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it is fascinating watching so many people interpret this post in the most autistic way possible and completely miss the point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:57 AM
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You're overestimating how much women think or talk about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:01 PM
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I'm in 3 women-centric private subs and we don't talk about men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:57 AM
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If he didn't trust her I would tell him he's not ready for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:01 PM
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Some people really should be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:58 AM
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Ok, replace "party" with "wife" now, and get back to the actual question at hand. It is objectively insulting and everyone who is not a moron can see that. It makes perfect sense for there to be a stigma around not trusting your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:51 AM
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You can ask "do you trust the people closest to you" in as many different ways as you like, and the answer will still be yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:09 AM
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Well that says a lot about you and the company you keep
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:34 AM
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That's insanity. No one hides their jewelry from their good friends. To do so would be wildly insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:02 AM
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Why is he not allowed to see his child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:43 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:25 PM
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Boohoo. What do women get in compensation for men killing, raping and assaulting us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:54 PM
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I didn't say it had anything to do with me being a woman. I said men are more dangerous than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:44 AM
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I have 36 years of anecdotes, and they're supported by every study out there on violence. Every woman I know has been sexually harassed consistently since she was around 12 years old, and it was always men. I've been sexually assaulted, drugged, hit by a drunk driver, followed home, robbed, etc etc etc and it was always a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:00 AM
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Literally every time I've ever been in danger or physically harmed in my life has been because of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:42 AM
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Hahahah I swear you guys are aliens
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:06 AM
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Boohoo and it's not fair to women that we live in a world of dangerous men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:37 AM
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No, it's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:26 AM
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The double standards favor women because women are not as dangerous as men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:23 AM
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no, I'd think he was a weirdo and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:14 AM
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it is pretty disgusting that you think rape is less explicit if it doesn't involve penetration. it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:49 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 08:45 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:07 AM
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All the guys in here acting like they've uncovered something worth talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:45 AM
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You guys acting like this is some big secret is hilarious. Of course FEMinism is about FEMale empowerment lol what else would it be about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:03 AM
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I'm not giving advice. You made a post about hinting vs telling, and I'm saying they're both outsourcing work to your wife and effectively the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:28 PM
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Your "mechanism" is outsourcing being an adult to your wife. Trust me, she will get tired of this, and this "teehee I can't help it I'm neurospicy" attitude is unattractive as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:13 PM
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I have experienced it, I'm also diagnosed ADHD. If you can function at work you can find mechanisms to function at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:11 PM
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Sounds like you're making excuses to be lazy and inconsiderate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:59 PM
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yes, and women who share your values on family structure are going to be the most offended at the idea of a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:25 AM
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A loyal women would fight for paternal certainty and monogamy. No lol a loyal woman would be horrified at the knowledge that her husband, who she is gestating a baby for, does not trust her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:46 AM
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lol what nonsense. things happen because you make them happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:21 PM
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maybe you should do something about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:03 PM
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i went to a single sex school, we were all going to parties with boys and dating by 16 or so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:57 PM
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Ok if in your universe hiring a PI to investigate your spouse is a "smart thing to do" and not clinically paranoid, then I guess the rest of your reasoning makes sense. Back in the real world, people are marrying because they love and trust each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:36 AM
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Wow even for here it's surprising to see someone so confidently miss the point lol. Try reversing paternity test and STD test in everything you've just said and see if it clicks. I'm not interested in handholding you through this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:05 AM
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Maybe the question is "are you cheating", maybe it's a genuine concern around catching something. Just like demanding a paternity test could be either an accusation or a genuine concern over the child's paternity. And similarly, if a paternity test shows you as the father, it doesn't mean she isn't cheating. Regardless of the motivation behind the demand or the outcome of the test, if your wife asks you to take an STD test, she is implying that she believes you may have cheated on her. She doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 11:40 PM
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Yeah, I don't know you, that could be true. It's certainly not the norm though. A regular person would be horrified by an accusation like that, as they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:44 PM
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No they're insulted because it's an awful thing to imply about someone who loves you. Same way a (normal, non-autistic) man would be insulted if his wife of ten years asked him for an STD check.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:03 PM
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lol do you seriously think that women being insulted by paternity testing is the result of mindless groupthink? I could never discuss this topic with another woman, and would still be absolutely disgusted if my husband ever proposed such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:29 PM
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no they wouldn't. i've never heard of a married woman demanding her husband get regular STD checks, that's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:12 PM
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When they ask for your ID, are they accusing you of identity fraud? this is a stranger asking me to verify myself, not my husband who I love and am devoted to and have just carried and birthed a child for. can you honestly not see the difference? what a shitty, bad-faith analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:10 PM
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no one's saying what you keep say they're saying. you've misinterpreted the goals of feminism and then whining that it's not about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:56 PM
