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5	Here’s the truth about looks and personality While it is true to an extent that an attractive person will have their personality flaws largely ignored, at least by certain people (probably the people you don't want to be dating), it also works in the opposite direction. A good personality can raise your attractiveness significantly. I know I'm not the only person who met a girl I wasn't really attracted to and assumed we'd just be friends, but as I got to know her better, she started to become a lot more attractive. Sure, it takes time to …	/r/seduction	14/05/20 04:00 AM
1	BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive. Lmao nobody is born with a v taper. It comes from a slim waist and developed lats and shoulders. You obviously don't know about working out so it seems you aren't even going to try. But it really helps with confidence and depression to get the blood flowing and feel your masculine strength increasing. Game is not easy for anyone other than the rich and famous, or basically male models. We all have to get over our insecurities and put ourselves out there. You might have it bad, but I guarantee th…	/r/seduction	13/04/20 06:46 AM
2	From a guy who knows what he's talking about: Tinder should stop being given as advice on how to get girls. Yeah I don't like online dating. I am a good conversationalist so I do much better in person. Obviously it takes 10x the balls to do a cold approach, but that's how it is. I'm starting to get pretty strong so I could do the shirtless photo, haha. But that's not really my style.	/r/seduction	07/03/20 07:09 AM
2	From a guy who knows what he's talking about: Tinder should stop being given as advice on how to get girls. Part of it is the fact that tinder is set up to make you care more about looks. It is a quick glance, photo based app. The other part is, for whatever reason, women are harsher judges of men's looks with online dating. https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a "It was determined that the bottom 80% of men (in terms of attractiveness) are competing for the bottom 22% of women and the top 78% …	/r/seduction	07/03/20 06:43 AM
3	From a guy who knows what he's talking about: Tinder should stop being given as advice on how to get girls. Join a club or something, meetup.com is a good place to start.	/r/seduction	07/03/20 06:10 AM
1	The fastest way to get a girl on a date through text is by going SLOW \| Texting 101 \| I think it's important to delineate here. I'm assuming you got the number from a cold approach. It's not like they don't know what's going on, obviously if you approach them and ask for their number, they know you want to take them out. In that case there are really only three possibilities: 1) The girl was not that interested and just gave you her number to placate you. 2) The girl was intrigued by you and might be interested, wants to see more of you. 3) You did your job and the girl is actual…	/r/seduction	20/01/20 01:01 AM
1	I'm a 24 year old male virgin - help/advice Yeah, you pretty much don't NEED to if you are charismatic enough. But either way it will boost your self-respect, confidence, energy levels, will make you more attractive and masculine, etc. Besides the obvious part about leading a long and healthy life. So definitely worth it.	/r/seduction	09/01/20 11:33 PM
1	How to deal with girls "out of my league"? Well, I disagree wholeheartedly with much of what you said. I could make arguments and cite studies all day, but clearly we have very different worldviews, so I don't think it's very likely that we will convince each other of anything. Furthermore, I don't think an extended political discussion will be relevant to this sub. However, I do think one point is important to clear up. You say that women don't all want an aggressive man, and some don't even want children. While I admit what I said is a…	/r/seduction	07/01/20 07:07 AM
1	How to deal with girls "out of my league"? Fair enough, I do see your point. However, I would still maintain that the "war against masculinity" poses just as big or maybe a greater threat. No matter what they say, we all know that women are attracted to masculine traits. It's biological. They have an instinctive need to find a man who can be aggressive when needed to protect her and their children. I do agree that we could spend more time with girls as boys. Emotional intelligence is important to develop and obviously that stuff comes mo…	/r/seduction	06/01/20 05:57 AM
1	How to deal with girls "out of my league"? Hmm, interesting point. But what do you have against beer and sports? Those conversations are perfectly fine for developing emotional intelligence. For instance, I can't just talk all day about my favorite beer, I have to be sensitive to who I'm talking with and give them a chance to share their thoughts on beer as well. I agree that time with women is important, but time with men learning how to be a man is equally important, as women are attracted to masculine qualities, which are developed by…	/r/seduction	04/01/20 07:20 PM
2	Whoa 7 years flew by so fast Hell yeah man, Jeff is awesome! There are so many people with bad info out there but he is one that I really trust. Late reply but I should add that after I wrote that I looked at some studies and a lot were saying that 8-12 reps is more ideal for hypertrophy, so I actually started adding some more reps to experiment. I think that is one of the key principles - to keep changing up your training routine so your body can't just adapt to one particular exercise or modality. However, I think that ti…	/r/seduction	04/01/20 07:07 PM
3	How to deal with girls "out of my league"? Really? You think that the "boys will be boys culture" is causing this? You do admit that the dating problem has gotten worse over the past couple generations, right? Just look at millennial marriage rates and/or sexually inactive rates if you're unsure. And do you admit that schools have generally cracked down much more on boys in that timeframe? It used to be okay to wrestle on the playground. You used to have to stand up for yourself, and boys were actually allowed to get tough. You used to h…	/r/seduction	02/01/20 05:41 PM
2	Don't Fall Victim to a Victim Mentality That doesn't invalidate what OP is saying, though. Generalizations are useful, despite their limitations. So rather than being a person who tends to view themselves as a victim of circumstance, you should strive to view things as a challenge to overcome. You won't perfectly fit into either box, but that doesn't mean we can't have a desirable ideal.	/r/seduction	24/12/19 10:11 PM
2	Whoa 7 years flew by so fast Doing deadlifts and squats in the same day is a bit overkill, though I see you are using light weights. Once they get higher you'd be well advised to spread them out a bit more, but go hard when you do them. As for posture, face pulls are amazing and should be included, especially if you are training chest. Other than that you've got a pretty good routine going. Full body workouts are good and you're getting compound movements in every day looks like. Keep in mind, if this is purely for hypertro…	/r/seduction	20/12/19 12:51 AM