactrated to them, etc - not just jumping straight into bed with them. But hey man, maybe you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:02 AM
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.... Did I say I didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:59 AM
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Lmfao No. I was in a long term relationship with the guy. And the emotional connection was there. It FADED. Read the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:51 AM
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Just like you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:04 AM
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What a comeback. Wow so much knowledge such wisdom. Don't hurt yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:04 AM
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That's what I know. Back at you bud lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 02:02 AM
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Yet I broke up with him so him "staying with me" is a mute point. No. There is something called "not always be okay with what your partner does" just like how he could sit me down and tell me something that I've done that he didnt like. Shit is not always rainbows and butterflies. If you think yourself and your partner are fault free and can read your mind, you're up for disappointments in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:59 AM
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And what he "did" can also be what made me drift emotionally then inturn sexually. But go off
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:56 AM
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A conversation where two people are talking about an issue, problem, resolution, solution, to issues in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:53 AM
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No. I'm losing emotional connection. His sexual attraction to me, did not change. His game or his status did not change. How I felt about him, changed due to his behaviour, etc. Like the title of post, you are proving it correct that some men do not understand how emotions, personality, how the person makes you feel has a very important stance in attraction, yes, including sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:51 AM
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What are you on about? When you are in a relationship do you just yell at a person and let them hear your voice?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:48 AM
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That an assumption. A conversation - two people conversing, sharing thoughts and listening intentionally to eachother to hear, not only respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:47 AM
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Girl. You hit the nail on the head with this. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:45 AM
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Agreed on the snowball explaination. Yes, that is usually what happens, it seems males or females. They try to over compensate as they feel the distance, but even if it works it's temporary and at times an even shittier feeling because you know it's not really going to change. Then sex during that time is pretty awful, as you know what it feels like to lose yourself in them and feel that connection but your conscience enough to know you don't feel it. It does feel very empty and as if they are j…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:41 AM
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Exactly - my sexual desire for him decreased over time because of the drifting of emotional fulfilment/needs/etc ... his outer appearance did not change but how I felt about him did Not sure what you're getting to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:35 AM
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you'll happen to lose it when you aren't attracted to him anymore. No. Like my post stated, I cannot and will not deny the fact that my ex was/is still attractive. It did not stop me from breaking up with him and refusing his advances when he wanted to get back together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:23 AM
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You can go ahead and try to explain that one - because either way 'emotional connection' is apart of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:14 AM
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Congratulations! Very cute. I'm happy for you And got it, I guess we feel the same way then. Thank u!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:05 AM
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What is this concept of 'chitchat' you are referencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:03 AM
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Interesting. Thanks for the detail I think this part is what I'm getting but the times that this has happened it was invariably because I build some resentment towards them for some reasson, and that's something that absolutely kills my attraction. I personally feel, women may have a higher tendancy to build resentment faster, especially if her needs / wants emotionally have been communicated. It absolutely kills the sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:59 AM
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But after the emotional connection has established - and throughout time, it starts to drift, could you still then sleep with your partner ? Or it doesn't matter to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:55 AM
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See for me, once emotions come into play and I am starting to feel that drift. No matter how hot you are - I will not want to sleep with you and probably end up breaking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:47 AM
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Says what women ? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:28 PM
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Middle Asian guy or second Asian guy from the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:30 PM
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What? No. Men can easily desire and fuck someone else they have no emotion for, while holding on to emotions for the women he is with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:02 PM
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Well she's just dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:28 PM
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Yeah sure lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:47 AM
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So he finds someone that does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:09 AM
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Please. You want a gf. You just can't get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:08 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:06 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:14 PM
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Hands, ass, calves, shoulders and how he dresses😍 Voice, walk, mannerisms come after - if any of these three things turn me off, I will forget about initial attraction and just not be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:54 PM
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Clearly women disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:57 AM
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You sound like a hater LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:06 AM
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So don't comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:03 PM
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Those "misogynist" men you are talking about don't hide the fact that they do, or that they see women as less as them. They treat them exactly how they feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:33 AM
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Yup lol Whatever he did to get me, works for me. As long as it was genuine interest and genuine attraction - I don't care. The guys who "learned" to be seductive / charming like potentially some of these ppl here - deep down hate women. Hating women is hard to mask at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:35 AM
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but not surprising, considering you are a woman. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 01:06 AM
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They cannot pick one definition to abide by and agree upon. It's actually exhausting to hear them spew this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:13 PM
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I think I'd rather kill myself. But Ty for the suggestion ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:48 PM
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Also, you are annoying and petulant so I hope they ban you. Pot calling the kettle black. Love my supporters. I guess you're triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:43 PM
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Men have the CHOICE before conception, women have the CHOICE after conception and the CHOICE to prevent conception by taking a morning after pill. If you can't understand that then there are bigger things to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:42 PM
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Then I guess reading is hard
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:40 PM
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Men have the CHOICE before conception, women have the CHOICE after conception and the CHOICE to prevent conception by taking a morning after pill. Nature and anatomy isn't fair. This is not a question for PPD ? Because again, it makes no damn sense that it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:38 PM
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This is a subreddit about sex and gender issues. Sex and "privileges" come into play. Can you tell me what the biggest difference between my post was and the post I first linked? Im far from an incel LOL wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:34 PM
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Men taking OFF* condoms during sex. Here is the post of youd like to see it https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/piqk6m/this_aged_well_today_in_regards_to_the_earlier/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Can you tell me how it's not related to sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:15 PM
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👍👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:10 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/pihgo3/why_do_men_take_such_interest_in_avoiding_child/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share So you guys going to remove this too and put it under the abortion sticky ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:05 PM
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It's me seeing my observations of how they have been there, for the past 6 years. And asking about it. So instead of asking me to take out those two simple points or reword these two sentences - you remove the entire thing. Good job. Thanks !!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:04 PM
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You asked about what do I take accountability for. I answered. I don't speak for all men. So every point you speak off about what men in general do is irrelevant Not once did you use an I statement. You said MEN. Speak for yourself then and stop using "adults, children" etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:00 PM
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And I missed the condom stealing thing but how the hell is that relevant to PPD? Do you want to tell me how men not wanting to wear condoms yet men complaining about the inequality of sex / pregnancy / conception / is not related to PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:59 PM
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I don't know what the fuck is going on with PPD but these Mods are not it. Two discussion posts that actually spark good conversation were removed for 1. Men taking condoms during sex was apparently not on topic to sex 2. A post asking men what they take accountability for was a rant. Lmao aside from PPD being infested by tradscons and incels, MODS are on some next shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:38 PM
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Apparently this was seen as a rant LOL .....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:34 PM
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This is not a "rant"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:32 PM
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This is a either a bad faith strawman or you honestly have never come across a better phrased position. People who can have sex are going to have sex. So we are not going to play the game of "absence is key" because that is not realistic or even wanted for both genders in this day and age. Men have the knowledge right now to know that once a woman is pregnant, he does not have the final say. The odds are not in his favour. Men are responsible for societies' woes born out of women unrealistic sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:31 PM
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How? Men say women don't hold themselves accountable for anything. I'm asking men, what they hold themselves accountable for. I don't need to go into details of what I feel women hold themselves accountable for, yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:20 PM

