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Lmao just the other day I saw something in another sub where she’s 23 and he’s 37???!!!! and he’s an abusive alcoholic but she’s still tryna make it work...😞 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:23 AM
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Yeah IMO it’s super weird that he actually actively encouraged her to get anything she wanted and then stuck her with paying at the end. It’s almost like he was playing the gentleman for fun, but banking on her being too embarrassed to say something, giving in, and paying for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:20 PM
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This is great. I would love more examples of LVM behavior, especially “tricky” ones that a lot of women might normally let slide. I’m not always very good at recognizing these things until it’s super late into the relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:06 AM
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We ain’t banned yet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:04 AM
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If they take FDS down, they’d better take pussypassdenied down too. That sub is full of SO MUCH explicit hate of women. And yet it remains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:21 AM
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So much can be said with just that one word... Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:26 PM
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Sometimes I tend to think posts this ridiculous are trolls/faked. Not sure about this one (it is absolutely in the range of common male behavior) but every once in a while, I wonder...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 09:58 PM
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One year later: “We’re in an open marriage!” Two years after that: “We’re getting a divorce.” Seen it happen like 5 separate times. It makes me real grateful for my own decisions lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:37 AM
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I feel u on that last sentence, sis. I am hanging by a thread over here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:29 PM
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GOD I couldn’t finish the episode after he said that. Infuriating. Was super impressed with the guys for calling him out on it immediately though. I love Queer Eye so much ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:27 PM
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Lmao this man acting like he “reads and writes” articles about this shit when he really just comments on Pornhub 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:04 PM
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I thought it’d be obvious but apparently not, so... thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:30 PM
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I was definitely using sarcasm, chill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:30 PM
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Umm sorry, I guess I should’ve added /s to that because I was definitely being sarcastic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:29 PM
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NOT ALL MEN Edit: definitely /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:46 PM
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🎵 Tale as old as tiiiiiiiime...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:06 AM
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“Fucking around with no commitment or consistent interest until he finally decides he can’t do any better than you” 🙄 FTFY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 08:04 AM
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Yikes. As an atheist myself, that actually sounds like hell haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:27 PM
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It can be sneaky... they may not ask for it outright but one day a man will bring you to his place to hang out or eat dinner and you will end up staying over and before you know it you’re looking at his disgusting bathroom sink covered in hair from the last 5 times he trimmed his beard and couldn’t be bothered to wipe it all up, and you’re thinking, it would be so nice of me to clean that up for him! Don’t fall for those thoughts. It is a very fast, slippery slope from there to cooking and clean…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:25 PM
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Holy shit me too. A true badass indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 12:20 PM
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Lmao came here to make fun of that line. Definitely a fellow female (wink wink)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:37 PM
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Depends on your definition of “real”, honestly. And the context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:55 AM
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Not the spiritual OP but I recommend checking out Yol Swan’s works (specifically her book for indigo souls) — yolswan.com Even if you don’t want to purchase her book, you can sign up for her email newsletter/peruse her blog, which talks a lot about concepts that OP above mentioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:36 PM
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I am not trying to troll—I genuinely want to know—why is spirituality on there? Plenty of atheist / agnostic HV people out there who don’t find enjoyment in spirituality or spiritual practices. EDIT: Thanks for the helpful responses!! Y’all cleared it up for me, appreciate it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:15 PM
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Incredibly, some woman actually responded to his profile and they got married. Ugh, yikes. I hope she’s okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:32 PM
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He wrote ‘Satan’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 03:23 PM
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I was just joking... geez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 10:28 AM
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How dare you mention that cursed post...! I had just nearly wiped it from my brain lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:51 AM
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Lmao I'm taking this one for myself as well, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:50 AM
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Emotional labor is real shit. Like, not only is it exhausting, but being forced to perform it to an unhealthy/unbalanced level really eats at your self-esteem, your energy for yourself, your outlook on life and others. When a man demands—through his actions and the things he says—that you pay more attention to him / exclusively talk about his life and his problems / be his therapist while he does none of that for you, it really does a number—no matter how strong you feel you are before beginning…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:37 AM
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I mean that’s not really what GoT is, but also that show SUCKED after like season 4 so honestly whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:58 PM
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Lmao this is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:16 AM
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No, libfem is literally just a shortening of liberal feminist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:48 PM
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I dunno, this is a larger conversation that maybe we can have as a group? I’m not sure if it would be an allowed post on this sub, but... maybe worth a shot. Anyway, I’d still encourage you to read the stuff in the sidebar. Lastly, this is kinda what I’m thinking... if you’re calling yourself a libfem but don’t actually align with libfem ideologies, I’d say you’re not a libfem after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:17 PM
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100% this is a troll lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 02:03 PM
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I was a liberal feminist not long ago too, sis. But if you can thicken up your skin a bit and truly consider & reflect on some of the complaints that there are about them on this sub (I think you can find info in the sidebar wiki, actually), I think you may start to open up to the idea that there’s a lot of reason to be concerned about libfem ideology. This isn’t bashing feminists—just criticizing a particular flavor of it based on its tendency to uphold patriarchal values rather than work to te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:56 PM
