cemj86 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Is the life of promiscuity worth it? Get it out of your system and find out. Some stay though you'll find it's just the thrill of the hunt or knowing that you still got it. I've done it all. Just treat them well and don't be dishonest about intentions.	/r/seduction	13/04/26 07:36 AM
0	If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose? Nurses are the best. I work in healthcare. Mostly women	/r/seduction	14/03/26 04:01 AM
1	What is your go to opener? I simply introduce myself and tell them to join me.	/r/seduction	11/03/26 08:39 PM
0	Anyone else thinks how being honest with women tends to backfire? There's no such thing as anything backfiring through honesty. No matter how much you like her or anyone at that if you're not being honest to yourself because you're wanting a desired result, trust me, you'll end up grinding your gears to a nub. Your respect isn't worth handing over just for you to end up like a lot of these other chumps when it ends telling anyone who will listen that you tried anything and gave up everything. They will call you every name in the book when you're solid and they…	/r/seduction	04/03/26 04:09 PM
1	minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did. Same as anyone else I imagine besides the one thing I have over everyone else.... I've never considered my race at all and if they do, it's none of my concern. Think about what you want, and go after it.	/r/seduction	21/01/26 08:42 AM
1	She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking? Bro in reality it doesn't matter, and I pray you're not sitting on your thumbs waiting. I just don't save their numbers. Let it go until it happens, or not! It's not a no, it's what she says until you find out otherwise.	/r/seduction	17/01/26 11:21 PM
4	How do I ask for fwb the right way? Must've misunderstood. That's definitely not something you tell them as you're getting the number. Facts	/r/seduction	09/01/26 07:06 PM
1	How do I ask for fwb the right way? Can, but won't. It's easy to say you're just not compatible but in reality as inconsiderate as it may be, you don't have to. When I'm ghosted it's loud and clear with the communicating and I don't never mind, not in the least.	/r/seduction	09/01/26 06:56 PM
1	How do I ask for fwb the right way? Sometimes I like to tell them right before we get down to business as a challenge. Once they're all the way turned on I say something along the lines of " I like you though I really don't want to confuse things " They'll just hush you and drop that neck 😂 Afterwards they'll mention it with saying "it's cool" or whatever. That rotation really frees you to home in on who's really with it without doing what many do and put all their eggs in one basket.	/r/seduction	09/01/26 06:54 PM
3	How do I ask for fwb the right way? Not every friendship is the same. I have plenty of FWB and yes they may want those things though I do not. We can have conversations every once in a while though dates or off the table until much much later on if at all. I always hold the expectations that they're going to get that they want whether it's with me or someone else. We all have different people for different things I've learned. You'll learn so much about their world by moving this way they will talk about their dates/ relationships…	/r/seduction	09/01/26 06:48 PM
2	How do I ask for fwb the right way? It's up to you. I have some that I still to this day only Link up in the backseat and then just chill until they have to go back to whatever it is that they need to go to. It's been over 7 months of this same routine if not a hotel. The best advice is to talk and escalate with women who are undeniably into you physically. I find this by how I flirt with them and by the way they reciprocate the energy. I don't deal with women who pushback and play pulling away games in this manner though there is…	/r/seduction	09/01/26 06:42 PM
1	you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashed Same way in LA spotting the tourists or people who rarely get to the city doing all the tourist activities.	/r/seduction	13/12/25 01:44 PM
2	you think when girls go on a trip they're getting smashed Find something better to think about because for sure they're not thinking about you while they're out there smashing (or not) on their girls trip. Go out, have fun, make friends, build a roster (if that's what you're into) anything but worry about what someone else besides you is doing.	/r/seduction	13/12/25 01:42 PM
5	Once you've kissed her once, do you have to check-in every time after as well? "come here" has never failed	/r/seduction	02/12/25 04:07 AM
2	Perfect amount of beers? But how are we supposed to know how many beers are enough to make you confident? This is something only you know for yourself.	/r/seduction	29/11/25 06:41 AM
2	Perfect amount of beers? Everything if you're using it as a vice	/r/seduction	29/11/25 06:37 AM
3	Perfect amount of beers? You're asking people the perfect amount of beers to put in your own body? Zero!	/r/seduction	29/11/25 04:54 AM
4	How can I date and have sex when I’m broke and living with my mom? Find women that like you and be honest about your situation. They'll take you out or take you in. Don't mope about it, own it. I feel I had more sex when I was flat bike and busted. Now I just have my own place to do it in (car, house, hotels) trust that women don't really care all that much despite the psyop on the internet. You are not your situation, present that fact!	/r/seduction	23/11/25 04:56 PM
0	35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start? Good grief, you are plum ate up son! I guess you got to hit rock bottom somehow.	/r/seduction	23/11/25 03:43 AM
2	If after a few dates she says she's dating other people, should you stop spending money on dates with her? People don't stop everything when they're dating, it's just that. When I'm dating the rest of whom I give my time to doesn't just halt. So you're spending money to get something in the end? Do you think that now that you set the standard of Mr spender and now choose not to because of your feelings that you're not her only date in the world is going to change things for the better? You need more practice. Men and women date! No one is sitting on their thumbs waiting to find another. If you want e…	/r/seduction	22/11/25 04:21 AM
0	Is this a good convo starter? Yes literally say anything if that's what it takes. It's repetition the more you do it the more you realize what's natural and what works. I say go out and make an ass out of yourself and own the fumbles and the cringe. Once the ball is rolling you won't sweat anything.	/r/seduction	09/11/25 03:22 PM
2	Is this a good convo starter? What are you sorry for? 😂 I'm not sorry to walk up to anyone. It makes you seem like you're asking for permission to live in her space. Then you shift your attention to other men completely disregarding the connection you want to make with her. It screams "Validate me!" Killing all the tension or any curiosity before it even starts Man. Bro it's as simple as telling her that you were about to leave but you'd regret not saying hi or something along the lines that's NOT a script or pickup line. It…	/r/seduction	09/11/25 03:19 PM
5	Dating/Game Rule Number 1: Never Get Into A Serious Relationship With A Woman Who Makes You Wait For Sex!!! A woman can only make you wait for sex with her and if she does, on some control shit. Dead that relationship promptly.	/r/seduction	09/11/25 05:14 AM
2	Does it feel like a loss when you’re dating a woman and she wants to break up with you and you never had sex with her? She has zero interest in you, physically... 1st or second meet is physical for me. Though I've already flirted and teased the idea one way or another and if she's the type to do this I hope you have your other hookups on deck. It's also up to you to communicate that you're okay with waiting as long as she understands that you're not exclusive. Never a loss.	/r/seduction	07/11/25 03:48 AM
10	Men who have multiple women without spending money or losing peace — what’s the logic behind it? Women want the same thing as us most of the times I have 2-3 at any given time this includes my main. What's always worked for me is honesty. It may be different for many though I genuinely want to get to know these women. Do I tell them that I'm in a relationship? Yes! I tell them that I'm really only looking for friendship or casual (if that even comes up) though I do make it a point to flirt and remind them of my attraction. I give them all the opportunity to choose if this is something they …	/r/seduction	05/11/25 09:55 PM
3	Girls take a day to respond. You shouldn't give one damn about what they're doing. That's a waste of time. Keep going until you get what you want. I don't care if a woman takes a day, month, or year. I'm not sitting on my thumb waiting for a reply I'm out doing me. Is she doing what you want when she's with you? That's what matters. Talk to other women, or not but don't be out here waiting desperately for a reply or what advice they're getting and from whom.	/r/seduction	05/11/25 09:31 PM
10	20M in college and I want to hookup with a milf/cougar any advice? Go to the fatty/cougar clubs or lounges. Hit up a nice hotel bar nearby, it's the easiest low effort lays.	/r/seduction	26/10/25 04:08 PM
0	Responding to "not sure if you're my type" "Only one way to find out, or not" I'd move on until she makes up her mind. With or without	/r/seduction	26/10/25 03:48 PM
0	Is it worth paying for Tinder? Yes, it saves so much time when you're not feeling like going out, before traveling to a new area or just at work swiping. Don't get me wrong, Nothing beats just going up to talk to women though unlimited swipes and the boost as so dope. Free works well though paid is better. I've had a good amount of links/hookups when I used it. Use it until you get a few on the line that knows what's up, you can't lose.	/r/seduction	23/10/25 01:47 PM
11	Someone with good texting game. How do you do that ? Thought I'd have to scroll further to see logic. Some of these guys want to play with their time trying to out text a girl. Put that phone down, set the meet, go home.	/r/seduction	23/10/25 12:03 AM
1	Someone with good texting game. How do you do that ? Text minimally, there's no way you'll get to know anyone this way. Text to set up meetup/dates. Put that phone down.	/r/seduction	23/10/25 12:01 AM
17	My Roster Still seeking for validation? What's enough for you?	/r/seduction	19/10/25 02:42 AM
1	What are your guys’ go to openers for when doing day game? Never failed me just to introduce myself	/r/seduction	15/10/25 02:02 AM
