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CMVcatfishmasc/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 01:33 AM
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Purge week!catfishmasc/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:25 AM
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Question For Mencatfishmasc/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:46 PM
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Not every household has that luxury. Parents need to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:11 PM
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Um, probably at work? You didn't answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:53 PM
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Yup it does force it and that's why even when I was on it, I never put anything into my bio. It felt so weird... Selling myself for shoppers. It was so weird making an ad for myself. Wow... Wait you dated her for 5 years and nothing came from it. She wasn't ready for a relationship after that long?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:05 AM
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Yup it's true. Pretty much how I feel. I think one of the best things about dating before, was the simple act of not actively "looking" for something. When you go online, you have a mindset and a particular goal and weed people out based on superficial data you gather that don't meet your ideals. So different from developing that crush on a friend, coworker, or friend of friends, etc when you're seeing that person in a non romantic action first then it turning into feelings. Online is too straig…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 11:44 PM
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Exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:12 PM
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Yeah, I miss those days. I hope I don't have have to go back online lol it's a dark place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 09:03 PM
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Online dating is horrendous and does a number to mental health - especially those who strive off attention from others. I was thinking about my ex's that I've had and two being from friends of friends. Not thinking of them of "too short, too fat, ugly, don't make enough, not smart enough" just hanging out with a group, getting to know eachother for a while, then slowly starting to talk to eachother more one on one, then hang out just you two, develop a crush then bam you're a couple. I miss the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:55 PM
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LMAO. Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 06:47 PM
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No, 5'7-5'8
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:20 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:55 PM
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Yeap! People don't know how to be humble anymore and just date. Both sides are full of themselves. it's pretty sad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 05:26 AM
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I never said their methods and sentiment towards self improvement was the same. I have repeatedly stated that both of these are in the viewpoint of the opposite sex, therefore their strategies will be different and the understanding of how these are "improvement" is not something that is easily understood. As the advice given goes against the very nature of the other. And like I said before, i never said it was logical. But you cannot deny a woman complaining about a man using her, and another o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:19 AM
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Denial? Acceptance? yet I'm the one to state that women over value themselves and society has done them a disservice by acting as if everyone deserves the best I'm simply stating that women are also having issues due to this need for wanting someone that is above them, which is them miscalculating their value / looks / etc. And it will become an even larger issue if they continue to do so. Which will inturn effect them, as they don't want to "settle". I'm again, saying that this will bite women …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:14 AM
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You guys are extremely delusional so it's worth a try, I feel nice tonight. What he said holds no weight. The underlying premise is the same. Just because you guys view going to the gym as self improvement and women view, having higher standards as self improvement doesn't mean there is no self improvement being done. TRP also advocates to go fuck and embrace casual sex for it aswell. If you don't see how the parallels and how they mirror eachother you are the delusional one. I'm not in FDS and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:52 AM
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Reading is good for you. Get out of your feelings. And denial stage... of what exactly? And that your problem. Like the person below said, you're too close. These are polar opposites working in ways to maximize the potential for what each sex wants. RP does that for the main premise to fuck girls, and fuck as many as they can. It's not to find a girlfriend. Let's be real. It was never for that. They focus on getting into the game of casual sex first, then maybe a girlfriend. If that wasn't the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:40 AM
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The FDS subreddit is still a fairly new, hot topic in Reddit. I don't know when it formed but it was not long ago. TRP has had a subreddit for quite some time now. A few years if I'm not mistaken. I remember reading TRP and finding out about it and the most topics were about spinning plates, demoting women, not being a beta, n counts, colour coordinating risk rates, how to get sex, lifting, etc. Do you really think they got quarantined because they talked so much about their own self improvement…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:38 AM
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TRP presumes the default man is weak and "beta" and needs to build himself up with rigorous discipline, game tactics and personal growth. FDS presumes the default woman is almost perfect and just has to be more upfront with her demands in a man. Men being having a strong lead potential, self grounded and women establishing having standards and boundaries is not new to the dating scene. Both groups are coming to realization of their faults and trying to adjust their scoreboards to get back into t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:59 AM
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Like other men here. You're comparing male improvements to female improvement. You're not going to get the same advice. The faster you realise this, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:44 AM
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Nothing to counter, I agree that most women overrate themselves. I wrote this comment a few days ago I'm simply stating that women are also having issues due to this need for wanting someone that is above them, which is them miscalculating their value / looks / etc. And it will become an even larger issue if they continue to do so. Which will inturn effect them, as they don't want to "settle". I'm again, saying that this will bite women in the ass because if they continue to reach higher and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 12:01 AM
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Doesnt matter. I didn't just say it was logical. They don't want to be "used" again, so whatever they tell themselves helps them in their own way. If they are looking for "simp and beta's" one will catch. They are women afterall. Just like how going to the gym and getting fit but still being ugly and having no social game and believing women love assholes, doesn't make sense. But ppl feel they are doing something better, they are improving The game the opposite sex plays in dating, doesn't make …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:40 PM
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RP can be used for other things, just like FDS can be used for other things. But it all circles around the lack of the right attention from the opposite sex and how to attract what you want. You can tell me until you're blue in the face that RP is about self improvement, it doesn't negate the fact that most people going there are because their having trouble with WOMEN and how to improve it. I'm not talking about marriedrp or whatever other bullshit relationship rp you all want to talk about tod…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:35 PM
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You're again conflating your views of male self improvement to women's. Once you stop looking at it from a close minded POV, then you can understand. Self improvement for woman can simply to be to raise her standards, not accept bull shit from men, not become a "plate" and see her "worth" doing so, builds mental confidence which = self improvement Men circle jerk and hype eachother up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 11:28 PM
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Wow, never heard of that sub. Took a look and very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:57 PM
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My response is below to someone who actually said something worth while to respond to. You can go read it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:45 PM
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So ask a proper question next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:43 PM
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And that your problem. Like the person below said, you're too close. These are polar opposites working in ways to maximize the potential for what each sex wants. RP does that for the main premise to fuck girls, and fuck as many as they can. It's not to find a girlfriend. Let's be real. It was never for that. They focus on getting into the game of casual sex first, then maybe a girlfriend. If that wasn't the case RP men would not be saying "we love sluts, we just don't want to wife them" FDS prom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:43 PM
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Do you think the number of women donating their eggs will ever get to the levels of men donating their sperm?
/r/MGTOW225/02/21 10:31 PM
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It's incredibly baffling and sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:30 PM
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Do you have a question, because you don't understand how they are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 10:25 PM
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FDS and TRP is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 09:50 PM
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Yes you probably would. You would throw out all the pictures and try to erase the memories of your child that you invested in and took care of? Thats a stretch. That kid is always apart of you. You just wouldn't love them in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:15 AM
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You'd probably still love him - just not in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:11 AM
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Yes but that creates a problem for themselves. An infinite amount of attention doesn't keep you warm at night, or give you the family or life you actually want. That's the issue women with this complex are having today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:02 AM
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I agree with the other comment. Are you currently happy in your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:12 PM
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Ah that is what it is called, Princess Complex. Yes it's actually very true. This is where I can side with some of the men on here because society has definitely encouraged and pushed this narrative that every women deserves the best of the best while giving nothing in return. They talk a big game about what they want from a relationship but don't go into about what they are bringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:09 PM
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Being "RP" is an aspect of him. The other things I've stated still stand though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 08:37 PM
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Yea, no shade is being throwing here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:43 PM
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That you haven't settled since and you're happily married
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:42 PM
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It's a problem for one side and not so much the other. Meaning ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:41 PM
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We love that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:20 PM
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But for the ones who do, they wont get what they want anyway so they shouldn't even matter. Or do you think it's a problem because that leaves the vast of "average" men ... Well, here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:16 PM
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You are still married right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:13 PM
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Nah, I just think some women over estimate their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:09 PM
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I don't think it's purposeful. But they probably over estimate what their league is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:09 PM
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It was openly talked about because these are conversations I like to engage in. Gender, religion, society, philosophy, etc. I go for the pretty deep stuff for fun, naturally. Outside of ppl on this sphere, what is discussed here is not the norm. I was already reading about TRP a year before I dated the dude and that's how I knew, eventually conversations get more detailed, I bring up stuff I read, ask his POV share thoughts, and how he perceived certain aspects of life confirmed it. This is what…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:22 PM
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Where has this ever been said ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:07 PM
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Eyes are closed while scrolling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:05 PM
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Yeah they definitely aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:42 PM
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As you should. This is my pov too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:22 PM
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Oh no! He definitely couldn't be red pill because red pill is about not having relationships!! But can be used for relationships depending on the individuals needs for them because there is no real definition of RP but since you guys dated, he definitely wasn't red! Just an asshole!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:49 PM
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Are you being sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:29 PM
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Just to prove the comment under automod wrong. I was sad and lonely and dating down. This is the "RP" guy. Knew from the very beginning he was not my cup of tea but stayed with it, thought I'd love or warm up to him over time. I guess what you guys call "setting" very very stupid. Adding into the mix that he was immature, appeared to be women woke and a complete burden to be around who lacked social skills (it was down right embarrassing at times) I started to resent and dislike him. Broke up hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:22 PM
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Oh no...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:29 PM
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Or they can have different tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:44 PM
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So when men date or cheat on their gf/wives with someone hotter - they are branch swinging too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 05:20 AM
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But adults said that it's a normal boy's behavior and that they do it because they like us. Reminds me of the opening of "he's just not that into you"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:37 AM
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There is no equality in pregnancy. Men don't get pregnant. Just like women have no right to control vasectomies on men. Men should be more careful with who they decide to impregnate knowing that once she is pregnant, she calls the shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 06:49 AM
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Look at poor countries, who still do not have this government. They have some of the highest populations in the world bro, especially in regards to proverty. That's is just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 12:16 AM
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Why do you hate Marx's
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:35 PM
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Show me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:51 PM
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So they want to be fathers to multiple children increasing single motherhood. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 04:14 PM
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It will take you one slip up, to be for abortion instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:53 PM
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Your question is stupid. I've been engaging on this sub for three years and im not a feminist. TRP is about casual sex and spinning plates. How does that fit into this relationship model you have interpreted it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:52 PM
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Ok that is why they call people who have relationships catching oneitus and blue pillers. TRP advocates about sex and increasing your sexual success, not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:31 PM
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I don't think you do. It's either TRP is uniform in its belief system or it's not. People use TRP for spinning plates ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:13 PM
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Because those rubber elastic things don't ever break. Got cha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:10 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:07 PM
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Damn. Then their entire premise of TRP is wrong when they believe AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 03:04 PM
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Yeah that's just humans. I know many people want to (not saying you) but the government cannot control reproduction. People have sex it's natural. And the pooerer you are, it seems the more sex you have. It's life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 09:18 AM
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Men only control the contraception use of condoms, that is it. You cannot want to have a harem of casual sex encounters and also be against the risks that are associated with unplanned pregnancies and accidents that will ultimately leave you, the man, fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 09:01 AM
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So spinning plates is not in the RP manifesto? Got it. My title is a statement. It's up to others to answer the questions accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:45 AM
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Fetus deletus, I'm dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:13 AM
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They really don't. I guess I'll wait for the OG's to join this thread because these kids aren't making any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:10 AM
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And if they wanna get their dicks wet they should want women to be able to abort a kid, if they fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 07:43 AM
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Your last line still doesn't make sense to me. But kk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:59 AM
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Yes. But I'm talking about TRP who are Pro life and feel abortion should not be legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:54 AM
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Is TRP not for optimizing success in casual sex? Or is it for finding a relationship? Which one do you feel it is today?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:52 AM
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If you want to have sex there are risks. Condoms break and I don't know how many men are open to vasectomies just to have casual sex. If they did, this wouldn't be a problem. So you want to engage in the risks of knocking someone up but also taking away the right of abortins that will radicact your risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:51 AM
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Who is gatekeeping? How many posts on here that talk about relationships and TRP get flooded with TRP men stating that these tactics are NOT for monogamy and it's primary to optimize their success for casual sex? So I guess TRP has changed the definition or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:48 AM
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Anything that is posted here about TRP men clearly have different views. Is TRP NOT wanting to engage in casual sex? If they want a relationship, people shouldn't call themselves TRP then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 05:42 AM
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First two were looks match, last two were down. Hella down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:55 PM
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This is what I mean. You guys think party scene is filled with Chad's. My group of friends were not the hottest people out there but they still enjoyed their casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:10 AM
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If this ain't the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:28 PM
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no matter how much woman wish to infantilize themselves in order to paint this bizarre revisionist historical victimhood narrative. You did that say that. And why do you think talking about women's struggles somehow discredits struggling men? You are having a hard time seperating the two. historically it was always the rich vs the poor, the strong vs the weak. And who do you think was the poorest amoungst the poor and the weakest amoungst the weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:37 AM
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I think you're absolutely insane if you actually believe women did not have to struggle or were not victims of anything. That is absolutely bizzare to me, and I'm not even a "feminist" Do you actually think culture and societal norms have NO effect of the collective behaviour of individuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:31 AM
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You said a woman could leave a marriage if she wished to. Wanting to do something and being able to do it, are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:21 AM
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Your aunt was an exception. A very rare exception at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:14 AM
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Divorce has been around since literally the time of the Greeks. So while rape within a marriage wasn't illegal, a woman could leave a marriage if she wished to Do you forget about the social, family, cultural and financial obligations women have/had?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 03:13 AM
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Because you guys are present in those conversations women are having, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 06:21 PM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 06:21 PM
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Do you think women don't tell their friends when they fuck up ..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 02:44 PM
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Not everyone is compatible. For a relationship to work, compomise is needed sometimes. When compromise is rejected and things are no longer working out then it's time for a break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 02:43 PM
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Right. He's asked this question on different subs and the only thing he replied here was a critic of leaving out one question. Just, extremely odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 01:57 PM
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Should probably isn't the best word. More so how it is and how it is not. Ex.Women explaining their experiences and men telling them in their own perspective that they are wrong and it is really xyz. Men attempting to explain women nature, to women. Telling them why they did yzx, who they are attracted to, what they will become, they are whores, they are flesh lights, etc. And you know the rest There is a much more toxic vibe from men to women on here, in my pov. And it's an udder shame as it li…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:26 PM
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That's awfully strange, as when I see comments on here from men it's men TELLING women how they should and shouldn't feel. It's threads like this, that are trying to hear men's pov I see more. I do understand men's POV. What makes you think I do not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:17 PM
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Can you believe women? Can you accept how experiences might shape our views? Can you accept how consistent they are? On the premise of; everything that is discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:10 PM
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seems like you all want the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:47 PM
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Whats wrong with her reply?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:18 AM
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You guys make it hard to tell the difference. Seems like you all want the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:16 AM
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Are you RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:11 AM
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God, what a great way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:11 AM
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No. I'm not. Women are weaker than men. What is one of the primary differences between women and men, that all those questions can come down to. Testosterone. These things should not need to be spelled out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:21 PM
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Idk why you can't comprehend. Do you know what testosterone is and does? And yes. Women still are weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:59 PM
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Because they are still men. With testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:49 PM
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The issue stems from again, you guys comparing paranoid behaviour and paranoid or cautious thoughts that are then translated to self regulating behavior, that has nothing to do with you guys. Being in a self regulated paranoid state the LAST thing someone would want to do is be confrontational - so please, explain the context of these situations. I'm black. I've definitely seen people be different around my brother's, holding on to their purse tighter, isolating themselves to the corners in an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:59 PM
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Ok brother. Because being the weaker sex has no effect on the brain structure itself. Cause and effect they are intertwined with one another. So to say it has Nothing to do with it, is completely incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:48 PM
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Which come from being weaker, therefore having to view and react in the world in a different way. .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:40 PM
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Are you capable of staying in line with a conversation and claims you make? Starting to think its biological. Most women just seem to be prone to fear and more inclined toward flight rather than fight. Now it's There are grown men who are more flight rather than fight and some women who are more fight rather than flight. Being the weaker sex, absolutely has SOMETHING to do with it. And you're foolish to think otherwise, especially coming from someone who attempted to narrow it down to biological…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:29 PM
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I mean, it is paranoid behavior to even care much a guy is walking on the same direction as you unless you are alone and/or risky place. Um... If I'm walking in the dark alone, I'm going to adjust my walking speed if there is a guy or anyone walking in the same direction as me. seen women both adjust their walking speeds and scream "stop following me" in places like crowded beaches, universities and even malls... That my friend is the definition of "paranoia". Tbh I'm not sure what your point is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:22 PM
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Being the weaker sex, how are you JUST coming to this conclusion. Do you ponder why rabbits runaway from foxes? Do you think you should train them to confront foxes instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:06 PM
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You guys are strenching the mental gymnastics women do, subconsciously and consciencely and conflating with paranoid behaviour If I'm walking in the dark alone, I'm going to adjust my walking speed if there is a guy or anyone walking in the same direction as me. I'm not going to turn around and tell the person to "stop following" me. Why does my walking speed concern you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:04 PM
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Do you think every man alive hadn't had his ass kicked? I don't know any man that hasn't been at the losing end of a fight or two. Why don't men live in this constant terror that women live in? Idk why you guys think women and men are the same. The average man is still stronger than the average women. Why the fuck would I risk a fight? It's like a fox asking a rabbit why they keep running away from other foxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:00 PM
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it is fine to be more cautious of men than women (to a certain degree), it is not fine to treat a men like some kind of murderous machine. Where does caution, translate to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:09 PM
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Doesn't matter. You guys are focusing too much on the end. Not when he was trying to implement TRP ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:01 PM
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or when she changes her mind at the last second even though she had sex with that person multiple times before, etc. So just because she had sex with someone before, she.... Can't say no...or not be in the mood....?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:41 AM
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Amen sister lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 05:17 AM
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It's like you guys can't take critisim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:57 AM
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Didn't I say, my experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:54 AM
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Yet some of the things that are stated are what men here say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:53 AM
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If he wants another chance just to "fuck me" then he's a losing battle. Crying over me and getting his mom and sister to call me is not an assertion to fuck. He's not an ugly guy, he can do well with others. But again, people are missing the point of this point. I don't give a fuck about my ex and whether he wants to fuck again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:58 AM
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He followed a structure of guidelines, which came off as cringy and try hard. It was his implementation of TRP tactics that lead to the break up. Goes to list nearly everything that RP says NOT to do. Once I ended the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:19 AM
3

