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It truly is. I was not brought up like this, nor is it comfortable for me to behave in this manner with less than 10 drinks in my system. Yet this has been the only thing that has ever worked to get women to like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:41 PM
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cross women's boundaries and force yourself on her until she relents this is the only good piece of dating advice I have ever gotten
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:16 PM
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i actually saw good looking guy while i was hiking and i waved to him and he ignored me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:59 AM
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you dont get it all the bangbutler stays because of free room and board plus sexual gratification on his end the idea that you wouldn't trust your live in sex butler is just absurd on its face
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:58 AM
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imagine a butler you can bang
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:28 AM
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yeah imo if you are in a dead bedroom you're still an incel by definition... maybe if I just defend women on the internet enough my wife will fuck me again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:24 AM
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leftwing incels become white knights more people need to talk about this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:16 AM
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honestly it is insane how fat women will air their opinions as if anyone cares lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:53 PM
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septic tank in cockney slang
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:50 PM
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lowers the likelihood of rate cuts... duh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:48 PM
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One of the most brain-dead groups on the internet are the British could have just ended it there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:38 PM
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My current working theory is that most men are incels, and of the terminally online variety, right wingers tend to fall into the classic incel trope, whereas left leaning incels become internet white knights.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:30 PM
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Women will gang up on your everywhere no matter what. They are the enforcers of social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:28 PM
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Is going to therapy masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:16 PM
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sorry i was just having a laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:15 PM
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My uncle works at rockstar and he says GTA6 is coming this month
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:12 PM
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i wish they would i hate shorts and they make my browswer run like crap
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:06 PM
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You gotta learn to fight as well. Don't think you're gonna go out there poaching all the sweet gash without running into some physical conflicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:48 PM
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It's probably worse. You can still find meaning in life even if you are homeless. With no romantic prospects there is no point in living.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:00 PM
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Not sure about that. I don't think it's entirely worthless, but also think it's big because it gives undesirable guys hope that they can be more masculine or hold frame or whatever and start getting attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:23 PM
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does it actually work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:08 PM
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Police were just as manipulative imo. They didn't witness her swerving. As far as I can tell the whole thing was legally a consensual conversation, but in practice not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 05:01 AM
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It is a crime for women to smoke crack while pregnant because possessing and using crack are both illegal. this cant be good faith it just cant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:55 AM
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Yeah sure it's just not that different to me. I think it should be a crime for women to smoke crack while pregnant, but again, her body her choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:44 AM
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Her body her choice tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:35 AM
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not that different from abortion imo nbd
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:25 AM
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The same reason hungry people don't find fulfillment in helping others instead of fulfillment through eating. The type of fulfillment is kind of important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:59 AM
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Yeah I am not saying that cute nonwhite women are banned from earning a living I just think being a cute white women is almost foolproof.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:26 AM
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A white girl that is above average attractiveness and can operate a camera is guaranteed a basic income.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:23 AM
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Yeah I saw a girl I'd known since middle school on hinge. She was my gf's roommate in college and we'd chatted alot on AIM back in the day. I knew she'd been married so I looked her up and her husband had died. I didn't want to hit her up on hinge so I got her work email and wrote her a letter offering my condolences and she left me on read.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:43 AM
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It is literally all downhill after college
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:40 AM
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bull fucking shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:05 AM
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I mean the subtext was that she wasn't gonna fuck me ever or extend any kind of effort i stupidly tried again a few years later and she was a manipulative little slut
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:04 AM
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I met this chick one time and she was flirting with me. One night i went over to her house and she blew me. Then her roommates told me she saw me as a friend. Infuriating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:36 AM
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fat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:56 AM
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I appreciate all of this, but honestly, it makes me sick. As a woman, I don’t want to work with these clients. I don’t want to have to sit in the room and explain why following strangers to their cars isn’t okay. I know that a lot of people will think that as a therapist, I shouldn’t feel this way, and that I should have unconditional positive regard, but I went into this field to help people. I didn’t agree to sacrifice my own peace and happiness by dedicating my emotional energy to the kinds o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:10 AM
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what fucking irks me are people who do stupid shit and then get laws passed based on that stupid shit in florida this lady had her daughter sleeping the back of the car with no seatbelt on. The daughter died and mom went on a seatbelt law crusade. now police can stop black people and claim they weren't wearing their seatbelt. women annoy me so much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:23 AM
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he would be a dumbass for taking it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:16 AM
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i wrote in jeff davis only went to the polls to restrict women's rights to healthcare.... if i can't have sex no one can HAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:09 AM
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i am way too insecure for this and i cook better than any restaurant i dont have to fly to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:46 PM
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I have no clue what masculinity even is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:52 PM
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Good observations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:55 PM
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Would also stop heightfrauding/agefrauding
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:41 PM
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I really wish you could see your own score so you could have a baseline to test what is effective and what isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:39 PM
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me on the right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:29 AM
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leftover penne with tomato suace and chicken thighs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:20 AM
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progressive newspeak
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:42 AM
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true but they bleed every month and i don't want to hear them bitch about that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:20 AM
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Be thankful for the women who do say it out loud. Part of being a woman is fitting in and you can't just come out and say the uncomfortable truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:13 AM
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fair enough that'll do in a pinch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:11 AM
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definitely farmed I would smoked a couple cigarettes and see if that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:08 AM
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was it wild caught or farmed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:47 PM
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this is really great and relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:31 PM
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dam i commented on my crush's post last night and was barely able to close that window before it loaded. i am not ready to see what the result is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:47 PM
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I learned in deveopmental psych that late maturing guys tend to get a lot of issues. The teachers even asked me about my experience as a late maturing guy and the class was all female except me and this foreign dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:45 PM
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Might want to read what Adam Smith had to say about landlords before you get crazy. Ricardo expanded greatly on his ideas as did JS MIll.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:44 PM
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I worked at a gas station right out of highschool but could pass for a highschool freshman. I was there all alone and would get flirted with quite a bit. There was a lady that I thought was like 45-50 that would flirt with me a lot. I didn't think anything of it but one time she pushed up on me and tried to kiss me. I think she realized I was not actually about it and really didn't even know how to kiss her. Her husband came up sometime later and confronted me on it. He wasn't really mad but I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:54 PM
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The ADL is an actual joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:02 PM
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I got to see Idina menzel perform that live during fashion's night out. even got to meet her but didn't know who she was at the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:46 AM
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I mean what if it's like 80% surfing and 20% women? I feel like passport bros kind of have to expats rather than tourists
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:41 AM
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I worked internationally when i was younger and also went on surf trips where i met local girls. It's unclear to me if having sex on vacation is being a passport bro or if it requires the specific objective of having sex. If so this year I went to Rio to try and meet chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:19 AM
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dont think so. the guys that have the ability to choose typically end up with this type
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:16 AM
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Every man worth a shit would prefer a tradwife
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:47 AM
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yeah and most men dont have tradwives the point here is that if you are going to be the thing that every man desires, you can have your pick of men. The ballerina farm girl got knocked up by a guy whose dad OWNS fucking jetblue,
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:26 AM
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No way. It's a bell curve. 68% of people are near average, 1 SD away and you are either objectively good or objectively ugly. The long tail of physical attractiveness is exceedingly rare. At a sporting event with 100k people there are probably fewer than 10 model tier guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:17 AM
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if your husband doesn't have life insurance and enough liquid to hold you over just lmao at ur tradfwife skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:13 AM
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? Well, sure they do. If you thought you might have cancer would you go get tested? Cancer has legitimate treatments. The only material benefit I can glean from getting an official diagnosis is disability payments, which are basically nothing. Personally don't give a shit about getting an official diagnosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:15 AM
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What do you think the point in getting diagnosed as an adult is? I looked into it but it's $2000 and the unemployment I'd get isn't worth the effort
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:04 AM
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IMO any type of selfies are bad for guys. But my tasteful shirtless pics doing water activities netted me fuck all and i am literally brad pitt in fight club
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 02:24 AM
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Same except I know I am handsome. Normies are fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:33 AM
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bro i hate being one in my own life story
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:12 AM
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claw my way out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:07 AM
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I have not but I went to Rio in March.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:50 PM
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My dream is 5 baby moms in brazil
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:40 PM
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normies are fucking disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:13 PM
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reddit literally is the worst online forum, like it would need to improve alot to get to facebook levels ' this sub is far better than average but mods are still absolute bellends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:02 PM
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I liked posting on shortguys because they could acknowledge the truth, whereas most of reddit is just delusional about attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:23 PM
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literally the only reason i post here but my thing is that if you saw that 'meme' and it was some sub5 ppd poster you'd click off it instantly without a second thought
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:49 PM
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I think people tend to imagine the worst. I would never date a woman my age because I assume they all look disgusting, but every now in then you meet one that looks 25. Most college age girls think they wouldn't fuck a 40 year old guy either but brad pitt was 40 in troy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:25 PM
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he cute
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:24 PM
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just ask them to post a physique picture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:15 PM
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Men need some more gender solidarity, genuinely. yeah male lions need to stop fighting each other as well
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:42 PM
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Yeah I literally cannot understand the thought process of those people. Like they have enough agency to install a dating app, or go walk on the street, or make and OF or whatever but they honestly believe they have the same capacity for understanding consent as an 8 year old. I respect that they cannot legally consent in most states, but the idea that they these totally helpless beings is just really offensive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:41 PM
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I legit hate going out if my outfit is not brand new with at least a few designer pieces. As a man in the current era I cannot afford to do anything less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:20 PM
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I don't doubt they say that, the same way women say they like guys with nice personalities. In the real world, very few men have the opportunity to pursue this path. I will concede that a lot of people base their identity around their career and I am different in that respect, but I sincerely doubt most guys would turn down a hot millionaire if given the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:46 PM
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This is peak delusion. Men would love this. I would love this. It's just not a realistic expectation and as you point out, OP themself would never settle for this type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:20 PM
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i know you are but what am i
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:40 AM
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it actually was inevitable lmao if you want federally protected abortion you need an amendment. the end
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:01 AM
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This wasn't some neutral, inevitable event. and yet here we are lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:50 AM
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Free trade and open borders between states.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:43 PM
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I mean he's correct though. Read the 10th amendment, then go search the constitution for abortion. The Federal government never had the power to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:41 PM
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So what tho? blonde and healthy bmi is gonna have a plethora of options with or without mental issues
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:36 PM
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Need to see pics. I feel like she could just boot up any dating app and schedule 10 dates within 24 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:28 PM
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What brand of lifts do you guys recommend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:02 PM
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that is not a 'how' that is a 'where
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:01 PM
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how else are you supposed to get a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:59 PM
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Definitely agree. Every year more and more of the good ones are taken off the market. Even after 30 it's basically hopeless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:02 PM
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greatly overplayed the effectiveness of the vaccine and downplayed the risks i remember on r/nba you'd get banned for suggesting the vaccine didn't prevent infections WHILE the entire vaccinated starting lineup of the nets was out with covid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:40 AM
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almost every day i started freediving because i was suicidal i met a girl a year ago that I really liked but was too scared to pursue her (we were in a man vs bear type situation) and there was this whole big thing but basically i bought the camera to make an instagram so i could talk to her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:39 AM
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canon r100 10-18mm rfs lens ikelite 200dl housing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:21 AM
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lonely depressed horny watching college football and cooking dinner i went and took photos for an hour before it got cloudy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:04 AM
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they lied pretty aggressively lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:00 AM
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I'm just not sure women can understand what we are saying with this. Like fundamentally every guy out there has experienced the sudden boost of attention you get from women once you get into a relationship. Women want you more when other women want you- and I dont think women are consciously aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:20 AM
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What if you are already doing that? My exwife really was done with me when she made up her mind that no other woman would want me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:34 PM
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Seriously if my girl is maintaining relationships with good looking guys other than myself I am out
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:33 PM
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Trump is finished! We got him boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:17 AM
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correct i definitely dont care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:59 AM
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I literally did and still haven't recoved. Lost 3 relatives from forced isolation based on the moronic guidance that was totally political and not based on any evidence whatsoever. Ultimately myself and other 'deniers' were proven right beyond all measure. Aerosols were always the primary mode of transmission and wearing useless talisman does fuck all. Had 'the experts' just recommended N95's for the vulnerable from the beginning a tremendous amount of death and hardship could have been avoided.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:47 PM
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It's not though. There was literally no evidence for your bullshit, and a mountain of evidence that it was harmful. Pro maskers and the CDC were objectively fucking wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:39 PM
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cousin 'the experts' denied that aersols were the primary mode of transmission for 18 months until the data made it inarguable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:37 PM
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i live in a blue city in FL and they very much went above and beyond on the hysteria. the sad thing is most of them believe the measures were effective, we just didn't go far enough with them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:36 PM
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my mom always want grandchildren but now she copes by saying the world is too horrible. ultimately she is not responsible enough for grandchildren
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:07 PM
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public transportation is the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:37 PM
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fucking euros and others obsess over american politics as well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:37 PM
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why are you engaging with this shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:20 PM
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No. My beliefs are too fringe and women with fringe beliefs are generally ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:45 PM
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probably banged the uber driver then filed charges the next day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:00 PM
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I have asked 2 on a date. I have talked to maybe 5 or so otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:53 PM
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are you actually tubby though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:28 PM
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encountered this behavior repeatedly i same. there is no way to resolve it other than just giving up. OLD is just so rigged it's not even worth wasting your time on IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:26 AM
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Black pill is the belief that genetic looks characteristics is what matters in human attraction. If you think ONLY women care about genetics, then what the fuck are men? Angels? No they're humans who likewise want to reproduce and spread their genes with suitable mates. I think he's just saying he has very low standards. I also believe that genetics are the overwhelmingly most important part of attraction; but I am not attracted to ugly or fat women. Most guys are willing to overlook it because …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:52 PM
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right that STILL doesn't negate their point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:58 AM
