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Lmao
/r/ExRedPill25/05/25 06:19 AM
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I have a high body count and it absolutely affected me.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/25 02:54 AM
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Yeah that's true with the performing but I get women trying to hit on me at the gym or at gigs before they know I'm performing. It's just the way it goes. I have the genes from my dad who was a massive womaniser in his time (I e. Dickhead) and I've developed them at the gym from where I was previously overweight (size 46 jeans to size 34 since November) through exercise and fasting. I was previously quite fit and have had people asking if I wanted to model. But in the office, I've just been over…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/25 11:29 AM
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So I have been hitting the gym trying to look good because I play saxophone with house music djs. Ok so the house music scene is really focused on looks but pays well. It's also pretty high paced and and I really need to be fit. So ok, I've done that as well. I get attention from women at these gigs which is good for business at it tends to be women hiring me and women who run the entertainment agencies I also play for and it's good if they can see women enthusiastically interacting with me with…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/25 07:23 AM
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Get rid of social media then go into schools.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/25 03:53 AM
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How old are you?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/24 07:16 AM
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Also, how did you come to find yourself there, if you don't mind me asking? I'm just being a bit nosey cause it's a unique story for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:21 AM
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FANTASTIC! I'm 100% happy you found someone who it suits. As for going abroad, well, we're all humans, and if there's one thing we do, it's to go forth and find something better in another culture. I wonder why the States is more likely to find trouble with that. I'm not familiar with the Hofstedes. Is that an area in Germany or maybe the Netherlands?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:19 AM
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Have you found in the past that having a lot of money is more likely to put men off or motivate them to reach your level or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:37 AM
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You sound like a great person :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:34 AM
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I have experienced it. There isn't much to it. May as well not waste your time setting up lots of dates etc. I get more out of doing music.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/24 07:32 AM
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Some questions I feel I should ask. And you'll have to bear with me as I work in a profession where I ask people questions as part of a legal process for my government. Have you ever had a girlfriend? Did she dress in a way which meant you ended the relationship? Was it this specifically or a combination of behaviours and if a combination are you just addressing the clothing issue in this post? If no gf is the way she dresses a major factor for you and would you consider ending a relationship if…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:26 PM
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Aha so there it is. You think women wear these clothes for attention and your girlfriend won't. So you want a girlfriend who only wears certain types of clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:19 PM
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Depends what part of the world you live in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:11 PM
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I don't think it's weird for older people to be on here. We can at least try and undo some of the damage that others of our generation have done to you by filling your head with bullshit ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:37 PM
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It's cause they are a child with a child's reasoning skills I reckon. Most likely younger than 25. Or late developer with the old forebrain
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:20 PM
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Yeah I've seen this before. All women nights out and in where they are dressed up. Just like how men might dress up very nice for a business meeting where only men are attending.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:19 PM
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That may be the case but if you like the look of something and someone else agrees with you, you may feel your opinion is validated but that doesn't follow that you are then wearing that item to appease those people. This is straight up red pill stuff. Not even purple at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:18 PM
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Just for men? Not to show off to other women? If I was on a desert island with a wardrobe of nice clothes and workout equipment I'm wearing them to feel fancy. What about lesbians or asexual women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:14 PM
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Women dress like this to all women gyms where men are not allowed to step one foot. You're reaching bro. It's just gym fashion get a grip. Men dress in little vests showing off their guns to all male gyms. Sometimes it's to show off to the same gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:10 PM
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I know of women who dress up for stay at home parties with only other women. They put it on Instagram all the time here in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:07 PM
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It's just madness. I was dating this very attractive cosplayer who told me she only had brief sexual encounters with men (allowed them 2 minutes!) as she never really fancied anyone before (I was the first person she dated who got as much attention as she did in public, which she marveled at) but as she fancied me she wanted to go to a big hotel and make it super special etc. That actually put me off. I don't want someone who is a blank slate sexually. I'm quite confident in my abilities and I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:25 AM
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Not from your wording, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:19 AM
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TBF all stock comes onto the market at value otherwise they wouldn't be able to go out as stocks. But yeah I get your drift. Worth a lot less than 4 trillion dollars in total
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:04 AM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:02 AM
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I grew up in the 80s. No way that was happening. At least to me. If you're gonna go down that road, people started to care less when the financial crisis happened in 2008 and the same work did not equal the same results anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:01 AM
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What's wrong with riding the cock carousel? You'd do it to women if you could. I did and it was pretty great. Until it wasn't and then I got someone longer term. You'd deny this to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:57 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:54 PM
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I'm not certain on the SMV thing as it too often starts to look like you judge yourself by other people's norms who have no clue about you but feel the need to state just on transient temporary circumstances outside of your control how good you are but bettering yourself for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:50 PM
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Isn't it the other way around? They see what they are missing out on when they use Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:46 PM
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From what I'm seeing on here so far it's people giving up because some internet personality told them things are impossible because other people are too hard to figure out. That's just a sales pitch that people are falling for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:44 PM
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I'm going to the gym purely to appeal to women who have the edge on hiring me to play saxophone at functions, weddings etc. I'm a somewhat good looking and outgoing 6'0 dude and I figure that if I'm in shape and present well then I'll have a fair shot and getting hired to play sax at stuff. Worked with a beautiful middle Eastern descent blonde woman just before Xmas so all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:39 PM
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I mean if it's just her being entitled what do you think should happen for a man and woman to form a relationship? How should it optimally play out? Do you understand what I am asking you? I can't really say it any clearer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:36 PM
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Yeah I hear you and I'm sad for Canada. I liked it ten times more when I visited than the states. Might be more of the European attitude from shared monarchy and France etc etc (though thinking of that, does that cause friction with France being a republic)? 🤔 I don't see that much problem with anyone approaching but yeah if the other side has been conditioned to see it as a threat then it gets rough. How old are you if you don't mind my asking? I'm a Xellenial, I guess you'd call it. Virtually …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:24 PM
