catman278 Archive

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2	Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU I'm not red pill, I agree that they say a ton of stupid shit. There are different levels of need. I even said at the top of my original post that sex isn't a survival need. There are needs to survive and there are needs for a happy life. if you want evidence to this effect look at how court decisions recently have been ruling solitary confinement as a cruel and unusual punishment. If the only needs that matter were survival, then there would no cause at all for the courts to intervene in this wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/20 02:20 PM
2	Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU Maybe not for you, but for many people it is. You do realize how incredibly arrogant it is to assume you know people's mind better than themselves? How would you like it if everytime you had an emotional need others came along and told you were crazy for caring about something? Anyways, the other poster asked why men are so bitter, and I answered the question. You can think what you want, but nonetheless this is the internal thought process of many men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/20 01:50 PM
1	Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU If you have no experience how do you avoid acting unexperienced?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 10:20 PM
3	Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU The honest answer is that most men have a fundemental need for sex and physical intimacy that is nowhere near getting met. It feels like being on a starvation diet, it may not kill you but unless you get get some real food your life is going to be hell and its going to be nearly impossible to care about anything else. For many men who, for whatever reason, struggle to get sex and physical intimacy, life is like looking down the barrel of long years of constant torture. And to be clear, this isn'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/20 10:01 PM
3	Date bills should always be split equally Isn't feminism about breaking down gender roles?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/20 02:43 PM
2	Date bills should always be split equally Accepting an unequal situation as okay is the definition of entitled. You like a morally reprehensible situaion because it benefits you. thats the end of the story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/20 02:30 PM
3	Women Are As Entitled As Men We're talking about AA as a concept. If you think that the concept of promoting women over equally qualified men just because they are women is wrong then we agree. If your point was that AA, while wrong, is a non-issue because its making no real world changes and every woman who gets promtoed would also be promoted without AA, then I misunderstood your point. I think that would be a naive way to look at the world, but at least it would be morally sound.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 02:42 PM
1	Women Are As Entitled As Men Are jobs not a neccessity? AA affects hiring too, not just promotions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 02:16 PM
1	Women Are As Entitled As Men Equality would be people getting promotions for equal work. If a woman is more likely to get a promotion for the same amount of work as a man, thats not equality. I honestly think its pretty gross to be calling men who haven't accomplished much entitled while accepting that women who have accomplished the exact same amount are not entitled for getting promoted. Its literally the definition of a double standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 02:12 PM
2	The amount of risk and investment a woman puts into the dating process is the same she will into a relationship. I just realized that I read your first post wrong, I agree with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 02:59 AM
6	The amount of risk and investment a woman puts into the dating process is the same she will into a relationship. So you openly admit your philosophy is "take advantage of him before he takes advantage of me". Doesn't sound like a strong foundation for a relaitionship, which is why men should be aware of expensive women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 02:05 AM
2	The amount of risk and investment a woman puts into the dating process is the same she will into a relationship. Just because we're born into a capitalist society doesn't mean you have to accept capitalist cultural values. You choose to do so, there's no way around it. If a critical mass of guys eventually stop paying for dates it will work. Its the prisoner position, its bad for one person to take the noble route, but works if everyone does. Unfortunately trying to change culture for the better is not a perfectly smooth road, doesn't mean its not worthwhile to attempt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 02:02 AM
3	The amount of risk and investment a woman puts into the dating process is the same she will into a relationship. That sounds like bullshit, I hope you can back it up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/20 01:42 AM
1	Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's? Maybe I'm in a bubble, but in the West the majority of people I've seen raising children divide responsibilities equally. Same for family responsibilities. I understand this is not the case in much of the rest of the world, but I'm not disputing that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 07:30 PM
1	Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's? Ultimately all version of respects are subjective rules. I thought it was clear that any post I make is my version, just as any post you make is your version. I am expressing my opinion that I find your version to be entitled and disrespectful. As you said, the purpose of the date is to spend time to see if you like them, for BOTH parties. You're taking as a given that the man is interested no matter what, when that is absolutely not the case and you need to impress him as much as he needs to im…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 07:27 PM
1	Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's? This was a discussion of emotional labour specifically, not physical labour like household chores specifically. In most of the world women do most of the physical chores and child rearing. This is unjust and should not be the case, I have no dispute there. In my experience I have seen not seen women doing valuable emotional labour any more frequently then men. I have seen no study which says they do in the West, if you know of one i would interested in reading it. Why would I conclude that my ob…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 07:18 PM
1	Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's? This is a global study. I don't think anyone disputes that women do more labour as an overall global average, but I'm not convinced that it holds for the Western World. Do you have a Western specific study? I'm just going by my observations in real life, I'm not trying to pretend otherwise, but at least my observations are set in the Western World. Doing labour that wasn't wanted and then demanding reward for this unwanted, unasked for labour is literally the stereotypical nice guy behaviour, I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 02:59 PM
1	Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's? What are the methodology of your sources. I've often found that women think they're doing emotional labour and the "labour" is something that men don't care about it. Did your studies confirm from both sides that emotional labour was done?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 02:39 PM
