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I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and believe in the good intentions you had when writing your post. I saw that it was removed and that is unfortunate, especially because it had a a lot of upvotes. To each their own and that's the beauty of the internet, you can share your vision and for sure there will be people who agree with you. I just think it's really weird that you've been in the game since way back when Style and Mystery were a thing and yet you really believe looks matter a…
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:54 PM
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This is probably the worst high effort post I've seen in this subreddit. If you truly practiced game for a long time like you say to the point of mastering some social skills you would know that looks definitely aren't 95% of game. It sure helps, but not that much. It's sad because a bunch if new guys really believe the "don't be ugly" thing and your long text which reads like someone who knows what they're talking about will just make them even more frustrated about seduction. This really isn't…
/r/seduction04/03/21 11:44 AM
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Your best bet is a situation where you both end your work outs at the same time and cross paths leaving. A simple "good morning!" Is enough to check if she's open enough for you to approach.
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:02 PM
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Read the most upvoted posts in this sub and go out to approach women. That's it. There's tons and tons of content in here and on Youtube. There's no simple and short answer to your question. Do your homework.
/r/seduction12/06/19 05:04 PM
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The idea is to improve yourself until everything you learned becomes natural to you. It's not about shaming anyone.
/r/seduction04/06/19 08:32 PM
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Oh yeah, I agree with you. Tinder helped me improve my text game, but it was never my main seduction tool. It's something I used when I was at home with nothing else to do. My point is that this is a very low effort post that doesn't add any real value to newer people in the seduction world, especially because "looking good" is far from being enough to be sucessful in Tinder and even less in live interactions with people.
/r/seduction27/01/19 05:54 PM
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I'm in no way denying that looks can make a difference, my point is that coming to a subreddit dedicated to helping people improve themselves in the seduction skills and making a statement about how you should be attractive or give up is completely trash. Imagine someone coming here for the first time and the first post they read is this? It's fucking stupid. Seduction involves WAY more than just looking good.
/r/seduction27/01/19 05:49 PM
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It's sad to see the amount of people who come to this subreddit to improve their seduction skills and are met with these types of posts making them truly believe that unless they're good looking physically they don't have a chance. Reduces by a lot the chance of them getting better in any other areas of seduction. This sub truly is a mess.
/r/seduction27/01/19 01:42 PM
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Have you tried asking at /r/sex? I feel like you'll have better advice about this there.
/r/seduction16/08/18 06:31 PM
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Get out of your comfort zone and interact with people. It's even easier when you're alone because you have the excuse of being alone and wanting to meet new people.
/r/seduction23/07/18 07:54 PM
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I am 26 too and we're definitely not past the whole women/sex thing. Honestly last year and this year are being the best in my life in this aspect. It's never late to improve yourself! I see you talking about not being attractive and such, there are many things you can do to improve yourself in various areas, but first of all you need to change that mindset you have right now.
/r/seduction11/06/18 04:05 PM
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You sound like you're lost. Go read more content in this subreddit and I'm sure you'll figure out what's wrong.
/r/seduction01/06/18 01:28 PM
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Definitely no. If you want to fuck you totally have to put that in your mindset, internalize that shit and work towards fucking her. If your mindset if that of "I'm just hanging out with a cute girl" chances are you'll externalize that and fuck things up.
/r/seduction01/06/18 01:26 PM
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We're definitely not old! I see guys at the gym who are probably 35-40 years old and have amazing bodies! It's a matter of creating a good routine and sticking to it. Go to the gym constantly and eat reasonably good and you'll see results!
