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Purge Week!catsinbananahats/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:50 PM
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Question For Mencatsinbananahats/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:45 PM
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I can recognize that someone is hot tho. And short muscular dudes trigger my aesthetic attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:31 AM
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Divide by negative 1 and now we are talking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:11 AM
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So not low enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:07 AM
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Damn your standards are on the floor
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:05 AM
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A blackmailing karen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:03 AM
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That is called blackmail and it is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:55 AM
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For your reference I am attracted to shorter but muscular dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:54 AM
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Are we talking about the same thing? I don't have the virus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 05:56 AM
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I'll wear my mask?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:55 AM
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Update: I tested negative for covid 19 now. So I guess no quarantine and I just have the worst fucking cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 04:13 AM
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What if I make myself want to kill myself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:07 PM
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Then you should wear your Jack Skellington shirt. Opt for comfortable over fancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:01 PM
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Don't know if I have corona or a cold. Really hope it's a cold cause I don't wanna quarantine over New Year's Eve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:00 PM
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I've also had 5 different therapists. I've tried emdr, cbt, and talk therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:10 PM
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I already tried therapy this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:44 PM
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I already don't have the time for therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:47 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:38 PM
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13 when he started, 19 when he stopped
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:29 PM
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I don't think he ever looked at me that way but sometimes he'd smack my ass playfully as some parents and he wouldn't stop after I told him I felt uncomfortable. I asked my mom for help getting through to him and I nearly caused a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:21 PM
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My dad was an alcoholic, my grandpa is protecting his stepson who confessed to sexually exploiting his own stepdaughter. My other uncle who is now dead sexually harassed my mom and other women in the family. I've had uncomfortable experiences dating and being friends with men to say the least. But I have abusive women in my life too. My grandma is also protecting my pedophile of an uncle. My paternal aunt is a covert narcissist. I really don't think the amount of abusive men in my life caused th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:20 PM
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I feel like racism and an irrational phobia aren't the same thing though. Just as there's a difference between me and a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:13 PM
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That helps
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:09 PM
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But this is life ruining fear. I can't even be friends with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:06 PM
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Well I can afford to spend time or money on therapy so what else can I do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:00 PM
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Cool, I already do that. It makes me absolutely miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:34 PM
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So no one. Good, I already date no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:32 PM
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I'm not just afraid of strangers though. I'm scared of the men I know too. I try to hide it but I feel a bit scared of my dad and fear spending time alone with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:30 PM
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Truth be told I don't hate men, I just hate that I'm scared of them. Men are people just like me, I know. Not all men are predators I know. I just can't shake the irrational fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:26 PM
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Parsley or sage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:25 PM
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Who's the bum that keeps getting girlfriends? You mean bum as in an actually homeless person?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:40 AM
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The problem with incels is that they expect women to be like college admissions when they are really like grad school admissions. College admissions accepts bribes (or has in the past) and selects based on diversity. You can get into a college with the bare minimum GPA. Grad schools on the other hand look at the whole of the person but they don't accept the minimum GPAs and scores. I'm drunk on sleep deprivation so this may all seem confusing, but long story short men think women will ever accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:32 AM
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Hinge matches people within one attractiveness point so if you're only seeing fat women, you are probably fat too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:35 AM
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I hate to tell you, but Hinge shows you people within one attractiveness point which means if you keep being matched with fat or unattractive people it might mean you're fat and unattractive yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:34 AM
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Wish I could find a guy to be the Jackson to my Sloane.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:06 AM
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Where I come from they call it a white elephant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:06 AM
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No it's an explanation. I'm personally more into hispanic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:18 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:50 PM
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Cause..well...you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:50 PM
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So basically you're asking for the subreddit to be like purge week every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:36 PM
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Can't brake what's already brocken🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:34 PM
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Would not bang I'd only bang Jamie Camil
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:25 PM
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Look at those teeth, Richard Ramirez was ugly af.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:22 PM
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It is if you're Donald Trump tho. cough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:21 PM
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What evil things? Hot guys can't do anything wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:19 PM
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Yee
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:18 PM
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Don't you have a wife or something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:18 PM
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That's cause no evil guy would really say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:17 PM
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Excuse me I'm not childfree I'm just a virgin. And I don't watch netflix, I watch hbomax.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:16 PM
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"I'm a nice guy"= Run the fuck away from me before I drag you into my rat's nest of self pity and manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:12 PM
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Good thing no one will ever want to have a baby with you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:10 PM
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Hating nice guys is not a bad thing. Nice guys are entitled little shits. "I'm a nice guy" is code for "run the fuck away from me before I drag you into my nest of self pity and manipulation".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:09 PM
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That's some champagne problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:05 PM
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I feel like my biggest glow up in personality came from getting older. I have better emotional regulation and impulse control now than I did even a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:50 AM
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But medicine is yucky
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:15 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:00 AM
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Behavior, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:35 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:15 AM
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It's been more than 8 days without honor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:11 AM
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Sometimes I wonder do I really see that many creepy guys or is it that I just think too many guys are creepy and need to lower my standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:08 AM
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My professor is pretty conservative tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:19 AM
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Absolutely. It was horrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:02 AM
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Bored procrastinating an exam
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:44 AM
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I made myself eat pureéd pizza rolls for a class project. I think I'm traumatized now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 01:44 AM
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Put a sprinkler in front of the house
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:34 AM
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Eh I feel like I could've gone my whole life without alcohol and not regretted it one bit. All it does is make me tired, unless I drink enough of it to blackout. If I blackout I do have fun but what good is that if I can't remember I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:30 PM
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My anxiety doesn't respond well to booze unless I drink enough to it to black out. Alcohol just makes me tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:26 PM
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I'm more lower middle class. Though really I think I belong to the class of BCS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:24 PM
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I'd rather be tortured and live than die
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:05 PM
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Same. I feel like I don't have youthful optimism anymore and the kind of relationship I want only exists in the movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:46 AM
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I wish my friends set me up on blind dates with their friends like baby boomers said happened in the old days.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:53 AM
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As someone who does put that in their profile, it does not. I still get men saying "let's fuck".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:50 PM
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I feel no rush to get married at all. I do feel a rush to have kids though, given the finite number of zygotes and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:49 PM
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If anything the pandemic led to more people having sex because of the amount of couples forced to quarantine with each other. It even caused a baby boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:48 PM
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Men wear makeup in real life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:01 AM
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Incel son because the thot daughter could get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:21 AM
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Cause desperation is ugly to most people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:38 PM
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I think the key is expressing your emotions but at the same time not displaying signs of emotional disregulation. Women want a man who can both show emotions AND regulate them. People want other people who can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:37 PM
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Why else would you post?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:29 PM
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Cyberbullying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 10:11 PM
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Got really drunk, someone drove me home, and when I got to my dorm room I fainted into the wall. Came to covered in blood and puke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:50 PM
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I have dishounored the family
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:48 PM
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Bullshit. They hold someone else's dog to make women think it's their dog. They take pictures at weird angles or only put pictures of themselves with hats or sunglasses on to hide their receding hairlines or weak eye area.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:41 PM
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No, because I swipe right on every guy and I would not be willing to have sex with any of them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:39 PM
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True that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:38 PM
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People with no friends in high school are superior to those who had friends. Why? We don't get homesick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:34 PM
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Well to be fair the two incidents happened two years apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:33 PM
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That's when you just get them a gift card/certificate to a place they like and let them buy their gift themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:29 PM
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I tried, and was rewarded with trauma and a giant gash in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:28 PM
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Aka, they chose more lethal methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:54 PM
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That's because testicular cancer is rare (8,850 cases per year) while breast cancer is common (200,000 cases per year in the US alone). Fyi, breast cancer affects men too. The counterpart to breast cancer would (kind of) be prostate cancer. I say kind of because people born female can't have prostates, but people born male can have breast tissue. It's easier to hold awareness for something that is likely to affect someone close to you than it is to hold awareness for something that most likely w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:45 PM
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At least here in the US you can tell a therapist your financial situation and they can give you therapy for a reduced price or in some cases for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:42 PM
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As a young beach blonde, yes they do go on Tinder just to see how many matches they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:51 PM
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For some reason, I find men wearing sky blue shirts to be a turn on. I don't know why that is it just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:40 PM
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If you are so well informed, then perhaps give me the source of that wisdom. Give me the relevant info and most importantly, the damn source.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:42 AM
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Tampons? That's something you sometimes need to "shove" up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:40 AM
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I'm not into alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:39 AM
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I'd want to let them go.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:39 AM
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You expect a man on PPD to know anything about female masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:38 AM
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bandwagon fallacy. Just because people you judge as "well informed" agree with you doesn't make something true. In order for something to be true, science must agree with you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:37 AM
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A general truth needs proof. You present a hypothesis that hasn't yet been tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:29 AM
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Except the only thing that can really make a vagina become larger is birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:29 AM
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Sounds like you never dated a woman like ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:27 AM
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What books do you think are good?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:21 AM
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What if the instrument is mayonnaise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:18 AM
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I think creative hobbies (writing, drawing, video editing, music) make someone interesting. And of course if a guy can play guitar or sing that's a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:17 AM
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The real answer is that everyone's experience of the world is different and thus trying to figure out a one-size-fits-all formula like "women like X type of guy" is futile. Your best bet is to find a single person and try your best to learn who they are as a person. Don't just reduce them to woman or man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:11 AM
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Those guys probably just say that cause the only thing they know how to cook is ramen noodles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:08 AM
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Dog witness protection
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:07 AM
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Cause sometimes you have to go on a date with someone in order to really decide if you like them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:56 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 08:34 AM
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Honor bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 08:33 AM
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Honor is a thing for old people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:56 AM
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Honor is a thing of the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:47 AM
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That was 4 years ago. And no they wouldn't end up behind bars because no one arrests people for their comments on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:25 PM
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It happened to me in 2014.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:25 PM
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You moved the goalposts from "Public ridicule of unattractive women never happens ever" to "Public ridicule happens but is frowned upon"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:16 PM
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It happens online. When I was 17, people kept reposting my picture and talking about how disgusting and ugly I look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:14 PM
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Not often. Close to never. No No Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:12 PM
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I was like why are you telling me not to grape juice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:28 PM
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What in the old english is that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:24 PM
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CMV: There's not a single person alive that hasn't experienced some form of abuse at any part of their life by somebody. So if you're looking for someone who somehow was never abused, the only person who would fit that is a small child, dare I say even an infant. You can only find true childlike innocence in well...children. And please just let them have that innocence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:41 PM
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I hate to tell you...but there's not a single woman alive that hasn't been through some type of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 06:39 PM
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10,000 megawatt eyes? Wtf does that mean? That they were shooting lasers at you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:00 PM
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I've been thinking that one day in the future some kid will say they were born in the wrong generation because they listen to the 2014-2018 era Taylor Swift Songs and draw their eyebrows on with sharpie while watching Mean Girls. And I don't know how to feel about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:58 PM
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The real reason is I went to "change user flair" and it said "no user flair available"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:46 PM
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If that was true, I'd have an engineer husband by now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:42 PM
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Nah, I can't stand having people think I support a racist rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:41 PM
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It's enough humiliation to admit you won.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:28 PM
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What's the oldest age y'all will date?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:16 PM
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Actually both Rihanna and Jessica Alba don't cheat on people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:15 PM
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Ugh. Somehow I eat the same amount and exercise the same amount but my bmi just keeps increasing and increasing. I was at 23 a year ago, now I'm at 28. I'm bordering on obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:21 AM
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I've always wanted to play the og Ocarina of Time. I've only played the 3DS version, which makes literally every character look like a mouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:34 PM
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Excuse me La La Land is not basic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:31 PM
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This. My experience as a daughter from strict religious parents is exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:28 PM
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That's an overblown stereotype. A lot of us girls from strict religious families end up in bible study clubs still virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:23 PM
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No one said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 09:21 PM
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Didn't say you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:49 PM
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You still can't just brush aside the fact a younger person probably has less sexual experience and most people who are the older one in age gap relationships see the younger ones as easier to impress and to manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:49 PM
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Fine. Tell me how to change my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:44 PM
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Exactly. I've been the younger one in the age gap relationship so many times. And every time the older person said something to the effect of "Awww I'll help you learn about the world and about men, you know, cause you're young and clueless hur hur hur"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:43 PM
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I think women who are the older one in age-gap relationships are predators as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:39 PM
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Too soy for me. Needs some protien.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:52 PM
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No thanks, I don't want to be a drug addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:48 PM
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Get a room you two.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:43 PM
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You just take your rage out on people in more socially acceptable situations, like on the road or during a football game
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:42 PM
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White women and starbucks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:41 PM
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Or maybe they are just better at hiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 07:39 PM
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Said the person using social media
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:58 PM
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Mental health issues are not about victim points.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:41 PM
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Most of my failed relationships just stemmed from one sided attraction on their part. I keep dating guys I don't like in that way just to date and it never works out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:34 PM
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I got a 57%. I'm pretty satisfied with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:28 PM
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Agreed. MGTOW is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:23 PM
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Mental health issues are not part of being a woman. It's a part of being a human. Just some people have less dopamine or serotonin in their system than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:15 PM
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My theory is that the number hasn't really increased over the years, people just got better at diagnosing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:14 PM
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Or...people can just have actual mental health issues. I have anxiety (GAD) and it is not an excuse not to regulate my emotions. It's a debilitating illness with no cure. I take anxiety medication but it just makes me feel depressed and want to cry all the time and give up on life. Not to mention the nausea. I've gotten better at dealing with my anxiety over the years but it still has an effect on me. Makes forming and keeping relationships hard because I keep convincing myself they secretly hat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:08 PM
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Life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:06 PM
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But plenty of 22 year olds are hot. Why can't they just date other 22 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:52 PM
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Agreed. I basically am a toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:50 PM
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"most people are way more trusting, loving, and giving in their first relationship" And that's why I find it creepy. Dating a younger person because they don't yet have the dating or life experience to know if a person is using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:49 PM
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If you don't think it's morally wrong, also consider an 18 year old has a lot to learn and is just now taking their first steps into adulthood while a 22 year old has been in adulthood for at least 4 years and thus have more experience. Why would someone with life experience want a relationship with someone who literally only graduated high school. What would they even have in common?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:43 PM
2

