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I was just thinking the same thing. I wonder what the group discussion was after this guy left!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:52 PM
3

But you are a socially inept loser if you wanted to lose your virginity by post college and that ends up making hateful and bitter men, so of course we avoid it, we don't want a loser with a bad personality. Per the stats well over half the people here are bitter blackpill virgins. That resent the idea of paying for a dinner but all women are harlots that chase the hottest guys and they ruin any chance they are given due to their bitterness. Bitter guys aren't good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:15 AM
-2

Cry me a river, people have had to work since the beginnings of society to survive, be it tensing their own fields and growing crops. NEETing is a new microcosm that should be shamed. Living off upir parents after 22 or so is disgusting
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 01:39 AM
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It's literally the profession I chose and my personality to go above and beyond for strangers every day. It isn't a gendered thing. I'm most fulfilled when I help others.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 01:33 AM
9

Because you want to meet people and can't accomplish that in your normal circles so you need to try other avenues? Unless you find a niche catered to you with like-minded women, you need to expand your horizons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:21 AM
2

I speak positively about my husband all the time. People at work get sick of how much we love each other and make fun of us all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:01 AM
8

Most of us would rather work ourselves to the bone than sell our bodies for easy pay. My self respect and dignity is worth far more than the cheap payoff we would get from selling our bodies and morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:59 AM
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I worked at a bar as a shot girl at 18 and could tolerate the occasional ass grab or boob swipe, but the night some random guy literally felt it was OK to cup my vagina was the night I quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:01 AM
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I specifically work in the trades and there are plenty of women stepping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:29 AM
9

As a woman I actually don't disagree with this. I'm what most of you would consider a "high value" woman and I think my husband is quite the catch, we both have equal value on the market and I strive to make him happy and make him feel valued. But he does the same for me. The men I dated beforehand that acted like a doormat for sex, I ended up losing respect for, even if they were attractive at first. A doormat in a relationship doesn't command respect and love, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:44 AM
3

Friends as teens and reconnected on the socials later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:01 PM
4

It's not like he doesn't contribute to the bills, but yes I make more and pay more. And he does the outside stuff and some other chores too. It evens out just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:01 PM
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I'm super affectionate and touchy, my husband teases me that I'm needy but says he secretly loves how much I love him and show it. I cook nightly and do the dishes, most of the laundry and housekeeping, I'm the main breadwinner and handle the bills. He does alot for me as well, regarding the household, emotionally and mentally. I make him laugh (alot) and vice versa. I bring out his extrovert and help him have fun, he keeps me grounded when I can't focus. We talk about the most trivial and most …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:10 AM
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My ex. He took his abandoning baby mama to court and ended up with her paying back child support to him, almost 10 years of back pay.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 04:51 AM
4

I really don't know. I have a brother and we look very similar, he has advantages in life that I have to fight for. I probably had the advantage romantically, but I'm much more outgoing than he is, so I would have been more successful on that aspect regardless. My difficulties are more long-term and a struggle for position and respect, he took a bit longer romantically but has an amazing and beautiful wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:55 AM
5

Because heaven forbid an attractive person has emotions based on their experiences and not their looks. Attractive people can't just be people and have a range of feelings, including depression. GTFO with that attitude. Depression and the like comes in all sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:47 AM
2

Hahaha Columbia, MO is nothing but a college and farm town, it''s the opposite of a big city. Ashland must be a miserable rural hellhole when Columbia is a big getaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:56 PM
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This is my maybe favorite crazy post ever. I hope the mods leave it up, this level of insane is why I've stayed here for so long. For OP, humans can't be reduced to other behaviors in primates. The fact that you want reduce women to mammalian mating habits and body cycles is hilarious. That's why you're getting hosed, since you obviously have no concept of women or people with individual thoughts, desires, preferences and emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:28 AM
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https://imgur.com/a/7SHh30N My passion animal, enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:11 AM
1

Maybe hybrid, but hated work from home. I need people interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 09:34 PM
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Thank you. I've fallen in love with their cuteness all over again. True romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:11 AM
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I felt the same as a stay at home parent, I hated it and it led to isolation and divorce. I'd work even if I won the lottery, I thrive off talking to others and making a notable impact through my work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:05 AM
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Post a seal for redemption, been awhile since the last purge and I need it to survive this sub sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:01 AM
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Still have my WV sweatshirt from an ex's mom. It was a shitty breakup, but I offered to send it back if he paid full postage after dumping me. 10 years later and still my coziest sweatshirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:38 AM
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Your post is ridiculous when it comes to the reality of adults. My husband is well aware of my past, and he gets my best and is my best. You have no concept of how the real world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:40 AM
1

