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When you say single, do you also mean no hook ups or “situationships” with people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:17 AM
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I think it just hurt your feelings. Have the same attitude with the women that are saying hateful and equally “harmful” things about men in this thread. Goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:02 PM
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You’re not addressing my point, just shifting to anecdotes and harmful generalizations. This isn’t productive, so I’ll leave it here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:55 PM
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You don’t see all the hateful comments against men? Saying they want a “cheap and legal way to own a slave” or “they don’t think women can be on their level because they’re egomaniacs.” Like cmon now. It’s not “speculating men want sex,” it’s reducing men’s motivations to “they only want sex” in a pretty hateful way. But you choose to ignore those comments for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:46 PM
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Most of this thread is full of misandry and demeaning men with reductionism but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:12 PM
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All these women saying it’s just about sex are basically saying they’re selecting guys who are out of their league and they think they can lock them down for a relationship. Then pumped & dumped. If that’s been your experience, it says more about the type of men you’re choosing than what all men actually want in relationships. Most men want real connection, but if yall keep running into the same pattern, it’s worth asking if you’re selecting for that pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:29 PM
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You can be performative and misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:33 PM
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Just say they want a physically attractive guy and don’t care if he’s misogynistic or not, always trying to justify it 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:30 PM
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Idk why this is so hard for some people to grasp
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 08:29 PM
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With apps and social media, women are exposed to a much wider pool than ever before, and a relatively small group of highly attractive or high-status men get a disproportionate amount of attention. That can shift what feels “decent” over time, not because anyone is doing something wrong, but because the comparison point has changed. Which makes the other men feel less visible and more replaceable than they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:07 AM
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63% of men under 30 are single compared to 34% of single women. It had went up 12% for men in 2 years, and for women only went up 2%. That gap can’t be bridged just by saying “age gap relationships” and you can’t explain the difference in % change with that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:47 PM
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You’re delusional and or coping if you think every single one of those interactions are scripted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:38 PM

Seeing casual sex as harder to obtain doesn’t mean someone values it more or sees partners as fallback options. You’re making lots of assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:07 AM

Recognizing casual sex as a signal of raw attraction doesn’t mean someone values relationships less, you’re just forcing a contradiction that isn’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:18 AM

No one here is saying relationships aren’t worth anything. The original point was about how casual sex is often interpreted as a signal of desirability, not that relationships are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:47 AM
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This feels like a shallow way of looking at it. You’re reducing any loneliness while single to dependency, when in reality someone can have a full life and still feel the absence of romantic connection. Friends, hobbies, and purpose don’t replace that. Wanting that doesn’t mean someone can’t function alone, it just means they’re missing a type of connection they haven’t or don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:35 AM

It feels inconsistent to treat it casually with some people but then more carefully with someone you actually care about. From the outside, it can come across like you’re okay being spontaneous when it’s some random, but then more reserved when it’s someone who might matter long term, which can feel a bit backwards. I’m not saying that’s your intention, but I think that’s why it doesn’t really make sense to me. I think I just see sex as an inherently intimate act, while many women here clearly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:26 AM

You speak on behalf of the monolith?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:09 AM

“Nothing in life that is of value comes easy”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:07 AM
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No, he’s asking for specifics because it’s bs that yall think you can tell just by looking at the guy or talking with him for 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:34 AM
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Helping ≠ fixing it for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:20 AM
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Fr, genuinely brutal for him. If she truly cared for and liked him enough to marry him, she wouldn’t be having these thoughts, much less posting about it on Reddit. Hope he sees this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:44 PM
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And she could still be one but needs her bills paid
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:37 PM

You’re confusing social constructs with basic human attraction. I’m not arguing with “just be gay bro” as a serious take.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 08:29 AM

I agree, but in the same sense, I don't think "misogynistic internet ideologies" made men so much less successful that men under 30 became 12% more single in 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:49 AM

The people most successful with women that I’ve known have been mostly misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:35 AM

63% of men under 30 are single vs 34% of women under 30 (2022). Around 2020 it was 51% for men and 32% for women. It’s risen for both genders but significantly more for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:29 AM

OP didn’t say anything about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:15 AM

They get affected because their emotions and brains tell them they’re not ok alone. They don’t need to be told otherwise and to just be alone, that’s not human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:13 AM

I don’t think men feeling attraction to women is a societal construct, and the way to act on that attraction is through dating women. For most of them, I don’t believe telling them they’d be happier single is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 05:07 AM