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Oh look it's actual facts. I just wish Trump was who they thought he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:57 AM
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That doesn't debunk their point tho. Millions of liberals in Cali probably stayed home because they knew their win was safe. That could have change the outcome of the popular vote, but not anything of consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:55 AM
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it's mgtow for girls. nobody gives a shit that a 5'5 bald guy is going his own way. no women wanted him to begin with. these women are just the female analog
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:36 PM
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For me it was peanut the squirrel, was planning on staying home until that happened
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:28 PM
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i am not ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:09 PM
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literally the end of democracy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:30 PM
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i have literally never gotten this joke
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:23 PM
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I'm really not sure about the numbers but maybe the MSM is still popular. For younger people though, you can pretty much always tell who the redditors are because they are super fucking shocked to hear any non-echo chamber approved opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:01 PM
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reddit is much worse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:55 PM
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All are pretty average/ on the ugly side of average but only the black dress looks undignified. While the others aren't lookers, they at least look like they respect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:54 PM
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they are lowkey right tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:32 PM
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umm they literally stole the last election lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:49 AM
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both are fine if you aren't fat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:45 AM
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both are pretty scary
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:18 PM
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got suspended for a week for one of those then on day 6 they released i said nothing wrong and it got overturned
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:32 PM
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ha that is kind of funny now that you point it out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:03 PM
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Do you think it's possible that some of the guys that you've met don't actually lack charm they're just not interested in charming you in particular? I don't mean this as a slight but I'm def not trying to run game on every woman i come across
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:25 AM
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it was cold out to day and i don't have anything to do at nigh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:25 AM
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I literally do not think there is anything morally wrong with it. Do you think it's wrong to take a girl home from a nightclub, sleep with her, and then the next day she tells you she is underage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:38 AM
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What if they don't tell you or tell you after you have sex? The bottom line is that these girls don't actually exist. And any minor that is on a dating knows what they are doing. Actual predators are all over instagram, tiktok, and reddit, but it takes actual work to catch them so these losers do bait and switches on desperate, low IQ losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:25 AM
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I would literally never date someone underage. I have posted my face here and you are slandering me. I never said that 12 year olds can or should get married, I have correct you in the past but you keep repeating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:21 AM
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there you go making up lies again why are you obsessed with me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:18 AM
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So what? They're still initially representing themselves as being of age. Would never hold up in court and the men are the actual victims. Is a guy a predator if he takes an underage girl home from a nightclub and she informs him after they have sex? It's like the teller at the bank handing you too much money and the police call you a bank robber.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:09 AM
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because you are no more a predator than a guy who meets an underage stripper at a strip club.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:56 AM
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Most of them are just tricking morons who are desperate and actually trying to meet adult women and failing. Actual predators aren't on fucking tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:55 AM
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are any of them catching actual predators on insta/tiktok or are they doing bait and switches on dating sites?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:49 AM
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You can choose to believe that it if it helps you endure your wage slavery. As someone who graduated during the recession.... LOL You are far beyond cooked. If you make 80k now you have the purchasing power of a dollar general worker in 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:29 AM
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Brainlet mentality has a hold on you lol, you're sitting there in your cubicle on saturday night, not getting paid, to earn the same nominal salary a guy in your job made 30 years ago in a 40 hour week while median home prices have 4x'd. Misery loves company i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:14 AM
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Wrong again. The only way it's affordable is via cheap debt and longer terms. This system works fine until you have consumer inflation and you have to hike rates. We are reaping the rewards of 25 years of stimulus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:03 AM
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no but depending on how ugly you are you can spend $500 and get very little sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:49 AM
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Florida
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:48 AM
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It's not 'victim mentality', it's measurable. Household debt has exploded due to the fictionalization of everything LOL. Now only the top 10% of earners can afford homes that middle class people used to live in. 'Just grind harder' bro is an idiotic mindset for addressing systemic problems, but then again, so is voting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:47 AM
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OK I just looked it up in my town it's $40 for 2 tickets. I assume concession will be similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:27 AM
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And they have massive student loan debt, a huge mortgage that could go underwater at any moment, they're in debt for the cars as well. It's inarguable that living standards have declined drastically compared to what the boomers had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:24 AM
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i've literally never gotten a like on tinder in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:20 AM
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cause you go out with them girls that'll settle for the hoodrat movie theatre i only fw imax type girls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:14 AM
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It costs like $100 to go to the movies and get popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:11 AM
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Ok the point here is that time is money. IF all you care about is sex, then you need to take that into account. If you care about genuine affection and want a real relationship, escorts aren't going to scratch that itch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:10 AM
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That seems way cheaper than a GF if all you care about is getting sex. You really can't put a price on genuine affection but having a GF is usually expensive, and even if she's willing to spend on you you are still going to be spending a lot of time with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:54 AM
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i just think life begins at conception is all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:52 AM
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i am not spending money on her i am just hoping to run into her or a similar woman because i have a tough time with it to the point where i remember a random encounter from 2 years ago plus she held the door for me so if anything she is the simp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:52 AM
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you think she lives with her mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:48 AM
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i dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:48 AM
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In the 2022 election a cute girl came in and voted next to me. She got the door for me on the way out. I didn't know how to start a conversation with her. That is the only reason I am thinking of voting this time. And to restrict her ability to have an abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:11 AM
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Exactly. Work more to buy your transplant. Quit hiding and build a life for yourself, nobody is gonna do it for you. But as a tall man with a full head of hair who really tries not to hide himself, it is still hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:05 AM
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You really need to redirect some of this energy you spend on complaining about being a virgin into something productive. I'd suggest getting a side hustle to pay for a hairtransplant, or at least a dermaroller and minox. It is going to be an uphill battle but it's still possible for bald 26 year old to earn a woman's affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:50 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:26 AM
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Thick looks great on under 25 but after 35 the only hot girls are the ones that leanmaxxed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:06 AM
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In reality I did though and i cannot help it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:21 AM
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I bet scrolling through reddit as a non-virign must be amazing Honestly it truly is amazing. i cannot imagine a better use of my time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:31 AM
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just go on a sex vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:23 AM
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about as attractive as badly faked basketball bimbo tiddies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:55 PM
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Only for whites and to a lesser extent northeast asians
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:24 PM
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you are cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:09 PM
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Not really mutually exclusive if you understand statistics at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:22 AM
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Not even that it's the little things. The 9 volt battery. The single .38 and .22 bullets. The nail clippers. The wallet with the frayed edge. The lotion. The empty modelo. Them melatonin and deodorant. The forgotten sticker next to your jordans
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:28 AM
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fucking brutal bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 03:11 AM
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If they have their ass or pussy hanging out I will stare with no fucks given, just as I'd expect people to look when i paddleboard with my cock hanging out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:34 AM
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I honestly admire that a lot especially if you means youre basically never gonna have sex lmao like if you tried being yourself and it lead you here it's game over
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:08 AM
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yeah i dont really get masculinity but i think being masculine is wanting to do all the work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:07 AM
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so if i prefer woman on top am i cooked?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:14 AM
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What does it mean to be masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:00 AM
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yeah you desperately need to thugmaxx, nonthreatening black guy is like the worst male archetype
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:56 AM
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johnny cash had a song about this i am pretty sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:53 AM
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I respect myself plenty, not buying lunch for someone who, in all likelihood, will bare little resemblance to the pics on their profile. Moot point anyway as I'm never doing OLD again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:04 AM
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damn now that is an incel workstation if I have ever seen one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:57 PM
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This is what coffee dates would be for if I was able to secure them via online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:55 PM
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This is a super good question that women probably aren't capable of answering honestly. My best would be pictures where the guy is towering over other people, pictures that shows the guy has high social status, pictures that show wealth without being crass about it (i haven't any clue on how to do this), pictures that show an amazing physique without looking like you're bragging, and pictures that show you are fun and not intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:29 PM
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while all lovely to you are probably not the most attractive to women. Right but the goal ought to be to show who you really are to find a person you are compatible with, rather than crafting a fake image to appeal to as many people as possible. I don't think anyone out there is in denial that most men's profiles aren't great, but that is tangential to what OP is saying. Most men are looking to meet up with someone, most women on apps really aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:10 PM
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nope but i dont comb my hair over my face or shape my hair to look like i have a chin when i dont
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:08 AM
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running does suck but i can see why they did it: it filters fatties
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:43 AM
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definitely i have no clue what an actual woman looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:41 AM
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not any more natural than never cutting your fingernails. fact is these ugly guys are hiding behind beards then making it their whole personality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:01 AM
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literally me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:02 AM
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i feel like beards and beard culture is so cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:47 AM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:47 AM
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"believe' is a strong word but after deep diving into sighting reports, I think it's a lot more compelling than many people give it credit for. Especially Jeff Meldrum and the Freeman tracks or the thigh jiggle in the patterson film really sells it for me, but no video evidence will ever be considered proof in the popular consciousness. I have really wanted to devote myself to serious scientific inquiry on the subject but I am not going to be a believer until I see one myself. I do think it's wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:47 PM
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what convinced you it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:38 PM
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I think this is already happening. Patriarchy as the only thing that allowed lower tier males to procreate. A lot of inferior bloodlines are gonna die out this century.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 10:37 PM
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well no see not only are the guys in her league messaging her (and everyone else), guys above her league also send her likes because they get nothing from the women in their league. there's is not really anyone to blame in this situation as it is a yin and yang kind of deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:38 PM
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literally me but probably not through being bullied by women yet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:33 PM
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lmao we are talking about the absolute bottom of the barrel women- if you are ugly with severe anxiety what kind of man are you expecting? Actually that's a rhetorical question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:30 PM
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Girls like that can still get multiple dates per month on apps in most places IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:07 PM
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literally me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:18 PM
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Just another victim of the online dating>>>>> approaching randos in the grocery store pipeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:59 PM
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A subset of women are there just for validation. I can agree with this I just think all the ones that I'd actually date are in this category
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:23 PM
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This is def the vibe i get from apps. And tbh I kinda do the same thing. Any remotely attractive woman I see I assume is there just to get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:15 PM
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how much is a fortune
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:14 PM
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girls are still children when they are 50. women that have agency in the same way that men do are the exception, not the rule. nearly all PIV sex is actually rape when you really think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:13 PM
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"girls are still children when they're 18!" is laughably dumb. it's literally not though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:05 PM
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I'm of the opinion that bios never mattered but I am here, and thus obviously not someone you'd want to listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:49 PM
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Is this why dating apps are the way they are? Like preselection is already off the table and they view you as a loser for even being there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:27 PM
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i used to be in a discord with degen spartan before he got famous on twitter wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:53 PM
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best we can do is bankrupting social security and increasing the debt, coupled with more inflation because the mounting debt necessitates rate cuts in order to be serviced americans wont even need a passport to visit brazil because it's coming here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:16 AM
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Correct, it makes you the alpha of the chess club, but not a chad unless you have chad's physical traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:13 AM
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i hate dog owners so fucking much it blows my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:02 AM
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chess club guy is a situational alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:17 AM
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better how?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:18 AM
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my friend cancelled on me, another friday night home alone unless..... should i hit the town solo?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:32 AM
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Don't care, can't help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:18 AM
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Gonna hit the town tonight inshallah. Hands down i am the cutest 40 year old man in my city, possibly the country. I have been talking to a lot more women lately but the last 3 that i can remember were literal 18 year olds. Please give me some tips for surefire success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:07 AM
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busted 10 1 plate nuetral grip pullups
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:59 PM
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correct but if they are malicious it would be extremely naive to assume that those with authority won't take their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:21 PM
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I mean I have read enough of these type of posts to know what an internet white knight sounds like. I have no clue what motivates them but I assume they get treated a lot like you do IRL so they come here to have women be nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:40 PM
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Irrespective of that, I believe his story because similar things have happened to me. There are a significant number of women who get off on behaving like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:39 PM
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I acknowledge that women like you exist. But what y'all generally fail to acknowledge is that women with severe issues also exist and we have know way of knowing who is who before the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:27 PM
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lmao. Not that 40% of women have some mental illness or anything like that. It's totally fine and if anything goes wrong you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:19 PM
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dam with boozer reference really hope you make it homie
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:11 PM
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I just realized this was a thing, but it's pretty common for black barbers to do. I always wondered how they would get their lineups so crispy and I saw in a youtube video they airbrush their fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:05 PM
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lmao how many people total do you think are involved in these stories? Over 100? this is peak reddit hysteria
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:51 PM
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except like literally every urban shithole
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:31 PM
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She was a compettive freediver a while ago but mostly because she is pretty. I met her out diving and she was super pretty and super nice. I have tried getting over it but no suitable replacements and it's been a full year this month.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:26 PM
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It really depends. I can be 20:80 across the whole app but still be 1:100 in the range that you're willing to date in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:25 PM
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My oneitis gets product endorsements. She's a freediver and constantly gets modeling work for diving gear. Fucking sick world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:59 PM
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I consider myself a chad and I just get bodied on dating apps. Not only is it a 10:1 ratio, most of the girls don't seem to actually give a fuck. The ratio of of like actual dateable girls who are looking for a BF is like 1000:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:58 PM
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so glad i dont go to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:15 PM
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you literally could never even interview there and don't even remotely understand what you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:15 PM
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he literally worked at jane street u bum
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:11 PM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:41 AM
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nobody said it was unhygenic the analogy here is that you can engage in a behavior intended to deter a specific group that ends up deterring everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:19 AM
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yeah i dont wash my ass to deter girls who have had abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:03 AM
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how the fuck are you gonna know in the dark? and why do you assume it's as simple as knows/doesn't know? what if he touches his dick then the outside of the condom? anyone can lie on the internet but the above link is pretty damning given how many ppl have hsv2 and that condoms (even when used correctly) barely more effective than a coin flip
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:10 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4725379/ insofar as 65% efficacy is 'safe' when gambling with an incurable disease while trusting a (presumed) stranger to use it properly there's a lie in there somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:50 AM
