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Reading helps, no doubt about that but I don't think reading biographies about how great women can be, is going to help here. It's not a question of whether women can be great or not. He feels inadequacy in his own being and what he actually needs is to feel some reassurance that he's not as bad as he thinks he is and that the things he read about women online is not always how they behave when it comes to dating irl. Showing him ways in which he can improve himself and become a less inadequate …
/r/ExRedPill22/10/25 04:55 AM
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for women it’s definitely not about looks I kinda agree but wouldn't go as far as saying "definitely". Something that is surprisingly not talked about a lot on any dating forums, anywhere, is that it's a lot about luck as well. A lot of times you just have to be at the right place and at the right time. If it was anybody else besides you, they could possibly get it as well. Besides that, not that I support the red pill but the red pill has the perfect counter argument for your observation and it…
/r/ExRedPill14/10/25 07:20 AM
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by that logic that means that 99% of people were incels at one point in time There's obviously more nuance to it. I wouldn't put 13-16yo in that category because it's all new to them, they are learning the ropes and all. I wouldn't put people who have a decent dating experience overall but are going through a dry spell, under incels either. People who don't like the options around them or have voluntarily backed out from dating altogether, wouldn't be incels either. I would say it's fitting for …
/r/ExRedPill04/10/25 06:10 AM
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I have always struggled to understand when and who made that distinction. Incel is simply short for involuntarily celibate. It literally means someone who is celibate against their choice. So, anyone who is actively looking (or passively hoping?) but unable to find anyone to get laid, could be referred to as an incel. I also understand that the word incel is gender neutral, so there's no need for its counterpart femcel because either one of men or women could be involuntarily celibate, i.e.- inc…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/25 07:24 AM
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I believe that it all boils down to actually get red pill affected people to find partners. Let me play the devil's advocate here- If everything that the ex-red pill, blue pill, purple pill or any other school of thought suggests to a red piller, doesn't actually work for him, does it actually even work then?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/25 05:54 AM
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Didn't change my mind per se but this sub opened my eyes to how indifferent women are to men's issues. Exposed me to a new reality that I wasn't completely familiar with. The society could very well be moving towards a matriarchy and this sub gives me the impression that a concerning number of women might be up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:32 AM
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Behaviour matters 100% but many times, the definition of who an asshole is is not even objective to begin with. I could just be a normal guy who doesn't like to sweet talk and have enough self respect to not take shit from women I'd like to date and be labelled an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:22 AM
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I think a lot of the alleged virgin shaming nowadays Idk. It varies from culture to culture. But a lot of countries (especially Asian) are picking up whatever happens in America. On top of it, based on what western women claim about their preferences on reddit, they'd rather be with somebody with ample experience than somebody for whom it's their first time and might be needing guidance.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/25 06:46 PM
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You don't necessarily need the red pill to instill that belief in you. Depending on your environment, society (including women) can and absolutely will make you believe that your value as a man is dependent upon how many and what kind of women you can get. Red pill didn't do it first.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/25 09:12 AM
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I think that in many cases, it’s because they don’t have many examples of healthy relationships in their own lives. Like, my previous relationship wasn’t healthy, my parents’ relationship wasn’t healthy, my uncle’s relationship isn’t healthy either. None of the relationships in my maternal or paternal family I’ve heard of, were healthy. My only exposure to healthy relationships was through word of mouth in my social circles and even they had issues which make me question just how healthy they ar…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/25 06:14 PM
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Sigh… we don’t hate our friends, they are just our friends however. Nobody can fulfil their romantic and intimacy needs from their friends. And yes, it is a need, the vast majority of this world thinks so and your lack of acknowledgement isn’t going to change that. It’s not about them having less jobs or ending up in jail, it’s about how would YOU feel if the same rhetoric was used against you if you were struggling. It’s about empathy. Again, you’re shifting the blame to the victims of the abus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:06 PM
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Part of the problem with “men can always just be happy single” in this case is that it’s toxic and manipulative. It basically says that men must learn to put up with the shitty attitude of some (or many) women or that they’ll be deprived of the basic need of intimate companionship. Imagine if all decent husbands shifted over to being wife beaters and used the same rhetoric. You say that men enable this behaviour by rewarding women for simply existing but where’s the part where women need to be d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:36 AM
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The thing about HR punishing those who are not a part of their clique, hits the spot!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:53 PM
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I’m not any taking sides here but I disagree with “you also don’t get to demand support or empathy” because I believe everyone gets to demand those things. Whether the masses choose to give it or not comes later. I’ve observed that many women in this sub have this belief that men have to support men and it’s not a women’s issue at all, when in general, society has never solved any issues with that attitude. Historically, any issue which impacted a mass of individuals has only ever been solved wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:03 PM