1	How to get a girl's attention over text? Super easy and simple. The way to get a girl's attention over text can be done in one simple fail proof way. Tell her where and when to meet you and why. There, the secrets out. It'll definitely get her attention that you're a man with a plan though attention is just that.	/r/seduction	21/02/25 07:30 AM
2	To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness? Just a past time. It doesn't necessarily make me happy but I enjoy doing it and the opportunity for variety. Finding a woman who chooses to be your "main" can be the real challenge though it's possible. I have a few chill dates planned in the next few months though if they fell flat I wouldn't care in the least. I'll get it either way and if not I have so many books to catch up on.	/r/seduction	20/02/25 06:42 PM
0	Have you ever been called out during day game Anyone that refers to themselves as a pickup artist sounds kind of punchable.	/r/seduction	29/01/25 03:25 PM
1	Have you ever been called out during day game Night or day is the same. This is kind of confusing what counts as being called out and why would you be called out for talking to someone? What the hell is day and night game?	/r/seduction	29/01/25 03:22 PM
3	Asked a girl out, this is her reply If you need help with this then what's going to happen if you actually get her out on a date and she says words?	/r/seduction	20/01/25 06:38 PM
-7	Greet with kiss if made out in club? 😂 no, you bow your head and shake her hand firmly and introduce her to an actual man.	/r/seduction	06/01/25 02:50 AM
0	Share you kissing routines Learn your own way. "Hey guys tell me how you kiss" Be an individual, own it. Teach the woman how you like to be kissed. That's all that matters. I can just imagine the scenario of you kissing a woman from some advice you got from another guy then her telling you "wow you kiss like reddit_user_fadoraTipper69" Get real Sir.	/r/seduction	23/12/24 05:49 AM
3	Is this why men are giving up on their life and resorting to hookers or even worse taking their own lives? Pathetic and I wouldn't call those who give up on their lives because of another person or thing Men	/r/seduction	23/12/24 05:44 AM
2	How do I seduce my barber? It's the answer he wanted	/r/seduction	19/12/24 11:29 AM
2	How do I seduce my barber? You put her so high above others when she's really the same and that's why you already lost. Go talk to her and tell her how you feel but don't forget to treat her special right off the bat. Tell her that she's different from the rest. For the special ones you MUST give it your A game. If she's hesitant and gives you push back, this is when you pursue even harder. Show her why you should have a place in her life, be patient, do whatever it takes to win her heart. Don't mention sex ever, make sur…	/r/seduction	19/12/24 08:33 AM
12	How do I seduce my barber? If you're this afraid of simply talking to her I'd say save her the trouble. I'd go even further to say she probably already knows. Say you "get" her and she's cutting another guy's hair and giving him the same phenomenal Customer service as she gave you or he made her smile or laugh harder. THEN had the balls to flirt with her on the spot (without the Internet), on a scale from your already insecure self to 10, how upset would you be 😂	/r/seduction	19/12/24 07:28 AM
42	Besides "clubs" or "bars" where are the most appropriate places to approach women? How would one go about it? Appropriate? In the free world, pretty much just step your feet outside of your home. See her, approach her, greet her, state your intentions and interests, set up the date. Rinse and repeat.	/r/seduction	19/12/24 07:14 AM
2	Why women don't answer back on tinder no matter if they have matched with you ? It's wild to me that guys think this is a "modern" woman when women have been swiping left since the beginning of time. This is just the same thing but on an app. It's simple she wanted attention, She likes something about you, She has other options she found someone who moved her. Why don't you move on just as easily as they do is the real question. Woman, I heard dog-walking most of you guys 😂	/r/seduction	17/12/24 04:28 PM
1	How is the dating world after 30? Don't get me wrong you can't be game goofy. I don't bank on a lot of the new age "everything maxing" I'm straight up with my intentions and have a plan. When I was beating around the bush or what they called indirect I wasn't getting as much. Make this game about you and you're Golden	/r/seduction	17/12/24 03:17 PM
1	How is the dating world after 30? Same as it's always been I'm just more experienced. Definitely more quantity using the apps. It's better every year honestly	/r/seduction	17/12/24 02:54 PM
1	"Confused About Starting a Conversation" How do you know that they like you because they stare at you when you creepily stare at them for months? How about introducing yourself to then like a normal person, it works every time. I swear some of these questions shouldn't even be in seduction. They should have a how to be a decent human being 101 sticky	/r/seduction	13/12/24 12:39 PM
4	How to distinguish real advices from fake ones? Anything that's external and has you follow what someone else is doing instead of finding your core values, standards and program/plan for your life. If it doesn't focus on who you are and instead the focus is what you do or your status and money or even putting on a funny hat or something. It's bullshit. There's nothing wrong with you, you just have to accept it and be 💯 confident about it and make the game about you.	/r/seduction	11/12/24 01:45 AM
0	Common advice is to spark emotions… examples? Have you ever tried being yourself? That works wonders for women, they notice when you're not being genuine and it sparks really good emotions when you're not like everyone else, when you're YOU. Oh too vague? Or not a formula or magic pill? Forgive me.	/r/seduction	11/12/24 01:23 AM
4	Is it weird to approach milfs in your mid 20s Milfs are at all ages and all women want a man. You approach them the same as you would anyone else. They have less time to mess around so the direct approach (as you should be with everyone) will be appreciated. Ask yourself, "am I weird?" If not, then that's your answer, if so then that's your answer. Sac up and own your decisions. It's your world if you choose to have it.	/r/seduction	09/12/24 03:07 AM
8	“Maybe” Anything but a yes is a no for me. Though I get plenty of women and don't accept certain things based on patterns and this is the biggest. Think of it in this way: would you say maybe to something you were interested in? I know what I want and I want a woman in my presence that knows what she wants.	/r/seduction	08/12/24 12:58 AM
3	How to stop getting attached and obsessed so quickly Love yourself. Though this answer is too simple for everyone here when I say it.	/r/seduction	07/12/24 03:24 AM
0	I'm really attracted to this man but I don't know how to start our conversation [Hi, anything interesting happen for you today? Hey let's go for some coffee. What are you doing later? If you'd like company let me know.] I understand all these leave you vulnerable for some kind of rejection if he's not man enough to see the signs or just doesn't like you. Either way, you're intentional and you find out the truth. If it doesn't work out, find a Man who can see the signs that a woman is into them and stick to that. I'd advise steering clear of guys who wants women to take the …	/r/seduction	05/12/24 05:42 PM
6	convince methat women want sex too Ohhh they want sex and id say they want it more than we do. They want it wrapped up in a nice bow and wrapping paper. Learn how to wrap, you can just give the gift like every other guy. I went to a girl's house last night for some gas money and she wanted sex so badly. She made me food and the money and after making out I told her I had to go. The frustration on her face was undeniable and she played it off like we don't have to have sex and that it's ok but it wasn't. I told her to call her mal…	/r/seduction	05/12/24 05:34 PM
3	What are some simple little things that I can practice to improve talking to women and approaching? Talk to everyone! Everywhere you go, introduce yourself to anyone and everyone, genuinely asking about their day.	/r/seduction	03/12/24 11:49 PM
1	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? Run your life like you're CEO or a King Especially in relationships.	/r/seduction	03/12/24 11:46 PM
3	When a woman says you write beautiful poetry A poet that can't think of something to say. The irony 😆 You can express it as you are.... "Take the opportunity to get to know me and if you play your cards right maybe you can be a page in my book." "Meet me at [ location] at [time] for coffee.*	/r/seduction	02/12/24 01:59 AM
1	Do I text her? No, don't text her, you're not ready to be a man. The writing is on the wall yet you hesitate to do what you want to do.	/r/seduction	30/11/24 05:48 PM
3	If a girl wants a relationship but you want to have her as a fwb, how and most importantly when do you tell her ? Tell her what you want, directly. If she's not for it you let her know to hit you up when she changes her mind. Don't change or make compromises. If you want it stand on it. You win either way.	/r/seduction	30/11/24 05:45 PM
3	What is being sassy as male and is it a turn off or a turn on for females? Don't argue with women.	/r/seduction	30/11/24 05:40 PM
1	Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here? Whatever you were posting on in your twenties are gone. A lot of guys suffer from this where instead of building their actual personality they rely on their body features or style. One lot of that stuff wears off or becomes trivial the older you get. You could also be domesticated from your 4-year relationship that you seem to hold in high regard. It's possible that you're sending out the same vibes that you thought. Made your 4 year relationship So great. Trial and error my friend. Just keep it…	/r/seduction	24/11/24 09:09 AM
1	How long is too long before asking someone out? Hi, not into wasting time. If I like someone and I'm interested in them and I see them on 1st site, I approach them and give them the opportunity to come have coffee with me either immediately if it's lunch time or on another day where we're both off or available. There's really no point in waiting If you know she's just hooking up with people or if she's with someone still go and ask her considering you don't really know.	/r/seduction	24/11/24 09:01 AM
1	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? Yeah it sounds about right. You put your value and self-worth and a woman's looks which is not really a good look. I'll have to disagree when you say that you want to take a step back and focus on getting yourself confidence and self-esteem up. You can still get all those things in order and still date women at the same time. I'd even say that you should still date considering that's that's where you think your value lies cuz once you get used to it, you'll realize that there's nothing to it. Wh…	/r/seduction	23/11/24 07:32 AM