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i mean the basic probabilities kind of undermine the whole 'consequence free' thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:40 AM
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30+ partners without hsv2 is really impressive!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:30 AM
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I bully women on the internet because i cannot find a healthy bmi tattoo free women to love me IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:22 AM
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I beg to differ. When was the last time you talked to a guy eating alone at a restaurant?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:30 PM
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If you think traveling and eating out and enjoying your own company is "fantasy advice", that's precisely the reason you're having trouble in the first place. Nah what he's saying is that it would work for women, but will not work for men. If a woman does these things, people, and especially men, will come up and approach her. If a man does it, he will be a creepy loner with 0 social proof who women will avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:20 PM
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Really neat comment and seems to line up with my experience. People always say the 'there are plenty of short girls out there XD!' which completely glosses over the actual issue-- for men, height=looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:17 PM
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All excellent points. In group/ out group dynamics are absolutely brutal and almost never discussed in mainstream society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:06 PM
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Agreed, except with the going alone part. Being alone is going to lower your success rate substantially. Social proof is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:38 PM
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I feel like most men who use instagram are giving attention, while most women are receiving it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:18 PM
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This is where I am at with it as well. There are women that are great in their jobs and also where those jobs require direct competition with men-- such as lawyers, stock traders, and the like. A woman that succeeds in those fields has earned it. My issue is that many are in make-work jobs that provide 0 value to the organization or society as a whole, or are taking positions away from more qualified men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:49 PM
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obese elderly women are getting way more matches than top tier men be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:25 PM
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what clue do you have about my swiping habits? the reality of dating apps is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 03:13 PM
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they already know you will take what you can get lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 02:59 PM
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taking advantage of a power dynamic isn't the same as 'to take advantage of people who from your perspective are innocent'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:31 AM
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i dont think you are wrong at all. but i think most people already do this after getting burned once. not even a gendered thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:13 AM
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Yeh living there until you were 8 doesn't give you much insight. Me being a polish american doesn't give me much insight into poland. You spoke on 'traditonal women' but i don't think there is such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:53 PM
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You're basically a gyopo and have no real clue about dating in Korea IMO. The idea that Korean aren't having sex before marriage is pretty laughable to me as a person that lived there as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:48 PM
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how long did you live in korea
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:35 PM
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just went to the grocery store. seen a jacked 5'2 guy getting out of a lifted truck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:22 AM
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science has proven that life begins at conception
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:35 PM
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and this is why i hate meatheads lmao you literally cannot conceive of any type of physical fitness beyond lifting metal up and own
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:56 PM
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what makes you think i am unattractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:54 PM
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Looking cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:36 PM
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I'm not against dating a woman my age if she looks 25. It's just most look like shit and act like even bigger shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:54 PM
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fat people annoy me so much
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:19 AM
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drop out of college
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:57 AM
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MA is a egregious lmao what a fucking shithole
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:35 AM
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You're just describing specific facets of the broader phenomenon of progressive newspeak.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:07 AM
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every dollar i have given away selflessly has come back to me tenfold
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:05 AM
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give it to an unhoused person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:44 PM
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For real not even on dating stuff i made more friends in a day in Brazil than i would in a year at home
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:41 PM
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you get taken more seriously in the same way that buying 2 lottery tickets doubles your chances of hitting the jackpot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:52 PM
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Oh no! I am DYEL! I do genuinely think lifting weights is a pathetic hobby, but especially so for short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:36 PM
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You don't look strong though, you look like an overcompensating elf.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 02:17 PM
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she is lowkey right these days totally unattractive overweight women legit feel like they can do better than just a male model
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:34 AM
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in america outside of manhattan
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:45 AM
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sorry i just don't think the same self destructive mentality is present in other groups, or at least not NEARLY to the same extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:44 AM
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nope just annoyed by meathead weightlifters and their cringe ass hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:38 AM
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yah i paddle so i get both and look way more aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:32 AM
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2pac pretty much perfectly encapsulates my beef with young black males in the usa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:31 AM
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a necessary evil. probably less so for non americans but here you are going to be judged primarily on your car.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:30 AM
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it's not though. literally every wieghtlifter i know is on gear or views weightlifting as the end all be all of human existence, you can see them write this 'well lol how much do you bench' type crap every day here lmao the bottom line is that pretty much every other type of athlete has a more aesthetic physique anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:30 AM
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for me weightlifting is so cringe, one way street to body dysmorphia and generally being a freak
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 01:14 AM
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not so fast there timmy we just get their number on the first message then unmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:11 PM
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1 part shadow 2 parts weighted ring dips
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:49 PM
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please dont bully me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:48 PM
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The actual percentages are much closer to 0 though. If you self-actualize and had a great base to start (tall) with you might get up to 10% rejection rate but I feel like is optimistic. There just aren't enough cute girls to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:55 PM
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illegal/legal distinction doesn't mean a whole lot to me personally. The hart-celler act was a passed with the promise that it wouldn't change the ethnic makeup of the US, 2 generations later and whites are a minority in many places, and the same story is happening in nearly every white country. it is genocide and nobody should have to endure it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:03 PM
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project 2025 is qanon, great replacement is a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:51 PM
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right but you're aware of the sitewide moderations principles so you gotta refine your technique if you want to share your thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:37 AM
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you're acting like a sperg. the real challenge is to take it as far as possible without getting banned or even maintaining a positive comment score. this is gonna take some finesse if you're going against the mainstream opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:30 AM
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She says it's emasculating ( I am not sure about the definition of this word). It always made me feel like more of a man when a girl was willing to spend money on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:26 AM
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stick my pistol in his face and threaten to have him deported
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:19 AM
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it's a woman that for some reason thinks chauffeuring men, buying them dinner, and having sex with them makes them feel bad... I think?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:16 AM
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I have literally never felt any way about it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:57 AM
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most of the top 5 nuts I have ever busted have been oral
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:33 AM
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i'm too insecure for either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:01 AM
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If they go them to please their partners, i would view their partners negatively. I think it's more likely that they're getting them for internet points.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:20 AM
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I am down for it I just don't like the idea of people criticizing me or chiming in to say 'yeah you look OK but I prefer dadbods' type comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:19 AM
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i mean i didn't stick around long enough to listen to her I just see a gross looking woman and zone out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:16 AM
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You have to communicate status to establish your position in the hierarchy. This is one of those things many ppl understand intuitively but can never be spoken aloud. Many autists and the autistic adjacent will just ignore it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:34 PM
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you have no clue what you are talking about lmao. i look at her and do not see a sexual entity period
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:31 PM
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Yeah the way i feel about it if you are calling a grown man cute you are not being polite. Comes off like a neg to me, but some dudes are cute though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:22 PM
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we also have a lot of armed psychos with literally nothing to lose who are looking for a reason to snap
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:19 PM
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i just cannot take her seriously. like imagine an ugly fat bald broke short guy complaining bitching about women being whores or something and that's how this feels to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:18 PM
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literally me and every guy i know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:11 PM
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Even then you are rarely getting approached. Getting invited to approach is a far more accurate descriptor of this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:15 PM
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They are like tupperware parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:42 AM
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I was not interested in dating after my divorce in 2019. I barely got any attention from women (I barely see women). I started going out and exercising in 2022. After a year of that, I realized I looked to good to not be dating. I made a hinge and failed miserably. I started looking into how to date which led me to redpill videos and it was a revelation. Then I got into reddit dating subs and realized that the odds are really stacked against me and it'll be extremely tough for me to get a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:06 PM
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I really don't agree. MGTOW content has always been and will always be centered around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:00 PM
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was ready to jump down your throat until I saw the word 'eventually' lol. masterful comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:42 PM
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Love without a doubt. I'd happily settle for sex twice and a year and blowjobs on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:27 PM
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Very insightful, thank you. I feel like this could have been a top level reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:59 PM
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I am just saying every time someone has tried to get me to have group sex it's has been a black person and OP mentioned charleston white so
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:25 PM
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I think this more common in African American culture. I had one friend that made me do this (he was white but his brother was half black and he lived in a black neighborhood). He had a gf at the time and I failed to become aroused as the girl was gross and he had not informed me of this plan ahead of time. The only other experience I had with it was when I had a black roommate in NYC and him and his cousin were fucking 3 girls in the bathroom of our apartment, He said he did in there becuase he …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:17 PM
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I never once made an excuse though LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:24 PM
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Have no clue what this reply is even about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 07:12 PM
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You're reaching here. Your experience bagging groceries is not gonna help you get an entry level job. Your original point about social proof is really good. But the counterpoint that it's almost impossible to get social proof without social proof is also very fuckin valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:37 PM
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IT really do be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:35 PM
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I mean I agree 100% but OP was specific that 'your physical safety is rarely threatened'. It's kind of pedantic but it's valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:24 PM
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I agree with this but have you ever feared for your safety in one of these scenarios?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:19 PM
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Just the world we live in boyo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:18 PM
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Yes. I can believe that you'll happily snub a 6-7 out of 10 man. This doesn't cause me to suspend my disbelief. But to expect me that you'll turn your nose up at the most beautiful guy that you've ever seen is just too much for me to read and not comment on expressing my disbelief.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:13 PM
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Yeah that's the old 'just be happy' type energy. I need to be medicated but the side effects of medication are unacceptable to me. I can try to work through it with exposure, but as the top comment in this thread astutely points out, without social proof this is bordering on impossible. Once you become a loner it takes a monumental amount of luck to break out of it, unless you are a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:10 PM
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You are correct I am not convinced this is anything other than you writing what you wish was true. I get that many women are insane people by my standards, but even in light of that it's tough for me to even entertain the idea that an available women would turn down a conversation from an authentically beautiful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:05 PM
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Sure fair enough. I am awkward and nervous talking to people in general, not just women. But the halo effect is strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:02 PM
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Gotta disagree on this one. Anytime a girl in a group is trying to get me to talk to her, I assume she's doing it to establish dominance over her besties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:00 PM
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I just can't fathom that if an authentic 9+ male starts a conversation with a woman that literally posts on PPD she's going to get the ick off principle. LIke I definitely believe that this scenario does not happen in real life, but I cannot believe that a single woman would snub this hypothetical guy off principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:59 PM
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Ok how often has one of the 5 best looking guys in your city approached you lmao? Sorry but this is just a power fantasy on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:57 PM
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Much like how undesirable loser males come here with fake bravado, undesirable women post their power fantasies as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:51 PM
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It's also worth noting that 'choosing signals' are not a guarantee. Some girls out there will do this just get the ego boost or to flex on their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:49 PM
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no matter how "hot" the guy is. sorry gotta call bs on this. like hot guys pretty much realize they don't have to stoop to these tactics but I can't imagine you actually expect people to believe this hypothetical
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:46 PM
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I only saw one wtf, just him holding the dog
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:10 PM
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Nice you got any more? also how old is this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:08 PM
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'enter' is an awful choice of words here. Do you mean 'visit' or do you mean 'move to'?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:05 PM
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Can we see the pictures you are using? I always wonder if professional photos work better or if they are candid chads
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:00 PM
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Yeah i can never reveal my political beliefs to anyone IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:42 AM
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oh sorry meant to make this a top level comment dont know why i replied to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:50 AM
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my shitpost brings all the whiteknights to the yard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:19 AM
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For sure some fields aren't outright evil and are necessary to get good results. Social 'sciences' are a plague on humanity tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:11 PM
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academia is a ponzi scheme
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:06 PM
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bro it sucks so bad simultaneously resenting women for not liking you but obsessing over them constantly even when you don't want to. it seems impossible to even locate a decent looking single woman, the older you get, the harder it gets
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:01 PM
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Were the jeans tight enough to see their cock prints?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:34 PM
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muh secret coven
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:02 PM
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omg in a time stop gun situation I'd agree it's 100
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:50 AM
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Ok was mostly asking about the "sean o' aspie' thing I thought it was a meme I dind't get it. I know who he is and have seen him IRL before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:53 PM
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Yeah stayed in isolation for 2 years for exactly that reason because I didn't want to have to deal with psycho masktards and it fucked me up permanently. They objectively did nothing and it was obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:49 PM
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Can you expalin more about this? would love to read it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:38 PM
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You are a hero. I live in a blue city in a red county. In town people were all in on restrictions and total insanity, but in the outlying towns none of the rituals were observed at all outside of government services. There was no appreciable difference in case rates or fatalities. The whole thing was such a fucking farce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:31 PM
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And they did nothing then either. You don't remember when they pivoted to double masking because it became inarguable the restrictions did nothing? You don't remember when they finally acquiesced and told everyone to just wear an N95 to protect yourself? They knew aerosolized virus was the primary mode of transmission before any restriction or mandate was issued. Facial coverings that aren't hermetically sealed DO FUCK ALL lol. This is completely inarguable and born out by the data again and aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 10:29 PM
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I will dm you a link if you promise not to share i am too nervous in light of the controversial comments i have in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:51 PM
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So literally right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:16 PM
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This is the biggest problem for me. I am a early millennial that was in the first wave of facebook users when it was still limited to colleges. I can remember pre 9/11 life. I met my exwfie around the time insta came out. Now I am attempting to date post covid/swipe app world. There is literally no comparison between these eras.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:08 PM
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What's the best time of day to do a face/body reveal for max visibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:59 PM
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hope you can retire from posting here once you have a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:41 PM
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congrats bro i am rooting for you you seem like a good lad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:40 PM
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yeah being real with you i have no clue how to start conversations like this unless I am hammered in which case i just blurt shit out, but women don't know how to do this either which is why they always ask you if you are using a machine even when they know you are not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:22 PM
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I went to UF and moved to NYC after college, then moved abroad. I just can't believe that you'd claim to work at bar and deny that this happens but i guess it's different for women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:20 PM
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Just grab her by the pussy. When you are rich and famous, they let you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:01 PM