Okay brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:13 AM
3

Where did I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:02 AM
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That's what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:58 AM
2

Which is probably a small percentage, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:58 AM
3

What has pissed me off....?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:57 AM
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Clearly not all he wanted was sex lol But keep thinking so
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 02:57 AM
2

I hope so. I added it to the post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:59 AM
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No, the guy I dated was the only one and I know that as a fact. Like I said, the guys I have dated were already naturally RP or just masculine in itself. The tell signs are when you dive deeper and the nuances that come from actual experiences that shaped them to have their points of view, not those that were read and now being projected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:55 AM
1

Explain ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:24 AM
2

I never said they weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:24 AM
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Sigh. Thank you. Too many people are only focusing on my relationship aspect of this post. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:23 AM
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Not an ego. It's the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:21 AM
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You'd be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 12:21 AM
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No. He was a self proclaimed TRP. Told me all about the plates he spinned and all of that and his premise on women. Which led to our break up. He did not realize those tactics would not work on well adjusted women. When he realized he fucked up he reverted back to wanting a relationship and wanting to work it out. Which I believe happens to majority of TRP men who think these tactics will still work, even when they no longer want to spin plates
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 11:57 PM
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Because he wants to build a life. From what he states.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 11:38 PM
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Ya'll are super weird. TRP is still used with men who want a relationship. If he didn't want a relationship and all he wanted was sex, he wouldn't still be trying to get back together with me, two years later. Which is another reason why I pointed out the fact that TRP seems to fuck up what you guys call "pairbonding" because these guys who still end up wanting relationships use it then fail at that. He didn't win shit because we had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 11:24 PM
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He still tried to implement TRP while we were dating, or atleast was in the stages of it. Doesn't negate the fact the influence TRP had
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 10:48 PM
2

Bro are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:48 PM
3

It's possible to say that men who have just discovered TRP or try to follow it word for word are much more, cringey and unnatural. Like following a script. That's true. I suppose then it's interesting how women, outside of this sub, perceive men and the label they attach to them due to their behaviours and thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:44 PM
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EDIT: I guess I'll make a better distinction between men who have read TRP and tried to implement it in real life situations vs men who don't know what TRP is but learned masculinity via experiences. Reading is good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:28 PM
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This is probably one of the dumbest replies. He tried to be TRP. He was obviously trying to follow certain guidelines that was set up for him and he identified with the people who are on TRP. Where is your reading comprehension?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:27 PM
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This is how these guys think lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:22 PM
11

Honestly. Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:20 PM
12

According to these guys being broken up with but still getting sex, makes you THE man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:17 PM
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It's difficult for me to explain how these TRP men are, but the really do emit (atleast my own personal experience) a very specific vibe about them. I think you summed it up perfectly. They both have seething anger and massive amounts of insecurity just dripping from their pores.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:16 PM
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There's definitely a vibe to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:13 PM
1

No problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:11 PM
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No.. sweety. You're not understanding. His mom wants him to get married and I was close with his sister and she is feeling bad for him. I would never sleep with him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:07 PM
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He tried to be. Do you guys not like to read ??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:05 PM
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I 100% agree. I was just starting to understand it. I would talk to my coworker here and there about it, didn't dive deeper into it. It was break talk fun. I went on a few date with this guy and something felt... Really off about him, but he was a bit awkward so I just decided to give it a go. Jesus. Lord. He started talking to me more about it. Asking me weird ass questions. I saw this sub and started reading on TRP, RP women, etc. And I was like OHHHH. OH. OH.. THIS is what he is trying to fol…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:05 PM
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A very odd one. I don't tally these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:58 PM
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No, I don't regret anything I do. It all happens for a reason. I stopped having sex with him, early on and broke up with him shortly after. His personality ruined the relationship and I ensured he would know that. When I stop ignoring him and he stops writing me letters and his mom / sister stops contacting me, I'll let you know!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:57 PM
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Bruh, why are you asking me about statistics. I don't do homework for this shit. I said my own experiences and within that a few guys that I know. About 10 guys who don't know much about TRP are all still very successful in dating, compared to the 3 that it was brought up in conversation and openly discussed. Who are still failing to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:51 PM
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Yup I'll be the best he ever had and lost. Love to be the memory
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:46 PM
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The men who have not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:44 PM
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Idk. Like I said, the guys I've talked to there was a stark difference. Those who have read TRP vs men who have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:42 PM
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He damn well tried to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:41 PM
1