7	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? Go out and meet a lot of women. Hooking up is easy and getting a GF is even easier. There's someone out there that wants what you want and some willing to compromise if they like you enough. I can't really be the best person to ask considering I have an old lady of 14 years. Though the hookups I have outside of our relationship are plenty consistent and easy to achieve and maintain. Just take the effort that you're already putting in and put in a little more and if you think that's too much then…	/r/seduction	23/11/24 02:56 AM
1	Fellas, for real, get off the apps. Bizarre irl example Do i think she's going to filter through all the messages to find mine? The answer is that I don't really care. The women who are interested in me will, and the matches I'm not really worried about because even if they match with me, that doesn't mean that you're going to meet up with me and I have hundreds of matches at any given time depending on the app. I'm not worried about women thinking they can do better. That's what they're supposed to do the apps just greater the averages that's all th…	/r/seduction	14/11/24 02:02 AM
5	Fellas, for real, get off the apps. Bizarre irl example Are you envious of the endless supply of meat that she's not interested in? Women do not care about an endless supply of dick based on supply and demand. That's why personality wins with them. They can get dicks anywhere but can they get a hell of a guy? Why not be that guy? You're not competing with dick. A matter of fact you're not competing with anyone but yourself. There have been quite a few women I've hooked up with and afterwards they share their tender or bumble and the pathetic amount o…	/r/seduction	12/11/24 01:54 AM
1	Fellas, for real, get off the apps. Bizarre irl example The number of likes and super likes and attention a woman gets whether it's online or real. Life has nothing to do with me. Even understanding this logic or statistic means nothing. I still do incredibly well in real life and on tinder. Regardless of her likes or attention or social media, do you realize how many of the same copy paste cookie cutter messages they get? It's almost like they're meeting the same person, time and time again. That's none of your concern. That's why you're an individu…	/r/seduction	12/11/24 01:44 AM
1	People who get laid,how? Talk to people, flirt as you do, exchange contacts then exchange orgasms. Oh but you don't think you deserve it or love yourself so it probably won't work out or you'll attract the worst kinds.	/r/seduction	07/11/24 11:41 PM
1	Are premium dating app subscriptions worth it? YES YES YES Unlimited swipes Super likes The only app I'd say never use if you're just hooking up is coffee meets bagel Tinder BLK Bumble (eh) Facebook dating I have hundreds of matches backlogged Even without paying it's not bad. The pay wall definitely makes it more productive.	/r/seduction	05/11/24 03:21 PM
1	What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom? The quickest way when I was in my early 20s and it was as soon as I met this girl whose number I found on my phone after I let my brother use it. Other than that it's typically the first meet because that's how I set things up. I don't go on dates at all with women unless they're actually my girlfriend. Women want sex just as quickly as us men.	/r/seduction	05/11/24 03:12 PM
1	How do you feel about a girl calling you “adorable”? You can start by taking great comfort in the fact that you are not your past. That you can live in the present moment which sounds like it's easier said than done. But I promise you it's the easiest thing. Think about yourself and who you are now. if someone comes up to you and calls you ugly or worthless think about how it makes you feel. now On the other hand, think about if someone came up to you and said you're perfect and that You're the most handsome person they've ever seen. How does that…	/r/seduction	01/11/24 12:32 AM
3	How do you feel about a girl calling you “adorable”? Self, your inner work. Not making your life about what people say to you, self esteem. I could go on.	/r/seduction	23/10/24 12:44 AM
-1	How do you feel about a girl calling you “adorable”? It doesn't matter what you're called. I've been called ugly and I've been called beautiful and everything in between and those same women I slept with the same night. Women just say things. When you put meaning to their surface level words it'll never make sense so it's no use in trying to. Flip it back on her in a flirtatious way and see what happens.	/r/seduction	22/10/24 08:10 PM
23	How do you feel about a girl calling you “adorable”? The same way I feel if someone calls me ugly, handsome or anything else. I don't care. If her simple words sway you from stating your intentions and leading her in your desired direction then you've got big work to do. Is she doing what you want her to do? Yes? Then who cares Is she not? Then who cares. It's imperative that you go about dating like you would just waking up and doing your daily tasks. It should be impeccably YOU. If she's not about it then she's not for you bud. Trust me that you…	/r/seduction	22/10/24 08:03 PM
1	What is your game centered on? Myself, my standards my plan. It's never about anyone else. Overall just truth. Speak my intentions and carry on.	/r/seduction	18/10/24 04:39 PM
2	When did women gain so much leverage? They didn't. Most of you guys just accept that illusion. The moment you go against your standards. The moment y'all make it about sex The moment you fear going up to simply say hello. The moment you use a date to get a return. The moment you think that you're not good enough based on your external beliefs. It's not the women's fault. It's weak mined men. They've accepted that they're the product of what's out here and that's men who instantly give them a pedestal on sight. There's a reason why t…	/r/seduction	14/10/24 12:51 AM
3	My Text Game Asking her what she's looking for lol. Instead of leading the situation, telling her what you want and making a plan to meet	/r/seduction	01/10/24 10:27 PM
1	If you go to bars solo, should you lie about why you're there alone? Is there something wrong with going places solo?	/r/seduction	19/09/24 03:06 PM
8	How likely are girls to cheat? As yourself;How likely are you to cheat? Now imagine a woman asking this question about you but not really knowing the truth. There's your answer..... You'll never really know .. It's a trivial thing to worry about	/r/seduction	09/09/24 07:38 PM
2	Understanding Christian girls? Women are all biologically designed to want men regardless of what their religion teaches them. If you're already getting neck you're good. You can always have other women for your needs and at 20 it's beyond me why you wouldn't. Who knows she could already be doing it, just not for you. You're not a stat so don't obsess over them. Just have fun man it seems like you're already doing well.	/r/seduction	07/09/24 12:32 AM
3	I approach 10 people. Now what? The honor? To a stranger? 🤔	/r/seduction	03/09/24 07:29 AM
1	What should I do if a guy hits on my GF at the gym? What should you do about all the guys that hit on her that you don't know about when she's not with you?	/r/seduction	02/09/24 11:49 PM
1	How Do I Dance With/Potentially Pick Up A Woman At A Concert Without Seeming Creepy? Too late if you already think doing something as normal as talking to women is creepy. Just leave them alone and enjoy the show. And please don't stare.	/r/seduction	02/09/24 05:08 AM
2	Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out?? WTF is an average looking man? I'll never understand this. You're not average to someone attracted to you. worrying about the looks that you were born with is pointless. Getting laid is simple. Introduce yourself, see if she receives your flirting and your escalation and the rest is history. Be direct about intentions. This works for the so-called above and below average guys.	/r/seduction	01/09/24 11:08 PM
0	What are your favorite openers Introducing yourself is the best one and it's genuine..	/r/seduction	01/09/24 11:02 PM
1	This might sound harsh but you guys seriously need to get off the internet and go outside more. It’s the only way you’ll get better. They'll never learn. Only excuses. There is no oversimplifying or other answers but this. Go out have fun, make your life about you . Women will always be there. They'll fight this and up until the moment they do go out and then it all clicks. The only way to get better at something or get over fears is exposure. Simple. no one can live your life but you, so figure out your own way. Not listening to others styles. You'll come off unnatural and will continue to play yourselves	/r/seduction	31/08/24 05:10 PM
0	I lost the will for the game, what's wrong with me? The game ain't for everyone. It's ok just accept it.	/r/seduction	28/08/24 01:23 AM
2	How to get laid with minimal conversation Talk, flirt, escalate, lay. Honestly it's really easy if you know when a woman is attracted. I don't have a problem on the first day lay though I don't seek it considering I have more women that are down. Build up a roster and you won't have this issue.	/r/seduction	27/08/24 07:19 AM
1	How can I ask a girl out from work? Invite her someplace off campus off the clock as just friendly. as you're off campus then state your intentions. Don't do dms especially if you have the chance to do it in person. Offer to meet at her typical coffee spot before shift one morning. This has never failed me. Also find out I'm lazy for hollering at women at work with the thousands of options out here I didn't stick pen in company ink. If I do it's one at any given time and if there's a second I do inform them that they're not the on…	/r/seduction	26/08/24 10:39 PM
1	Am I too old for this? 47 y/o trying to game girls aged 30-37 At this age your mindset shouldn't be this unfortunate. The older you get the less you give a damn about opinions of others especially when it comes to what you want or your interests. You should have so much wisdom there to seek out whatever it is or whomever. As a man almost 40s every woman is obtainable from 18-50s . Let the women ask the am "I too old" questions to themselves. This is the prime age for us as men. Rejection is a part of the game.. the best part if you ask me. I get to still b…	/r/seduction	22/08/24 09:34 PM
