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1	FR: Date flaked on me. I ended up going out with my wingman, and I got us both laid. (make friends with her friends) Also, Last Hour Resistance Good on you for giving up on her man. I'm a decent weight for my height (looking to add on some more pounds) and have been lifting since December. I groom well, dress well, go to a barber every 2 weeks (black dude, my hair grows quick haha) but my chin/jaw area is fucked up, which kills me. Currently saving up for surgery to fix it.	/r/seduction	08/04/18 06:47 PM
2	FR: Date flaked on me. I ended up going out with my wingman, and I got us both laid. (make friends with her friends) Also, Last Hour Resistance Firstly, thanks for responding dude, very interesting comment. Not tryna armchair psychologist or anything haha, but do you think you haven't been with a 9 because you've mentally told yourself it's impossible? And you've been with girls below your rating easily because you tell yourself it's easy and are therefore more confident/relaxed when approaching them? This is an interesting point though and it makes sense, although it doesn't account for status and money, but I would even say that those…	/r/seduction	08/04/18 06:21 PM
1	FR: Date flaked on me. I ended up going out with my wingman, and I got us both laid. (make friends with her friends) Also, Last Hour Resistance Of course not, but you wouldn't have spent more than 10 minutes if she didn't find you good looking. You went home with her because clearly you're skilled and knowledgeable, but you were given the opportunity to get to that point because of your looks, at least I think so.	/r/seduction	08/04/18 05:45 PM
7	FR: Date flaked on me. I ended up going out with my wingman, and I got us both laid. (make friends with her friends) Also, Last Hour Resistance Nice story dude! but can anyone tell me what he did other than being good looking/attractive to the girls and just simply giving himself an opportunity to succeed? I'm having trouble seeing how any of this would work if the girl wasn't initially attracted to him. Thanks!	/r/seduction	08/04/18 05:40 AM
–	The schism between "high value or forget it" and "low value doesn't exist" etc I don't think it changes much. You will have a harder time attracting women from what you've told me, but there are certain things in your control that you can do to improve your odds. I'd like you to try and change your mentality from all the things you can't do to thinking about what you can do, what you're good at, how you can work on the things you "can't do". Your outlook on life is generally very negative and honestly quite hypothetical; you talk about all these schools of thought, yet you…	/r/seduction	22/11/17 08:46 PM
2	At the point where I'm attracting girls but not being assertive enough Good to hear buddy, keep it up, and keep that improvement mentality man, things will be clicking in no time!	/r/seduction	21/11/17 09:30 PM
3	A thought about having types, or going for just OK girls... Well whatever you're doing is clearly working bud, keep it up! Having mainly your type being into you is an amazing problem to have hahaha	/r/seduction	21/11/17 09:28 PM
–	A thought about having types, or going for just OK girls... Maybe it's a subconscious thing? Maybe you're initiating eye-contact or portraying a more powerful presence around these girls you're most interested in? Women generally try to avoid rejection for the most part, so if you're not really showing them you're into them, odds are the majority won't show it back. As for when you're on your nights out, I'd probably say you're more interested in what the girls that are your type have to say, and it shows in a good way.	/r/seduction	21/11/17 05:36 PM
1	Do you use ANY 'canned stuff'? I'd maybe say something they probably haven't heard 10 times already to avoid the eye rolls hahaha, nah but I don't personally believe there's anything wrong to say, it's more the way you say it; confidently, you being interested in the reply, etc. I know what you're saying man, I've been in a ton of situations where I've got the hamster wheel going and I can't think of what to say, but you kind of get better at thinking on the spot as you go.	/r/seduction	21/11/17 05:32 PM
–	Do you use ANY 'canned stuff'? Try and be more observant of your surroundings and make an opener off of that. I like to initiate conversations with a comment about something they're involved in that isn't private or inappropriate for me to bud into or something else situational. I feel like canned lines are boring because they're not what you actually felt like saying in the moment, thus making it difficult to continue a conversation you're actually invested in if the opener doesn't fall flat.	/r/seduction	21/11/17 07:01 AM
2	How do you just go try new hobbies or meet new people without thinking about meeting girls? I think the only thing you're doing wrong is doing something for the sole purpose of trying to find women. It's good that you're taking a step and trying to get out there more, but I think you should try to do things you're actually interested in. Maybe take a step back from dating and work on yourself for a while. A woman isn't going to fix your problems and she sure as hell isn't going to want to. Women like when guys are independent and have their own interests, goals, aspirations, etc. I'd s…	/r/seduction	21/11/17 06:56 AM
1	Texting Game tips Keep it short and simple, as already mentioned, texting shouldn't be your main form of communication, that should ideally be done in person. At the end of the day, see it as a dance; if she's really into the texting and you're down with that, mirror her steps. A good dancer is conscious of the moves their partner is making!	/r/seduction	21/11/17 06:52 AM
–	The schism between "high value or forget it" and "low value doesn't exist" etc What do I do? Well I personally don't think about it. The times when I go out just looking to have a great time and not working about escalation ladders or whatever terminology etc. is when I see my best results. Try clearing your mind next time you go into social situations and maybe you'll see things in a different way. What I mean by this is, don't worry about all of these things you've learned, go into each interaction without thinking of the past, because everything is different. If you str…	/r/seduction	21/11/17 06:48 AM
–	At the point where I'm attracting girls but not being assertive enough I've been in the same place as you, assertiveness is key, especially with all the IOIs you're getting. Next time try and isolate the girl as I personally wouldn't go for a close in a setting like that with all my friends and hers watching. Try to recap all these times you may have missed out on an opportunity and think of the moments where you could potentially have escalated. Remember these cues and look for them next the next time you're in this situation, it might help you be more decisive/co…	/r/seduction	21/11/17 06:41 AM