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depends what you consider being "hunting". If for you hunting is giving IOIs, then yes women hunt men, but still, very few of them approach
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:58 PM
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It depends on the culture. Where I used to live a girl would be instantly slut shamed to approach a man. And i didn’t even live in a backward islamic country. I've been cold approached only a few times in my lifetime while traveling and it made me feel kind of uncomfortable. A woman ready to cold approach a dude in daylight is a major red flag for “conservative” guys like me who love feminine women. There is currently a lot efforts put by western societies to remove gender distinctions and mass …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:04 PM
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Maybe thirsty 5s and 6s will hit you, but in my circle we all date models, 9s and 10s, and no, these women do not approach. Why would they, they get hit by hundreds of men everyday. Only desperate women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 01:33 PM
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I'm good looking and most of my friends are Chads too. I have yet to hear any story where a hottie approached one of us. In the city where i live, no high value woman would open a conversation out of the blue with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 01:48 AM
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Well, you should know that irrespectively of their profession, any 8+ woman born after 1980 has social medias accounts with thousands of thirsty orbiters. Of all the women i dated or met, i have yet to find one who hadn't a semi pro SM account. If your thing is to find that unicorn could-be-a-model working as a scientific researcher who doesn't have a social media account, you're going ahead of a long life of loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 01:40 AM
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The "league" is a concept invented by losers to justify and accept their failure to date the kind of people then want. I've never had such problem. She actually downgraded big time going from a Chad working in a top paying industry to a semi trailer trash tattoo artist with a broken face lol.. She obviously had the grass is greener syndrome and gave a shot to a guy who's the radical opposite of me. Needless to say the odds look bad for a new adventure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 01:25 AM
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I'm not so pessimistic as the others here. First, the lockdown is going to start easing up in 15 days in Europe, and the rest of the world will follow. Then the sunny days are coming and people WILL go out. Masks or no masks, you will be able to see enough to know if the target is worth pursuing. Ok, people are going to keep distance for a while but i can bet big money that for the bold, this new situation won't make any difference once the lockdown is waved. Just keep enough distance with the g…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 08:09 PM
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Good luck finding a 8+ without a 10k IG account and thousands of thirsty orbiters even she lives in a remote shithole
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:30 PM
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Whatever works for you dude, but exchanging instagrams has been good to me. Allows me and her to stalk each other's background and it feels more casual. There is no way she will compare you to beta orbiters; it is unusual for girls to get hit on in public places. Most of the dudes cold approaching usually are total weirdos and rude. If you are charming and good looking, you'll be the highlight of her year and light years ahead of the competition
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:26 PM
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I respectfully disagree here. Almost no one use numbers anymore, and it unnecessarily exposes you to more likehood of rejection. You'd rather up your social media game and exchange IGs. Checking your social medias allows her to see if you're a fcking maniac or not.
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:20 PM
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If you’re « gaming » you’re wasting your time anyway. If you re not a natural, that you’re faking it and applying strategies from pua books, you’ll fail. You may trick her for a little while but she will snif your insecurities and beta attitude at some point. You’d rather mass hit as many 10s as possible until one happily jumps on your dick with minimal effort by just being yourself and honest with your intentions. If the girl is giving you shit from the beginning why should you waste your time …
/r/askTRP28/04/20 05:26 PM
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daddy's girl syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:04 AM
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Why would you give a shit about what your father thinks about your BFs Live your own life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:22 AM
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Sex is the least important aspect of a relationship to me, if it's important to them then they're not a person I need to be with that makes sense then, but what's the point of a romantic relationship then? why not just being friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:31 PM
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dating HB9 models is definitely rare and downright unattainable for most With that kind of mindset, yes it is. You only get what you think you deserve. I had LTR with international models. The girls were great but their job really weights down on the relationship. The constant traveling & distance, attention seeking, insecurities, and perpetual up and downs of the modeling business definitely don't help. Girls were sweet, caring and not gold diggish (yet), and the experience was overall pretty g…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:27 PM
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Lets compare 2 scenarios: - Say you succeed making him wait 5 months, which i doubt any busy, high value guy would, and find out he has a micro penis or doesn't vibe sexually with you? Then you wasted 5 months or more and have to heal from that failure. Besides, the guy would likely look for some casual sex on the side line to make the wait more bearable, which is a not so good habit to start a LTR with - You sleep with a new guy that you like after a few dates because you want it, but things do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:30 PM
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What about public figures. I’ve dated models and there is no way you’re going to find one without thousands of thirsty followers and immune from daily solicitations.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 04:53 PM
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Good luck finding that unicorn. Almost all girls born after 1990 do it
/r/askTRP26/04/20 10:21 AM
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Can confirm the same experience. Last Gf almost dumped me over orbiters talks. They will almost never give up this power. This is why men have to keep busy cultivating a roaster of backups. Problem is that it is a much more proactive and energy consuming ( and accessorily cheaterish) endeavor than for women who can just passively respond to DMs or let guys approach them. As a man you need lots of motivation and time to go out there. I did the mistake to overlook the orbiter threat in my last rel…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:57 AM
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Sleeping with a girl the first night together or after 2 months never made any difference for me. I’m only into long term relationships and only have sex with girls i really like and want to keep in my life. But i understand the female point of view, that it weeds out players and guys with low interest. I once waited about 1 month, maybe 2 for 2 girls i was really in love with, because they were virgin, but i cannot remember of any other girl where we did the deed later than the third date. I ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:38 AM