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I’ll admit I’m carrying some attitudes over from other groups. But I have observed that libfems are, on the whole, a lot more accepting of (and some even participate in) pornography. Also, this is not an unusual observation, and it is pointed out quite often on this sub. EDIT: You edited your comment quite a bit from what I originally replied to...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 01:46 PM
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Plenty of feminists are against porn though. Guess it just depends on if we’re talking about libfems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:11 PM
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Yeah but the whole point of this post was literally to say that I believe this mindset is incorrect and puts the burden of “you did this to yourself” squarely on the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:11 AM
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The whole point is that women can still be super vigilant and fall prey, because many abusers play the long game and don’t reveal their true colors until later on. How are you going to sit there and tell other women “You are the reason you’re being abused”?! EDIT: This person completely changed their post after the fact...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:13 AM
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It certainly is heartbreaking to have to acknowledge that someone you’ve been so excited about and jazzed to be with may actually be a shit person. It’s also really tough to convince yourself at the beginning of a relationship that the one or two red flags you’ve noticed in him (which usually manifest at first as “small” issues) are worth being the reason to cut a relationship off. That’s why, despite our experience and practice, we all still can fall for LVM/abusers—unless we actively practice …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:21 PM
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Gross. I’ve heard this too and it enrages me every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:15 PM
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I’m so sorry, I honestly don’t remember who I was reacting to when I wrote this—it’s been a combination of seeing comments on this sub and several others (like dating advice subs and relationship advice, etc). I definitely didn’t mean to call anyone out... it just has been breaking my heart lately to see comments from women indirectly blaming themselves for the awful men who put them through so much. I’m not even blaming you, or anyone else, for wondering, “What could be wrong with me?” when you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:11 PM
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No reason at all to blame yourself, sis. Good things and good people will come—just keep on being awesome and holding high standards for yourself ❤️🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:59 PM
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Right, exactly—I just wanted to emphasize that just because abusive men may be seeking out certain people, it’s not true that those certain people should be at all to blame for those abusive men coming after them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:56 PM
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The subject is faaaaar from funny, but I do love her reaction lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:05 PM
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Love u sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:51 AM
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I also personally think, because there are just sooooo many stories of abusive men, that they are way more common than society wants to admit. Men are primed to become abusive to the women in their lives nearly from the day they’re born. EDIT Just to say—Don’t beat yourself up for “attracting abusive men.” That kinda language implies that you are to blame for being in a relationship with an abusive person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:50 AM
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A guy at work who apparently had a big crush on me freaked out after he found out I was seeing someone who had recently been divorced, and told everyone that I had caused the guy’s marriage to fall apart, spread rumors that we were having sex all around the office, etc. It was all untrue, but he managed to pretty much ruin my professional reputation there. My entire department is all men, except for me, and I heard through the grapevine that they all apparently discussed at length how much of a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:10 AM
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Sinking my life into idiot men and failed relationships in my 20s helped me be free and happy in my 30s--I needed that time to learn and get hurt :) But nothing wrong with knowing ahead of time what to look for and cut your losses!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:36 PM
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Same! I’m also not interested in dating any time soon. It’s just nice to “study up” and remember, self-reflect, and strive for personal growth regardless of dating or relationship status. This sub helps with many things alongside dating—self-esteem/recognizing our self-worth, in particular. This is also the one place on the internet I feel like I can say is truly a safe space for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:09 PM
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Sometimes birth control fails tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:07 PM
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Yeah this is absolutely disgusting tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:12 PM
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Lol my response would be: “I’ve learned from other men exactly like you!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:51 PM
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AAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:37 AM
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Agreed. I always found the idea of being woken up with sex really, really creepy... As I wrote those words, I realized that this is essentially rape. No consent yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:55 PM
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I agree that the morning BJ is a pickme behavior but I can’t quite put the right words to it... like, it seems as if it’s an obligation, or “maintenance” behavior for him exclusively, not for their shared enjoyment? Is that how you’d explain it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:37 AM
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I’m the same way! Where can I find female friends like you? Just dying for some real friendship over here...!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:27 PM
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I’ve seen 3 sides of male faces. The side they show women that they think are ugly. The second side they show women they want to fuck. And the third side they show to other men. The wisdom shining out from this is astonishing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 10:13 PM
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For now I'm a woman he idealizes who is in his mind miles away from that lady at the massage parlor, but for how long? You got it, sis. That’s exactly it. You dodged a huge, scary bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:22 PM
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Congrats, sis. I’m proud of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:00 AM
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Thanks for this. I also got The Uneasy Feelings about a recent first date I went on and decided to ghost after I realized how strong the controlling vibes were. He checked off a lot on this list you made, as well. I just wasn’t able to put it all neatly into words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:01 PM
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Lol you gave me a chuckle. They are indeed fucking stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:49 PM
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This is very interesting, thank you for the resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:26 PM
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