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DISCUSSIONcats5483/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 01:13 AM
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ADVICEcats5483/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 05:50 AM
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in the summer, a flowy sundress. theyre so comfortable and make me feel like a princess. i live in a cold climate (its -10 F or -23 C currently) so in the winter i opt for a sweater and fleece leggings. i love fleece leggings in the winter because i can be warm and still wear skirts and dresses
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/22 07:28 PM
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perfectly said. i use the advice on this sub to attract men I am attracted to. a "good man" is different for every woman. it all boils down to the purpose of RPW: to be a toolbox.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 08:07 PM
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this is a textbook case of a man taking advantage of a young woman's inexperience. please, trust your gut. he is double your age and likely knows exactly what he is doing. im not one to tell a woman on the internet to run, but im going to make an exception this time. please, leave while you can. youre young and have plenty of opportunities to date great men around your age.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 11:34 PM
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thank you! i started almost a year ago and i have not been in better shape nor have had so much fun
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 06:57 PM
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strength training is essential to your physical health. im a figure skater and need strength training for higher jumps and faster spins. you need strength training for soccer so you can be a more powerful player. everyone needs strength training so we can do everyday activities effectively (and get out of bed comfortably when we're 70 years old)
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 06:48 PM
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consistency is the most important thing. long-term results mean slow weight loss. it took me a few months to lose 10 pounds, but i havent gained it back. in fact im at a very healthy weight for my height and body type. i recommend calorie counting. i like ccing because you can enjoy a little treat once a day as long as its within your limit. allowing yourself foods your body craves prevents binging from over-restriction. a healthy deficit is important. you still need energy. you can use this too…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 04:32 AM
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love this story! it really proves that the smallest acts of kindness can make a great impact. stories like this inspire me to be that lovely person that brightens up peoples day
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/22 04:26 AM
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thats so adorable! im so happy for both of you. this post made me smile
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 03:52 PM
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i dress very feminine. i get my clothes at thrift stores, ebay, and depop. ive even had some luck on yesstyle, a korean fashion website. just make sure to read reviews and check size charts. ive also checked out some outlet stores like h&m, pacsun, and even target and walmart. their clothes are okay but are either boring (at least for my taste) or not my style at all. i dont look for specific brands, i just look for style and quality.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 02:24 AM
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my favorite hobby right now is figure skating. i feel this is a good time to mention it because of the current olympics! if you have a rink nearby, try it out. theres a large learning curve but its so worth the effort. it keeps me fit, challenges my body and mind, and allows me to express myself. ive also gained some friends from it!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 07:31 AM
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I recommend checking out the sidebar. Essentially, rpw uses the same knowledge as trp, but we use that knowledge to achieve different goals
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 09:02 AM
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im doing my first figure skating competition in just a couple months and a show a month after, so my goal this month is to practice 4 hours/week on ice while spending my sessions on my weakest elements. my second goal, relating to the first, is to spend 30 mins/day on strength training and stretching so i can be in tip-top shape on the ice! figure skating is an activity i really enjoy so i want to put in the work and see myself succeed
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 01:03 AM
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im single. i enjoy staying in and either reading or watching a show. sometimes ill do some yoga or play my clarinet. i also enjoy going out to the coffee shop (soon to start working there actually!), bookstore, ice rink, or cat shelter. sometimes ill go to these places with my family members too. im definitely an activity person
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/22 03:14 AM
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that is so sweet of you to say. i hope you have a lovely valentines day yourself
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 09:21 PM
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im single, so i have no plans of going out unless the guy im interested in (we've been on our first date this week) asks me out. however, i might make a dinner and dessert for my mom and step-dad so they can enjoy a romantic evening together. theyre both homebodies so i dont think they plan on going out for dinner anyways
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 09:13 PM
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i followed multipal for a couple years before caving and buying an outfit. now a couple times a year ill buy a new piece. its definitely one of those things i budget for, so when i do get something new, its that much more enjoyable!