Ahhhh, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:38 PM
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I love that, that is all you comment from this. Not when I broke up with him and he's still calling me two years later for another chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:34 PM
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Hm can you explain a bit more? Then I'll edit so it makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:33 PM
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If you think being rich or having a plentiful amount of money will save you. Go look at all the celebraties who have killed themselves or turned to drugs or other outlets. So sleep well, youngster.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:26 AM
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Yeah you're young and naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:20 AM
1

Then you don't understand the concept of money. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:10 AM
1

Too much of anything becomes a curse. Or do you not agree with that sentiment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:58 AM
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For casual no. For ltr yes. And since i dont do casual. If she has a lot of partners, it shows me she doesnt value sex, she can like it but doesnt value. Since i think sex is one of the ways a couple can deeply connect, if she doesnt value it, she isnt the one for me. Odd but ok. Yes thats why i always x3 and bribe the bar owners ( you would be amazed to how much they know) I'm going to assume you stay living in a small town.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 01:29 AM
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Pure nonsense, i mean what, should these men just end up alone? Well they are going to if they care so much about asking counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 01:27 AM
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Ok sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 08:39 PM
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Sex is only for relationships. If I don't like you then pussy won't change my mind about it. I don't see what this has to do with anything. I'm assuming you try and "find out" her N before you have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 08:34 PM
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Casual ain't it, but you are a self declared RP man? Would be bad if this wasn't the case in a relationship What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 08:30 PM
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Why do you need to understand the meaning of sex? If you guys are having sex and enjoying it together?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 08:25 PM
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Idc what you link. There comes a time when sex partners is not the only thing on someone's mind. I would assume you are still young?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:47 PM
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Please be 40 and ask those questions to grown people, who have been through marriage, divorce, kids, death, etc and see how quickly they next you. That is childish questioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:36 PM
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What does this have to do with her comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:30 PM
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The one time, is your key word. Imagine anywhere you go, gas station, the mall, picking up food, going for a walk etc. You have gay men approaching you, daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 07:19 PM
1

Lool your entire points are becoming less and less valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:23 PM
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First of all women have sex with men they aren't attracted to all the time So why are men complaining that they can't get sex from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:00 PM
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Where? Women state that they have higher standards and that men should probably get higher standards too, since they are proud that they have to ability to fuck anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:53 PM
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First of all women have sex with men they aren't attracted to all the time. Oh really? Then why do you guys go on about the 80/20.. Would that not be a contraction ? Why do you guys say women only fuck Chad's and average guys are losing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 04:47 PM
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Women are pickier. This is not news...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:33 PM
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Lol he doesn't even realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:32 PM
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Lol is it not you men who say women have it easy and they cannot be femcels? and the only reason women are, is because they are too picky. Now you're saying women are in an unfuckable category? Interesting. What do you mean? Most the women who are quested by RP men for a "fuck" are the uglier, easier, kind of trashy ones. Don't act like RP are hooking up with 5's or average looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:28 PM
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Comparing the low standards men clearly admit to having, it's not the same. How many men admit here that they would enjoy female attention here and there, even if they weren't interested in her? . The only way for you guys to understand is to give you an example of someone you'd never, ever in your life want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 02:23 PM
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No she doesn't lol If she put her hair up in a pony tail shed look 21-23
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 03:05 AM
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To be honest, that entire reply was useless.. Women lie to men that they have a boyfriend because it's easier and that is just it. You are not a woman so you have no idea how these men will react, you can only speak for yourself and how YOU might handle the situation. You're acting as if women have never told a guy "I'm not interested, youre not my type" yet, when they do apparently we are also bitches who can atleast be DECENT in rejection. How many men complain here that woman laugh at them or…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:53 AM
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Wow, how dare you. I'm not a side chick. TALK TO ME IN THE DAY NOT ONLY AT NIGHT.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 03:06 PM
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Let's discuss on my other comment :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 02:55 PM
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Ok. Let's discuss. I saw you comment on a few other things. Stating women should say "you're not my type" instead of "I have a boyfriend" Telling someone you're not my type, leaves more questions then answers. Do you really think a guy hitting on me will just turn around and say "damn, hehe ok!" It will be: why? what do you mean? what is your type then? how can you say that, you don't even know me ? let's be friends Which then answering these questions, can lead to ego and pride being diminished…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 02:48 PM
1

.... What did I do last summer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 02:29 PM
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Omg lying about what !?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 02:25 PM
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Ok I'm not the only one who doesn't understand the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 12:57 AM
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Do you live in a reality where people don't look out for themselves first?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 12:55 AM
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It doesn't change mine. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 12:15 AM
1

Oh my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:57 PM
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You can't be an asshole to her ALL the time, but yeah, the moment she thinks she 'got you' or feels too secure, she's lost interest. Men do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 08:59 PM
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Do you think women don't know about menopause?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 06:18 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:07 PM
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Realistically, a well-balanced mature person can also handle being defiant, assertive, or outspoken at appropriate times also. I also think way we frame compliance as so universally positive to kids is part of why a bunch of these guys think they were taught that women are perfect. No, the girls just got praised a lot for showcasing traits that teachers, for example, value highly because those traits enable them to teach a class more effectively. Yes, girls behaved “better” according to a set of…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 04:22 AM
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This is an interesting take. I do feel school prepares some for desks jobs which I have grown to depise after years of working in admin jobs. The places I truly excelled were the jobs that were technical focused - but still admin (project coordinator) if that makes sense. I recently went back to school to finish my sociology degree and Jesus. 5 years makes a huge difference. Definitely swarmed with women, gender studies off the charts and so much blantant note taking and writing papers. I missed…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 04:18 AM
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Yet you can't answer my questions. Proves me right. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:56 PM
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1000's of years ago .. wow you're out of touch. Like I said, bad male behaviour drives this instinct. With both having all qualifications, would you rather a man or a women be your child's babysitter? If there was a scenerio in a park and you turned your back and your child fell, would you feel more comfortable seeing him/her picked up/comforted by a woman or a man? Don't act like male / child relations are ONLY distinctive because of how women view men. It derives from how men view men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 03:38 PM
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Yeah because it was mostly women who implemented the idea of child brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 02:27 PM
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Racial oppression, racial stereotyping. Tit for tat. The point is "rich black men" still have to deal with racial issues. Them being rich doesn't erase that. Which that guy thinks it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 01:05 PM
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What are you, a white guy living in Asia or any other place? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:26 AM
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Um, tv didn't start the fear. Literal bad male behaviour did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:55 AM
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You guys honestly think it's a tiny amount of men, yet women end up experiencing it many times in their lives over years. Obviously you guys wouldn't know. These people are not targetting you nor are they making the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:52 AM
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What do you mean? It's basically protocol to let your friends know who you're going out with and where. Usually followed by a photo of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:49 AM
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the hot label just seems to be race these days for some reason. The fact that you think this is a "hot label" is very telling how little you know about being a minority. It was ALWAYS the case. Not just now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:42 AM
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White women have it the best. Not black, Hispanic, Asian or other coloured women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:40 AM
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Did you not hear about the retired black baseball player who got questioned if he "out here trying to make a few extra bucks" by a police offer, while shovelling his own driveway. Why? Because he was black, in a rich neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 04:39 AM
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It's very far off
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:44 PM
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I like people to take responsibility. There reaches a certain point where adult realties and your own should start from. Looking at what surrounds us, it to me seems inconceivable because it is plastered everywhere. Good looking men and women, usually getting what they want with ease. The "ugly duckling" having to struggle etc. That is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 04:57 AM
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Yes, when the woman has spent a decade being used as a cum rag by a litany of chads, and decides it's time for some average schlub to betabuxx for her and chad's bastards And this is probably why you don't have a gf. She will never give him anything close to the adoration and devotion she gave to the physically attractive men she used to fuck. He has to beg and bargain his way into reluctant starfish sex, whereas there were no limits to the amount of degrading behaviour she was willing to engage…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 04:50 AM
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Yeah because that's what I said...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 04:49 AM
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Therefore within your own brain, if you have sense means that looking good and being attractive is probably a good thing to do. Sorry but no I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:30 PM
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I went with your stupid reach of people hooking up on the street. And tbh I still don't even know what your trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:29 PM
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It's a question. Like I said - if he did things basics things. It's complete bullshit that the thought didn't process into someone's mind that attraction matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:12 PM
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If you can't see how concepts connects, I can't help you. No one told them being ugly and unkept will get them girls. Therefore within your own brain, if you have sense means that looking good and being attractive is probably a good thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:11 PM
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That just sounds like a strawman tbh. But go off brother
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:40 PM
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Your reply doesn't make sense. Couples hold hands and walk beside eachother all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:40 PM
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All of society, parents, teachers, friends, and the most important one: WOMEN. Yet media, video games, movies, shows, celebraties, etc all show handsome, good-looking men getting the woman. I'm still not buying it. Sorry And to rest of your msg, there is always going to a chance that the guy or girl is going to mess up the friendship. Especially if they have been friends for years, changing into that dynamic is tough when you've never expressed that interest before. Women are usually taken aback…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:39 PM
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In highlighting basic grooming activities, that shows one takes pride in their appearance. If one takes pride in their appearance, it's bull shit that they didn't know being physically attractive was not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:25 PM
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The thing that was drilled into our heads that was important was emotional intimacy and connection. Physical appeal was always seen as a secondary need for women Attraction needs to be there. Emotional intamcy and connection is solely a friendship. And that is what you got. The base is attraction. I again don't know who these people are that told you, her actually liking your face has nothing to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:57 PM
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Ok ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:38 PM
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Yes you establish those things ONCE you KNOW they are attracted to you. If there is no flirting or even lame flirting together, no sexual tension etc then she doesn't like you. You can't try to go from best friend who listens to her stories about ex's and wipes her tears when she cries, to being her boyfriend. Most of the time she is doing that because she is confiding in you as a friend and that's all. If she was interested in you in a romantica way there would of been a barrier to becoming "cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:19 PM
1

