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I mean this is just the first result I found while Googling. The research is out there you have to look for yourself instead of dismissing every source as 'sensationalism clickbait.' It's like the people who dismiss conservative news sources but then push CNN.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 06:17 PM
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Wikipedia is not an accurate source of information as basically anyone can create and/or edit an article.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 06:16 PM
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Correct.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 06:03 PM
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https://www.inc.com/minda-zetlin/marriage-mismatch-husbands-wives-earnings-education-jobs.html
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 02:00 PM
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nothing is over
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 01:58 PM
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lol this is totally defamatory against him. that's not at all what he says.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 01:55 PM
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I think it's because the numbers show women mostly don't marry down. So highly educated women go after highly educated men, can't find enough, leading to less marriages, etc. The numbers certainly support it but I don't think it's always true. My parents are an exception to that rule (my mom was the breadwinner, parents had a healthy marriage and are still married).
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 01:55 PM
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I stopped following that guy, seems like he is just a jerk to women can't enjoy life.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 01:53 PM
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I think some are legit trying to help others (I check out Rebel Against Defeat on YT from time to time). But then there are some who are like nope, there are no good women, they're all toxic, stay alone the rest of your life which I don't agree with at all.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 11:44 AM
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I reject this idea that all women are cheaters/toxic and will ruin your life. Yes there are some women like that. There are men like that too. I guess I would say just live life and enjoy it. Yes you may have to make compromises along the way, especially when it comes to kids, but that's part of marriage/companionship. I totally agree with the parts about self improvement. You have to have hobbies, be happy with being by yourself, etc. But don't be a Ben Kenobi living in some shack in the middle…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 11:28 AM
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They have issues with confidence I would assume. Some men legitimately don't want to see other men end up in a nasty divorce like they did. I don't think all 'red pill' people are toxic, just most are.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 11:44 AM
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It's not a good idea in order to re-attract someone. If someone is not attracted, you're not going to change their mind, move on. Just try not to be clingy, find stuff to do on your own and be happy with being by yourself at times.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/21 11:43 AM
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I felt like it was turning me into an asshole, rather than being a guide towards self-improvement.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 03:41 PM
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on dating sites, 80/20 rule might be backed up by numbers, but it's not my experience in real life.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 03:40 PM
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I think it's just a case of somebody pretending to be mgtow to be able to tell people they are, like a lack of confidence. They got mad cause you called them out for being a poser. I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 03:39 PM
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It takes time like anything. If it were easy, it wouldn't mean anything.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 01:24 PM
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Depends. Tears of joy are different than crying because you lost.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 01:15 PM
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Don't give up. It's hard for everybody. But you can't let that get to you. There are worthwhile people out there.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/21 11:45 AM
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I don't think it's that black and white. Some do this, but those are not the women you want to be with.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 12:20 PM
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was just lost and looking for answers, felt like redpill just turned me into a jerk, which isn't what i wanted to be. wasn't happy with myself. people think redpill is going to magically get them laid, but it won't because they're still fronting.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/21 11:51 AM
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Fair enough. Thank you for the response.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 06:46 PM
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I just think marriage is a bad idea for men these days. One doesn't need to be redpilled to believe that. Men or women can get destroyed pretty badly in a divorce. My uncle took most of his wife's money when they got divorced. One doesn't need to be married to find happiness.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 05:01 PM
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Just find hobbies and get out and do things you enjoy doing.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 04:54 PM
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Can you tell me how this is dominance and subjugation to expect a woman to cook once in awhile, clean once in awhile and put out once in awhile? I'd call it traditional gender role, not subjugation.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 04:54 PM
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Well what do you think are feminine traits? What do you think a man is looking for in a partner? What are you looking for in a partner? I don't expect my woman to cook, clean or have sex on command. I like to cook, I keep my house clean because I like it that way and yes sex regularly is nice but I don't expect it on command. What kind of guys you been dating? Me, personally - I am not into the feminist, 'independent' women who do not need a man, who think that they never have to do anything to …
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 04:49 PM
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I agree with this Wargrave guy. People who call themselves "alpha" seem like they are going on some quest to prove it to people who don't care. It's really just pretentious and pedantic. Be the best version of yourself because it's what YOU want, not because it will make you look good to other people. Calling yourself "alpha" and trying to emulate that because it will make you look good to other people is actually kind of bluepilled. You're basically a puppet, dancing for people, being what othe…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 11:56 AM
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i don’t think that’s 100% true a lot of em just don’t want a relationship after a divorce or breakup
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 03:56 AM
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it’s not realistic
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 03:53 AM
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Some women do that. Not all of them do.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/21 11:38 AM
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Yes it is unrealistic and you should never stay with any woman who would risk her marriage like that. Most women don't do that stuff.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 02:09 PM
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thanks... never heard of it
/r/ExRedPill05/07/21 03:42 PM
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I think a lot of men do not know what makes men attractive to women which accounts for a lot of it. I believe that a very small percentage are men who choose not to pursue a relationship. I am single because I rarely go out anywhere. I don't have really any friends and I work all the time. I am trying online dating and get a lot of likes, but no messages yet.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/21 03:39 PM
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What is F&F?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/21 03:38 PM
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Well, the numbers support that. But I think a lot of it is people get married for the wrong reasons or to the wrong person. My dad didn't have a lot of net worth (mom was the primary bread winner) and they have been married for 40 years now because they were compatible and worked at their marriage. And women don't always win in divorce. My uncle destroyed his wife in the divorce.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/21 03:36 PM
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Why do you think you're a simp? Being nice to women isn't a bad thing. You don't want the ones that go for pos guys.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/21 03:19 PM
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Check out "Rebel Against Defeat" on YouTube. I think he has some content that may help you. You just need to take a chance. There's tons of women out there. I'd consider myself 7/10 in the looks dept, and even I get rejected 99% of the time. But you will never know unless you try. Ask their name, ask what they do, get them to talk about themselves, know what signs to look for that they might like you (touching is a big one).
/r/ExRedPill05/07/21 03:17 PM
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I think "red pill" ideologies turned me into a toxic man. I think a better idea is just having respect for yourself (like you said), knowing what to do look for so you don't get played. There ARE good women out there, they are not all cheaters/liars, just like there are good men out there. Take a chance and let life happen. People who say they are 'alpha' are phonies and are not comfortable with themselves. Real alphas don't have to tell anyone else what they are.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/21 03:11 PM
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I think people calling themselves alpha is cringey. Real men do not say those things.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/21 08:43 PM
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i'm honestly just done dating period. i won't ever find a woman that isn't toxic. such is life.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 03:54 PM
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I don't think I'm an incel. Can get laid if I want to. I'm just picky about who I get laid by and I'm totally okay with it. I stay away from toxic women too.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 09:00 PM
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