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Women's equality. Finding areas where women are behind and fixing these. It's never been about solving men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:33 PM
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yes. helping men can sometimes be a side effect of feminism, but it is never the motivation. the motivation is always WOMEN's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:17 AM
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you find it really hard to stay on topic, don't you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:52 PM
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so grown men have no agency and it's all mommy's fault? if we're going to go back to the "root cause", why not blame the father who left him alone with the mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:51 PM
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lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:49 PM
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most men don't give a shit about this stuff. if they did, daddy wouldn't have allowed it to become the dominant force
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:06 PM
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I don't care, that's not what we're discussing. Feminism has always been about finding gaps where women fall short, or are perceived to fall short, and working to correct that. Whether you agree that their issues are real is beside the point. Feminism has nothing to do with looking after men, and this argument that they're not mommying you guys is embarrassing and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:42 PM
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If what they did constitutes a crime, of course. Men and women are different. Men are exceedingly more violent and criminal than women are. Are you actually trying to deny this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:36 PM
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It is and was always about progressing women's position where it falls short from men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:34 PM
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What are you talking about lol. Men end up in prison because they're more likely to be criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:30 PM
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What part of the word FEMinism led men to believe it's about men's issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:29 PM
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https://www.insider.com/jonah-hill-sarah-brady-texts-therapy-speak-out-of-control-2023-7
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:37 PM
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/u/redpillschool was outed a while back, he's... what I expected https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2017/05/reddit-red-pill-founder-republican-says-he-never-hated-women.html
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:01 AM
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So men fail because they don't find risk "fun"? yes. risk aversion is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:33 AM
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You're supposed to change their view, not reinforce their point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:05 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:41 AM
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If a woman's really into a man she'll bend to his plans to make it work. If she's embarrassed to present him publicly, he'll remain casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:28 AM
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no, embarrassing is the correct word.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:48 AM
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You didn't ask any questions, you made angry assumptions. If you want to know what I think, frame it as a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:48 AM
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I still don't know who you're trying to argue with but you sound like a bitchy girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:11 AM
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who are you talking to? obviously men are stronger than women. you sound insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:01 AM
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no one in their right mind is arguing that women are as strong or as violent as men. don't act dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:24 PM
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I swear none of you can read
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:58 PM
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I'm not talking about pornstar sex. I'm talking about having a regular, healthy sex. My friends are all late 30s/early 40s, and we talk very openly about this stuff. The low n good girls are ALWAYS the ones complaining that their husbands want a sex life, there's a lot of resentment there. The babies are out, her job is done. The slutty girls are the ones still having fun with their husbands and enjoying his attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:58 AM
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Wrong. You don't get women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:20 AM
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Delusion lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:39 AM
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Speaking as a woman who is 10+ years into her happy, monogamous marriage and still having a lot of very good sex, I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:39 AM
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Go to deadbedrooms to see what that actually looks like. You'll just be another man complaining that your wife won't fuck you. Or you won't, and you're irrelevant to my point. I'm talking about people who want a sustained sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:28 AM
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Ok so a sex life beyond two years isn't important to you. You're irrelevant to my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:22 AM
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Wait and see how "passionately into you" she is after 10 years and 2 kids. Limerence wears off, if you want a sustained sex life, pick a woman who has demonstrated that she loves sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:12 AM
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Show me where I said that shaming men for this is "fine"? Or where is said it's "bad" to shame sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:08 AM
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Yeah, I wasn't talking about people who are chaste for their religion. I don't think these are the girls that guys here are dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:33 AM
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The physical hurdle is much lower than some men think. As long as he's not repulsive, charm and charisma goes a LONG way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:16 AM
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That's not why women dislike virgin men. We dislike them because confidence and experience is inherently attractive. It also signals that something's wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:59 AM
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It's not about being bad or good at sex, it's not a learned skill for women. A woman is good in bed when she's genuinely horny and uninhibited. This is something inherent to a woman's personality, and trying to turn a prude into a slut is a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:53 AM
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I don't think this is the basis of the argument that people make Far more often I see people say (and I agree) that if you want a partner who genuinely loves sex and gets off on it and is open to getting a bit freaky, you're going to struggle to find that in a woman who's been prudish before you. Women who love sex, have sex. This idea of a chaste, low n girl who turns into an insatiable slut just for you is cope. Low n girls tend to either have a low libido, or they have sexual hangups and see …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:51 AM
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the question was "why do some men get this ick and others do not"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:15 AM
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It's not "bad", but it's unrealistic. Women don't want to deal with or teach inexperienced men. You can pay for a professional to give you some experience, or you can complain about reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:38 PM
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My point is that men are FAR more dangerous and violent than women. If you're not going to admit that obvious point then talking with you is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:01 PM
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Despite numerous studies that report the preponderance of domestic violence to be perpetrated by men against women For every study that suggests women are equal abusers, I'll show you a thousand that show men commit almost all serious domestic violence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:14 AM
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Put it this way - for every female abuser there is I'll show you a thousand male abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:08 AM