/r/seduction27/04/18 09:02 PM
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My story of getting in shape wasn't all perfect. I started working out when I was 17 years old, but I didn't really like it so I had a lot of ups and downs until I was 22. When I was 22 I started going more frequently to the gym, but had an injury in both shoulders. That sucked and slowed my progress a lot, but in the end it was good because it made me realize how important form is at the gym and I started reading and watching a lot of videos about form, exercises, routines, biomechanics and phy…
/r/seduction27/04/18 08:31 PM
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I personally have always been an extremely skiiny guy and it bothered me a lot while growing up. I started working out, gained weight and got to a point where everyone I know is impressed with my body evolution (which boosts my confidence), people who I don't know can be sure that I'm healthy and work out just by looking at me and it ended up becoming a hobby to me, so it's one more thing I can confidently talk about with people. Of course you can work out with the sole intention of attracting w…
/r/seduction27/04/18 05:42 PM
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You say you struggle with a lot of social things so that will naturally reflect in your body language. The more you work your social skills the more confident you will become about yourself and you will naturally have a better body language. But there are common body language tips that are always good to remember such as: Keep your shoulders back and a straight posture. Working out can help a lot with this Avoid fidgeting Try to make slower movements Keep your head and eyes straight Avoid crossi…
/r/seduction27/04/18 05:14 PM
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Be good at things. Talk about things in a way that looks like you know what you're talking about. When you definitely don't have anything to add, admit it. Body language. The way you look at people. You don't ever need to talk and brag about yourself to let others know you're a good/skilled/confident person. You show them that.
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:26 PM
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I agree with the whole analysis from /u/recyclablebanthas and I'd just like to add that maybe you just didn't really like this girl and (maybe) the others you've met before her. You got to know her, kissed her and had sex with her because it all happened. You're getting into seduction, she's a good looking girl, you're a man, making out with people and having sex with them is something that everyone wants, but that's it. The way you described everything it seems like you were never really into t…
/r/seduction19/04/18 04:31 PM
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Lol that's one of the best bots I've seen
/r/seduction17/04/18 03:26 PM
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The thing is that there's no correct answer as to how you should approach a girl because there are many variables involved. Appearence, body language, personal tastes, mood, personality and even the place can all make a difference when you approach a girl. Each one of us have to find the type of approach that matches our style and personality but it's impossible to have 100% success. OP's suggestion is great if it fits you.
/r/seduction17/04/18 03:21 PM
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I haven't used it since last year, but I was pretty successful so I'll share the knowledge I got over the years I spent with it. BIO What is written in your bio doesn't really matter. I'd say barely 10% of the girls actually care about what is written there and might use it to start/continue a conversation with you. Just don't write anything extremely creepy, don't write about your life, your work, what you study... at most, write something funny or a quote from a tv show/movie/game that people …
/r/seduction02/04/18 09:43 PM
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First of all, don't think about being rejected as something demoralizing. You don't have to be happy about it, but it's something that simply happens and you need to accept it. Learn to not care about rejection. Second, if it's literally happening every time then there's probably something you can improve about yourself or your approach to help you sparkle the interest girls have in you. I can't pinpoint any specifics to you but there's plenty of content in this subreddit and all over the intern…
/r/seduction31/07/17 03:52 PM
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Perfect, it simply means the girl is not that interested in you. Move on and talk to other girls.
/r/seduction31/07/17 03:34 PM
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I also don't know how to fix a car. What OP said doesn't mean you need to do something for her exactly. You simply should do stuff like having a hobby or practicing a sport. I love photography but I do it simply as a hobby and I have some photos on my instagram/facebook and usually when women see it they are impressed. I love practicing sports and trying different sports and I have different photos of me practicing different sports on my instagram/facebook which is also good when women look at m…
/r/seduction03/01/17 12:26 PM
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Saying that looks matter sounds like having a beautiful face is what matters. Of course it helps, but not as much to women. I'd say that your attitudes towards yourself matter. "Looking good" for women is generally different than the "looking good" for men. Men tend to care more about a girl with a beautiful face and body while women care more about a guy that dresses well and present himself as someone confident. Everything you said you've been doing to look better also passes the message that …
/r/seduction03/01/17 12:18 PM
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In that same line of thought of "How to Win Friends and Influence People" I'll recommend "Introducing NLP" by Joseph O'Connor & John Seymour.
