catofillomens Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Im 22, should i move out? Without any other information provided, my first impression is that you're coming off as whiny and immature, with "Why doesn't mom get <sibling> to help" etc - blaming your mom, blaming your younger brother, blaming your disability. Get rid of that mindset. As others have said, pull your weight around the house, and if you are doing it already, good - stop complaining and take responsibility. Getting a job and moving out is fine if you don't think your diploma/grades will get you anywhere - but …	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 09:29 AM
1	Blushing. Any advice? I think you might be conflating cause and effect here. Do you lose frame because you blush, or are you blushing because you lost frame? If you are blushing because you get embarrassed, anxiety etc. (and thus lose frame) easily, work on gaining more confidence, as the /u/frerri said. If you are losing frame because you blush (for other reasons), then work on your reactions. Don't even acknowledge blushing as a problem - because it isn't a problem. People always think they appear worse than they a…	/r/askTRP	18/02/16 03:54 PM
2	Martial Arts Agreeing with what the other guy said about japanese instructors. You waste a lot of time on that bs - and I think a lot of emphasis is put on the proper, traditional form over practical use. The trade off is that you might get an American instructor who has no idea what he is doing. Honestly it depends on what you're looking to get out of it. Not bad for building self-confidence, but the actual benefits for "self-defense" is highly dubious, and you won't see the same kind of results you get fro…	/r/askTRP	16/02/16 04:52 AM
1	red pill is too harsh for me. I am a born blue pill beta. Insecure girls won't be attracted to insecure guys because that's not how it works. You have a lot of misconceptions. Read more.	/r/askTRP	13/02/16 01:05 AM
6	I became permanently disabled 4 years ago. My wife of 6 years says she is filing for divorce. Adding on to what the other guy said, a realistic assessment would be at least 2 years to get up to speed spending 3-4 hours a day self studying. You'll need a hell lot of motivation though, it's not an easy journey. There's a few sub reddit for these kind of things, look at what others did. On mobile now, can't provide links but /r/ CS interview questions should be one of them.	/r/askTRP	12/02/16 04:02 PM
2	How often can I take Modafinil? http://www.gwern.net/Modafinil#tolerance Gwern of /r/nootropics does no more than once per week. Been doing the same with good results so far.	/r/askTRP	06/02/16 07:13 PM
1	Girls who don't want to give birth but adopt. Generally though, younger mothers (20ish) bear healthier children. I'd cite a source but I'm on mobile.	/r/askTRP	30/11/15 11:03 AM
1	How to respond to a woman physically assaulting you? Report the assault first. Or maybe ask a lawyer before that.	/r/askTRP	04/03/15 04:40 PM
5	Help with eradicating pure laziness..? Some techniques that will help are pomodoros and co-working. On mobile right now, so I can't give you a detailed explanation for how they work, but Google is your friend. That's how I did it personally. Goal tracking apps exist, but I have not found them as useful. Beeminder may work for you. Odysseus did not rely on his willpower to overcome the sirens. He tied himself to the mast. Good luck doing the same.	/r/askTRP	26/01/15 01:20 PM
1	The Sexodus, Part 1: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society In TRP parlance, rationalization refers to a particularly poor justification of the data, of which this seems to be the case. Applying Occam's razor to the data, the simplest explanation for why female test scores are lower is simply that females are generally worse at the subject. If you want to come up with another more complex explanation, it'd better be pretty damn good. And your justification falls short. Firstly, as a starting point, females (generally) care more about social status than m…	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/14 04:07 AM
1	Reminder: There is a DIRECT correlation between a woman's sexual past and divorce rates. I may be wrong, but I don't think R2 matters in this case, because he's not proposing a statistical model. He's just showing the averaged statistics. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coefficient_of_determination	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/14 06:03 AM
1	Advice on how to get over an oneitis? http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2lcka5/guide_to_social_circle_game/ If there's one thing you need to read, read this. It's aimed for men in your exact same situation. Basically, become MGTOW/monk, focus on self improvement, then work on social circle.	/r/askTRP	11/11/14 02:51 PM
2	How to deal with Bitch-Voice Syndrome? Learn a martial art. One where you have to shout. Speaking from personal experience here. I had the same problem, can't raise my voice. Even when I served as a drill instructor my voice would get really hoarse after a while. I only improved when I took some Kendo classes. I think the main thing is that you want to be placed in an environment where everyone else is yelling, so you'll feel more open to practicing yourself. When you're able to shout - and shout really really loudly, then you know y…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 11:32 AM