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Well, it has to be something Yeah, I just said what it is? I don't understand what you're trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:38 AM
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Yeah lol apparently you should go get a pasty fat coder instead
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:11 AM
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It's that intense feeling of connection or excitement you have immediately upon meeting certain people. When I've felt it, it's been triggered by his personality and body language. How he talks, how he moves, how he looks at me, how he flirts. I've felt crazy chemistry with very average looking dudes and zero chemistry with really good looking ones. My husband and I have almost nothing in common, but the chemistry is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:05 AM
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Jesus Christ dude no one is talking about children being molested by teachers. I'm talking about a grown MAN choosing to go to a brothel and get some experience so he's not so weird around women. This is why I don't post here anymore. Morons like you deliberately misinterpret any good faith discussions in the most autistic way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:06 PM
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No one talks about men being corrupted by sex, don't be ridiculous. Well he can't have it both ways. Women are going to be turned off by his inexperience, that's reality. He can solve the problem by buying some experience, or he can live in fantasy land and be sad about life not being a fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:52 PM
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Why can't the male virgin see a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:24 PM
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Woman. No. When I fall in love I forget all about my exes. I haven't given any of them a second thought since meeting my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:12 PM
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Sexually experienced women should (and do) end up with sexually experienced men. Picking up some virgin and teaching him how to fuck is a terrible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:09 PM
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Women don't want to teach men. It's a massive turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:40 PM
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Because men and women are different. When women are controlling, it's annoying. When men are controlling, there's an undertone of violence and danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:05 PM
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Chemistry has nothing to do with having things in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:02 PM
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No one who ever experienced chemistry would say this. Finding someone hot and experiencing chemistry with them often overlap, but they're completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:01 PM
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It’s not childish to own children’s toys lol of course it is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 06:21 AM
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disney is wildly red pill. which one are you thinking of?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:01 AM
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yeah but can you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:35 AM
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lol do you think anyone who listens to gangster rap has an interest in cancelling anyone? do you think anyone in a gang gives a single fuck about being cancelled? you can't cancel someone who doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:44 AM
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... have you read the hunchback of notre dame? quasimodo orbits and pedestalises esmerelda, and she ends up with the hottie phoebus
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:31 AM
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He could have not dated a professional surfer and model if he didn't want anyone to see her in a bikini. He could have broken up with her when it became clear that she didn't want to give up her career.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:23 AM
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Some women do. Many, many do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:53 PM
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I've never had to lie. I just don't talk about it, and I don't date men who ask about it. It's worked out great for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:49 PM
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It has nothing to do with an "archaic culture tradition". Timid, nervous men are unattractive. If a man is afraid to approach, that means he is not the type of man I want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:48 PM
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That they can sleuth out whether a woman's been a slut or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:46 PM
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men like to believe this, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:45 AM
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a lot of men may be into you, but scared of approaching these are not the men we want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:49 AM
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that's assuming a guy knows about your past. in my experience he almost never does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:46 AM
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that wasn't the question, einstein
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:37 AM
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ok ignore the lingo. would you rather end up with a woman who loves and wants to fuck you, or with a woman who needs you for your money?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:14 AM
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This post is about "the west", not Poland
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:37 PM
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Natural female sexuality is what gen z morons are patholgizing as "demisexual". If men exhibit feminine sexuality, yes it's going to be a turn off. Stop trying to compete with women over who gets to be the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:35 PM
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Hand a woman an income and she will want a man who has a greater income marry for love and attraction, not financial stability. I don't get it, do you guys want to be the beta provider or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:32 PM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:29 PM
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Who said anything about age?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:35 PM
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If he's made it to 30 without a girlfriend, he's not a normal guy. There is a reason for it, and I bet you his parents are acutely aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:16 PM
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one is female dominated and one is male. that's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:09 AM
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rape and homicide
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:30 AM
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that doesn't stop men from behaving like men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:30 AM
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no, implying that women generally don't behave that way, and when they do it's inherently less damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:27 AM
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lol that's nonsense. i went to an all girls' school and then into male-dominated military and there is NO comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:25 AM
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men celebrate men who: Want younger women Want thinner women Want specific body shapes (butt , boobs) while shaming women who: Want younger men Want a big penis Want tall men 6ft+ Want men that earn a specific salary
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:23 AM
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There's a gendered "double standard" because almost every domestic homicide that's ever occurred has been man on woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:22 AM
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that's not idealistic, it is literally how women are. we fall in love and this causes us to lose interest in other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:30 AM
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I said nothing about it being a good or bad thing. But it is a thing, and it makes perfect sense that people are wary of old men seeking young women and not the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:30 PM
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hardly anyone gave a lick of attention towards the age difference with Hiba Abouk and Achraf Hakim or with Olivia Wild and Harry styles. Because male sexuality is predatory and female sexuality is not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:21 AM
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