If I go to a doctor that is not up to date with current times and medications and I know this, it is mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:58 PM
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A lot of relationships I tried to enter were with women who were already good friends of mine. People I had known for months to years where we got along great. No problem hanging out or talking on the phone. So in my mind, if we were so comfortable together then why not just be a couple? It sounds like you did the typical "let me pretend to be her friend" Exactly. Because I wasn't her type physically. You weren't. She wasn't attracted to you. Which is the base, like I said that needs to be there…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:56 PM
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Settling for anything but "her" type. Women have different types and they all do not belong in the same category. Then you must of not went to high school or college, or been to the workplace. I was utterly shocked the amount of men, who I thought would fit the narrative of "TRP" or "incels" that had girlfriends, and long term girlfriends at that. And these men were not Chad's. Go shopping, go to the mall, go to Walmart idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:49 PM
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This becomes null because not only "hot" guys are in relationships. There are many average men even slightly below average, who in relationships. If you stop comparing instagram couples and celebraties, you would see that. Your narrative sounds like women who go and above and beyond to enchance their breasts and ass because men like it. There are men who also like natural, and all sizes. It's a particular sub section of women / men that they and you, are going after. Personality does matter, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:38 PM
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And if you don't mind me picking your brain, that is something I just don't understand. When I walk around, go on Facebook, see people on the street. There are ugly people matched with ugly people, fat with fat, punk rock and other niches paired up, etc. Why are these men focusing on the top? When there are SO many at the bottom that prove it otherwise. It makes me wonder what type of women or relationships they are fantasizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:19 PM
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No, I wasn't very observant and why should I be? Why would I trust in my inexperienced eyes and the few situations I lived instead of trusting in the adults around me that are supposed to have my best interest in mind and have way more years of experiences to learn from? Because getting advice from people older than you about your reality knowing, that they have a different lived experience is not what you base your life off of. I learned this, very early on, especially in the midst of a changin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:16 PM
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An enhanced amount of effort is a starting point. Especially if they know, they weren't graced with prince charming looks. They know they will probably have to exert a bit more effort than the better looking guy. And that is life, it's not a just world. Luck is huge but I also solace in creating your own luck to a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:11 PM
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No, I don't think we live in a just world. But I find it ironic that many people who couldn't care less about their own appearance and personal growth just expect women to like them, because their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:05 PM
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By the age 25, if you didn't realise throughout university/college or highschool that it was decent to good looking guys getting women, and actually presenting yourself in a clean, manner and being friendly was important then I'm sorry to say that you weren't very observant. Or in touch with the reality around you. And it seems like that is a common trait amoungst men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:04 PM
0

Ok and how old were you when they said this? Because this sounds like pre-highschool
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:54 PM
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All your life as a guy you're told women don't care about sex (looks). They want relationships. They want a boyfriend. Someone nice to hang out with and go on dates. Someone to buy you flowers and gifts. Someone to make feel you feel special. So what advice did they give? Be kind. Be respectful. Take your time. Get to know her. Be her friend first. Don't push for sex. Buy her gifts. Make her feel like she's the only girl for you. Don't make her jealous by seeing other girls. Be faithful. Be a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:50 PM
1

They really told you being ugly is the way the get girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:47 PM
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Then she should be disappointed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:36 AM
1

Yet most women have a story.... Hm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:08 AM
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For some people this is different. The act of pushing a baby out can result in tears, or lacerations that a doctor has to do. This can effect the functionality of the vagina, therefor affecting sex life. And so many more. You should do your research before you speak on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:06 PM
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Women do not put their body their bodies at risks? There are no changes that womens bodies go through during pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:03 PM
1

It's either you know what Chad characteristics are, or you don't. So what are they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:03 PM
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otherwise, it's an irrational fear and is nothing more than paranoia. So like TRP and relationships/marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:00 PM
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Almost every guy I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:56 PM
1

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:53 PM
1

But we're talking about attraction. Most men will get turned on by an attractive person. It's a physical reaction. Most women will still not get aroused by an attractive person if how he makes her feel, is non existent. The guy can be ok but if he makes her feel good, she will become aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:40 AM
1

Most of the time when men cannot get hard it's due to mental blocks. But usually they can get hard from a girl feeling them up, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:28 AM
1

Bs. What is Chad characteristics?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:52 AM
1

Men get hard off of anything that they feel attracted to Women don't get wet like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:51 AM
1

So why are there so many ugly ppl walking around with equally ugly parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:47 AM
1

Fat people are usually with other fat people....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:45 AM
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The 20/80 rule that is used is what MEN perceive it to be. She's entailing that her 20/80 is not the same as yours. Her top 20 could be apart of you believe 80 is. Everyone goes for their best option. How is her op wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:36 AM
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They have female privilege because men don't care about anything else but looks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:26 AM
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She is a fraud. Video calls are #1 red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 01:22 AM
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I mean isn't that was FDS is behind all the other delusions? Admitting they invested in wrong men and are trying to find ways to make it not happen again?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 02:06 AM
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Of course. After I announce to FDS that I leveled up and you're going to marry me in a year. Lol it was fun but incels came out full force
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:54 AM
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That is where I am at. I believe in gender roles too, masculinity and femininity and they can definitely live in harmony when you know how to utilize them efficiency. I stumbled upon FDS and I really can't stand it. Too toxic for me and some are far too out of reach with reality. I would probably get banned too if I started commenting. Have to take some from each but never get emersed in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:28 AM
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Yikes lol They just like to get off on eachother. But in the same breathe claim women are crazy and emotional. It's ok. I'm sure women aren't lining up for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:19 AM
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Nope. But too many men in here insist they will never pay for a date. Seeing if you were one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:12 AM
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Bro all she is saying is that looks was not the main factor that drew her in to her husband. It was conversation first. Once conversation picked up - they probably exchanged photos. Him being attractive to her, was just the icing on the cake. She never said looks don't matter either - but she's explaining the premise of attraction through mind / personality first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:01 AM
1

So do you pay on first dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 12:49 AM
1

He always responds to women with "woman hates menzz!" Someone one must of traumatised him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 12:37 AM
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A gay man trapped in a woman's body? Are u friends with many gay men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:50 PM
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I'm getting something much deeper from your post and some of your replies. If you and your wife have a great relationship together and with him individually I think he will be fine. It is actually the mother that create momma's boys. It's mothers who cling to their children and mothers who still want to feel useful that they do not let their son grow up and continue to baby him so he becomes dependant on her. If you find a mommas boy, you'll find a crazy, obsessed mother who is judgemental as fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 10:56 PM
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What kind of black women are you around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:05 PM
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Most black women you know are racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:05 PM
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Depends on the height.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:46 PM
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Dead
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:36 PM
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Doubtful for majority of relationships. I see so many Asian couples and they are both short af
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:02 PM
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I don't know what that means tbh but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:10 PM
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Good dad. I agree wholeheartedly with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:20 PM
2

Interesting. Okay, thanks for the honest reply. What is the biggest obstacles for you for attaining what you want? Sometimes I'm not sure how true flairs are. Are you a virgin, if so how old are? Don't say you're a waste of space. I'm sure you're doing something positive with your life. Are you working? Have friends? Personal hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:16 PM
1

Ah true. Are ppl open to meeting up in your area?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:45 PM
1

Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:33 AM
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Which is why I'm asking you - where have you been looking. The females you guys seem to speak on, do not appear in the circles I have been in and am currently in. The women I know actually go against majority of what you guys say to be true. I comment with those replies, because I'm constantly hit with a rebuttal and if someone doesn't open their mind to other viewpoints then where is the hope for that individual? If you cannot phantom that there is a reality aside from your own. I am open to he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:09 AM
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I said I could be wrong and I'm asking you where you have been looking. Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:49 AM
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If you're going to reply, reply in a cohesive manner. Don't seperate "come on to my posts and make comments that have nothing to do with the topic" it's not two seperate things. Your initial comment was nothing but hostility. They're not assumptions at this point. Your complete lack of reading comprehension tells me all I need to know... And this must stroke your ego. Wow what a burn. Did you get hard? Gaslighting, lying, complete and adamant denial of reality, constant shaming tactics, conflati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:48 AM
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Not true. From what I have seen. But I could be wrong. Where have you been looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:32 AM
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The vagina is self cleaning. Nobody should have a foul stench. If they do, they are partaking in bad hygiene. This is female vagina health 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:23 AM
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Nah, you're just hooking up with girls who have bad hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:19 AM
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So I love how you hate bullies and idiots, yet you're putting me into a box, coming onto my post and make comments that have nothing to do with my topic, call me names, stereotype me and try to make assumptions of my intelligence... Very very interesting. I already told you im not BP or a feminist. If you can actually hold a decent conversation, you'll find my ideas align with both RP and BP. I don't label myself as one or the other. Just because someone has the mental capacity to understand bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 05:01 AM
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Like when? Ok... point out any instance where I hold any hatred for anything but feminism, bullying, and stupidity. You starting this conversation bringing up feminism when nothing I said implied it. Reality is hostile to women apparently. But go ahead, prove me wrong, the gauntlet has been laid... Um read your reply and tell me where that coincides with my post and anything else I have commented on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:47 AM
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I already told you I don't bully ppl. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:45 AM
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Nah sorry I don't fit your narrative. I don't give a fuck enough to talk about ppl behind their back. I'll say something infront of you if you're annoying me and that's about it. I'm not with the drama and gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:42 AM
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I've never bullied anyone irl actually. I made it an action to make friends with the outcasts or ppl who were bullied back in HS and university.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:36 AM
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Um the projection is real. I'm not a feminist nor BP and I'm open to conversation. It's men like you that hold this hatred that make it impossible to even have a conversation lmao. Hence your jaded and hostile replies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:34 AM
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Unfortunately you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:32 AM
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Coolio
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:23 AM
1

Strawman .. yah ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:23 AM
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Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:18 AM
1

Dead. What's wrong with Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:13 AM
2

You should! It's nice to have a written memory to go back to to see how much your thought process has changed. And if it hasn't, motivation to really get to the core and heal. Ah I see. Did you learn anything from that though? Thank you. Yes it was. But I actively choose to remind myself I am not that person anymore and I also don't let it define me. I learned and overcame. Another thing that seemed stupid at the time but I'm glad I did it, was to not hold new ppl responsible for my past hurt. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:04 AM
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I'm truly sorry to hear that. I'm glad that you got on your own two feet though and started the way of improving. It's impressive and not many people can or even try to do that. It's good that you remind yourself of it. I do know it's tough tho. Those thoughts always come and circle back. You may not be into it, but have you tried meditation and writing? Also, Have you ever been in a LTR before? Picking myself up after some abusive situations and horrible self harm actions that I did to numb mys…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:48 AM
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Hm. I had that feeling to - when I was unhappy. I had to remove myself for a while to get back to reality, then join back when I could no longer take things personally and engage properly. Why do you have an injury? What is your story.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:35 AM
1

