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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	I’m done Hang in there brother. It gets better. Get yourself the help you need. Find a therapist, join a support group (DivorceCares), journal, work out, get a dog 🐶. Start working on why you feel down and it will help you see a way forward. Once you see a path, it does become easier.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/26 12:57 PM
1	Ex wife pics Archive... I can't bring myself to delete them.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/26 10:10 PM
2	Men who didn’t maintain friendships/a support system during your marriage - how have you managed the loneliness? My neighbor told me about one and the church I go to pulled me into another. Highly recommend Divorce Cares. It's heavy on the religious message but being in. A room with other people going thru the same thing is super helpful.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/04/26 12:09 PM
1	How long do you keep trying till you made the call? About nine months. Tried saving the marriage for 9 years only to end up disolving it. It's weird that the STBXW and I are about to get along and talk to each other still.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/26 03:49 PM
6	Men who didn’t maintain friendships/a support system during your marriage - how have you managed the loneliness? I did a couple of things ... (1) Say yes to everything. (2) Joined a weekly men's group (3) Started therapy to manage the racing thoughts (4) Joined DivorceCares and went through the program twice (5) Self help books (unfuck yourself, breakup guide for men highly recommended) A couple of dates turned into confidantes and I see them pretty regularly and vent. Just have to have faith in the process. It's fucking hard but you just need to know it will get better.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/26 02:19 AM
2	Feeling lonely Highly recommend reading The Breakup Manual for Men by Ferebee. Especially focus on the chapter 4 and 5. My marriage of 30 years broke up. I was lost until I took a hard look at what really happened.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/25 12:56 AM

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