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Early incel nerd, done similar. It fills a physical need, not a spiritual one. And that is really not fulfilling. Edit: grammar. Early incel, meaning was one when young.
/r/seduction06/02/26 04:34 PM
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First I deleted everything, now i chuck everything into a folder.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 04:26 PM
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Excellent legal advice. This shall pass, if you let it pass. Don’t lose your cool, make a promise to yourself, to not lose your cool. It might make you lose control. Why did this happen, because you didn’t really know her. And other than outmaneuvering her, you really don’t need to know her more now. Think about her occasionally, mourn the loss, but don’t spend too much time dwelling on her. Best revenge is moving on and living well. This is advice I give to both men and women. Don’t get pilled.…
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/25 05:20 PM
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I explained to my kids what I thought was wrong with their parents, reminding them they were free to draw their own conclusions, as I was not impartial. I also allowed them to lie, as my ex wanted them to take sides. I expected them to show a modicum of respect to their parents. If I say something out of line, I get a response from them, same happens to my ex. I encourage them to have relationship with my ex, unlike her. So far, so good.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/24 09:05 PM
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That’s one side of the situation only. One important side nevertheless, but not the only one. I was severely abused. Knowing how to fight was not the issue. I still feel guilty over something that wasn’t my fault. Knowledge, and support are also important. Many men for example are uncomfortable with teaching their daughters about predators. I tell my siblings “remember how dumb we were growing up?”. That’s something I tried to fix with my kids.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 03:42 PM
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I encourage my kids to have a good relationship with my ex, they are a good influence on her. But they are encouraged to set up healthy boundaries to not get involved in anybody’s drama.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/24 06:30 AM
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I did most of the parenting of my daughters, you have to really widen your perspectives when trying to explain womanhood to a young girl, or boy. What I have noticed is a big increase in propaganda disseminating hate and stupidity. Divide and conquer.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/24 06:47 PM
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I’m old, I have been married most of my life, not in a hurry. Truth is for me at least marriage is a complicated contract that doesn’t ensure a relationship will last. Let’s see.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/24 04:09 AM
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My first divorce I missed her for so long. We even sort of remained friends. My second divorce, it’s about moving on. Edit: grammar. I tell my kids I still miss her sometimes, and they roll their eyes at me and tell me there is something wrong with me, lol. See the problem with raising kids to think independently, 😂. I used to think life would be simple and straightforward, nope. You try to simplify it. And even when you move on, and love someone else. Move on.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/24 10:32 PM
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You have daughters? My own told me I should have divorced years before. My kids know me and my ex better than anyone so far, when I say I miss her, they tell me I was deluded. My ex always wanted back, when we finally divorced she went scorched earth making all our lives worse, she still is mad I don’t talk to her. Life probably would have been better for myself, and my kids if I had divorced earlier. Do I miss her? Yup. Do I regret divorcing her? Nope. Should have done it earlier.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 10:52 PM
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The best advice I got was keep your cool, always. I don’t do revenge for free. The only person I reveal some issues to is to the kids as they will be affected. If ex reveals I might correct. If I share kids, I want the best for my ex. But specially while a divorce is ongoing don’t rock that boat. I just got divorced right now, on one side I wish she doesn’t find someone (different new one), on the practical side a good influence is better than an asshole for the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 08:07 PM
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Beta, alpha, kappa etc. all these descriptions of men and their roles that I have seen so far have been used by insecure men on YouTube trying to appear tough. And although some might be physically tough, their overall behaviour is not tough. Your reaction was normal, your response was normal.
/r/MenSupportMen23/11/23 10:41 PM
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The writing is on the wall, and you need to sleep and eat better too.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 02:38 AM
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Lol my youth in the comments. Make yourselves financially independent, set up boundaries, I’m told therapy with a good therapist can do wonders. To having friends it takes some time and learning. Same as having girlfriends. With time, dedication and money many can retain their hair, I just shaved.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:21 PM
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In these days I find it helps for everyone in the family to have rights and duties. For everyone to pull together. It’s important that everyone gets some time, even if it’s to relax, that includes you, spouse and kids.
