chadmarco Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	Is it really a man's job to approach women first?	Debate	chadmarco	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 02:37 PM
1	Don't hit on my girl...but shes not my girl, its just my turn.		chadmarco	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/19 04:23 AM
1	Gay/Bisexual MGTOWs?		chadmarco	/r/MGTOW	14/05/19 10:33 PM
0	Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck.		chadmarco	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:26 AM
0	Marriage is the antithesis of masculinity and male leadership	CMV	chadmarco	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 07:40 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? The latter actually sounds better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/22 04:13 PM
5	If men really want a relationship as bad as they say they do, then they should lower their standards. Lets be honest, lower your standards is basically a roundabout way of saying date fat sloppy women, even if you are skinny/fit male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 12:20 AM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Men can say the same thing. "If she doesn't approach me she doesn't like me enough." And statements like this just prove what I already know, this "never approach a man" tactic is simply a way for women to attract men that are more likely to play by their rules.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 11:03 PM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? This has nothing to do with me, I'm just breaking down the game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 11:00 PM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? I personally want an assertive and masculine man Not approaching you does not mean a man is not these things. Approaching you does not mean a man has these qualities either. Beta males who were just crying into their pillows the previously night can muster up the courage to break through their approach anxiety and talk to 100s of women while still being beta as fuck, the PUA industry proves this. Approaching a women proves next to nothing, that's why most end in failure. Anyone can do it from th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 10:58 PM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Understandable, but then the same could be said for men, why should a man settle for a lukewarm woman who was willing to let him pass her by? And this is where the truth comes out, women want all the advantages that come with being approached and asked out first then pursued, but then cover it up with the masculinity test bs. I have no issue with women taking no initiative whatsoever, but the problem is the narratives and justification for the behavior. "I need a masculine assertive man" really …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 06:58 PM
2	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? If they can’t even come up to me and have a conversation then that makes me doubt he can bring the leading, maturity, and assertiveness I want from him. That sounds very egotistical. And I mean no disrespect, but to think you are so special that any man should just drop everything based on your vague "hints" and pursue you or else his masculinity is lacking is the pinnacle of absurdity and reeks of being self centered. "He didn't notice me out of all the other attractive women in the world and p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 04:06 PM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Would you approach if you didn't have to? Most people wouldn't. That's why I don't blame women for not taking initiative, I just think this narrative of it being the job of the man is flawed and undermines the value and significance of being a top tier male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 02:31 PM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Yeah its just part of the game, its a way for them to have power in the situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 01:58 PM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? If you are too afraid to approach her, how can you protect her when she's vulnerable? This is a really weak argument. Approaching women is suppose to prove so much about a man's bravery and masculinity yet 90% of them end in rejection. This masculinity test theory is just another cope and nice sounding narrative. Its just like when girls say "if you can't handle me at my worst...", its just a narrative to obfuscate the reality of them wanting you to tolerate toxic behavior, so they attack your m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 01:56 PM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Of course not, I'm low value as far as the dating market is concerned, but I'm not really looking anyway so it doesn't have anything to do with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 06:45 AM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? I choose neither.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 06:44 AM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Not if you get enough offers to satisfy your needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 06:43 AM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? But in this case the exceptions prove a very important point. Men approaching women is not law, but rather the condition of having low SMV.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 06:39 AM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Same could be said for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 02:09 AM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Is it your job, no. I rest my case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 02:09 AM
2	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Men should approach women because they are biologically the pursuers. Meanwhile women jump through flaming hoops suspended over alligator pits just to smell a famous guys underwear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 02:08 AM
2	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? they like men to do the approaching/chasing. Shocking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 02:05 AM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? That is only true from a beta male perspective. Again I gave solid examples of women approaching and pursuing men that are of high value, we all know this happens. Being forced to approach women first is all a beta male knows, so at some point it becomes law and then even a virtue, but its not the reality of all men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 02:03 AM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Women approaching HVM debunks this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 01:57 AM
0	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? I believe women go extra hard when it comes to ignoring strange men because they know guys will take the slightest bit of attention as an invitation to approach, I mean we're taught that something as simple as eye contact means attraction, so they kind of have to be aloof around men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 01:55 AM
5	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? To some extent waiting to be approached is a power play for women. When women say "it makes it too easy for the guy" what they mean is that they want to establish from the very beginning that they are the prize to be pursued by the man. Whoever approaches first is basically admitting to the other that having sex is more or less a slam dunk for them, and since sex is the primary bargaining tool for women, this weakens their position quite a bit. The girls on FDS went really in depth about the rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 08:20 PM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Sure some people will just absolutely refuse to approach first no matter what, but men can be the exact same way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 07:51 PM