2	Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you? There's no world where I'd want a woman to approach me. They do indirectly regardless but putting themselves in your general direction. I enjoy the natural order of things. As a man I like to lead any situation with a woman.	/r/seduction	20/08/24 08:43 AM
1	Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience) Everyone gets ghosted... Not everyone was made to like you or be attracted to you. Women all like men for very different reasons.	/r/seduction	12/08/24 12:32 AM
2	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? Depends on your definition or "works" It will always work for me for it gets straight to the point and is a fast filter on who's interested right away. I'd say that it works very well. This should be the only way and I'm surprised that it's not. Take away the "super" direct is simply that.	/r/seduction	11/08/24 11:53 AM
2	Girl takes forever to respond Not something someone who gets women worries about. Put your phone away and have some fun.	/r/seduction	11/08/24 02:50 AM
1	Is having sex on the first date something significant/important? My aim is between the first and second meet. No dates unless it's someone I've been physical with besides the typical meet and greet coffee or drink usually for women I've met on an app. It's a great gauge for me. Most women I meet with I'm always going to flirt and escalate sooner rather than later. Less wasted time.	/r/seduction	10/08/24 04:07 AM
2	What would be a good response when someone says that you are good looking? It's never failed. " I appreciate that, you have a really great taste in men" Even though there is no such thing as a failure in this game	/r/seduction	04/08/24 01:07 AM
3	Are girls built this way? I don't even mind the Ghosting. There's so many women out here that any of the disinterested ones are invisible to me. Just keep at it and get you two or Three that are just down for you and easy to deal with. If it feels like pulling teeth or any amount of unsure then she's not for you bro. All in the game. Also get over the whole "special girl" thing there's no such thing just focus on being a special guy.	/r/seduction	01/08/24 05:41 PM
1	At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you. Duh that's how attraction works. Sometimes you can get a girl to slow down and smell the roses. But for the most part, attraction is very simple.	/r/seduction	01/08/24 02:32 AM
1	Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere? Are you texting them all day, are you getting them off the app immediately, talking on the phone or Facetime? Don't get too discouraged about an app. Try going out instead it's 200% easier, although I have fun with the apps as well.	/r/seduction	30/07/24 04:13 AM
5	I get tons of attention from women but when i open my mouth i see all the attraction goes to the window. Because they're not liars about who they are and actually have charisma, you're judgmental about attraction and women can smell that from across the room. Psychopaths, liars, and murderers still get women because they have game, you have zero. Looks are only the surface and only matter as far as what happens when you start bumping your gums	/r/seduction	28/07/24 11:29 PM
2	Best group number of guys to go with? Whatever I feel I'm in the mood for whether it's just to go for music or a drink but for the most part I like to approach small groups of people. Might catch a laugh from a joke, this doesn't only include women, I approach Everybody. have fun, Be part of the party and sometimes I'll find a little spot to sit and drink alone (virgin because I don't drink). And scroll my phone. either way I'm doing exactly what I want and I typically get the same results every time whether I'm looking for a date o…	/r/seduction	28/07/24 11:23 PM
1	Best group number of guys to go with? Zero just myself gets the best results. Most guys can't hang on their own or get upset if you leave with a girl or stay when they're ready to go. I had a small group who actually had game but we all pretty much do our own thing. Groups are overrated.	/r/seduction	28/07/24 11:10 PM
1	Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal? Perfectly normal. And you should be thankful you're not strung along once they find out that you're not their type. Part of the game. Never not be yourself because of this fact. A lot of time they spin the block and sometimes not	/r/seduction	22/07/24 08:07 PM
1	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work Perfect you finally figured out that you're the problem. You have zero idea who will like you and who won't Just as you like different things trust me when I say that women are the same. But keep up that mentality you'll go so far bud.	/r/seduction	18/07/24 09:25 PM
1	I can get numbers but then no reply A week of texting and over Snapchat? Taking their number? None of these situations did you lead at all. I'd suggest giving them your number instead of taking theirs, I haven't taken a number on an approach since HS, give her directions with your number (day and time to call) I use this because if she does this it shows she can be led and she likely is interested if she does, and if not , oh well. Only communicate to set up a date/meet. Save all the personal get-to-know-yous for one on one, trust…	/r/seduction	16/07/24 02:19 PM
-1	You need to spend money to get laid! These are all good things in improving yourself. Just remember you never have to spend money on a woman to get sex. As someone In an open relationship the other girls I never spent a dime on hell even my girl I hooked up with through work for about a year before we ever thought of any relationship. Everything listed by op is self improvement and even half of those I'd say you don't necessarily need to get laid. Talking to women is free and attraction isn't a choice.	/r/seduction	15/07/24 09:54 PM
1	Just met a champion He's already glazed. I don't mind the down votes it just confirms what I said to be true. Many champion tips for this guy	/r/seduction	15/07/24 04:47 AM
1	Just met a champion Sure man. Out of the millions of things you can say to a woman and choosing that is just wild to me. I imagine why this subreddit exists in the first place. Especially if you already have her laughing and flirting. I guess I'm just not secure in myself to reach this far.	/r/seduction	14/07/24 11:42 PM
-2	Just met a champion Keep telling women you're gay to get em bro you're right. That's the same thing as hiding a gift.	/r/seduction	14/07/24 10:00 PM
4	Just met a champion Nobody's going to call you a liar but you would be a liar and I don't need to lie to women just to get them to laugh or be playful. Especially calling myself gay. That's doing way too much approaching women. Talking to women and flirting with women is a very simple process.	/r/seduction	14/07/24 09:44 PM
7	Just met a champion It's called being a liar. Anyone that has to lie big or small and especially something this desperate is just goofy but hey they're defense at the end of the day is "At least I hit tho" These guys love crumbs	/r/seduction	14/07/24 07:00 PM
-1	Just met a champion You seem attracted to this champion of yours. It's easy to spot out in this community the guys who check out or worry about another guys "Success" Never in my life have I looked at another man and propped his looks and how he gets women, he's not you and even if he gave you pointers you'd still be you and be obsessed over your own looks then actual game. Ask him out on a date already, tell em he's your champion and ask him for his biggest tip.	/r/seduction	14/07/24 06:58 PM
-3	Just met a champion You seem attracted to this champion of yours. It's easy to spot out in this community the guys who check out or worry about another guys "Success" Never in my life have I looked at another man and propped his looks and how he gets women, he's not you and even if he gave you pointers you'd still be you and be obsessed over your own looks then actual game. Ask him out on a date already, tell em he's your champion and ask him for his biggest tip.	/r/seduction	14/07/24 06:58 PM
0	Girl im talking to say she wants me to be more vulnerable…. Go ahead and let hear lead you and find out	/r/seduction	10/07/24 04:41 AM
1	Do you mention your job on dating apps? No, they typically don't care or don't ask until around the second link. The less I put the better	/r/seduction	08/07/24 02:32 AM
3	Why good looking men STEAL YOUR girls For real! No wonder they can't get what they want with women, too busy overthinking and making everything about women. I've never in my life approached women with this mindset. Handsome man game 🤣	/r/seduction	06/07/24 03:44 PM
3	First date convo Listen! Always bring the conversation back to her. Women love to express themselves so be the guy who allows them to talk about their favorite subject	/r/seduction	06/07/24 08:04 AM
1	Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind? Yes many do "I hope you don't think I'm going to sleep with you the first night" "I don't do this or that" You don't change her mind, she's already thinking about it and brought it up. I notice they do and say things to disqualify most losers. When I hear those words or see certain behavior I simply don't bring up sex. I remain who she wanted in the first place. You can still flirt but you don't mention sex because it's already on her mind. Everyone of them that's ever said these things to me I'…	/r/seduction	06/07/24 08:02 AM
1	On a good and a bad month, how many lays you get at apps? ~ 3 a month more if I didn't stop with the first few. I also don't do texting as I lead the conversation immediately off the app to phone or IG for a video chat or a meet.	/r/seduction	05/07/24 04:46 AM
1	Should I get back together w my ex? Didn't even read this.... No!	/r/seduction	04/07/24 02:30 AM
0	How often do your dating app matches actually lead anywhere? Over the span of 5 years with ~3 to 4 apps up at a given time Out of Hundreds of matches I'll say about 30 majority being one and done (rebounds and women on breaks or cheating) and the rest on an on and off roster. Even a few friends were made. It's much easier and quicker to meet women in person.	/r/seduction	04/07/24 02:17 AM
1	How to make a girl invest or attract through text This is how and it's very simple.... Stop texting and set up the meet... her following your lead IS the investment. That's the formula. No magic pill or manipulation.	/r/seduction	02/07/24 05:05 PM
30	Anytime I try to “be myself” around girls and let my mind and words flow I get told that I’m being “weird” and “scaring the hoes but then when I try to act normal and “non weird” I get told I’m boring. I feel like I can never win. I’m thinking it’s a looks issue. You're not going to get every woman. You can either be a liar and not be yourself and get women or be 100% yourself and get women. The question is which person do you want to be, consistently ? You'll eventually get the woman that you want. Take who you are and improve that guy, don't fake the funk, women know when you're not being yourself. Eventually who you are comes out. Stay one guy, stay you.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 08:04 PM