/r/MenSupportMen17/07/22 05:04 PM
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I have always spoken very openly to my kids about family issues. Only one has complained, and yet I know it has been good for her to know where we are all standing. I explain my side, they are open to form their own opinions, I know my explanations are not impartial, I encourage them to have a good relationship with my spouse. They are encouraged to pick and choose their battles, if mom asks who the favourite parent is, I don’t care what they answer, because that’s a dumb question. At this momen…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 08:55 PM
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I hated growing up being afraid to take sides, not knowing was happening, or being blamed for everything. I inform my kids as much as possible. Expect them to respect within reason their parents and their siblings. My spouse used to engage in favourite kids and favourite parents. My kids were taught to pick their battles, and since little if mom wanted to be called favourite, the kids were encouraged to avoid stupid fights. I get along with my kids and they try to get along with their mother wit…
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/22 12:44 PM
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When my ex wife of whom I had been divorced over many years ago died, I cried, life goes on, you don’t even talk because life is busy, but at least there was more love than hate after all. Edit: I mentioned it because the amount of sadness was surprising to me.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/22 06:02 AM
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My brother advised me “ If someone wants to take your trash please don’t disturb him. You worry about custody, let your brain be in control.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 01:57 AM
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So are women. I brought up my kids to focus on themselves, and respect others, regardless of their gender.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 04:44 PM
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Ugly guy here, beauty is just part of being attractive. Some people will not date someone unless they are physically attractive, shrug. Mature people tend to look for a group of qualities where beauty probably is one, but should not be the most important.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 05:52 PM
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I find as honest as possible to be my best policy. I explain my views are not impartial, and I try to be unbiased. I try to give the kids as much information as possible for them to take care of themselves, and make better decisions.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/21 03:16 PM
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It’s not women nature. It’s narcissistic personality both men and women do it. And when our parents are narcissistic we grow up with some tendencies and oblivious to some red flags. Read up on codependency. Because we grow up flawed and tend to gravitate towards these personalities, ending with the conclusion of all “women” or all “men”. Edit: don’t want to sound harsh, just has been a long day so far.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/20 04:22 AM
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That is the other side of the coin, and it doesn’t have to be sexual abuse only. There is both great, or lousy or, so so stepparents.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/19 10:46 AM
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All my friends with stepdad or stepmom who were loved by all of them fared better. It’s better to have more moms or dads than conflict.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/19 04:51 AM
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This, I am below average in looks. Looks help, but are not the only variable.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/19 10:00 PM
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I have had many female friends and friends, not the usual case, everyone is slightly different at least. But there was a subset of my male friends who only had eyes for women like you described, so if you were a guy like that, through that little window they looked through, “all” women were like that.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/18 10:56 PM
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Easier, to check profile on mobile, yep, good response. I believe both responses add, although yours has more potential to go deeper. To add, when I say I did not read, it’s a qualifier to my response, didn’t want OP to use my opinion as a full response to his more elaborated question, but rather the short one. One of my kids will ask ten to twenty deep questions in a good day, I tend to qualify my responses so they can give weight to them, and specify if it needs more discussion. Sometimes I fo…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 05:51 PM
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I’m not saying I don’t care. There are many levels of discussion for this. If I did not care, I would not put effort to answer the question. And till next week, past Thursday to be more exact, I doubt my brain is in capacity to follow the convoluted thoughts he is expounding. What’s more OP does not have to take my words as gospel, that would be a mistake. I would like OP to consider my opinion and weigh it against his own. What I am sharing with OP is my OWN self guidance I use for myself. I ca…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 05:18 PM
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He asked a simple question. And gives a lot of complex reasoning. I could really wax philosophical answering or give a simple answer. I opted for the later. And simply was honest about reading, because having raised kids, I find simple common sense reasonings to be effective. Want something deeper I will probably bow out, some people simply want reinforcement not reasoning. If people just attack without further explanation, or good reasoning, I just assume they are getting triggered. For me peop…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 07:45 AM
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Too long didn’t read. Red pill is about being an asshole. As a red piller Ideally you find an asshole woman and try to outasshole each other. In real life you want someone you can be friends with. And in real life moderation is key, you can’t be too nice or too bad. If you are not getting where you need to go, maybe you are going to the wrong place, or are going the wrong road.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 01:39 AM
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Oh these things happen to both men and women, just more to men due to usual dynamics. But being a woman does not exempt you from being played too.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/18 06:53 AM
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Just so you are aware, it seems this was her plan all along. If you dwell on it, it will turn you bitter. Shit happens, move on, it’s unfair, but there is a lot of life beyond this. Plan well. Don’t fall again for this. Don’t cry over spilt milk. Remember the good times even if they were based on lies. I’m looking sideways at you, same situation, worst even. It can make you very bitter, don’t let it. Think a natural event. Don’t waste unnecessary time or feelings on sunken costs. It’s a growing …
