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I mean yeah they obviously exist but the core issue is basic supply demand. Still as a culture these things are less and less, and thus less and less people , making finding these harder and harder. That’s the problem. It’s not normal part of society any longer, requiring large amounts of effort. For instance, I lived in several countries, most of the ones I enjoyed elements where you’d just walk downtown and that would have all sorts of public actives you can just ease into. Some places just ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:02 AM
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Things like height and looks are more about status… Granted obviously someone wants someone good looking and ideal, but not as much as men. Just ask a trans man what it’s like after the testosterone kicks in. Every single one tells you they suddenly understand the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:48 PM
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Casual sex has always been a thing. It’s less common today than back in the day. Sluts are not the same as people who occasionally have casual sex. Sluts have huge amount of partners that they hardly know, if at all That’s still not acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:51 PM
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Bro have you EVER been to an underground club? High scale club? VIP at a concert? EVERYONE IS ON DRUGS AND HAVING SEX That's part of the game. If you're a sober dork no one is going to be hanging out with you because the fun is where the drugs are at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:11 PM
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Americans are culturally big time consumers. Living in European cities kind of shocked me just how little "stuff" people have. It's like, their closet with clothes, basic kitchenware, couch, table, desk, and generally just looks super minimalist. But the US has a lot of pressure to consume, as it's part of our status identity. Living in those conditions in the US is a sign of failure, so Americans feel pressured to buy a lot of stuff, which hurts disposable income. Just go to the average America…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:34 PM
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The destruction of third places has made it really really hard. That's literally the hardest thing to figure out, "What to do" for a lot of people. Having an active social life is surprisingly rare these days, especially with these growing economic conditions it has become even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:31 PM
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True…. That would change things up. I know multiple girls who meet everyone via DMs. Oddly no tesrstch into that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:50 PM
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NSA is still rare... Typically, at least half the time, the woman WANTS a relationship with the guy but knows he's not interested so that's at least a foot in the door. The other 50% is probably just the guy is really hung, which is rare, so she's just using him for big D. A shocking number of FWBs the dudes are hung as shit. I dunno why, but I always hear, "Yeah he was a dick so we broke up, but he had a big dick, so I kept sleeping with him."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:32 PM
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1 out of 4 women have TRIED online dating below 30. That means 3/4th haven't even loaded up an app once in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:56 PM
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Nah, maybe it is schadenfruede a bit where they are thinking "well they are going to hit the wall eventually and then they'll regret things" or whatever. But the wall is definitely a thing dude. 100% - it's just not as bad as some guys make it out to be. Like, yeah, they are now suddenly rushing to settle down looking for men before their looks fade... ANd you know what? They usually find it. And if not, it's not THAT bad. It's not like they become unfuckable weirdos. Dudes in their 40-50s are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:19 PM
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Almost every slut does want a man. Nearly all of them. It’s rare for a slut to actually just want to be single. Some may think they are “just having fun exploring their sexuality” but that’s just cope. They are using their sexuality to get closer to men and get a foot in the door hoping for a relationship, but keep failing because men don’t like slurs and put them in the east sex category. So the women keep sleeping around hoping to find a guy who will be with them. It’s a negative feedback loop…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:27 PM
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Because we don't NEED the government to intervene for that. Next time you see the kid, just get a swab and do it yourself. No court order needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:09 AM
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Though, it’s very very very rare for an attractive man with tons of options to be into big girls. So I think there is more going on than just personal preference, but also perceived attainability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:57 PM
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I use 8th month abortion as my primary birth control
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 10:49 PM
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If you're someone who says men or women are trash, you have a personality that attracts trashy people. Simple as that. Or you're WAY TOO ONLINE and just eat up all these outlier stories that go viral, and consider it the norm. I know this sub does it with women all the time... They think simply talking to a girl will get you called a creeper and posted on social media -- which simply isn't true. 99% of women will just decline the advance and never think of it again. So either the guys who think …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:01 PM