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/22 06:35 AM
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i also live in a cold climate. during the winter, it easily gets below 0 degrees (F). i also enjoy dressing cute and enjoy casual lolita. i own quite a few clothing pieces from japan because i love the style. fleece tights and leggings will be your best friend. they will keep your legs warm and will be great for layering on top of. warm gloves, boots, and a hat are necessary as well as for where to buy lolita. ive never gone full lolita but i like brands like liz lisa and ank rouge. ive bought p…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 08:51 AM
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my goal is to make a painting this month. i havent painted in quite a long time (6+ months) and i think its about time i paint something new. i want to paint a winter landscape.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/22 05:42 AM
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this is awful, and im truly sorry you have to go through this. its okay to leave this situation for your own well-being. this level of lying is absolutely unacceptable
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 01:17 AM
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oh wow that all sounds so delicious! im definitely going to save that seafood pasta recipe.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 09:47 PM
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last night i helped my mom make teriyaki ribs. im still unsure of what to make for new years tonight. if any of you have ideas please do share. ill be making baklava tomorrow for new years. i always like to kick off the new year with a decadent dessert
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 09:25 PM
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im 18 as well, not in college yet (taking a gap year), so i cant share my own experience. however, my mom partied a lot in college. drugs, clubs, sleeping around, etc. and she told me she regrets it and wishes she focused more on studying. her promiscuity and partying caused some problems that i wont get into. she is doing a lot better now, thankfully. my advice: dont feel pressure to be like everyone else. find your own happiness. personally, i have no interest in partying and hookup culture. i…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 05:43 AM
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love this comment and your recommendations! i can vouch for the fenty gloss. i actually gifted my mom that exact color and it looks amazing on her. she wears it all the time
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/21 11:15 AM
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black lipstick isnt as versatile as a red lip. you can wear a red lipstick with any look and it would be flattering. with black, it could be very distracting. not only that, but black lipstick is typically associated with being alternative or "hardcore". there are very very few women who can actually pull it off. if you want to look traditionally feminine, i would honestly avoid black lipstick. if you want a dark lip color, there are plenty of dark reds, purples, or nudes you can try that wont b…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/21 05:45 AM
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it sounds to me like he enjoys cooking and is happy with cooking meals for the both of you. the other comments here are great! help him out with prep, ask him to teach you, etc. remember to be grateful and compliment his cooking. every relationship is different. him being the cook happens to work for yours
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 11:30 PM
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thats so exciting! i hope you have lots of fun!
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 07:44 AM
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im grateful that my family and i moved to a new state that aligns more with our goals and values, and that we're able to have a home here. it was a difficult move but im so so happy we're here im extremely grateful to my mom who supports me and my life goals. shes done so much for me and my siblings im grateful to my step-dad for loving my mom and taking us in like we're his own as for my week: im grateful for my improvements in figure skating thanks to my friends at the rink as well as my instr…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 07:42 AM
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im so happy to hear that! youre very welcome
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 12:38 AM
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having hobbies are incredibly important because it allows people to have fun while being fulfilling. they arent chores, theyre activities you engage in to add enrichment to your life. ill list several of my favorite hobbies: i always suggest painting because its easy to pick up and theres tons of resources to learn. its a fabulous way to express your creativity cooking! im a passionate cook myself. its so rewarding being able to take your cooking to the next level. playing with different techniq…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/21 10:32 AM
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theres a really great post on the sidebar that i recommend you read i hope this clears things up! it definitely did for me.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 11:10 AM
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what an awesome tool for heatless curls! i wont need it since my hair is naturally wavy. if i want some extra bounce, however, ill do a french braid before bed. plus the braid protects my hair while im sleeping
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 05:15 AM
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not only does having long hair attract men easier, but it also makes it so you can style your hair in many ways to complement your features. i had a pixie cut during high school as i didnt want to manage my messy hair. ive been growing it out for about 2.5 years and its chest-length. i learned how to care for my hair and invested in products that were beneficial to my hair type. i do not regret it all. i love my hair!
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 12:52 AM
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yoga and pilates are the workouts i do at home. but my favorite way to stay fit is figure skating. it builds strength, flexibility, and endurance. its so much fun! i advise you to find a physical activity you actually enjoy so that you can stay motivated. i also eat balanced meals and consume sweets in moderation
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/21 08:52 AM
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i think homeschooling is great! it allows for quicker progression and personalized learning. it has a lot of benefits that others here have mentioned. one concern i have with it, however, is the lack of socializing. to make up for this, you can sign your daughter up for outside activities like band/orchestra, ballet, gymnastics, figure skating, etc
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/21 03:08 AM
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i second this! i wear korean fashion casually as well. they always have pretty and feminine styles. i advise you to take your measurements before purchasing any asian clothing because they tend to run small
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/21 05:59 AM
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text him that you need to talk about something serious. request to meet in person and somewhere quiet where you can talk. if you cant meet in person, then a phone or video call is much better than a text. with texting, you cant hear each others tone of voice. plus, its more respectful to meet in person or to talk on the phone. as for the conversation itself: be honest, but dont be condescending. explain your thoughts and feelings, and let him explain his as well. *edit: typo
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 12:23 AM
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i know it can be hard. ive told my mom about my desire to be traditional. she was a housewife herself for most of my childhood and has a lot of conservative values, but she had to start working once she divorced my father. she also had a lot of casual sex, and thinks its a bit odd that i dont want that. overall, she supports me. it might be different for you since your mother is a radical feminist. eventually you should tell your mom although it will be difficult. she'll have to accept that you …
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 10:37 PM
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first of all, i think its great that you decided you want to be a homemaker at such a young age. im 18 myself, so just a few years older than you. i also got bullied in high school, however for different reasons. i advise you to ignore them. focus on your schoolwork and your hobbies and build good habits. do some community service. these bullies do NOT understand you or your goals. you know yourself the best out of anyone.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 10:08 PM
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i feel like low block heels are going to be your best friend. i dont like flats either because theres no arch support. i recommend oxford heels. theyre perfect for fall, use a block heel, and come in a variety of heights. theyre quite versatile as well. i also like chelsea boots for the fall/winter. theyre stylish and comfortable!