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/18 10:39 PM
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Been there. Divorce and try to do things right. In a restricted way explain some things to the kids, more as they grow up. Don’t forget your roles as a parent, one of them is to set an example. Other roles include disciplining the kids with love and explanations of why. Another important role is to explain and to teach them proper decision making. As a rule of thumb kids will gravitate towards the security and true love you show, your ex partner have an effect yes, but greatly minimized.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/18 07:03 PM
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Finding and keeping a relationship takes maturity, work and luck from all involved. In my case lacking good family orientation it has taken my siblings some time to mature. My advice is respect, communication and compromise. Make it an experience. Hugs brother.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/18 10:37 AM
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Don’t take it personally. I have experience in being needy. Most of times women don’t come back to needy men, they find it unactractive. Not your case, but I want to share the following. My SO mentioned her seasonal plan to abandon the family. Surprised at my unusual lack of reaction she questioned me. Apparently it entertains her when we hurt for her. Yes it hurts, fuck that shit.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/18 10:18 AM
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A lot of this is insecurity and also projection. There is a possibility that she is cheating or would easily consider it. And to be at the mercy of those doubts, it might be better to move on. Read about codependency, see if anything seems familiar. Try to make yourself independent in thought. If needed use the help of your family, but do not just change masters, become your own master.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/18 03:39 AM
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Is it possible she is emotionally abusing you? That can trap you. My personal advice is to update the kids in the most neutral way possible. Sometimes it's better to leave and give a better example.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/18 02:33 AM
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In their lives that is when their enabling parent would swoop in and liberate them and console them. Make kids responsible for their acts, better to learn it young.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/17 07:49 PM
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http://abcnews.go.com/US/story?id=7557222&page=1 But police said the families in the two cars were driving on a public road when the Muhs opened fire from their house, killing Donald Coffey Jr.(7 years) and hitting three others, including the boy's 5-year-old sister. Nelton told the Houston Chronicle that they yelled at the Muhs after the first shot that they had kids in the car and to stop shooting, but another gunshot -- possibly more -- is all they heard in return. "She said, 'Mama, they shot…
/r/MensRights15/03/17 08:44 PM
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;)
/r/PussyPass27/02/17 09:00 AM
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Sure looks like that.
/r/PussyPass27/02/17 08:15 AM
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This is uncalled for. Instead of resorting to immaturity, why don't you stick around and use reasonable arguments? Here? In this echo chamber?
/r/PussyPass27/02/17 04:08 AM
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Which brings the question once I open this on a PC, what exactly am I doing subscribed to this echo chamber? Maybe I was drunk, except I do not drink, ill go with sleep deprived lol. Anyways easy fix. Ahh sub change!! yay
/r/PussyPass27/02/17 04:02 AM
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Talking to the wall.
/r/PussyPass27/02/17 03:59 AM
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I have seen walls of these "facts" Blacks are >15% of the population, but responsible for more than <85% of the crime. How do you reconcile that? Wow we got a new wall of crap!! Feel better now? Did you help make things better? No! But you now feel pleased with yourself, because you found someone to blame for your misfortunes. Racists do not make things better, they make them worse. But that righteousness pulsing through your veins is heady stuff. The Russians killed Polish intellectuals and lea…
/r/PussyPass27/02/17 03:25 AM
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Bam you won. Lol. There is no reasoning with those that are closed minded. http://sfbayview.com/2011/02/what-happened-to-black-wall-street-on-june-1-1921/ https://www.aclu.org/feature/war-marijuana-black-and-white People whining and moaning it wont fix things. Pointing to cherypicked facts that even if they were true would not help to solve problems. Racists are about blaming not about fixing anything. All the greediness, inhumanity lack of human values has created a broken system. It continues …
/r/PussyPass26/02/17 07:56 PM
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Culturally asians venerate smarts hence smart results, not necessarily smarter, but for sure good goals.
/r/PussyPass26/02/17 07:08 PM
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By cherry picking what you call facts. Even attempting to call that crap facts is racist. Anybody who needs to lie and distort to blame is a loser. And not all racists are white. And being white, black, purple etc. does not automatically make you good or bad duh!!
/r/PussyPass26/02/17 07:06 PM
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Balance!
/r/MensRights13/02/17 07:43 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Germanwings_Flight_9525
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/17 06:02 AM
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Had one that had to be removed drunk from the cabin. Had another kamikaze the plane. Stress can affect anyone. Being stressed out might have different distribution due to many causes including even cultural and sociological. But to attribute it only to gender is kind of narrow minded. Was it Korea that had a rash plane accidents due to cultural norms?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/17 04:24 AM
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Hey bagofqueef we got downvoted, I forgot which subforum I was posting in lol. It's hard to understand this safe place, I try not to comment here, just come for some of the articles and try to avoid reading comments. Lots of good posters here but the balance is leaning towards safe place insults lately. What was I told here was that life is only tough for white men, you can read all about this in Facebook, me I believe life can be tough for anyone, including white men.
/r/MensRights11/02/17 05:14 AM
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Broken homes, dysfunctional families, rape all those things can do a number on any one of us.
/r/MensRights10/02/17 10:13 PM
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Women who come from broken homes seek being beaten up. The best you can do is support from a distance. Anytime I would bail out a girl, I knew I would make fun of her, she somewhat became a little better at least to avoid my jokes at her expense.