Interesting. What do you teach your daughter about relationship dynamics?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:32 AM
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That makes sense. I was usually the giver and had to stop myself actually, when I realized my ex was too deep in TRP to "give" anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:31 AM
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Most men end up becoming "beta" providers anyway when they get into a relationship. How does a man stop himself from doing so? I'm genuinely curious, as you even states that you'd spend money on someone you're dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:25 AM
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So do you have actual experience in being a beta provider, if so what is your story?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:14 AM
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Yeah I had a coworker who would talk about these things with me. So it was interesting. I'm not a teenager tho haha 27. I find it great that men have had that community. I do wish the ones who actually represent it, where the ones on here so it would be possible to hold a decent conversation. Yeah, been happening since 2017. I do find many of the Indian men that do flood this - are usually introverted that also do not want Indian women. They idolize white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:12 AM
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No man could fuck the amount of sick, degenerate, desperate whores we have masquerading as "normal women" in the West. This really isn't my observation. Is it that difficult to find someone who is not obsessed with social media or desperate? But they are suffering. Note many of the posts on this very sub. In fact, just check out this sub's rules and imagine whose feelings they are designed to protect. How are they suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:02 AM
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Why are women So obsessed with MGTOW? The only reason I know about MGTOW is because men keep talking about it. are mainly now Indian simps and Incels. Cool. Didn't know that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:00 AM
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Tru dat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:59 AM
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idk, a lot of women seemingly come here just to post condescending gotchas and/or mock them and add to the negativity. I don't think of them as gotchas. I think of it as sharing a different experience then the men here have. There is no hope to get a relationship. Well obviously the not giving a fuck is a lie. If that were true there would be no negativity. Why is there no hope? Aren't you a FDS member tho? Never in my life have I been.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:58 AM
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For me, I actually want to share my stories and real life observations and experiences. It gets shut down quick by men who are not open minded. That's what lead me to the observation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:55 AM
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Werd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:50 AM
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You're not fucking these women anyway nor would these women want you lol. So they are not suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:48 AM
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It gets to a point where these men are extremely serious and sad about their lives. So if they are so disheartened with their reality my questions again are. Why are you in a space that is the breeding ground for hating women if you want a relationship And if you hate women, why are you in a space that talks about women 24/7 if going your own way is truly is what you represent. This is not a complaint. This is a genuine question for the motives men have that are truly unhappy about their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:46 AM
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Again, if that what is what you get from this, there is no personal growth for you. There is no hypocrisy in questioning or pointing out someone else's demise. It's called awareness. If you reach self awareness then you'll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:41 AM
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Because it's entertaining, for me and it's eye opening. For myself personally, it's to counter the arguments most men have on here about women because it truly does not represent the men I have in my life and my own life. For the women you described - they have a life to go back to. It seems these men do not. It's cool to challenge people who have such a warped, one sided mindset. But it's get to a point where these men actually have 0 hope and just spew negativity. So it gets back to my point o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:40 AM
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I'm on here for entertainment. Nothing here represents my real life situations or experiences. For the men here, it truly does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:36 AM
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I love it too, but I know what I want. This is entertaining for me. But it's clear some men here are actually truly living a very sad life and take majority of this all personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:35 AM
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By calling them used up whores and are only good for pumping and dumping?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:34 AM
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If the exact point is to go your own way - why are you not going your own way? You're complaining about complaining If that's what you take from this, there is no hope for ya'll. My point is go and do something useful with your time. Brewing negativity is toxic. Especially when you have claimed to reach some sort of self enlightenment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:33 AM
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So go your own way. Why are you sitting here obsessed with the things you can't change. Leave it behind and live your own god damn life. Isn't that the point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:28 AM
1

What kind of women do you surround yourself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:15 AM
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People are drawn to the unknown. That's not news.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:06 AM
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Oh shut the hell up lol. Violence is inflicting physical pain and or/injury on someone. You don't think inserting a dick or object into a vagina that is not wet will not cause tearing? Ripping? Or physical pain or injury? Sticking a dick in your ass isn't equivalent to sticking a dick in your pussy. The former is is painful by default, the latter isn't. A vagina is designed to take a dick. Just like sticking a dick in a mouth isn't violent. You're honestly fucked. Being unwantedly penetrated is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 12:44 AM
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And rape - is the action of violent sex. I don't know what you don't understand tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:46 PM
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It actually is EXACTLY like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:43 PM
2

This is smart! Thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:37 PM
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Rape vs consenting sex, can be a form of violence. A guy sticking his dick in your ass as your pulling away from him, is it not violent to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:36 PM
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Rape is a form of violence, is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:31 PM
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Fantasy is a fantasy. Not real life. How many men get pleasure from violence? There are sports where people get beat up as a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 11:29 PM
1

Wow. Disgusting. I hope women never touch you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:01 PM
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Go buy him a lap dance and pay a bit extra. Or go to a rub and tug.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:59 PM
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So just have sex with someone she's not attracted to to make him feel better?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:52 PM
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Exactly. And how does he know that? Rape is much more common than you men think. But you want to sit there and act like most women lie. Most women just do not report it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:35 PM
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Marital rape is a form of rape. He says rape rarely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:30 PM
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Known many girls that have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:48 AM
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Yeah because marital rape isn't a thing. You guys are sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:42 AM
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Are you crazy? Most of the rape victims I know we were women who were sexually abused as children to young adults. These were not reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:41 AM
1

These last two examples are exactly why you need to watch those videos ???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:38 AM
1

So that's why you ask age. I don't understand how you asked her out on a date and didn't even get her basics down. That is being a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:36 AM
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Some women can USE it as a scam. Like other fucked up ppl in the world. The woman who would try to use it as a scam, wouldn't be looking at you to devise her plan. You're a nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:36 AM
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Idgi why don't ppl like her...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:21 AM
1

Then who are you going to blame when she divorces you and takes half of your hard earned income?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 07:16 AM
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Because the other girl can never want to be a mom or have strong family values
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:58 AM
2

Good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:55 AM
2

Not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:57 PM
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Not today.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:55 PM
1

Well theres obviously more issues wrong with your relationship than you doing housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:20 PM
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What do you not understand? She's basically saying it's almost half. Almost half can be used in all contexts bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:18 PM
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Lol what kind of relationship dynamic is this, that the man is making most of the money and the girl is some part time job having teenager working DT for fun and you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 10:50 AM
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"putting women on a pedestal" How so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 08:59 PM
1

So what else were you doing during those times?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 08:53 PM
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Don't men want a "used up whore" for casual sex but want a female virgin or low count or "good mother" for long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 08:43 PM
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These are the same men who are upset when women seem to also have a different standard for men they end up marrying or having families with. If you have a set of standards for only fucking - why are you upset when women do aswell ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:32 PM
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I opened my OP with "THIS IS DIRECTED TO THE MEN WHO THINK HIGH N WOMEN ARE ONLY FOR HOOKS UP" if you're not one of those men, why are you talking? The issues arise with conversations that are had here. Like I said my OP was very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 05:17 PM
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I'm not talking about myself. I'm talking about the discussions here. And the disgust men have while they are do the same thing they think women do. My op was pretty clear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:34 PM
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Men have relationships with high N woman all the time. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:30 PM
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What.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 04:17 PM
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can't believe that a man would admit to this without shame, even on the internet. Some men don't care. It's not a sign of "low value" Also if the relationship went south and you know, she took the time to heal from her past relationships then it's not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 12:57 PM
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Honestly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 08:04 AM
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So you're telling me that parents won't feel a loss if their child died because they have more than one? So each child gets less and less love than the others? Get out of here. You're clearly not a parent nor raised around healthy children/parent dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 07:36 AM
1

Wow had no idea you were 54! Amazing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:46 PM
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Oxytocin is also released from breast feeding. Does a women lose her pair bonding with her children, the more she has? Are you going to stop your wife from breast feeding your kid because they are taking up her oxytocin and there will be no more left for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:03 PM
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Oh god.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 04:01 PM
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Um, no one else's shit - other than his own. Is also a very strong possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:27 PM
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For both male or female. I could not imagine a 35yr old man asking me how many people I had sex with. I'm 27 and I stopped having those conversations when I was 24. Not because mine is high, but who gives a fuck lol. If I'm interested in you, obviously you're attractive and I'm going to assume you have a past, whatever it is. I'm not going to make a conversation about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:52 AM
1

The older you get the more awkward this conversation becomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:42 AM
1

How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:12 AM
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Women already do this yet men cry because women are not honest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:11 AM
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She is asking the question in the sense if you are ALREADY in the relationship and you find out later. Would you break up because of that even tho relationship is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 12:27 AM
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Idk what type of women would incriminate herself to a future partner or even bring up sexual acts / situations that would make you gauge her sex count. Do you really think you're doing to hear stories of individual men? My god.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:24 PM
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It seems like relying on someone to self incriminate themselves is stupid. But go off
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:15 PM
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Ok. But you didn't NOT say that wasn't the only reason. Look at your answer, it seems like you thought that was the sole cause. And at the end of the day, how are you men even going to know? All those other things you just listed are attributes you can simply tell a person. Ncount is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:14 PM
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Like Smurf said below, you ex wife was clearly scum and a bad person. You cannot blame her past for everything that ended up happening in your relationship. I know someone who was on the brink of divorce and almost cheated on her husband. Her N count was her husband only. Lower n women are usually more religious and conservative. They probably hold on to relationships tighter out of shame and guilt associated with divorce. Not because they are wired differently due to sex. If you're not religiou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:44 PM
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It's like asking a women's age. It's no bueno. I did that to my mom for her birthday (asked her old is she now) many years ago and my pops almost knocked my teeth out! Lol wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:01 AM
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But didnt you just say men don't ask? How does that make him low value? Because he doesn't shut up long enough for her to incriminate herself? Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:00 AM
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It's a question of is it a logical preference to have? Well, if you're a guy and you don't want to get divorced, cheated on, or be a victim of paternity fraud then you better take your woman's n count into consideration before you marry her. Eyeroll. If your friends boyfriends/husbands haven't gotten cheated or divorced by them this point is invalid. Character and how she acts to HIM is the most important
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:57 AM
2

But how would you ever find that out if you don't hit her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:37 PM
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Is there any other way to determine loyalty better than previous experiences? You just explained single behaviour. Who does she have to be loyal to while she is single? If she's a past cheater then that shows disloyalty. And how about getting to know the person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 07:03 PM
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So if she came from an abusive relationship - got strength to leave and start new and tells you about it. You would want her to be ok with you slapping her in the face because her ex once gave her a black eye?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:58 PM
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Tbh I read all of this and I still don't understand. So you want someone who protrays being sophisticated but....doesn't see herself as it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 06:50 PM
1

