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Blows my mind how trivialized rape is nowadays. You know something is wrong when one gender class can throw around false felony accusations without fear of reprisal. I'd like to see what happens if a few men cry rape after being "coerced" into sex with a woman.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 12:28 AM
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Truer words have not been spoken. What annoys me is how most women I know can't: cook manage money plan have a clean room keep a tidy kitchen It makes me laugh when a women hints at commitment or moving in when she has very little to offer outside sex an companionship.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 09:07 PM
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It does get lonely at times. The Outlier reality. So many people seem to aspire to mediocrity--they get it. I do so much in my life that I have difficulty communicating to others or I don't pretend to find their lives interesting. I have to buy into 'trends' (Yeti's!!!, latest Netflix obsession, or the [fill in the blank] challenge) or we don't have anything in common. It seems no one works on themselves but follows the herd. Strength of mind is what I cultivate alongside my strength of characte…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 08:58 PM
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I second this. I've been reflecting on my life thus far and the women I've chosen (mid 30's btw). Women in their 30's have baby rabies, lots of baggage and lack the energy of their younger competitors. My last LTR was in her 30's. Our relationship was ending and I picked up a 22yr old on the side. 30+ woman: Sex again? We already had sex today. 22yr girl: Can we have sex again? Just 10min. Please!? The rabbit hole gets deeper even 6+ yrs post-red pill.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 08:44 PM
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The fuck is wrong with our culture. Get sick of hearing about this shit.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 03:40 AM
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This. I've made tremendous changes in the past 12months of heavy lifting and dieting. You can lose weight eating twinkies as long as you correctly calculate your body fat%, BMR and TDEE. There are numerous ways to lose weight more efficiently or lift more efficiently but calories in vs calories out is the start for those new.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 03:02 AM
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There's a post floating around here where someone says that blowjobs should be the thermometer for a relationship. I find it funny because there is some lose info that supports this theory. I think the jist was married women who were actively cheating on their partner used blowjobs to keep there man's interest (mate retention) and prevent him from become suspicious or straying himself.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 04:31 AM
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+1 for gaslighting. I don't think many men understand what this is or how to identify it.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 04:26 AM
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Yet again, AF/BB FTW. My personal favorite: OP: Show me [your body] RM: tingles I'm married. Enter hamster Female rationalization = damn.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 05:53 PM
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OP you're fucking hilarious: "After a few minutes of fooling around she invites me stick my finger in her cunt. I do, being a gentleman and all." "I laid down next to her and started whacking off. She starts kissing my neck, which makes it roughly 3% better than whacking off alone in my bed..." I lost it...lol
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 01:16 AM
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Smart man. I don't consider marriage personally but trusts are a great way to control your money. If a man's money can be invested in an LLC. that he is an "employee" of, there is a chance the courts can't touch this money if he is divorced. I think it goes something like this: I make $90,000, I start an LLC. to which I am "employed". I get a "salary" of $40,000 the rest goes to the company. Wifey divorces me. Court can only calculate alimony on the $40K. Of course, gentlemen, it gets worse. I a…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 08:16 PM
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I see your point but it is misleading. Marriages do break up less often when several factors are taken into consideration. Both parties are: college educated, come from stable homes, common life goals, religious etc. This is not exhaustive and relationships are obviously complex. Government divorce stats have some good info.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 08:11 PM
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I've been working with a consultant at work on getting some infrastructure issues sorted out. He tells me his daughters (26yr & 24yr) plan on "having fun" after college before settling down (AF/BB). Every now and then TRP truths rear their head and I realize Shit's gettin' real... What the sexual/political landscape will look like in just 5 years frightens me.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:27 AM
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Hi Rollo, I have a suggestion of a topic you might consider covering: The future of male/female social dynamics. What does the end game look like for us? Will men and women drift apart and both be terrified to interact with each other? Sex seems on it's way out with oculus rift technology and sex bots soon after. I notice some similarities with Calhoun's 'Mice Utopia' experiment and the direction we are headed (Japanese herbivore men).