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Maybe people just have different standards. How is that hypocrisy? The genders are fundamentally different, so naturally their priorities of different standards will be different. Nothing wrong with that. I wouldn't be upset if my GF has the standard that I never suck a dick, yet she sucks dick all the time. That isn't hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:52 AM
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Or just don't even tell her. It's not like you have to drag both parents to a clinic. It's a simple mouth swab. If you're caught, just claim you're interested in which genetics the kid has out of sheer curiosity. I don't understand why some dudes think you need to sit down and make this a dramatic event. Like all it comes off as is insecure, like some dude effectively saying, "Listen woman I'm married to, the problem with your gender is you're all a bunch of cheating whores, so we need to ceremo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:48 AM
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I still think women take it more viscerally. Like it's really really weird, as the following I rarely ever see men complain about, but women will freak out. Like if a guy says, "Yeah, women don't like scrawny nerds," online you're guarenteed to get women freaking out with comments pointing out that not ALL women (even though it's obviously a general statement) are like that. That SHE personally likes nerdy dorks, blah blah blah, then attack you for treating women like a "monolith" instead of spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:46 AM
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That’s the overwhelming majority. That’s how they play out. It’s just not widely reported because it’s not interesting. I assure you. Life sucks if you view it as a field of land mines always making you afraid to go enjoy yourself. Fuck those terminally online weirdos. Don’t allow them to control and dictate your life
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:39 PM
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I've had a woman falsely accuse me of rape. Everyone laughed her down because they knew she was crazy and was caught cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:24 PM
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But again, you're overblowing this. This isn't a thing off the internet... Hell, it's barely a thing outside "woke spaces" like Reddit. If a woman tries to claim all men are potential rapists, normal people will write them off as a weirdo and ignore them until they go back to their twitter echochamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:12 PM
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now we came to the point where men saying "I find you interesting wanna grab coffee sometimes" gets labeled as harassment because it "bothered" a woman going about her day. No, this only happens rarely on social media by attention whore crazy chicks. Don't live your life afraid of some weird terminally online attention whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:46 PM
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No they don't dude. The girls who post shit like that online are the weird and crazy ones... Not the normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:59 AM
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No, I call them thots because they literally post pictures of their assholes on the internet to make money. This isn't some artist or nurse walking down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:03 PM
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It's not just about building houses and fixing cars. Men bring the masculine ethos to a relationship. What OP wants is more feminine. Men bring the emotional rock, stability, resources, safety, intimacy, partnership, direction, sacrifice, labor, strength, etc... There are a lot of things. It's not so much a transactional way that many people look at it as today, as in, "You do the car stuff, and I'll do the laundry" but more about the feminine and masculine exchange and unification. If you're li…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:45 PM
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Whenever I come across some Reddit NSFW thot, and read the comments, I feel so sad. Like I just can't imagine getting to a point in life, where I'd be leaving those sort of comments. When you look at their post history, it's non-stop. It's so fucking weird. I wanna meet one of these guys and just hang out with them to kind of understand how they think. I find it so foreign.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:03 AM
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You're literally being the opposite of her. I never am around entitled, bitchy, lazy women. You seem to put yourself around those type of people, but i find them quite rare outside the trailer park and internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:01 AM
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who don’t treat us like second class citizens or servants or incubators Who are these men in your life that lead you to feel this way? Are you living in Sudan or Saudi Arabia? In America, most women are exhaulted and treated like special queens with armies of men simping for them, a justice system that plays favorites, and a constant stream of laws and policies designed to give them advantages. Hell even our media is entirely focused on making women's lives better and men chasing after them like…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:59 AM
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-Physical needs: General consensus is that a good vibrator and clit sucker can give us much better orgasm than any man can AND they don’t make us feel like shit or pressure us into putting them in our vagina. LOL this is my favorite part as it sums up everything here. You basically want a girlfriend, not a boyfriend. Nothing here is about the duality between men and women, and what men bring. You want things that women primarily excel at.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:48 AM
