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Here's some advice. Don't neglect the core. Most guys working on the heavy lifts usually neglect the core somewhat. However, it's quite foundational to levelling up. As to your predicament, you know what to do. Don't forget. No contact.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:09 AM
3

You'll never out alpha everybody. The problem isn't others. It's yourself.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:11 AM
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Part of it is taking accountability.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 03:19 AM
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Have you purchased my course yet?
/r/askTRP18/02/19 03:42 AM
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Op you'll reply to others but no the only EC in the thread. Listen to this man.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:03 PM
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Live to your values.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 10:15 AM
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Freedom
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:21 AM
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Do not do this.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:22 AM
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Professional help. We all need it every now and then.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/18 07:29 PM
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Don't say any of this. Never explain or respond to absurdity. If anything, tell them to mind their own business.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 08:04 AM
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Plus hobbies
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:08 AM
2

It's time to deploy attrition warfare. Ups and downs. Forwards, backwards, creep up that hill. That's life. You're not going to be Elon musk with every minute of your day handled. You're going to smashing puss then crying to mum later about not knowing what you're doing. Attrition warfare.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:07 AM
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Jesus christ. You can't be a gentleman if you're a fucking wimp. You can only be one if you're a monster. Being a gentleman is only a merit when you're clearly of dominance and sexual competence. Otherwise you're just exercising the only beta game you got. Manners are only respected if you could get what you want without them. Being an (ergh) gentleman is only a personal merit when you don't need it. It's only a personal merit when it's a courtesy you provide others, not a necessity. It's got li…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 08:40 PM
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Every single woman that works with them
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 01:35 AM
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I was once on an industrial construction site managing a project that was going poorly. I was obviously stressed and flighty and ran into a maintenance fitter in the bathroom. He said to me 'dude, there is only one person on this site who is going to care enough to drop their problems to help you, he's in that bathroom mirror. So go take a shit, wash your face and figure it out'.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 08:57 PM
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It is. Just not for the bottom 80%
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 04:24 AM
5

The well is poisoned already with bluepill. As long as the betas pay and have some sort of socially acceptable 'standard' to achieve, the will perceive hope and continue to excersice their schemas through their wallets.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 11:26 PM
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You can't. Progress to lay or rejection. Action not analytics. You know the foundation. That's all you need to know.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 11:22 PM
2

I think without doubt. It is simply the realisations of the female imperative. The betas fall first, and while there are benifits for the unplugged, overall men as a whole, relationships as a whole and even women will suffer deleterious consequences
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 03:36 AM
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This complete sisification of men has resulted in them having to fetishise their own humiliation just to be able to get some sort of sexual engagement with their SO`s. Sexual liberation isn't about liberation from shame. It is liberation from having to commit to a beta, since alphas exist in such a sellers market.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 12:07 AM
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Jesus christ. So it not just about securing provisioning, it's about testing it's security to the stress of external sexual competitors? This is depressing. It seems like the female game just flows to cuckolding.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 10:42 PM
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It is actually ethical to be in many cases
/r/askTRP05/09/17 05:31 AM
5

8 hours sleep. Set alarm for bed and for waking up.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 05:28 AM
1

You won't know she's contacting because you're hard nexting. This is a fireable offence. Block, burn, forget and consolidate on your new opportunities.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:41 AM
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She made a nuclear power play. You didn't win. But you didn't lose. Sorry about the break up. Hard. But looks necessary. Don't go back.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:39 AM
1