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:07 AM
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Great set of books on women's infidelity. It has been mentioned on this sub before but it is worth mentioning again...blowjobs Yes, this books mentioned women involved in affairs as giving their married partners more fellatio as a mate retention strategy. To beta Bill suddenly getting his dick sucked he feels on top of the world. Bill doesn't recognize the new change as a reaction to his little snowflake's after hours activities.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 05:31 PM
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Ahhh yes, a few years ago I was finishing up my senior year in school while choking down the first year of TRP. The phenomenon about the surplus of Chinese looking for "love" is called the "Bachelor Bomb". Some men are going to Vietnam to bring back a wife. With so many more men than women a few theories have popped up regarding the future of male/female relationships. 1) Pussy stock soars and then less than perfect men are SOL (hmmm...sounds like what's happening in the U.S.). Delusion kicks in…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 10:12 PM
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Sounds like fraud. Some women pull this sort of thing. Have baby, wait until man reaches max earnings or finds wealthier man, branch swing. Court orders alimony and child support. If she works then she is looking at three sources of income plus room and board and presents from her "new" man.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:45 AM
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"The thing is. I have two plates. Both are younger then hers. One is 21 and the other is 24. I already scheduled to meet with my main plate later this evening, after the date. I know for 100% I'm going to get laid tonight, the question is by who." You sir, have gained 'Baller' status. Bravo.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 12:20 AM
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Some argue the first man to "wake up" was Warren Farrell, in so much as he had extensive experience speaking on behalf of feminism until he noticed patterns and changed his approach and became a pariah for doing so--also an author of his beliefs. People like Roosh become idolized too much. Too many men weakened by the new insights brought to them by TRP look for a new god. Learn, apply and find your new path. I see too much ass-kissing everything these men say as opposed to discourse. Roosh used…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 02:10 AM
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Women won't be gettin' "the feels" after signing a sex contract and consent to be filmed while in estrus. There are night vision-enabled alarm clock cameras on the market. Filming without consent carries with it a punishment; however, a rape charge on your record will be much worse.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 04:42 AM
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I second the motion...great quote
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:54 AM
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"...absolute power corrupts absolutely." -John Dalberg I am beginning to connect the dots of the FI. I'm not happy but I understand why. Women are no different than men if left to their own devices and given enough power. What feminism has taught me is women are motivated differently but the thirst of power is insatiable. What ideology claiming "equality" begins with the prefix fem (female) and ends with -ism (ideology). Men, for the most part, seek status and power to maximize their influence a…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:49 AM
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No shit. I second this motion. Just this week I heard another man emasculate himself as a way of relating..."Yeah, my wife doesn't respect me. My kids only see me as a wallet." etc. WTF?? Another guy passively comments on how his wife won't fuck him after kid #2. I was out today and noticed most everybody is fat. People wander the isles in stores like they are lost. So many times I'll be looking at something when someone wanders over to see what I'm looking at too. It could be flaming paper bags…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 05:01 AM
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First off, welcome. We're glad you are doing what few have done--changing your life for the better. Good advice has already been given but I'll add my experience lifting. I've lifted seriously off/on for about 4 years. In that time I've learned how my body works. I was 175lb most of my life at 5'10". Before I graduated college 5 yrs ago, I was about 185lb at my strongest (I thought). In the past 4 months I've taken all the knowledge I've learned over the past few years and applied it. I now weig…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 04:48 AM
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I'm in an LTR with a woman who exhibits the "I'm just.." trend and I check her on this often. There is a hidden gem to this employment depending on who and how it's delivered which is why I stamp this shit out asap--gaslighting. Gas lighting is a form of emotional abuse that causes the victim to question their reality. This usually occurs over time which is why most victims are unaware it's going on. For example, in response to me reinforcing a boundary of my personal time/space I've heard "I'm …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 04:29 AM
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I'm glad you've unplugged. Welcome my brotha.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:41 AM
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Solid my brotha. Definition of stoic. There's a reason that psych statistic exists claiming after a few dozen partners pair bonding becomes difficult. No wonder the CC is the bane for most men with respect to women. You can have fun but avoid LTRs with these women.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 12:17 AM
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We should remind ourselves occasionally that marriage vs cohabitation is not too different, save for the State recognizing the union. Let's not forget that many states today have cohabitation laws that may award your live-in GF cash/prizes if one is not too careful.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:02 AM
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I remember Conan the Barbarian movie from the 80's. Despite being a movie a theme throughout was "the discipline of steel". Much like a swordsman or weightlifter the constant pursuit of lifting or training builds your body and develops your mind. When you focus on something and pursue it you grow in other ways. You don't know how you grow until you've been on the journey. In Japanese martial arts many times the lesson comes after many months if not years of training. For example, in the West an …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 04:31 AM