2	Do you think someone could have woman having no job no house no car (being poor and not independent) I've had a woman at every stage of life and income. Even more so when I was broke. If you don't make it a thing, they won't and here's a newsflash: there are plenty of women who like you for you. Even broke and homeless I saw myself just as Worthy of it all as I do with money.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 05:51 PM
-4	Losing a high interest girl due to playing it cool/inaction Ignoring and acting uninterested is no game at all that is called being disingenuous and a liar. She wasn't high interest or this wouldn't have happened.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:32 PM
3	She liked my message when I asked her out? Worry about the other girls you have asked out. Oh wait you haven't, because if you did you wouldn't be worried about the one tap of the screen from one uninterested woman. Brother keep applying yourself over and over and over again until you get the desired results. Not every woman will like you, not every woman will use you for attention but every woman WILL do what they want and if that want isn't you then like I said keep applying. The last thing you want is to be stuck on the one.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 05:48 PM
0	I hate this shit.. LMAO this is the game and yours was weak. Why did you play the waiting game if you were interested? Then you plan food? You went in reverse from "all over you" I'm assuming making out , flirting and the likes. To Having long conversations Then to asking her if she's free? Bruh That first night should've been you trying to get them panties of even the day of the conversation should've been sexual and flirty as well then you go all boyfriend on her which she clearly wasn't on that vibe. Charge it …	/r/seduction	15/06/24 02:17 AM
0	Do you think women need emotional conflict? Yes but not negative emotional conflict.	/r/seduction	15/06/24 01:40 AM
20	Bars and nightclubs are a huge waste of time. Thoughts? To you. You forgot to add that part. I've had success at bars and clubs because when I go it's for me and to have a great time. I go out to hang with friends and even solo but my goal is to have a good time and be social, not to hookup or anything but to simply listen to loud music and be social. With that said when I see women I flirt, say hello but there's no explanation to get laid or make out,yet it happens. I don't drink nor have I ever bought a drink for anyone. You're doing fine man like …	/r/seduction	15/06/24 01:30 AM
1	Day long Response time Bro get more girls so you're not all invested in a trivial reply.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 03:26 AM
3	How does a women want to be seduced? Look. A woman wants a Man!!! Someone who is confident assertive and honest about who they are unapologetically. Take that man and make him seductive. Here's the tricky part that confuses you guys without game. There's no universal seduction. You can seduce a woman and she declines and in the next 5 minutes another guy with an identical strategy gets the opposite result than you. Be social with everyone for starters. With women practice, complimenting, flirting and so on. It's literally practice,…	/r/seduction	14/06/24 01:48 AM
2	Need help with a response They're right, you don't need to know that. In what world do you remind a woman that you're interested in, of another guy? Especially if it may bring up negative emotions from her or even worse positive emotions sending her right back mentally to that guy... Not you though. It's a really weak line. Be honest, state your interest and intentions.. the results will be just as hit and miss but here's the kicker; you're being yourself, more unique than any line. I've been on and still am on many dati…	/r/seduction	13/06/24 08:58 AM
1	how do i create sexual tension over the phone? Easily through voice messages and video messages.	/r/seduction	13/06/24 01:17 AM
6	How to stop being perceived as husband material? Jesus Christ... The best way to not be misunderstood is to not be indirect about your intentions. Let these women know EXACTLY what it is that you want from them off jump. It's called the truth, either they rock with you or they don't and when they don't, accept it and be willing to walk away. If you want to hook up, tell them If you want to build up to a bf/gf tell them Start strong and direct If these girls say you see my husband material automatically, they're not sexually into you, but you c…	/r/seduction	07/06/24 01:28 AM
0	How good is your game? 🤣 what's this have to do with you? My game is impeccable by the way. All I need is looks, money and status but I have none. Please help. Thanks for allowing me to vent my success I hope it helps	/r/seduction	04/06/24 02:05 AM
1	Rejected at party Congratulations keep it up.	/r/seduction	03/06/24 04:18 AM
1	Why will women respond positively to flirty/teasing messages and the soft close for the date but then ghost you as soon as you ask for their availability (“When are you free?” Or “Whats ur schedule like this week?”) No wonder you guys have the experience you do with this mindset. I've got plenty of so-called "ugly" friends that can outdo me on a good day but they don't cry about rejection at all. A woman doesn't have to like you for flirting with her. Her feelings will outweigh anything surface level. You also have no idea what a random woman finds attractive. I've been rejected countless times and they end up hooking up with a friend instead but it doesn't make me mad or sad. Don't base your ability to app…	/r/seduction	01/06/24 08:47 PM
1	Why is cold approach so addictive? Hunting is a figure of speech. And yes prey would be the correct figure of speech in this example. I never use cold approach I just call it approaching, but I understand what it means when you say it even though there's nothing cold about it	/r/seduction	01/06/24 08:35 PM
1	Why will women respond positively to flirty/teasing messages and the soft close for the date but then ghost you as soon as you ask for their availability (“When are you free?” Or “Whats ur schedule like this week?”) Try to think of something to say for 10 minutes? It's not difficult at all to flirt. Women love it and respond to it well. I get women so caring if they're interested is not on my radar, I'm a flirt plain and simple. Your mindset should be them worrying if you're interested, I mean you are the man and the leader of courting/relationships. It's all fun unless you have zero game, sweating being inauthentic trying to figure out what to say and how to please	/r/seduction	01/06/24 05:08 PM
1	Why will women respond positively to flirty/teasing messages and the soft close for the date but then ghost you as soon as you ask for their availability (“When are you free?” Or “Whats ur schedule like this week?”) She didn't like you, she liked the attention. I flirt with most women because it's fun not because I want to sleep with them all. Women are the same way. The only thing with women is that they know there's a lot of weak men that blur the lines with just flirting or talking and don't want to hurt their egos and feelings.	/r/seduction	01/06/24 04:15 PM
2	Why is cold approach so addictive? On the surface level yes and most women contrary to popular belief are not. If they were, these silly seduction posts wouldn't exist. The countless " I'm a good looking guy but I can't get girls" proves looks are just that. She can be physically attracted to you yet not touch you with a mile long pole if you're a square with zero game.	/r/seduction	01/06/24 04:36 AM
2	Why is cold approach so addictive? The things that matter the least when it comes to hooking up with women	/r/seduction	01/06/24 04:08 AM
3	Why is cold approach so addictive? Because you finally decided to not lose in life. It's exciting because it's new to you. It never fully goes away. When I was in my teens its just as exciting as it is in your mind 30s It's what you're supposed to do, us Men hunt. Be grateful you're not a pussy anymore most men today will never know how easy it is just to talk to a girl but hey not everyone gets to win.	/r/seduction	01/06/24 04:07 AM
3	Do cute (6-8) girls act more stuck up than hot (9-10) girls? Why does this matter to you how they act. The only thing you should focus on is yourself and how you allow a woman or anyone to treat you. These so-called stuck up women aren't so with someone she likes. Remember you're probably stuck up to someone. Don't take it personally or better yet, don't care.	/r/seduction	01/06/24 03:51 AM
8	How to pickup women that have a type Every woman has a type. They also have everything in between until their type comes along. You guys do realize that just because she has a type that doesn't mean she's the guys type right? We all have types, but In the meantime we hook up with those that will just do	/r/seduction	31/05/24 06:58 AM
2	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? Make sure you're both on the same page please. Everything must be intentional and the communication must be clear. There are A LOT of males out here who see an invitation inside the house as an implication to sex. This will show you who he is if denied access to your body. Has he talked about sexual interest to you? Have you guys touched or kissed (just read that you did), better yet did he lead to any? Be cautious if he's the type to not be honest about what he wants from you. Set your boundari…	/r/seduction	30/05/24 11:46 PM
1	What to do in this situation? 2 year long distance How do you know you like her and you've never had sex. You've invested all these feelings and time and don't have sexual compatibility. That usually makes or breaks a relationship. How do you friendzone someone you've never met, you're basically pen pals. Who's idea was this "friendzone"? Bro go outside and find a local girl, you'll literally get the same friendzone that you enjoy here. You may even kiss her.	/r/seduction	28/05/24 11:38 AM
-1	I don't like taking the lead. How do I change that? Lead with your wallet and buy whores, they don't care if you're not man enough.	/r/seduction	28/05/24 10:53 AM
3	How to have that "he is probably incredible in bed" vibe? Why do you want to be a liar? Be yourself and someone who's into you will already think this way.	/r/seduction	28/05/24 10:52 AM