You mean a tournament of cucks?
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:12 AM
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Both. Don't fall into the trap of this or that. Lowered investment in yours less aware compatriots will allow room for the few people you meet that will fulfil your morel masculine friendship needs. Loneliness is just part of being a man. How do you live with that will be your measure.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 12:10 AM
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I think the difference is that; in getting one's nob gobbled you get a sense of a gobblin in the future. As Nietzsche himself contended; the difference between man and the animals is that man is able to imagine the future and expend effort to actualisation results on it. Animals only have the present and their instincts for inputs into Immediate behaviour. Nihilism is simply that hopelessness that that the future holds nothing. That's what's so hard about TRP. We need to change what the future l…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 02:32 AM
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I came here from an internal reddit link that was vilifying the place. It took me a while to understand. Even longer to build hope through my new nihilism. Nevertheless. The advertising helps men. Helps us buy encouragement of criticism and challenge.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 12:28 AM
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Denial. She will always be able to get a better dick. Abundance, not performance is the root of not being needy. Sure abundance requires performance. However, the root of sexual value in a market is to be valued by that market. I can believe my company is amazing, however, until others value it, or you can see that you are getting a good deal (underpriced) , then no investment will occur. For her to see value is not just to see the benifits to her personally, It is to see that there is no opport…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 06:03 AM
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It's hard to start on the midst/mist of the LTR. Abundance and genuine self assurance are required before it. Make sure you keep time for your hobbies and don't let her shit test you out of them. Video games aren't a hobby. Better if there are some chicks involved in your extracurricular activities.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 05:58 AM
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Agreed. The competition will always be the competition. When the pupil is ready the teacher will be available. Ie the red pill; teaches how to compete. There will always be the fineline between letting men fail on their merits within gynocentrism and letting a competitor back onto the game. It's a courtesy to let him know. Not every cad is required to be the paragon of anothers relationship. Though were a man is trying to protect his life, it is courteous to help, not required. The game remains.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:10 AM
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He literally kills islamists.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 08:01 AM
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Push-ups are for everybody.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 08:25 PM
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Ten pullups is mean. Well done. 5 sets in the morning. 5 at night. That's 100. Doable today? Maybe. Progress goal. Absolutely. Push ups are for everybody.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 08:25 PM
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Cowardly
/r/askTRP19/02/17 08:46 PM
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Whats the top 20 percentile size?
/r/askTRP22/12/16 10:54 PM
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Inches
/r/askTRP21/12/16 03:48 AM
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'She is a good cook'. Great, so she has nearly met the bare minimum of requirements. Maybe when she stops playing games she'll be worthy of time. At the moment she is the prize. Have more options that will allow you to ghost her for a week.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 01:27 AM
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As always with TRP; these 'techniques' are actually the reasonable behaviours of a Man with options and a deeply internalised sense of self value. The utility of ghosting is simply an excersice in investing ones emotional energy productively.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 04:50 AM
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I appreciate you taking the time. The relationship is unfortunately over. The break up has knocked me around something vicious. But I'm 6 foot, okay looking and some social skills. 28. I think I'll eventually be ok. I think it starts with taking accountability for myself.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 01:37 AM
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You were born to put your penis on vaginas. Have your plates and use them as your masturbatory needs.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 05:32 AM
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If Elon was alpha; she wouldn't have left. If Elon had game; she wouldn't have left, she would have been kicked out. Men need to start taking accountability of their relationships and their, God knows women can't.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 07:18 PM
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The difficulty in going through those breakups and understanding the motives of that break up, what is communicated, what isn't etcetera; is that these aspects tend to fog the lessons learned aspect of reflection. I'm in a position now where I have created a narrative I have no idea if it is correct or not. When I should really be thinking, (especially after an LTR - years and years), "it doesn't matter, you had your turn, learn more game and focus on your maturation". The only lesson learned av…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 10:11 PM
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It's literally about dicks. Antlers symbolise genetic quality in deer. You're not a deer. What symbolises genetic quality in men is cock size. Walk like you have a big cock. Seriously. This is all this is about. Walk tall with that dumb proud grin like you can handle anything and that life is your play thing.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 10:59 PM
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It's a social world. Learn skills. Dancing is a social skill. One will develop as a person as well. Dance for the sake of dancing and women will come. All hobbies have their groupies (except world of war craft).
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 10:21 AM
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Not to mention that it shows confidence, DGAF and social proof.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 10:17 AM
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I'm just a teenage dirt bag baby.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 08:05 AM
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Thanks mate. Already had a burn through a number of the videos. I have to say that the influence of a positive outlook on masculinity is incredibly refreshing and encouraging. I have been living under the belief that to be a man is to know how to suffer productively. Looks like one can learn to be happy as well. Didn't mean for this to sound so self pitying; the bitterness of the pill rids one of many of the delusions that allow mediocre men to be satiated.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 12:16 PM
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Hi Anthony. What is name of the video that went viral. I am having difficulty finding it in my phone.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 11:15 PM
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No body says they want the fruit that they can't reach. Weak people have a disqualifier for that fruit, not to hide their desire from others, but to hide it from themselves. Often times that disqualifier is really resentment for the fruit. Particularly if it jumps away from you when you reach for it.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 09:37 PM
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Her being a shirty person is not your fault. At all. Parasites are hard to get rid of. You seem to be genuinely interested in feedback and I trust your observation of the situation. What I meant by 'your dysfunction' was what can be seen to be lacking when one compares your behaviour in the relationship with say somebody who wouldn't allow a parasite to attach to themselves. In time you will choose girlfriends better. I've found that in my moments of loneliness; that I have spent too much time l…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:26 PM
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There is never one dysfunctional person in a relationship. Always two. Of you are then she is. But more likely; if she is as bad as it sounds. Then it sounds like your dysfunction is not having adequate self worth. I'm sorry that her claws have been sunk so deeply into you. I can't offer greater advice other than it's okay to see a shrink for your mental health. You'd be surprised the good talking it through can do. They're like prostitutes. Paid to not use your vulnerability against you.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 10:08 PM
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So few and far between
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:20 AM
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Yep. Oneitis is a drug. The worst drug because you don't know that you're deluding yourself.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 10:08 AM
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Still. Religion poorly held hypergamy in check. One can divy up a woman for every man, but you can't make her satisfied about it. One can only make sure you're not the sucker holding the cold potato once it's been passed around the circle.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 09:13 PM
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And that's the cuck routine right there. One man makes the kids the rest raise them. That's what society was probably like pre religion. Unregulated sexual economics.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 10:00 PM
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The sexual market place becomes clearer when we can quantify experiences and opportunities with dollars. I point to 2 lessons learnt. 1/ The attractive well balanced, tick in most boxes woman is a commodity worth $8k thousand/day to a beta bux. 2/ this experience is unavailable to you because you are not the man who can substitute that cash with their alpha aptitudes and traits. Yes that woman is a rare animal. Rarer still is the man that can have her without a cash payment. All relationships ar…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 07:19 AM
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Good luck hombre
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:08 PM
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Thanks for responding. Do you have a handle or idea on what you could be doing?
/r/askTRP26/08/16 11:33 PM
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Humour does love a masochist
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:25 AM
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What industry? What are your options? What's the nature of your e-commerce business? What revenue describes success for you?
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:25 AM
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What's your skill? What do you do?
/r/askTRP26/08/16 01:23 AM
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You're being down voted for not reading the side bar.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 11:33 PM
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That he is probably counting money, getting his dick sucked or burying a pink haired cat lady as he types out this advice. Listen to him.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 09:04 PM
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Exactly. Lift, smile, tease bitches and let them test. Repeat. The best sex is the sex where she chases you, anything less is a power dynamic she will disdain.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 01:50 PM
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I got cat called by a bunch of land whales out of a WRX the other day. 6 teeth between them inviting me to give em a lick. I get it. Low SMV people suck.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 04:35 AM
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There is a chance. But do you really want it? You are no longer her best option.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 06:25 PM
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The hard part of coming to terms with female game is understanding that ones own mother played it. And ones own father is highly pussified
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 06:23 PM
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I mechanical eng as well. On slightly less. May I ask what you do?
/r/askTRP07/07/16 01:03 AM
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The largest lesson learnt out of this isn't that women are duplicitous with their victim mentality. It is that white knights are the most dangerous aspect of the female world.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 01:00 AM
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Just to see if the ship will float after all.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 09:42 PM
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Exactly. The only emotional response appropriate to that article is apathy. Comic books are for children. End of. Economical movies in that universe are just a result of those children continuing to masturbate their hero and saviour schemas into adulthood. Those very schemas are rooted in beta conditioning. Martyrdom and saviourhood is (was) the only game the beta has to actualise a sexual strategy. These days it is the primary mechanism of servitude. The SJW in question just doesn't understand …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 10:46 PM
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Amen. I am in a position now personally where I need to choose between my LTR and my professional options. All the theory in the world doesn't seem to help kill my unicorn. And no body outside of this forum seems to understand the conflict. I've been listening to Rollo's rational male on repeat to centre my frame around myself. However I keep coming back to a frame centered around my girl as a partner to my life. It's torturous.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 04:28 AM
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I understand how money works retard. There is nothing in that essay that refutes the contention 'money has an owner'.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 04:39 PM
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It's not insightful and it is my money - legally and pragmatically.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 01:49 AM
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As cool as this sounds. It really means nothing.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 09:57 PM
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I suggest asking Jeeves "how to slay your neighbours pussy" for the best results
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 04:47 AM
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Thanks for the feedback. It's a fine balance between bang for buck and being able to fully explore the justifications and context of a high quality personal process. I've tried to sprinkle in enough frivolity for a chuckle without detracting from the core content. I'll have a bigger dig at cat people in the future.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 02:23 AM
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Understand then that it's shame the is the social mechanism that keeps men in check
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 12:15 PM
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Forgo the birth of tragedy. It provides little value to an individual seeking self actualisation
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 10:57 PM
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There is plenty to be irate about without having to get angry about things that haven't happened yet.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 05:53 AM
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Very good question.. I wish more people tackled question of this kind rather than 'my girlfriend is behaving like x, what does it mean?
/r/askTRP11/05/16 09:22 AM
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Disregard marriage. Acquire currency and females
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 01:43 AM
1