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I've been thinking about this topic just this week. Many women are overweight as obesity and weight gain reign king nowadays. Men will adjust their expectations mainly due to wanting sex. For those men who are Game aware or who can attract women, the pool of valuable women will lessen and attractive women will become a commodity. All in all, every man will need to up his game to fetch the dwindling supply of attractive women. Economics. Less hot chicks, value increases...even perceived value rel…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 06:15 AM
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Good on you brother. I've become more selfish lately. When a woman talks to me it's usually because she wants something. When I engage with a women my thought process is: 1) Can she increase my value? 2) Will she give me sex? 3) Will she put me in a position to get sex from her friend? 4) Will she put me in a position to gain more business connections or increase my social circle? If it doesn't benefit me I don't act like a dick but rather passive dismissive. Always smile gentleman...even when y…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 04:47 PM
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This...x's 1,000. Fuck, yeah man.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:17 AM
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I've had little luck finding women receptive to being too interesting. There have been countless times when I have said something intelligent but not brainy only to see their glazed eyes starring back at me. Some women actually get defensive when you talk about anything important (non-religious or political, etc.) as if you are putting them down. I feel like I have to dumb down myself to speak to most women or go for dumb women. It's a numbers game I keep reminding myself.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:07 AM
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"We met on Tinder..." I'll let that sink in a bit more while you plan your life with this woman. Also, 21 is young. If she's from Eastern Europe with a good, stable family history=green light. Otherwise, screen, screen, screen this girl. You need to remember women go through a lot of changes in their 20's. I wish great relationships to my RP brothers. If this girl checks all the boxes then I am happy for you.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:38 AM
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Fucking sad, man. This stuff breaks my heart. IF [AWALT] THEN[GTFO] ELSE[STFU]
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:23 AM
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I got my ass out of bed after reading this post on my phone to log on and set something straight, gents. For those states that do recognize common law marriage typically three conditions must exist: 1) Heterosexual couple living in a state recognizing common law marriage 2) Living together for some time (each state defines length differently) 3) Hold yourselves out to the public as married. Now gentleman, if you're in a state recognizing common law marriage and you hold a goddamn ceremony with v…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:04 AM
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I sometimes feel jaded reading stories like this thinking "Well, if AWALT given the right context then...fuck it." Game em', use em' lose em'...next. What's the point? I'll build something great to help mankind. I'll fuck sluts on the side but deep down wish I never woke up to the reality of RP. Never content. Always pushing my limits. I'll be happy but I don't feel I'll ever confide in a woman even if in an LTR. Melancholy. Maybe I still have much to learn.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 05:05 AM
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Thx for the post. Man, I hate hearing stories like these. Family court in the U.S. is a joke. I observe the "marital bliss" at my last three jobs. Even the men in "stable" marriages say the old adage "happy wife, happy life". Yes ladies, marriage is slavery for you and you only. Just this week my co-worker mentioned his friend is going through divorce rape. He has to work two jobs now to pay alimony and it is tearing him apart. I can't help but wonder how the State will respond as more men check…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 04:52 AM
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BBBBBBBaalllzzz!!! Well done, sir!
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 11:48 PM
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Let me put a stop to this thinking right now, gents. From dating women from East Asia for 8 years here in the States, I can say b-b-b-bullshit to this. The same screening rules apply to any woman:relationship with her father, expectations on a man's role, confidence level, esteem level, [insert your standards here]. I've slept with one seemingly petite, innocent girl who was fucking another dude when she went back to her home town on break from school (I would later find out) and she was engaged…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:24 AM
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"Always improve, never be satisfied with mediocrity" Hear, hear! The best advice I've been given by a friend was similar. He said, "People who aspire to mediocrity, achieve it." Always be improving.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 01:22 AM
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Hamstering 101: I've noticed how women tend to dodge responsibility and communicate covertly while the opposite it true for men. Now if she feels guilty she can tell her friends and you that "I told him I didn't want to have sex, it just happened." See the scene in The Matrix where Neo is dodging bullets. On one hand it is remarkable how the female persuasion acts--totally in self-interest of social value with respect to her peer group. Women need to be cunning at times to sleep with guys they l…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:43 PM
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Friend of mine is going through divorce and his wife is taking him to the cleaners. Scary how she switched from being upset to vindictive. His pension is on the table. I just ordered a book called 'Living Together: A Legal Guide for Unmarried Couples' to avoid any pitfalls of common-law issues (yes gents, some states can take you to the cleaners if you live together with your lady under certain circumstances). So far the best advice I've heard without verifying this from a lawyer is to hide your…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 02:13 AM
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Let me be the first to admit that I get insecure thinking about locking down any young woman, especially in her early to mid-twenties. I've seen this play out at work. Hot mother, 28, kid(s) and you slowly find out dad is nowhere. She wears no ring, constantly flirts with other men. Then you find out her kid's age, do the math, early twenties. I know at least two women who were very attractive in their late twenties, had kids, divorced or separated and it turned out they were married/had kids ar…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:59 AM