It's creepy because why exactly would you want a relationship with someone who just graduated high school. What exactly does a college graduate even have in common with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:38 PM
4

I don't see how anybody my age would want a relationship with an 18 year old. Regardless of being legal they are still immature, plus they literally just got out of high school so they are dumb as bricks (I know that because I was 18 once) and still pretty much children in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:37 PM
1

No he doesn't. Not until charges are filed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:04 PM
1

You don't win just yet. Charges haven't been filed yet and they don't know for sure if it was Darrel Brooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:52 PM
2

I will never agree to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:47 PM
2

He was probably using her too. Why would a legal adult want a relationship with someone who literally just got out of middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:46 PM
2

An 18 year old could still be in high school. A 22 year old is a college graduate. Completely different stages of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:45 PM
3

Hence why I changed it to just Harris.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:35 AM
3

Fine, that's a condition I can accept. And you will change your flair to "Harris 2024!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:32 AM
3

Can't I be convicted in my opinion and just not want to post nudes, even as part of a bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:12 AM
4

Bitch I am certain about what I posted. I don't need to post my naked body in front of the whole internet to prove my conviction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:05 AM
2

You don't really hate women if you still have sex with them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:03 AM
2

Well, you know there's also the risk of complete strangers knowing what my naked body looks like. I prefer people's image to me to be a cat with a banana hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:02 AM
1

O k
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:01 AM
1

Well I'm not very willing to post actual nudes, considering it is against not only this subreddit's policy but Reddit's policy. I will still stand by my opinion though. I see what you were trying to do, questioning my conviction. You think you're calling my bluff.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:57 AM
2

I'll post nudes, but it will just be the eyeshadow lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:52 AM
2

Wrong prediction. If the driver wasn't white, they would've mentioned it cause sadly that's just how things are in news reports. For most people, if you mention a particular person's appearance without mentioning their skin color, that is code for "this person is white". That's a carryover from the old days, white is kinda assumed to be the default if no other visual context is given. Though I just realized I just proved your point but whatever I will stand by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:48 AM
1

Let me show you why generalizations of a whole gender do not work: Men are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:35 AM
2

It means you're not very approachable and she is scared to tell you her feelings because she feels like you don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:26 AM
2

If you're gonna make a generalization about people who eat solid food, you should specify that you mean only people who eat solid food. If you're making a generalization that only really applies to the percentage of women who participate in hookup culture, say "women who participate in hookup culture" for fucks sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:25 AM
2

What's the alternative? We're all one huge collective consciousness?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:18 AM
1

Me too. I just can't tell how much water is too much or too little, especially for cacti.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:16 AM
3

The thing is there is no rule and trying to find a single formula to deal with a whole range of people is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:16 AM
1

I know. I had a huge cactus phase when I was just entering college.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:13 AM
1

True cads don't need to cling to the redpill movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:13 AM
1

Well I love succulents, the noun. I fucking love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:12 AM
1

If you're such a cad, which I doubt you are cause you sound gross, why are you on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:06 AM
3

I've added "succulent" to the list of adjectives that make me rage barf Just..ugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:04 AM
0

"Succulent" (bleh) young women don't want your elderly ass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:01 AM
2

Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:00 AM
1

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:59 AM
2

Lol we all know you aren't better than us just because you replace the crying with non stop whining. I whine too but at least I take a day or two off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:59 AM
3

Because there is no way to generalize a whole gender. There's not one single thing that ALL women do. We prove that women are different from each other with our anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:57 AM
7

CMV: If you don't shave your body bald , you don't get to talk about women having leg, chest, arm, armpit, or facial hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 01:37 AM
2

Bruh grow up it's hair if you're gonna judge women for having hair then you better be smooth as a fucking dolphin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 01:36 AM
4

The key word is barely like even someone who just turned 18 could still be in high school. Now it's okay if you are like 20 but if you're older than that (aka college graduate age) and want to fuck girls still in high school we have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 01:35 AM
2

Maybe it's because they can tell you're not so much of a nice guy yourself and they'd rather fuck the hot asshole than the average asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:56 PM
3

If you want a girl who doesn't participate in hookup culture, stop participating in hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:27 PM
3

That's not true. I'm the girl who wants to wait to have sex until I know him for at least three months. And I don't participate in hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:02 PM
0

More men own houses and/or live with their parents than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 07:57 PM
3

That story you're writing seems very interesting. I'll have to read the whole thing when it comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:59 PM
2

No, it's because I'm getting a degree soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:58 PM
1

I tried OLD. It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:18 PM
3

I don't want a guy who is a millionaire. They have baggage I don't wanna deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:34 PM
7

No, it's a matter of having things in common and having the same goals in life. I was seeing a guy who dropped out of college and it didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:28 PM
2

Who said anything about Sunday brunch? Do you think I'm 60?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:28 PM
6

Cause I'm getting a degree and I just can't relate to men who don't have one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:24 PM
3

OLD is full of liars. I'd rather meet people irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:18 PM
1

Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:16 PM
3

https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=21&maxAge=30&excludeMarried=true&race=0&minHeight=172.72&excludeObese=true&minIncome=60000 This is more my standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:15 PM
3

Is it too much to ask if I will only date guys who have a college degree or in college and who are not unemployed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:04 PM
0

Traveling with men is infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:02 PM
1

I just want a guy to be taller than me, though I've had a crush on a guy like three inches shorter than me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:00 PM
2

Sky blue, grass green
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:56 PM
6

Well duh, women with sexual experience are gonna be better than women who are virgins or only have had sex a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:28 PM
1

My favorite classic will always be Animal Farm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:56 AM
2

Most of the men I date get bored upon learning I'm waiting for marriage. And sadly I think that's gonna be true for most men I meet. Sex is a prerequisite to relationships these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:30 PM
3

Sometimes guys lie about what they want. We aren't mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:18 PM
1

We cant tell at first glance what guy wants sex immediately and what guy doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:13 PM
2

That wasn't a personal attack towards you specifically, was it? I didn't call you a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:59 PM
6

I didn't directly call him a pedophile, I said pedophilia and a kink aren't the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:57 PM
4

But I mean...same level of maturity in these arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:32 PM
4

I'm more a no-labels kind of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:31 PM
3

Well I actually have boobs so I deserve to be the leader
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:18 PM
4

Sometimes I feel like I spend time on this sub because I missed the chance to be on a debate team in high school. I mean, it's basically the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:17 PM
2

True love only exists in Disney movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:15 PM
2

Don't gatekeep boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:14 PM
6

Who said women can't be happy by looking at boobs jiggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:11 PM
2

The answer is people just wish others would shut up about their preferences. Whether it's about height, lifestyle, race, or gender no one wants to hear about it. Just date who you want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:08 PM
2

Having casual sex isn't any more of a trait than being an alcoholic ie a trait. It's a lifestyle choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:06 PM
4

It's not the mere preference that offends people, it's the reasons people give and that some people feel like the reason for their preference should be broadcast to the entire world. If you don't want to date a woman who has casual sex just because you don't swing that way, then fine. That goes without saying. But if you don't want to date a woman who has had casual sex because you think her vagina will look like roast beef, then people will be rightly offended. People don't care about preferenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:03 PM
4

A distraction from the inevitability of death
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:54 PM
3

I also get reminded I'm a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:51 PM
3

And my point it we don't earn money to attract men, we earn money so we can survive without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:50 PM
5

The average PPD woman. They have more experience with sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:44 PM
4

PPD is a nice distraction from being a woman in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:41 PM
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I'm not trying to get a career to make a man's dick hard, I'm getting a career so I don't have to depend on a man for survival. I don't want to end up trapped in a relationship because of finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:41 PM
0

It does, but that's beside the point. If the men OP is referring too were saying too much sex is bad for women because it messes with the brain, they'd have a point and probably no one would disagree as sex addiction is a well documented phenomenon. But they aren't saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:34 PM
0

Because "porn ruins men" is more about the very real psychological damage (messes with the prefrontal cortex) of watching too much porn. "Too many dicks make a woman's pussy loose" is about nonexistent physical damage. One has an actual scientific basis, the other doesn't. I wonder how the one based in science is regarded as a fact and the one based on a myth is treated as a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:15 PM
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All of these posts make more sense if you take the word women to mean "women I am attracted to" and not the whole population of women. It must be assumed that when the men here are talking about women, they are only talking about women their age or younger that they find attractive. All other women are invisible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:06 PM
3

Bold to assume I keep my ex's phone numbers. I only kept my first ex's phone number for 5 years dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:07 AM
3

This may seem harsh but if he really loves you, he won't care if you say it over text or in person. He won't care if you already said it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:06 AM
1

My dad still says that word unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:25 AM
6

I think it is as equally offensive as blackface
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:32 AM
7

Leave before you get sucked in
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:30 AM
2

Oddly racially charged
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:48 PM
1

Yes I have
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:05 PM
1

K
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:55 PM
4

I've had enough men like you so no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:48 PM
1

Cause women don't show interest in me and I date whoever shows interest
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:47 PM
0

Because women don't try to pressure me into sex when all I want is a romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:43 PM
1

They won't with me. Divorce and dysfunction flows in my veins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:35 PM
2

Means you look muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:27 PM
2

Hey, the current 20 something set is great!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:20 PM
2

I'm neither. I prefer not to put labels on myself unless I've been formerly diagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:17 PM
1

Healthy and happy relationships don't exist. Yes, my interpersonal skills are pretty bad. I admit it. Plus I'm pretty close to being asexual. The cat doesn't fill the need for romance. It's...well...a cat. It fills the need to have something to take care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:14 PM
2

No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:12 PM
2

I didn't say it happened during my class, I said it happened during a time where my classes were still online. Kind of a long winded way of saying my assault happened during the pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:57 PM
3

No thanks, I'd rather have a shitty liver than shitty lungs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:49 PM
1

Did she die or sum?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:48 PM
3

NTA, your friend is acting like an entitled little bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:36 PM
6

