catlover34 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	How to deal with loud nightlife	Lifestyle	catlover34	/r/seduction	04/05/25 04:16 PM
6	Putting a girl in the friend zone	Fundamentals	catlover34	/r/seduction	21/05/25 10:17 PM
2	Weed for social skills	Conversation	catlover34	/r/seduction	30/03/25 02:42 AM
2	Furniture	Logistics	catlover34	/r/seduction	06/05/25 04:43 AM
1	Weird one to share	Field Report	catlover34	/r/seduction	04/04/25 05:00 AM
1	Closing the deal	Fundamentals	catlover34	/r/seduction	30/04/25 04:50 AM
1	Analysis of date	Field Report	catlover34	/r/seduction	16/05/25 05:06 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Good moves to pull while in the car? If you’re driving, one hand on the steering wheel, the other, you can stroke her hair or caress her arm or leg, whatever works	/r/seduction	21/06/25 09:30 PM
-14	The hidden female communication explained. Excellent example. Handling the situation like this should relax her and get her guard down enough to open the conversation.	/r/seduction	11/06/25 03:21 PM
1	Best Tinder Date Formula for Getting Laid (When She Lives 40 Minutes Away) Maybe meet near her for a brief first date, or phone call to establish comfort. Then invite her to your place for cooking, drinks, and good vibes if she is hesitant, but interested, you can start to paint a picture specifically of all the details of what you guys will cook and drink, etc., while being flirty	/r/seduction	26/05/25 03:04 PM
2	Putting a girl in the friend zone Hundred percent agree, already moved on	/r/seduction	22/05/25 01:02 AM
1	Putting a girl in the friend zone Appreciate the follow up, I understand your line of thinking. I ended up calling her after a little while and told her that I was just looking for something casual and not exclusive. She said she is looking for something exclusive. Basically, that was my cover for not having the balls to make a move today when I had the chance. But I guess at the same time we’re probably not on the same page anyways. There’s always some gray area as you know.	/r/seduction	22/05/25 12:40 AM
1	Analysis of date Yes, I acknowledge there are deeper issues that I am actively working on. But for the first time instead of just looking to improve other areas of my life and hoping that indirectly, I will have better results with women, I am trying to directly get better at interacting with women. I also have a history of leaving layups on the table and agonizing about it afterwards. The issue is that my mind would freeze up in the moment, even if I had a very interested woman alone in private. I think you’ve …	/r/seduction	17/05/25 05:03 AM
1	Analysis of date Over the years, I’ve often been the nice guy who gets friend zoned or made to wait very long. And then I see all these guys online sharing success stories about how they transform themselves into guys who get action on the first or second date consistently. That’s the kind of ability that I want to have. I think in this particular case, I was fishing in the wrong pond. I don’t think this particular woman was looking for something really casual. But at the same time, she was quite receptive to a …	/r/seduction	17/05/25 04:25 AM
1	Analysis of date Thoughtful reply, and I appreciate it. I have always been somewhat shameful of my dick/sexuality, and try to get to know the girl first for a while before making any "moves". Yes I'm still trying to meet quality women that I enjoy spending time and find attractive, but my current goal is to be able to get a woman into bed as quickly as possible. I'm here to learn the skill of seduction - i.e. if I push the right buttons at the right time, women will respond positively. You may be right that I wa…	/r/seduction	16/05/25 07:41 PM
1	Analysis of date The failed kiss was just a moment of unnatural/forced kind of energy, basically the train coming off the tracks momentarily, but then getting right back on. We were holding hands and she was laughing literally a minute later.	/r/seduction	16/05/25 07:03 PM
1	How to deal with loud nightlife Correct. I really just wanted to chat a little more since it was so hard to hear and take a walk. But next time I would wait until the next time we were dancing together and ask then.	/r/seduction	07/05/25 04:15 PM
1	How to deal with loud nightlife This particular girl had moved from the other side of the room to sit next to me after we had danced once. And then chatting with her over the loud music I learned that she was traveling on vacation and was just here by herself for a few days. Coupled with a few other indicators of interest, I’m pretty sure she was open to moving things beyond the dance floor. I think I just needed to be a bit more persistent, and alter the approach a bit.	/r/seduction	07/05/25 04:01 PM
1	Do you build up to a kiss or do you react to how she reacts to late stage kino first? ASD?	/r/seduction	06/05/25 05:23 AM
1	How to deal with loud nightlife Thanks for the input. These are specifically salsa dancing socials. So it’s different than just a general nightclub. I’m finding that it’s a great venue to meet women and get a chance to just have fun and dance with a number of different women.	/r/seduction	05/05/25 01:16 AM
6	How to deal with loud nightlife Thanks for the feedback. I should clarify, these are Latin dance, socials that I attend, so women are looking for men to ask them to dance, and it’s expected that people will dance with different partners. I had asked her to go get some fresh air after we had been dancing and came off the dance floor to take a break. Anyways, I’m starting to realize that these Latin dance socials can be a fantastic way to meet women. I’m lucky that the area I’m in I can find these types of events almost every ni…	/r/seduction	04/05/25 05:00 PM
2	When did cold approach get easier for you? That sounds like great advice, thanks much. Can’t wait to try it out in person.	/r/seduction	01/05/25 03:17 AM
1	When did cold approach get easier for you? That makes sense. What would you do if you were coming around the corner in a store and passed by an attractive woman who kept walking the other direction with her cart? This is like the opposite. Where you don’t even have three seconds to approach her before she’s already passed you by	/r/seduction	30/04/25 11:10 PM
1	When did cold approach get easier for you? What do you mean by three second rule?	/r/seduction	30/04/25 10:40 PM
0	Closing the deal Nope, I have figured it out now. She puts up strong walls, and this requires a strong dominant man to break them down. She needs to feel that she is safe in the presence of a strong man that she can completely surrender and submit herself to. I did not do a good enough job at conveying that I am that strong dominant alpha, whose arms she can completely relax into. Experiences like this are always painful, because it’s clear in hindsight the ingredients that I was missing. However, unlike in the …	/r/seduction	30/04/25 11:29 AM
9	How do you recover from a historically bad fumble? She could’ve been fake, I wouldn’t lose sleep over it.	/r/seduction	27/04/25 09:35 PM
22	Across the Board, What is Biggest Hurdle to Dating/Hooking Up with Girls? 100%. Our greatest obstacles to success in life is usually right there in the mirror.	/r/seduction	25/04/25 11:48 PM
1	Weird one to share Thanks for pointing those things out. No, no chance of anything missing. It was weird, she had just taken a shower and her hair was still in a towel and she was basically in pajamas and slippers. I think she just happened to be going for a walk and a smoke, but yes, it’s also clear that this ain’t her first rodeo	/r/seduction	04/04/25 06:51 PM
1	Weird one to share Eh idk. I’ve had issues on and off in this area for some time now.	/r/seduction	04/04/25 02:29 PM
1	Weird one to share That’s one way to think about it	/r/seduction	04/04/25 11:33 AM
1	Weird one to share I don’t understand, please explain	/r/seduction	04/04/25 06:00 AM
1	Weird one to share Yeah, you’re right. Live and learn.	/r/seduction	04/04/25 05:39 AM
1	Weed for social skills That makes sense, appreciate you!	/r/seduction	30/03/25 08:37 AM
1	Weed for social skills Thanks for the words of encouragement, it helps	/r/seduction	30/03/25 02:57 AM