They just get it bro. Why don't you understand?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 11:57 AM
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Thanks for that shoulder mobility link. Procrastinating work and still learning good things.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 11:56 AM
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She literally just told you: * A/ I am damaged goods. * B/ I don't love you. * C/ I have no interest on short term commitment to you * D/ I want to be available for others in the short term while maintaining you as a prospect if things don't work out. This is called girl game. You don't need advice. You need self respect.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:21 AM
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The point is that maintaining a femcentric social standard of white knighthood may cost you your life.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 12:03 AM
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And at the same time centering your frame around her not yourself. You are in a situation that requires you to ask yourself "how can I maximise my options? " If the answer is to continue to hook up or some how get even with your ex; you're deluding yourself. Did you ever play sport when you were a kid? What was the most important lesson in playing sport? Learning game, competitiveness, strategy, aggressiveness, the value of physical skill, how to handle pain, talk trash or get trashed? No, the m…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 10:53 AM
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I didn't know the quantity of your conversation, though it likely doesn't matter. Is there not a significant opportunity cost to you for trying to continue to see an ex instead of chasing and gaming new tail?
/r/askTRP03/05/16 10:21 AM
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In addition. The very fact that OP is chasing ex for a plate is indicative of the fact that he may be over investing somebody that maybe should be dropped to make room for more value accretive opportunities.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 04:13 AM
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By going every now and again you will keep it alive. Not kick it. And if it is a bdsm sex worker, the experience is going to be more intense and will keep you hooked by increasing the sexual satisfaction from your fetish instead of gradually decreasing it's consumption. Again if you have the resources; more productive work would be done from seeing a psychiatrist or psychologist. Also lift.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 08:44 PM
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Behaviours are a product of your values and beliefs. It is time to start valueing your future and start producing the behaviours that will allow you to believe that you are an adequate man for your son to look up to. First things first. Go back to the gym. This will create a positive cycle for you to launch yourself off from
/r/askTRP02/05/16 08:39 PM
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Your fetishes are a result of your inadequacies. Remove them and be the fucker not there fuckee.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 08:00 PM
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No don't do that. In terms of combative strategies for addiction, consuming the very drug you wish to drop is not a frequently advised strategy.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 07:58 PM
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Let's be clear. You're not defined by your fetish your identity is not defined by it. It is however an unhealthy fetish. Seriously see a psychologist and address it. Most cuckold fetishism is a result of vicariously living through others extreme sexuality coupled with ones own inadequacy. The more you self improve (cut the porn and definitely cut the cuckold porn) the more alpha you'll become. The more you meditate the less neurotic you'll become. The higher your SMV the more you'll sexually sel…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 07:56 PM
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I think that we all need to understand that there is one special story for all of us. If we just be ourselves then that special story will one day come along.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 08:49 AM
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This is a very important piece. Thanks for the contribution. I'll add that improving ones self (raising both SMV and personal happiness) comes from refining ones process to include value accretive behaviours and activities.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 06:51 AM
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There is a more important lesson to be learnt. Don't undervalue the opportunity cost of chasing the sunk cost / ego investment in a failed / poor LTR. He has an opportunity to ditch the dead weight for something better. He hasn't helped himself by engaging in activities that limit his options: He got married. Now the offset to his opportunity value is the very fact that he has been trapped in marriage; his chains are now mediocrity, low self value, financial and personal shame that will exploite…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 08:10 AM
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It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a w…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 07:49 AM
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Nothing. They are not your property. You are. Gain abundance and fucking read the side bar.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 08:24 AM
1