Funny how people portray women drinking wine and owning cats as miserable. Bitch please. If I had that life, I'd be happy as can be. All I really need is companionship (cat) and something to calm my anxiety (wine) and that's a fulfilling life. Cats and wine combined are better than men. Men are gross and pushy. Cats don't expect anything out of you but food and water. Men act like their dicks are the meaning of life itself and without them women are lost and hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:34 PM
31

That sounds like a life well lived
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:33 PM
2

Being groped can be as traumatizing as rape, especially if it is repeated over a period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:24 PM
5

I got assaulted during a time where my classes were still online and it was not on a college campus. Happened to me in my own bedroom after a party. I consider myself to be part of the 1 in 5. When they say "1 in 5 women get sexually assaulted in college" they don't mean that all of those sexual assaults happen on a college campus. What they mean is that sexual assault is very common in college-aged (18-22) women due to parties and hook-up culture being very prevalent around then even if you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:21 PM
1

Still matching with more women than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:09 AM
1

Who asked for your opinion on women? No one, that's who.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:03 AM
1

My new favorite sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 06:02 AM
3

This is random but I just wish I could be in love right now. That way my parents would shut tf up about getting grandchildren...and also, I've always wanted to be in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 05:59 AM
3

Tell her your feelings but tell them in a way that it won't make her feel like you can't be friends anymore if she says no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:44 AM
1

An attractive guy who respects my physical boundaries and appreciates my personality and passion. An by attractive I don't mean objectively physically attractive I mean attractive to me in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:38 AM
2

Hey I'm 21 and I like healthy guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:09 AM
1

How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:41 AM
2

I wish I could meet a man who displays heathy behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:13 AM
2

I don't know either but 18yo me managed to somehow. Spend thousands of dollars on engine repairs, and by spent, I mean my parents had to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:14 AM
2

That didn't stop me from actually putting diesel in my car two years ago though. I guess i just forced it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:11 AM
1

Help I almost put diesel in my car.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:25 PM
2

Cheaters are not good men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:23 PM
2

I didn't know being an asshole qualified as not fitting into society's standards. And he clearly doesn't love her enough if he's flirting with other women on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 10:02 PM
2

Cause he's cheating and cheaters need to be put in their place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:59 PM
5

If you get your dog fixed during November, does that mean it's No Nuts November.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:59 PM
1

Tell his girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:57 PM
2

That's a sign it's gonna be bought by Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:22 AM
4

I'd love it if men weren't horny. And fyi as an ugly woman I get zero validation from horny guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:21 AM
5

Worse means "didn't have sex with them as early as they did with their previous partners"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:35 AM
1

Chicken tastes horrible, even fried chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:34 AM
1

Excuse me basketball is not a slog to watch football definitely is though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:23 AM
2

To play: Volleyball To watch: Basketball
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 01:23 AM
3

All the men who complain about having trouble dating are stacy chasers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:23 PM
3

But it is brocken
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 08:42 PM
2

I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:53 PM
2

How do you know he wasn't attractive. Do you know him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:24 PM
1

Misread interaction? He knew she was meeting him to get info for the news report and nothing else. Men are not that dumb, they can tell the difference between a potential hookup and an interview.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:22 PM
2

Are you victim blaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:18 PM
11

In conclusion, water is wet. I guess you're also going to point out the sky is blue?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:17 PM
2

I guess all the HVM don't live in BFE then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:13 PM
3

When you interview someone at a restaurant or bar that's called "getting professional drinks".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:12 PM
3

Men can't even fix my apartment roof that's caving in on itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:10 PM
2

Do it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:09 PM
3

Can't fix what's already broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:08 PM
2

No it was a person she was interviewing for a news report
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:07 PM
1

Even the sex robots won't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:01 PM
8

Ah yes, the classic loser move: "Can't reject me if I reject you first. See, I want to be alone, I'm not being rejected!" Source: My years of pushing away people so they can't hurt me first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:57 PM
2

That's pretty much sexual harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:49 PM
3

Mediocre racks club!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:30 PM
2

You know, I've never experienced men staring at my tits at any time in my 21 years of life. But everyone else talks about it happening so I know it happens but I guess my tits were not made for the male gaze.🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:20 PM
2

Aw shit, that's why I want to get married. I can't keep track of a man's misplaced items when I can't even keep track of my own items.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:06 PM
1

Eh, I'm not old enough for a quiet life in the suburbs yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:01 PM
2

Eh, I don't care what people's response is. I just made a promise to myself that if someone insults me I insult them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:55 PM
2

That's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:40 PM
2

And we also know you're a misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:36 PM
1

Possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:34 PM
1

Huh, I guess I'm just really bad at reading social cues then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:30 PM
2

In your dreams and in my nightmares, bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:28 PM
2

Yes. If you tell me to lose weight I will throw another metaphorical drink at your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:27 PM
2

I've never had a guy buy me a drink. Only other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:26 PM
3

How not to get a woman: Compliment her clothes. That way she has no way to know your intentions. For all she knows, you could be hitting on her or you could be trying to figure out where it's from so you can buy it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:25 PM
2

throws another drink in your face
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:22 PM
3

Both
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:21 PM
2

Nah, it's self defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:20 PM
4

That's how you end up with a drink thrown in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:17 PM
2

Cough height. Men are most insecure about their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:00 PM
1

Why don't men just get dick implants if they're insecure about the size then? They can have a dick made out of plastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:55 PM
4

Bitch please I've felt as much insecurity over my body as any man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:54 PM
2

Breast size, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:53 PM
1

Oof I hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:52 PM
5

What about girlfriends for both?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:40 PM
1

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:35 PM
1

Do you even know me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:11 PM
1

Ew. But nice SNL reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:07 PM
1

Not quite straight, but have dated a few men. When I was the one to break up, never asked for closure afterwards. Mostly because I cut of all forms of communication. The one instance he was the one breaking up with me he was the one reaching out and trying to talk to me and I ignored him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:06 PM
1

Q4W Man: Answers anyway. Edit: Unless you are trans or I mistook your gender, if I'm wrong about your gender just let me know and this comment will be deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:56 PM
1

Does the lexapro help with his anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:55 PM
2

Ah, an early Christmas present
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:54 PM
1

No, I have no animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:51 PM
1

And then after I told him I was asexual he said "You didn't seem so asexual when I was kissing you"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:50 PM
1

I keep ending up with bug bites on my legs even though there are no bugs I can see in my room. Wtf is going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:25 PM
3

I have ADHD and I know a whole lot of other women who have it too. A lot of women are just so good at masking their symptoms that you can't tell if they have it unless you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:20 PM
4

If it was a dealbreaker I'd be a hypocrite. That however doesn't mean I'm willing to put up with someone who's abusive, though. So really, I want to date someone who is actively trying to do something about their mental illness and doesn't use it as an excuse to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:19 PM
2

He literally talked to me once in the cafeteria and then an hour later he was trying to make me feel his dick. I don't think that's just exploring his sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:17 PM
4

No, it's just pasta with meat sauce
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:10 PM
5

I don't really hate men I'm just jaded from having my boundaries crossed over and over and over. I change the kind of crowd I'm around but somehow I keep attracting men who don't care about my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:53 AM
4

Bad advice. Ignoring never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:52 AM
1

I like men because I like people. I like women too. I prefer the person over what's between their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:39 AM
2

What else attracts men besides sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:10 AM
0

I wish I could have a script or guideline to get men who won't want to have sex right away (by that I mean by the third date or even by the first month, or even before marriage)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:16 AM
4

They are probably adrenaline junkies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:54 AM
7

You forgot that men like him measure success in body count, not marriage or having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:42 AM
1

Nooo I can't watch Grave of the Fireflies every time I do it sends me into an existential crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:38 AM
3

I do also.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:33 AM
3

Must've been an english major or sum
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:23 AM
3

Nulliparious sounds like a word I'd have to learn for the verbal portion of the GRE.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:20 AM
5

Nothing's really wrong with the word, it just sounds gross and infantilizing. Like the words moist and panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:12 AM
2

What episode from a TV show always makes you cry? For me it's Luck of the Fryish from Futurama. People talk a lot about Jurrasic Bark, but that episode just didn't give me the feels as much as the former or Game of Tones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:09 AM
3

Fuckboy is a guy who asks you to have sex with him in his dorm literally an hour after you meet him. Source: A true story.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:50 AM
2

Don't kill yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:33 AM
1

Relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:27 AM
2

Ah but except they weren't specifically talking about the difference in debating tactics on PPD, they were talking about debating tactic differences IN GENERAL. And plenty of research has been done on the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:23 AM
3

No this happened when I was trying to convince someone that Bill Cosby was not falsely accused. I literally gave them the quote from the deposition where he confesses to buying sedatives for the purposes of making women fuck him and they asked me to give the link to it so they can read it for themselves. I linked it and they said "it's too many pages, I'm not reading that"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:14 AM
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Or they say "The article is too many pages, I'm not reading it"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:03 AM
2

Oh really? Then practice what you preach and give me statistics and articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:50 AM
2

Nah, I just know how to debate, unlike you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:46 AM
3

I think he's pretending not to understand in order to be a sexist jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:45 AM
2

If you can't understand a simple sentence, then perhaps you are the exception to your own rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:43 AM
10

Funny how you say that, because I don't see any facts, statistics, articles, or logic in your argument. Just an anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:41 AM
12

Lol of course you are. You engineers never shut tf up about your damn superiority complex. Computer science people do this too, to a lesser extent. I'm in STEM too but I don't brag nonstop about how much dough I'll be making/am making.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:13 AM
4

What's your degree in?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:06 AM
3

I'm sorry to break it to you, but if you are in a relationship like this you are being emotionally abused and you're saying what they want you to think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:05 AM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:01 AM
7

Shhh let him have his fantasy of an emotionally abusive relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:00 AM
1

Cut it out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:59 AM
1

I am. I'm never gonna date a controlling person ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:59 AM
2

Sounds like someone who has never been in a healthy relationship. Tbf neither have I, but I've learned from it and just don't date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:58 AM
1

Stop the winky faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:57 AM
1

I'm serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:56 AM
1

No, I learned from it and it won't happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:56 AM
2

No, in reality. Will never date anyone like that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:54 AM
2

I do believe that. I've already gone through the possessive shit with a guy. Don't want to go through that again with anyone, gender doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:50 AM
2

No, in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:49 AM
6

Enjoy your emotionally abusive relationship ig
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:49 AM
1

Depends on how old they are and how mature the younger adult is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:48 AM
2

Ew she sounds possessive and controlling, that's a no from me. That bullshit is ripped out of the toxic rom-com playbook. "I don't want you to be around anyone else but me, but that's because I loooove you so much"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:47 AM
3

This litmus test is true for less attractive women too. I've had to approach people myself in order to make friends/have conversations. People don't come to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:44 AM
1

True, but that doesn't change the fact that most functioning adults either fall into the consumer or producer role or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:35 AM
1

I didn't ask where they had value, I asked for their role.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:32 AM
1

What other positions are there?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:32 AM
2

Answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:31 AM
1

What do you think the role of infertile and trans women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:29 AM
1

What about infertile women and trans women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:27 AM
3

I think you know what women's place is society is, which is as consumers and producers/sellers, same place as men. Everyone's purpose is either to produce or sell (with work), buy (with money earned at work), or both at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:15 AM
2

Eh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 02:12 AM
2

Lol good one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:11 AM
2

Non denominational
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:54 AM
2

I'm glad you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:45 AM
1

Not ex-religious but more on-again off-again religious. I just don't tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:20 AM
4

Oh noes, whatever shall I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:31 PM
2

Platypus
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 11:05 PM
5

And most of your posts feel like r/iamveryedgy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:57 PM
1

We don't desire female superiority. I don't think you've even met a feminist irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:55 PM
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I can't wait for these white men to go to foreign countries and find out that women in foreign countries have standards and (sometimes) are feminists too. Lol, imagine the breakup conversations. "Uh sorry I can't date you, I was assuming that because you're not from the West you were submissive, wouldn't care about your rights, and would trade sex for my meager 20k salary"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:42 PM
1