/r/seduction14/11/16 12:56 PM
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The thing is, the "seduction world" got really popular in recent years thanks to TV shows and even Youtube and many guys have watched videos and read about a few things but only a handful of them actually try to practice anything. I can say this for sure based on experiences with my own friends. When I learned about PUA and everything I slowly introduced it to my 5 close friends. One of them actually learned a lot of things along with me and have improved his pickup skills a lot. He always thank…
/r/seduction21/01/16 09:08 PM
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Yes, the "three places" technique is exactly what you said. It doesn't need to be necessarily three places, it can be two, four or more places. The idea is to change the enviroment of the meeting to keep it always interesting/fresh. It works specially well if you take her to places with a completely different vibe. For example, take her to a museum (calm and nice place), then take her to watch a concert/dance/watch a movie (loud and lots of energy/emotions) and lastly take her to eat somewhere (…
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:55 PM
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Great post! "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." - Maya Angelou This saying applies to any person and also to dating girls. It doesn't matter if you're a super cool guy, if you don't make something memorable/interesting, if you don't make the girl feel something, she probably won't care about you.
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:42 PM
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Your success rate on Tinder isn't really a Tinder fault. It's your fault. If you think you're not getting that many matches it's mainly because your photos suck and might also be because what you wrote on your profile suck. If you are getting matches but aren't getting anything from the girls it's probably because your texting sucks. You mentioned "i got 1/20 match on every swipe and mostly with 5s and 6s and this was very depressing". Well, why are you even swipping right to 5s and 6s if you fi…
/r/seduction27/12/15 06:31 PM
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Hahaha, I agree, this post isn't helpful in any way. He could at least have given more insight about how he approached her and what he told her. Feels more like a /r/offmychest post than anything else.
/r/seduction06/12/15 04:18 PM
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The majority of PUAs suggests that you shouldn't show much interest or express your feelings towards a girl you want. The things is that a lot of people in this subreddit praises Mark Manson and he is one of the few who prefers the "be honest" strategy so you see that mentioned a lot around here.
/r/seduction06/12/15 04:04 PM
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You don't need money to be a fun guy. If you have a fun personality, that's enough to make many women happy and interested in you.
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:33 AM
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Thanks for sharing this. It's great to read a nice story right when I wake up! Keep up the good work!
/r/seduction28/03/15 04:16 PM
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If you're able to, show her that you are attracted to her in some way and that you have interest. Doesn't have to be direct, you can do it with little jokes here and there, she will be smart enough to pick that up. See what draws your attention to her (hair, the way she's dressing, her nails, her make up, earring, rings...) and compliment her. Women love when a guy pays attention to all the hard work they had to look good. If you don't know what to talk about, talk about things that you really l…
/r/seduction25/03/15 09:45 PM
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Never heard of that book before and decided to look it up because of your comment. Seems like an amazing book with some really great quotes, interesting story and nice life lessons. I'll buy it. Thanks.
/r/seduction14/01/15 10:42 PM
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Yes, she is. But she even became cold with me for a few days because she had just ended a relationship and didn't want to get into anything serious soon and since I showed too much interest too early she got kind of scared that we would end up in a relationship. The important thing is that I know the mistakes I made and hopefully won't do it again. I still talk to her every now and then just to show her that I'm still around. But I already moved on and have been talking and going out with other …
/r/seduction05/01/15 12:14 AM
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Great post. The hard part is remembering and following all these steps when you are really into a girl. I recently lost a girl because I got completely blinded by my feelings for her and did stupid things. She still likes me and she even talked about us being together in the future, but I know we could already be together if I had done the right things.
/r/seduction04/01/15 09:02 PM
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The thing is that when we have to talk with someone we really like and feel a connection we want it to be perfect. We don't want to make mistakes and because of that we end up not being ourselves and actually making mistakes. There's no real advice for it. Just try to relax really. Try as much as you can to be yourself. Don't try to impress her, she needs to be impressed and interested in you because of who you are, otherwise she's not the right girl to be with you.
/r/seduction29/12/14 02:37 PM
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Confidence comes from a lot of things. Body language, how you dress, your decisions, the way you talk and use words and even your actions. Go to a gym. If you don't like to go to the gym, try doing bodyweight exercises. If you don't like it, try to at least find some sport you enjoy and practice it. Pay attention to your posture. Keep eye contact with people when you are talking. Look people in the eyes. Keep your head up when walking, don't keep looking to the ground. Wish people a good day, ev…
/r/seduction29/12/14 02:33 PM
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Yeah, it's a good idea to get some inspiration from /r/malefashionadvice, dressing well can really make a difference. You don't need to peacock too much, unless you really want to. Simple things like bracelets, a good looking pendant and maybe a ring are enough. For body language there are so many things you can do, but there are simple things like keeping your back straight, push your shoulders back, keep your head up and always look forward, keep your hands out of your pockets, try not to cros…
/r/seduction29/12/14 02:17 PM
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In loud nightclubs like you described it's all about body language and eye contact. Try to look like a confident guy and dress well. Even though you didn't get any of the girls consider it a victory that you at least went out ans tried to approach them in some way! You'll eventually get better at it!