8	Girls keep bringing up past relationships or hook ups they had or will have , not sure what prompts this to happen but I hate it Once a woman starts talking about hookups I know she's down for whatever. I typically don't judge and follow up with my recent escapades. It's just sex at the end of the day. It's good to start out this way depending on what you're looking for this is simply an ice breaker for many women as they have zero tact and lack interesting things to talk about. If it becomes excessive I create a boundary and change the hookup conversation towards us hooking up. Don't be hurt about it if it's not what you…	/r/seduction	26/05/24 12:52 PM
-2	What can you do about loss of attraction after fight w girl Nothing, you leave. Loss of attraction is an obvious sign. Attraction is a choice. Don't try to make it one	/r/seduction	24/05/24 01:40 AM
0	Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist? My point is many women don't invest too much into dating until it's communicated that you want exclusively. Not all but most. Catching her at the end of a dating phase gets you the results you want unless she sees you as one hell of a guy even then it's typical for some to spend the block just to make sure. Her values are based on her emotions at any given time. I do wish you luck my guy. I'd like to ask you a question though. What's your definition of dating, if you don't mind or have the time.	/r/seduction	23/05/24 01:12 AM
0	Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist? Whether I'm cool with it or not. She's doing it, or not. You'll never know. Just as she'll never know what you're doing. I'm not obsessed with other men's dicks though just what the woman's doing for me on a constant basis. When she presents the "what are we?" Then you act accordingly	/r/seduction	23/05/24 12:58 AM
2	Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist? This isn't accurate. A woman doesn't have to be with many men to do this and if she is so what. The woman of your dreams has thick meat in her mouth as we speak. Even when you're dating it's still perfectly ok for her to be until she's ready on her own. This is the way it's been forever.	/r/seduction	23/05/24 12:48 AM
7	Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist? This is very true. Guys like to act like it's women getting attached but it's really men	/r/seduction	23/05/24 12:43 AM
9	Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist? They do exist just not for liars. Every woman I've ever been with as a young adult and beyond (serious or not) began as a hookup/fwb The key is to let them know your intentions IMMEDIATELY. if a woman's not asking for a relationship she doesn't want one so lead the situation through the example of what you're looking for. Don't lie, don't bend, be absolute. You must be willing to walk away if it's not EXACTLY what you want. A woman will consider you on the merits of respect alone which is highly…	/r/seduction	23/05/24 12:43 AM
1	Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 Approaches LMAO approaching women isn't this complicated. This is nuts	/r/seduction	22/05/24 03:03 AM
3	How attractive men handle rejection You're not attractive to anyone let alone yourself if you're asking yourself this question. Don't care! Rejection has a negative connotation for a lot of weak guys who don't understand that it has nothing to do with you it's about the person rejecting. You go your whole life being confident then as soon as a girl says no or that you're not good enough it seems to erase all of your beliefs about who you are but instead you choose to believe what she thinks of you. Asking questions like "what's wr…	/r/seduction	21/05/24 11:28 PM
7	Second date ideas What do you want from this woman? Girlfriend, hookup? This route is definitely gf route/ "energy" if you will. Dial it back man. Ask yourself 'can I keep this up forever? Do I even like going out all that much? There is only so much you can learn about a person with food stuffed in their face. Is taking women out correct? Yes! But it's so vital to know of she likes you as you are without the dates and gifts. There are so many free things to do. Museum, parks, Beaches. Trust me they love it if yo…	/r/seduction	21/05/24 04:43 AM
1	Second date ideas How long have you been dating? Have you guys hooked up or kissed yet?	/r/seduction	21/05/24 03:05 AM
7	Second date ideas Does she even like you? Suggest something free or low investment to find out. Or you'll forever be trying to outshine each date after the next. I understand many guys think they have to go on a costly date but I haven't been on a date in almost 2 decades with a woman that I barely know. If she's feeling you all she wants is your time, THEN you start including her to events or things you enjoy. Pump your breaks my friend, take it slow and see if it's really about you or the dates.	/r/seduction	21/05/24 02:29 AM
1	Really been feeling like I'm never good enough as a 6'4" non-white dude in Canada. If that's how you feel. That's where you'll remain.	/r/seduction	20/05/24 03:27 PM
1	How do I attract white women Nothing Alpha about what I said. A Man knows what women all want and that's, an attractive Man. By attractive I don't mean looks but overall. I've only ever heard of this type of talk about different approaches for different races with pill communities of whatever spheres. Tell me what's "porn brain" or "alpha" about my original comment. Go ahead and tell him to change who he is to get women of a different race and lead him in the wrong direction.	/r/seduction	20/05/24 03:20 PM
2	How do I attract white women Same as you attract women. Be a Man get your attraction up Erase ______ race is different from another.	/r/seduction	20/05/24 02:19 PM
2	Date cancelled because she was a bit nervous. Should I next her? Her fear > your influence and attraction You can reassure her that you were aware of her being uncomfortable. Though you're probably wasting your time. Hit up the other women in your queue, this should never be something you care about if you're actually out here dating.	/r/seduction	19/05/24 06:28 PM
1	How should I approach a girl in the gym Like you would anywhere else. They don't change who they are because of where they are. Get them on the front end or better yet the back end as they're leaving. The endorphins bring the best in everyone	/r/seduction	19/05/24 01:53 AM
4	Best app for hookups How is it destructive to your mental health personally?	/r/seduction	19/05/24 01:49 AM
10	Best app for hookups Tender and if you want the slopps Facebook dating. Remember they're just tools and you're not going to get nearly the same results as you would if you're going outside to get women. I get matches every day but you really have to go about it correctly to get results.	/r/seduction	19/05/24 01:48 AM
3	A girl I like invited me to her birthday. How I should behave? You behave as a person invited to a party. Don't you dare take this as a gesture that she's into you. I'd suggest the opposite. I bet you haven't even stated your intentions about how you're attracted to her. If I'm wrong forgive my assumption. Don't be surprised if there's other "yous" at the party all afraid to say no to an invention. Be prepared that this could be a play to make the guy that she's actually into jealous. If I were you I'd go to network, be friendly and if you really want the g…	/r/seduction	18/05/24 01:20 AM
15	Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details below LMAO Don't care! It happens, I've done it as well. It's not your responsibility on how she handles it. If she leaves, no harm no foul. After all she's not your girl, you're just dating. Even in marriage men will approach your women with or without you there even if your name was tattooed on her face.	/r/seduction	18/05/24 01:14 AM
2	So this girl I grew up with hit me up the other day... Not the best decision to make. It won't ruin your life but it can definitely ruin your marriage. Talk to your wife about this	/r/seduction	17/05/24 03:21 PM
-1	What's the most effective approach for initiating conversations with girls on Bumble, Hinge, or Instagram's explore page through DMs? Just as you would with a woman I real life. Introduce yourself, state your intentions and a place to meet. My first message after her response to my intro is immediately getting off the app and on to something more personal such as messenger, ig, Whatsapp or phone number. Don't be a pen pal and get to know each other over text. Set the date and get to know her in person.. Very simple	/r/seduction	16/05/24 12:44 AM
1	got a girls snap, what to do next 😂 talk to her	/r/seduction	15/05/24 05:15 AM
0	Using alcohol to start cold approaching Loser juice	/r/seduction	14/05/24 09:21 PM
0	What to say at very spontaneous encounters? Same as you would in a non spontaneous encounter...	/r/seduction	14/05/24 01:05 AM
2	Ghosted after first date - double text advice Move on lover boy.Jesus Christ	/r/seduction	13/05/24 01:08 AM
1	Women are cold to me but warm to other guys Not every girl is going to like you	/r/seduction	12/05/24 09:47 AM
2	How to differentiate friendliness from IOI. Flirting and escalation you'll know really fast. This is why being direct saves time.	/r/seduction	12/05/24 08:25 AM
2	Do you wait for signs to approach? Never wait to do what you want	/r/seduction	11/05/24 05:45 PM
3	Why she kissed me but refused to give me number? I'm rooting for you brother. Go after what you want.... She did	/r/seduction	11/05/24 11:41 AM
2	Why she kissed me but refused to give me number? Simple truth	/r/seduction	11/05/24 04:42 AM
5	Why she kissed me but refused to give me number? Wait until you realize a woman doesn't have to like you to have sex with you let alone kiss you or smile at you. You read the signs or better yet you saw something that you wanted and didn't go after it. She thought you were hot, BUT THAT'S IT. That's all there is to you. She didn't want you getting away without a kiss. And when she did, she probably read that you were surprised about it (non confident/lacking experience as this post proves) She controlled the entire situation, the stare, the ap…	/r/seduction	11/05/24 04:40 AM
11	How to respond when a girl suggests dinner Tell her that sounds great and for her to hit you up after she eats. I just recently had a woman (as many will try) to get me to buy her a pedicure. Out of nowhere they say I need to get my nails done or something suggestive. Just tell them "what's stopping you" Women with low interest will try you vs ones who are really feeling you don't ask anything of you but time with you I have a simple philosophy bro. "Anything but a yes is a no".. This includes going against or suggesting anything but wha…	/r/seduction	08/05/24 03:56 AM