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Being not ugly isn’t that hard. It literally just takes some effort, and not some massive genetic luck. Most ugly dudes literally just never took how they look seriously. Finding a style that fits just takes some practice and work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:25 AM
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Yeah porn satiates an urge, but it doesn't provide fulfillment. Sex robots may help men in some ways hit some buttons, but it wont be fulfilling like a real human relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:22 AM
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I wonder what created that cultural value shift. In many countries, and formerly in the west, it used to be a social goal to find a partner and settle down. It was something to strive for and take pride in... Like people WANTED to start families as it was just something people genuinely wanted to do. And then I guess over time that decreased and it just lost social importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:15 AM
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I was a bit of a fuckboi when I was younger. A lot of my "FWBs" were basically girls who wanted to date me but knew I didn't want to date them, but they could hang out with me if they offered sex, hoping I'd end up with them. A lot of women who were in a FWB situation, were like that - probably the overwhelming majority. The top tier guys, had a lot of girls who thought they were kinda dating, kinda not, middle ground. And these were the type of girls always worried about other chicks because sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:10 AM
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No. I’ve personally seen the change, and the data reflects it across the board. The wall is getting bigger and harder because their expectations are getting spoiled by OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:16 AM
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Literally in the study he linked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:09 PM
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No, I never said it was a universal truth. It's my perspective and how I see the world. You're the one strangely assuming I'm claiming it to be universally true. And yes, that's one of the reasons why monogamy exists to begin with. But online dating crippled that as women can choose whatever they want, and the top tier men don't benefit from monogamy... And since those women are all going for those men, they make the decisions, not the rest of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:33 AM
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No, you're autists because it's obvious to anyone with a shred of social competency that I'm not speaking as a universial truth, as there are always outliers, and obviously just speaking from my perspective on the world. Normal people who aren't autists don't need this social way of communicating laid out to them, as it's inherently assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:17 AM
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Thanks for adding value to the conversation. You single solid "no", is really compelling and does a great job at expanding on your position
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:14 AM
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In my industry, most people make 200k + Not a single wife is working an independent career job. Most are just stay at home, others help their husbands as assistants, and rarely there is the occasional one who has a hobby job like working for a non-profit or selling stuff off Etsy. When you start making good income, and love and trust your partner, it makes less and less sense for both people to slave away like that. When you have all the bills easily paid for, and kids to raise, no rational coup…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:04 PM
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If he can afford it, then I'm sure he is... But women rarely are okay with it. The data supports this. It's more about the general distribution curve, men overwhelmingly value a woman's ability to hunt (bring in resources) than women do. When I was working at a higher level abroad... Not a single woman was dating a guy who was lower in the career latter. They were all dating other higher status guys, vertically or up. But the guys, routinely had girlfriends and wives who were just working regula…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:59 PM
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Yes that’s the point. Since more and more chicks are becoming side chicks, it’s reducing the supply of quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:45 PM
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Because it takes quality women out of the dating pool as they chase dudes out of their league, as well as it just being kind of gross. Most guys don’t want a chick who was used as a flashlight for other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:50 PM
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Historically, the FWB thing was always due to the guy... Well almost always, I'm sure the autists here will point out that there are exceptions, but you know what I mean. It was because the guy was always chasing other women and just not interested into settling with her, so he'd either tell her "I'm just looking for something casual" and she'd get what's going on and agree... Or she'd say it, preemptively knowing that's what he's like, so she could get it framed that way. It was almost always t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:38 PM