11	PornHub use stats wreck another feminist narrative. Difference is that you're not vehemently against other people sticking their dick in a blender if they really want to. If someone really wants to stick his dick in a blender, that's really none of my business, as long as he doesn't get his blood all over my carpets.	/r/TheRedPill	18/10/14 04:51 AM
19	Navy doc gave us a dose of the red pill. Didn't realize until now. Let it go. All he said was that he personally hasn't met many intelligent people from the army, and that he doesn't want to generalize from that. Getting mad and threatening him over a slight provocation only supports his point. As a tangential point, I disagree with your argument, beacuse while you do make that case that many military personnel has a lot of combat experience, combat experience doesn't really correlated with intelligence. Especially in the army, where the importance of the chain…	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/14 08:46 AM
1	Superpowers Are Real, and Here's How to Get Them (With Sources and Links!) [xpost r/NoFap] I probably should clarify my stance - I don't actually know much about /r/nofap or subscribe to them. I don't think they should avoid being criticized. I encourage criticism of anything and everything, but I don't agree with discouraging investigation. You've prompted me to take a closer look at the claims of /r/nofap, and I agree that most of them seem quite exaggerated or nonsensical. But to me, it's a matter of principle. If I ask you to simply trust my claims on an organizations and their be…	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/14 07:05 AM
0	Superpowers Are Real, and Here's How to Get Them (With Sources and Links!) [xpost r/NoFap] I say let them have a try. We should all objectively review evidence by ourselves if able, and the opportunity costs for looking into nofap is near zero. Whatever the community is like, whatever stance they take, it can't hurt to learn what they're about and maybe pick up a few kernels of truth. Maybe it works for some people, maybe it's a cult, I don't know, and I don't care. But discouraging people from looking into an idea simply because of surface appearance or bad reputation doesn't make se…	/r/TheRedPill	04/10/14 03:13 PM
12	Wanna have some fun with a girl? Try "Yes means Yes" Game.. Like that other guy said, that's not how the prohibition against ex post facto laws work. When a new law is introduced, it can't apply to incidences before the law was introduced. Say, somehow a law got passed requiring explicit consent for sex in 2015. The law can't retroactively apply to anyone before 2015 to criminalize anyone who had set without explicit consent in 2014 before the law was passed. Thus, if you were somehow accused of rape because you didn't get explicit consent in 2014, that …	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/14 05:18 PM
3	You are disposable. The world does not care about you. You won't really find much, because there isn't much to say. Us MGTOW don't need any sexual strategy. We don't need to discuss how to be alpha. We just want to live for ourselves. That doesn't take a lot of complicated philosophy behind it, or lengthy field reports, which is why we don't generate much interesting content. Why do I lurk here then? To remind myself of the cold equation of relationships - that spending time, and maybe money, would get you pussy. Not commitment, not love, because ev…	/r/TheRedPill	02/09/14 10:39 AM
8	Disney is a Blue Pill Indoctrination Machine Reasons you're being downvoted: 1) Non sequitur comment. 2) Misunderstanding TRP. TRP makes no claim about the confidence of women, only that women tend to be attracted to confident men. 3) Formatting, punctuation, grammar, capitalization, or the lack thereof.	/r/TheRedPill	30/06/14 06:48 AM
2	RP comedy from Tosh.0: Women can do anything... Assuming a spherical, frictionless aircraft in a vacuum, probably. Real life seldom works like that, though.	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/14 06:39 AM
4	Women Talk, Men Do First of all, I never claimed that anyone was at fault. Communication is the responsibility of the speaker and listener. Poor listening skills are just as detrimental to communication as poor speaking. Since everyone has the same opportunity to understand these nuances a better analogy is going to a foreign country and not understanding what is being said and then getting angry when someone uses words you don't understand. Wouldn't a better solution be to improve yourself instead of changing the…	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/14 02:43 AM
13	They don't make 'em like they used to: 40 yro wife sheds 70 lbs and celebrates with lingerie shoot. Hubby must be doing something right. If that were true, you'd think fat women won't exist, with all the time they spend in front of mirrors. The capacity of self-delusion is boundless. Anorexics see themselves as being overweight, I think some sort of opposite process may being be going on with overweight women who still think they're attractive. If this woman did do it out of internal stimuli or a desire for self-improvement, she would be the exception, not the norm.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/14 03:01 AM
4	Red Pill Antibiotic Nuke, Come and Feed There are multiple arenas, multiple ways to fight. Working within a broken system (as TRP advocates) and trying to change the broken system (as MRA attempts) aren't mutually exclusive. In fact, they're for the same goal. Compared to /r/theredpill, /r/mensrights has much better PR and can be much easily used as introductory material.	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/14 04:45 PM