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I sincerely wonder what kind of social life she has outside of reddit. And at that how’s her relationship with her partner, if she has one. Because I can’t imagine somebody being this active on a sub like PPD, bashing the ever living shit out of the opposite gender and still enjoy a healthy social life, let alone a partner. I don’t think she’d respond to my comment but if she does, it’d be interesting to hear what she has got to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:14 PM
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I don’t disagree with your logic but it’s another thing which only mostly affects men only. Women with a small social circle or even no friends, end up in relationships all the time because they don’t have to do the approaching, taking initiative, pursuing bit. Men don’t care about how many friends you have as a woman as long as you’re somewhat dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:48 AM
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Have the exact same reaction nowadays XD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:20 PM
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I can’t speak for everyone but I’ll speak for myself and my close friends. Ever since I was in school, I’ve had both male and female friends and it never mattered to me how they looked. The only thing that always mattered was that we get along well. My close friends are like this as well, we’ve all been good friends with females who were not attractive. If you’re boring or just not my vibe, that’s a different story. At my previous workplace, I didn’t get along well with this one particular group…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:30 PM
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I won’t enjoy being around the person if I’m hurting. Unrequited love hurts. The vast majority of people can’t go back to being just friends again because you don’t look at them the same way you look at other friends. Irl, in most serious and long term relationships, people discard other potential options left, right and centre for their going-to-be spouse. That’s how the monogamous world works. That’s the least you can do for your partner. There are plenty of friends you’ll make throughout your…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:49 PM
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No point in continuing being friends with someone you have feelings for, if they don’t feel the same. The relationship is just not platonic, at least from one side. The vast majority of people wouldn’t like their partner to remain friends with people they turned down because way too many times this “friend” is waiting for their feelings to be reciprocated. Nothing about this “friendship” is platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:38 PM
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Can’t agree with this really. I have almost never heard anyone getting physical during a first or second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:40 PM
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When did I say that sex means you respect someone? Picking up words from a reply and rearranging them to infer something that’s not being said?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:31 PM
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I’ve just read the title and agree with you. But honest question- at what point in the relationship should the woman be willing to have sex? I’m asking because I’ve been in such a relationship where I was used badly and denied the most basic respect that a partner should be given in a relationship. I was basically a rebound and even got cheated on. Sex was a very far fetched idea in that toxic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:11 PM
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Didn't even have to get half way through to wonder what kinda bs is this. Speaking from my own experience, twice have I had a female friend still wanting to be friends with me after I expressed not having the same romantic feelings for them that they did for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:15 PM
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They can. However, you MUST be clear in your mind about your motives and intention of befriending a person of the opposite gender. I’ve had female friends in the past and we were not attracted to eachother in a romantic or sexual way. Female friends, just like male friends can be great or terrible. It’s not that fucking complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:54 AM
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Red pill is for the real betas, says Dr. K (yt: healthygamergg), a psychiatrist. You can look up his video yourself. And while I was never really on the side of any of the pills, I feel kinda lost and don’t really know what to do anymore. I’m not afraid of admitting that I’ve given up and don’t really do much (if anything), since I’ve not really had the best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:55 PM
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There’s a HUGE problem with that way of thinking. People can not care about someone for a lot of different reasons. It doesn’t necessarily make that person bad or a “waste of space”. People ostracise people suffering from mental health issues, bankruptcy, people who are just introverted, people who are not from the same country, etc. Sometimes, people can themselves lead a life where they push everyone away and have no one, such as studying for a tough course or working all day or again, introve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:28 PM
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Why can’t wealthy men marry wealthy women and not be afraid of her running away with half (or more) of his wealth? If you do that, yk she wants you for something besides your wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:59 AM
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I’m not taking any sides here but your comment just reminded me of my super toxic, cheating ex who after ditching me said that she made a huge sacrifice by not entertaining any of her other options. It’s bizarre that some people have the audacity to believe that even staying loyal/exclusive to your current partner is a huge sacrifice and not the bare fucking minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:05 AM