Life experiences between the genders will never be fair. Equality is nearly achieved in western societies and men hate it. More news at the 10 o'clock hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:33 AM
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Also based on post history, can we find and save Sarah? I can't imagine he's able to hide this obsession from her entirely, but the post history is disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:10 AM
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I would think yay, Jake has a cool bestie, can't wait to meet her and make a new friend, Jake is a fun person that does fun activities with friends! And then when Jake got weird about it and started talking about money spent and defined time frames and the rest of this, I would ghost and thank my lucky stars I ended things with a crazy dude. Best wishes to April, who probably sees him as her pity project friend that she wants to try and improve because she believes in him as her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:03 AM
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Someone that he is attracted to, that shares similar emotional values. Someone in a similar economic bracket and/or values money in the same way. Sharing a similar religious and moral background. And for me personally and has always been my top vetting point, Someone that I can make laugh and makes me laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:34 AM
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Yes. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:43 AM
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You make me incredibly sad for the way you view relationships and the way you view women.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 02:40 AM
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Rent/mortgage, electric, water, sewer, trash, phone/internet, groceries for a family, car payments. House insurance, car insurance. Public school lunches. Clothing for the kids and ourselves. Property taxes. Home and car maintenance. Medical bills. I don't need luxuries from my spouse, but these are all basic necessities our family needs to pay for monthly, and I'm surely not going to rely on just one person to carry these in case of an illness or emergency. I'm a woman that pays 90% of what I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:09 AM
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Well bummer, hoping i could find a megchat. PPD was lit today on 9/15, I rarely participate but I was impressed by the level of crazy today. Woke up to reading about how fembots will replace women, and when challenged, the poster argued that they watched an anime to prove their point they claimed as fact. Just went downhill from there, the one "scientific" study on oxytocin and how women don't love men or sex and soley care about resources. Now the stuff I'm reading on my bed-time scroll. Fun da…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:03 AM
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Please elaborate on how this is actually a men's right issue and not a gripe against lack of dates and people's preferences. Were you held back from employment, financial, housing opportunities due to your height? Or are you upset about being judged unfairly, which is a human rights and not a men's right topic? This is why no one takes this sub seriously. Most people are totally down for advocating for better mental, physical and financial help for men, but their spokesmen complain about heighti…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:35 AM
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His personality and charisma. Not looks at first, I'm super young looking for our age and he looks older. Took me a bit but now he's the hottest man alive! I was sold with 30 minutes of spending time with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:02 AM
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People still care about this? My husband and I like to travel so we got the first shots. My teenage kids were terrified of Covid and I got them vaxxed as well. We have been in a nightmare of a health spiral since. I wouldn't touch a booster with a 10 foot pole. Fuck Pfizer and their fake protections.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:53 AM
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I just can't relate to this mentality at all. I was slow when I thought it meant love and fast when I figured out it didn't. I slowed down to date 3-5 but nothing longer when I was interested and wanted to keep a man. The idea of giving easy sex to randos but making someone else you like wait more than a few dates seems unrealistic to me. Not the same kind of ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:37 AM
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Proud of you! Been noticing your posts for awhile now, always thought you looked good and seen like a good dude
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 02:23 AM
1

You are trying to quantify a hundred different intangibles into a tangible answer. My husband is a HVM to me, and I am HVW to him. Based on our morals, sense of humor, extroverted vs introverted tendencies, compatability in love languages and the emotional intelligence needed to find the right balance so that we meet needs. Parenting issues. Long term dreams and goals matching up. Financial aspirations on the same page. Maybe I don't have the input you are looking for short term, but for a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:11 AM
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One of the red-pill tenants I agree with, refreshing. Ready for the on-set of blackpill basement dwellers to refute your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:22 AM
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I spoke on this a few years ago on PPD. I am against sex work, and my views have continued to evolve with my age and life lessons. I learned at the beginning of our relationship that my husband used a prostitute while in the military when he was young and stupid. I still struggle with disgust, but I'm no saint and have a much higher n-count. Never a problem for him, he understands why, but I had to put my moral high horse on sex work on the backburner. If he had continued at any point after that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:35 AM
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Don't have a height requirement, but I'm a little over 5' as is my mom, my dad and brother are both 5'11". So I don't have a short dad or brother to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:51 AM
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When my ex-husband and I had a difference in custody, I paid him child support. When he decided that he didn't like our kids and dropped them off on my porch, he now owes me child support. In the US, or at least my state, it's income vs time. No other calculations needed. Income vs expense for both parties. Including crazy expenses like specialty doctors. Legally he is expected to pay half and I can't muster up the balls to ask his half of things, so I just pay them right now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:51 AM
2