I just admire them from a distance and hope that one day my feelings may be requited. Eventually, I come to terms with the fact they don't like me in that way and I move on. Never have told a person directly that I like them. Only ever asked people to tell them or kept my feelings to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:14 PM
1

You'd be surprised how many feminists are in foreign countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:08 PM
1

Met a girl named Macy, had sex with her all day. But she was dyslexic, so I ended up doing the YMCA.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:57 PM
3

Foreign women don't want your meager 20k salary, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:54 PM
3

Yep, there's something called purity culture that certain people are exposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:51 PM
2

Muh declining birthrates Listen, the world is overpopulated as is. I think it's a good thing there is less mouths to feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:05 AM
2

All drunk me did was drink the whole punch bowl and my roommate's beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:42 PM
1

Of him? Why would I be? I'm asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:01 PM
1

I haven't been believed except by other women. In fact when I open up about the traumas I've experienced people think that's an invitation for them to be more forward with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:57 PM
0

I'm waiting. Tell me where the hell it got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:56 PM
0

Tell me exactly where vagina takes me these days. In my experience it just gives me heavy periods and men who will fuck anything (I'm asexual). I got into college because my college isn't picky and they will literally take anyone. I have never experienced the benefits of being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:51 PM
1

Why would I be? I already know unicorns don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:47 PM
2

No I get it, sometimes I get sudden bursts of creativity as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:37 PM
2

Maybe you should send this to a short story publisher
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:34 PM
1

They are trying to deal with people fighting against gay marriage. I said what I said. Sis, go get your reading comprehension checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:34 PM
3

And then everyone clapped
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:31 PM
3

MensRights is more pathetic than TwoX. I once saw a post on Men's Rights that was a picture of the sign to women&children's department of the hospital (aka the maternity ward) and these manbabies were asking "but what about the men's department, don't men deserve a sign too?" At least TwoX cares about the real issues. You can laugh at us all you want but we're just trying to deal with issues in our lives whether it's sexual assault, harassment at work, vaginismus, PCOS, endometritis, homophobia,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:30 PM
1

TwoX is very concerned about Texas trying to make gay marriage a crime. Is that laughable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:29 PM
1

Always easy to pick on the women who are trying to deal with sexual assault; PCOS, and the fight against gay marriage is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:25 PM
2

Normies don't exist. Only people that are really good at masking their mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:23 PM
1

It's not assumptions. Every friend I ever had told me their story of sexual assault and if the story wasn't about SA it was about other traumas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:20 PM
1

Nice hasty generalization. Doctors don't just give antidepressants to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:19 PM
0

Maybe you don't know them as well as you think you do. I don't know a single person who hasn't been sexually assaulted or experienced another trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:16 PM
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I think mental illness is actually the norm for modern society. I don't know a single person without a trauma or mental disorder. And that's why I get mad at people who say they will only date people without any kind of mental issues. They're looking for a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:12 PM
1

I feel like people without a mental illness, trauma, or issue just don't exist. Maybe mental illness is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:10 PM
1

True that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:09 PM
1

I hit puberty at 13 and my dating experience was still shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:54 PM
3

First of all if you think society is prudish you haven't been outside. Second of all, most of feminism is sex positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:47 PM
1

Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:11 PM
2

Er that sounds a bit like muchasen syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:08 PM
0

You better have a perfectly normal mental state then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:06 PM
2

You may have anxiety, but it is just situational anxiety. You just don't have a disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:03 PM
1

I agree. There's having anxiety like being nervous for a big test and then there's having anxiety like being anxious about everything and anything to the point it makes you incredibly tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:01 PM
2

Eh I was diagnosed with anxiety and my emotions are not normal. Anxiety crippled my social ability and made it near impossible to befriend people throughout my formative years. It still makes it hard to have friends because anxiety makes me think that everyone secretly hates me and that I should withdraw before they can hurt me. And that's not all I have anxiety about. I have anxiety about death, men, carbon monoxide poisoning, fires, heights, school, work, spiders, as well as my own mental stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:53 PM
3

Like you don't have either of those things, give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:52 PM
1

I post here and I can still post to AHS
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:51 PM
2

Don't put words in my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:54 AM
4

CMV Toxic masculinity is real and so is toxic femininity I've seen with my own eyes how men are told to man up. I've seen with my own eyes how men are told there's only one type of man they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:59 AM
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I didn't say it doesn't affect you because you're a man, did I? But nice jump to conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:56 AM
2

Of course toxic masculinity is fake to people it doesn't directly affect
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:44 AM
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People saying "don't date a girl with mental issues or trauma" as if they don't have mental issues or trauma of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:41 AM
3

Do you not have issues with childhood trauma/depression of your own?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:38 AM
1

Damn why you gotta call me out rn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:37 AM
1

Rip as a woman with severe trauma/PTSD this makes me worried I won't find anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:51 AM
7

And then everyone clapped?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:50 AM
2

Welp it's almost halloween where I'm from and I don't have a costume. I guess I'm going as myself this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:40 PM
1

Would you rather date a 4 with social anxiety (in other words nice but not very fun or interesting due to the neuroticism) or a 10 that's a narcicicist (fun but manipulative)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:57 PM
1

Well everyone always told me I'm too ugly to have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:54 PM
2

I feel like hygiene is still an important point because my second boyfriend had AWFUL hygiene and it was a major cause of our breakup. He smelled like weed mixed with BO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:54 AM
1

50 Ways to Say Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:29 AM
2

Eh, Captain America is hotter. No offense to your man crush.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:49 PM
2

Chris Hemsworth is literally almost 40 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:32 PM
2

I'm not nice to people who don't tip their servers, especially if they're not tipping their servers just because of their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:58 PM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:46 PM
2

Don't blame the servers. Blame the companies. The companies are the greedy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:05 PM
0

Clearly some people haven't worked one as shown by Karens
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:00 PM
1

Well specifically I am talking about America and ideally only people who were teenagers would be required to. Like we already require people to go to school, why not require every 16 year old work a minimum wage job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:53 PM
1

Well specifically I am talking about America and ideally only people who were teenagers would be required to. Like we already require people to go to school, why not require every 16 year old work a minimum wage job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:52 PM
1

Yeah, but you probably also had to deal with rude customers and Karens. I think everyone should have the experience of dealing with a Karen. Karens wouldn't exist if everyone was forced to be a service worker at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:50 PM
5

I'm not a server. I'm a delivery driver as my second job. And tips are 60% of my total pay because my base pay from the actual company is 3 dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:47 PM
5

I think everyone should have (as in legally be required to) to hold a minimum wage job at some point of their lives. It would teach some much needed humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:43 PM
5

I've experienced my fair share of sexual harassment. I still tip my servers. Not with phone numbers but with money. Cause it is the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:39 PM
5

I hope your servers spit in your food you ungrateful person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:37 PM
7

No I'm just saying if you can't act like a civilized adult why are you going into civilization
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:37 PM
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If a person can't be in a public place without hitting on people that want nothing to do with them, they shouldn't go out in public. Can't keep your dick in your pants, can't leave your damn house.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:28 PM
3

Uh uh. People are responsible for their own behavior. How about if you can't refrain from making gross comments to people who have no choice but to talk to you, you shouldn't be going out in public at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:25 PM
3

And waitresses and waiters are under no obligation to listen to the same gross jokes over and over. They are there to serve you your food, not to be eye candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:13 PM
5

I don't care what's fun for you and neither does anyone else. Some people like one thing, does that mean everyone should have to like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:05 PM
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Why do men feel entitled to flirt with people that are forced to interact with them? Just shut up, eat your food, say thank you, and tip your server when you're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:00 PM
7

No one is entitled to force a captive audience to listen to their gross jokes. Just shut up, eat your food, and tip the person serving you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:59 PM
7

That sounds gross and cannibalistic, and creepy af. It's also a huge health violation, especially in this age, to even request that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:49 PM
2

Some women are into old wrinkly dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:47 PM
1

I can't learn to enjoy sex any more than a lesbian can learn to date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:35 PM
1

You're asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:34 PM
1

I didn't say it meant that. I said inherently it is an issue with the brain. ADHD, dyslexia, and autism are all issues with the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:30 PM
1

Weed orgasm. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:02 AM
1

Cheese filled garlic sticks? Have you even been to an Olive Garden before? Or even what garlic is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:54 AM
3

If I knew the answer I wouldn't be mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:47 AM
2

Hey I'll have you know I love Olive Garden and literally every Italian restauraunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:44 AM
2

Well to say it wasn't at all effective would be overly pessimistic. I'd say all my different therapist taught me valuable strategies for dealing with anxiety and PTSD but it didn't cure me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:42 AM
1

Yes, I do prefer a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:41 AM
5

Yes. Women can sexually objectify other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:39 AM
4

Ok then, cosplayers don't exist to make your pussy feel good either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:39 AM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:35 AM
2

Cosplayers aren't here to make your dick feel good so stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:33 AM
3

With deep, philosophical conversations. Enjoying movies and other media that provoke deep emotions. Learning everything about a person, their fears, their insecurities, their dreams, their passions. Just, generally experiencing life together is what I call intimacy. I find people in general fantasizing and people opening up to me and telling me about everything, even the things they normally keep hidden from the public, is my love language. Problem with most people is that they don't wanna talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:29 AM
1

Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:18 AM
3

Sex would be an emotional connection. I'd love sex if none of it was physical and it was all emotional I hate sex, but I love intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:17 AM
3

Asexual is not a made up word.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:12 AM
1

When you get a headache after work, what helps you? Lately I've been stressed tf out with work and college and it's causing me headaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:54 AM
1

What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:51 AM
0

My male counterpart is doing the same as me, looking for someone who doesn't want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:50 AM
1

I might be interested in touching someone, but not in the sexual areas. Physical touch is important, but it doesn't have to be sexual touch and in fact I prefer people to not touch my private areas. I just want someone to hold me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:48 AM
2

Male sperm is worth less cause men continue producing sperm into old age and there's a lot of sperm in each ejaculation. Women's eggs are worth more because eggs are finite (women lose 1,000 a month from the time when puberty starts) and and only one egg can implant in the uterus at a time. Think about it, would you charge the same price for water that you charge for oil?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:20 AM
4

You don't have a point. With weak supporting ideas, your point falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:09 AM
1

Yes. I do have misophonia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:07 AM
3

The fluids, the weird up-down jackhammer motion, the moaning. It looks scary and gross and animalistic. That's what the movies show and what I can get from people talking about sex and I want no part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:07 AM
2

That doesn't explain why you think being taken advantage of is an advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:05 AM
3

But you did generalize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:04 AM
2

Well I've been to 5 different therapists and been on several different medications. Tell me if I've sought help.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:04 AM
2

Tmi means too much information. I like touch but I don't like being surprised yes. I need people to take things slow with me because if people start touching my body and I don't have time to prepare for it I get hyperfocused on how it feels and become uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:03 AM
1

Sought help for what? Being asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:58 AM
7

Okay, so a few feminists wrote editorials and somehow that means all modern feminists are against marriage? I didn't know that was how statistics worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:58 AM
1

Yeah okay we can agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:53 AM
1

No it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:51 AM
5

"Modern feminists are against marriage" Citation needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:49 AM
0

Neurodivergence has to do with neurological disorders like ADHD, dyslexia, and autism. Sexuality or gender identity is not a neurological disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:46 AM
1

Can't really answer that question. I've never cuddled with someone willingly before. Only time I even got close enough to cuddle with a guy was when some random guy entered my bed when I was sleeping, and of course I didn't like that. Sorry if TMI. I like physical touch best when 1. I can see it coming and 2. When I initiate it. Choice is incredibly important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:45 AM
1

You need to get out more, Tim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:42 AM
1

Do you have gender dysphoria?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:41 AM
1

Go ahead. Ask me questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:39 AM
1

That's not what neurodivergent means. Sexuality is not an issue with the brain. It's not an issue with anything. It's just there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:38 AM
1

No. Like a person who will cuddle you and talk with you and maybe kiss you as you watch the sunset. I want a romance but no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:35 AM
0

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:33 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:33 AM
-1

Whether or not you think they are women is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:30 AM
2