I enjoyed your post as well. Being confronted with our flaws is always confronting. You have been proactive enough to seek out feedback and should be proud about that at a minimum.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/16 05:26 AM
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That price is compounded when one sees men in one's life that one loves suffer unrelentingly because of their blue pill ways. My dad refuses to take responsibility for his health, happiness and relationships. His life has been hard, his childhood was hard and now I see no committed effort on his part to improve his lot, which he has the resources and time to do. My mom has even privately mentioned that I mustn't be shocked if she finds someone else. How could I be? How could I not already be awa…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 11:36 PM
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Thanks for your efforts RPS and all the others. Site looks good. Is there a place to submit feedback or function requests?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 07:01 PM
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Yeah there does seem to be a contradiction on expectations here sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 04:55 PM
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You just described the modern female relationships minus the murder and sacrifice.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 04:46 AM
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Treat everyone you meet with *apathy. As a validation junkie BB I have come to realise that even being courteous is too much of an exercise in following nice guy rules.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 11:09 PM
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I finished uni with a 1.6 (out of 4). Below the minimum of what the school allows (thanks to good relationships with certain professors). I finished despite nearly 2 extra years of study of repeat subjects. I now make $104k salary nearly 4 years after graduating (thanks again to good relationships). Short term will be hard. But it was going to be anyway.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 03:38 AM
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I'm not even offended anymore.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 09:53 PM
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I always wondered what that button does.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:12 AM
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OP. You are raising a cunt. Fix it.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 05:43 AM
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You're not the only one.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 05:27 AM
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Fuck man. I'm on a cut.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 05:26 AM
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Haha. Necessity knows no law. Thirst; the bane of the beta
/r/askTRP11/01/16 09:36 PM
2

