cbogart2 Archive

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1	I think my gf is cheating on me Just text her, that it is not working out and wish her the best, Obviously you are at least a little stuck on her, otherwise you wouldn't be posting here. If you "try" to ghost her, you will be waiting for her to text you. It may never happen and then you will be getting madder and madder so that 1 month from now you will lose your cool and lose frame and either call her and yell at her or send an angry text or some pleading text. Then she has won. Instead send the message now, move on and never…	/r/askTRP	09/04/21 06:02 PM
1	I hate my career and my degree most people end up in jobs other than where they started. Follow the advice presented here. Maybe your Mommy would tell you to pursue your dreams but the real world is much different. Make and save as much money as possible, Gain Skills. Then leave and use those skills to do something else.	/r/askTRP	18/03/21 10:20 PM
1	Anyone here who mastered social skills but were socially awkward before? How did you do it? one book: how to win friends and influence people, However you can't just read it you have to act on it. Find someone in the group who is wearing something that would tip your off- running shoes? do they run? how about triathalons- football shirt? what is their favorite team? use either something they say, some mannerism or what they are wearing as a conversation starter. If they don't tip you off too much just throw something out there like - boy did you see the game last night? or huh, I have …	/r/askTRP	31/12/20 01:55 AM
1	would love advice from older, male professionals It is a marathon not a sprint. Social life is not necessary right now. Keep your anxiety and stress under control. Work consistently and get sleep. Exercise regularly and eat healthy. Be patient and realize that the hardest thing is getting into med school.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 12:01 AM
0	Why am I being hated out of the blue? I am no religious follower of this stuff but when I became educated and aware about how women and even other men think i stopped caring in general what they think of me. Most people don't really care about you. Now that I am aware of that I see other people as objects to be moved around a chess board. If she is in your way go around her and keep focused on your goals. Don't stop to get her attention unless she has money to give you or she can set you up with her hot friend. Otherwise she is usel…	/r/askTRP	09/07/20 09:53 PM
2	If marriage has such a poor risk cost analysis for men, what alternatives exist for those of us who want to raise kids in a two parent household? marriage, prenup. The prenup is very important. Make it fair, but make sure you acquire assets before the marriage and keep them separate from the marriage (rental properties, retirement etc). Make sure your retirement stays a separate asset from the marriage. I do share other assets 50/50 (family home). The prenup took away most of the rose tinted romance from getting married (which is good). Ultimately it is largely a business decision, and the business is forming a family and raising kids. Th…	/r/askTRP	26/06/18 03:44 PM
6	For those who have around TRP a decade or more, how did the recession in 2008 effect female mindsets? Nothing happens unless it happens on real housewives. When the real housewives started getting divorced because their husbands went bankrupt during or shortly after the recession suddenly I didn't look like such a dud.	/r/askTRP	03/05/18 09:13 PM
3	Beta male puke; No frame, no positive masculinity and looking at starting over over 50. join a yoga class. it will get you in shape and it is filled with women. Go every day, and come home smiling. Innocently let your wife know how much fun you are having at yoga. Don't say too much or it will look like you are trying to make her jealous. One of two things will happen. You will attract her interest or you will attract the interest of another woman in class. If it is hot yoga even better. Either way you can't lose.	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/11/17 04:32 PM
2	Bro-help Only advice is this- start small and stick to something you can do every day. Lift- or run, or learn or something to move you forward to make your life better. Gradually increase the time, energy and effort.	/r/TheRedPill	13/07/17 04:44 PM
1	Negotiating desire in the kitchen With the time estimates all of that is included wife sleeps 2-3 more hours a day has 2-3 maybe up to 5 more hours a day free time after that. Wife works from home. So while she is on a conference call she can get off her ass and put some hunk of meat in the stove for her husband who works right up to 7PM races home to crap (leftover pizza with the kids) and then works from home the rest of the night to get all of the projects out. This isn't rocket science and it is not an imposition on her. If …	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/07/17 01:28 AM
1	Why is nearly always a red flag when the girl says she misses or "loves you" too much? more needs to be said on this on words vs. actions.	/r/askTRP	07/07/17 08:46 PM
8	GF invited to go camping with a couple and a guy she has a history with wait wait wait, you can't go because she at the last minute realizes that the dates were wrong.... how convenient. Oh honey I have a college degree but I cant read an email. Oh and surprise it falls on a weekend that you can't go and it is too late for you to reschedule and then go with us. Too bad, looks like I have to shack up with chad. Let me know how the story turns out	/r/askTRP	07/07/17 08:21 PM
1	Negotiating desire in the kitchen Thanks!	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/07/17 03:38 PM
6	Playing the long game, would appreciate advice.. My pleasure. The red pill is not a destination but a stop in the journey. The bitter guys who want to beat you up probably don't have a family or much of one. A few pieces of advice for the short term: 1) earn as much money as possible (without going to jail) ; 2) don't sacrifice your long term health doing it ; 3) find a high quality woman but do your research on her (background checks, get to know her friends an family etc) to make sure she is the real deal.	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/05/17 05:24 PM
6	Playing the long game, would appreciate advice.. I second what redmountainpill said but I will add the following practical advice: There are plenty of good girls in the US but before you get married get a prenuptial agreement. It is not for the possibility of divorce but to frame the marriage. The girl must know from the beginning that you will protect yourself and your assets in the event she flakes out. It doesn't have to be too one sided just protect the assets that you accumulate before marriage. Prenups are not just for enforcement but al…	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/05/17 04:50 PM