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I'm about as a passive as guy possible and I can recall at least twice offhand where i have fought people in bars for putting their hands on my gf. I feel like you're grossly exaggerating your experience or live in some weird country or something
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:56 PM
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When you are working at those bars did you ever see a someone get into a fight for hitting on another guys girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 07:44 PM
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listen to your dad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:32 PM
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how could i have possibly have known about that tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:31 PM
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YIKES
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:29 PM
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I don't think it's weird at all. I think people that claim totally platonic friendship are full of shit usually. Women have orbiters, men are orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:26 PM
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the real question is why you'd ruin a body like that with a tattoo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:25 PM
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Wow sounds like most of those approaches are unsuccessful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:22 PM
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Women need to take the lead beyond giving signals or doing feigned helplessness. I want to a football game this weekend. Women came and occupied every seat around me, none spoke to me. I am an abnormally attractive guy (agency repped model in 2 of the big 4) that's gets IOIs nearly everywhere I go. I noticed the girls next to me had an empty bottle of water and I was drunk so I went got them one when I refilled my beer. It turned out they had another full bottle of water but couldn't open it but…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:12 PM
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When you put it like that it's about the same but I feel like you are being unnecessarily harsh to prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:06 AM
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Nope. Speak for yourself. Disfigured, mentally ill, and even homeless people have partners and participate in society. You are objectively wrong. lmao what percentage of women are willing to date those people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:04 PM
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The alternative is not gaslighting people. If you keep getting rejected because you have one leg, you should take it personally. There is no 'keep grinding until your leg grows back'. It's always kind of assumed that the guy is getting rejected over something addressable, but it's usually not IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:56 PM
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It's literally like trying to explain the color red to a blind person. You cannot change ugly. You cannot wish mental illness away. Some people really don't have hope for reproduction and it's literally evil to try to convince them that there is hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:44 PM
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Nobody is looking for a guy with a recessed chin, crossed eyes, an amputated arm, or pretty much any mental illness. You have to understand how stupid these platitudes sound to people that have lived with this reality for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:34 PM
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Yes that is a very good example. I acknowledge that that is possible. The problem is you are rarely going to get feedback, and if someone tells you that (i only date brunettes) they are probably just letting you down easy. Some people just aren't very attractive physically. Others have unique personalities that repel other people. Both are pretty much cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:30 PM
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I'm saying it's irrational for you to conclude that just because one person doesn't like your hair that everyone doesn't. It kinda depends on if your hair is terrible or not. Everyone has flaws. Not everyone has enough good about them to the point where people will overlook their flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:17 PM
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Exactly. Your voice is pretty much unchangeable. And it just might be that EVERYONE hates your voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:04 PM
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Since the reason you may have been rejected isn’t because of something inherently wrong with you as a person. ummm it almost always is though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:01 PM
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but almost every guy has a wedding pic and traveling pic, lotta guys post in front of their cars etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 01:20 AM
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this is how i feel about being beauitful as well except i feel like i earned it by being a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:43 PM
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most school districts will pay you more for a worhtless masters in education tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:42 PM
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maybe they just mad they don't get iois i am in the same boat as you. i wrote in yesterday's thread i went to a football game alone. i am very insecure about don't this. i ended up being literally surrounded by women. none of them spoke to me but all seemed to want me to choose them over the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:41 PM
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Put all points into income generation. Divorce, alimony, then marry a girl with all points in the first two and hire a maid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:03 PM
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i would date a widow no prob
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:21 PM
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go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:33 AM
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ya it's just if you genuinely fucking offend people while trying to be nice to them at some point you give up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:58 AM
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So i went to a football game by myself for the first time. My seats were right next to 2 muslim girls, one in hijab and the other with her hair out but still modestly dressed. After a few minutes some spanish/portugeuese older ladies ending up sitting next to me on the other side. Then a single mom and her daughter sat in front of me. I was surrounded by women; terrified. None of them spoke to me. I noticed the muslim girls had an empty water bottle so i bought them a bottle of water when i repl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:21 AM
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It's exactly like job hunting. Would you rather hire someone that didn't stay in one place for more than a week, or someone who held down a job for 5 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:20 AM
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dude on this sub like numerous girls complain about having been hit on or leered at when they were in middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:50 PM
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what's her bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:49 PM
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Like i said I am female gaze optimized
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:03 PM
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Yes i have severe anxiety and genuinely don't like socializing in person. I was born with an elite eye area and very good jawline, and it's very easy for me to stay at sub10% bodyfat without trying. The only thing I really lack physically is height. My biggest issue is that I cannot manifest healthy bmi tattoo free women of an acceptable age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:41 PM
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my physique is already optimized for the female gaze
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:34 PM
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I will try the broadcasting thing and see if it makes a difference thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:33 PM
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wow thank you i have been trying for a year to get a gf and it never occurred to me to try walking around before
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:26 PM
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Yeah in the same way that pregnancy is hard on men too rofl
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:19 PM
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Just keep grinding in the gym until your autism goes away
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:12 PM
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The bottom line is that it's not a major impediment for a women finding relationships, whereas the majority of autistic men will never date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:09 PM
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this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:28 AM
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I mean I agree with all that but I still can't wrap my head around this specific issue. Like do they actually believe what they are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:06 AM
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I believe those type of things happen... it's why clubs have bouncers. I just doubt it 'generally' happens or that men follow you home every time you get catcalled. From the jump you're kind of making it about 'who gets catcalled more' and of course and average looking woman experiences it more than a good looking guy. But I bring it up because women that don't catcall tend to not believe it or minmize because they can't imagine it, and the same is true for men who don't catcall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:17 PM
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lmao seriously? men generally follow you home screaming about your body? please be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:04 PM
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i really want to mog ppl tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:57 PM
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Well usually when I am thirst trapping I am paddling and they are just swimming so thankfully i can just paddle away from them. But never, the answer is never. No idea why that is relevant though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:52 PM
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It's hard to believe because it's wrong. You said originally you wore baggy clothes but got hit on twice, but I have nothing to compare it to. I am a grown man and I get catcalled by middle schoolers so I can relate to what you go through I guess. But what I'd like to ask you is first- Do you think that streetwalking prostitutes dress more proactively than the average woman? And if so, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:46 PM
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But you haven't proven that clothes don't matter at all, just that no clothing choice can reduce male attention to 0. The real question is, how much do you get hit on when you dress as slutty as possible compared to when you are actively trying to discourage the male gaze? The answer is obvious. Which is why streetwalking prostitutes dress a certain way, and why girls tend to show skin in environments where they are trying to court male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:35 PM
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I am a guy and I thirst trap IRL all the time. I go paddleboarding a few times a week where i know the girls are out and they often will catcall me or wave. I do it on purpose because it's funny and I enjoy the attention. If I didn't want it to happen, I'd wear a UV shirt. It is really difficult for me to understand why women deny that the same principles apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:28 PM
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boiled slikworm pupae
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:18 PM
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Wish there was a flair for guys who are under 6' so i could know to ignore them but usually the insecurity bleeds through in their posts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:01 PM
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I do not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:02 PM
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It's just bullshit is all. Women get with guys that don't respect them at all quite literally all the time. One's opinions on women and one's ability to attract women are totally uncorrelated. Like literally most womanizers don't respect women a whole lot, and yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:01 PM
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I am saying your beliefs, while absurd, are widely held and oft repeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:54 PM
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ya the old 'women can use their intuition to understand your reddit post history' trope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:49 PM
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Or pop scientists for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:35 PM
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s if your actions and energy aren’t clearly indicating why. It's just not though. It's like when they say 'all women want is to be respected' and then get with guys who disrespect them repeatedly. The two things are totally unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:31 PM
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I honestly think that is a intellectually honest summary of this post and I mostly agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:19 PM
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You think men will pay for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:52 PM
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i mean you don't it's just progessive religious brainwashing forced upon wagecucks via HR stooges
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:16 PM
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Are guys that doomscroll reddit dating subs really that much better than some insta-addicted doomscroller attention whore women? I feel like were two sides of the same coin just the side with the less marketable image
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:13 PM
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but if you were underage and trying to break the law by fucking 25+ year olds something is mentally not right. I think about this a lot. I am approaching middle age but underage girls hit on me more blatantly than any other group of female women. It's almost always assumed that it is some old perv forcing himself on a naive little girl playing with her dollies. IMO this is way, way more common than nonchads realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:11 PM
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I get some legit chadstruck moments, some catcalls/waves, a lot of IOIs, and sometimes girls even try to talk to me (uber rare) but none of this translates into sex or relationships for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:01 PM
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I think it's fine as long as you are not leading people on. Just see who you match with but don't get anyone's hopes up or bully people, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:38 AM
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not if her friends are not admirable people, and many people aren't. I personally am a shit influence on my friends who are in relationships I am just a big enough person to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:37 AM
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ok it's be tall good looking rich well-respected fashionable and smart
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:31 AM
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No bro, I actually also figured out how to make any woman fall in love with any man... I just don't feel like typing it up right now it's a lot of work but anyone can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:28 AM
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that's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:41 PM
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how tall we talking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:29 PM
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If one were attempting to manifest a GF (healthy BMI no tats), how would one go about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:19 PM
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yeah gymcel rhetoric upsets me honestly. like if you are talking to a gamer I get it. but telling a lonely dude that climbs mountains or runs distance or surf or does jui jistu 'just squat 1.5x your bodyweight or your lazzy bro' just kind of underscores how myopic gymcel culture is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:18 PM
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Exactly there are plenty of ways to get strong and actually enjoy yourself while developing a physique that appeals to people besides other closeted gay masochists meathead culture is pathetic and ultimately self destructive while wrapping itself in this banner of 'taking care of my vessel' while blasting tren and drinking blended up boiled chicken
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 10:01 PM
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i would be mad too lmao goofiest 'hobby' out there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:49 PM
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weightlifting is cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:37 PM
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Some women settle, some women don't. Being high status is like being good looking, it helps a lot. But IDK anyone has sincerely said being ugly or low status will prevent you from ever finding love, it will just not result in a lot of appealing options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:57 PM
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Honestly women up to age 45 count as long as they are healthy BMI and look 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:04 PM
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lmao spoken like a true virgin.... getting dominated in front of your girl is not a situation you can recover from
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:47 PM
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I have both looks and height. Guys like this can straight up punk me. If we are talking swiping on dating apps, sure. But If I take a my first date to the bar, and this guy is there, I am pretty much at his mercy. He could absolutely make me look like a punk if he wanted to, and since he already has face tats, chances are he indifferent to jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:28 PM
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It's the truth. It's like Tony Soprano. Even if you are 6'2 with a perfect face, you just don't look like a man next to that. He could (and probably would) snap a male model type in half. Women love that energy on a primal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:20 PM
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guys like that absolutely mog prettyboys IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:59 PM
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by whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:34 PM
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and they are just picky 5's because you know they are getting asked out several times per week just going about their business
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:45 AM
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Meanwhile if a woman has tons of matches, has sugar dads, attractive or successful/tall ex boyfriends, has tons of followers on tiktok, experiences pretty privilege etc, she still can’t call herself an “8”. She can call herself whatever she wants, but the mere act of garnering male attention is not an indication of attractiveness, much in the same way that a lack of female attention indicates a lack of attractiveness. Women get attention no matter what; women rarely let attractive guys know that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:28 PM
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Yeah I read the average woman in America is 5'4 and weights 170 lbs lmao. Revolting stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:20 PM
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is that what they are doing though? like if a woman sent me unsolicited tit pics I wouldn't say she is demanding to nurse me. And if they were aesthetic tits I would think it's cool. I really struggle to think of any hetero woman being upset by a pic of an aesthetically perfect, juicy dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:53 AM
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I don't have any problem with this as long as they aren't conversing with people. IMO many of the actual women are doing the same thing. It feels good to get likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:01 PM
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The real test of it is using gender swapped pictures of yourself, rather than a random guy. I feel like a lot of women out there would see their looksmatch and be physically repulsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:55 PM
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You probably are just misinterpreting the signals. Not every guy that talks to you is gonna ask you for sex, some of them are much more subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:40 AM
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I have always felt my problem is that I am too handsome to have a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:12 AM
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probably got hit on a ton and just didn't pick up the signals
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:54 AM
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You can get approached without them asking your number or for a date though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:01 AM
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woman moment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:46 PM
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dam this is the best response i have ever gotten on this sub cheers you are gonna make iit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:54 PM
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few understand this but deep down most women desire to be murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:51 PM
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wow i finally understand masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:10 PM
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yeah fiscally responsibility and temperance for thee, leverage and coke for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:54 AM
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society is going to coddle the banks when they go bust again just like they did the last time all this behavior you are seeing is the inevitable outcome of keynesian stimulus
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:46 AM
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I really don't think so all the women i know get approached, even while pumping gas and stuff. the key factor is them being alone tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:17 AM
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i'm convinced therapy advice is literally no better on average than the advice you get from randoms here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:13 AM
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I do not think so. I think below average women seem a lot more attainable to the average guy. Really I think any woman, anywhere by herself will be approached, and this might have to do with why there are so few of them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:04 AM
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'Bowing up' is puffing your chest out before a fight. 'Why are you bowing up at me"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:46 AM
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swing and a miss I 'm still not gonna respond to you and don't expect any responses after this either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:48 PM
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not even going to respond to this comment either, just not worth my time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:18 PM
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i can see you are not even worth responding to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:12 PM
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Yeah but they are still coming here lol. I know I am a fucking loser. Coming here to brag about your successful relationship or how easy things actually are really makes me question how well adjusted they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:02 PM
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when was the last time you got mogged IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:59 PM
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What about a single 40 year old that's trying to date college students? Cause I am kind of with you, if I wasn't in the dating scene I would not have any fucking interest in these topics whatsoever and really can't wrap my head around why married people post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:17 PM
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you followed up to her so figured you were at least reachable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:46 PM
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And it's also not how hinge works lol. I have never hit the match limit but it's way more than 5. In fact, all the incentive is on the side of matching with people you are kind of on the fence about because the free version only lets you view one profile at a time, so if you want to see your other likes you have to either match or reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:57 PM
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Maybe, but at least i have a healthy bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:56 AM
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Sorry to say that i disagree. Anything over 21 and a man is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:50 AM
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healthy is generally understood to be 19-21
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:40 AM
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OK what about the 50th junkie of the day and he's aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:28 AM
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Yeah reading this I couldn't help but note to how it's like the similar catch-22 in the job market. You need experience to get experience, and it's way easier to get a job when you have a job. Everyone knows that once you have hoes (or friends for that matter ) it's way easier to get more. Going from 0 to 1 is comparatively much easier than going from 5 to 10. Often being outright deceptive is the only way to get over the hump.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:54 AM