I read about Elliott Rodgers and then Alex M. In the news and learned a bit about incels, which I found kind of scary and fascinating at the time. Then a few years later read some article about MGTOW and my husband and I had a good laugh about what I read. I wanted to read more about the weirdness and all links led to Reddit. Figured I would join and learn the platform. It didn't disappoint. So here I stay A comedian we recently saw put it best. He used to argue against the weird but eventually …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:57 AM
1

Oh quit your bleating, some idiot that dates a single parent knowingly isn't some victim. Tsked two to tango in everything. Don't date single parents. Everyone should stay in the lane they want to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:16 PM
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You do you! Just speaking my own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:06 AM
1

And good luck to them! I wasn't sure I even wanted kids till I had mine, let alone a giant family. You find a good man that loves you and your kid or you figure out what is or isn't important and go from there. But you don't have the freedom to just expect that a single man takes on your kids if they don't want to do so. That is batshit entitled. And I never thought I would defend a red pill theory but I am adamant on this so here I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:28 AM
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I specifically sought out single dads after having kids super young during my first marriage. I had nothing in common dating with childless men in my early 20s. I did date some childless men that pursued me relentlessly but ultimately ended up in a great second marriage with a man that had kids as well. We have an awesome blended family. People that have kids should date people that have kids, I don't think you could ever relate as well with a childless partner. Not fair to put child raising on …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:30 AM
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I appreciate the honest and open response and you have a valid point! I sub to this place because I do care about equal rights, it has trended towards complaining about how women even dress. I will support men on end until it devolves into conversations about women being people and how they dress. Good on your for speaking how you feel. If more men do that without attacking like you didn't do, we may get somewhere after all.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 05:01 AM
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Mommy and Daddy issues are polar opposites, mom is too involved and screws up the son, dad is uninvolved and screws up the daughter. A decent argument why the two parent household is the best dynamic for kids.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 04:49 AM
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When mothers are too overly involved in their son's lives and overbearing and the son doesn't understand life without their mom hovering over their choices in life. Not the man's fault, just an over-controlling mom and they don't know better or how to break that dynamic.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 04:41 AM
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Daddy issues usually relate to emotionally or physically absent fathers, mommy issues usually relate to enmeshment. Not the same issues.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 04:37 AM
0

39F, lost it at 17 to my boyfriend of 9 months. He was my first boyfriend and first kiss in 7th grade and we dated again in high school for about a year. He'd lost his to one girlfriend he had before me at that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:12 AM
1

But I ask you again, how is this pertinent to discussing the rights of men vs how modern society functions?
/r/MensRights09/12/21 02:14 AM
1

I never said or implied that you need to man up. I just suggested that this sub, dedicated to men's rights, is not the place to complain about the women that you seem attracted to, that are in no way representative of all women. You seem like you are an angry and confused young man and that's OK, but don't ruin a sub dedicated to the real issues men face with this. Sorry that you think girls dress slutty but that isn't the cause of depressed men committing suicide.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 01:49 AM
0

I'm sure there is. Do you have an answer to my question?
/r/MensRights09/12/21 01:38 AM
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And this pertains to the rights of men how? Just sounds like bitching about the women you are attracted to.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 01:36 AM
4

My implants were based on feeling confident, I'm petite with a big ass and I got my implants after marriage to feel more proportional and fit in clothing better, my husband never expressed any desire for larger, I just wanted to feel better in my own body, and I have ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:39 AM
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This is up there on the most batshit take I've ever read on PPD in the past two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:07 AM
2

I went on one date with an older man when I was in my late 20s, he was very attractive and offered me exotic trips and other prospects, but he had kids closer to my age than my own age gap with my kids, it grossed me out and I couldn't pursue it further. I was ok financially, there was no need to sacrifice for an older man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:20 AM
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That's the hard point with PPD, you have adult women trying to advise teenagers or men that are unsocialzed to societal norms offering dueling advice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:30 AM
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Ah yes, YouTube videos, the pinnacle of capturing decades of women who are or aren't comfortable on film speaking of their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:55 AM
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That's the perception I got as well. I know my husband did things I find unsavory before we met, but it is what it is, it doesn't impact me that much. Either men and women are just are different in this regard, or the PPD weirdos are rearing their ugly heads again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 02:37 AM
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Also why is this even coming up in conversation? I know I'm attractive and he's with me. If there's something missing in our sex life I would assume we would talk about it without bringing in the past and comparing it to things he used to enjoy but saying he doesn't want that anymore. Then why bring it up? A conversation that compares sex efforts enjoyed in the past but not wanted now is pointless. I would never bring that up and tell someone that I used to enjoy something but don't want it now.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:39 AM
3