Oh please. I don't have any better luck matching with women on tinder than men do. I swipe right on 100 women, 2 message me, and only 1 will continue to message me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:29 AM
1

You think trans women have it easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:27 AM
2

What exactly is the advantage of getting taken advantage of?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:26 AM
1

If that penis came with sexual attraction it'd be easier because at least I would have some people I'm compatible with sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:23 AM
1

I'm open to dating women. Hard to do that around my homophobic Christian parents though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:23 AM
3

The most I've done sexually is kissing on the mouth and I only enjoyed that with one guy. With the other three guys I kissed the kissing wasn't my choice and I hated it. Never have had sex and I never will. I'm repulsed by sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:10 AM
1

Well I want sexless romantic relationships and I don't get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:09 AM
18

Not only that, men continue producing sperm into old age. Women start out with a finite number of eggs and every month at least one is lost due to the menstrual cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:08 AM
1

There's more than just straight and gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:52 AM
1

An exception to what? Getting desperate guys? Getting guys that will have sex with anything realllly helps me as an asexual. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:51 AM
1

How does having the ability to find a partner by snapping my fingers help me as a woman not interested in sex? If anything, it makes things harder for me. I have to tell people, over and over, I'm asexual. Easiness is relative. My life may look easy to you, cause you're not asexual and you're probably touch starved. But your life looks easy to me. I'd have a partner by now if I had the capacity for sexual attraction, but I don't. I live a long lonely life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:51 AM
2

Lol all you straight people think about is yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:48 AM
0

Do you really think the average woman is straight, cis, and neurotypical? How does men's low standards for women help those of us that aren't interested in men or conventional relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:46 AM
5

Men of Reddit, when you say women have it better/easy do you really mean all women? Or do you really mean straight, cis, white, conventionally attractive, neurotypical, upper to lower-middle class women? Because my life as an asexual, neurodivrgent, conventionally unattractive woman is sure as fuck not easy. Not socially, academically, career-wise, or relationship-wise. Being able to get guys who will fuck anything is not a gift to me. If anything it is a burden. I have to sift through so many d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:41 AM
2

Correction: Straight, cis, neurotypical, conventionally attractive white women have it easier because they have inherent value. I am cis and white but my life is not easy. I have ADHD, anxiety, and depression which makes my life hell. I am asexual which makes it near impossible for me to find relationships. I am conventionally unattractive which means even when I do find relationships I'm a second choice and the person will only be with me until something better comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:39 AM
1

r/woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:55 PM
1

He's obviously talking about the male pornstars.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:31 PM
3

I don't want to hear about post wall balls
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:30 PM
1

They both love them for being doormats and hate them for being boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:27 PM
7

CMV: If a man has sex with too many women, his dick gets wrinkled and flaccid. I once met a man who had fucked over 50 women. I was interested, as who wouldn't be intrigued by such Chadness but then he sent me the dick pic. His dick was so flaccid it looked like it was falling off, and it had wrinkles like a sausage that had been left to rot in the sun. I only date male virgins now. Specifically 18 year old male virgins, as dicks naturally get more flaccid with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:23 PM
1

I can be your second sister in cat related usernames 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:42 PM
-1

I didn't tell myself anything wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:52 AM
-3

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:59 AM
3

They asked if it was true, I answered. Don't get your pills in a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:43 AM
2

Because men suck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:09 AM
2

I'm a single woman in my 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:09 AM
5

Also, another downfall is certain feminists don't take kindly to sex-negative outlooks. As a sex repulsed asexual raised with Christian purity culture I can't really relate to the more sex focused parts of feminism. Like I can't agree with the "prostitution and stripping is female empowerment so stop shaming sex workers" part of feminism. Of course we shouldn't shame anyone for their job, but we also shouldn't encourage prostitution. A year or so ago I was told by some people on TwoX to drop my …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:27 AM
1

Sounds oddly specific
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:10 AM
16

The biggest downfall of feminism is just how...white it is. All of the feminist movies show a white woman fighting against a sexist white man. Not a lot of media bothers to address the connection between racism and sexism. Often they come hand in hand. Women of color are raped more than white women. Women of color are murdered more than white women. Women of color are victims of sexism far more often than white women. And yet, guess what the protagonists of Legally Blonde, Captain Marvel, Black …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:02 AM
3

I'd rather not, unless he is also asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:18 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:02 PM
2

That came out wrong I was trying to say "Let's talk more about the things that aren't sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:01 PM
1

Ooh name them so I can continue living my sexless life in utter bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:58 PM
1

Well typically if you prefer men over women but are bi you say you are bi with a preference for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:49 PM
2

I just say "Not interested."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:34 PM
1

He's like Eliot Rodger and Alek Minassian. Those two killed women for the crime of not fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:07 PM
1

Sex gross
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:00 PM
3

Frollo wanted to fuck Esmeralda in both the movie and the book. "Obsessive lust"=I want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:59 PM
1

Nada
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:58 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:46 PM
1

"Later, Esmeralda is arrested and charged with the attempted murder of Phoebus, whom Frollo attempted to kill in jealousy after seeing him trying to seduce Esmeralda. She is sentenced to death by hanging. As she is being led to the gallows, Quasimodo swings down by the bell rope of Notre-Dame and carries her off to the cathedral, temporarily protecting her – under the law of sanctuary – from arrest." "The story is set in Paris in 1482 during the reign of Louis XI. The beautiful Romani woman Esme…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:44 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:43 PM
3

Frollo is the more accurate incel mascot. He wanted to kill Esmeralda and her knight for not having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:39 PM
7

Actually, the more accurate mascot for incels is Frollo. Be mine or you will buuuuuuurn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:37 PM
1

but then he ends up with a Stacy in the sequel
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:34 PM
1

I just mostly made this a question for men because I've never had to reject a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:33 PM
1

Dats kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:26 PM
3

My father didn't misplace me I misplaced my father
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:22 PM
2

What YouTube meme do you revisit one time every year just because you can? this is the one I keep going back to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:22 PM
1

I've tried some truly low bar pizza. I'm talking cracker thin crust, nonexistent sauce, and half-melted cheese. My taste in pizza is refined and the best pizza is local pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:06 PM
1

Purge week duh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:05 PM
4

CMV: Pizza is better than sex and anyone who disagrees just hasn't met the right pizza
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:29 PM
1

"But are you saying you could not be interested in him at some point of time"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:29 PM
2

I have not experienced it and I don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:05 PM
4

Because sometimes when I've told people I wasn't interested in them they lashed out at me. Or they just kept asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:01 PM
1

And also I live to see my little nephew grow up. And in the future, to see my children (adopted or biological) grow up. Seeing babies grow up into educated adults is one of life's many gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:00 PM
3

Pizza is better. I don't care if I die a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:59 PM
2

Just because I don't date men doesn't mean I won't have to reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:57 PM
1

I live for my future of helping children and older adults with speech and language disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:57 PM
2

Hence why the only thing that makes me different is my asexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:55 PM
1

Why are you sad? It's a natural thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:52 PM
2

Do you have a peer reviewed study to back up that fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:47 PM
1

What makes me different is that I don't care for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:46 PM
2

So you want people to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:42 PM
2

Yeah, probably. What is your view based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:41 PM
2

But what if they don't have a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:40 PM
1

Some people on here would say it's too blunt or harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:39 PM
2

That's how it looks to me irl
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:37 PM
3

PPD talks plenty about what the wrong way to reject a guy. What is the right way to reject a guy? Or rather, how would you prefer a woman to reject you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:36 PM
2

There is an equal amount on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:35 PM
3

Hot take: "False accusations are more common than people think." is a popular opinion and I'm tired of it popping up on unpopular opinion subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 04:06 PM
0

Not when you have bad acne and no hair. That brings you down a few points.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:34 PM
0

No she was far more attractive than him. I was a 4 and he was just a tall skinnyfat 3 who sold coke bottles and candy bars to make money. Only attractive thing about him was his green eyes. She was a 6. Average face, but great body or at least that's what I could tell from the pictures he showed me of him&her doing sexual things together before he broke up with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:28 PM
4

Better yet, people should get married to people the only find kinda attractive. The divorce rate would skyrocket!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:27 PM
1

Bs my ex left me for a more attractive gal and he wasn't attractive at all. He was balding with braces at 17 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:25 PM
8

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:20 PM
1

But some men enjoy it too so how do you explain that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:23 PM
1

To be fair, marriages that happen after several years last longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:17 PM
1

Only if its not on the lips. Kissing on the lips is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:04 PM
0

First
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:00 PM
5

Whenever someone brings up orgasming during rape I like to bring up the tea consent video. If someone is pouring tea down your throat, your tongue may still enjoy the taste of the tea. You might even get a sugar rush after as the body metabolizes the nutrients of the tea. But it still doesn't change the fact you didn't want it poured down your throat. Taste, like orgasming, is a response of the body. Your body doesn't always mirror the state of your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:20 PM
3

NO
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:07 PM
0

Ah yes I should've fucking married the man who groped my friend's leg during a prayer. Forgot to mention that bit of sexual harassment he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:04 PM
3

Love the confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:21 AM
1

What was jail like? I've always been curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:19 AM
2

I've been in situations where I stayed despite everyone despising me and from my own experience people probably do what I did because they are socially interaction-starved and want attention and they don't care what kind of attention or interaction they get. That's why I stayed. I had spent so little time talking to people I became social interaction starved and I clung onto certain incel discords and subreddits because they were all I had socially. And a childhood of being ostracized and alone …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:10 AM
1

Beats me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:06 AM
4

Did y'all hear that Alec Baldwin's prop gun was accidentally loaded with real bullets and he accidentally killed and injured two people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:05 AM
1

This made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 04:04 AM
1

Maybe not a criminal record but a mandated talking to about sex from their parents
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:45 AM
3

Oh my fucking god I was seeing this guy and man was he boring he just rambled on and on about bombs or something with this military lingo I don't know. He was one of those nice (but in reality chauvinistic) guys. Would walk you to your car, put his coat on your shoulders when you're cold, ask you to dance. The problem was, some women told him they're perfectly fine walking alone or not dancing and he didn't take no for an answer and he just kept asking them until they gave in. He did the same to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:33 AM
2

I don't see what's wrong with that. High school students are too young and stupid to understand sex or the ramifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:30 AM
2

I just thought of a horrible, awful joke. I'm literally cringing. And here it is: Asexual (or rather, abstinent) vegetarians are the only true vegetarians.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:17 AM
1

Yeah I honestly don't get it like who tf cares about dick or pussy I don't really see anything in these meat caverns or gross sausages Romance is where it's at. Love is where is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:12 AM
3

Just behave yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:11 AM
3

How about you just behave yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:11 AM
2

I...agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:08 AM
3

Nah it's your job to fucking behave how about that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:07 AM
1

Oh yeah, it's all coming together
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:06 AM
2

Hot take: The age of consent should be 18
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:04 AM
1

What, you got into a mid level state school instead of getting into Harvard? Oh, the horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:40 PM
6

Fyi women who are waiting for marriage want men who are also waiting for marriage. Not fornicators with a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:27 PM
3

To be fair, that's what the reality actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:25 PM
1

Are you uneducated and jobless though? Because I doubt you are. I bet you still got into a college and/or got a job regardless of "being oppressed".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:22 PM
6

Ew. As a woman waiting for marriage I detest this fetishization.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:09 PM
-1

Depends on the definition of victim
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:17 AM
1

What's wrong with women? Women are caring and empathetic. Most men I've dated are just...not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:52 AM
2

I know this question has been done to death but I'm bored. Straight women of PurplePillDebate, what the fuck do you even see in men, romantically? Don't get me wrong I don't hate all men. I have male family members that I love dearly. But I just can't see them as romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 12:42 AM
3

What kind of music do you want them to play? Death metal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:44 PM
5

He totally doesn't. He probably considers heavy metal music the only display of "deep" emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:42 PM
3

What straight man was so profound?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:42 PM
3

What exactly is a deep emotion?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:40 PM
15

What the fuck do you read that you have such a superiority complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:00 PM
3