Sounds like a black mirror episode
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:06 PM
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Ok but where do we draw the line? Men who profess AWALT are very very quick to disassociate themselves from generalizations which is quit hilarious to me. Do you believe in AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 03:01 PM
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It is entirely subjective. How could it be otherwise. An arsehole is any person you deem to be an asrehole. Ding-ding-ding Men are asking women why they like assholes. What kind of assholes are they asking about? We don't know. Because we don't classify assholes like you do. How can you ask someone a question and not provide your own subjective definition of what you are asking, then get mad when they explain their own, subjective answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 02:34 PM
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Ok and now would this guy be perceived as a Chad or Alpha? Probably not. But is he not essentially meeting girls, fucking them, then it doesn't work out with them? Yes These are majority of the guys women hook up with in the sense of casually dating. Not the top 20% only. Not only hot instagram model Chad's. Normal men who are dating around. I thought it was interesting to point out that factor that is used again and again by RP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 02:27 PM
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You honestly sound like a victim of abuse. What? And if I was does that make you feel good about yourself? How on earth could you say it is complicated to say you do not like arseholes. Lol if people came on here saying they don't like assholes, how many times will they be hit with insufferable men who then posts statistics? Women cannot speak for what other individual women like. Another thing is, what is YOUR definition of an asshole? If it's a guy who is attractive, treats women like disposal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 02:19 PM
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Because you think you're asking a simple question and you're not. Like she pointed out, women are not as simplistic as men they do not classify the gender as Assholes Vs Nice guys. Men may be ok with classifying women as: hot vs ugly, fat vs skinny, hoe vs virgin. Because majority of the time the men here don't care about anything else. So if we asked you that question, the answer is simple: hot vs ugly - obviously hot, don't want an ugly girl Fat vs skinny - dick goes hard for skinny not overwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 02:07 PM
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These comments are what majority of the men on this sub are saying? Yet they all proclaim to be nice guys, bitter over their failed relationships or sexless youth days.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 01:56 PM
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She's saying that being an asshole is not the only relevant factor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 01:53 PM
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What does this have to do with my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:12 AM
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100% Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:58 AM
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That just sounds like the fat and rich kid from Charlie and the chocolate factory. Spoiled brats who can't even acknowledge when they are happy because they are constantly comparing themselves and want more and more. Sounds like an insecurity problem. What your responder is saying is that her needs WOULDNT "already" be met if she got UPSET about finding that out. If her needs WERE already met, then who gives a fuck? Better is subjective to the person and their needs and wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 12:58 AM
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She's not being dumped if she wasn't seeing the guy as being with her in the first place bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 11:18 PM
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yeah which is why I bring it here, they are here too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 04:42 PM
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I'm not old and I don't have anyone pumping and dumping me lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:50 PM
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So men need to realize they are not in a better position as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:46 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:45 PM
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Definitely not very common. Women don't like younger men for a variety of reasons: they're less mature, less manly, less experienced, less financially stable, etc. The only women who actively date down are those that potentially have mommy complexes and want a baby man to take care of. Sex. Why do you think cougars are a thing? That's generally true. Women have the advantage while they're younger but that dynamic flips as they get older. Older men have more of an advantage than older women do, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 07:04 AM
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Oh please. Men bash on women repeatly on here about how much they age better, have better prospects and women end up sad, dick swinging, old and easy if she is past the age of 30. And if she is getting laid it's because the MAN is looking for a simple fuck and she will be consistently pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:51 AM
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And so are women for men they want fuck. What a shockeerrr
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:44 AM
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10 years is a large gap. The age gaps you are taking about are not large. The older women in the scenario are more likely looking down because they have no available men in their age group. Or because she wants to and has that choice? Men seem to forget that even though a woman gets older, there are ALWAYS older men who will want her too. They are not restricted to "men their age who are going for younger women" she will always be a "younger" women to someone. Can't say as to what "norm" you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:36 AM
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Are you insane? Go look at that post about women and the wall. Men constantly try to drag women for aging and being easy as she gets older.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:19 AM
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I stated large age gaps in my post, for a reason. Men here seem to think the norm of 40yr olds pulling 19-24. Even 35 year old men are dating women younger than them, so women in that age bracket will be left out unless they -drumroll- go for men that are older, or, if they can’t find any older men, use younger men for the sex and companionship. This is obvious and what I have been saying. Men seem to shame women but don't realize that most times women are still going to be revelant to men older…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:18 AM
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To be honest, I'm not following your thought process. Men claim women are easy as she gets older because she lacks male attention - so she will give it up to anyone who bats in her direction. This is a shaming tactic. Men feel they have the upper hand because as women are getting older, he feels his dating pool is opening up and going backwards - he can now get younger women. And feels that hers is shrinking. Men need to realize that MOST times with a large age gap the older they get and the you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:14 AM
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Well tell that to men who try and shame women for being "easier" as she gets older due to lack of options. Yet feel they are living life because young women want them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:03 AM
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How do older men have "better" options
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:01 AM
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Age for the most part stays relative. Men +10 older than her while she is nearing 35+ are absolutely NOT successful with 19-24yr olds for the most part. Those men who are older than her probably won't give the same lay that she wants, if she is having fun with young men - it's probably because the people her age have issues getting it up or simply put, she just doesn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 06:00 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:57 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:57 AM
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Men try to shame women as if they are not easy for younger women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:31 AM
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With the lack of comments on this post. These guys who are so happy to shame women for being "easy" didn't realize it's going the same way for them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:00 AM
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With the amount of guys who solely look at women in the way of "decline and easy" you're fooling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:57 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:57 AM
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Ya'll should stop thinking youre in a better position. Because you're not .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:55 AM
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My point is. Those young women who they feel so happy to have - are most likely using them and as these men get older, they become easier to get with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:40 AM
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Men shame women for being easy as they get older. Yet fail to realise they are easy for young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:32 AM
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This didn't challenge anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:27 AM
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She wants to get in bed with you. There is no game of being easy or hard
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:24 AM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:23 AM
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It's all over this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:23 AM
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My ex did this. Men do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:20 AM
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So why is there shame of being easy associated with older women hooking up with young guys, from men? If it's something she usually does. She's doing it for a reason not because no one else wanted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:13 AM
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So are you agreeing with me? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 12:07 AM
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Lol very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 11:46 PM
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Having sex with an experienced woman who isn't looking for anything from you, she will ensure she cums. Which is why older women have a higher satisfaction with sex - they are over finding out what their body likes. They know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 11:32 PM
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These men talk about women in terms of shame. As if they are better. My point is, they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 11:30 PM
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Yikes. I use a sunscreen infused moisturizer but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 06:21 PM
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Because why would they.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:30 PM
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I'm not American :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 08:46 PM
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Yea which is like a fraction. So I still got my answer bruh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:52 PM
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Hormonal IUD can achieve the same effect as oral contraceptive at substantially lower doses to minimize systemic hormone profile effects. There will always be side effects when adding horomones to the body. Each woman will experience each one differenly there is no "less likleyhood" due to the amount of horomes present in them. And IUDs have been known to dislodge, which causes extreme pain. non hormonal IUD has minimal little or no effect For some. Others experience heavier and more painful per…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 04:55 PM
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Ok but who said they should also learn more about sex at that age? It can start from grade 8 to grade 9 - entering into highschool where horny teenages will be running rampant. so they have to get in front of it because there's no point in telling you about periods once you've had a couple is there? Yet you don't agree about teaching teenagers about sex and issues that may arise from it, before they start. The issue is that most people are having sex before this information is taught to them pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 03:11 PM
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Are you mentally unstable? All I stated, which is the trut, that young women don't really know shit about their bodies - which means you have women growing up and not knowing they could cum or even know how. Teaching simply that women do in fact experience orgasms NOT only men, may open women to feel mor comfortable about their bodies and sex in general. That's not a hard idea to grasp. Why the hell do they need to talk about 'long term effects' of STD's. They focused on NOT GETTING ONE IN THE F…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 03:05 PM
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We are already having this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 01:51 PM
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Good for them. Like I said generally speaking US and Canada are depicted as Western Civilization. Just as I'm sure you're not educated in Canadian history, I have not yet picked up the desire to learn more in depth about Europe or Australia yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 01:49 PM
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I'm from Canada. Just as you seem to forget about Canadians since, some Canadians would also categorize US and Canada as The West, or according to you it's 1% of ppl on the internet lol - we do forget about the other places too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 01:09 PM
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The pill no, IUD maybe. Um what do you think the difference is? Messing with a teenagers endocrine system and fertility is dangerous especially during puberty. If you encouraged your teen son to take steroids you would rightfully be looked at as an awful parent but somehow it should be considered normal to fuck with your daughters hormones? Birth control does not effect fertility. Your education is off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 01:05 PM
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This makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 01:01 PM
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Western civilization here, is largely depicted as Canada and US. I don't really care much about Geography tbh so I must of forgot that. At the end of the day, ppl are understanding my question aside from ppl who seem to be from the other places I did not mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 01:00 PM
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I didn't say Sweden was the West. And no, I'm from Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 12:54 PM
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I believe it's the insertion of an object into the vagina that makes it uncomfortable for parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 12:53 PM
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Honestly. I didn't even respond to his remarks. No time to get into that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 05:01 AM
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Did I say to outright teach young girls how to cum? All I am saying is that women - who have a much more complex genital area then men, do not get proper education about it. How about starting that the vagina is not the entire genital area? How about teaching about different types and what to expect for menstruation? How about teaching children about discharge and their ovulation cycles Or about moods that accompany their horomone change Or natural fertility tracking - Or STDS that may have long…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 04:48 AM
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That's a whole lot of talk highlighting not much. Who said anything about starting at 11?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 04:43 AM
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Goodluck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 04:43 AM
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I'm considering it The West, aside from Australia and parts of Europe which I'm sure people from there can also chime in. It's not that serious. The western countries all face a lack of sexual education while being developed countries
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 04:42 AM
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And they are going to know the name.....how?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 03:32 AM
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Canada and America.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 03:25 AM
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Same !
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 03:24 AM
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People get curious and touch themselves yes. But many arent going to google search it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 03:22 AM
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Yeah which kind of highlights my points. The places that lack sex education focus on what men need to know and the basics. There is not much else taught to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 01:33 AM
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Ah that explains a lot of things. Now I get it. You might be part of "the west" but you sound like you're mostly unfamiliar with how things are in the US. Most likely you get all of your info from the media. Yet my experiences mirror the American women here. Try again. And who ever said I was speaking on behave of only the states in this conversation? Whatever makes life easier for them is almost a given to be "agreed with." That entire paragraph is you being ignorant. Sex education is lacking, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 12:53 AM
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You realized you have pointed out the most stereotypical and basic thing that women are also taught about their periods. So it shows how much the education is lacking. She is talking about the cycles of ovulation, to menstruation and the physical aspects the woman's body goes through during those stages. The discharge that is expelled and the consistency of that discharge and what they signify. Along with many other things that are NOT taught to women about their own bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 12:37 AM
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Again, it's an analogy. Are you not familiar with them? Possibly foreigner/from another country outside of the US? Lmfao I just don't agree with it. It was a bad one and useless to this conversation. In people's homes and in school......................................................................... Definitely starting to think you're not even from/living in the US. I've said multiple times I'm from Canada. How about reading? And again given the countless amount of women that agree with me i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 12:17 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:50 PM
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Yeah because finding a relationship is so easy now a days. Relationship = dating around
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:50 PM
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I believe that schools and most importantly parents should be teaching their children these things. Hence, my last questions in the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:31 PM
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It's around that age that sex ed is taught, unless they changed the grade. I had my sex ed class in sixth grade. I was about 9 or 10 That is the age reproduction is taught and the male/female body. Not sex education in terms of the actual act. It's an analogy, which is why I said "is like." Teaching a child to have sex is like teaching them how to load and use a gun, so in this case, it's as though you're teaching them how to load and use a gun. If they use it, there will be consequences that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:21 PM
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I don't see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:00 PM
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In my own opinion, there are more reasons for men to touch themselves in terms of pleasure down there at a young age. Dealing with testosterone, hard ons, morning wood and wet dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 11:00 PM
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You're pushing it. First of all, who said anything about 8 year olds? When your child is hitting puberty and getting to that stage then you have certain conversations with them. When they are pre teens or teens then everything I stayed should start to become a topic of conversation. However, teaching someone about sex is basically like teaching them how to load and use a gun. Maybe it's good and maybe it isn't. That depends on the child/person. Usually everyone will end up having sex. Not everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:58 PM
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If they haven't had sex then it's not. And there are much more shame and hang ups about women masterbating too. Especially parents who are conservative or religious. The most that is taught about our genitals is menstruation. Even with that - as I mentioned was also judged when I simply wanted to wear tampons instead of pads.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:49 PM
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Um did you not read the comments of women that were not taught these things? And I live in Canada. Again, these are not taught. We are taught the worst side effects of birth control and watched clips of a live birth. I believe that schools and most importantly parents should be teaching their children these things. Hence, my last questions in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:41 PM
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Girl I'm gonna read this all and get back to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:38 PM
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Most men AND women believe the vagina is the entire genital area. So I'm not surprised. Many women don't even know how to cum and have never before which comes primarily from the clit. So again, not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:37 PM
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I am pretty sure she is answering your question. Her answer is obviously no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:34 PM
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Why is the funny? If she is not having sex or masterbating why would she ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:31 PM
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There is much more to be talked about when it comes to unprotected sex + penetration = baby or stds. There is information about birth control and different types, std long term risks and symptoms, PAP tests, fertility windows, sexual dysfunctions, masterbation, and a woman simply knowing her body. All of these things rely back to sex. Men and women learn the basics that is efficient enough for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:30 PM
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Teaching them about sex isn't going to decrease their desire for sex. Just like everyone else, they're going to weigh whatever the options are and still do whatever they want. If they want to have sex but don't have any contraception, then they'll probably still have sex. I did not say that it would stop them having from sex. That is the point. To let women also know that having sex is normal and it is OK to have sex. But while they are doing it, to be aware of risks. And what exactly those risk…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:24 PM
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Omg the fertility windows!! Knowing that there actually are times that I cannot get pregnant was astonishing to me. It really makes sense and if women were taught this they also would become more Intune with their bodies. But I guess that's too threating to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:18 PM
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So you learned about one form of contraception? And from what I know, is Syria not a very conservative country and not very liberal about sex? It makes sense that there is no tolerance for teen pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:14 PM
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Better education is not the answer it's A answer. Youre clearly bored and trying to find arguments out of things that are not there. People are still going to do what they want no matter how much education they have. But it's truly a pity the amount of people that care less or shy away from sexual conversations. Then are surprised when young kids are having kids. But your clearly not understanding this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 10:10 PM
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You're already coming here combative, you do realize this is a discussion not a CMV. Didn't someone already debunk what you said about the stats? At the end of the day, educate your kids about sex. Period. There are too much due to lack of it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 09:54 PM
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What did that sex education teach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 09:50 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 09:01 PM
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Yup lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 08:45 PM
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Yeap. I agree with that aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 08:41 PM
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So much worse lol And it's no surprise why most of the girls I know from school were pregnant by 16-18 then married
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:30 PM
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Lmfao yes. Unfortunately unlike you, I was in Catholic school from JK to grade 12. I feel the education system is a joke. Adding religion into the mix is hysterical. Nothing of substance is being taught. The amount of people I went to highschool with who also had heavily religious parents were the first ones to get pregnant then married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:28 PM
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Wow your mom was great! You are so lucky. I could not even imagine that with my mom lol. Because of the lack of it though, I will definitely make sure my children are educated!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:22 PM
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I'm a black Canadian, who went to a Catholic school. Who was raised by a single mother who was not very conservative but only in the aspect of gender roles. And my father who was in my life, but conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:18 PM
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Ou hey! Yes exactly. The reason why I can say she is only a mixture because she herself is not conservative but stills holds the stereotypical gender roles that comes up so much when you see how we were raised and expectations put on us. Where are you from? If you don't me asking!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:13 PM
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Adults in those kids lives. We are talking about sex education, I don't see your point to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:06 PM
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I actually think this might hold some truth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:02 PM
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Lmfao the irony of the don't have sex, focus on education!! To why aren't you in a relationship? and where are my grandkids?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 06:01 PM
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Tbh I don't even know the difference. Im sure we were taught the same premise. Yes that too! I completely forgot about that. They really highlighted gay sex and those risks. Not much about straight relationships. The only talk we had about sexual health was that birth contr was bad and ruined the lining of your uterus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:59 PM
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No. Why do you think being able to have healthy conversations with your parents about sex = slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:56 PM
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To your first three points - I had the exact experience. I didn't even know much about STD's in the first place, let alone some of the internal damage or long term side effects some cause. We were never given sex education at all. Literally the only thing we were taught was that it was wrong for women to desire sex or masturbate bc that was ungodly and godly women were pure mentally. That having thoughts about sex was bad for women. I'm going to assume, you went to a Catholic highschool aswell?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:52 PM
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Wow. That's crazy, but also resembles my experiences. Though no one out right told me about masterbation. I am not saying that people arent aware, but people for the most part are not actually properly educated. Of course you see an ad here and there, but if you don't have an inquisitive mind you won't dig deeper and actually know about it. I feel. But I have seen an improvement in general awareness with ads. Honestly I feel everywhere needs to educate women about their own bodies and not see it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:49 PM
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I'm simply saying that sexual education is something that should be implemented. And adults close to the teenagers with raging hormones, should take the necessary actions to advise and be open to conversations with sex. Atleast then, people who are getting pregnant know and understand the risks and know to engage in safe sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:41 PM
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I don't think that most girls are denied information on birth control, Some are definitely not informed. And some are actually denied, by parents especially if they are religious or conservative. but I do believe that when you try to exercise excessive control over their behavior out of fear that they'll be seen as sluts by boys, while simultaneously telling them that boys will try to get in their pants at any given opportunity, you're lowering girls' standards in terms of the kind of treatment …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:37 PM
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Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:32 PM
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Wow. I am shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:32 PM
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Sex talk should be given to no matter what the gender is. It is also something that seems to drive sub Reddits like this and society itself - yet, you don't believe there should be proper education?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:31 PM
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I just learned about pregnancy. They used those lived birth footages to scare us, I feel. And all of those things - I learned on the internet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:59 PM
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Honestly. It is messed up. But my sister goes to a public school, it's not really any better from what she told me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:53 PM
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Somewhat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:49 PM
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Taboo for your parents to be the ones to bring it up to you, or you to bring it up to your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:41 PM
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No, not really. I was raised more by my mother than father. Aka she was a single mom but my father was in my life. I want to say she is conservative in the way that she raised the girls vs the boys, yes. Traditional roles, then yes I suppose. But she is also not one to advocate for marriage so she is a mixture.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:37 PM
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I completely agree and will definitely be ensuring my children are also educated. I'm only 27 and i still remember sex education in my Catholic school was basically just telling us how birth control ruins the uterus lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:32 PM
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I'm from Canada - and my parents are black. Mother is Jamaican and not very conservative. Father is African, and pretty conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:25 PM
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When using "settle down FOR someone" it does not describe what he says either. He described like you said : settling. When they add the FOR it changes the meaning. It implys someone in the relationship was not ready but sacrificed their own wants of not settling down, for their partner. Which could of all started from people using these forums and not understanding English
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 02:02 PM
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Interesting. It is usually "settle" for someone. Not settle down FOR someone. Im 27, and have never heard anyone use that. But settling for someone was always bad. People online in echo chambers mixed up the usages and started to question when women state she is ready to settle down which has always been used how you described. They have the concepts of Alpha/Beta ingrained so automatically assume she ALSO means settling FOR someone after she had at all her fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 01:56 PM
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You're making a generalization that the only reason dead bedrooms occur is because guys suck in bed. Then go on to try to counter with another point generalizing that the vast majority are because of women. While I'm sure that's true for some marriages, the vast majority are because the wife isn't attracted to her husband anymore. This can happen for a myriad of reasons, but a big one is that women that can't secure the commitment of a high value man will settle for a provider that she isn't att…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:25 AM
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Not to mention how would you even study this? Women are notoriously dishonest even in anonymous surveys. Or do you believe the 1 in 5 women study? Lmao pls tell this to ALL the RP men who keep spamming the page with the N count "research". I hope you keep up the same exact standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:22 AM
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Omg such BS LOL Women cum a hell of alot easier when the guy knows wtf he is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:17 AM
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They need to be "coached" because every woman and man is different. They won't enjoy or get off on the same things from past partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 04:15 AM
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There are definitely exceptions especially when you are still the "head of the household" My ex's parents were like this and it truly changed my perception. She racked in the money. She had her business. She was the educated one. She had no idea how to even cook rice. He picked up the kids, he cooked, he cleaned, he took care of the finances. And she respected him like no other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 01:58 AM
1

