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| 1 | Man documents his DISASTROUS first ever Tinder date with a woman who behaved SO rudely that he fled the restaurant without paying or saying goodbye:) No offence taken.. I've heard similar stories from male and female friends, and it's enough to make anyone feel apprehensive about dating. But I sincerely hope that we find partners who make us feel "tingly" and think naughty thoughts well into our old age. :) Clean slates for everyone, and may our bank accounts ever be in good standing 😁 | /r/MensRights | 17/01/18 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Man documents his DISASTROUS first ever Tinder date with a woman who behaved SO rudely that he fled the restaurant without paying or saying goodbyeNo! I never know if I'm going to have sex with someone on a first date! And again, I always pay for myself. Always. And what's with the talk of "jumping through hoops?!" If that's what you've been doing, then I am very sorry that that has been your experience! What are people doing nowadays.... I hope you're not over there "jumping through hoops" for anyone; how about if we all just go on dates, be ourselves, observe as our dates are being themselves, and see what happens from there? And no, I d… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/18 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Man documents his DISASTROUS first ever Tinder date with a woman who behaved SO rudely that he fled the restaurant without paying or saying goodbyeI had one one night stand years ago, and I felt awful because the guy and I didn't know each other, and he wanted it to go further, but I didn't.. I just wasn't ready for anything like that, and felt that drunk sex with a stranger wasn't smart and unintentionally led to hurt feelings. So after that lesson, I decided that I won't have one night stands ever again. And I hate lobster. 😁 Not to be argumentative.. I just try my best to avoid regret. I didn't think that there was anything wrong with t… | /r/MensRights | 14/01/18 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How EXACTLY is this sexual assault? Her story is that he asked her to give him a blowjob, she said yes and gave him a blowjob. Isn't that like the definition of consent?My point is that the permanence of one's soul spending an eternity in hell trumps the temporary "aw shit" of a suspension, a bad grade, expulsion or any other disciplinary action that a teacher could take. School = temporary.... Dying in sin = permanent, regardless of what church one goes to. Yes, I spoke from my own experience, but that fact does not invalidate what I said; I assure you that I am not alone in my experience, and that there are so many people who, like me, were greatly concerned … | /r/MensRights | 13/01/18 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Man documents his DISASTROUS first ever Tinder date with a woman who behaved SO rudely that he fled the restaurant without paying or saying goodbyeI actually prefer to delay having sex with the guy until after a few dates.... It just doesn't feel right to me to be that intimate with someone before I've had a chance to get to know them, and before they get to know me.. That way, there's less regret (in my opinion.. I'm not a prude and don't judge people who are ok with sex on first dates, or early in a relationship). I always pay for my own meals, and have on many occasions paid for my date's as well. Keeping things equal has always been a … | /r/MensRights | 13/01/18 10:45 AM |
| 1 | How EXACTLY is this sexual assault? Her story is that he asked her to give him a blowjob, she said yes and gave him a blowjob. Isn't that like the definition of consent?I only said what I did speaking from experience. I grew up "in the church, and let me tell you, they have you fearing you own very thoughts. As a child, you fear hell with every minor misdeed; as a teenager you are confused because you feel guilty all the time. As an adult, there's so much cognitive dissonance that you have lost touch with what it feels like to be a normal person. When someone grows up ruled by fear, not just being kicked out of class, but that your should will end up burning in… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/18 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Man documents his DISASTROUS first ever Tinder date with a woman who behaved SO rudely that he fled the restaurant without paying or saying goodbyeIt's best to decide on bill splitting or sharing prior to ordering.. That way it's fair for both parties. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/18 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Man documents his DISASTROUS first ever Tinder date with a woman who behaved SO rudely that he fled the restaurant without paying or saying goodbyeThat might not work, because what if she ends up going out with a guy who'll also sit with her for dinner? I see what you mean, but I can also see how your idea might backfire, leaving the guy dateless again. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/18 12:48 AM |