-1	How did game change from 2005 to 2020? Women are everywhere. Talk to people man. I don't believe in cold approach. These terms didn't exist for me. Growing up it was talking to women talking to people spitting game flirting just being natural as possible. Women can spot a liar from a mile away	/r/seduction	07/05/24 10:11 PM
1	How did game change from 2005 to 2020? Simply be honest with your intentions with women and you'll win	/r/seduction	07/05/24 09:57 PM
0	How did game change from 2005 to 2020? You mean Hooking up? By letting them know that's all that I want and all I can provide. You guys do know sex shows high attraction right? I've seen so many guys go on over 1,2, even 5 dates and still not get anything. Sex comes quickly THEN if that sexual chemistry is right you introduce her to little dates here and there. What could we possibly learn about each other with a mouthful of food or at a theater. A lot of guys play this shit backwards.	/r/seduction	07/05/24 09:56 PM
0	Mentally stuck on ever girl I go on a date with Date more women. I can't think of a better way but to have an abundance.	/r/seduction	07/05/24 09:51 PM
4	Why i believe that daygame will always the best form of dating for the majority of men to meet new women In my lifetime of hooking up I really for the life of my can't understand how people have managed to make talking to women a day vs night or cold vs whatever. None of it matters. Approach women and they are the same as they are any time of day. You guys have to stop complicating attraction. I've worked in medicine for over a decade and the only time day or night has ever come into account with women is with my senior patients with sundowners syndrome.	/r/seduction	07/05/24 09:46 PM
0	How did game change from 2005 to 2020? It hasn't changed much really. A bit easier than it was because of social media you barely have to leave but I've advise against just doing that solely. Even then it was easy. I've still yet to take anyone on a date unless they've become LTR. The only reason I say it's easier is because I'm non monogamous and I didn't think it would sell as easily back then. I also never tried. Never tried and "pickup" bs either just being myself insecurities and all.	/r/seduction	07/05/24 09:15 PM
0	When will you be done with pickup/active dating? No one ever stops dating unless they're physically incapable...	/r/seduction	06/05/24 11:44 PM
-1	How many guys here actually approach? There's no other way to meet women or hookup than to approach them.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 11:40 PM
3	Did I just miss a great opportunity? Move on. Not everyone is for you.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 03:03 PM
5	Best airport pickup line Introduce yourself, begin the conversation....... Give me a break. Airport pickup line, smh.	/r/seduction	06/05/24 01:51 PM
1	First time dating in the US, but a second date never happens. What am I doing wrong? Get your numbers up for starters. You'll learn with experience.	/r/seduction	04/05/24 12:43 PM
8	Kissed a girl and now crickets You're a guy? What a complete fail. First of all a woman's past doesn't matter. Don't be one of these weak guys that live in the fantasy that want a woman to make the first move. She told you countless times the way women do that she wants you yet you're too judgemental and weak to just go for what you want. Be forward, have a little push she'll tell you if she's not down but in this case you yielded at every green light. Women desire men who aren't afraid of them but not only showed her that yo…	/r/seduction	01/05/24 01:16 AM
1	examples you do that show you're not a "nice guy" Look it's an archetype really. If you want less confusion look at it this way You have your boundaries You have your standards But you're also a gentleman and overall kind to everyone. BUT You have those boundaries and standards that you don't bend nor break for anyone. If you see using the word "no" as rude or mean you're probably the nice guy If you put others before yourself because you think it's the right selfless thing to do, you're the nice guy. If you believe in compromising any of your …	/r/seduction	30/04/24 04:05 AM
1	How to handle a super shy women Same as you would any women. Here's the thing you goofs fail to realize. As a man you don't change or take your lead from a woman. You be the same guy that you are if you want consistency in your results. Every. Single. Woman. You. Encounter. Be. The. Same. Man. Every. Time. Stop wearing masks. They must be able to follow your lead and if they see you switching up the respect and attraction slowly fades.	/r/seduction	29/04/24 11:59 PM
3	Has anyone ever had any luck or success with cold approaching? You mean going up to introduce yourself? Or approaching women? Yes 99% of the time this is how you do it.	/r/seduction	28/04/24 11:42 PM
1	Approaching a group of girls With this you don't need any pick up bs. Literally be yourself and be confident. They don't want lines or to be manipulated but they do want you to have some damn game. I got you fam.	/r/seduction	28/04/24 11:37 PM
14	Approaching a group of girls Man the moment you stop basing your actions around what women do the better you'll be. If you want something go get it! Approach, introduce yourself to all of them remember the names, ask who they're here with and if they come often, carry on the conversation with that good ol active listening. After a moment of chatting. Say something in the lines of "It was a pleasure meeting you all" or "I know you guys are here having fun so I'll let you get back to it" and then throw in a "if you don't don'…	/r/seduction	28/04/24 11:07 AM
0	Are guys doing street interviews for pick up now? Cheating the system, how when it's fake? Who's out here really doing pickup don't they know it's a scam?	/r/seduction	28/04/24 02:17 AM
6	Are guys doing street interviews for pick up now? Social media isn't real life. These women have to agree to be recorded and be put online. Remember that. People are so very easily fooled.	/r/seduction	28/04/24 02:15 AM
1	How many dates you should wait before sleeping with a guy? It's crazy how getting to know you can really be a buzz kill to the passion, although it makes sense because that's basically what happens in a good amount of marriages. What works for me is to consistently come from a place of non judgment with ALL women, ideas, habits, kinks or whatever. It opens things up rather quickly. The majority of men are afraid to be upfront about it in fear of rejection or really believe in the whole metoo thing lol Women woman want it as bad if not more than us Men.	/r/seduction	27/04/24 01:01 PM
-7	How to handle disrespect guised under humour without being seen as butthurt Take disrespect and add agreement in a sarcastic manner. Example. Hater: "Nigga you're ugly" You: "Yea I'm the ugliest mf you'll ever know. I'm so ugly my own mom tried to give me away, don't you think I know this? Thanks for bringing up bad memories" Learn to laugh at yourself Walk away Shit like that. It simply works	/r/seduction	27/04/24 10:57 AM
2	Everything starts well and they just ghost me Keep playing. It's literally a numbers game and pay attention. you'll begin to see patterns on what women respond to. Worrying about someone who ghosted you is really pointless as they just didn't like you like that and that's ok. You don't like women who don't like you, remember that and keep your numbers up. You're much better than many losers who dare not even try at all. Also focus on yours and your goals for life. Women are just a byproduct to that.	/r/seduction	27/04/24 08:35 AM
62	Tinder girl says it's too soon to meet up in person and she's too shy to meet new people You being stuck on one girl that's not interested tells us that you don't really get women often. Always, a woman whose into you will find a way A woman who is not into you will give you reasons why not to see you. Talk to and date more girls bro. It should never be a thing to be stuck like this.	/r/seduction	27/04/24 03:42 AM
2	How many dates you should wait before sleeping with a guy? Real ones don't scare away... Also if you're dealing with a Man, some might call a player and it gets a bad rap. You can ask him "what are we" but he's already showing you with action. We all know not to be like square guys who will text you all day. He's doing the right thing by making you feel like a woman as you deserve, not over texting. Only communicating to set up meets. (Leading) Stay consistent with it and keep it positive and be yourself but save the drama. This is how Men move you have…	/r/seduction	26/04/24 04:05 AM
4	How many dates you should wait before sleeping with a guy? Right away. Get the sex out of the way then you'll know if he's really feeling you after. I think people put sex on an unnecessarily high pedestal. I understand self control but if the attraction is there and a mf can spit that game in your ear and mind correctly you better get on it why the passion is hot. All the best relationships I've had with longevity started as hook-ups. The women who I've gotten to know and spilled all the beans to early ended up holding back (friend/marriage vibes), sen…	/r/seduction	26/04/24 03:52 AM
2	Should I block her if she is clearly online and is just ignoring my messages? For real. Real vaginal.	/r/seduction	22/04/24 05:33 PM
0	Should I block her if she is clearly online and is just ignoring my messages? Block for what? Sounds weak and needy if you ask me. Just go on about your life and other women. If you had more than just the one you wouldn't be worried about, waiting up, monitoring if she is online. She's probably taking a break from you, getting clapped up by a real one or just sleeping. "Felt amazing" Pains you to see someone ignore me 😭" Get a grip. Blocking her will make a guy like you obsess even more.	/r/seduction	22/04/24 05:32 PM
1	What’s your Body count? Not sure what blind would be body count numbers will do for you. The number doesn't matter anyway.	/r/seduction	22/04/24 04:53 PM
2	How to get better at conversation? Best practice tips? The best advice I can offer is to be an active listener. LET WOMEN TALK. They'll open up the more they do and they'll feel as if they've known you for years and all you did was listen for 10 minutes Keep it positive, friendly and most importantly NON JUDGEMENTAL. take whatever they talk about and ask about the subject to get her to go deeper then find something in her yap that you relate to and express it in a meaningful way. Watch body language when she gets excited about a topic and really "ac…	/r/seduction	21/04/24 06:04 AM
1	What does having strong "frame" mean? Something Internet pill dudes say. I wouldn't worry about it and stay as far from that mess as possible. Be yourself and stand on it. Don't get caught up in incel lingo	/r/seduction	18/04/24 03:26 PM
