cayenne4 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Reflections on dating after 9 years of marriage Thanks for sharing, love hearing the perspective from the other side of dating!	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/22 03:49 PM
1	Starting over at almost 30 If it’s not the right prescription for him, then actually it can cause lack of empathy, impulsiveness and angry outbursts. I had a doctor put me on them before and I had bad side effects similar to that. Obviously it’s not an excuse for cheating though.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/22 06:28 AM
1	HVM and sexual escalation Agreed. Sense of humour, values and how you treat someone go a long way as well.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/22 06:09 AM
2	Why do some women date/marry guys who aren't good in bed? That’s really interesting actually, cool experiment to see how past partners add up. Sounds like you’re levelling up which is good. Thanks for sharing! We both enlightened each other a little lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/08/22 02:30 AM
2	Why do some women date/marry guys who aren't good in bed? I get your point. It clearly doesn’t speak as a blanket statement of truth that you think it does . Sex is important to me yet I can be happy in a relationship when it’s not the best sex I’ve ever had. Anyways this conversation doesn’t seem to be going anywhere, so I’ll stop replying now.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/22 11:24 PM
2	Why do some women date/marry guys who aren't good in bed? Cephalan in the comment thread above has kind of done this already by saying that there is great sex or bad sex, not necessarily “the best sex”. I have also already made this comment that I’ve had new partners who weren’t “the best” but they were good at pleasing me and I was satisfied and that was enough. It’s hard to quantify who of my previous partners was “the best” because sex can be amazing in different ways. What I’m arguing against here is your point that a new partner has to be the best…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/08/22 01:34 PM
1	Why do some women date/marry guys who aren't good in bed? That’s not what you said at first. You said in order for it to be “good”. And that really makes absolutely no sense. You could have good sex the rest of your life, without it being the best sex and still be satisfied on a deep primal level. The problem is the sex isn’t even good for this poor woman. And like I said in another comment, there’s other dimensions to relationships, not just sex, that can make them overall the best youve had in your life. You are thinking about things very black and w…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/22 11:17 PM
0	Why do some women date/marry guys who aren't good in bed? This is logically equivalent to saying “in order for a piece of cake to be good, it not only has to be chocolate, it also has to be better than all previous pieces of cake.”	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/22 01:23 PM
1	Why do some women date/marry guys who aren't good in bed? That logic could make sense if sex was her only criteria. But we have no reason to believe it is. He could be a better partner than her previous ones in many other ways that collectively make him “the best”. Think of it this way. He could be really bad at cleanliness. (Let’s give him the name Brad for arguments sale). If she had other partners before Brad that did the dishes more, and she was sighing saying ahhh I wish my husband did the dishes like John used to, it doesn’t mean that John was th…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/22 01:19 PM
2	Why do some women date/marry guys who aren't good in bed? Why does he have to be better than her previous lays in order to be good? I've had plenty of good sex from different partners and if a partner is good in their own way, I don't complain and am completely satisfied. Pleasing a partner isn't rocket science, you just have to communicate and be considerate of what feels good to them. But yeah, if I were with someone who just jackhammers it would be easy to compare them to past partners who actually made me come.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/22 10:22 PM
5	Why do some women date/marry guys who aren't good in bed? To make matters worse, it sounds like these women had high N counts. Which means the bar for satisfying them is that much higher. The man that could make them happy would have to be better than all the other men in their past If he's jackhammering and paying no attention to her pleasure, then partner numbers have nothing to do with it.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/22 04:09 PM