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I'm in 3 women-centric private subs and we don't talk about men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:57 AM
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Ok, replace "party" with "wife" now, and get back to the actual question at hand. It is objectively insulting and everyone who is not a moron can see that. It makes perfect sense for there to be a stigma around not trusting your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:51 AM
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You can ask "do you trust the people closest to you" in as many different ways as you like, and the answer will still be yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:09 AM
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Well that says a lot about you and the company you keep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:34 AM
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That's insanity. No one hides their jewelry from their good friends. To do so would be wildly insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:02 AM
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Why is he not allowed to see his child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:43 AM
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Literally every time I've ever been in danger or physically harmed in my life has been because of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:42 AM
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Hahahah I swear you guys are aliens
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:06 AM
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Boohoo and it's not fair to women that we live in a world of dangerous men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:37 AM
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The double standards favor women because women are not as dangerous as men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:23 AM
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it is pretty disgusting that you think rape is less explicit if it doesn't involve penetration. it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:49 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:45 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:07 AM
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All the guys in here acting like they've uncovered something worth talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:45 AM
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You guys acting like this is some big secret is hilarious. Of course FEMinism is about FEMale empowerment lol what else would it be about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:03 AM
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Your "mechanism" is outsourcing being an adult to your wife. Trust me, she will get tired of this, and this "teehee I can't help it I'm neurospicy" attitude is unattractive as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:13 PM
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I have experienced it, I'm also diagnosed ADHD. If you can function at work you can find mechanisms to function at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:11 PM
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Sounds like you're making excuses to be lazy and inconsiderate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:59 PM
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yes, and women who share your values on family structure are going to be the most offended at the idea of a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:25 AM
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A loyal women would fight for paternal certainty and monogamy. No lol a loyal woman would be horrified at the knowledge that her husband, who she is gestating a baby for, does not trust her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:46 AM
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lol what nonsense. things happen because you make them happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:21 PM
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maybe you should do something about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:03 PM
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i went to a single sex school, we were all going to parties with boys and dating by 16 or so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:57 PM
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lol do you seriously think that women being insulted by paternity testing is the result of mindless groupthink? I could never discuss this topic with another woman, and would still be absolutely disgusted if my husband ever proposed such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:29 PM
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When they ask for your ID, are they accusing you of identity fraud? this is a stranger asking me to verify myself, not my husband who I love and am devoted to and have just carried and birthed a child for. can you honestly not see the difference? what a shitty, bad-faith analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:10 PM
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no one's saying what you keep say they're saying. you've misinterpreted the goals of feminism and then whining that it's not about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:56 PM
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Women's equality. Finding areas where women are behind and fixing these. It's never been about solving men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:33 PM
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yes. helping men can sometimes be a side effect of feminism, but it is never the motivation. the motivation is always WOMEN's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:17 AM
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so grown men have no agency and it's all mommy's fault? if we're going to go back to the "root cause", why not blame the father who left him alone with the mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:51 PM
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I don't care, that's not what we're discussing. Feminism has always been about finding gaps where women fall short, or are perceived to fall short, and working to correct that. Whether you agree that their issues are real is beside the point. Feminism has nothing to do with looking after men, and this argument that they're not mommying you guys is embarrassing and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:42 PM
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It is and was always about progressing women's position where it falls short from men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:34 PM
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What are you talking about lol. Men end up in prison because they're more likely to be criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:30 PM
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What part of the word FEMinism led men to believe it's about men's issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:29 PM
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https://www.insider.com/jonah-hill-sarah-brady-texts-therapy-speak-out-of-control-2023-7
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:37 PM
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/u/redpillschool was outed a while back, he's... what I expected https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2017/05/reddit-red-pill-founder-republican-says-he-never-hated-women.html
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:01 AM
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If a woman's really into a man she'll bend to his plans to make it work. If she's embarrassed to present him publicly, he'll remain casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:28 AM
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no, embarrassing is the correct word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:48 AM
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You didn't ask any questions, you made angry assumptions. If you want to know what I think, frame it as a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:48 AM
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I still don't know who you're trying to argue with but you sound like a bitchy girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:11 AM
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who are you talking to? obviously men are stronger than women. you sound insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:01 AM
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no one in their right mind is arguing that women are as strong or as violent as men. don't act dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:24 PM
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Wrong. You don't get women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:20 AM
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Speaking as a woman who is 10+ years into her happy, monogamous marriage and still having a lot of very good sex, I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:39 AM