Dating apps are reality <image> This is only up to 2020 so it’s probably even worse now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:57 AM
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Both comments are true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:48 PM
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There are tons of men who are misogynist and disrespect women who have plenty of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:11 PM
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The same reason many women get so angry and defensive whenever body count or their promiscuity is brought up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 05:05 PM
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I think there’s a difference between shaming people and having values. I don’t think it’s wrong to prefer or promote being more selective about sex or relationships. For a lot of people, that leads to more stability and better long-term outcomes. That doesn’t mean others should be shamed for making different choices though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:56 PM
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I agree unless the man is a virgin himself, then I don’t think he should be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:38 PM

Men improving looks = daily gym and be taller Women improving looks = don’t be obese and makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:48 PM
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Being “actually nice” and not a “nice guy” isn’t going to get you laid. There needs to be a base physical attraction first. Women don’t owe you sex because you’re nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:58 PM
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Just sounds like they aren’t very close then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:34 AM

Standards =/= preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:55 PM
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I disagree, that’s just called having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:57 PM
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God forbid we have free will and want to have fun and fuck, I guess? Cause it doesn’t give you guys a chance? Go have fun and fuck, nobody is stopping you, you’re just on the outside looking in and getting in a tizzy about it. Yeah. Literally in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:42 PM
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I’ve seen so many women advocating to just lie about their body count & past. There are bad women as there are bad men, just because women can sleep around more doesn’t mean they’re “good women.” Like what.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:40 PM
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be a person people enjoying hanging out with That’s called a friend, this thread isn’t about making friends. There needs to be physical attraction as well for more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:36 PM
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You don’t think women do the same exact thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:31 PM
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“how men make it out to be” it takes 2 people to have sex so idk who straight men were hooking up with pre 2000s by your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:53 AM
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And did you have casual sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 03:39 AM
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“Countless times” that’s just your fault atp
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:24 AM
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There would be a lot less failed relationships because there would be less relationships in general
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:46 PM
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Weird flex but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:34 PM
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Not directly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:20 AM

Maybe for you. For me personally, there is more to romantic relationships than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 09:34 AM
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I think that’s a result of you having dated and been with hundreds of women rather than the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:12 PM
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You need someone willing to engage with you to build experience. It’s more like needing job experience to get an entry level job. You can study, improve your resume, and prepare all you want, but if no one gives you that first opportunity, you can’t build experience in a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:10 PM
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Chad said he was gonna commit and didn’t after he cracked?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:01 PM
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There’s a reason that a common insult for men is virgin and a common one for women is slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:09 PM
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Internalized misogyny is just failure in taking accountability. I guess i can say i have internalized misandry but because it’s a buzz word it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:46 AM
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Makes me feel mad/sad just reading this. Sorry you had to go through that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:38 AM
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There’s a reason that a common insult for men is virgin and a common one for women is slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:33 AM
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Couldn’t refute his point so you had to attack him? 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:31 AM
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Don’t agree with the conclusion on experiment 4. Of course men consistently having sex are going to implicitly favor women compared to sexless men. This could mean Chad virtue signaling and lying to get sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:23 AM
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If it was Chad though you’d have sex with him with no regard to whether he’s intelligent, funny, and kind-hearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:01 PM
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It would be helpful to just admit you want men for their looks instead of telling ugly guys it’s because they’re misogynistic. I also don’t really get shitting on men who want that (a roster?) but then going and participating in it. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:47 AM
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That doesn’t make sense. It takes 2 people to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:42 AM
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I don’t think it’s jealousy as much as those circumstances have just ruined dating for that subset of men & they’re bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:39 AM
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That first ss is fucking crazy 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:26 AM
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Getting asked for sex isn’t proof of being above average - the bar for casual sex is lower than the bar for commitment. In the past, average men and women mostly paired off within their range. Now, dating apps give average women access to higher-tier men for casual encounters, which can raise standards and filter out the average men they likely would’ve dated before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:16 PM
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had to choose average men and sub par men based on those men’s ability to provide. Because they themselves were average and sub par women. Instead of hopping on a dating app and fucking some dude who would never commit to her outside of sex, they dated people in their own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:03 PM
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They want a good man to marry. Chad is good enough for a hook up but he's not marriage material for most of us can’t get him to commit outside of sex, I’ll blame it on all men. He is not an idol to women, he is an idol to men because you guys glorify hook ups so much which I'll never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:57 PM
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*top 20% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:52 PM
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basically if he has options there is no chance he will value you OP got pumped and dumped by Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:58 PM
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Still accurate if you change man to woman and Chad to Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:54 PM
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Set your own standards and stop listening to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:43 PM
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And some people very capable of relationships can’t. People are nuanced
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:41 AM

jealous of men who mistreat women because they want to do the same thing. That’s just a horrible generalization and I don’t agree at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:39 PM