It's not that they attract dirt, it's just that the dirt and hair is more visible on black fabric than it would be on other clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:35 PM
9

Often the woman is more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:33 PM
2

Or maybe she's talking about male family members? My dad yells at football games all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:48 PM
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Lol it's like going to a bar but for introverts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:04 AM
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I'm unattractive with makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:01 AM
–

I actually don't know why I come here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 05:00 AM
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How do incels expect us bluepillers to take them seriously when they are literally posting about a children's show on 4chan and saying the things they would do sexually to cartoon horses. And telling each other "based and pony pilled" Why they got to ruin my childhood like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:52 AM
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Er, click the my little pony thread. It's incels talking about their sexual fantasies and what they want to do to my little pony characters. I clicked the thread just because MLP was one of my childhood favorites. Big mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:49 AM
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What does being a bluepiller have to do with the pandemic lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:39 AM
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Is there a rating sub for only women? I'd love one. No creepy comments or DMs telling me I should get good at sucking dick to make up for my face. No men sending me dick pics. Just women telling me how I look and giving me helpful advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:14 AM
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Ooh what kind? Cheese ravioli? Spaghetti with meatballs? ...ohh you meant that kind of pasta
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 01:53 AM
0

I'd say there's an equal amount of men and women with mental issues. It's harder to tell with men because they are conditioned to not show any weakness and are less likely to admit having a mental issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 01:01 PM
2

True. But I guess the echo chamber of people who are also suffering is better than complete silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:13 AM
2

The thing is, sometimes therapy doesn't work. I've been through 5 therapists and I still can't fix myself. I'm still an anxious antisocial wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 06:09 AM
5

CMV: TwoX is NOT worse than MGTOW. For one, no one who posts to TwoX ever committed a mass shooting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:08 AM
1

Bish until a member of TwoX commits a mass shooting it is not worse than MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:04 AM
1

It's not perfect but it was there for me when I was shocked and confused after being sexually assaulted. They validate my feelings of sexual violation that men have given me. And no, those feelings are not about men looking at me wrong or asking me to smile. They're about being touched without my permission. Being touched even after I said no or even while I was unconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:02 AM
1

No?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:54 PM
1

Probably but I still follow my high school crush on insta. Don't get me wrong, he's not my crush anymore. Not after I saw him on Tinder with the bio "Will simp for pussy". That destroyed any sense of childish fancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:44 AM
-2

Lol so you are literally the embodiment of that one Tiktok song. You got that bi wife energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:13 AM
1

The lean cusine meal I had had 11g of protien
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:00 AM
1

Carrots have fiber and so do strawberries. I ate some strawberries in addition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:55 AM
3

Hear me out: Just not being into that. The same reason why some people aren't into BDSM and some people aren't into vanilla. Some people are just not into bi people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:06 AM
2

Dude we get it already. By the way people don't need to cut out all sugar, just artificial sugar. Fruits with sugar are okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:59 AM
2

Sigh. I give up. You are calling me homophobic. And I most definitely am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:56 AM
0

They are though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:55 AM
2

But that's not in itself homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:54 AM
0

All over this thread? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:46 AM
1

Depends on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:43 AM
4

No we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:43 AM
3

Also, why only draw attention to homophobic women when there are also men on the sub that are homophobic. Why not just put "people"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:40 AM
1

I'm trying to show you what your logic sounds like. You're just like the people who call men transphobic for not dating trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:38 AM
1

There are a dozen that replied to the thread sure, but only one that replied to you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:36 AM
0

So do you also think men are transphobic if they don't date trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:34 AM
1

Cis means the opposite of trans
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:31 AM
3

I did. You talked to one woman in that thread. One.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:29 AM
3

No it's called having preferences. Otherwise straight people are homophobic for not dating the same gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:28 AM
1

Let me ask you something? Do you date trans women? If not, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:27 AM
5

Do you date trans women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:24 AM
2

Like who. Don't be shy, name them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:22 AM
3

So you say you're not telling people who to date but then you literally say "not wanting to date a bi person is because of ingrained homophobia and nothing else". So simultaneously you are saying "I'm not telling people who to date." while telling people they are homophobic if they don't want to date a bi person and there is no other reason why they wouldn't want to date a bi person. I give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:22 AM
1

Then what other one are you referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:17 AM
2

I don't like fish or bird meat. I'm iffy about meat in general except for bacon but I'm cutting bacon out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:16 AM
2

You should've put woman singular. Women plural implies more than one, when you're really referring to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:15 AM
3

My question is, why do you care that some woman doesn't want to date you? Regardless of the reason you should just let it go cause she's either a troll or woefully misinformed (500% is not a real statistic) and those types of people are not worth your energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:14 AM
3

Why? Do you think that just because a person likes men that they don't get to choose what kind of man they'll date and as long as someone's a man they're obliged to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:10 AM
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You can't make anyone date a bi person any more than you make them date a gay person or a trans person. People like what they like. Some are bi. Some are gay. Some are ace. Some are pan. Some are straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:06 AM
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Not wanting to date bi men doesn't make someone biphobic or homophobic. It does make them woefully uninformed if they assume all bi men are promiscuous, but any kind of phobic they are not and dating preferences are dating preferences. I don't like dating men at all, doesn't make me heterophobic or misandrist. It just means our orientations are incompatible. Your orientation may be incompatible with people of different orientations and that's just a fact of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:03 AM
4

I like bossy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:28 AM
4

Why not? We support authoritative men all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:27 AM
1

Oh I guess I just assumed this took place in a suburban neighborhoos
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:10 AM
1

Where do you live that your neighbors own baby cows with no farm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:58 AM
1

Ah yes my comphet crush
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:50 AM
3

I dip them a bit in ranch
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:22 AM
1

It's old for me. I'm 21 and I'm attracted to other twentysomethings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:01 AM
1

I know, but the point is they are not just empty carbs. They have some nutrients.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:58 AM
2

I have, but I will drink several a day and go overboard like I do with milk. Too much of a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:55 AM
1

Well she looks good for her 50s. Still a 6/10 imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:54 AM
1

I wish I could eat nuts, I'm allergic. I mostly eat lean cuisine pastas and pastas made of chickpeas. I'm cutting bacon out. I don't need it and I'm willing to give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:53 AM
1

I try to stay away from milk because I love it too much and I'll have several glasses of it a day if no one stops me. I go overboard with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:52 AM
0

She's a 6 to me but only because she's probably in her 30s and I'm not into older women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:51 AM
1

I don't like fish or any type of meat other than bacon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:47 AM
2

I might be on one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:45 AM
1

And that's why I'm not trying to cut carbs. I'm just trying to eat things with carbs with them that also have protein, which I'm severely lacking. I'm doing the same thing with sugar. I'll transition from eating cookies and pastries to eating fruits and vegetables (some of them have sugar but they also have nutrients I'm lacking like Vitamin D).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:42 AM
1

I don't think sugar must be cut out completely and I can't completely go cold turkey because my energy depends on it. For now I'm just trying to replace things that have ONLY sugar in them (cookies and pastries) with things that have sugar but also other nutrients.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:40 AM
3

The focus is not on cutting anything. It's on replacing "bad"/artificial sugars (sugar in cookies and donuts) with "good"/natural sugars (the sugar in carrots and strawberries). The goal is to eat things that have nutrients and not just sugar or carbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:36 AM
2

Also I've always wanted to try LSD.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:35 AM
3

I have a hard time eating healthy but just tonight I ate some carrots instead of just carbs. Don't get me wrong I also ate carbs (lean cuisine pasta) but I also added carrots on the side. I'll get healthy one day at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:33 AM
3

You should start posting to r/DecidingToBeBetter. Get out of here because here is a crab bucket where people will try to pull you back down. It's a nice place to debate and to wallow but it's not the best place for self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:31 AM
4

I mean, that's basically how humans communicate as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:29 AM
1

download the app, upload some photos, and then share the link
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:37 PM
2

Exactly! The women are underrated and the men are overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:36 PM
1

Imgur
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:31 PM
1

If you're wanting to be rated privately, DM me. Don't expect a picture in return though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:25 PM
1

Ask the mods
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:23 PM
0

It's on you for your comment lacking nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:21 PM
0

Bisexual women and men exist sir
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:19 PM
1

The men on the subreddit in general
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:18 PM
2

Definitely the men. They overrate the men and underrate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 11:16 PM
3

Loyal, doesn't push my boundaries when I state them, would save my life, attractive. The thing is irl men are pushy, scary, abusive people. That's how all my boyfriends have been. And I'd rather not date them. But maybe I just view men negatively because I never was attracted to them only to the idea of romance. Whenever a man actually shows interest in me I get uncomfortable and no matter how attractive the man is every time I have to meet up for a date I feel sick to my stomach, and not in a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:52 PM
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Why is this just a question for men, women can be attracted to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:45 PM
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Describes the life of women pretty well. People think our side is greener but our fertilized with bullshit like sexual assault, sexual harassment, and men just all around being shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:44 PM
3

That doesn't change that they are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:41 PM
4

The sad truth is financially secure men are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:38 PM
2

Except I am both.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:29 PM
0

What's wrong with getting the man a job or a place? Is it too much to expect a man to be employed and have a home?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:29 PM
1

Depends on the man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 09:27 PM
2

Possibly. I don't quite know who I am but after reading the lesbian masterdoc I think I display compulsatory heterosexuality. I may be gay, may be ace.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:28 PM
2

Like I said, maybe that's the same situation for some men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:26 PM
10

I think I just realized I only like the idea of men. I like men as they are portrayed in rom coms but irl men are just ugh. Maybe that's the same situation for some men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:19 PM
1

Months long emotional affair because a drunken ONS can be a mistake that will never happen again while a months long emotional affair is done knowledgeably, intentionally, repeatedly, and presumedly while sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:10 PM
3

I get those same texts and I'm not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 07:19 PM
1

Statutory rape is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:36 PM
3

Hasty generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:33 PM
3

Men definitely get rude DMs. It's rarer for them to get sexual DMs though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:32 PM
0

You're defending him because his views fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:30 PM
0

No he's sexist because he literally said women are good for nothing but their attractive bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:22 PM
1

Where are all the good men though? How many of those Chads or betas are actual good men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:58 PM
1

Are you talking about Hang the DJ because that was an entirely different concept
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:48 PM
2

You literally restated what I said in more words
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:31 PM
3

As common as it is for straight women to not shave their legs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:28 PM
1

It doesn't matter that you can't. It only matters that you look like you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:24 PM
2

Because you are stronger than other people and can overpower them. Or at you at least look like you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:21 PM
1

You are fit, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:19 PM
1

I am fit That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:17 PM
1

Baldness can be intimidating. Look at Derek Morgan from Criminal Minds. You might also be muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:13 PM
6

Same like if I could have a machine tell me whether I'll ever be severely violent towards my spouse or my children I'd do it because I want to know and if it did turn out that was a possibility I could get the necessary help instead of traumatizing people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:08 PM
2

I guess so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:06 PM
2

A man who is actually good will understand the woman's need for safety and do it. A man who is good doesn't take offense to their goodness being questioned because they are secure in their goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:02 PM
4

I'd take it as a red flag because people who take offense to it obviously have something to hide. A guy who knows he is a good man has nothing to hide. I'd break up with him unless he tells me exactly why he doesn't want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:56 PM
1

17 year olds are technically past the age of consent in some states. You think adults should fuck high schoolers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:51 PM
3

Because occasionally you find posts that confirm your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:41 PM
1

Is that sarcasm? I'm really bad at reading sarcasm over text. Oh it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:36 PM
1

What are your thoughts on age gaps? For example in one of the OPs today a 27 year old man is dating (but really just using for sex) a 19 year old. Am I the only one who sees something wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:33 PM
3

No, what worked is that you sought out easy prey. You are almost in your thirties and dating an actual teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:30 PM
2

You literally respond to texts every 2 days and you only talk in monosyllabics according to your other comments. I don't see how that is effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:26 PM
4

Mostly the people who talk about his attractive personality are referring to how he exploited sympathy by carrying a cane or asking to have stuff loaded into his van.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:22 PM
2

And what are the dates like?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:15 PM
1