1	Is it creepy to go to a club for the sole purpose of hooking up? Yes if you're creepy. Typically anyone who asks themselves this question probably is.	/r/seduction	16/04/24 04:06 AM
2	What's a cool gift I can get for my new gf's bd? Why would you get anything for your girl's baby daddy. Fuck that guy you didn't own him anything	/r/seduction	14/04/24 03:52 AM
3	Instagram is the new DATING APP It's been a dating app. Yes setting it up creatively can make you stand out with the highlights, and bio with links. Between tender which I have great success on and bumble, IG takes the cake. I only even have one photo. The rest of my stunts are in the highlight reel. Welcome to the fold	/r/seduction	06/04/24 07:03 AM
1	Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it? Who feels accomplished and proud to have sex. If that's where you put your self worth then you've got bigger problems. Get into a trade, find a hobby, improve your body and mind. Stop putting looks off women above their character. A woman with just a little bit of game will smell your insecurities and shallowness a mile away and you'll be a victim in the game real fast. Figure out who you are young man.	/r/seduction	18/03/24 02:24 AM
1	How to trust a woman Trust yourself. This is a very " I go through phones and demand locations" question. Nothing lasts forever bro. Begin with being grateful for the opportunities you get to have with people. Remember all things end. Learn from every relationship. Grow from every relationship. No one owes you the truth, be the truth yourself.	/r/seduction	11/03/24 11:32 AM
2	I finally stopped pedestalizing models after learning the truth. Change your mindset to a woman not even really being hot or beautiful unless shes in your life doing what you like. I hardly look at women with "like" or" beauty" until after I see that they respond to me positively. Take the pressure off yourself. I personally never liked models, that's my take.	/r/seduction	15/02/24 06:24 PM
8	Can an average man have chances with a higher-status woman? Absolutely you do.they're all women at the end of the day and crave the same thing. But I'll guarantee that if you look at yourself as average and think that just because she has a little more money for a higher education that she's better than you then go ahead and just forfeit the thought right then and there.	/r/seduction	07/02/24 10:54 PM
1	How do I get a girl friend to introduce me to other girls? Get a girl, friend. good looks are a plus. Go out together everywhere where plenty of other women will be. She doesn't need to introduce, you being with her IS the introduction. Have positive energy with her, smiling laughing. Women's curiosity in proximity to you will go off. There's nothing worse than sending someone to speak for you man or woman. Let your presence do all the work.	/r/seduction	04/02/24 03:18 AM
1	I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M) You don't need money at all. Every woman I've had sex with whether it's been tender or met in a stater bros I didn't spend a dime unless you count the gas that I always was going to get and the hotel rooms that I already had. Flirt, state intentions from the beginning. Plan and execute said plan. The last one came straight to a room I had and ask me if I wanted food or drinks. Have a plan and an experience. When it comes to hooking up women could give two shits about your wallet. If you're spend…	/r/seduction	12/09/23 09:42 AM
5	How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women? The answer that many of these guys in this space hate the most... Be yourself, don't make it about her. Tell her what you want to do with her, straight forward none of this indirect small talk. Having a plan for these situations helps. These so called "ugly" men don't think like you, they love themselves and know how to be attractive to women which is being the best version of self. These guys that you judge and deem unattractive actually love themselves and would never look at a woman's looks a…	/r/seduction	15/08/23 06:52 AM
2	I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around women I'll assume you're anxious considering you're the first to mention anxiety. From my perspective It's only a real problem if you allow it to be. You're anxious because you have a fear of an unfavorable outcome. You can practice not giving a shit about the outcome just like you were conditioned to worry about a complete stranger's perception/acceptance of you. It's all in you. You have to want to do the work on yourself. Recognition of why you're anxious then working towards breaking that part of …	/r/seduction	27/06/23 03:48 AM
2	I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around women Depression is medical. Confidence is Gained by practice. Realizing or developing self worth takes time and effort. That's why a lot of people look for a magic pill for it when it's in them to build it. For me it was like a light switch when I realized fuck what others think, I'm the shit. I get that it's not like that for a majority of people.	/r/seduction	26/06/23 06:53 PM
2	I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around women Anxiety, overthinking, low self esteem,	/r/seduction	25/06/23 01:44 AM
2	I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around women Tldr. Only you can be the best at being you. So embrace who you are. Are you a nerd? Be the best nerd. Can you climb trees? Be the best tree climber lol In your head. Most cocky guys you people tend to hate are like this. Fake or not it gets results that you don't	/r/seduction	12/06/23 01:12 AM
3	I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around women Look at it like this, I also used to struggle with it as well. What are you great at? What do you enjoy doing? Take those things and think about if someone was to ask you to teach them about it. I bet you can imagine that you'd not only do it but you'd also be excited to do so. Put yourself in that mindset when you're dealing with people even if it has nothing to do with your "talent" I used to go to Venus and events that I knew I'd be around people with common interests trust that it helps so m…	/r/seduction	12/06/23 01:08 AM
52	I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around women Absolutely. Everyone hates that answer. Confidence is the real key	/r/seduction	10/06/23 07:23 AM
285	I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around women It all boils down to self esteem.	/r/seduction	10/06/23 06:52 AM
1	Approaching is normal and so many men are doing it Stop worrying about what women think. As it's typically in the moment. You never know the version you're going to get so go approach and have fun. It's about you not them.	/r/seduction	31/05/23 08:15 PM
5	Facetime is your friend This is gold. This method and voice messages are how you really stand out. I've always used it if it was an option and they'll always complement how you're not just a pen pal like others. You also accelerate the meet oftentimes the same day or next.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 06:08 AM
4	How do I get over the fear of talking to girls in college? Talk to a new girl every day or week. It will become easier. Rejection is like armor for us men we learn to not be phased by it. You only hate it bc right off the jump your attraction to her is almost like your brain telling you shes better or higher than you. Try to get rid of this mindset. You don't know her as a person and she doesn't know you. Have a standard in your mind and talk to her and if that standard doesn't meet then pull back. This comes with time but you will get there. You'll lea…	/r/seduction	16/02/22 02:44 AM
5	A VERY HAPPY FATHER'S DAY same age for me as well.	/r/MGTOW	20/06/21 02:38 PM
1	Bwahahahahahaha! She Must've Really Cut Him Off! Black girl magic?	/r/MGTOW	07/05/20 09:30 AM
2	Bwahahahahahaha! She Must've Really Cut Him Off! You would think that being royalty they'd teach their sons and daughters about this type of thing. Although they are basically mommas boys. This shit is sad	/r/MGTOW	07/05/20 09:29 AM
7	Finishing touch. Prepare for Keys	/r/MGTOW	30/04/20 11:13 AM
9	Yep, you read that right 😂 where do you think the government gets the money.	/r/MGTOW	27/02/20 08:45 PM
1	Feminists/women getting owned by one of their own. "A fellow linguist? Oh capital!"	/r/MGTOW	24/07/19 03:33 AM
1	James Bond is Ruined forever What's wrong with bond the way he is?	/r/MGTOW	16/07/19 10:10 PM
1	Fiancé is in a bridal group on Facebook and came across this one Man she's so close to that day where she'll be the envy of people who have mutual feeling of hate towards another. Of course she's freaking out because if it doesn't happen she would have wasted the "good years" Then all her friends will console her while getting that ultra beta lineup setup for her. She'll be mairred within the next year.	/r/MGTOW	13/07/19 12:58 AM
35	Just a reminder that a woman will justify herself out of any form of accountability. AWALT Why is that boy crying? He's free.	/r/MGTOW	13/07/19 12:23 AM
2	Because that’s what women do Ohhh Jody boy	/r/MGTOW	13/07/19 12:19 AM
6	I always wondered what kind of party the moms from Maury attended to get in the predicament they found themselves in. Answered that question. Thanks Reddit, you'e the best. She's not yours ____________	/r/MGTOW	13/07/19 12:16 AM
9	I always wondered what kind of party the moms from Maury attended to get in the predicament they found themselves in. Answered that question. Thanks Reddit, you'e the best. Shutout to the wartime photographers out there.	/r/MGTOW	13/07/19 12:14 AM
2	No women, Dream bike. This is more fun than any woman. It’s freedom still in a relationship co-parenting won't sugarcoat it, its still a relationship, but one thing i never compromised on was my love for 2 wheels and time with my friends and family. bitches at work nagg more than anyone asking the age old question "your girlfriend lets you ride that" or "what about your kids" love to just reply "wait aren't you single?" never compromise for anyone fellas. if anything shows your kids (if you have them) that you should pursue whatever you like especially in a re…	/r/MGTOW	07/07/19 08:28 PM
1	MGTOW movies or MGTOW tv series What an underrated movie I love it.	/r/MGTOW	29/06/19 05:10 PM
6	When they ask me how do you live without a girlfriend Men let me tell you about the whole "you'll die alone" shamer. I worked with seniors for the past 8 years. What I've learned about death is that no matter what or who's with you or next to you, you die alone no one goes with you and at this time you're either so doped up up on comfort meds or unconscious from you body getting ready. I'm not saying that to scare you but in the end you're ready. This goes for women too. Most of the couples I've seen can't stand to see their loved ones I pain and w…	/r/MGTOW	14/06/19 05:43 PM