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| 62 | Dating girls in NYC or big cities | cesarsan | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 08:35 PM |
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| 4 | [deleted by user]I love that book. I’ve been following his stuff since 2014 and it really does change your perspective on life and relationships. Not just romantically but professionally as well. I’ve been able to land amazing jobs and meet beautiful woman because of his book and advice. Even though I’m in a very good place right now with the girl of my dreams and have a wonderful job/live in New York City…I still watch some his videos occasionally to keep my grounded. God bless that guy. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 08:57 PM |
| – | Dating girls in NYC or big cities100 percent! Just try to get comfortable and try to have fun. I think dating and seduction is a numbers game. The more girls you talk to, the easier it will be for your to figure out what works for you. Every date will be different so there is no perfect strategy that will conquer them all. Some dates will be amazing and some will be horrible. But then you learn from them and try to use them to your advantage in the future. It’s a learning process at the end of the day. But you have to go out th… | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 06:46 PM |
| – | Dating girls in NYC or big citiesThat’s kinda tough my man. Having your own place or somewhere you can go to after a date is a game changer. I lived in NJ not so long ago but worked in the city and I would usually get an Airbnb for the week whenever I had a lot of work. So I would use that week to set dates just in case I was able to escalate the date into something else. You can always get a hotel and say that you’re just visiting so it doesn’t look too creepy. I think whenever girls hear the word “hotel” they automatically th… | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Dating girls in NYC or big citiesNo problem dude. And I’m 5’8 and around 155-160lbs on a regular day | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 12:56 PM |
| – | Dating girls in NYC or big citiesI think it depends of the setting. Like if I go to a cocktail bar, it’s mostly to drink and chat. Maybe a few appetizers(that we share together) but never a huge meal or anything like that. And I definitely pick a place where it’s quiet and I can chat to my date without screaming. I do my research so I know some amazing cocktail bars in NYC that are my go to. If we go for dinner to a restaurant, then we definitely ordering appetizers, entree and desserts + drinks. I always try to be very playful… | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 12:55 PM |
| – | Dating girls in NYC or big citiesShe actually does modeling as well. But like I mentioned, it’s what “I consider a 10”. I’m sure everyone has a different criteria. She’s very intelligent which made her a total package for me. (Currently goes to Columbia business school) | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 01:33 AM |
| 7 | Dating girls in NYC or big citiesThanks dude! And I’m 28. Usually when I go out for brunch with my friends (on the weekends) I just approach girls in the restaurant. Either waiting in line or while waiting for bathroom I just start a friendly convo. I try to approach a group of girls so it doesn’t look too creepy. You kinda just need to learn how to read the vibes. But most of the time the girls don’t mind. Especially when everyone is tipsy at 2pm in the afternoon lol and then I set dates for during the weekdays after work. I h… | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 11:54 PM |
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