Dating as in going on actual dates or dating as in hooking up every week?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:13 PM
3

I think his issue is that he wants the girls he hooks up with to date him and act emotionally attached to him but the thing about hookups is that there's supposed to be no emotional attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:13 PM
2

Best response
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:05 PM
1

He fucked up by being a misogynist. Women will sleep with a misogynist because personality doesn't matter for casual sex but they won't date them because he hates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:04 PM
2

Women don't wanna be treated like queens. We just want to be treated like we are-humans. Pedestals fucking suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:57 PM
2

Ted Bundy had charisma and confidence. He may have been a serial killer but those were attractive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:56 PM
4

I stopped reading at "Women have ZERO empathy towards men, while what most of them have to offer is the attractiveness of their bodies." You, OP, are literally a niceguy(TM). You think kindness/empathy/niceness is a currency, and if you have enough of it, you'll eventually be able to trade it for sex/a relationship/love. This isn't a personal attack, it's the truth. In addition, you are thin skinned/hypersensitive as seen with all the whining about being PeRsonAllY AtTacKeD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:51 PM
4

"You're smart because you agree with me"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:46 PM
1

That doesn't mean you can make a general statement that it's how relationships start. My relationships were sexless and started sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:31 PM
1

False. I've been attracted to guys I've never had sex with at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:27 PM
0

Aw come on our rationale is not that dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:24 PM
1

No, because it's impossible for anyone who regularly posts to PPD to not be mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:22 PM
0

It would mean you're self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:20 PM
0

The denial of your own mental illness proves you are mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:15 PM
1

And by people, you mean yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:12 PM
2

Casual sex is how some relationships start
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:10 PM
1

The only good part of pumpkin pie is the crust. The pumpkin part's texture is gross and moist and of course pumpkin pie is 95% pumpkin and 5% crust :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:29 AM
1

No, burn the pumpkin pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:23 AM
2

Miserably. I was so happy when the relationships ended cause I didn't feel obliged to spend time with them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:22 AM
2

Most apple pies are only good if you add vanilla ice cream to them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:20 AM
3

Apple pie>pumpkin pie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:20 AM
2

I never picked a guy first
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:19 AM
1

I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:35 AM
1

All irl men see in me is that I am quiet and shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:19 AM
2

I did not need that visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:17 AM
1

I think I am. Every other girl can find a normal man and I just can't. I'm a magnet for crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:16 AM
1

Only for me. I actually lower my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:14 AM
1

Lower my standards? Bish I dated a literal Braincels mod. My standards touch the damn floor. I also dated an obese man, a metalhead who never washed his hair and smelled like weed, and when I was 14 some 17yo ROTC kid who sold diet coke and candy bars to random students and told me he was loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:11 AM
3

Who is a celebrity (can be female or male) that is objectively average? I think Ed Sheeran is average. And this is the last time I'll mention Ed Sheeran, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:09 AM
2

Nope I don't. Burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:51 AM
1

There's nothing in your link. Anyways, young Joe Biden was hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:50 AM
1

I commend your efforts to be a vegetarian.i wish I could be one. I just can't give up bacon. Well I guess I could but then my order at Subway will have to be just lettuce and tomatoes and who tf does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:43 AM
2

I gotta say Boca Burgers are hella good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:37 AM
1

Maybe that is true. But it's mostly because of your personalities. Your rotting personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:35 AM
2

It still counts as getting women if he also slept with his interns and his secretaries
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:35 AM
1

You sound homosexual but heteromantic Who you wanna date can be different from who you wanna fuck. For example, I don't wanna fuck anyone but I'll date both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:31 AM
1

I see it irl. You see, there is life outside of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:29 AM
6

I guess you don't know about all the escorts and call girls he had sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:28 AM
3

Well, I mean he still did get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:20 AM
2

I don't cry about either. Burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:14 AM
3

"I don't read scientific studies if they don't align with my personal opinion"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:13 AM
3

https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:10 AM
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CMV: John F Kennedy would definitely be an incel if he was born in this century. He doesn't even have a defined jawline. To this day, I am perplexed how he landed Marilyn Monroe. He looks like Ed Sheeran. He even had the red hair. It must be the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:09 AM
3

Men cheat more than women. They're more dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:36 AM
1

If all the men who wanna date me are garbage boundary crossers, I'm still involuntarily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:34 AM
1

I know how talking works lol. I know all about the Bernouli principle and how air vibrates the vocal folds. Muscles just worked better as an analogy, or at least they did in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:24 AM
1

Selina Kyle doesn't want your dry dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:17 AM
0

I'm completely right in the head except for my anxiety and ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:16 AM
1

I have bug spray right by my bed just in case. I'm gonna kill the little fucker, once my irrational fear response calms down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:06 AM
4

Not right in the head to you means "expresses sexual desire for any man but me"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:05 AM
1

Lol I still haven't found the spider in my room.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:04 AM
1

Fair comparison. I am kinda a female incel. Though I'm asexual so I'm a volcel but I'm still involuntarily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:02 AM
3

If men here want sympathy they should try experiencing actual problems. Not being messaged back by Kaylee on Tinder is not an actual problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:33 AM
1

They do give sympathy but not to men who whine about the perceived injustice of not being messaged back on Tinder. Your username flair checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 12:32 AM
2

Those are two different subjects that are part of the same clause. What I mean is sometimes attractive women can get away with being creepy while most men can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:30 PM
1

This is like saying "at least you can eat the garbage from the can, at least it's food" Does it really matter how big the pool is if it's full of garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:53 PM
2

No. Men wanted to be treated like attractive women. They want to get away with things attractive women can. They want to shouted at from the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:46 PM
6

The biggest issue in dating right now is that men want women to treat them like men treat attractive women. Attractive is the key word. Any man can bullshit and say that looks don't matter but looks are everything to them. So much that they will harass and abuse you for not looking like a supermodel. They never shut up about how unattractive you are to them. And worse of all, at least some women admit hypergamy. Men deny it and act like only women are hypergamous while going for women 3-5 points…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:42 PM
1

I'm not intrinsically desired though so it makes me mad when men act like that's an experience universal to all women or even the average women when they just mean the attractive ones. Men just want women to treat them like they treat attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:38 PM
1

I don't have a victimhood complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:37 PM
4

Awww
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:36 PM
1

I did stop dating. I'm sorry if I wasn't ready for physical touch at like FOURTEEN!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:33 PM
4

Controversial opinion time: There are no perks of being a young woman that men can't also have. And also, most of the perks only apply to attractive women. To most straight men, attractive women are the only women that exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:22 PM
1

You show your face first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:08 PM
1

As a young woman, no it is not like that. Some people emphasize but some people also laugh off you off. Some people will fire you for crying at work. Some people will yell at you in public cause you didn't smile enough at their kids when they were on the mini ferris wheel ride you were operating. Life is hit or miss, whether you're a young man or young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:08 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:06 PM
1

Eh it feels more like awkward acquaintance material
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:05 PM
1

Well I started this thread and this thread is about physical boundaries. I haven't really experienced boundary crossing from men in any other form.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:02 PM
1

I'm wasting everyone's time? What the fuck does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:01 PM
1

Yeah you can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 10:00 PM
1

I never once touched a man when they didn't want to be touched.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:58 PM
1

I've only enjoyed physical touch when I got to initiate it. I only got to initiate once. The rest was men just doing what they wanted to do without any consideration of my feelings. All the men I've dated were boundary crossers. The only man that allowed me to initiate was still a boundary crosser as he had groped one of my friends during a prayer. The only relationship I had that lasted more than a month only lasted because I was 14 and I didn't know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:56 PM
2

Because most women are already wife material
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:50 PM
1

None of them imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:49 PM
1

I've established and held my boundaries with men. Over and over and over again. And they keep overstepping them. Even when I say "stop, I don't like being touched" and "no" they continue to touch me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 09:47 PM
2

Husband material is a man that respects my boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 08:04 PM
2

But some lesbians do like bisexual women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:48 PM
1

Okay, next time just ask "Why are bi women, pansexual women, and lesbians expected to prove they are attracted to women". It's a lot clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:48 PM
2

Did you have a stroke or are you mocking OP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:47 PM
2

I have no problem with dating a man who is bisexual. I am an asexual biromantic so I honestly don't care about the sexuality of who I'm dating. If I did, that would make me a hypocrite. I'd have a problem with dating a gay guy or straight woman however. That's an issue of consent. I don't want to date someone who isn't attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:44 PM
1

Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:40 PM
2

Well currently I watch more Hulu. Mostly FOX and Adult Swim shows. But on Netflix I like Criminal Minds, Bojack, Disenchantment, and Big Mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:13 AM
5

I don't even go to frat parties or get drunk. I party once maybe twice a semester. I hate college parties and their awful music. Nothing good happens at them. I volunteer and go to work. And then with those and school I don't have time for any interesting hobbies. I sometimes watch YouTube videos about philosophy when I'm driving. But when I get done with work, all I want to do is unwind with episodes of Rick and Morty or Futurama.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:30 AM
-1

Well I mean in general. I think that's unfair for men in general to expect that out of women my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:14 AM
1

Excuse me but while I'm in college and working where do you expect me to have the time to learn languages and read classic literature
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:05 AM
4

I meant 17 year old me like I WAS 17 years old. I'm 21 now. A senior in college. Anyways, I WAS 17 and he WAS 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:00 AM
9

My interests are Netflix, watching YouTube videos, and watching TikToks. The thing is when you're a full time student and work you don't really have time for hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:00 AM
1

Aw shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:58 AM
4

Yeah, he broke up with me and said he needed a break from the internet. I hate to say it but 17 year old me was actually kinda smitten with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 03:57 AM
5

Not quite, we didn't have sex. It was an LDR.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:41 AM
13

The thing is that statement is complete bullshit. I've been used and disrespected by men who were all far less attractive than me. I dated someone who was literally a mod of an incel subreddit. And I still keep being told to just lower my standards. My standards touch the fucking floor! Of course then I also get blamed for dating unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:15 PM
1

Women seek out gay men either because they are LGTBQ themselves or because gay men can give them advice on their appearance and help them attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:49 PM
27

I was selectively mute for 5 years. I tried a lot of things to become more sociable. I tried self help books, WikiHow tutorials, and social skills classes. I tried everything except actually talking to people because every little word took a lot of effort and brought me close to tears. The best thing to help me...was a job that forced me to talk to people. When you're a cashier you have no choice but to talk. Even though I was just repeating a script every day talking began to feel like far less…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:53 PM
3

You just grabbed every woman you kissed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:35 PM
5

Well how do you know the guys who kissed me read my body language. I faced away from them waiting for things to be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:05 PM
3

No shit I'm different, I'm asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:44 PM
6

What, so it's my fault I didn't like my face randomly being grabbed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:12 PM
7

The most romantic thing a man ever did for me was ask before kissing me. Most men who have kissed me did not ask. They saw me as a body and not a person with feelings. This one instance of a man considering how I felt instead of just grabbing my face just made me melt. Even a year later, I remember how I felt. It was the only time in my life I enjoyed being kissed. Every other time I felt sick and awful and like they were using me. I just want a man who treats me as a person and not as a body to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:30 PM
1

Name one American man who was jailed for stealthing. You can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:35 AM
2

There are pregnant women in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:25 AM
2

Most courts outside of California won't punish a man for stealthing either. In fact, it is rare a man gets punished for rape at all. If a man rapes a woman, there's a 0.0007% chance of him being convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:11 AM
1

We're talking about America though. You can't bring up Canada when we are talking about California.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:02 AM
2

Maybe because not enough people know it happens. A lot people are stuck in the mindset of "men are always eager and are lucky if they get raped". There just needs to be some awareness campaigns. Whether the law thinks it is rape doesn't change the fact it is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:54 AM
0

Stealthing is rape regardless of my brain's consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:51 AM
3

Yes, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:44 AM
1

Yes, it is rape to lie about birth control and have sex with a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:44 AM
3

Well the thing is you'd be hard pressed to find people who want to debate rape. Rape is one of those things that can't really be a subject of debate. I'd hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:40 AM
1