You def do sound like a grandmother though.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 09:22 PM
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Come on man. Short and petite is every ones type
/r/askTRP11/01/16 09:22 PM
1

My favourite thing about that post was that everybody knows it to be true and we all feel the weight of the implications of what love really is. Who could honestly be surprised at men being loved proportionally to their value. What other world can even really exist? What world would we live in where men are loved for being useless? How could one useless person love another, use another, rely on another, have affection for another useless person. Good men are needed; for genes, provision and ment…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 10:41 PM
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That being said, increased neediness in men combined with constant social media validation is driving the price of poosay way up.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 10:21 PM
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TRP is an opportunity. It's a body of knowledge that when implemented, will improve your sex life. The veterans and mods here don't pretend that it's anything other than a series of tools and models to do just that. This is done by increasing your value as a man. The crazy thing is that once you've been here a while you will see that the improvements required of you will do far more for you than get you laid.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 11:12 PM
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Just a little further to this. I was always told that when public speaking; be comfortable with being uncomfortable. Acknowledge it. It's the same way with socialising.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 01:44 AM
2

'self justifying to avoid accountability or social attrition' = hamstering. It's required to protect most women from realising their arrogance is misplaced.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 12:31 AM
0

Try the Melbourne model and be corrected.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 12:14 AM
2

After reading 'the manipulated man' I better understand why men feel jealous of the female experience. It's what is perceived as freedom in high SMV women. Chicks who do the bare minimum with their time. Only what is required to keep them fit and socialising at venues where they can be hunted by AF or BB. It looks like freedom, togetherness and acceptance. Most men want it. A rare few realise the truth.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 12:09 AM
2

Have you seen OmLaLa's six pack? It's amazing.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 12:24 AM
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Every day, if you don't want to be a mother fucker
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 09:48 PM
1

It's a lot little late in my part. Just wanted to say that you handled the situation about as well as one can. You de-escalated beta violence and handled the hysteric men as well as the women. Well done
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 06:49 AM
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It sounds like she's using it as a way of manipulating you to stay. Either way shit test or dysfunctional dynamic; it doesn't sound healthy.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 02:44 AM
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This will be a little different to the other advice here. I made a rule with my girl that her and I don't say ILY back after the other says it. My argument was that it fosters an emotionally dependant and transactional relationship, and is a form of covert contract. We only say it now when we want to selflessly show the other that they are loved; the golden ration (3:2) or less is best. I now trust her love a little bit more.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 10:45 PM
2

Good luck. I've been told new poon is the best poon.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 10:36 PM
5