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Go to deadbedrooms to see what that actually looks like. You'll just be another man complaining that your wife won't fuck you. Or you won't, and you're irrelevant to my point. I'm talking about people who want a sustained sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:28 AM
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Ok so a sex life beyond two years isn't important to you. You're irrelevant to my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:22 AM
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Wait and see how "passionately into you" she is after 10 years and 2 kids. Limerence wears off, if you want a sustained sex life, pick a woman who has demonstrated that she loves sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:12 AM
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The physical hurdle is much lower than some men think. As long as he's not repulsive, charm and charisma goes a LONG way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:16 AM
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That's not why women dislike virgin men. We dislike them because confidence and experience is inherently attractive. It also signals that something's wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:59 AM
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It's not about being bad or good at sex, it's not a learned skill for women. A woman is good in bed when she's genuinely horny and uninhibited. This is something inherent to a woman's personality, and trying to turn a prude into a slut is a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:53 AM
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I don't think this is the basis of the argument that people make Far more often I see people say (and I agree) that if you want a partner who genuinely loves sex and gets off on it and is open to getting a bit freaky, you're going to struggle to find that in a woman who's been prudish before you. Women who love sex, have sex. This idea of a chaste, low n girl who turns into an insatiable slut just for you is cope. Low n girls tend to either have a low libido, or they have sexual hangups and see …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:51 AM
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the question was "why do some men get this ick and others do not"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:15 AM
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My point is that men are FAR more dangerous and violent than women. If you're not going to admit that obvious point then talking with you is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:01 PM
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Despite numerous studies that report the preponderance of domestic violence to be perpetrated by men against women For every study that suggests women are equal abusers, I'll show you a thousand that show men commit almost all serious domestic violence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:14 AM
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Put it this way - for every female abuser there is I'll show you a thousand male abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:08 AM
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Well, it has to be something Yeah, I just said what it is? I don't understand what you're trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:38 AM
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Yeah lol apparently you should go get a pasty fat coder instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:11 AM
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It's that intense feeling of connection or excitement you have immediately upon meeting certain people. When I've felt it, it's been triggered by his personality and body language. How he talks, how he moves, how he looks at me, how he flirts. I've felt crazy chemistry with very average looking dudes and zero chemistry with really good looking ones. My husband and I have almost nothing in common, but the chemistry is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:05 AM
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No one talks about men being corrupted by sex, don't be ridiculous. Well he can't have it both ways. Women are going to be turned off by his inexperience, that's reality. He can solve the problem by buying some experience, or he can live in fantasy land and be sad about life not being a fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:52 PM
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Why can't the male virgin see a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:24 PM
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Woman. No. When I fall in love I forget all about my exes. I haven't given any of them a second thought since meeting my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:12 PM
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Sexually experienced women should (and do) end up with sexually experienced men. Picking up some virgin and teaching him how to fuck is a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:09 PM
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Women don't want to teach men. It's a massive turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:40 PM
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Because men and women are different. When women are controlling, it's annoying. When men are controlling, there's an undertone of violence and danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:05 PM
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Chemistry has nothing to do with having things in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:02 PM
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No one who ever experienced chemistry would say this. Finding someone hot and experiencing chemistry with them often overlap, but they're completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:01 PM
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disney is wildly red pill. which one are you thinking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:01 AM
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yeah but can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:35 AM
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... have you read the hunchback of notre dame? quasimodo orbits and pedestalises esmerelda, and she ends up with the hottie phoebus
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:31 AM
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He could have not dated a professional surfer and model if he didn't want anyone to see her in a bikini. He could have broken up with her when it became clear that she didn't want to give up her career.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:23 AM
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Some women do. Many, many do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:53 PM
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I've never had to lie. I just don't talk about it, and I don't date men who ask about it. It's worked out great for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:49 PM
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It has nothing to do with an "archaic culture tradition". Timid, nervous men are unattractive. If a man is afraid to approach, that means he is not the type of man I want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:48 PM
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That they can sleuth out whether a woman's been a slut or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:46 PM
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men like to believe this, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:45 AM
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a lot of men may be into you, but scared of approaching these are not the men we want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:49 AM
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that's assuming a guy knows about your past. in my experience he almost never does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:46 AM
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rape and homicide
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:30 AM
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that doesn't stop men from behaving like men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:30 AM
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There's a gendered "double standard" because almost every domestic homicide that's ever occurred has been man on woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:22 AM
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I said nothing about it being a good or bad thing. But it is a thing, and it makes perfect sense that people are wary of old men seeking young women and not the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:30 PM
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hardly anyone gave a lick of attention towards the age difference with Hiba Abouk and Achraf Hakim or with Olivia Wild and Harry styles. Because male sexuality is predatory and female sexuality is not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:21 AM
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