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That's the first step for sure. But it takes more than just physical attraction. You also have to be the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:51 AM
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Who can truly say? I just keep living and keep getting the same results
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:47 AM
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The question isn't whether it's hard or not. I personally don't feel obligated to be kind to a delusional and disgusting looking person. Were it not for women being brutal to me, I might have never taken the initiative to improve myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:24 AM
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I am assuming this is because no women ever approach you. Not trying to neg you on this, but if you are getting IOI's from 15 average to good women every day, an uggo is going to be unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:10 AM
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Honestly it's not just apps, real life is exactly like this. Every woman I meet in the wild is in a relationship, every guy i meet is single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:08 AM
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mind explaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:17 PM
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Honestly you are not that far off. I always felt like a good portion of the women, especially the good looking ones, weren't 'catfishing' per se but weren't actually trying to date anyone either. And it's probably fair that a lot of the guys are embellish their jobs or their heights. I'm not matching with anyone or trying to scam them, just seeing what kind of likes i get and what the other guys in my city are like. Def a lot of dudes i would be down to grab a beer with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:13 PM
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honestly anyone that is willing to put their face out there deserves props
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:10 PM
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nor should they really, it's like the tall good-looking guy telling the 5'4 recessed chin dude that women are attracted to confidence. they fundamentally dont get it because it's not their job to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:46 PM
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yeah so over the weekend i made a hinge profile with gender swapped pics of myself it is so fucking far beyond over it's almost incomprehensible. women will really never understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:41 PM
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yeah my mom mogs me on dating apps to the point of absurdity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:35 PM
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no job and family
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:34 PM
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but i am genetically superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:32 PM
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yeah i mean the fact that i am asking is an outright admission that i am not one but i was under the impression that it was attainable for the average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:19 PM
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Any practical advice to become an alpha male?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:14 PM
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Finally saw a healthy BMI woman with no tattoos. Was so excited I got butterflies in my stomach and swam away from her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:53 PM
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we could might as well argue that men have natural urges to rape people. All PIV sex is rape. But in all seriousness I'd argue 99% of humans born were born to rapists and pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:58 PM
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What's weird about it? I think they are disgusting and indicative of high time preference as well as an affront to good taste in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:48 AM
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idk where you are at but where I live healthy BMI women with 0 tattoos don't fall out of the sky
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:54 AM
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Up until this point in my life i would have said no but now I am desperate and don't feel like I'll ever get a gf so I would go ahead with after they are married because in my state his name will be on the birth cert regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:02 AM
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My dad had a polish grandfather and thus is eligible for polish citizenship. I asked him to apply 10 years ago, he never did. Really sucks being trapped in the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:45 AM
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i think the last girl might have had a healthy bmi but shirt was too billowy to say oh wait just saw its des moines you are really stretching the 'major city' thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:58 AM
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It's honestly not that common. My experience was there are way more chads than stacies on apps, and IMO to me the stacies on there REALLY dont seem like they are actually there to date. Maybe they are just some guy stacyfishing as well cause that's how they act. As a woman I got way, way more incoming likes from quality partners. As a man I got 1 or 2
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:34 PM
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I'm literally using genderswapped pics of myself just to see what my experience would be as a woman. Got about 100 likes in a weekend within 10 miles of me. As a man I would get like 30 likes the first week within 100 miles, with most being not in a healthy BMI or heavily tattooed, and that's with super curated photos. As a stacy I just did bathroom selfies and 1 modeling picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:32 PM
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literally me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:09 PM
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My stacyfish has seemingly exhausted all quality options in my area in a single weekend. Likes have slowed way down and are no longer tall high income guys. Best overall incoming like was a 24 year old 6'5 attorney with a very good-looking face and lean physique. Runners up were a 27 year old, 6'1 pro golfer with an above average visage and 6 pack, and a 27 year old 6'3 dermatologist with exceptional photos and a pretty handsome face. A good 20% were maybe 1 tier below this with 3 out of 4 for l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:52 PM
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Listen if I ever ingest any sugar at all I will balloon to over 10% bodyfat and thus will be completely and totally irrelevant to the opposite sex enjoy your privilege and diabetes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:07 PM
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sugar is literally poison
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:57 PM
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when i lived there i would see more beautiful women in a single day than I do in a year here, plus my looks was more rare and desirable there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:49 PM
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At this stage in my life I need to be pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:46 PM
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not just passive aggressive, people (usually one guy with his buddies for backup) would straight up start shit with me. I finally broke down and started doing strength training and overeating so people would treat me better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:10 PM
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Nobody really goes there own way. They are sent their own way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:06 PM
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sometimes i worry that this how women expect you to behave when you look good enough to get away with it and when you try to act humble it makes them sick
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:28 PM
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I mean my city it's own place and I have no idea if every city is like this, but I think there are like 10x as many men on hinge than women, and most of the women that are sincerely using it to date aren't that pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:24 PM
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trying to find a healthy bmi woman with no tattoos is like trying to find sasquatch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:01 PM
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If 'wealthy' means living middle class without having to work, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:57 PM
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I posted the pic I am using below ITT, you can get a good idea of what I look like as a man. Women NEVER offer me sex on apps. At least in my town the game is simply unwinnable for men. Having now seen both sides, there are enough tall, decent looking, in shape, and have high tier careers that any decent looking women could fill up her calendar with 6/6/6 guys with relative ease. This shit is cooked even for chads imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:49 PM
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The thing about chadfishing is that it's not super scieintific. I am not saying it's totaly useless, but given there is no real chad behind the account you can never really know if the girls are going to follow through or not. They guy behind the account is always going to be more bold than a real chad would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:37 PM
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One day with a genderswapped profile on hinge has really made me never want to use hinge again. I am 6'1 and rarely see guys taller than me in the wild, yet I have gotten likes from multiple doctors that are over 6'2 within 18 hours. Been swiping for hours and I rarely see a guy claiming below 6'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:32 PM
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the only thing i struggle with is finding actually finding healthy bmi women with no tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:27 PM
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Yeah this is definitely my problem. Whenever I talk to good looking women they generally give me the time of day it's just there are so few of them and it never seems appropriate. The older I get the less of a social circle I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:58 PM
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Yeah it could be or you could just be an out of shape woman that is projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:55 PM
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I really dont think so. I get shirtless gym selfies, but tasteful beach pics or diving pictures can show the goods without being crass. for every girl that auto left swipes a shirtless pic, there's another one left swiping for not having one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:38 AM
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I kind of did this to the last girl that approached me and it was mostly because I was shy, but partly because she was acting like she needed my help instead of being direct
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:26 AM
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I faceapped my pics into a woman and made a hinge once I saw this thread. It seems like 7/8 guys have shirtless pic with a 6pack. Most of the profiles I have seen have been in medicine. Not many guys have great looking face but there was a 6'5 attorney that had a very nice face. I have gotten 20 likes within a half hour on a friday night. My photos are pretty obviously AI and my prompts are no under 6' or androids. I can definitely how this would be too much choice but HOLY FUCK this is a drasti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:21 AM
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Probably not you personally but these women definitely exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 01:07 AM
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I'm not doing it for the money I have other income sources I just really have a hard time meeting women and I know they be at ulta
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:11 AM
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That is funny but I could definitely look like lowkey belong working at Ulta
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:32 PM
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like i am thinking about working at ulta to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:16 PM
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Ladies would you go out with a man that worked at Ulta?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:08 PM
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You have no idea how great it feels being topless in the park on a sunny day. You just gotta go for it most men will be too shy to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:58 PM
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No, not talking about dates, but just casually bringing up that she has an account when it's clear she is aware of a man's presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:48 PM
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This is the best answer I got to this one thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:47 PM
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Yeah but what if there are 3 guys working at macdonalds and 2 of them have masters degrees? Does the degree itself confer status?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:32 PM
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When random girls mention their hinge accounts when a cute guy walks into their proximity are they trying to get approached? Or is the guy mentally ill for even thinking this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:23 PM
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Is status just another word for income? I struggle with this concept. Maybe a better way of saying it is 'are any low income people high status in adult life"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:15 PM
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I saw a post on 4chan that said simply "women owe me sex". I thought it was a troll at first. Who could be that entitled? But the more I thought about it, the more it affected me. I cried. I wept like some grandmother. I wanted to tear my teeth out. I didn’t know what I wanted to do. And I want to remember it. I never want to forget it. I never want to forget. And then I realized… like I was shot… like I was shot with a diamond… a diamond bullet right through my forehead. And I thought: My God… …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:59 PM
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Yeah I said I am nervous when I meet new men, you never know who people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:32 PM
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It is all good I am just trying to expand my social circle. I get nervous when asking guys for their number. The fact that she was quick to point this out renewed my hope that i could someday meet a girl that will politely let guys know she has someone someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:12 PM
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Today is the second day this week a female freediver talked to me, despite this typically being a once every 4 months type of occurrence. I took photos of this chick and got her phone number, which is the first woman's phone number I have gotten since 2012. Despite being heavily tattooed and outside of the healthy BMI range, she was quick to inform me that she was going to be married soon.... maybe a shit test? Anyway big thank you to everyone here for all your help!! Amazing day of photography,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:05 PM
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tell that to the last hinge date i went on who snickered at my accord
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:30 AM
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I have been a good person. I have helped others when I could. I don't even pray for myself, I just ask god to help those who need. Yet I still do not have a cute thick redbone gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:28 AM
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Fashion is a whole different thing. It's not though. Both are both external means of expressing one's personality through consumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:22 AM
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it do feel like that sometimes one posted a pic and i was like she was lowkey bad really made me questions things. if i was a healthy bmi caramel black woman with nice hips i would like to think the last thing i would be doing is debating with incels
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:19 AM
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Strong disagree. Much like fashion, your choices say a lot about you. Just because you don't give a shit about fashion, it doesn't mean others aren't drawing conclusions about you based on your choices or what your outfit conveys. The average american is 100% going to make judgements about you based on what you drive. I live in an area where masculinity is defined by guys driving lifted trucks or donks with giant rims on them, depending on what part of town they are from. Saying "i'm driving thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:44 AM
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You literally post on PPD don't you ever try to flex on me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:36 AM
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I said that for a very long time but at this point I am just too tired of masturbating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:31 AM
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because everyone judges you on your car, it's literally the #1 status signal in American society. even if you don't care how people perceive you, it is going to affect your life. sad world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:24 AM
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Bodyshaming men is given the green light in almost any situation. Dude just yesterday there was a thread here with a ton of fat girls saying how they prefer dad bods. Some men will say they prefer fat women because they know that's what they have to settle for, same with girls that like short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:42 PM
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this implies that I cna't observe that and thus signals low value
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:37 PM
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if they aren't alone i am too scared to approach so this one is a nonstarter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:27 PM
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When the weather cools off I am going to start cold approaching every single woman I see hiking alone on the trails in town (I like outdoorsy types). What are some good opening lines for when i block their paths?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:23 PM
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Seriously! Every time I think about approaching a women I remember the yad stop videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:47 PM
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because i own an android and swifties automatically reject you fi you dont have an iphone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:37 PM
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Hence I'm pursuing euthanasia. Same but I'm on the other side of the equation. IMO chadfishing really isn't scientific. My mom is 73 and we both made dating app profiles at the same time, her SMV absolutely crushes mine and it's not even close. I have gotten a single date off of apps and got absolutely clowned when I met the girl. Women RARELY approach me, and even then, it's almost never direct. The only females that directly hit on me are under 15s. I am so fucking tired of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:51 PM
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I modeled professionally for 5 years. If I try to look good, I can get choosing signals pretty much at will. All being good looking will do (for a man) is get your foot in the door. Looking the part alone is simply not enough and I am a living testament to that. I can agree that personality really doesn't matter for sub8's. But once you get into the actually attractive category, it matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:37 PM
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Are you ugly by chance? It always seems like ugly guys always telling me how easy it is. I identify as handsome. While I agree that being absurdly good looking and tall is much easier than the alternative, I have found that women actually care a lot about how I act. You can have chad's face and chad's body, but if you don't have his personality as well, you are getting binned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:24 PM
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oh how i wish this were true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:14 PM
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Yeah I heard divorced men have 2x the suicide risk while divorced women are about the same as baseline lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:57 AM
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incorrect. Every tattoo free woman with a healthy (19-21) bmi? getting warmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:09 PM
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so stupid. you can kill and eat a trout and nobody says shit but stick in in your vag and suddenly it's a problem? I genuinely dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:03 PM
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I feel like you are being sarcastic here but i also feel like a lot of women lowkey love this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:47 PM
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Yeah I personally have no desire to win the approval of someone who behaves like a piece of shit but when you put sex on a pedestal to where it'd your entire reason for existing, you do what you gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:44 PM
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I think this is what RPers call a shit test. According to the theory you are supposed to acted unaffected by this insult and the woman will swoon. Most women do this kind of stuff and its extremely annoying but they say it's biologically ingrained to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:11 PM
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A woman tried to talk to me today. I was freediving and she pulled up with another girl. She busted a couple of pretty good dives. She came up out of the water, looked at me (still had mask on( and said 'it's hard to get down there'. I responded "yeah the flow is up since the storm" and I swam away. I basically only get approached by women in the water but it's so hard to talk in the water.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:54 PM
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I have the exact same build. First got abs in 5th grade. Now 40 and have never been over my high school weight despite no diet. Finally tried to gain weight last year, managed about 15 lbs with daily hypertrophy training and constant eating/nutrition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:41 PM
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that's so fucked up looks are all i have
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:28 PM
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why not just insult her right off the bat?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:19 PM
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those are icky but not 'the ick'. imo 'the ick' is not supposed to be visceral disgusting in the same way eating shit is. Have you ever seen a guy you were with have to repeat himself at the drive through? Or are you just assuming that you'd be fine with it? I gave a girl the ick one time in Brooklyn. I was smoking my last cigarette and 3 teenage basketball player looking guys pressed up on me and demanded that I give them one. I was too scare to tell them no. I didn't have one to give so I gave…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:11 PM
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No, you have the choice to stick to your standards. ya that's why I literally wrote 'or be alone'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:08 PM
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Market dynamics really. In my area if you want a healthy BMI woman with no tattoos, you are going to be looking for a very long time. You kind of have to make concessions by default or be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:28 PM
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I think 'ick' has been bastardized to include 'gross outs'. It's rational to not like a guy with long ass toenails. It's less rational to be disgusted by an otherwise great guy who has to repeat himself at the drivethrough or that is chasing after a paper in the wind. One is a proper ick, the other is just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:25 PM
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A full 30% of American adult women are on SSRIs and 1/5 have been victims of sexual assualt have fun hitting on girls at the supermarket or whatever, it wont be me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:43 PM
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some people get mad when you passively aggressively post your problems to reddit instead of being a respectable adult
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:31 PM
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You are assuming every woman in existence is a perfectly rational actor with 0 mental issues or emotional baggage. When in reality, 90% of women ( aren't made up stats fun?) have massive trauma, are mentally ill, or are just plain sick of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:29 PM
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I strongly disagree. Anytime a person has sex while engaged in tourism, it's sex tourism. Get laid in Orlando while visiting disney? You are a sex tourist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:23 PM
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doesn't happen to well-adjusted people oh look you are assuming that it's the fault of the person making the approach
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:22 PM
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Why are you equating sex tourism with prostitution?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:16 PM
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Pepper spray, roid raging jealous bf around the corner, telling the bouncers, complaining to the manager, calling the cops......