It is so backwards. Leads to the conclusion that they are literally just nitpicking what privileges women have and would like to take it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:39 PM

So do you think you should take it a step further and only allow ppl who have financial stability to have sex as they are prepared for the consequences? Should poor ppl become sterilized? Are you helping to save the lives of children born to parents who can't take care of them and they are subjected to a lifetime of suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:36 PM
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Show me where it is worse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:09 PM

Yet it's men complaining about dead bedrooms - it's men saying women should do their marriage duty and have sex, even when she doesn't feel like it. It's men who are not satisfied with just foreplay, cuddling, etc which is the complaint most women have. And yeah sure lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:08 PM

Yaya more of your tax dollars to spend and more children being born in poverty with horrible parents and will only amount to working minimum wage jobs for the rest of their life! YESSS!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:03 PM

You just said that nobody needs to have PIV sex - this obviously comes from someone who cannot get PIV sex in the first place. You should raise this answer to men and see what they think, since you seem to have personal solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:47 PM
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You're back to this idiotic take of "if women's bodies cannot naturally have abortion then abortion is not a right" Guess what, our bodies cannot do alot of things NATURALLY that has allowed us to sustain the population, cure the sick and fight diseases - is it not a human right to be admitted and cared for in the hospital? Bodies do not magically put themselves back together. Do you believe surgery is unnatural therefore is not a right for ppl who need it ? Women also miscarry, which in your de…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:44 PM
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You should note that they were not. But keep trying and they realized that a lot of guys were dropping out because they were experiencing side effects. The most common side effect was acne, and sometimes that acne was pretty severe. Some men also developed mood swings and in some cases those mood swings got pretty bad. One man developed severe depression, and another tried to commit suicide. Because of that, they cut the study short.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:35 PM
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So the pill that does the same thing to women, that many men rely upon when it comes to having unprotected sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:09 PM
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Vasectomy or male BC. Two things men do not want the risk of doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:48 AM
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How exactly is this off topic .....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:26 AM
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Ok. So until then, men, like the ones in the thread I linked and other men who decide to not take precautions are idiots. Knowing full well the options or better yet lack of options that they have once they made their decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:24 AM
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Alright, so do you advocate for men to be simps and cover all aspects of financial hardship for their children and partner and do you wish all women to be stay at home mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:18 AM
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Very interesting. I wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:12 AM
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The economic state and system of the world does not allow for women to not work and it be sustainable for only men to. A woman being reduced down to her anatomy and possible family planning is not the same in any regard. A pregnant woman is not a disabled nor is she unable to work. Maternity leave has covered the after care of birth - which has leaked into it being Paternal Leave, where men can take off time too. Many companies still will not and do not hire women who are expecting - they just d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:11 AM
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Make up may cover the redness / dark marks but if you have actual acne not just scars from them - you still see bumps of the acne. Along with acne not letting the skin breathe, it can cause even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:50 AM
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Also, it's useless for women over 175lbs. I've never heard this before
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:48 AM
1