That's about all I can sacrifice though, I tried the SAHD shit, but it wasn't fufilling at all. Turns out too much free time is a bad thing for me, I need a challenge and a purpose. I feel like this a bit of a jab at women who are SAHM - majority of them that I know do not have this "free time" you are talking about and it definitely is challenging and there is a purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 01:45 AM
1

Me too sister
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 01:39 AM
3

You're not answering my question. Unless they actually knew eachother - HOW is she ignoring him?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 05:25 PM
2

😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 04:24 PM
1

This is the standard you put women to? Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 01:52 PM
3

This should be RP anthem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 01:18 PM
4

By the way you're wording your answers, it sounds like bs tbh. But I have not seen any proof on pair bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 02:11 PM
3

Well I mean if your entire gender is known for being "weak and dependant" most of the time then it's definitely a counter to what the perceived norm of being a woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:52 PM
1

lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 05:41 PM
3

Don't forget to teach your daughters that. Drill it into them. Let them know
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 01:37 AM
3

You won't find a normally adjusted man or woman that agrees they are the same at 16 and 25+ lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 01:33 AM
6

Just because you haven't changed since you were 16, doesn't make it a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 01:29 AM
6

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 01:28 AM
5

Considering that last thread of when women started getting hit on by men or noticed the attention. AMALT. I think it's hilarious that men get so upset when a woman brings up negative attributes of men. Where is my popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 06:33 PM
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Women know and understand the wall exists. I don't think men understand how as soon as we get our period this is drilled in to us (especially people coming from an ethic background) and is constantly brought up by family members, doctors and society. We don't need the RP to understand fertility exists. It gets misunderstood when RP men unattached from reality think the wall starts at 25. They add in their revenge fantasty and men are untouchable. Everyone has a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 10:12 PM
2

So pay a little extra for some one on one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:37 PM
1

Lol wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 05:11 PM
3

Wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:02 AM
1

So your issue falls with the qualify of sex. Not how many ppl she had sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 09:43 AM
1

So is mine, but it's clear you do not understand the premise. Nah, it's not based on emotion and I'm not butt hurt, as I have nothing to be "butt hurt for" but go off, if that makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 07:39 PM
1

You can compare the two. What are you not understanding? The projection is real. I love men and will continue to. It's you who hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 06:34 PM
0

When did I ever say that men are the sole reason for divorces?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:59 AM
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Where do men see in media and growing up that women only like "nice guys" ? You guys really need to stop with this. It seems like majority are autistic and grew up sheltered in a life that the only perspective they get from women was what was said to them. Honestly, I don't buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:39 AM
-1

Yeah because people should care why, right. Ok. Good logic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:38 AM
1

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:37 AM
2

I don't even know the degrees of feminism because I don't care enough. So there is your answer. Do I believe people should be treated fairly ? Yes. They are humans. Do I believe men and woman are "equal" as in have the same brain, are capable of doing everything exactly the same? No. Do I believe men and woman have different strengths and weaknesses, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:26 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:07 AM
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Part of the red pill though says that women will say one thing, but then do another. Like how they say they want nice guys, but then they date men that aren't that nice I personally still don't understand this. There are way too many nuances that these RP men to go into. "They said they wanted a nice guy, I'm ugly but I'm nice! They lied!" Being sexually attracted to someone is a base that doesn't need to be said. Likewise some men will say they love boobs and ass yet end up finding a gf that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:05 AM
1

And if men really wanted to know why some women leave their husbands they can ask and or try to understand - to you know, broaden their mindset instead of"women = hypergamy = divorce"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:44 AM
-1