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:14 PM
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Rejection is the 2nd best option, but there are a whole host of outcomes that are much worse than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:05 PM
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Girls do the same shit on european vacations in college, I regret nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:05 AM
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Yeah the thing about it is that men don't care about women being educated, rich, or even fluent in English. Those are traits that women are looking for in men. The whole thing reeks of american (or perhaps european) egocentrism. I like to bang locals on vacation because it's way easier than at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:01 AM
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pretty but will get checked by actual chads
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:43 PM
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i mean agencies wont even let you in the door if you are under 6' lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:08 PM
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Noah Mills came into my job one time right after SATC 2 had come out and he played the old one's love interest. I have never seen other men just cease to exist as badly as that moment. They list him at 6'2 but he's every bit of 6'5
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:57 PM
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It means how long has it been since the last time you felt like you got mogged?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:42 PM
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how long is your mog streak
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:38 PM
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Face is everything. It is just irrelevant if you are short or fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:32 PM
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My first gf ever was one of these. We were just friends but she basically told me i could plow one day. I didn't want to have public relationship with her but wanted to try sex. She got all kinds of mental issues from this plus an eating disorder, and I never learned how to approach women because i assumed they'd all just offer me sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:58 PM
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IMO insta is just a dating app on steroids. The top men get basically all the attention, everyone else is a simp begging to be noticed. Never before in human history have the absolute top males been so accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:51 PM
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shitcoin ponzis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:34 PM
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Define approach lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:12 PM
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Why are you thinking that they don't lmao? It's just more you reading shit into my posts that isn't there. My experience, in my current location and age, is that women don't really approach. As I said yeserday, most will avoid eye contact. Some will do double or triple takes. Some will deliberately put themselves in my path. Some will do contrived requests for help. Some will give me a brief glance. Very, very rarely will they attempt to start a conversation with me. I think once you get out in …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:07 PM
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I got divorced in 2019 and was too depressed to go outside for a year. 2020-2022 I was forced to stay at home and developed severe social phobia. 2023 until now I have been going outside during the daytime and have approached maybe 5 women total. As I told you yesterday I moved around a lot in my 20's and have lost touch with all my friends from that time. Most people my age have jobs and families. I do not use social media at all. I think this about covers it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:58 PM
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oh this is just naive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:53 PM
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A woman desiring a good looking man is perfectly natural. All women desiring a good looking man will destroy civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:53 PM
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Lol, those first two probably aren’t happening WHAT ABOUT THE THIRD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:48 PM
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I have not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:47 PM
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this is why civilization even exists imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:45 PM
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i reluctantly admit this may be possible but I will have to do further research
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:42 PM
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absolutely not I do not pay taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:42 PM
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I don't think so. I think most guys maybe have their targets lower than I do, but when they talk about 'women' they aren't talking about the sub2's or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:41 PM
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Because I carry water for them on the internet. I go to bat for them in online discussions. I admit their fears of men are rational. The upvotes are not enough anymore. I am owed compensation in the form of physical intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:40 PM
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those too examples both have complex legal and ethical considerations to take into account, whereas women giving me sex can be solved right now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:37 PM
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I am a man and literally do the exact same thing. Average women simply do not exist to me as sexual entities and when i talk about 'women' i only mean the small subset that I am attracted to, and they are almost always awful people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:36 PM
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As foundational black americans are owed reparations as native americans are owed restitution so too do women owe me sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:31 PM
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Would you mind sharing some of the interactions? I haven't gone 'out' out in a long while because of anxiety. My friend brought me to this party in April and like 5 girls gave me a glance but none initiated. I tried to talk to one and she didn't really converse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:10 AM
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I really don't think skill matters. Very low inhibition is what you are describing IMO. Being good looking improves your odds IMMENSELY and self-improvement can definitely aid with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:53 AM
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severe mental problems like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:37 PM
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hair over 6'1, but elite jaw line and eye area
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:35 PM
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really makes me wonder how many women saw me at the airport years ago and still dream about me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:44 PM
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Yeah, another big shocker here... I am a surfer. As such, I like to go to the beach. And on the beach, in the summer time, some irresponsbile parents let their children run free. And those children have a habit of hitting on me. I am not bringing this up out of nowhere. OP said the exact same shit, yet you're only giving me shit for it LMAO. You are a hypocrite. I have no one to even talk to about what to do precisely because of people like you who make it unsafe to even bring it up in any type …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:14 PM
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I assume it has only happened to her once, whereas it's a regular thing for me. The distinction is that they (BIG SHOCKER HERE) do not make sexual advances on grown men in front of their parents. I have done literally nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 04:01 PM
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Worldwide thing honestly. Toby Keith's number 1 hit 'should have been a cowboy' was actually entirely inspired by him first discovering this phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:49 AM
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Online all you need to do is put "split the bill" in your profile and it's not going to wreck your dating life if you have one to start with. I did and my wife contacted me first anyway. This is a nice thought, but OLD is horribly competitive and suggesting free dates or splitting the bill is gonna be an uphill battle I do agree you are not missing out on anything, but if you get 1 date per season that free meal you're buying her feels worth it just for the human connection, even if she's gonna …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:31 PM
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It's the prisoner's dillemma. You need ALL men to cooridinate, lest one backstab the others and reap all the rewards. It's simply not possible. But hopefully we can come to a point where the looksmaxxed guys just brush off the less desirable women instead of pumping and dumping them. I think shaming casual sex in general is a good start.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:08 PM
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Yeah I agree totally, I am just saying even with the ambiguity it's still possible to give them a wake up call
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:11 PM
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I just reject women upfront. Disclaimer is they rarely make unambiguous advances (to me), but you can still reject the ambiguous ones and I don't think it stings any less.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 06:54 PM
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ABCEFG HIJK Poll is flawed because 'easy to get along with' kind undoes the ' radfem, bossbabe' stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:17 PM
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wow first time i have seen someone mention polymarket in the wild, it is doing a lot of volume
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:33 AM
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This exchange was unbelievable lmao. You were being perfectly reasonable and matter of fact and getting responded to with ridiculous hyperbolic responses that don't logically follow form your points.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:37 AM
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BP is only hopeless is you are ugly. A very common misconception-- believing in biological determinism is a very optimistic ideology IF you are tall and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:26 PM
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Has tons of casual sex but will only commit to low n-counts terrible tattoos beard shaped to look like he has a jaw and chin lifted f150
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:51 PM
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Do you feel like this would be worse than men lusting after a 25 year old that hasn't hit puberty yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:57 PM
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In mind my the bigger issue is that she sees herself as part of the 'sea of amazing women' rather than 'women who are average on a good day'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:33 PM
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The only real wall is fertility, and you still have basically all of it. There will never be a point where you run out of options. They may get worse, but you will have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:21 AM
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My city's subreddit often gets 'looking for friends posts'. Last week a 37F makes a post, gets 50 replies, multiple people offer to host a meetup, tons of suggestions. 32M makes the same thread, 0 upvotes, 2 replies. It's just kinda the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:10 AM
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the only guys who think it's unfair are short
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:19 PM
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You are not understanding what I am saying. It is mathematically impossible for women to earn as much as men, and for all women to have access to men who earn more than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:17 PM
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You are correct, it is not contradictory. But the ends are mutually exclusive. Women can have equal pay to men, or women can date men that make more than them, but they can't do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:54 PM
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THIS. In her prime she'd be in the top 10% among normies for sure, but I see girls on that level on a pretty regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:51 PM
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Not him but this is a fair enough point. My specific objection is that women generally want equal pay, but also generally want men that make more than them. Like their own policy decisions make them undateable. Personally don't feel like the masc./feminine traits have a whole lot of merit or even real meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:40 PM
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PRetty normal IMO. Do you really want to be banging 4x per day for the rest of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:36 PM
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You see a girl you really like walking down the street. You understand you will never see her again. You understand it is a very low probability of success, but your only option is the hail mary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:51 PM
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you are solid but iirc you've been married a while
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:49 PM
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LMAO right so when asked directly 'what are you attracted to in a man' and they answer with everything EXCEPT what they are attracted to in a man, it's actually our fault for taking it at face value. Yeah nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:21 PM
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People are mad about being gaslit, so you respond with more gaslighting and personal attacks, then backpedal when the guy telling you this says 'hey actually I'm objectively attractive and don't need the approval of internet strangers to know so' Look at the threads 'women, what do you want in a partner'... 99% of responses are personality traits or random hobbies. It's CONSTANT.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:51 PM
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I'm literally a retired model lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:45 PM
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I mean you are doing it right now, not to the same extent the 'rescue kittens' people are, but the idea that learning to dress will make up for your face is in the same category.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:43 PM
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that was my read on this thread as well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:24 PM
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Is it an autism thing that some guys just miss all of that? Fundamentally everyone understands this, but generally we are misled about the extent to which it matters. And I think there is a case to be made that it matters more now than it did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:15 PM
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Not even sure you need confidence if you are good looking, I think trying to a cold apporach but feigning super awkward shyness would be equally effective (provided you are following rule 1). Otherwise agree totally. Cold approach is a hail mary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:52 PM
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ya i'm 6'1 so i dont want to throw away the height genes I do have on a short woman. by the time my sons are grown 6'2 will be the minimum needed to date
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:26 AM
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. Women bring other women around this has literally never happened in my experience. I currently have one female friend who is cohabitating with my actual friend. She has 0 female friends. I hang out with my sister sometimes and she knows women but they are all bustos and they hang out at spots with other bustos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:42 AM
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was about to write the same reply. male thirst is the only reason we're no longer stuck in the stone age
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:47 AM
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Very fair assessment. But it seems like every guy I meet is in the same boat, and every group i attempt to join is basically just these same guys doing the same thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:45 AM
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Yuck. If she invited you out, she should pay. I feel like she'll just use you until she has better options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:09 AM
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who paid for the dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:05 AM
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Starve the beast and reserve your attention for those worthy, never let anyone tread on your dignity. Yup we gotta just get all men to withhold attention and not backstab each other for a woman's attention
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:57 AM
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None, only checked the heights and they were all dealbreakers. Don't want to get into a relationship with someone I wouldn't have kids with and wouldn't have kids with anyone under 5'7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:14 AM
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Yooooooo lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:54 PM
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does being short count as being ugly? i think being a guy under 5'6 or so is worse, even if you have a great face you are done for
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:48 PM
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Nah your type of thinking is why the average american is deeply in debt an actual attractive man can meet girls in a thrifted outfit because it doesn't make a material difference so long as you are following rule 1
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:35 PM
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because he's TV ugly. He's not ugly for the average american but when you publicly bang a sex symbol other women are gonna want the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:15 PM
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he's tv ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:11 PM
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There was a whole soprano's episode about it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:05 PM
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It's all good, real life still exists and I find it way less awkward than meeting a stranger off the internet. I think women that don't get off the apps quickly get jaded within a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:30 PM
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unless you have some kind of facial deformity, it’s probably your personality that is repelling women. lmao what on earth are you even talking about at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:16 PM
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I went on one and it made my social anxiety way worse. never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:15 PM
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i think thats kind of the point of the faustian bargain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:10 PM
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lmao I have had visible abs since I was 10 and have never lifted weights or been to the gym, and I still do. cope all you want. there is no gym for your face, hairline, or skeleton. some people are destined to struggle with their weight, others will stay lean into old age without even trying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:08 PM
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A guy in a discord I am in actually did this successfully and he always posts pictures of his exotic pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:35 PM
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lmao I'm 8% bodyfat at 39 with basically 0 effort genetics is EVERYTHING
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:26 PM
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why are you sharing this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:13 PM
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Does being confident that you will blow your grape whistle if I talk to you count as confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:12 PM
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It's just delusion RP talking points about 'game'. Chad never had to learn it because he never needed it. If you are tall, athletic, and good looking you are not going to have to approach hundreds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:08 PM
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yeah this is literally just halo/horn effect lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:02 PM
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how tall is she
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:59 PM
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Male feminism as a dating strategy is just symptom of women's abundance of options. If 90% of men vanished you might see such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:40 PM
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No! I am claiming that grooming can't fix bad or average genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:56 PM
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he sounds hot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:51 AM
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8% healthy 19-21 BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:59 AM
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not a fan of either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:41 AM
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Gyms and clothes and grooming exist for a reason. oh come on now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:23 AM
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No, people just realize what they can't attain so they cope. Sour grapes imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:44 AM
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yeah i assume this is what most of them would do if i spoke to them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:05 PM
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I remember every rejection i have ever had and take them all very personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:20 PM
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That I do agree with. I think women here tend to assume the worst. But in fairness I do the same, I never thought I would find a 40 year old woman attractive but I met one that legit passed for 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:35 PM
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he reason isn’t that they think older men are gross, Older men generally are gross though lol. You can fraud with your hair transplant but were it not for modern science you'd be invisible to them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:26 PM
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i think you're protesting a little too much
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:17 PM
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I match on dating apps with 20 yr olds easy, they go on dates This is where I really, really disagree. I am abnormally young looking and live in a college town. IRL I get attention basically every time I go outside from the undergrad age group. On dating apps I I go through my stack in an hour or 2 with the widest preferences. Most college girls have older dudes age filtered. Not all of them, but most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:16 PM