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Even considering that, most men still don’t want to settle for such women because how are we supposed to be sure if she’s really into us or if we are just a means of security for her? This is just one of the many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:48 AM
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This doesn’t answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:23 AM
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But I genuinely want to know why does the burden of putting efforts and being interesting lie on men alone? Could somebody explain to me as if I was 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:14 PM
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Did your elder sisters reveal any top secrets about womenhood which men wouldn’t otherwise learn lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:02 PM
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I don’t wanna be that guy but it sounds you fit the trope of the good looking bum, who gets away with shit cuz he got the looks. You’re probably also not very honest around women and tell them what they want to hear. Something I’ve always struggled with because I can’t be dishonest about how I feel and what I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:46 PM
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You must have something that the other person desires? Your comment doesn’t really help much as you say that OP is wrong and how you’ve done it but not elaborating on how.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:15 PM
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Didn’t read your entire post but based on the title alone, not holding any demographic up to certain standard always creates problems. This is not limited to women or even intimate relationships alone. In context of dating, I’m a guy who has willingly made the decision that I’d rather learn to be happy alone than end up with the wrong woman. If more men actually thought like this, we would have less problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:46 PM
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Surprised to hear that USA is like that with regard to meeting people irl. I thought Europe was also largely into dating apps? I’m from neither of the two places so don’t have firsthand experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:00 PM
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I went to an EDM concert earlier this year and from what I observed, nobody was meeting anybody there. A large crowd of people who were just enjoying the show with their own group and not mingling with outsiders. The only people who were mingling were couples who came together. Of course, I couldn’t have possibly seen every last person but broadly speaking, this was the case with 50% of the crowd, amongst which I moved around quite a bit. I think to mingle or not to mingle with strangers is more…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:56 PM
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Umm.. what part(s) of Europe are you specially referring to? Europe is a continent…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:49 PM
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I believe that for a lot of men who don’t get to have casual sex far into their twenties, the cycle of events happen like this- They want casual sex, to sleep around a little bit (or maybe a lot) before they find and settle down with the love of their life. Don’t get any casual sex at all for a variety of reasons. Realise their shortcomings and turn to ideologies like redpill. After which they might actually work on improving themselves or resort to sulking online, while not doing anything to im…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 09:13 AM
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And that’s why I’ve convinced myself to lead a single life, rather than settling down. I’ve learned to enjoy my own company and I don’t even see myself being with the kinda person I want in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:14 AM
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The condition is that they get enough time to interact. In many cases, women won’t even give men that much time to interact to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:06 PM
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As a man myself, let me tell you that a concerning number of men would actually fuck anything. I like to believe that statistically, they’re still a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:55 PM
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Could be. I can only give a viewpoint based on my own experience and observation. And for me, the world doesn’t exist beyond what I am experiencing at the moment and what I am going to experience tomorrow. And if I’m surrounded by men and women who are like that, that’s pretty much the reality I have to deal with irrespective of what the world is like beyond my little scope of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:37 PM
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Other comments here are saying that those men aren’t getting picked is the reason. And while that is true to some extent, the thing is that women are much more pickier than men. I’ve seen men who don’t even want a pretty fave, just a fit body and still not be able to find a woman to be with. On the other hand, women are more hell bent on their preferences in general. For example, women who like bearded men, would never change their preference to be with a guy who is a 10 but can’t grow a beard. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:25 PM
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I ain’t reading allat. I’m happy for you or sad that it happened. Whatever fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:44 PM
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Idk, mate. At least in person, I’ve not been criticised for my preferences. And in the event somebody dare does that, I would have a very fitting response ready to guard my freedom to have a preference. It’s a hill I’m ready to die upon. However, if I’m a 4 and my preference is a 10, then I’d rightfully be criticised for not lowering my attractiveness threshold for my own good. If my preference is a 7-8, then I also have something to show for it. And worst of the worst case scenario, if I’m unab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:42 PM
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I can fill a small mug of coffee with my tears when I want to cry. A woman or any other person for that matter doesn’t get to decide whether I’m allowed to show emotions or not. I’m man enough to decide how I want to respond to something that affected me irrespective of how others view me and I am man enough to cry it out if that’s what I feel like doing. If a woman gets the ick because of that, I’ll hold the door open for her to leave myself. Y’all need to grow some spine for God’s sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:54 AM