| 1 | How EXACTLY is this sexual assault? Her story is that he asked her to give him a blowjob, she said yes and gave him a blowjob. Isn't that like the definition of consent?Nonononononononono.. Pastors can make you feel so guilty, and shame you in front of the whole congregation. :( You might get kicked out of youth group, or forbidden from participating in certain activities.. They might even make you have to beg for salvation all over again. It's the power that they have over how you feel about yourself that makes it more insidious.... A teacher is just there to teach; a pastor is supposed to be a moral guide. A sexual infraction by either one is bad, it's just t… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/18 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Seal says Oprah Winfrey is ‘part of the problem’ over sexual assault allegations in Hollywood - National💞 Yoooouuuuu became the light on the dark side of me.... 💜 | /r/MensRights | 12/01/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Huff Post writer Savannah Seymour on Harry Styles being sexually assaultedI see what you mean. I'm glad I took the time to ponder both his point and yours before downvoting and wagging my finger. It is indeed true that girls are taught to see themselves as potential victims, whereas boys are "taught not to rape", completely ignoring the fact that they too could be victim to sexual abuse and harassment. We teach our girls to continue a seemingly unending conversation about how unsafe we are, and to view boys and men as potential attackers. This needs to change. I have … | /r/MensRights | 23/10/17 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Huff Post writer Savannah Seymour on Harry Styles being sexually assaultedYour comments have given me something to think about.. This is an extremely sensitive issue, isn't it. Thanks for engaging in a civil manner given the differences of our perspectives. I'll re-read this thread in the morning after I've had a good night's rest. *Edit to add I re-read the thread as I said I would, and replied to /u/Zepherite .. I upvoted your comments because you presented a line of thinking that I hadn't considered. I am aware of the issue of people who "play" the victim vs people… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/17 07:24 AM |
| 11 | Huff Post writer Savannah Seymour on Harry Styles being sexually assaultedI understood what you wrote..it just struck a chord with me because when my SO describes what happened to him as a child, I can see that, although he was abused many years ago, he is still affected by what happened to him. I also know of other men who were assaulted as well, and it does them no good to downplay what a deviant, opportunistic adult did to them when they were innocent, defenseless children. My youngest son is the same age as my SO was when a grown man jerked off and came in his fac… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/17 06:55 AM |
| 15 | Huff Post writer Savannah Seymour on Harry Styles being sexually assaultedIf there are men and boys who feel about it as women do....then aren't they simply men and boys feeling about it as men and boys because they are, in fact, men and boys feeling a thing? Your comment seems sexist and such reasoning is a part of the problem of invalidating sexual abuse against males. I am not attacking you, simply shining a light on where you ought to rethink your stance on this issue. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/17 06:20 AM |
| 1 | "Manspreading" has found its match in what I call "Bagspreading"Nice:) You're really sweet for doing that:) 💙 | /r/MensRights | 23/04/17 12:31 AM |
| 1 | "Manspreading" has found its match in what I call "Bagspreading"In your case, if you'd like a seat, you may have to speak up, because I'm sure that if people knew that you were in pain, other passengers would give you their seat. I had similar issues with this when I had a knee injury that people didn't notice until I used a cane for about a month. It took about 2 hours to commute from home to work and my knee would swell up and hurt so much for standing for too long, plus having people bump into me. But I quickly learned that if I wanted a seat, I had to as… | /r/MensRights | 21/04/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | "Manspreading" has found its match in what I call "Bagspreading"Trains in Toronto have priority seating; I'm not sure about where /u/Rethgil lives though. I wish more men would speak up and let us know when they need to sit down....that really must have sucked standing up for an hour + with a bad back. I'd have given him my seat, for sure. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/17 08:46 PM |
| 1 | "Manspreading" has found its match in what I call "Bagspreading"It would be less intrusive if the people's faces were blurred out, especially those of any children. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact".Agreed. I have no respect for her "research", and any time I come across any of her drivel, I'll counter with some truth. I've heard her sentiments expressed before from other people, not knowing where they were getting their information. It's really shocking how many people subscribe to her way of thinking. If I unfriend them though, they'll only have like minds to bounce these sexist and oppressive ideas with....I've actually just had a conversation about an hour ago in which he was belittling… | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact".Yep, but try telling that to her and her like....no doubt they'll have some nonsensical comeback because people who espouse these views are very closed-minded:/ | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact".I thought she was just another run-of-the-mill feminist spreading misinformation; apparently she has the respect(????!) of a lot of people who put a lot of value to the things she says.... You're right; she needs to be shouted down:( What a disservice she is doing to victims of rape, regardless of gender. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact".Yeah me too.. And such incidents should be treated every bit as seriously as if it was a woman. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact".I'd like her to consider the men/boys in her life.. If she has brothers, cousins or sons etc who may have been (or may unfortunately be) raped/sexually violated.... How quickly her opinion would change. And even without having male relatives, what about just being empathetic towards other people regardless of gender and stop diminishing the experiences of others? Sorry guys; this woman does not speak for all of us:( | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact".Yeah, I give up with people like her; better to save my energy for people with the ability to understand:( | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact".I stand corrected lolol x) | /r/MensRights | 28/12/15 12:04 AM |
| 35 | Mary P. Koss thinks that it is "inappropriate" to consider men who have been raped by women as rape victims, because "their penetration experience is not similar to what women are reporting". She calls it "unwanted contact".But then by that "reasoning"(?) the same should apply for men. '-_- | /r/MensRights | 27/12/15 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Reminder to men:I appreciate your respectful reply.. I am admittedly not as strong as I wish; I struggle with anything over 50lbs. I loved watching strong man competitions when I was a kid and then as a teen....I'm amazed at how much those guys can lift! Re: my brothers and I....I was constantly left out of fun activities and not allowed to wear certain clothes or play with the fun toys when we were little, and I was expected to be more "domestic" than they were. They didn't have to cook ....they still don't ha… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/15 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Reminder to men:Hmmm, I'm a woman and have had three children, who I love very much. But.... I hate not being as strong as the men I admire, I hate when people expect me to behave differently than my brothers just because I'm a female, and I seriously HATE my periods.....I feel like I've been kicked in the abdomen, back and hips by some kind of hooved beast on steroids, and my cramps are worse than labour pains:( I go through this misery every three weeks.... I hate that it matters how my hair looks and that pe… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/15 08:14 AM |
| 0 | Reminder to men:I believe it, because I see it every day in the Facebook posts of my more militant social justice warrior "friends". :( They literally post "down with cis white men" quite frequently.... It's not easy to reason with people who hold such negative views about "cis white men" for no reason. I also see the posts of their friends and the groups that they share from....it's as if they're literally at war with cis white men. I cringe and keep scrolling past their nonsense posts and I'm sure that they r… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/15 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Refusing to talk about violent women hurts women more than it hurts menI understand /u/FinnGiddy 's position here, as I am in a similar one; it's frustrating trying to be a voice of reason with feminists and so-called "equal rights activists" who completely ignore the struggles that our male counterparts face. Our opinions are shut down, ridiculed and silenced. I've heard such stupid comments as "Well men have ruled for so long; now it's their turn to see how it feels to suffer the way us women have suffered over the centuries lololoo, lmfao, ROFL." .... Also, "Wel… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/15 10:08 PM |
| 5 | College women rape college men but few men tellI am hoping that if more female allies who are sick of the injustices men face stand with you and speak out against the unfairness of it all, things can change. I'm hoping that the next "civil rights" wave will be one that recognizes the lack of respect shown to men and works to change that. Edit: Just adding that I hope that you somehow find the strength to avoid becoming bitter because of your circumstances, but rather do what you can to become strong, and help other people in any way you can.… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/15 02:06 AM |
| 4 | College women rape college men but few men tellIt's not just about penetrating your victim; it's exerting power over them, hurting them and humiliating them. When abusers do that, they feel like they've acheived something (I don't know what), but that's all they care about. This goes for male and female abusers alike. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/15 01:46 AM |