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Even if he looks younger so what This is literally all that matters LOL. A guy like this is by definition not a 'silver fox dude'. She's just gong to see 'hot guy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 02:59 PM
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maybe call it 'walk by rizz' instead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:24 AM
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yes inflate random women's egos with no real prospect of any type of reciprocation ever happening, while giving them more fodder to humblebrag disuguised as a compalint about men in general this is just simping with attention instead of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:23 AM
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that's great! you can still end up on your ass for things beyond your control. buy a house at the wrong time, market collapses, you get foreclosed on, banks get bailed out. see this shit happen enough times and you'll get cynical as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:56 PM
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lived there before dating apps but way fucking better than the suburbs for me personally. not hard to meet interesting people and people in general seemed less judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:41 PM
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Your dad sounds awesome lmao (besides the shit nutrition). Zoomers will never understand how blatantly the middle class has gotten shafted in the last 2 decades. jobs are for suckers, very easy to work 60 hours a week for your whole life and still end up on your ass for things beyond your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:38 PM
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but it illustrates my point perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:19 PM
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You ever tried to maintain eye contact with someone with heterochromia? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9vvMKxDvAt8
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:15 PM
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That's just your hormones talking. The older you get, the less of fuck you will give.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:09 PM
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I am really interested in how eye areas affect social development. I have a very unique eye area and struggle with eye contact with people. For the longest I thought it was something wrong with my personality, but after getting autisitcally lookism I came to believe it's one the part of other people. I think it's like one step below heterochromia.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:05 PM
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Well I go out at night when everyone is partying. Nightlife is basically the only place where there are women and it's not taboo to make advances on them. I only recently started noticing height and it has been pretty much universally true that if I see a couple walking, the guy will be taller than average. Not every time, but like a 90% skew.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:32 PM
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Yeah I like to go downtown on weekends and just observe people. Basically only see girls paired up with tall guys and packs of short guys wandering around aimlessly. Very few objective chads out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:20 PM
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I have been force feeding for the last year to try and gain mass but it's beside the point: your view kind of assumes it's based on some character flaw, whereas I see as being biologically determined.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:48 PM
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Maybe but I still think that is determined by DNA as well. I am skinny and have always been skinny, and not through any conscious effort on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:39 PM
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I'd argue it's almost entirely genetic. Not a woman, but I am an extreme outlier for aging. I smoked a pack a day for over a decade, anyone that drank more than I did is dead, and my nutritional habits were generally very poor. But I never lost any hair, never went grey, didn't get fat, have super oily skin that hasn't wrinkled, and have neotenous features to begin with. Like pretty much everything else the only way to truly win is by choosing the right parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:51 PM
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How is that not the same? Men have options. They just aren’t satisfied with the options they have. I an agree to an extent. If all a man cares about is having casual sex with literally anyone, most can do that. But you'll notice I said 'FEEL' very deliberately If a majority of women aren’t sexually satisfied I am told they are not. But women aren't going to drop out and play video games on welfare all day because they can't bust a nut. But your points are well taken. Also it’s absolutely on you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:07 AM
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I mean that aside, girls go to clubs because they get a fuck ton of attention and free shit. Motherfucker if I could do that I would be there in an instant. Instead, the average man at the club is a fucking paypig. You pay $25 for a drink so the cute girls can get a table and bottle service comped just for showing up, or find a dude to pay for it. Girls will fuck guys at clubs but it's mostly about getting validation imo. I dont think most girls are doing coke
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:50 AM
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Please look up what the word 'IF" means. It does not mean "I think a majority of men are not having sex presently'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:44 AM
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at what point did I claim that they were lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:36 AM
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One is an individual with sexual options, but not being satisfied by the option they have. The 'us' problem is when a majority of male people feel like they have no shot at a future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:35 AM
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I think it's inarguably good from a eugenics perspective. It's just society needs people to pick up trash and build houses, and I don't think a lot of men are going to do that if they see no possibility at a future for themselves. I personally feel like most zoomer guys don't have a realistic shot at ever owning property, much less raising a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:20 AM
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disagree. if a majority of men begin to feel like they have nothing to live for and no chance at a legacy, they'll drop out en masse at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:04 AM
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All I think is that I wouldn't want to date a girl like that. Really don't get why guys get with these chicks and then try to change them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:26 AM
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Back in days streetwalkers would dress provactively to attract attention. I was in college in the aughts and back then wearing leggings without a long shirt was basically unheard of. Standards have changed a lot and the girls I see downtown dress how streetwalkers used to. I think most prostitution has moved online so the whore outfit thing doesn't make sense to zoomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:23 AM
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Having sex and not having an orgasm is a you problem. A majority of men having no hope of reproduction is an us problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:06 AM
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lmao what kind of girl is paying for anything at a club
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:00 AM
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I think part of the issue is that few people believe they are being sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:27 AM
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not belonging usually means no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:13 AM
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it's hard to imagine that social outcasts are swimming in fuck. prob like a 90%+ lean to celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:08 AM
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100% agree. The gym is the best investment you can make if you are overweight-- this is pretty much the ONLY thing that will make a guy more attractive. Adding mass is good if you are skinnny. But getting jacked really isn't all that great for attracting women IMO. Tattoos are good for other people with tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:13 PM
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Definitely. Most guys that look like they work out are on gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:12 PM
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I have one friend from my 20s in town, but he goes to work at 2am and goes to bed at 8. I moved a lot and don't use social media, so most of the relationships I had withered. Honestly I think the avoidance of Zuckerburg products is the biggest factor in being unpersoned. My closest friends are dudes I know online from discord or telegram groups. I actually did go to meet one of them in Rio earlier this year and had 0 issues making friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:09 PM
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Why aren’t MEN helping these men get out and socialize? I mean we are in direct competition for scarce resources. For me personally, I did not have a big issue socializing in my 20's. I lived in NYC and met interesting people all the time. Always had girlfriends or at least someone to go out with. I got married, then divorced, and in this new world I am just not functional socially. It's almost like being a loner is inescapable.... everywhere you go you are the one person sitting there alone- it…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:59 PM
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I consider myself good-looking but firmly believe in the blackpill. I think most just resent being born ugly, not that they want to hurt good looking people. I think maybe short guys do fuck over tall guys when they get the chance. My inceldom has nothing to do with jealousy. Way more to do with anxiety, rejection dysphoria, and inability to even encounter attractive women in a forum where it feels natural to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:27 AM
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The ratings I am referring to are objective measures of facial attractiveness and ER is OBJECTIVELY a 6.5 You are free to disagree, you'd just be wrong and likely just racist against men with east asian ancestry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:16 AM
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Again, being an incel is merely a symptom. the fact that incels think they deserve pussy for going to therapy is why they're incels, not their looks. Going to assume you are only writing this stupid shit because your ego won't allow you to acknowledge that you are actually the person picking on the weak and vulnerable while fancying yourself as decent. You are the bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:05 AM
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yeah especially because he was an objective 6.5 and drove a bmw
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:57 AM
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t wasn't his looks it's his personality. Having autism is not 'your personality'. Higher up in the comments you said something about never getting therapy because they are too proud... yet ER was in it his whole life. He was prescribed meds. None of that shit helped him find a single person that cared about him, And those are the people you are bullying and generalizing as being hateful. Being an unfixable social reject sucks fucking dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:54 AM
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Hard disagree. Sub5s have a rough go of things for sure, but I'd argue autism is a bigger issue. A man can go a very long time being good-looking and not know it because not many people will tell him. Even the most famous incel of all time wasn't bad looking. Way easier to date with herpes than autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:27 AM
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The real poison was the asian financial crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:51 PM
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honestly starting convos on the water when you're going opposite directions is VERY tough. this is where i encounter the vast majority of women i feel interested in. I would be much more open to a staged accident than them asking me to take a photo ro something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:50 PM
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interesting gambit. do you think this strat will work for a man? I can hold my breath for 4 minutes so i can make it convincing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:46 PM
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QFW: You are paddling downstream. The man of your dreams is paddling upstream. What's your move to win his affection for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:03 PM
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-said literally everyone who ever got married
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:29 AM
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Yes Yes No. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:48 AM
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real life is not that different. i can't think of any place where it is socially acceptable to approach women that isn't loaded with thirsty guys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 01:48 AM
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Not a woman, but when i was married I felt like i had a position of authority to give people advice. Now that I am terminally single I realize how foolish i was.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:13 AM
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ya for real you never know who you are talking to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:21 PM
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"I fucked a fat girl once so now I can bully the guys who refuse to"-reply number 45648918948676549841654 sorry JK but sometimes I do feel like this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:56 PM
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My opinion is based on the data— the exact opposite of you LMAO I can do the exact same shit. " Quit complaining about your problems, you live in a country with the highest per capita GDP in the world!" You are literally the rich person telling the poor people their problems don't exist because of 'data' that you have no ability to interpret or comprehend. Let them eat cake I say. which is exactly proving my point. Literally all you are proving is that you are privileged snob lmao. I will admit …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:12 PM
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I admit this is true. It is not impossible to get a girlfriend as a less than ideal male. I just disagree on likelihood of it happening to any individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:45 PM
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These type of responses are basically rich people saying Holy fuck, pot meet kettle. you’re probably not going to find yourself socially mingling with men who do well with them Just what are you basing this on? I tried rockclimbing because it's a social hobby. Gym was literally all dudes doing it to try to meet women. I tried salsa dancing, guys were having to dance with each other because of a lack of women. And on and on. You guys are so resistant to the fact There is no 'you guys'. I have not…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:44 PM
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I mean that's the beauty of of studies. You have to invest a similar amount of time, for free, to find out what the author is hiding or misrepresenting, and even then, nobody will give a fuck, because ultimately nobody ever changes their mind based on pointless internet arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:34 PM
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Could be.... but I know who I am and the struggles i go through. I know what my friends go through. I know how active the men's dating advice sphere and adjacent spaces are. I know what's it like to go pursue hobbies and find 80/20 male female ratio, and all the guys are in the same boat. I know that anyone with a stats degree can basically find data to support whatever agenda they have. I know I'm on reddit where 'muh studies' constitute definitive proof for the science loving crowd. And most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:20 PM
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Who are you going to believe? Several studies that you have no ability to comprehend or criticize, or what you can observe with your own eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:52 PM
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If they think they can get a sex thing while disliking the company of sex thing, they are delusional. This is the only part I have a real specific objection to. I can imagine a woman that generally detests men, but has a man that she really enjoys the company of. This is how I see my relationship with women (when I say women I mean specifically the ones I find physically attractive). The vast majority of pretty American girls that I have met I have found to be awful people. I really cannot be ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:40 PM
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More are quitting (actually more like being fired) every day. Biology is still very strong and older generations and those who dated pre-virus still give out bullshit, false hope advice, but more and more guys are coming to the inescapable conclusion that not everyone can be the mythical alpha male. MGTOW is basically this but they are in denial of dynamics.... in most case they were forced to go their own way rather than voluntarily choosing to do so IMO. But on the other hand my short, recesse…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:11 PM
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I don't talk to women. The one woman I do talk to once said 'I was getting fucked by this guy and saw the veins in his arm bulging and thought to myself' wow this guy could kill me right now if he wanted to, it's so hot". I just don't understand them and really don't want to. I feel like on the internet they are especially duplicitous. I know there are nice women out there but at present it doesn't feel worth the effort to sift through the duds.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:52 PM
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Looksmaxxing tiktok getting billions of views among absolute normies, as opposed to the autistic people it was originally relegated to, and the fact that looksmaxxing gets immediate and noticeable results. Biological determinism just makes sense. I still think there are redpill concepts that are true, but mostly it was just grifters spouting broscience. Being good looking will get a guy further than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:15 PM
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that was the point of the comment congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:12 AM
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I understood what you said. I just don't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:36 AM
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I once met this guy that was a mutli millionaire by thirty . He lead with his cash every single time and all he got were a bunch of girls looking for free shit. But his physical flaws weren't addressable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:48 AM
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what's the difference between violent stalking and the regular kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:40 AM
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sure but what about proportionality? which scenario is more likely? When i was a teenager this girl was really into me at a restaurant I worked at. She jump on me and wrap her legs around, things like that. At some point she changed her mind and stopped behaving that way, without really telling me. I went to hug her and she complained to the manager, who, being eager to please her, nearly fired me. Have you ever been murdered?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:30 AM
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I would rather bet beat up by a guy at my job than have a fabricated sexual harassment claim level at me by a woman at my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:20 AM
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It is, but it's usually unnecessary. Weight loss is the big one but nobody is going to be totally devoid of male attention even if they are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:16 AM
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I think it's better if women don't make up absurd false dichotomies to force their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:05 AM
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They want to be approached actually, just by certain guys. I am a guy and I thirst trap all the fucking time then act offended when ugly girls hit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:50 AM
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Run somewhere where there aren't passing cars. I avoid busy streets for exactly this reason. Some guys run with their shirt off for exactly this reason, but they'll own up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:49 AM
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NO! I just think this particular dick is made of plastic or whatever the preferred material is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:36 AM
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yeah not calling bullshit just really funny mental picture
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:13 AM
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What ''women's intuition'' is, is just the immediate rejection of explicitly misogynistic or hostile guys who otherwise have no redeeming qualities or attractive traits. Maybe the most batshit insane combination of words ever strung together in English.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:13 AM
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letting someone put a dick in you is one of the most feminine things imaginable. really hard for me to picture a jason mamoa type doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:07 AM
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the idea of a guy that you know enjoys taking it in the butt being dominant at other times is funny to me but I like that you let the guy express different sides of himself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:51 AM
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I can and demand to have both, thank you very much. from the same guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:46 AM
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It means acting like you are spending time with someone who has not yet proven that they are worthy of emotional intimacy I do not believe that is what 'acting charming and confident' means. For me to be charming and/or confident, it would entail putting on an act. Many men who are successful with women are able to do this, and women keep falling for it and then questioning their decision making abilities further down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:41 AM
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'act' doing a lot of heavy lifting there if i follow the 'be yourself' line of thinking, I'll be alone for a long time. If I act like someone else, i have to keep up the act long enough for her to have feelings then drop the facade, which maybe be immoral in certain jurisdictions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:11 PM
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because "fuck boys" are generally seen as unattractive stopped reading right there. read that statement to yourself several times, very slowly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:57 PM
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according to my dentist you can, i am ignorant myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:14 PM
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yeah that is the expected result of something truly unpopular, correct or not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:14 PM
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Judging by the comments it's definitely an actual unpopular opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:03 PM