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Why don't you guys engage in conversations instead of vague one liners? Like are you trying to allude to something? How about making your point rather than some dumb socratic questioning. It's so annoying. No. Not men and females. Men equally distribute how they rate women. The average woman, as judged by men, is smack dab in the center at 50%. Women put average at the 80% mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:30 PM
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I suppose it’s easier to not view women as inferior or very different from men if you’ve always had female friends and girlfriends. This is, again, misunderstanding of gender dynamics. Women and BP men, for some strange reason, think pointing out differences in genders, means one is superior than the other. When I hear comments like this, it reminds me of creationists who argue against evolution by saying, "evolution is clearly bullshit! It's like a tornado creating a perfectly working 747!" It …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:18 PM
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It's literally always been like that. Men aren't any more picky... It's pretty constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:56 PM
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That's not the point. It's that the amount is increasing. MORE women are sleeping with these men than ever before. The distribution is less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:55 PM
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He definitely lived that life lol... He was mostly always talking about relationships and race in a casual way on his podcasts and radio spots with humor put in. Further, I don't know of ANY popular dating/relationship YouTube channel that is BP. None, they all have RP undertones... Literally every successful one. BP ones are cringe, small, and niche, because they aren't reflective of reality and don't resonate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:53 AM
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Well RP stuff in general gets mocked because the language and transparency they use... It makes people uncomfortable when it's that clearly put on the table in the open, because it calls a lot of people out... And since it's wrapped in a toxicity, it gives people a lot of easy justification BUt Patrice O'Neal, is super RP. Wouldn't you say a lot of what he says is more mainstream and common? Because that's all RP shit he's talking about before RP existed. BTW, I don't mean mainstream as socially…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:38 AM
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I think you're getting confused. Online, RP content has a culture around it, which is hyperbolic, offensive, and rigid. But once you strip it all down to it's fundamentals as in "What it's actually trying to say" and removing the outfit it's wearing to deliver the message, those RP messages are pretty mainstream by the biggest relationship stuff. Those people are just selling to a mainstream audience and are saying the same exact stuff RP does, but in a more civil and less offensive way. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:46 AM
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Most people have no fucking clue what the "manosphere" even is. Even if they did, they'd likely not use cringe-ass terms like blue pill and red pill. I'm talking about normal, regular people, who aren't terminally online like us. Like if I'm hanging out with a group of attractive athletic black dudes and said "red pill" they'd look at me like I'm crazy... But once we start talking about women, everyone starts spitting out advice like it's coming straight from Patrice O'Neal, who's very RP. Or if…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:40 AM
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Sorry to break it to you, but being "fat" is a survival mechanism, and not our natural state. Fat people like to make up all sorts of reasons that it's "not their fault" and is instead just "genetic". But humans are a species designed to stand upright and run long distances to hunt. That's not something fat people can do well. We are naturally a lean species https://cepr.org/voxeu/columns/evolution-bmi-values-us-adults-1882-1986
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:44 PM
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Everyone is naturally thin... Being overweight is a newer thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:16 PM
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Unless you have some medical condition or deformity that makes you an outlier, then you probably look much better naked than you think. You wont look like a perfectly crafted model who dedicated their entire life to perfecting every inch of their body, but you will absolutely have a body good enough to make men horny... Your face on the otherhand, well that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:04 PM
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Reddit is overwhelmingly young college kid dorks, poor losers who can't get a real job, and UMC engineer types. That said, I'm UMC myself, and BP shit is definitely not popular outside of very specific nerd fields like engineering and tech. But even then, I worked in the startup tech world with a bunch of young engineers making tons of money, and it was pretty red... There is just the "public HR" attitude people put out when in mixed company, and then the genuine personality when it's friends. R…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:42 PM
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I was actually thinking this same thing. There was some video with some college kids (frat guy types) being all wholesome and friendly and funny and some comments were women fawning about these guys are real men and dudes should take note of they want to attract a woman. And all I could think was I know for sure how these gym bro, good looking, frat guys are. If these same women heard how these guys talked drinking some beers with each other, they’d be calling them all alt right fascist who hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:27 PM