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Not my experience but we probably live on different continents so I'll take your experience as valid, yet anecdotal. Just like mine 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:04 PM
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Sigh how would you initiate fond romantic relations with the gender you feel amorous affection for, my good sirrah?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:45 AM
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Bit sick. I don't know that it happens every time though. I tend to openly challenge that stuff when it comes to me IRL. But then I stunned my female student for sending her home after she punched a male student in the arm. What I mean is that online there is not much I can do. Calling someone out doesn't really work on a ones but I'm calling people out if they say that stuff to me face to face. I consider it a good friend/member of society to hold people to account for their inconsistencies and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:43 PM
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How do you think you should get chicks then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:36 PM
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Ok sure whatever dude lol. I don't know why I'd read a book written by men for how women signal attraction. But you do you. I suppose I should have learnt the saxophone from someone who thinks it's a confusing mess and only talented people can play it anyway or music production from someone who can't operate a computer lmao. Good lord. I agree that women should approach though. I don't know where you live but here in the UK I've been approached a lot by women. I was dating a very good looking (b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:34 PM
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Mate the information is out there. Go read a freaking book about sexual signals. I read super flirt by Tracey Cox. Stop being such a doomer and read something. Or just downvote like those earlier people. I'm not telling you how to get rich in 30 days. It's just a leg up to unconscious signals that our damn species has been using since we fell out the trees and started walking upright probably before. I don't really care what you do tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:16 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:48 PM
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K cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:46 PM
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Well you may say that some of these women have considered me to be good looking. I've been approached by good looking women online and offline. My immediate family is somewhat good looking though I've had periods of overweight and/or depression so I tend to try to things in a more balanced way. Possibly the main quality though is that because I'm fairly self secure through studying people and philosophy, I don't give a fuck whether they like me or not and will do stuff on my own. I've dated wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:00 PM
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Oh boy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:00 AM
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A lot of super hot women are miserable. Also, with a saturated market they might not be earning so much online. At least the rich kids are rich
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:59 AM
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I think women think Paris Hilton is hot and assume that men do too. I never thought she was anything special. I suppose you could just say the same about some rich woman who you do find hot though who would otherwise be fairly plain if she didn't have the money for the maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:58 AM
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Assuming the person you work for is interested in such things and not asexual or not attracted to your gender. They are still the choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:55 AM
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No it's making the first move. If someone is facing you down a narrow road with their car then gives you the thumbs up, it's a signal that you can have right of way. They had to move to do that. It's the first move. You can get books that teach you what the signals mean. I went to a boy's grammar school in the UK for 5 years so if I can learn, anyone can. I mean people learn languages, body language is more universal and simpler than that. Read a book and learn then it'll be way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:51 AM
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How can you feel smothered with less dates? Attractive women go on less IRL dates than average women as men feel more intimidated
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:39 AM
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How did the dates go?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:38 AM
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Go for a man who makes you feel good all round. If you just select for looks you could end up with a sociopath. This is for all women, not just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:37 AM
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It's called shooting your shot and will be the reason why you were born into the world. Plus, the reason ugly people exist is that humans select for more than just looks when mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:35 AM
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I have very high standards for personality. This is why when doing some jobs where there was an abundance of boring, culturally unaware women, I wouldn't date them, even though they were very good looking. I've dated models and plain women though. The best are the slightly cute women who have a great personality and who are supportive. I see a lot of very good looking women who sometimes approach or give signals, especially when I'm performing on stage but upon talking to them, I just get bored.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:32 AM
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Very true. I've had many women come up and talk with me or if I'm dancing in a club, then making a space so we are just dancing alone that sort of thing. Even when I was growing up as a millennial it was weird for me to dance for the enjoyment of it though. I didn't dance to get women, just to have fun. I think if you are loving what you do in the moment and are open, it's more likely women will approach
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:18 AM
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Yup women often make the first move by sending signals
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:15 AM
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Women make the first move by signalling that she's interested. Mine put her hand on my leg. Others may vary lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:14 AM
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Happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:13 AM
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Never heard of this until right now. Where have you heard this claim made?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:12 AM
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Pretty much any extreme ideology. You find it in many born again Christians or other religious converts as well
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 01:33 PM
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Depends I enjoy some people in general being humbled. It's usually people who are being an arse getting their comeuppance.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 10:07 AM
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Lmao
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 03:26 AM
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And my freedom
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 01:41 PM
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Lol lucky Ted Bundy. I don't get fan mail. I do have a girlfriend though.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 01:41 PM
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Yeah it's really sad what they do. I'm watching a Chris Williamson YouTube video about dating which is really interesting. The lady talks about how rad fems and red pills are much the same. Scared of intimacy so demonise the other sex. https://youtu.be/mm9y7YbUZUI?si=fMyTZjIcEP2WKIlB
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 04:30 PM
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To be fair, as someone who is an ex teacher in the UK, education in the West in general is more skewed towards girls. Girls are outperforming boys and women outperforming men. To not talk about trends doesn't work to address them. When I was teaching, I noticed my down to earth teaching approach really benefitted the young men 16-19 I was teaching especially one who I kept in the program that squared up to me when my female colleagues were telling me he should be expelled. Male teachers are also…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 05:17 AM
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Personally, I wouldn't put my massive life decision up to the scrutiny of the public but maybe that's just me.
/r/MensRights02/04/21 03:42 AM
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People have said that he's bad for thinking that but she went against the family's wishes. What would these same people say if the husband got a new job across the country and decided that the family would just go regardless of what they thought? No doubt they would find this egregious. Same principle.
/r/MensRights02/04/21 03:41 AM
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