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Idk about other men but I’d rather die alone surrounded by no one than opt for the beta bux lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:58 PM
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It was my first time ever taking a shot at someone is what made it brutal. Not knowing how to talk to girls, no rizz and I had a very horrid looking profile pic on my FB account. First time experiencing that I could get ignored like that and all is what made it brutal for me. What is chasing stacey? I’m not from the west so idk. My interpretation is that it means chasing a potentially way outta league, pretty, popular girl? Am I right? Also, tbf, women don’t have sympathy for men getting rejecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:51 AM
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Idk how many of these would count as actual embarrassing rejections but let me put this out here for you to judge- Messaged a senior girl in school, 2 classes ahead of me. Got brutally ignored after 2-4 texts. She was the prettiest girl in our school at that time. I was naive. She was a bimbo tho. Classmate in college I felt attracted to would just look at me at random points in time and start laughing. Never actually made conversation to her and I was a very shy person at that time so I wouldn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:21 PM
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Things about her attitude. If she doesn’t make her intentions clear, leaves everything to my guesswork and has little to no empathy. If she can’t cut-off potential could be boyfriends she has been talking to. Trust me, a girl doesn’t entertain other guys when she’s really serious about you, even if you two are not in a relationship yet. Has “male bestfriend(s)”. Sassy boss bitch attitude. I don’t have anything against working women or women in leadership positions, in fact, I think those kinda w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:05 PM
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I like your post and this comment in particular. Men on reddit think that most women who are spending too much on reddit are perfect 10s irl and their lack of interest and disdain towards men expressed on this platform is the ultimatum for the vast majority of the lower 80% of male population. Lol. Just do what you have to do to survive out there. You don’t like me, a man, approaching women? Okay sweetie, it’s not like you can stop me from what I want to do irl. I’m sure going to listen to some …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:52 PM
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Ideally, the kinda attractive men most of y’all women look for, wouldn’t settle for anything less than what they find suitable for themselves. So, are you (or her) realistically suitable for the kind of attractive men y’all are looking for? I’m not a 10 or even a 9 and heck even I’m willingly single long term because I don’t settle for what Ik is realistically suitable for me not just in terms of attractiveness but also personality. You and I can aim for whatever we like but we won’t end up bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:58 PM
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Never intended to change anything about her preferences, wasn’t even expecting to. Why are some of y’all women so triggered when confronted about literally anything? I gave her a valid argument which if she considers would benefit her only, not me. Besides, the entire “I only date men with good genetics” stand is only hypocritical, unless you’re a woman with good genetics yourself. Don’t expect others to offer you what you cannot offer to others yourself. Your (or my) preferences are only justif…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:47 PM
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Just because it’s a “preference” doesn’t mean that it does not deserve to be criticised or questioned. Being with a woman over 25 is not Di’Caprio’s preference either yk. Besides, I was only trying to learn her logic behind why she prefers that. Once I understood, I didn’t ask any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 04:36 PM
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Should you then also be avoided as one day you’ll grow old, your tits will get saggy and your face will be full of wrinkles? Another bad take. Just accept the fact that people become less attractive as they age. But somebody who can manage to keep a life long dedication to their workouts would look better than a naturally well built man who doesn’t work out- when they have both aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:52 PM
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This is one of the worst takes I’ve heard so far. Why would you avoid someone who worked hard for a good physique? What does it even matter whether he’s well built naturally or because he works out? You hate the idea of a man who worked hard to improve himself? What are you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:44 PM
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Your dad seemed to have issues that required therapy. Most men aren’t like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:42 PM
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I really struggle to take your examples seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:02 AM
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A big chunk of the problem is not even being able to work with what you got.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:30 PM
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Those who aren't can simply choose to not do those things. It's quite obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:28 PM
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The problem with this idea is that people are biologically wired to feel attraction towards the opposite sex and everyone has a longing to be with another person, have sex, raise a family, etc. You cannot force people to not want what nature wired them to want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:29 AM
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In theory, shouldn't they be able to get along with average females? I guess there are both- a lot of average western men and a lot of average western women. Why aren't they together?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:11 PM
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I've been single for years myself but I'd rather be alone than settle for someone Ik I wouldn't be happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:02 PM