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Reddit has a very obvious "Beta dork bias". It's sooooo obvious. Like whenever people say some red pill type shit about women and men in general, Redditors will always be like "OMG that person is an unfuckable incel!!!!" Ironically, the person saying this is usually some effeminate ugly nerd, theater kid type, but I digress. But that just doesn't reflect reality at all. If you go to other social media platforms, where it's actually attractive, successful people being real, it's not these dorky u…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:23 PM
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Well that’s what I mean. So I can see why a woman would be insecure because they are exposing their mid status to a guy she mislead to thinking she was high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:43 PM
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Ehhh that’s not really what I’m talking about. I don’t doubt it makes you insecure but it’s honestly negligible. Your body is just as attractive from a fundamental standpoint which is all that matters for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:41 PM
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Yes but those things are apparent initially. It shouldn’t hold you back from getting naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:49 PM
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To be fair, this is why I'm so picky, and prefer skinny chicks. Most women don't look great naked. They are all overweight in ways that are totally in their control yet unflattering. They spend more time finding jeans that artificially raise their ass than they do just getting a nice ass. With skinny chicks you don't have this problem. They all look good naked. Same with younger chicks. With not skinny chicks, you're rolling loaded dice. I hate to be a dick about it, but I'm just being honest. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:13 PM
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I'm gathering it from personal life experience, living all over the place, having a very broad, wide range of friends, from all different types of lifestyles. No I don't keep record of every study I read, so I'm just going off memory last time I saw things. I also don't intuitively believe MOST (As in a majority) women never had sex outside of a committed relationship. There is at least one or two flings on the low end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:31 PM
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Dude, I'm not an academic going around collecting data... Like you know this, stop acting like I'm basing this off some ridiculous massive study and resources I've collected. I'm saying I personally don't believe those results. I think there is a flaw somewhere, either by modesty of self reporting, or bad sample bias. Something, somewhere, doesn't resonate with just sheer logic. Especially when studies come out with vastly different results, it indicates there is a signifcant flaw. When one stud…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:24 PM
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Rural America only accounts for 20% of the population, and skews towards more men than women. I live currently in the USA, but have lived all over the damn world, and it still relatively rings true. Yes, cities of course, but not only massive metropolitan ones
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:08 PM
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I just find it ridiculously low. By 30, most women have had enough partners to basically say they don't even keep track any more. By mid to late 20s, most women have been with at least 5-10 guys on the low end, before you start including the more promiscuous types.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:58 PM
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Possibly... But I believe there is a serious flaw in that design. I'm confident of it. people 25-45, on average only have 4-6 partners? I'm sorry but that doesn't even pass the sniff test.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:51 PM
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30s. But this data is 24-45. No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:18 PM
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Nope. I will fight to the death that there is a serious data issue with those findings. Not a fucking chance in hell. They even include oral sex and have such low numbers. I'm sorry, but I've never met a woman in my life who has less than 4. It's just not a thing... I mean, I'm sure they exist, like morbidly obese or horribly ugly, but there is not a chance in hell the medium is 7, much less 4. Sorry, I'm not buying it. There has to be a huge flaw somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:00 PM
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It sounds like cope tbh... It especially comes from women who just like to say feelgood shit. People are fine to have their preferences, even if they are shallow. Everyone is to some extent. Whenever I hear "Well if they don't accept X, they aren't a good partner anyways" I always roll my eyes. It's just ridiculous and sounds like feel good cope. Redditors treat everything like a dating app where if anyone is not ideal and perfect, not going to therapy, and not willing to cut off their entire fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:12 PM
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I think there are two categories of passport bros. Unfuckable losers, who end up getting escorts, and younger guys with their shit together and could do fine with women, but rather go outside for an easier time finding more family value/not fat women. I think the latter is much more rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:49 PM
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I still don’t see what’s stopping them from continuing these activities for the non fat well dressed guy. That's the hard part of dating IMO -- Finding the type of women who wouldn't do that. It's hard. But you figure it out by getting to know the type of person they are and being realistic about how they feel about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:20 PM
