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| 1 | 23F and am coming up on a year of no sex.Maybe consider if you’re demisexual (under the LGBTQ umbrella). Nothing wrong at all, I hope you find what makes you happy. I’m rooting for you dear. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 2 | First day of approaching girls - Failedlol negging really? | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 09:01 AM |
| -1 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.I am a woman and sometimes have moments of internalized misogyny. I think everyone does sometimes. Same for internalized racism. It doesn’t mean I’m outwardly racist, it just means I have accidentally absorbed some sort of norm that is rooted in one group being better than the other. It’s not malicious - it’s subconscious and I think you and I are on the same page on that, stereotypes are often subconscious and not intentional. | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 07:41 AM |
| 0 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.I think you can! And tbh a pic of you holding a tray of freshly baked macarons or something would probably be attractive to a lot of people because we like people with hobbies but also, people love yummy baked goods. I’m a woman and I find that when men enjoy typically “female” hobbies and are open about it are generally less of a raging sexist. Also I imagine it would be a good conversation starter because you could offer to bring their favorite cookie to the first date. It could even be a conv… | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 0 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.I have no idea how to do them myself and on the few occasions I’ve tried it felt... embarrassing? Like a “why am I even doing this?” Kind of thing. That’s internalized misogyny. You know that taking good looking pics is a “girl” thing so when you do it you feel weird and bad because often we are taught that men doing “girl” things is weird and bad. It’s okay to feel embarrassed but definitely take time to unpack that feeling and remind yourself that 1) doing “girl” things isn’t bad, women are gr… | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 08:03 PM |
| 2 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.1) you can google how to take a good selfie and 2) women also take 30 pics and only keep the one good one. It sounds like you’re enforcing helplessness on yourself. | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 07:59 PM |
| 6 | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.I think part of the problem (and the reason this question was asked in the first place) is that some people just don’t have hobbies or they have one single hobby that’s hard to look cool while doing it (gaming). | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 07:52 PM |
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