Well now I can't go to sleep. The ceiling is the worst place for it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:23 AM
1

Gray
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:21 AM
2

I didn't get close enough to look all I saw was legs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:20 AM
1

Laughs in doesn't have a career yet
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:10 AM
1

I couldn't say my thetas. toothbrush and tooth were the hardest for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:05 AM
2

I don't care that they don't bite. They're just so fast and I don't like things that can move fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:02 AM
1

The second someone asked me what speech therapy was on this sub I fucking lol'd like seriously you don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:00 AM
1

Life not being as comfortable ≠ breakdown of society. Society existed before truck drivers and heavy duty machinery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:58 AM
2

I find Lady Gaga attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:57 AM
1

You won't see anything really dire until you're the one with a TBI or aphasia or dementia. Or your child has a speech or language disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:55 AM
2

There's also more than one type of nurse. For example you cannot just wing being a nurse anesthetist . The wrong amount of anesthetics can kill a person. You have to spend years in school learning what they are for and how much for each kind of patient and when to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:51 AM
1

Society existed before plumbing, garbage men, and truck drivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:48 AM
1

Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:46 AM
3

Exactly. Men cannot exist without women and vice versa. We need each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:46 AM
1

Farming is not preparing food. All farming is is raising and killing animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:44 AM
1

Any type of doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:43 AM
1

But how many compared to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:39 AM
3

Okay then, I'd like to see you become a doctor with no school whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:37 AM
5

Also, if you didn't know: There was a period of history where most of the world's men DIED IN A WAR. 40 MILLION. And society still went on because WOMEN took up the mantle and started working the jobs that were left vacant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:36 AM
1

Who do you think prepares food? Do you think food comes microwave ready in the wild?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:35 AM
1

We don't need it because for centuries people existed without sewage systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:33 AM
2

This isn't like the caveman days. There's no animals to eat because they're being poached and hunted out of existence by men. And most men these days are fat, lazy, and not in shape to build a house by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:31 AM
1

Society existed before plumbing and modern construction you know. We could always go back to shitting in the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:28 AM
5

With what education? Do you realize how hard it is to become a nurse or hell, any kind of health professional?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:26 AM
2

Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:23 AM
2

I said "have had"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:23 AM
1

I'd be starving? I didn't know men make all the food. Haha, in fact they don't. Women make up the majority of food service workers. Men could try to hunt like the old days but food would be scarce because they destroyed all the animal habitats to make bigger buildings. Maybe I'd have to go without plumbing or modern construction but society existed before those.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:22 AM
1

Are you sure there's enough college educated males to fill every position that requires a college education?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:20 AM
4

If we threw all disabled people in a ditch, we wouldn't have had Stephen Hawking. Imagine a society that existed without Stephen Hawking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:15 AM
4

Speech therapy/speech pathology works with a variety of things. I'm training to be one. I'm wanting to become a school SLP and work with children with speech and language disorders. I also have other choices. I can work in a skilled nursing facillity and help patients with dementia or Alzheimer's regain lost skills. I can work in a hospital with people with swallowing issues (dysphagia) or traumatic brain injuries. So, yeah. Pretty fucking important, if you care about the lives of people with di…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:09 AM
11

Maybe in the 1800s that was true but I think you underestimate how many women have jobs and how many different fields would be fucked if women left the workforce. Teaching? Fucked. Nursing? Fucked. Counseling? Fucked. Speech therapy? Fucked. Occupational therapy? Fucked. Anything involving children or adults with disabilities? Fucked. Social work? Fucked. And even the less female dominated professions would collapse as well. There's not enough educated men to do the work that requires a higher e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:01 AM
4

I found a spider on the floor. I left the area to panic for a few hours and when I came back I couldn't find it. What do I do? Unfortunately I have no brave boyfriend or girlboss girlfriend to kill spiders for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:52 AM
1

The thing is being romantic is about much more than buying gifts and giving flowers. It's about 'getting' each other. It's about feeling your day instantly brighten when you see them. It's about learning about them as a person-their fears, their dreams, their talents, and their flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:40 PM
2

All of my relationships started the day I met them. It's why I don't date anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:24 PM
5

Ah yes, the "Let's fuck." messages I get from men on Tinder are super romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:20 PM
1

Do you hate my avatar?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:18 AM
1

Bruh why you gotta call me out rn 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:06 AM
2

Some people think they identified the Zodiac killer as Gary Poste. What do you think? Legit or scam?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:10 PM
13

CMV: Dating someone you're not attracted to is complete misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:22 AM
2

Men develop crushes outside relationships as well. I think as long as neither person in the relationship acts on that attraction it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:45 PM
11

I wish it never existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:53 AM
1

Person A sounds fun but Person B sounds more like someone I could have a connection with but kinda boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:15 PM
4

A career, an attractive face, and respect of my boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 01:37 PM
6

No. Not into BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:29 AM
-2

I'm sorry for what happened to you. Regardless, your anecdote doesn't change that men still make up the majority of sexual predators. You only have statistical evidence for two of your points.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:04 AM
2

I'm not hurting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:46 PM
4

I can't offer them help. I'm not qualified to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:43 PM
1

In my case, yes. Though why would I date a guy I'm not crazy for either way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:26 PM
2

It's not called a hard truth for nothing. I bet it hurts but most people don't want to date someone with a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:22 PM
1

Well, I really want to date someone I've attracted to. I tried dating guys simply because they asked me out and it was misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:20 PM
1

Because all of those are connected apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:18 PM
1

He was 5'5. I am 5'7.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:16 PM
1

Well, because the shortest guy I've ever had a crush on was that much shorter than me. And super jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:11 PM
1

No I'm 2 inches taller than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:07 PM
7

Rip purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:01 PM
6

Bundy hid it very well. That's what allowed him to become a serial killer in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:58 PM
3

Wrong /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:04 PM
7

Aw but it's fun :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 07:02 PM
13

Or maybe because having kids is a bunch of responsibility he won't be there for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:58 PM
11

Or maybe she doesn't want to get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:55 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:54 PM
1

He's probably good at hiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:54 PM
4

No I'm a cat with a banana hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:53 PM
5

I don't have a butt either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:50 PM
3

I don't have boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:48 PM
1

Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:01 PM
36

Dear men, You're not entitled to anything either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:44 PM
2

Well you are wrong. I'm a medium person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:35 PM
6

I'm a smart woman tho 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:32 PM
3

12 feet long
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:31 PM
2

I hope that is sarcasm lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:31 PM
4

My god, you even straight up use the term "love bombing". You're quite the self aware wolf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:25 PM
3

My thoughts? This is fucking manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:23 PM
2

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:17 PM
2

I had an abusive boyfriend. I know better now. Now I'm really good at seeing the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:16 PM
0

Women can tell when you're bullshitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:13 PM
3

I didn't say that incredibly specific situation was coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:07 PM
7

Is she late teens as in 16-17 or late teens as in 18-19? because if it's the former you are a pedo. If it's the latter the age gap is a bit creepy but it also depends on her maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:07 PM
3

Very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:04 PM
3

Not if you get hit with a charge for sexual coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:03 PM
3

True, I got great at reading people from being in shitty relationships and now I can't date because no guy approaches me who doesn't set off my asshole radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:03 PM
10

The greatest dating advice I can give you is "no-test" them. Say no to something basic, even if you don't mean it, and see how they react. Eg: If they suggest you meet at a restaurant on Tuesday say "No, we should meet on Wednesday." How they react to smaller no's will reveal a bit of how they react to bigger no's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:57 PM
5

Manipulative leads to the woman resenting you and blocking your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:52 PM
3

I can't change your view cause you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:51 PM
1

True that, I dated a morbidly obese guy once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:50 PM
1

gasp you said the C word!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:50 PM
1

True, I need anything to help me sleep at night. Especially when my fat rolls fall into my throat and cause sleep apnea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:49 PM
2

Still smaller than my boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:47 PM
1

Only slightly overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:46 PM
4

True. Who wants a guy who has to reach inside his fat rolls to get his dick out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:44 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:44 PM
2

Don't call me babe. Only Jesus calls me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:42 PM
2

So I guess you are choosing to be part of the ice age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:40 PM
8

Men are supposed to look larger because of muscles, not because of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:37 PM
3

Tinder is not the ice age for men, don't be dramatic. All of these men who are freaking out about being single now will probably have wives in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:33 PM
0

5'5 at the most. Not dating a guy under that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:31 PM
0

Short and jacked all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:30 PM
9

No it's not. Now that's bad anatomy. Morbidly obese and fat are two different things. And fat distribution is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:29 PM
8

You said "fat" not "morbidly obese". "Fat" usually means "slightly overweight".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:27 PM
6

Explain why that is bad anatomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:26 PM
4

That's only if I am an apple or ruler shape. If I was an hourglass, the fat would go to my tits and ass and not to my stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:25 PM
8

Not true. How visible a woman's figure is depends on her body shape. A woman with an apple shape has tits that can't be discerned from the rest of the body and long legs. An hourglass shape has a perfect figure even when fat because the fat collects in their breasts and hips and not in their stomach. A pear shape collects most fat in their ass. A rectangle shape can only be seen when skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:23 PM
11

Yeah in fact being overweight is better for female dimorphic traits because we have bigger tits and ass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:18 PM
11

They do but they're usually not as prominent or large as in men. Just like men have hips, but women as a sex have larger hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:15 PM
14

Muscles are a male dimorphic trait, you don't have any if you're fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:14 PM
2

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:58 PM
1

I was agreeing with you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:52 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:51 PM
0

You cannot be a feminist and a slut shamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:50 PM
6

And you know that how?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:49 PM
27

If a guy can't tell the difference between porn and real life, I won't marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:40 PM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:38 AM
3

I won't show my face. Every time I do something bad happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:25 AM
-1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:59 AM
20

To men who complain about not getting laid. Life isn't fair, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:13 AM
10

So funny I forget to laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:45 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:38 AM
2

The former.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:37 AM
1

No I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:37 AM
2

Pickle Rick?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:33 AM
1

Idk how to put spoiler tags
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:20 AM
0

No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:55 AM
1

See what the words spell out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:05 AM
1

Thank you. I will keep it in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:05 AM
1

Yum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:00 AM
1

Come on please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:53 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:50 PM
2

A virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:49 PM
3

Who called you a pick me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:21 PM
1

It happened to me in my own bed in my apartment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:07 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:07 PM
0

What about lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:58 PM
3

If a random guy came up with those grade school "check yes or no" papers I'd crumple them and throw them in the trash. Ask me to my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:56 PM
2

I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:53 PM
0

I was saying a figure of speech not an actual statistic. It just means "most of the people here are men".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:50 PM
1

I always dress modestly. I got sexually assaulted wearing dress pants and a buisness formal blouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:49 PM
3

Listen, I sympathize with you. When other girls got unwanted sexual attention I used to be very jealous and felt unworthy. But as I'm growing up I'm realizing it is not something to want. You may want unwanted sexual attention right now, because you think it will bring you validation. But it doesn't. After it happens you feel even uglier than before because you realize it's not because you're attractive it's because you were an easy target. I'm not attractive and I still get catcalled, harassed,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:48 PM
2

It hasn't happened to you because men don't see you as an easy target. You are probably very tall and/or muscular (they tend to harass short women more). They also go after a certain posture and attitude. If you are slumping and physically retreating into yourself they think "well there's a woman that might hate herself enough to fuck me" I got catcalled a lot more when I was shorter and younger (when I just turned 13). Some girls got catcalled when they were even younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:42 PM
23

Maybe super man is super everywhere but the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:39 PM
0

Why do men always have to include pictures of them with a random woman on Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:36 PM
1

You want someone to scream "I WANT TO LICK YOUR FEET RIGHT OUT THOSE SHOES" at you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:33 PM
2

"Some people wish butterflies would land on them but mostly mosquitos land on them. Pfft, at least something's landing on them."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:20 PM
2

Aw thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:28 PM
2

Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:22 PM
-1

Exactly. Unwanted sexual attention is a privilege like being bit by a mosquito is a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:14 PM
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It shouldn't be. Pressure is coercion and sexual coercion is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:12 PM
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