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No, they definitely do, just not as frequently. They'll still drool over their hung ex, or possibly run off with the DJ behind your back... But so long as you build a good relationship, she's far less likely to be willing to risk throwing that all away. It happens, for sure, but honestly, it's usually in relationships where she's either not entirely committed, or already has slut tendencies. Hence why it's important to avoid high N count chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:00 PM
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I was talking about the top tier hot chicks... That's why I elaborated on those type of women are dangerous to be with if you aren't top tier yourself. But average and above average women, are much more rooted in reality and a decent guy can get access to that life if they just do a little work. But if you want a Stacey, and you're not at that level, you're going to have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:50 PM
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Those type of women exist, but they are from cultures who value starting families young, and the older guys are stable and secure enough to do it right away. Usually latinas or south east asians. Hence why so many dudes go try to find wives over there. But if it's just "casual dating", then yeah, she's playing the game. That's why I run from women who date multiple people or like to keep it casual. But these guys, often don't even realize what's happening... They'll just be like, "Oh yeah she's …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:36 PM
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No I get it, incredibly good looking and large dick, are the two things women will insist aren't that important, but once rubber hits the road, it becomes a whole different world. I've seen things so outrageous it's also shattered my ability to trust. Heard the nicest, cutest women, admit to and do things that publicly they'd deny to the day they die. I've personally had a girl fuck me at a night club while her fiance was there looking for her. Like, straight up nightmare fuel, because I know as…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:53 PM
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Physical attraction ALWAYS mattered, however, women were more negotiable on it than men, where as visual types it is a much higher priority. Also, men have more flexibility in what makes them attractive. I think men view women attractiveness more on a bunched up bell-curve, which is simply youthful, skinny/fit, and attractive face. But women have a much wider bell curve for men. I think why it's trending harder for good looks today, is almost entirely due to online dating creating an abundance o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:56 AM
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It should go without saying that when it comes to social dynamics, obviously not "ALL X THIS APPLIES". Like it doesn't need to be mentioned because it's inherently understood that people are talking about the bell curve, and not the outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:57 PM
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I think it's a reflection of men wanting status. They want to be valued and perceived as important and sought after. And one significant metric of their perceived value is by how often women will have sex with him. Reproduction, after all, is our prime directive. So men who can have many women choose to sleep with him, it's a signal that he's sought after and valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:54 PM
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It's because of OLD. For some reason, people want to rush into a date ASAP and get the "interview" over, instead of chatting a while and getting a similar vibe down. It's also why in person connections work better, because before you even go on a date, you've both judged each other's vibe and think you have some matching up, so you move to the date. And then it feels less like an interview. You already know you get along because that's why you set up the date to begin with. But with OLD, it's li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:13 AM
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Those guys are all rich and famous, which is also highly attractive. They also have really good fashion sense, but Reddit is ready for that conversation y'all Payless Shoes wearing, Walmart jeans mofos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:11 AM
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Yes, I think this is why men and women interpret cheating differently. Men, intuitively know that a woman rarely just wants to fuck a guy off looks alone and nothing else... But men know they can. However, when a woman is fucking another guy, he intuitively knows it's not just sex, but also the male's ethos. Women require an emotional and psychological connection to get turned on, which doesn't just come from looks alone. So when a man knows his girl is with another man for sex, he knows it's MO…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:08 AM
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Women who aren't reliant on a man to support her is less likely to stay in a bad relationship because she's reliant on the man. That doesn't mean "women" are to blame, it just women aren't required to stay married like they used to be. This isn't the case at all... Hapiness literally goes down. It's probably due to a variety of reasons, but I think mostly because women WANT a warrior man. It's a turnoff for many women to be with a man who's just not as successful as her. She just loses sex appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:03 AM