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 07:37 AM
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youre welcome! and don't forget that dressing up is supposed to be fun. try on different pieces and find what you love
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/21 01:26 AM
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thanks for adding! this is a great resource
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/21 02:51 PM
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wear colors that compliment your skin. if dark colors look good on you, then wear them. i wear black and grey a lot in the colder months because i love dressing to the season. my favorite dress is black and grey. dressing traditionally feminine is wearing a lot of dresses and skirts, and of course, dressing modestly. here are some fabulous examples this beautiful black cocktail dress an adorable dress with some springtime flair. you can easily wear a blouse underneath for more coverage. you can …
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/21 02:27 PM
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personally, im a monogamous woman, so that would be a huge dealbreaker for me. even if he was very high value, i still wouldnt be able to put up with it. it wouldnt be worth the emotional pain
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 09:43 PM
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it doesnt matter if you have the looks of an angel. if you have a bad attitude and unattractive personality, you wont be able to attract a man whos willing to commit to you. she needs to take a step back and do some self-reflection. she has amazing outer beauty, but now she needs to work on her internal beauty
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/21 12:08 AM
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theres one hobby i can think of right off the bat that absolutely turns me off. gambling. i dont like the idea of throwing away money just for a chance to receive more in return. plus, its something that can very easily turn into an addiction. as for video games, i dont mind if a man plays them to unwind after a long day, but when it starts to interfere with his daily life or affects his mood negatively, then theres an issue. i play video games occasionally myself, but none of them focus on viol…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 03:27 AM
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ill share a bit of my experience. im currently dating a man who is vegan. we cook vegan meals together and i enjoy trying new things and cooking with new ingredients, but he respects that im not vegan. its not even an issue. i suggest that you talk to him and tell him that he cant control what you eat. set your boundaries
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/21 08:05 PM
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a chart for the fridge is a very clever idea!
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 03:39 AM
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after you get into the habit of eating healthy and exercising regularly, you will feel the benefits for yourself and start loving it. your partner may be your motivation right now, but eventually, you really will be doing it for yourself!
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 12:47 AM
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ive been cooking since i was young. i would recommend learning basic techniques. you need to learn proper knife skills. you must learn how to prepare meat, vegetables, and fruit properly and safely. next, some basic techniques to learn: -pan frying -roasting -stewing as for meat, make sure you have a meat thermometer. i would start with chicken breast because its relatively cheap. try pan frying first because you can easily adjust the temperature and check if its cooked. 165F is when chicken is …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/21 06:07 AM
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this is something that seriously affects relationships long-term. i dont think its such a good idea to be with someone who has such a different viewpoint on a matter that is so important
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/21 12:13 AM
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i learned how to bake before i learned how to cook, so it all just comes naturally to me. with practice, patience, and precision, you can bake anything! as for chocolate soufflé, it happens to be my favorite dessert. but its also known to be one of the most technically challenging. it's difficult to perfect but oh so worth it. a tip for baking any chocolate dessert: its only as good as the chocolate you make it with. dont be afraid to spend a little extra on good quality chocolate
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 12:46 AM
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nope. your bmi is healthy and when you're working out, you might weigh a little more anyways from muscle gain. and be realistic. you cant have beautiful feminine curves while being underweight, you need muscle!
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 12:29 AM
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cooking is one of my passions, so i love cooking dishes from all over the world. i dont make these very often (they are time consuming), but these are phenomenal. also very fun to make for kids as well! let them help make the filling and form the buns! Chinese steamed buns i usually come up with my own meals mostly. however, im big on baking so ill share some of my staple bread and dessert recipes! My go-to waffle recipe The best chocolate chip cookies you'll ever make The fluffiest dinner rolls…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/21 05:49 AM
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im very traditionally feminine. but just because i am doesnt mean i want an a-hole for a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:55 PM
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i would consider myself a red pilled woman so heres my take. red pilled men are usually manipulative a-holes and they think theyre cool because of it. blue pilled men are usually boring and wont take the lead. answer: neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 03:29 PM
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i highly recommend looking into the kibbe body types. find yours and it will give you a good place to start. find out what colors look good on you as well. i really like the seasonal color test dont be afraid to accessorize! a cute hat or headband along with some dainty jewelry in a color that compliments your skin can really pull an outfit together. wear shoes that go along with your outfit. you dont always have to wear heels to be feminine. flats are just fine and remember to be practical. for…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 01:20 AM
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i made the mistake of dating in the middle of my self-improvement journey. it wasnt anything serious, but i still broke it off because i felt that i wasnt ready for a relationship yet. now, i can focus all of my energy on myself, my space, and my career. so yes, focus on your fitness before dating. another person can and will distract you from your goals. once you've achieved your goal, youll have so much more confidence your mind will be so much clearer
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/21 03:11 AM
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do yourself a favor and leave him
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 04:51 PM
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this is some great advice! im at a healthy weight but i tracked my calories for about a week just to see how much i was eating and how many calories the foods i eat actually have. it also helped me figure out how to create a meal that is nutrient dense but also satisfying for my hunger.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 04:38 PM
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i want to mention that only eating 1000 cals a day is NOT sustainable or healthy. i always recommend consulting a nutritionist/dietician for weight loss because a lot of stuff you see on the internet is just... not great.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 12:57 AM
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