| 32 | College women rape college men but few men tellSorry to hear that man.... That's incredibly unfair. A buddy of mine had his head split by his crazy, abusive gf; we'd always see him with new cuts and bruises. Other way around, he'd be behind bars. What happened to her? Absolutely nothing.... even though the abuse would sometimes take place in front of her son, which makes it not only a case of domestic violence, but also a child welfare issue. My friend was advised to "stay away" ....but he wanted to stay to be there for his girlfriend's son,… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/15 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Two women talking on Facebook about divorceI wish you all the luck in the world..your situation sounds absolutely awful and your ex sounds shameless.....I hope that your kids reach out to you when they can despite the wedge that she is driving between you and them. :( It'll bite her in the ass in the end, I can promise you that. You just make sure somehow that your kids know that you are fighting and doing everything that you can to be in their lives. Don't slip into despair EVER; don't turn to drugs/alcohol or do anything stupid that wi… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/15 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Feminist outrage over new phone app which allows users to video their date agreeing to sex to protect them against rape claimsWhat about if at the beginning of the sexual encounter both parties are into it, but then as things progress, one of them changes their mind? I've been in that situation, and fortunately the girl I was with understood and stopped when I felt uncomfortable, but what if she had recorded me agreeing to have sex and then decided to use that recording to cover her ass after going too far and perhaps injuring me? And what's to stop the type of scumbags who prey on vulnerable people from getting them t… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/15 09:19 AM |
| 2 | This caused a bit of a problem on my Facebook last night.Join a gym or a group that has some sort of activity that you enjoy....you'll likely make connections that are based on a mutual enjoyment of something. I hope that you are able to find some decent real life friends....everyone needs that, and the occasional real life hug. I know I sound sappy, but your comment touched me a little bit and I felt like I should offer some encouragement. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/15 04:12 AM |
| 1 | This caused a bit of a problem on my Facebook last night.Let's hope not, because a female can sexually violate a man/boy as well. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/15 03:13 AM |
| 1 | This caused a bit of a problem on my Facebook last night.Whoa, but what if the girl is the 18-year-old and the boy is 17? | /r/MensRights | 14/07/15 03:10 AM |
| 1 | I get a wife bonus and I deserve it, so STFU. Husband explains how she spends the money — and how the cash payment "makes her more, not less, of a feminist than ever."It's super fugly. It looks like someone smeared lemon dill hummus all over her. To each their own though; maybe she and her husband have a hummus fetish.... | /r/PussyPass | 01/06/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | The Vasectomy Double Standard - Society Doesn't Afford Men the Same Rights as Women Regarding SterilizationAh, well if that's the case, I see where you're coming from. I hope that things work out for you two. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/15 03:11 AM |
| 0 | The Vasectomy Double Standard - Society Doesn't Afford Men the Same Rights as Women Regarding SterilizationI agree with you. There's so many different options. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/15 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Can we compile a list of all the shity jobs that feminists would never do? thinking: garbage man, construction worker...:( There are women/feminists who would do those kinds of jobs though....I've worked construction and have worked with a team of trash haulers....I do my own plumbing and repairs around the home and have helped to rid a home of mice and destroyed furniture during a horrific infestation. I'm no stranger to junk yards, lumber yards, waste disposal facilities and I'm not afraid to get dirty. Not all females shy away from jobs that are traditionally seen as "men's jobs"....And those of us who do work… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/15 11:23 AM |
| 4 | I'm currently going through a police academy and today we practiced handling domestic assaults.Thank goodness. We need this here in Toronto. I know too many guys who have been assaulted by women, but not enough people take it seriously when they are beaten and cut up. As women, we need to stop joking about men being beaten by women, because it's not funny. It's not funny either way. I'm happy to see that people are starting to make an effort to change things in this regard. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/15 10:58 AM |
| 2 | The Vasectomy Double Standard - Society Doesn't Afford Men the Same Rights as Women Regarding SterilizationI know a guy who had a vasectomy because he was a cheater and frequently stepped out on his wife. I'm not accusing you of anything, OP, I'm just wondering if your wife wanted you to have the vasectomy because she doesn't trust you. Women who are jealous when their men look at Sports Illustrated or pornography often become very controlling, as did the wife of the guy I mentioned, and as I did when I was in a relationshit with a serial cheater. The poor reasoning of a jealous and hurt mind sometim… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/15 10:51 AM |
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