| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | this keeps happening to me.Classy and to the point 👌, maybe the "you're cute" wasn't necessary, but I think if someone answered me like that It will be nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:53 AM |
| 21 | LVM and their heinous tactics about pressuring women for sex.Wtf! I mean, like she owes him anything 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:47 AM |
| 18 | this keeps happening to me.Maybe something like "oh I see, so what benefits would I get, friend?" Or "If you mean you will help me move or you'll go for me to the airport when needed, yes I like those benefits from a friend" Anyway, it'll be fine too to just tell him you're not looking for the same, so peace out. 💁♀️ Edit: Spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:39 AM |
| 88 | Do Looks Matter For Attracting a High Value Man? Why Doesn't FDS Focus On Improving External Beauty?I think leveling up mentally and financially is a better focus. No matter how beautiful we look, if we don't have the right mindset or enough resources, we won't be able to either love ourselves and stand to our values and standards, nor attract a high value men. I wouldn't like women to think looking good is enough. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 16 | He’s had more than a million chances to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.At least you didn't spend 10 years like me 😂, but well, we have learned now, never more!! 💪🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:15 AM |
| 66 | A quick reminder...Remember that even if he asks you to be his girlfriend, you are single until you're married :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:01 PM |
| 4 | MY fiance “jokingly” said he wants to marry MY bestfriendI think the main problem is not exactly what he said, but that his goal was to hurt you. If that's the case then there's no 'win' for you. If you act hurt, he will know he can hurt you and how he can do it, and he will use it again when HE thinks you deserve it, that's how abuse begins. If you act like it didn't bother you then he will scalate the behaviour until he hurts you, and if you don't bother still, he will scalate even further, because that's the goal. He is not supposed to want to hurt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 12 | Do we block and move on? Something about the word “dominant” gives me the chills, and not the good kind.You're right! I didn't notice with all the cringe, even worst 🚫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:16 PM |
| 119 | Do we block and move on? Something about the word “dominant” gives me the chills, and not the good kind."MY woman"?? Nah, next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 04:34 AM |
| 24 | Sex: Why Should Men Wait for What You Gave Lesser Men for Free?A thousand upvotes for this post. I never quite thought about it this way, but it makes so much sense. Thank you for writing it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 02:25 AM |
| 2 | How to say no to a boyfriend asking for money?I guess it would depend on the circumstance, I have borrowed money for a big project once, but I managed it like what it is, a transaction, I paid back with interests, that way it was as convenient for me as it was convenient for him. Depending on the amount, you could even sign a contract or a promissory note, any person who really intends to pay shouldn't have problems agreeing to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Is marriage worth it anymore?I don't think so. I prefer to be independent, be it financially and emotionally, though the emotionally part costed me more. I don't really want to have children so I date to find someone who adds value to my life as much as I can add to them, but that also applies to my friends and even family. Valuable people is hard to find. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:11 PM |
| 12 | Missing condoms but swears he hasn’t used them...Well, but where did the condoms go?? I had a similar situation once, I was being nosey too, turns out one of his roomies took them, or at least that story made more sense. He was cheating anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 16 | Need help moving on from a liar.This guy acts like the commitments he made were imposed to him, but he chose them, and then he chose to betray them. He won't be your friend, he only wants to be in your life again so he can get close and then try something else, I mean he's already trying. He knows what he is doing, that's why he lied in the first place. You should get him out of your life, don't hurt yourself by letting him play you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 05:55 PM |
| 17 | Guy wants to make dinner for first dateNot worth it, wait until quarantine is over | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 02:16 PM |
| 23 | [Discussion] Are you a feminist, anti-feminist, or neither? How do you think FDS relates to feminism? Do I even belong here?I think if you only want tips for dating you are not in the right place. As I see it, FDS is really a way of living, to empower yourself and never have to settle, whether it is with a partner, a job or even friends; to be in a place that does you good. To be honest, I was all about libfem some years ago, embracing sex positivity and all that, which only got me HPV (it can be transmited even with condoms) and with it risk of cervical cancer, mediocre sex, sexual abuse and even an abortion. Those … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:19 AM |
| 6 | I have a chance to get out, but have doubts. Brutal advice?Most likely he won't pay you the 2k, specially not after you tell him you're leaving. But you can use it in your favor, if you aren't getting it back anyway, you can tell him to keep that money as a contribution for leaving when the lease isn't over yet. With that you also fulfill your moral obligation (if there's any) and you would be able to leave in good terms for the sake of your safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 04:16 AM |
| 21 | To the men that call us ‘entitled princesses’ 👸Wish I could upvote this a thousand times !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:09 PM |
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