cciv Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Been dating a girl who I told I was in the process of getting divorced but otherwise didn't want to discuss it. Finalized a month ago and let her know I'm divorced. Told me today she was following the docket the whole time. Then get over it. She's probably just into you enough that she wanted to know what was going on in your life and wanted to know how progress was going before you were officially single again.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/04/23 05:09 PM
1	Been dating a girl who I told I was in the process of getting divorced but otherwise didn't want to discuss it. Finalized a month ago and let her know I'm divorced. Told me today she was following the docket the whole time. SHE DID.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/04/23 02:44 PM
3	Been dating a girl who I told I was in the process of getting divorced but otherwise didn't want to discuss it. Finalized a month ago and let her know I'm divorced. Told me today she was following the docket the whole time. She was probably trying g to see if there was DV involved Or infidelity on the part of OP. unless she really wanted you to be divorced. Which is also a good possibility. She likes OP so much that she's following along because it feels good to her to think about OP being single again.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/04/23 02:43 PM
0	Been dating a girl who I told I was in the process of getting divorced but otherwise didn't want to discuss it. Finalized a month ago and let her know I'm divorced. Told me today she was following the docket the whole time. OP not mentioning that this woman is hot enough that he's willing to entertain this. Please keep that in mind.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/04/23 02:40 PM
0	1 year post divorce. I am in a place I feel I can move on, she wants to reconcile. Eh, a lot of men end up happier with the mother of their kids than anyone else. Do they need a lot of work on this relationship? Yeah! But there's something to be said for knowing what you're getting into vs the unknown, and it's better for the kids, too.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/23 07:47 PM
1	Marriage Counseling Prior to divorce did you and your spouse attempt marriage counseling and what was the outcome? I suspect your sample is biased. The outcome was divorce, obviously.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/22 06:31 PM
0	Marital Asset Why wouldn't it be? Pension is just deferred income.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/11/21 02:07 PM
1	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. Do you think they allow doctors/nurses with Covid to treat immunocompromised patients (or any patients)? No, just like they wouldn't if you had influenza or tuberculosis. They'd either treat you as a patient or send you home and you'd use your sick days.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/21 02:47 PM
1	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. It's not so simple to claim a religious exemption either (it can be challenged easily). Many employers are accepting exemptions en masse because 1) it's legally treacherous for them to challenge them and 2) it's an easy way for them to avoid losing an employee.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/21 02:39 PM
1	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. There's a reason why there are measles and small pox outbreaks in those antivaxxer communities! Wait, did you just say there are smallpox outbreaks?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/21 02:11 PM
1	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. You’re saying that people should keep their jobs without following the rules of their employer. Can an employer make a rule that says "if you have one of the following diseases, you cannot work here"?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/21 02:09 PM
1	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. I am reading into this too much, but could I be on the hook for more is she simply can’t work? Depends. What is your gross income, her previous gross income and her expected gross income after losing her current job? Are you the custodial parent?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/21 01:36 AM
2	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. OP's wife will not get a PhD in neurobiology either. That doesn't mean she's voluntarily giving up a neurobiologist's salary. She's getting fired from her job. Whether that's because of vaccines or because she fucked the boss's wife doesn't matter. What matters is if she can work and at what salary. I'll end this pointless conversation by saying that all it takes is OP's wife claiming that her religious beliefs prevent her from getting this vaccine and your argument blows up. OP need not do anyt…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/21 08:06 PM
2	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. This person is freely choosing to leave her job OP never said that. Where did you get the idea she was voluntarily leaving her job? OP said she will be losing her job.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/21 07:46 PM
1	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. she is still capable of earning the same amount of money if she chooses to. Then why are we having this conversation? The assumption is she cannot make money, not that she can but chooses not to.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/21 06:30 PM
2	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. but if you choose to make less, you are obligated at the previous amount. But not if you're unable to find work at a higher rate. Imagine a surgeon who gets injured while rollerblading. He no longer can work as a surgeon, so his income will be reduced and he'll be able to petition for adjustment to CS.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/21 06:29 PM
3	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. There are other places, at least for now she could work for. Exactly. And whatever change in income she ends up with because of that will be a factor in CS payments.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/21 03:46 PM
-9	My ex spouse works for NYC and will no longer have a job because she will not get vaccinated. Will Child Support be adjusted If ex spouse loses job? Any issues that might affect me or my custody agreement? We both live in NY. Thank you. I don't think so since it's her fault she lost her job. So? I'm not a lawyer No shit.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/21 03:44 PM
1	My main regret. Thursday?	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/20 06:37 PM
3	STBX has been sleeping with his/her lawyer throughout our divorce process. What are my options? Hence the divorce	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/20 03:53 PM
0	After 8 years since the divorce, I am considering marriage again. 40? Planning on having kids? Marriage makes a ton of sense at 20 and at 60. At 40...	/r/Divorce_Men	15/10/19 06:35 PM
2	Need advice before filing tomorrow. Indeed. As if the judge hasn't seen an angry spouse in a divorce case before.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/19 04:13 PM
2	Her list designed to clean out the house! This. She's made a list of all the things she wants. Anything not on the list, she doesn't want. You go back with a list of things from that list that you agree with. She comes back and argues that some things you crossed off need to be restored. This goes back and forth until you agree on the list.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/19 02:09 PM
1	Am I screwed? Talk to a lawyer? I don't know what the laws are in CA, but you may be on the hook for alimony, too. You also may not be able to be totally destitute in regards to child support. I think you may be on the hook for at least a minimum (but you could earn that with a 40 hr/wk minimum wage job).	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/19 03:22 AM