1	Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's? Can you post them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 02:37 PM
1	Q4W: Do you believe that your time, presence and attention is inherently more valuable than a man's? This is a really entitled point of view. A date should be mutually enjoyable. If you're not interested enough to pay for your side of the date, then don't agree to the date in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 02:28 PM
3	Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality. It seems way more likely that these are symptoms rather than causes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 04:17 AM
1	Q4W: For attractive women, is dating in any way mysterious to you? You could literally copy and paste this comment to a post about white priveledge. I'm not saying that attractive people don't have problems. I'm not saying that attractive people can't have sucky lives. I'm saying that attractive people face less problems than non-attractive people in the context of dating. If you disagree, there are plenty of ways to make yourself unattractive (or at least less attractive), why don't you engage in them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/20 02:20 AM
1	Q4W: For attractive women, is dating in any way mysterious to you? That's not too differnet from saying "I have black friends who have never been harrased by the cops". Its about probability. Plenty of people who are less attractive will still get relaitionships but its less likely than attractive people. Unless you are arguing that it's equally likely for attractive and unattractive peope to get into relaitionships, I don't see your point. You are priveleged.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/20 02:10 AM
1	Q4W: For attractive women, is dating in any way mysterious to you? I've suffered a half decade long depression over perpetual singe-hood, and been close to suicide before, so dismissing single-hood as being nothing significant makes no sense to me at all. Looking objectively at my mental state, honestly it seems like trauma is the best way to describe it. Its not something I lept to quickly, I've only accepted it recently, but I don't find anything that fits closer. Thank you for acknowledging that a lack of skill is not an indency. I know that I'm just an inte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/20 01:51 AM
1	Q4W: For attractive women, is dating in any way mysterious to you? In what way?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/20 01:31 AM
1	Q4W: For attractive women, is dating in any way mysterious to you? My point is that regardless of the level of severity, its still a completely different situation when the issue is your own brain (however messed up it may be) vs other people's brains. In one situation the obstacle is yourself, in the other situation the obstacle is other people. The obstacle of yourself being very high difficulty doesn't change the fact that its still comparing apples to oranges. The idea that only indecent people can't find love is honestly straight up victim blaming. Attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/20 01:28 AM
0	Q4W: For attractive women, is dating in any way mysterious to you? You've had the opportunity to have relaitionships and learn from your mistakes about how to proceed. Everyone will eventually have to do this process, but unattractive people will get into a relaitionships at a much lower rate and therefore learn how to succeed in them at a much lower rate. Just because you have problems doesn't mean you also don't have priveledge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 11:46 PM
2	Q4W: For attractive women, is dating in any way mysterious to you? I have a lot of sympathy for anyone who feels trapped in an abusive relaitionship, but with some exceptions you do have the option to leave (or go to the police if needed). Its your choice, and you are your own obstacle. With men trying to get into a relaitionship in the first place, its not a choice, other people are the limiting agent. So I don't think they are very comparable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 11:40 PM
4	If there was a list of what the average man needs in a relationship vs the average woman, what would it look like? *Useful skills for interacting with people who socialize in a similar way	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/20 10:12 PM
1	Q4Women: How should/would you (as a man) have acted in this scenario? If you're not willing to accept that not every scenerio fits the stereotypical mode, I don't really understand how you expect to get anywhere in this conversation. The world is full of so many people and so many situations that everything conceivable under the sun has happened many times over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/20 01:55 AM
1	What is your perspective on the value of sex Literally nothing other than food, water and air is universal. People still advocate for helping people in ways beyond these basics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/20 02:58 PM
1	What is your perspective on the value of sex I mean, it all depends on how far we are stretching the world "need". The only true needs are food, water and oxygen. Even shelter is only ocassionally a need depending on the environment. If we're saying that only survival needs are what we should care about than thats one thing, but nobody actually applies that harsh a standard in real life. People care about things that affect welfare or human happiness beyond survival needs, and there's no reason why the need for physical intimacy is any les…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/20 10:59 PM
2	What might be described as "depression," when it is caused primarily by lack of sexual and romantic partners is not really a mental health issue Most problems are only noticable in specific situations. Most people go their entire lives, craddle to grave, without encouterring or realizing every single one of their personal issues. Ignorance is bliss.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/20 02:21 PM
2	What might be described as "depression," when it is caused primarily by lack of sexual and romantic partners is not really a mental health issue If you don't know whether or not a lack of partners is causing your depression, but think there's a strong possibility, than the scientific approach to is still to find a partner. If is the issue, then it will be fixed, if it isn't you will have gained the knowledge needed to combat the problem. The solution is still not a nebulous "work on yourself". You can't fight something if you don't know the cause, and I don't know any other way to rule out lack of partners as a cause other than experienc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/20 02:13 PM
1	Feminist/bluepill shaming of male sexuality is making men absolutely and utterly terrified of expressing any interest in women whatsoever. And that's one of the biggest things pushing them to TRP and creating the "nice guys" they despise. Death threats and threats of violence are a literal crime. If you think that's acceptable, you may want to re-think your world view.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/20 02:15 AM
5	Q4W: Why do you view age gaps as a power imbalance but not experience gaps? The short answer is yes. If you haven't been in a relaitionship before, you don't know how your partner should behave. Plenty of people (men and women) end up in abusive relaitionships because they don't know what a proper relaitionship is supposed to look like, and get blinded by their first experience of "love".	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/20 02:38 PM