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Guess I was right about this community being a bad place for getting peak into the dating world. My own personal experience begs to differ a lot from what people have got to say here. I'm not a super confident chad who's dating around more women than I could handle. But imo, one can tip the odds in their favour by really following some very basic advice such as getting fit, dressing well and being a little confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:00 PM
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What does it even matter to you? Your question is primarily directed towards the men even though you try to make it seem like it isn't by asking "why do you even want a bf/gf". I wanna know if you're male or female and what motivated you to ask this question. Now to actually answer your question, most people, most normal/regular folks are born with the inherent desire to be with another person, have sex, have children and raise a family. It isn't any more complicated than that. The idea that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:50 AM
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I don't agree with this due to a variety of reasons. Firstly, use your head and try to understand that there are introverted women with very low social energy who prefer to be with men who are introverted as well. How do Ik this? I've had such female friends. Being introverted does make it harder to get a gf but you have to understand that even introverts need to talk and express something to get the message across. Do you think two introverts who are in a relationship with eachother don't spend…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:38 AM
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Tbf, women do get far more attention from men than men do from women. The amount of attention they get on social media alone is proof of that. I've seen a good number of unattractive women able to have 1k+ followers on IG even though they are not content creators, vloggers or anything. Just regular women who God knows how got so many people to follow them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:30 PM
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But it's again more of a personal decision than anything else. Even us men can simply choose to not date someone (even if they are attractive) out of circumstance when we know (or suspect) that they are not going to be a good partner. I've done this myself. I have to continue being lonely and there was a lot of second guessing my decision but once I'm over the person I wanted to be with but rejected, I realise that more likely than not, I made the right decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:29 AM
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You're creepy because I don't like what you've got to say. Yeah idk you beyond this one virtual interaction, yeah I can't get pregnant because I'm a man but you are creepy. It's natural, it's biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:16 AM
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Agreed. Being a guy who had a father who did exactly this to my mother, I have first hand experience of what you're talking about. In another reply to your comment, some moron is yapping about some men simply wanting traditional gender roles and it's not about coercion. Well genius, what's the problem of these some men in having a more balanced relationship?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:38 PM
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If you love someone, how can you bring yourself to be sexually engaged with other people? I, for one, would never do that. Worst case scenario, where it really is THAT BAD, I'd talk about breaking up rather than be in an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:32 AM
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Many many people have bad parents. It's even worse in non-western countries. When kids aren't raised well, they don't really prove to be good to their peers. And depression and anxiety can come from reasons such as pressure to perform well in academics, feelings of inadequacy, not being conventionally attractive, etc. All these things don't necessarily require the influence of bad parents. Another reason which is not commonly talked about is genetics. Some people simply suffer from mental health…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:19 PM
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So if somebody were to have an abusive father, bullied by peers and left out from social events, they would not suffer from loneliness and mental health issues at a very young age?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:09 PM
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I'm from India and I'd try to answer your question the best I can. So, to begin with, the dating scene here is a messy amalgamation of some bad things from the US and the traditionalism of the Indian society. Idr who it was but this one well recognised American said that Indians pick all the bad aspects of the American society and apply it to themselves and he was damn right. Men have to pursue women, take the initiative, put in the efforts, etc. Women don't do that for men and even when they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:50 AM
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That's because women are getting tons of attention from other people, more specifically men and that, probably men that they desire. Now you might ask how does getting attention from other people makes someone less violent? Well humans are social beings and we all require social interactions, touch, people to care for us, etc. Women have their emotional and intimacy needs fulfilled, while most men are severely deprived of it and frustrated due to the deprivation. Women spend time online being wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 06:19 AM
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Not from US but I went to a small college myself which wasn't that great at anything and was mostly filled with people who just went there because it was close to their home. I can relate to what you have mentioned here because I only had one gf at that time for 6 months and after the relationship was over, there were almost no other women of my type I could go to. Then covid hit and I didn't leave home for a year, finished college and started working. Now my workplace has not more than 4 women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:03 AM
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I've been in a relationship before but it has been years since the breakup and due to a variety of reasons (including not going out due to covid) I have not been able to find somebody else again, so far. I expressed this recently on reddit and a woman's solution to my problem was the same old cliches which have been going around since forever. She said that I should be satisfied with myself, that nobody else can make me feel satisfied, don't look if it makes me frustrated and just wait for the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:16 AM