I think all crazy stories are the minority, but from my experience women usually internalize it and men lash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:10 AM
3

I'm one out of hundreds if not thousands of similar stories. I'm glad you have been in good bubble, I grew up in a good bubble myself. But the fear and worry is all there for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:02 AM
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It's been 9 years since I've seen him and he still texts me that he isn't over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:00 AM
7

This is an insane take. I had one ex alone that bit and choked me, broke my phone and threw it through my apartment window so I couldn't call the cops, stalked me, violated the subsequent restraining order, posted revenge porn before it was even a thing and I had to get a judge involved, broke into my house and burned my prized possessions and ruined my stove cook top, hacked into my email and tried to email my employer "incriminating" things about me talking to male coworkers, and teamed up wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:59 PM
3

They have a semiannual "Purge Week" dedicated to shitposting on that sub. So using a known shitpost as an example is disingenuous.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 01:33 PM
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Now that's not fair, you can't use PPD during Purge week for examples. Not that I'm some defender of the guys on PPD but still.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 08:20 PM
1

Besides gumbo Fridays and the Sbarro, no big loss on Bruff! Hopefully they finally tore down Monroe, that thing was condemned for years wasn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:32 PM
3

Not as old as you insinuate then, or maybe I'm also just getting old ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:10 AM
3

The Boot was the first bar I went to before I turned 18. Being stuck in JL had the benefits of stumbling home and easy access to Dinos Pizza at 4am. Great times!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:06 AM
1

I'm pre-Katrina, extra old!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:03 AM
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I also went to Tulane... but probably long before you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:59 AM
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It's Fat Bear Week and seal week at the same time, I'm in heaven!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:47 AM
1

I got married too young at 20 hoping for the perfect future. I was a stay at home mom from 21 to 23 and I was very lonely, he was always busy with asinine ideas that got him nowhere. He thrived off my inheritance. Thats when I cheated at 23. He turned out to be a terrible person that abandoned his daughters the minute they turned into teens and had issues. I've been happily married for 5 years and we have a giant mixed family, he was married twice before and has several kids from that. I've neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:26 AM
5

I always hate commenting on this sub, but come on. One is using an object to get off, with or without mental images, and the other is literally using women, treating them as objects, to get off. You can't see the difference there?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:05 AM
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No one?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 03:25 PM
2

I think that some of the red-pill ideas describe what I think women are attracted to, but I don't agree with most of them. No one I know has experienced the problems typically described on this sub and my teenagers don't seem to be experiencing them either. Most people I know are in happy marriages or relationships and none of them would classify as an AF/BB situation. The hard-core red stuff is completely unrelatable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:30 PM
2

Blue-leaning purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:22 PM
2

I'm female ESFP if you want to add to the record!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:20 PM
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Good bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:17 AM
1

Thank you for saying that! Quit being a bitch or learn to take a joke. Dear god, it's like pulling teeth with you people.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 12:23 AM
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laughs in cheated on my douchebag ex-husband And no, I'm not proud of it, but good looking bad men exist and can make for terrible partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:30 AM
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*needs. I can't figure out how to edit on Reddit mobile. I would recommend the plumbers, electricians, steel workers, or carpenters unions.
/r/RedPillWives12/01/21 04:02 AM
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Do you have union trades where you are located? If so, he need to join a union and keep learning his trade, they may get laid off periodically, but advancing in a union trade is a lifelong benefit.
/r/RedPillWives12/01/21 03:57 AM
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Oh thank the Lord! I was just telling my husband this morning about purge week and how I've been so looking forward to my seal facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:52 AM
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I'm a bit older than the hookup culture, but not by much. I met my husband when we were freshmen in high school and both theater geeks. We were always good friends, he was very nerdy. He ended up in the popular group. I had my own group and boyfriends from a different social circle. I always liked my now husband but was never attracted to him till we reconnected. He mentioned that he was in town and looking to reconnect with friends. I met up with him and my first thought was how old he looked (…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 03:55 AM
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I'm also a woman? I was speaking from my own experience, I'm glad you figured out what you needed early on. I did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 02:21 PM
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Who does that? I'm talking about waiting a few dates, not a few months or years. If some dumb man is willing to put in that much time, effort and money without reciprocation, that's on him at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:27 PM
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Nope. It's vetting to make sure the guy that she actually cares about won't pump and dump, precisely BECAUSE she cares and it would actually hurt if he did that, as opposed to the other guys, which makes them lower value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:01 PM
3