Are you asking how women wouldn't know if the condom came off?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:46 AM
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What r u even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:41 AM
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because we all know that men need to hear things from other men. If this ain't the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:34 AM
1

Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:31 AM
2

No. Foundation will make it worse and foundation on-top of acne does not hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:18 AM
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Wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:26 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:21 AM
1

If you read the link, your last point is what majority of the comments are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:19 AM
2

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:15 AM
2

This comment is ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:15 AM
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Because you're still talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:12 AM
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People are human and if they can have sex, they will. Men can wrap it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:11 AM
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THANK YOU HONEY
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:09 AM
1

Ty. I will take this to my grave
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:09 AM
1

Go back to conversation at hand. I'm not going to argue about one fucking states laws when we are literally talking about other places. And until those other places with MILLIONS of other ppl follow suite and majority do, you can have a valid point. Until then you're cherry picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:09 AM
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Not from Europe so try again. And nice recovery for the delete comment because you cannot prove your own point. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:06 AM
1

You must be so bored
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:05 AM
2

Yeah uh - huh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:05 AM
3

You don't think women develop severe depression or suicide? Among women who used hormonal contraceptives currently or recently, the risk of attempting suicide was nearly double that of women who had never used contraceptives. The risk was triple for suicide. The patch was linked to the highest risk of suicide attempts, followed by IUD, the vaginal ring and then pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:02 AM
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So do you think everyone here on Reddit is American? And obviously it would be Texas. Get back to me when abortion is no longer legal everywhere. Until then - your point is hanging onto false hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:00 AM
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Awwwwww coming for a spelling error? Good way to not address the topic LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:55 AM
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Not in my country. Not everyone lives in the states. And until it's BANNED this conversation is still up. But good way to try to deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:54 AM
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Point me to the direction of the side effects BEING worse than what you just claimed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:53 AM
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It literally isn't. And it's not banned right now and ppl are still having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:51 AM
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You can stop spamming. No one is in denial of anything. Refer to my other comment to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:50 AM
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Good thing I don't live in the States. Wanna try again ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:49 AM
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Their choice is before getting the women pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:49 AM
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https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2016/11/03/500549503/male-birth-control-study-killed-after-men-complain-about-side-effects and they realized that a lot of guys were dropping out because they were experiencing side effects. The most common side effect was acne, and sometimes that acne was pretty severe. Some men also developed mood swings and in some cases those mood swings got pretty bad. One man developed severe depression, and another tried to commit suicide. Because of that, they cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:48 AM
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Is this county wide in your country? Because I highly doubt it is. So go mock yourself bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:45 AM
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Maybe where in the backward city / town / county you're from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:44 AM
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It would be nice, but here you are on a debate subreddit that does exactly the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:43 AM
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Abortion is not getting banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:42 AM
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Women know they have options afterwards. Men know they don't. Men need to take accountability and protect themselves from something that is open knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:41 AM
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Great. Didn't men already opt out on BC because of the "horrible" side effects that minimic what women already have to deal with ? And your new article is nothing new. I'm talking about men. Use the link and come get back into focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:40 AM
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Men want sympathy and people to understand that they shouldn't be responsible for what happens after pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:39 AM
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The pill for men was invented but had so bad effects on the male body that it didnt got to the market. I wonder what these "bad effects" were and how it compares to birth control for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:21 AM
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Both had sex without contraception but only one gets to make decisions that affect both for the rest of their lives. That in itself isn't fair at all. Women have the final say at the end of the day. It's her body and due to her anatomy she has the sole and final choice on what is going to happen to it. Men can say it's not fair until they are blue in their face. It's not fair - women get pregnant, men do not. That's nature. What men don't seem to understand is - making sacrifices to continue to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:18 AM
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It encompasses the same thing...... They are having problems with women BECAUSE of their BP thinking - and they try to "BETTER themselves" by adapting methods of masculinity and act accordingly to attract women and do better. - hence taking the RP. They do that by "studying" women's "true nature" and learning to "accept" and move in a way that will benefit them in this market. There is no moving goal posts. You just don't understand lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:23 AM