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I don’t know any legit 9 or 10 without thousands of followers on IG, and most of their profiles are public. I’ve dated models and there is no way you’re going to convince them to limit their SM footprint. It’s basically their job. I’m all for setting boundaries, but i question their efficacy. Say she gives you the lets be a couple speech and you agree with her to both not entertain relationships or contacts with people that you could possibly date. No ambiguous relationships. We all know how thi…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:14 AM
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A few months seems a bit extreme in a western country in 2020. Not sure a guy with many options would hold that long
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:30 AM
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Bad way to go. You will come off as needy and insecure if you ask her to ditch her orbiters, and she may even dump you. There is no way to prevent orbiters be it IRL or from social medias to hit on your gf and communicate with her, especially if she's hot and have large social media exposure. As the others said, the best approach to keep the balance of power healthy is to cultivate abundance and keep her on her toes. That's the most durable and realistic strategy. tip: If you are in a ltr make s…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 01:15 AM
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If you flaunt bitches with you on social medias she will see right through your bullshit and lose what is left of respect toward you. You will look desperate. Regardless of the outcome with her, you should post no more than usual and showcase some cool trips or activities. There is nothing wrong posting pictures of hot women, but you got to be very subtle and the setting must be as neutral as possible; you don't want to let your ex or prospective girls believe you're a player neither into a rela…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 12:40 AM
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a bag of skittles lol
/r/askTRP25/04/20 12:20 AM
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Compliments work on healthy girls and immature attention whores. Negging and acting like a dick mostly works on broken/ jadded women
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:53 PM
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I had the same setup for some time. It became exhausting after a while, girls either wanted more or disappeared. At some point i met a girl who blew away all the others and i ended in a ltr. From that point onward i became a serial monogamist. I find it pleasant to be with a woman who s your friend and sexual partner, someone who travels the world with you and takes cares of you when you re sick. That’s maybe beta, but hey to each his own
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:53 PM
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There are no “special girls” indeed, but there are good and bad women. Its often related to the relationship and education she gets from her father. She will expect you to behave the same. Complacency and laziness is not specific to marriage, it’s males nature. I have yet to find a bulletproof long term solution to avoid spiraling down in beta mode when in ltr. Even the most hard core red pill bad boys ultimately fail and loose their frame one day or another
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:57 PM
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Relationships do not last forever. So what? Does this mean you should only spin plates and entertain meaningless relationships because you don’t want to hurt?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:32 PM
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I used to do the same thing when i was your age. The problem here is that you showed too much interest from the beginning and exclusively focused on this girl when you should pursue as many as you can handle until you eventually decide to be in committed relationship. Also, things should be easy and pick up quickly, when you let things span over weeks without any development it's 99% sure the deal loses steam. You got to be assertive or withdraw and leave her alone if she doesn't become intimate…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 02:48 AM
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Staying in a bitter & fearful state doesn't help to get laid neither have a fulfilled life
/r/askTRP24/04/20 02:31 AM
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Women don't have game because they don't need to, they just have way more choice. When they like you they generally are not very subtle about it and make it very easy. Nothing cunning about that. Do not mix up being cunning and not giving a fuck I think game is generally an utter waste of time; why would you waste your time trying to manipulate a woman into liking you? Humans know within 3 seconds if they like each other. If she doesn't make it easy for you from the beginning just move on, until…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 02:15 AM
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If you keep staring at a girl and she looks at you, that's not a IOI. IOI doesn't matter. You like a girl, you approach. It will always be awkward, but the art is to laugh about it and stop giving a fuck. Plus you'll always feel way better to have tried than to have chickened out. Your game is weak because you approach with the goal to score a phone number. You shouldn't care about her phone number, you should care about the moment, making her day first, bringing something to the table, and focu…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:49 AM
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That's a typical female feature. Women absolutely lose their shit when they are single. Men are used to live lone wolves lives
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:31 AM
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Simple. Because you cannot spend your whole life being a cynical bastard. TRP and the PUA culture is full of common sense and good advices but the theories mostly applies to broken/jadded girls who are not ltr material anyway. One day, you meet a healthy girl who got her shits together, genuinely appreciate nice guys, flowers and shit and you give up the bad boy attitude. Pursuing this line of work when you're settling down and thinking about a family seems quite contradictory
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:02 AM
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You can have delusional confidence, and girls will buy into it. THIS. Not only girls but your boss, your investors, every one. I spent many years dating average girls because of unfavorable local market dynamics and this idea that i couldn't score better. One day, i said fuck that, i deserve the finest women on earth. From that point forward i only dated models, 9 and 10s. I don't have game, i'm an average looking dude, no millions at the bank, kind of boring, yet i date incredible women. I mass…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:06 PM
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To my observation there are basically two kind of women ​ Women who were raised by a loving and caring father. They trust/value men. They will usually have a healthy self esteem, will be feminine and caring, will expect you to be dominant and masculine, but a giving and loving partner and will be turned off if you display bad boy / uncaring behavior. ​ Women who grew up in broken families with absent, violent or uncaring father. They do not trust men, have poor self esteem, are most of the time …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:58 PM
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