So she has a low level coffee shop job, you haven't specified what you do to provide for your child. You come across as a low-level kid that can't provide. You're surprised when she is seeks better man?
/r/askMRP05/12/20 03:19 AM
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Aww thank you. You a are good dude from what I have seen. Not to be confused with a niceguy, just a solid dude. Keep on keeping on and stay or go purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 04:17 AM
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Well, we all have our caveats. I generally lurk and have formed my opinions, I'm a huge fan of poppy and even atlas, but I don't hate your viewpoint, and you are consistent. Stacey-lite signing out for the night. A little too much fun at family dinner for said husband's birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:48 AM
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And I only bothered responding because I've lurked here for nearly two years and I somewhat respect your opinion on this crazy sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:07 AM
1

Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 02:57 AM
1

Nah, I wouldn't have been able to move past that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 09:47 PM
1

This has never been an issue with me in any of my relationships. In the past I dated men with a higher n-count than mine and vice versa, most men didn't ask. I've been married for 6 years to a much lower n-count man. He had experiences during his military service that I find disgusting but eventually accepted, so maybe that is the balance for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 12:44 AM
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I'm a married female breadwinner. Found one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 07:05 PM
12

News at 11! Attractive people want attractive people! So sorry about your luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 01:57 AM
8

In the US, alimony is only awarded in 10% of divorces.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 09:19 PM
9

I love my husband more than anything in the world and I am the breadwinner of the family, he moved in without a job and just a duffel bag of belongings. That redpill notion is a bunch of horseshit. He complements and improves my life daily just by being himself.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/20 04:35 AM
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Fair, but why would you assume it's from sex and not their own internal issues/trauma unrelated to sex? Studies show that many women with PTSD go undiagnosed, yet it is somewhat prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:09 AM
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Fair, but why would you assume it's from sex and not their own internal issues/trauma unrelated to sex? Studies show that many women with PTSD go undiagnosed, yet it is somewhat prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:09 AM
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At least you gave my co-workers and I a good laugh today, thanks!
/r/seduction20/11/19 07:10 PM
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I'm a married woman, I don't need game, and I had plenty of it in my day. Telling a woman that her lips look like cotton candy makes you sound like a weird, creepy idiot. It's not sexy and it's terrible flirting. Sounds like you need to learn some game.
/r/seduction20/11/19 07:05 PM
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Creepy and cheesy, I would find this very off-putting.
/r/seduction20/11/19 07:00 PM
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Lol, whatever helps you sleep at night, boo. Btw, I'm the one that could have demanded child support but rejected it in an equitable divorce. I've owned my own house since I was 26, without any help from my ex. You do you though, I rest easy at night taking care of my husband and our blended family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 05:09 AM
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I may be a high value Stacey, but I tried to date a man in my late 20s when he was in his late 30s, he was highly successful and very attractive, promised me vacations and wealth, but I couldn't stomach the fact that his kids were closer in age to me than I was to him. Oh, and I happened to be a divorced mom with three kids at the time. I've since "married down" to my awesome husband, who is saddled in debt and I financially support our household, while still cooking and cleaning nightly, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:58 AM
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Best of luck to you, I really mean it. Stay solid in your own interests and keep being social. You'll be fine
/r/seduction31/05/19 03:47 AM
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And I just caught that I used the wrong *your, new to reddit, don't know how to edit or delete a response
/r/seduction31/05/19 03:36 AM
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And that's fine, I get the attempt, but it comes across as annoying and demeaning. I joined this subreddit in the same interest as r/inceltears but listening, It's a bunch of guys that aren't great socially, trying to do better, and I appreciate that. Maybe say something that encompasses you're own interests and has a solid standout, use the open interests to your advantage? Tell her that's "it's vague, i wanna know more forces her to expound upon her actual interests and opens up a connection? …
/r/seduction31/05/19 03:34 AM
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As a woman, you came across as an ass. She has a large variety of interests, good for her. You seem to think her having a large variety makes her somehow "unsure" of her interests. We aren't a hive mind, many of us are incredibly welcoming the new experiences life brings and love learning new aspects and views of life.
/r/seduction31/05/19 03:00 AM
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