There is power in claiming victim hood and most women 'can' extract a utility from that power. By suggesting that a woman isn't a victim, you effectively remove her from a large space of power that she can draw from in the future. You recover by holding frame while changing subjects in the future; if you are challenged.
/r/askTRP11/12/15 08:28 AM
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She is actually saying two things. 1) I would be found a liar. 2) I have successfully weaponised victim hood to such am extent that I am more than capable of, and just as willing to double down should that lie start to be exposed.
/r/MensRights08/12/15 09:14 PM
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Hear hear.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 03:33 AM
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Stop. Immediately. Young gun in a large financial firm in Sydney and you're already doing your best to make CLM's (career limiting moves). You should be focusing on getting noticed for excellence. Here is the reality. The world doesn't care for men. You cannot weaponise victimhood, so stop associating publicly with men's rights. No one cares. Start focusing on your personal brand in a way that is meaningful to the firm you work for.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 03:14 PM
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When you're going through hell; keep going. You have no alternative. No choice. Keep plodding on. One small win after another. One small achievement after another. And don't give up, sometimes you'll be disheartened, keep coming back and improving. Message me if you want talk.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 08:38 AM
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Excellent. Not everything is about some sort of feminist cabal. When an opinion makes money, it doesn't matter what or whose opinion you sell.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 05:55 AM
3

It is very affirming to see highly endorsed red pillers relate to their beta days.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 09:51 AM
3

One cannot know ones own denial, since it would be unable to perform it's protective function.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 06:04 AM
2

Looking forward to a Buddhism post. I am quite ignorant in the teachings of Buddhism; crazy how thirsty one can get for new knowledge. In time I hope to substantiate the above claims a little further.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 02:51 AM
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The response seems to have been positive. I wouldn't want to get ahead of myself. There has been some good material contributed to this discussion particularly on the concept of free will. I may explore that as an extension on this conversation as a part 2. Thanks for the feedback Oxdada.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 01:20 AM
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Oxdada. Bro. All I have really done is reconciled Maslows Hierarchy with "the manipulated man" in the side bar. I highly recommend re-reading that short book in the context of men being unable to focus on higher needs as a result of validation seeking and additionally the fear of being alone and self motivated. I did try to find an experiment where both mice and humans had electrodes stimulate a part of the brain and in turn they conducted compulsive behaviour. The conclusion of the experiment w…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 10:11 PM
1

I'm definitely way too beta at the moment as well. Much learning to do. Probably proof reading to start ha-ha. Take note of yourself on your day to day. Understand the feeling of your needs and try to take moment to really experience the suffering in the moment. Mindfulness mediation may help on this. Everytime you consume; whether media, drugs, coffee, porn or validation from anyone but yourself, your consumption is based on a desire and therefore some form of suffering.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 12:24 PM
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Thanks hombre. I'm glad someone has found it to be food for thought.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 12:14 PM
1

I have explored the idea a little in the below link. I would greatly appreciate some feedback when you have time. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3morpv/satiating_desire_isnt_about_feeling_good_its/
/r/askTRP28/09/15 11:31 AM
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I am about to fly to the construction sites where I work. In the mean time I will think about the best way to explore this idea. Perhaps even a main post.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 10:10 PM
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You've come to experience that satiating desire isn't about feeling good. It's about ending suffering. Edit: I haven't adequately answered OP's question. So I will explore a little bit here while I'm waiting at the airport. I have also replaced the word 'realise' with 'experience'. To better represent OP's changing value space. One's oneitis is mainly a result of approval seeking from woman; usually fixated on a particular woman who is potentially, particularly adept at manipulating OP for said …
/r/askTRP26/09/15 06:57 AM
2

"had two cats" . Say no more.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 10:59 PM
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Great post. Thanks for your contribution.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:39 AM
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May be a result of the publishing of the handbook. Consolidated information to be consumed off line and reflected upon.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:38 AM
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What the fuck.
/r/MensRights03/02/15 11:46 AM
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That was a really good read. Thanks for the link.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 05:58 AM
1

Looking forward to the day our penis's shake hands. No homo. Ok - a little homo.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 03:00 PM
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Can confirm. Penis has increased in girth and grown a small arm that perpetually gives the 'radical dude' hand gesture.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 10:50 AM
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I feel like I just doubled my alpha capacity. Will confirm later after I remeasure my penis.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 10:14 AM
3

Thanks dude. Anyone got a counter argument to this?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 09:10 AM
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So; even if I had an issue in my life, I should not bring it up in my relationship - even with a supportive girlfriend - since she will likely be less attracted to me? Genuine query. Mobile is difficult to convey tone.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:43 AM
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Can I just say thank you to OP for not slandering 2X or r/feminism. I subscribe to both mensrights and feminism to get the real issues on both side of the gender fence. We have great challenges ahead of us in regards to gender, sexual and social identities so it was refreshing to see a post that brought up a problem without sledging a whole community. I am sorry to hear about your experience, as a man who has suffered significant sexual harassment from my female landlord, I think I can accuratel…
/r/MensRights07/02/13 12:07 PM
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