They didn't share the same underlying premise of being tired of not having attention from women? So go to a strip club and pay extra for pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:14 AM
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No. It's not a small branch. TRP is literally challenging societies views of how women are protrayed and perceived (bluepill) and seeing women for their "true nature" and to act accordingly. The Red Pill is NOT about men's rights nor men freedoms. It's literally about navigating the world with the "truth" of women and acting accordingly. Learn to actually know what you're talking about and not add in your own bs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:13 AM
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Women are not slut shamed? Giving her virginity up to some random ass guy? Women are not slut shamed for having casual sex with ppl outside of a relationship? So men don't have to tell ppl they are paying for sex. The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:38 PM
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LOL stfu, it's about men who are having problems with WOMEN and ways to ATTRACT women by "bettering themselves" Get more common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:50 PM
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So men have a solution and women have a solution. Different solutions none the less but still one. Yet you only wanted to highlight that women can go "have sex with any attractive person they wanted" men can pay for sex. Wtf are you bitching about ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:38 PM

It's valid but my complaining isn't going to do shit. Men are our here killing people in the name incels. I don't have sympathy for them. You guys are complaining about not getting sex or relationships. Wtf do you want ? Wtf is your solution? Force women to be with you? Force women to have sex? Force the dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:34 PM
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Getting an attractive person is getting someone that you want. Wtf? So of course, you have nothing to say about men paying for sex. There is a solution, but men don't want to do it. That's their own fucking fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:29 PM

Well Red Pill is about dating advice. Men here complain about sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:28 PM
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We’ll yes they can have sex with an attractive member of the opposite sex whenever they want. this is your projection that women 100% no matter how they look can and will get everyone they want. Secondly, men can pay for sex. And yes they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:58 PM
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So you think it's worse for men due to that fact that women could just fuck a random stranger and have the virgin issue dealt with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:29 PM
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And men should realize life isn't fair and deal with the hand they were given. You're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:20 PM

And I'm talking about your comment and stating that BOTH genders have it bad in regards to virgin shaming. But I understand that you want to continue conversations shitting on genders and can't continue with insight of a different POV
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:20 PM

Why the fuck would I look up a conversation that you had with someone else? I'm talking to you now and you're talking to me, idc what she said because I did not defend it nor say it. If you have more shit to say to her, then go talk to her. Try to remember who you're talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:15 PM

I guess you have never been to HS or been around enough women to understand this topic. There is a large reason why women, especially younger women lied UP about being a virgin, as not as many men as you think idolize being a virgin. No. Not every single women is going to fuck a random (like a man would) to change this. Stop your projection. Who ever said it PRIMARILY effects women? Virgin shaming on all counts is not gendered. Being a virgin at an older age is looked down upon for ANY gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:59 PM
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Oh so women should be grateful and take it as a compliment / privilege that they are sexually harrassed?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:55 PM
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LMFAO has this been a question that you've asked and a serious topic of conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:54 PM
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And life isn't fair. As technology advances and society chances, other shit will change too. I can complain 24/7 that 30 years ago house prices were drastically cheaper than now. I can complain that what was possible (living on one income) is no longer possible and it's not fair. I don't know why you guys think shit doesnt change. I feel like men have been taught that their life was going to be on EASY mode and now that things are not lining up and they are struggling or not getting their fairyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:52 PM
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Hint: The answer is culture. A culture that glorifies violence, crime, drug use, has a much higher rate of single motherhood now than during the 60s. To quote Ben Shapiro, did we get more racist since all the advancements of the civil rights movement? And if we have, how the heck did that happen? Your uneducated. Have you looked into the reasons for the development of black neighborhoods? Have you looked into the structural oppression along with financial / employment blocking of blacks in histo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:46 PM
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Virgin shaming is real. The MAJORITY of men wirh experience would prefer women with experience, even if it's less than theirs. Men who drool over virgins are the ones who are virgins themselves and idolize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:42 PM
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That if a man is having difficulty in this world, it's 100% his own fault and he can't grump about external forces being at play. When it comes to dating and getting casual sex? That is what men want to protest about? Cut the noise. That gets no sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:36 PM

Leave. She's rude.
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