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The last paragraph of this article is... "The truth is, of course, that children are so much nicer than men. They smell better. They look cuter. They also love us unconditionally. Of course we put them first. Why on earth wouldn't we?" Read 'love us unconditionally'. This maybe why some women want kids to begin with. If she gets fat...the kids don't care cuz she's mom. Dad might care. No more competing since her kids will always love her if she is a great mom or a not-so-great mom. Plus, kids ar…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:03 AM
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"Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely." -John Emerich Edward Dalberg Acton Women are pursuing their ultimate sexual strategy--control of betas access to alphas. This already happens but until recently is has not been so overt. If a woman doesn't like your advance she'll usually act annoyed. Attractive men tend to get rejected less and even pursued. If most "average" men are afraid to approach due to being labeled a misogynist (jailed in the future), the more attractive …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 03:39 AM
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Nancy Friday's 'My Secret Garden'. Prepare to be wowed by female fantasy. I asked the girl I'm seeing now what her fantasies where. One included being the center [of attention] in a 3-way with two guys.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 04:00 AM
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Here, here. I am in my 30's and went through quite the transformation a few years before TRP was called such. Everything is in your mind, gents. In my journey thus far, I've found controlling your thoughts is where the power lies. Another way to say this is controlling your focus. Looking back I had to control my temper, occasionally let weak-minded people project onto me, deal with anxiety, fear, rejection--keep plowing through. See, at some point you rise above all these challenges. People who…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 01:04 AM
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There are three stories (don't have links right now): 1) British Airways has policy not to put children near men on flights. 2) Man sees wandering child. Doesn't help fearing being labeled pedophile. Child ends up dying. 3) Girl walks in front of man's car. Man gets out, lectures her, grabs her arm. She gets help. He must register as a sex offender. God forbid Men one day say..."No." Society will collapse. Even 25% of men.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 10:28 PM
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Per rational male: http://therationalmale.com/2013/09/19/the-curse-of-potential/ and http://www.seductionscience.com/2012/why-successful-guys-should-avoid-exclusive-girlfriends/ These two links mimic my feelings on this topic. Becoming an outlier means pulling away from the pack. It's similar to an attractive woman's dilemma (from what a few have told me) that people only want her for things so she never believes the love she is given. The curse of the outlier male is his increased value. Your l…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:56 AM
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I hear you. A buddy of mine and myself compared notes one day on past ladies we dated. A large proportion were depressed and taking meds for it. The "have it all" is back firing. I struggle with finding a woman to pair off with. So many I've dated had these probs yet felt they were ready to be mothers. *terrible with money *room was a mess most of the time *didn't like to bathe or shower often *stared at their phones too much letting life pass by *complained incessantly about problems yet rarely…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 03:50 AM
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this X2 I nominate post of the day
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:24 PM
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Being rational to most women is like an elephant trying to fuck a squirrel in the ass. From experience, women I've known got annoyed when I went rational unless their emotional state was primed for it and there was no drama involved.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:58 AM
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Respect the hamster, gents. The wheel spins both ways.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 04:04 AM
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Pop Quiz: What do women like more than sex? A. Money B. Commitment C. Attention I'll go with 'C', attention.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:09 PM
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I keep note of my social circle at work or in life. People will bring you down whether you are aware of it or not. If I surround myself by people who are lazy or are satiated with the basic I'll drop by drive. A friend told me "...if you aspire to mediocrity, you'll get it."
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:14 PM
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I agree with more effeminate men in our culture now. I have noticed this subtly the past few years. I have also noticed people becoming more insecure. Men I work with seem very insecure anymore. Vocalize your ambition or goals and then tactfully put you down. Call them on it in any way (direct, subtly) they act like women and say you're overreacting. A male co-worker asks how you solved something, you gather documentation and show them and they get offended like you are showing them up instead o…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:44 PM
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"How about I make you a drink, we relax a little bit, I cook you dinner, and then we watch a little bit of a movie and then fuck?" And that's exactly what she did. Whhhaaaaattt?? Well played, sir.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 12:49 PM
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I've learned from listening to women and asking questions over a few years this Truth. When a woman "finds" someone else or claims she's "finding herself" or suddenly breaks up with you...she's felt this way for some time. Women tend to emotionally reconcile from a man while dropping very subtle clues. This is tantamount to the whole woman divorces husband, husband claims it "came from nowhere". Actually it did, he was too blind to see it or she was too subtle (she moved a pencil during your las…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 01:34 AM
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I'm in this state presently. Honestly, this may be a personal problem on my end post-TRP. After about a year or so my LTRs get boring to me. The girls I date have improved in quality as I learned more RP truths. Maybe you've thought these things: *what other girls are out there? *given all the stats (science) and behavioral stats (game,TRP) will she not be haaapppyy one day anyhow? *maybe as great as she is I don't want her anymore Personally for me I think the answer lies within something TRP w…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 06:52 PM
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