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I think it's only a problem with OLD where women can be stupidly picky, or really short guys... But honestly, I think it's overblown by most dudes. In my experience, shorter guys have a "vibe" to them which is the turnoff. They seem more needy and wanting to appease people - a sort of anxious energy with a chip on their shoulders. But short dudes who don't have this energy, and just act and behave with the same confidence and energy as their taller counterparts, I think the "issue" completely va…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:59 PM
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That’s wealthy areas in general. Wealthy people to tend to pass down successful habits and cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:07 PM
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Of course I think that’s the case to some degree. But like I said before there is absolutely a correlation between being able to “dickmatize” and the guy being hung. Also women knowing big ducks are rare doesn’t mean they haven’t been with them. It just means they are more rare but avoid admitting they prefer it because statistically it’s unlikely to find a guy like that when they reduce their dating pool by 90% and deal with men who have a ton of sexual partners. You even said it yourself that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:16 PM
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I don't think it's a bad sample size... It may be a selection bias of the type of women who use those spaces. But then you have to ask the question of what about women who go to casual sex spaces have that preference so much? Further, I agree there is an observation bias, but I think there is enough going on to know it's a bigger deal than said otherwise. For instance, the amount of women I've met who still have a FWB situation with an ex who they hate, don't like, not interested in romantically…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:51 PM
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I mean of course we're just sharing our perspective. But yes, a space that has more men than women, where it allows a woman to get very picky and specific with what they want, start demanding large hogs, shows that there is clearly a preference for it. We see the same trend with online dating exposing what women claim "doesn't matter" but ultimately does when you look at their refinements.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:27 PM
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Ehhh… quantify “lots” technically lots of women prefer tiny ones too. I also don’t trust subreddit opinions since there is a lot of pressure to prevent women from being honest about it, as well as upvote effect amplifying feel good messages people like rather than what is true. I think the best test is to just go to a casual sex explicit space online, and 80% of the women seeking casual hookups are clearly defining that preference as a requirement. So when given the opportunity to be picky, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:06 PM
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Like I said, they tend to only talk about it when it’s relevant. If he’s big, people will know. If he’s average, she focuses on other things. But since large guys are rare and a prized commodity they let people know. I think you think it’s less common because of how rare it is for a girl to be dating a hung guy. This is how most men find out if their friends are hung, because women are the ones talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:38 PM
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Well maybe women you're around don't want to break any social barriers you put up and know better not to talk about it around you. But I've heard women talk about it frequently... It's also not hard to pick up the hints... When a guy has a big one who they are with, they will usually find a way to let it slip out either directly or indirectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:29 PM
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I think it's more about how hard it is for a woman to suck. Since men do all the work, she really just needs to "show up" and perform the bare minimum. The difference between great sex and good sex with a woman, isn't really that important. But the range between men's sexual performance, is a ton, because it's mostly reliant on him. Like all a woman needs to do is be attractive, not be a starfish, and show a little passionate/actually show she wants it, and that's it. Men on the otherhand, have …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:17 PM
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If a guy has a big dick, she's sharing that with all her friends, if he's really good in bed, she's sharing that. The rest is all just vague if it's not great. Chicks going into crazy amounts of detail... Beyond what anyone on the internet wants to admit because it's pretty fucking trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:11 PM
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Yeah, I'm definitely not getting the same attention from hot 25 year olds like some people around here claim... And I'm not some dad bod engineer nerd. It's mostly early 30s chicks who now have a bunch of baggage and/or overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:53 PM
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I dunno... Sounds like fanfic cope from TRP I'm in my mid 30s... And had WAY more action in my 20s as an attractive fit younger guy. Generally I think women just want a guy closer to their age. Now women in their 30s, well, most of the "good ones" are off the market, dating, etc... So you're kind of left with the "leftovers" which are usually not the most attractive, overweight, single mothers, etc... I dunno, but not many hot 28 year olds are really as interested as me in my mid 30s as they wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:56 AM
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That’s not true. 85% of women think men should make the first move and approach them. You just think it’s the majority who don’t like it because they are insufferably online
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:11 PM
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