/r/seduction28/12/14 04:53 AM
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Lol, same happened to me about 3 weeks ago. The worst part is that after that the girl came to me saying she was sorry for not answering my texts, that she really likes me and still considers dating me in the future. It felt like saying "hey, you're my second option, ok?". Overall she's a great girl, but fuck that
/r/seduction28/12/14 04:47 AM
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It really depends. I don't think you should completely stop worrying about text game. I use text game a lot and I'm really successful. Yes, talking in person is more effective, but words can be really powerful even when they're only written.
/r/seduction26/12/14 02:42 PM
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Interesting, thanks!
/r/seduction12/12/14 02:43 PM
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Nice quote. Would you happen to know who said it?
/r/seduction12/12/14 01:46 PM
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"Girls are like busses, there's another one every twenty minutes or so." LOL, that made my day!
/r/seduction09/11/14 11:07 AM
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Great post! You sound like you are a lot like me. I'm also a gamer and I also like to have my time alone, to do my own things. Also, being quiet like you said reminds me a lot about the main character of the Drive movie. The guy barely says anything but he still is a total badass and gets the pretty girl from the movie.
/r/seduction09/11/14 11:05 AM
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"Introducing NLP Neuro-Linguistic Programming" by Joseph O'Connor and John Seymour. A huge part of the game/seduction comes from psychology. NLP is something that can really help you to communicate better with people and can also be applied to seduce girls.
/r/seduction21/10/14 09:58 PM
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You need to keep reading about it AND also go out to practice what you read. This way you will get to know what methods feel better to you. There isn't the best method or the best PUA, each person will feel more comfortable with a different method because your personality also plays a role on how you approach girls. So read everything you can and see what kind of game and what PUAs pleases you. For example, overall I prefer the game methods of guys like Cajun and Gambler. But I read about all th…
/r/seduction18/08/14 12:11 PM
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The anxieties you have are normal in the beginning. But you need to keep going out to practice. After some time you will have done it so many times that you will get used to it and will at least have a lower anxiety. To approach you might want to use the 3 seconds rule. If you see a girl that you are interested in, don't take more than 3 seconds to approach her. This works really well. About the escalation anxiety you could try to learn a few routines to help your escalation. I don't have any li…
/r/seduction06/07/14 02:10 AM
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It's really not that easy. But really, think about it. You only have this life to live. We won't be young forever. So enjoy it now the way you want. Do whatever you want and forget about what other people will think about it. It's your life, your happiness. Reading about how to not give a fuck won't help you. You need to go out and do things without giving a fuck. Go out and do crazy things. Go walking on the street and saying "Hi!" to everyone you see. Or ask everyone what time is it. Tell them…
/r/seduction06/07/14 01:59 AM
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Okay, I like what you want to say, but you said it in a bad way. Saying that being a PUA has nothing to do with picking up women is wrong. It has a lot to do with picking up women BUT it's not only that. All the PUA knowledge is based around psychology and sociology, so a lot of things we learn about PUA will have an effect in other areas of your life. If you take it seriously it will improve your social and professional life in every aspect. Personally, after I started reading about PUA and tra…
/r/seduction06/07/14 01:49 AM
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You won't become good at seduction/pick up by reading only one book. And you're not wrong to disagree with what the book says. Each person has their own style. If you really get into pick up and start reading a lot you'll see that during the years the most famous pick up artists started as friends but after sometimes each created their own styles and techiniques that they felt better for each of them. I'd tell you to finish this book, because there might be a lot of good information in it, but l…
/r/seduction02/07/14 08:13 PM
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I'm new to this subreddit and it feels like most of the people in here are new to the seduction game and have the wrong mindset.
/r/seduction02/07/14 08:08 PM
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