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I didn't go for over a decade and was super scared. My dentist flattered me so much my confidence tripled. Had 4 cavities but all were the result of grinding. Anesthesia has come a long way since my last cavity. Paid cash like randy moss
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:01 PM
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Personally I am very upset that animal rights groups are silent about the war on christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:59 PM
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Finally someone said it. I feel like deep down women yearn for a man that is capable of controlling them. Women that i have been with in the past have sure been vocal about their displeasure with my inability to control them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:56 PM
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the face is the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:08 AM
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saw her picture only once many years ago and am still haunted by it. she looks exactly like you'd imagine she looks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:09 AM
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Brave to admit that here. Wonder if there are any cute chicks at UDC meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:06 AM
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You need me to provide a source for a claim you made? No one disputing that Japanese women tend to handle household finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:55 PM
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or you fundamentally misunderstand what the wall was supposed to be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:58 PM
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Yeah no one is disupting that younger women are generally more desirable. Duh. It's just that even geriatric ladies have more dating options than really good young men. I have never been redpilled, but was redpill adjacent in my 20's, meaning I was exposed to ideas like the wall. I was married at that time but assumed if I became single again the tables would turn and I'd be swimming in desperate women. This is the exact opposite of what happened. Women are more picky than ever, and I am more di…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:52 PM
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These don't support the idea that "The average Japanese man is able and willing to financially support his wife to be a stay at home mom." And you will never find a source to support that because it's a bogus claim. Most of them have no hope of financially supporting a family which is why they are in the situation they are in. Same in Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:48 PM
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Yeah I, without irony, believe I can see a woman's aura and can discern her whole personality based on her mannerisms. Mostly this is just not talking to girls with tattoos or septum piercings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:15 PM
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Yeah and with dating apps it has ceased to exist. IMO there is never a point where the top 5% of men have as many options as the bottom 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:52 PM
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THat story is WILD. I really dont feel like she did anything wrong given he was continually hitting on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:45 AM
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there would be no point in doing that if not for women the game was rigged from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 01:37 AM
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sorry didn't realize i was talking to that one feminist with the mathematically perfect body who was in a position to shame other people for how they were born
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:04 AM
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Fucking thank you. Sadly too many guys that have been passed over early on in life view sleeping with as many randos as humanly possible as the pinnacle of male achievement. I have never enjoyed trying to be intimate with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:58 PM
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there are men out there that do but the only thing i'm providing is rock hard and 3 inches long + unlimited affection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:36 PM
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WHY IS IT ALWAYS VIEWED AS THE OLDER PERSON GOING AFTER THE YOUNGER PERSON HOLY FUCK
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:25 AM
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WHY IS IT ALWAYS VIEWED AS THE MAN GOING AFTER THE WOMAN HOLY FUCK literally every comment
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:11 AM
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I mean i am not trying to date my sister
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 05:01 AM
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She's a phd student who teaches them, and is also fully onboard with whatever the progressive cause de jure is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:58 AM
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It's not thought, your mental image of what a 40 year old looks like is just not congruent with the modern reality. They do not know how old I am. I live in Gainesville, Florida. I got divorced from a woman 2 years younger than me 5 years ago, and have not so much as kissed a woman since. In Gainesville, there are roughly 10,000 available women from 18-22 of moderate attractiveness, and MAYBE 50 between 30-40. Now should a man in my position, who literally gets attention from the former group (l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:50 AM
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You, because I feel like you are implying that only outliers among undergrads would be attracted to any 40 year old man, and only then as a result of a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:34 AM
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These people literally cannot even entertain a reality where a 40 year old is appealing to a 20 year old. I get far more attention from them now at 39 than I did at 20 and it's not even fucking CLOSE. I feel like women my age don't even really see me as a man, and if they do, they sure aren't letting me know like the undergrads do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:25 AM
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I am pushing 40 and pretty routinely have girls much younger than 17 'going for' me. IN my 20's I always assumed it would stop at some point but it's only getting more common. Am I a bad guy for being attractive to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:14 AM
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Because there's older men and there's older men that are still universally hot. I live in a college town and am pushing 40, yet that's pretty much the only demographic I seem to appeal to. My sister tells me it's better to live in inceldom than to go after what she calls 'post teens'. I don't think I'd have a lot in common with them but really don't want have to keep living alone and miserable. I personally don't think it's creep if I keep getting chosen by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 04:12 AM
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It's more than that IMO. I know most women aren't evil or vindicate, but some percentage of them are. If I approach a woman in grocery store and she's not receptive, there is some chance she'll complain to the store manager, who in all likelihood would eager to please an attractive woman and trespass me from the store for harassment. This is as shocking to the women who don't behave this way as the idea of a man turning violent for being rejected is to me. The social consequences are just too hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:37 PM
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Yes! But also a therapist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 03:28 PM
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should ask them what a real man is, hearing a lot of conflicting information and am concerned that i am not a real man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:23 AM
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This is the shit that gives me social anxiety. It happened to me once in college and the girl was so mean I still think about it. I literally was just walking back to the bar from the bathroom and didn't even try to talk to her. It was 15 years ago and i still think about it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:10 AM
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I do not give a shit about going on a second date with a person who is only interested in what they can get from me. If they expect it, they can expect it from somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:00 AM
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if that's the difference between getting a 2nd date or not it was never going to work to begin with. don't think anyone is losing sleep over missing out on that type of woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:41 PM
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I really do not get it either. Like how is it even tangentially related?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:11 PM
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I am happy to let a woman pay for me. If people think that's feminine, so be it. I personally think it's the most masculine thing possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:10 PM
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Sure but we're not talking about verbally hurting someone. Just being insulted that they would even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:14 PM
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IDK I think the context matters. Imagine a elegantly dressed fashion model being crudely hit on by a visibly white trash guy with no teeth. Sometimes people need a reality check.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:07 PM
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It really depends on how they are talking to you. If a man politely approaches a woman and compliments her, she shouldn't be rude to him. But if it's less than smooth, I don't feel like she owes it to him to entertain him. The same is true for the women that hit on men. Rarely is a polite approach with a sincere compliment in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:51 PM
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it's not but it's tall enough to where you are not going to get penalized for being short. you're still taller than most female models in heels and tower over most women. 6'2-6'4 is what i think the ideal male height range is but 6'1 is a very solid height
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:37 PM
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I don't think a women would need to because no one questions that it happens. When I say my experience, people usually just call me delusional and doubt the veracity of my claims. Men because this typically doesn't happen to them, and women because they themselves don't behave like this and project that onto the whole female population. I don't not think that the average woman is like this FWIW. I have plenty where a woman takes notice, gives kind of subtle acknowledgement that I am beautiful, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:24 PM
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The fucked up thing is the guy probably pays for her house, sired to 2 kids, paid the rent the canoe, is paddling the canoe all by himself..... and the wife is the front making googly eyes at me likely feeling totally unsatisfied and unfulfilled. Now that I see it I don't know how I can go forward, because even when you get this kind of attention as single man, it will almost certainly happen to you in a relationship. Such a blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:03 PM
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Would you mind analyzing the clip I posted? I worked really hard getting it and really dont have any medium to share it other than reddit comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:55 PM
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So I paddleboard almost every day, and have an insane core with a great tan as a result. Around March this 'hungry woman look' happened to me like 15 times in an hour. I got to thinking that there was a market for a social media account demonstrating this behavior-- originally I wanted to brutally reject or otherwise insult them on camera to give foreveralone shutins some feeling of justice. I bought a pair of camera sunglasses off of amazon and recorded dozens of these types of interactions in …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:47 PM
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For me the 'getting laid' part is a relatively small part of the equation. It's nice to have, but I want the companionship (not badly enough to settle for someone I dont find attractive though). I think of myself as a dog that no one has petted in years and the thought of it makes me really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:17 PM
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I'm a blackpiller because I'm in the far long tail of facial attractiveness. It's just my personality and social skills are so bad I'm here on friday night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:00 AM
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He literally said 'it's on you to prove it' and your response was basically 'dude trust me'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:31 AM
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Red pillers love to gaslight me about my own life experience. It's so fun and sad. I have eyes and ears. I know how the world works. lmao come on man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:22 AM
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I really do wonder about guys that invite girls from dating apps they have never met to their houses before vetting them. I don't run from girls in the parking lot unless they are cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:17 AM
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Too fucking real honestly. I feel like in order to be successful I have to adopt one of the roles. Settled on 6'5 blue eyed man in finance but my acting chops aren't there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:30 AM
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I am not sure OP is arguing that men are letting themselves go or changing drastically, but rather deviating from the idealized image women create in their heads. I don't espouse this view but what you are arguing is something different IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:28 AM
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The big one for me is the car you drive. I know what the median income for my area is, and the cars they drive greatly exceed that. Going into debt to buy status symbols is pretty much the American way of life. And this extends to everything. Maybe your doctor just wants to help people, or maybe he wanted enough money to flex on other guys. I dropped out of society and did the minimalism thing for a few years... it's going to be a VERY rough go of dating as man to even attempt this to the point …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 08:54 PM
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I just have my baby do pullups, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:14 PM
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I'd argue that nearly EVERYTHING we do is for status and the approval of our peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:11 PM
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objectively
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:09 PM
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It's not your fault! But generally that's as far as women will go in communicating interest. So what are men supposed to conclude? Young women and girls typically catcall me or make goofy faces to their friends when I walk by. This is overt, but not really any more conducive to an actual relationship than male on female catcalling is. For more mature women, random questions is the furthest they'll ever seem to go unless alcohol is involved. I'd argue that if any random guy talks to you in a plat…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:59 PM
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I first noticed it around Christmas (2 months after I decided to date again) when this cute young lady was shopping across from at Marshall's. I had noticed her before, but she came and looked at men's jeans right directly across from me. Maybe she was buying a gift for her brother? Who's really to say? I thought about it a lot and starting reading more. I began to look out for this type of behavior and noticed it was happening all the time. I guess I just want them to know if I was capable of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:06 AM
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For sure, but besides the ego preserving ambiguity of the indirect route, what's the difference? The end result is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:55 AM
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Has a woman ever directly asked you out or asked for you number?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:51 AM
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The thing about it is that they do 'approach', but 'initiate' is a better word for it. What I get are always very ambiguous signals or contrived requests for help. What I don't get are women (besides post menopausal women) starting normal conversations with me or even smiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:50 AM
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I'm sorry you feel that way, it wasn't my intention to be condescending. I should clarified that 'women' means the women that I view as viable romantic partners (I think many folks tend to do this irrespective of gender). Rejection hurts no matter what gender or lack of gender you are. I think if women making approaches, and thus getting rejected, were more common, they would have their own memes about dealing with rejection while trying to maintain their sense of self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:45 AM
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But instagram in particular makes the highest caliber guys more accessible, at least for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:39 AM
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Yeah imagine this happening at the grocery store or gym. A 'no' is the second best outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:31 AM
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Never once said women are bad. I am agreeing... why would women approach? They literally do not have to. I am simply stating the reason that they don't isn't because of any stigma, or that it hurts them more, it's that if they wait long enough, they will get approached or at least catcalled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:29 AM
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I am similar but 39. Still tall, have a good amount of cash, very good looking (retired model, perhaps delusional but I feel like I look as good as ever), and have the best physique of my life. I used all of my modeling knowledge to take good photos and spent months perfecting my dating app profile..... I got a single date and the girl was so rude it genuinely shocked me. Many other women straight up bullied me. I was so hurt by the experience I was considering ending it all. I did better during…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:26 AM
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The correct answer. Generally speaking, women have massive egos and getting rejected pops this proverbial bubble. If they just wait long enough, some doofus will eventually come along and pay them a compliment and ask them out. Even when women do approach you, it's never directly. It's always feigned helplessness, googly eyes, or just putting themselves in your path so you can make the approach. IMO it has nothing to do with stigma or masculinity, it's about avoiding getting your ego bruised, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:19 AM
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Hillary 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:24 PM
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This is too real for me. My younger sister drop out of highschool, but later in life decided to pursue academia to the postdoc level, and got exposed to a lot of feminist/progressive ideals. She is devoutly childfree and went all in on being a dogmom. The problem is her dog got diagnosed with an aggressive cancer is going to die very soon. And she is taking it like her child is dying. I want to sympathize with her but I am so angry at the system that put an otherwise intelligent person into this…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:55 PM
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or a girl just pissed all over your bed while faking an orgasm and now you are bullying me for answering your question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:24 PM
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’m not sure how you fake that by peeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 04:10 PM
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I don't think women only have equality in 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:43 PM
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Ok assuming men were left to their own devices for all of history, how did we come to a point where men are no longer left to their own devices?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:27 PM
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Do you insist on oral on the first encounter?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:01 AM
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I'm turning 40 this year and this is my life. People younger than me call me young man. Very young girls hit on me overtly if they are unaccompanied. People my age just do not take me seriously so I just lean into it at this point. I remember being 23 at a bar and these girls were hassling me for being a freshman with a fake ID.... I looked almost exactly the same as I did then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 01:23 AM
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reminds me of a really memorable profile i saw once. she had prominent no hookups/bitching about men only wanting sex, and every single pic was of her massive jugs. she even had a skydiving picture with her giant milkers hanging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:19 PM
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Per this point in your life, I suppose it also depends how old you are and how older the women have gotten, that they've brought he bar down from space and are less likely to demand extraordinary men. Ironically enough this is my biggest gripe with the redpill. There is no wall and it only gets worse. I am a retired model, have a really good nest egg, and resemble brad pitt in fight club but taller. Women have literally no problem just straight up insulting me on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:29 PM
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If women want men to approach them they can't complain about men approaching and shooting their shots. Can't have their cake and eat it too. Yeah this is part of the reason I never do it even when they are showing interest. The other part is genuinely not knowing what the fuck to say lmao. My ex wife was the only woman i ever approached but she gave prolonged eye contact with a nice smile, and she was cute enough I knew I would kick myself if I didn't go talk to her. But we have to remember that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:08 PM
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I mean when you are holding the high card it's your move to make. If you aren't gonna step up, many other guys will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:55 PM
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You have heard of 'choosing signals', right? Really hard for me to talk about this without humblebragging, but basically I get way more women that catcall me or make a lewd gesures/funny faces than I do having one start an actual conversation or smile at me. Most of the time it's fleeting eye contact (this is fair enough). Sometimes it's shopping near me. Sometimes it's asking for help with something (often totally contrived). In the rare event I go out, sometimes they'll come and sit next to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:40 PM
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I really want to agree with this but in the past I was a massive fucking loser with 0 hobbies besides alcohol and an extremely mediocre job yet I could easily find a woman to support me if I just put myself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:34 PM
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literally just saw a video of woman push a guy who cold approached her in front of a car. he got hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:29 PM
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