/r/MensRights10/02/17 05:15 PM
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I expressed that view in another subreddit forum. Not all but many got really upset. They live in this weird echo chamber where they insult opinions different from their own. Apparently the only truly oppressed are white men, they have these special alternative facts that support their views. In my view anybody can be oppressed it does not matter gender, age, race, weight etc. For some the reason that some women hate men, means all men should hate women.....really? You get kids sons and daughter…
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/17 05:28 AM
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Yes they are some in the women's march slandering people. Should it take away from real concerns? Should we get to slandering too? In every good cause, there are bad people working their angle trying to make a living. Point out the people not the cause. If you need to generalize people you are missing something and trying to pin a blame. Point out the extremists who generalize the other gender, don't copycat them
/r/MensRights26/01/17 10:18 PM
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Many are parroting lies told to them as facts. Everybody should listen to both sides of any argument, once you start labeling others with insults, and stop listening to their arguments, you are being used as a tool and are brainwashed, and both sides of the political spectrum are guilty of this. The truth is there is things in common with conservatives and liberals, things like justice, costs, honesty, etc. Yet for political reasons people are being trained to avoid dialogue and meaningful compr…
/r/MensRights26/01/17 07:40 PM
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State funded option brings down states total costs.
/r/MensRights26/01/17 07:11 PM
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Education brings down abortion rates, and education about sex and abortion brings down states costs. It is money you are worried about right?
/r/MensRights26/01/17 07:08 PM
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Nope, this lady did her time, but she is not a nice person, but she is well spoken. Still not a nice person.
/r/PussyPass24/01/17 07:48 PM
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Read some interviews with her. They are trying to use the race card. She is some type of psychopath who happens to be a scumbag who killed and tortured another scumbag who happened to be rich. She is also intelligent and pretty, still a deplorable person. Many good causes have bad people in them trying to work an angle or make a living. They just give a bad name to good causes.
/r/PussyPass24/01/17 07:45 PM
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You should go back to the restaurant and leave a substantial tip to your waiter/Waitress. Something that covers your steak and drinks.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/17 05:11 AM
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And homework too.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/16 05:54 PM
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Men and women do get special privileges because of gender. Depends on place and time. In divorce courts usually it's women, in big corporations usually it's men.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/16 05:56 PM
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Nah two different attorneys. But she ended up having legal problems with her own attorney too. But she did disclose her private information to her husbands lawyer also, sure that she could get away with everything, and she almost did. Except she was too greedy. A bit confusing because she also had problems with her own attorney, whom she did not take advice from, or want to pay, since she bickered till she botched everything.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/16 05:45 PM
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She told the husbands attorney she had a boyfriend and was waiting for him to die. She told the opposing party her plans, and like a good lawyer he filed/ stored the information. She also did not take her own lawyers advice, and then tried to skip payment to her own lawyer. It's not a woman are bad story. Some women and men think they can get away with things because gender. But she ended up being set straight by a woman judge, who called her BS out, and probably was not hindered by issues that …
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/16 05:14 PM
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The thing is, it is not stopping them from doing it, just failing at keeping them safe.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/05/16 03:15 PM
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Me too, and instead of clarification of some parts, we get rude other people harassing others, because oh my good it's a "repost" "he" has seen already. Excellent how Rogan used her schoolyard bully tactics to mock her.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/16 04:13 PM
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Unless resources available are lopsided. Everyone who needs help should get help if there is help available.
/r/MensRights02/03/16 10:11 PM
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Probably different charges. maybe a subtle hint. Both?
/r/PussyPass01/02/16 09:31 PM
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Bahamas, similar thought.
/r/MensRights28/10/15 10:30 PM
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Both my grandmas were extremely tough women. Extreme hardships made them tough as nails. One focused intellectually, the other physically. Most men would have to pre train to get to that level. Lol. But I agree with you on some levels we should not relax standards. On others we should, to share rights and responsibilities.
/r/MensRights04/10/15 05:42 PM
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And as you said this would be one of the cases where minimum standard should be meet. The pretraining can be understood, but the standards should be uniform.
/r/MensRights01/10/15 12:11 PM
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I trained a woman for a field job once, after my personal recommendation in private to her not to do the job. She more than carried her weight work-wise, physically not really, but at the end of the day, we had plenty of muscle guys, and few with brains and discipline. So in my opinion both sides have merit. But I rather have Parkhurst in an extreme situation. But if a woman can compete in knowledge and discipline there is that too. Generally men are more qualified for extreme physical jobs, but…
/r/MensRights01/10/15 06:41 AM
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Parts can even be a different color than the rest of samples. Now if if your parts are the appropriate shade of color you might have more job openings.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/04/15 02:30 AM
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Somebody had a conscience.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/15 10:03 AM
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Lucky you, somebody took compassion of you, and ratted her out.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/04/15 09:24 AM
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Or teacher crossed little baby snowflake.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/15 05:46 PM
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