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So, love, companionship, a sense of belonging, a sense of security, etc., are all irrelevant to you? And sure, if you think that men don't add value to your life, then why don't you pick somebody and add value to their life? What is so wrong in being the one who uplifts others rather searching for someone who will uplift you even above the high horse you're already riding?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:18 PM
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Idt being unattractive is an issue here. Even if you were unattractive (I'm not saying you are), you would still have some prospects in the form of acquaintances who are kinda attracted to you, some creeps who won't stop eyeing you around, some fuckboys who just want to hookup and forget about you, etc. I guess part of the problem here is that you appear to be unapproachable to the men around you. Do you often find yourself in a bad mood? Do you have an anxious-avoidant demeanor? Do you always h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:43 PM
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Men are rightfully afraid that they wouldn't find another partner. While that shouldn't stop them from moving on from toxic bitches, it is indeed true that once broken up, most men are going to find it much harder than their toxic ex to find another partner (and at that a better one) to be with. Now you might shift the blame again on men bc the toxic ex is after all going to date a man only so men are to be blamed again for lining up behind such women and bla bla but it's so hard to find another…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:43 PM
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I agree. I just said that men do that, I'm not saying that they should. But for us men, sometimes it's not as simple as just dropping everything and moving on because our love wasn't reciprocated, it takes time, a lot of it and it's not easy to fight against the love we once fought for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:13 PM
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The question wasn't meant for you. I never asked the OC if she wouldn't fight to keep a man who didn't like her. What are you on? If you love somebody who doesn't love you, that's still love. Unrequited love. You can act desperately out of such feelings. That's fine. You shouldn't be doing so but it's understandable bc you're still human and humans do things for love which they otherwise wouldn't. Or I should rather say men do things for love which they otherwise wouldn't. I don't expect modern …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:49 PM
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Yeah, that sounds good. All in all, if you aren't going to cry ugly if your partner leaves you then it's just shitty love. No amounts of therapy, maturity, bla bla should be able to stop you from breaking down if you're actually left by someone you were genuinely, deeply in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:40 PM
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So you wouldn't fight to keep your man in your life? What kind of shitty love is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:10 PM
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It's not about whether it's a high standard or not. Okay lemme put it this way- I'm a 24yo virgin, irrespective of how bad my first time is going to be, in my mind I'd probably give it an above avg rating (unless something goes horribly wrong) because- I have nothing to compare it to. It finally happened ffs. On the other hand, a guy who does it every weekend might rate my experience as below avg bc he has done it all. If he was in my place, he might find it very underwhelming but for me it coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:53 PM
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This reminds of the law of diminishing marginal utility in economics. Basically, women have more than they can possibly handle and it's causing dissatisfaction. It's a lot like men with porn addiction, when you watch too much porn, you can reach a stage where you're overstimulated and can't get an erection anymore when looking at a naked woman. The sad part is that women would rather be in this state of dissatisfaction due to excessive supply than being in a state where their egos aren't getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:51 AM
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I guess that it has happened not just because of big corpo manipulation but also because a lot of women like it better this way or in other words feel more comfortable. Think about it from the perspective of a woman, you probably don't want to be approached by others all the time. And even when you do, you probably don't want to be approached by someone who's actually creepy or someone you don't find attractive. Dating apps allow you to see first, communicate remotely from a very safe distance a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:51 AM
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I can accept that it has been normalised but how is it intended by nature? Like, what benefits are there when it comes to procreation and continuation of our species while ensuring healthy genes are transferred to the next gen? Even if I were to end up being in a relationship with such a woman, how is her behaviour healthy for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:09 AM
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There's a huge difference between animals and humans. There are many practices that we humans have evolved out of. I'm not saying that men should not put in the efforts for the women but my opinion is that if the women aren't willing to reciprocate then why should the men continue to do so? Who's to say that these women will do anything for their partner even after entering the relationship? The only reason why they still want to be chased is because of their ego. They have hundreds of men doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 03:43 AM
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I've noticed that myself. But I never understood why tho? If you (a woman) desires to be with a man and if for any reason the man isn't making moves on you, then don't you think that maybe you can kick things of by pursuing him instead? After all, you like him. Shouldn't that be reason enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:46 AM
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