“Christian” woman gushing about kinks and hookups 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:11 AM

Wtf is this post? It’s just OP saying what their preference is 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:08 AM
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Whew. This guy is badass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:09 AM
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“The bar is in hell” and “2 million swipes led to 2 matches, 1.2k conversations, and THEN ONE DATE.” Pick one 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:41 PM
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You didn’t say that, but you’ve implied that you think every incel/lonely man who is struggling with women is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:39 PM
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So women have the intelligence level of fish, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:31 PM
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These posts always reek of OP being mad that Chad didn’t settle for them after leading them on for some time for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:03 AM
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“No u”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 08:40 AM

I think many or most people would feel unfulfilled being single their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:50 AM

Don’t act like women are out approaching 🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:46 AM

It feels pretty unsympathetic when it’s “men just want sex” every time from women on this sub. & you are just reinforcing the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:37 AM

What does 9/11 have to do with the red pill? Did I miss something
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 08:05 PM

Not once did he blame women 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:43 PM
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Then these men need to work on themselves to get sex, not give up on society because it’s not giving them any. Of course many men work on themselves for this reason. It still doesn’t change anything for most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:15 PM

Just sounds like you’re aromantic. Which is ok, but for majority of men they won’t feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:45 PM

Disagreed, sounds like you’re just aromantic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:08 PM
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They have more one night stands though per person
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:27 AM

Because they can still get intimacy and sex whenever they want it from hookups with guys out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:01 PM
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How did you meet him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:19 AM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:50 PM
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It’s not a meme, it’s probably the #1 thing women look for in a guy, maybe besides face. Of course you can overcome it by improving in other aspects, but height is like the first thing majority of women are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:36 AM
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Yes women would love a committed romantic relationship with the Chad’s they are hooking up with, but they are unable to as they won’t commit so they rotate through multiple different men that are out of their league who will still fuck them as one of their temporary placeholder GFs. This data is also pretty useless considering it’s self-reported and it’s what they want, not what is actually happening. Men are more sexless on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 01:25 PM
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Because women are hooking up with multiple guys while most guys would prefer a relationship. And of course women aren’t going to be satisfied after getting into a relationship after racking up 10+ bodies since they’re supposed to be loyal and not fucking Chad who is out of her league but won’t commit to her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:39 AM
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They’re talking about a date and maybe hooking up, not a lasting relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:26 AM
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Which of “most men’s issues” are self inflected? Genuinely curious, and I don’t mean not going to therapy, because therapy would be a remedy not the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:49 AM
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Because you go for men who are out of your league that would not commit to you, but would use you for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:42 AM
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How is that a reason to despise them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:03 PM
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They’re more comfortable being “single” because they have access to intimacy via dating apps/being a woman, even when they are technically not in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:27 AM
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Why do you despise 95% of all men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:14 AM

Just like the 99% of women who have never approached a man, only difference is they get to pick and choose their suitors where men can take what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:09 PM

A woman could spend all day every day playing video games and sitting on their phone and they would still have a plethora of guys to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:05 PM

Dating apps don’t work for 90% of men and both Gen Z men and women spend more time inside. Think about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:03 PM

These are favors for sure, but the main thing is social media and dating apps which have given women an abundance of options and significantly raised their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:00 PM

Women’s standards, which have been inflated by social media, dating apps, and makeup. I’m not blaming women, they’re just taking advantage of something that’s in their favor. Some men settle out of loneliness which even further raises that woman’s standards, and the rest are single or in the top % of men who have it similar to women. Not saying the factors in the article aren’t at play, but I don’t think they’re nearly as big of an issue as they’re being made to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:59 PM

For the vast majority of human history women werent nearly as promiscuous as today, and the man and woman were likely equal in body count. Nowadays women are a lot more promiscuous and almost always have higher body counts than their male counterparts. Stop comparing it with the past because times have changed so it’s irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:41 PM
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Yeah, same goes for fat women and women with high body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:08 PM

Women are more likely to get help (and thus report they have it) for their depression. Men are 3 to 4 times more likely to die to suicide than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:58 PM

Just because the redditors on this sub don’t have standards doesn’t mean other men don’t 😂 “most” men will not gladly be with Jabba the Hut with a vagina. Women are allowed to judge and they definitely do judge, idk what your point is here. If you want to be promiscuous that’s on you, but you might be judged and possibly rejected by future partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:47 PM
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