Women like to talk about their relationship issues. If you actually genuinely ask, you'll hear genuine answers from some. But maybe that's not your forte.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:41 AM
0

Keep it up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:34 AM
0

By the same token, dudes don't care what a woman does for a living as long as she "looks fertile." Educated men should definitely care about what his woman does and her character for how she will be as a partner and mother. Just like.... Women! Suprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:34 AM
2

If you speak to some, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:31 AM
1

Yeah can you slice and dice how much of that 80% of women initiated just because and there was no issue from the man's side?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:30 AM
0

You killed them 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:25 AM
1

You just don't get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:43 AM
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Because in all divorces it's NEVER a man's fault right? I said that you implicitly align with "muh waeg gap" crowd by presenting "wage gap is real" and "women dump husbands for a good reason" as claims of comparable validity. Feminists use the wage gap highlighting a broad percentage without going into details. Men use the broad percentage without going into details.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:08 AM
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No, I didn't say men are bad at being partners. So stop your projection. And I'm not a feminist. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 11:58 PM
1

I think we are agreeing - so I'm gonna leave it at that lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 11:38 PM
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Because it's a possibility that it is the man's fault as to why the divorce was initiated by the women. But not ALL. That's my entire point. Nobody looks at others reasons as oppose to just "women = hypergamy or whatever = divorce = woman bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 11:34 PM
-2

Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 11:28 PM
1

When they use the broad claim of "women initiate 80% of divorce" are they going into why, or are they just using it against women and reasons for them to not want get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 11:27 PM
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Because then they can see what not to do.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 11:22 PM
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I don't know anyone who uses the term "starter marriage?" Where is it that 60% of those women are out cheating? the reasons why are irrelevant, the end result is what matters Can't feminists who believe in the wage gap come to that same conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:37 PM
1

Feminists have a short answer for the wage gap: Sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:20 PM
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I asked you a question. It's literally a discussion. They do. Because a guy had a bigger dick? Was taller? Had more money? Looked better? These are what they think the true reasons for divorce for? They are just using a relevant statistic. Wage gap is literally false. ~80% is literally true. I can do a quick Google search of "Do men make more than women in Canada?" The answer comes out to "jan 9 report found the wage gap in Canada was 19% between men and women in 2019" I can also go to the artic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:19 PM
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It's not, you're just being purposely daft. Do they tell you WHY women are initiating are most of the divorces?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:07 PM
1

Yes, hypergamy. They are assuming it is hypergamy. Is that you think it is? Economic numbers are far easier to explore than social phenomena. You can't really argue with math. If relationship dynamics could be solved using math, then statisticians would never get divorced lol jokes aside, it's a much easier and more accessible So they should start looking at studies that show why women initiated their divorces instead of looking at it in a broad sense. That being said, your OP is still literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:06 PM
2

Feminists can say the exact same thing and look up stats that shows it is real, by the way they are looking at the information. Why do you think there are still a large amount of women fighting against it and is still brought up? It's only until you get into the details of it when what they say can be debunked. Correct? The amount of times "80% of women initiate divorce" is used around here is alot. It's like women saying "men make more!!!" And they don't care or question the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:01 PM
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Did you skip over the reason for my question? Men go into tremendous detail to prove the wage gap - you telling me they use "hypergamy" to explain reasons for women initiating divorce essentially proves my point about the vague brush they paint women with. Are they asking why the relationship actually ended? Are they looking as deep as they would to prove the wage gap? No. They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:56 PM
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Hypergamy is a claim, it's not a fact. What are you even talking about? You actually believe all women divorce because of one simple ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:49 PM
2

Ok now you just sound jaded. We can end our conversation here. Thanks for playing!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:46 PM
4

It's pretty easy if you get a bunch of women and ask them WHY they divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:44 PM
8

I guess you didn't understand my question. Men here go into tremendous detail, detailing why it's a fact - which btw is something I do believe. Getting into details of work hours, mat leave, who is willing to stay, over time, etc. But why isn't the same method applied to why women initiate most of divorces? There can also be a tremendous amount of reasons why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:43 PM
2

Indeed it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 01:48 AM
2

Totally understandable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:02 PM
3

So you found someone that also didn't want to settle down with you? Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:17 PM
5

Why are you jumping to the worse case scenario ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:06 PM
8

So you want to use young women so they can become bitter when they are older and have relationship issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 04:53 PM
6

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:33 PM
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Also to be fair the 20 year old is less likely to have had negative experiences with men and is far less likely to be jaded when it comes to relationships So you want someone young and naive while you bring all your relationship baggage ? If the reverse were to happen would you feel the same way? Are you asking me if I think its okay for older women to prey on younger men? If that is the case, then no I don't. Sorry I'm not a blatant hypocrite. At the end of the day people love who they love. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:39 PM
3

Wow! I am amazed lol So you don't want kids or anything? I'm just curious!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:25 PM
3

FWB for 10, years??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 01:53 PM
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I would suspect that most normally adjusted middle aged men would chose the 36yr old. If she looks good and is in shape. Do you think vaginas get looser or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 01:47 PM
0

In most situations a woman will say she was emotionally abused whenever her partner was not willing to act in a way she would like him to act. The most bs reply ive read today.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:53 PM
1

Men can get sex in other places.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:11 PM
1

Who says I'm a liberal? It's called practicing safe sex and being responsible for your own health. Aka being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 08:30 PM
6

You should be getting tested with new partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:20 PM
3

This is a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:18 PM
0

Where? In the west or women everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 10:39 PM
1

So you don't want people to be bullied? That is what everyone wants. How do you implement this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 12:32 PM
1

Why are you still talking. Conversation is over bud Later
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 04:47 AM
1

Try to argue better next time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 04:37 AM
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Being grossed out and not giving a shit are different things. Who said every women is grossed out by men dating younger women? Only that they are coming to realizations like you - as to why they may not be a good fit or that she does not have what he has been so actively after by only dating young girls, or that he is manipulated and controlling. So you can stop trying to miss the mark by a mile. Your argument still does not stand. Sorry bud
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 04:16 AM
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You said guys don't give a shit. They do. You're failing at arguing against that. Idc what she wants - she may realized that path is no longer for her and wants to settle with you. If you're going to make a blanket statement about men don't then try to contradict it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 01:50 AM
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Men would probably feel some sort of way if a woman they were dating used to date 50yr old men. Nope, couldn't give a flying fuck. It doesn't work this way with men Idc you think she won't want to date you. If she had a past of dating old dudes you're telling me you wouldn't give a fuck and still date her? Even tho she clearly "wants money?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 12:54 AM
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You respect the man sure, but if she has a streak of fucking rich old men twice her age and wants to come to you when shes ready to settle is just like men complaining women going after Chad's and using them Cut the BS
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:08 PM
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Oh please, with the amount of reasons you guys come up to for daddy issues judging her lasts relationships - some probably would
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 10:55 AM
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That's impulsiveness, lack of self control which is not good for stability. It's these conclusions that are annoying. How about just because she likes it? People who have done those things find themselves in committed long term relationships. Just because you don't like it - doesn't mean it still doesn't lead down the path of monogamy for them. Call me insecure but I know myself better and what I'll be comfortable with and by being straightforward, I'm doing a favor to both of us. Well then don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:18 AM
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Even your question entails inexperience - how old are you? You get to know the person instead of asking interview like questions that can be deceived by the person answering. That is a major turn off. You find out how many LTR relationships she had, start off with that - that question is a normal for dating then continue on from there like normal humans. If you were having a great relationship with her and found out she had more casual sex than you'd like - you would leave? Men said they would -…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:40 AM
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The issue arises with the ilogical reasons they try to add when they can simply say they don't like it. If most men met their LTR while engaging in casual sex and they have a good sex life and continue too, they would not care. It's outliers who spam this sub that would mind the most. If men want to date young women, go ahead. Like I said in my own reply context matters not just the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 06:51 PM
2

Being a low-key predator is very different than having 10 casual flings. Especially when the judgement is coming from someone who engages in the exact same act, but claim it's different because they are a man. Nobody likes to be negatively judged and you act as if women are special in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 06:42 PM
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How is this a gotcha? Men would probably feel some sort of way if a woman they were dating used to date 50yr old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:36 PM
2

It depends on the back story, for me. Since older guys hooking up with younger women is a bit predatory to me (depending on the age gap) so I would want to know his motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:35 PM
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I disagree. The past doesn't always dictate the future. If you're busy judging someone from their past instead of the person you have infront of you, then those are your own hang ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:31 PM
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Why would you be asking that question anyway? That's just straight up uncomfortable for both people. I would never ask my partner that because frankly I don't care. Men who straight up ask that question are actually insecure and beta because they are incapable of picking up ques on her behaviour or character before hand. They need to ask the questions like a script off RP dating 101, inexperienced men do this. It's much different than asking "how many boyfriends have you had" The only ex's that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 02:19 PM
5

That's why you have men questioning their entire self worth on how attractive they are to the opposite sex. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:23 PM
2

Why do you guys put this as a woman thing? Men treat a good looking girlfriend of stranger much better than they would an ugly one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:38 PM
1

So I ended up doing the test and still got the same answer .. I'm a bit confused as to what the main difference is then - if it fits both descriptions??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 02:14 AM
2

Why would you think that - if you met her and you guys are having great sex to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:10 AM
1

Oh thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 08:20 AM
1

Oh, I'm not an expert. What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 02:29 AM
2

Nice. I don't trust them as a holy grail but it's interesting once you get into subs or read more about it to see how it relates to you or not. Here is your 5min break down lol https://youtu.be/P_LHDroHyLo I'm an INFP and it honestly fits me to a T. It's scary at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 01:25 AM
1

https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test Let us know your results! It would be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 01:00 AM
2

Can't be to confident and charming when you look like you just rolled out of bed and have smokers breathe and coffee stains on your clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 03:18 PM
3

No you're not getting it. Why would she be wanting other men - when you are already having sex with eachother?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 01:03 AM
2

Why if you're already fucking her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 07:00 PM
1

Because to you they are women. If you already consciously know you treat women better than men, that shows your frame of mind when you see other men. You literally don't give a shit about them. YOU treat women better because they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:46 PM
1

Could this not be because you are sexually attracted to the opposite sex, therefore remember more women than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:38 PM
12

Um, what? How did women make having sex a thing for marriage when it's men who value virginity and fathers would use their daughters for trade/bargains and politics?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 02:27 AM
5

Lol how old are you ...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 08:40 PM
3

Girl I'm just going to applaud you. You share the same mindset and also past as me it seems. Living the best single life. PM me if you want to talk or need a friend! I'm always open to talk to like minded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 09:34 PM
1

Not everyone cares about who other people fucked. There is nothing wrong with that. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 09:12 PM
6

Not the norm tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 09:04 PM
1

Not criticizing anyone. Ignores entire comment criticizing OP. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:58 PM
3

Sounds like you need to do more shrooms my guy. I sense a disturbing presence of hypocrisy. Uh ok. I mean calling yourself "based af" is cringe enough. Uh ok. You remind me of a kid I knew who was around 19 who took a bunch of shrooms and then thought he was god. He walked around telling others how to live their life. Uh. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:44 PM
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Yup. You. You're criticizing OP for "telling ppl how to live their lives" like it's a negative thing he is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:33 PM
2

That's ironic that TRP is literally telling guys how to live their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 07:27 PM
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