3	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Not to mention it would cut down on women having to deal with annoying levels of thirst from men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 07:45 PM
3	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? I'm not expecting any sort of shift in the balance of things, women run dating with an iron fist and make the rules, end of. If women said a cold approach should begin by kneeling a kissing her feet men would fall in line and create a narrative to justify it and make it seem manly and masculine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 07:40 PM
5	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Obviously cute girls get many offers from many different men, but its not like it always works out. How many women complain about there being no good men around yet they never lift a finger to get a good man? Or women who play the waiting game but still end up in abusive or toxic relationships? Its not a sure thing. Yeah women can wait around and still find success in dating, but if ignoring opportunity is a sin then both sexes are guilty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 07:21 PM
2	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Lost out on free head cause you didn’t want to make a move off of some red pill blue pill mantra? Pfft! Trust me, girls don't like me anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 07:10 PM
5	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? I know its extremes but I think its important to mention them because it straight up proves that women are not these dainty little angels too feminine and demure to chase after a man. Hell I'm a absolute scrub and even I've had girls boldly come onto me, although they were the total pigs. But still it proves my value theory, I'm low value so I attract bottom dwellers who see me as a catch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 07:08 PM
2	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Its definitely based on value, attractive women thirsting after HVM proves this. Certainly society norms play a role, but a lot of women we would have to approach would trip over themselves trying to get with a Chad or famous dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 06:59 PM
2	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Look, I like men because they behave like men. Men will approach, men will choose the right place, men will ask out, and men will show confidence by doing so. I'd find it very attractive because he is being "masculine". I think people overrate the value of a man approaching first, its so attractive but 90% of them fail hard. There is more value in how you look and come across than anything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 06:57 PM
6	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Yes. It is your job to ask for what you want Same can be said for women, and they will approach if the guy is HV enough. So again the onus is not on men exclusively, but whoever is of lesser value seeking higher value, be it a man or a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 04:49 PM
2	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? I see a lot of girls say they don't like doing it because it makes the guy feel like he doesn't have to work for it, and its funny because it happened to me once and that's exactly how I felt. But I can't say I feel sorry for girls in this regard because in the end someone is gonna get their ego boosted, and most of the time its girls. I think that's part of whats so sad about dating now, everyone is so concerned about having power over the other and not risking their ego.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 04:46 PM
3	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? That's not the point, I'm not trying to tell men not to do it, I just think the idea that its a mans job is rooted in blue pill think. Its like what Richard Coop and Rollo say, women break rules for alphas and make them for betas. "Men have to approach me" is a beta rule, but women break it if the man is "alpha" enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 04:33 PM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Yeah I don't count choosing signals because they don't come with any risk. Its bait used to make the man take the leap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 04:30 PM
1	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Same could be said for women, waiting around doesn't guarantee a quality man. What I'm noticing is that a lot of the reasons given to men to encourage them to approach women first could be reloaded and shot right back at women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 04:27 PM
10	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? It’s not your job. But look at it this way: if she’s really all that, why wouldn’t you? Sure but the same could be said for women. How many women miss out on opportunities all because they are waiting for guys to make the first move? Sure they get a lot of attention already, but even they see guys that make them curious and excited, but won't do anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 04:24 PM
2	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Doesn't make sense, "another nigga" doing it doesn't mean its your job. Job implies obligation, duty, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 04:21 PM
8	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Yeah I understand their frustrations but we have to accept that women have too many reasons not to approach an average dude, who is basically invisible to them anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 04:19 PM
9	Is it really a man's job to approach women first? Despite my best efforts, I failed anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 04:16 PM
1	What are some basic differences in advice between the "Red Pill" and the "Blue Pill" Me and my friend have these discussions/debates at times, me being red pilled him being blue, roughly. We agree on a lot of things regarding female nature and dating, but I noticed that the core difference between us is that 1. He doesn't look at relationships as being a power struggle, he doesn't make decisions based on trying to protect himself from manipulation and getting hurt, while I see them as being an elaborate game of chess, where the smarter player will always be in an advantageous po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 03:21 AM
2	Most girls are desperate Most girls are desperate for Chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 08:27 PM
9	Redpillers are right about how women have higher standards than men. However, they're wrong when they say that's because women are inherently shallow. Women aren't shallow, they have higher standards due to other reasons I don't think women can really help it, they aren't rejecting short broke dudes to be mean, they literally just can't help but feel disgusted by them. Female sexuality has been controlled and moderated by men for ages, and I think its given us a false idea of how they operate. We basically had a system in place that prevented women from making the most of their own SMV (Religious morals, monogamy, men being primary earners, etc), but they were never content with that arrangement, else they would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 04:37 AM
5	Redpillers are right about how women have higher standards than men. However, they're wrong when they say that's because women are inherently shallow. Women aren't shallow, they have higher standards due to other reasons Female attraction is very brutal. They pretty much have to feel that you are superior to them in just about every way in order to get the correct amount of pussy tingles to like you. For them its very hard to respect a man who makes less than them because resource gathering is seen as a measurement of our manhood (protector, PROVIDER), its almost like knowing they are physically stronger than you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 04:21 AM
1	women are not more red pilled than men I believe woman simply have an innate advantage because the value of pussy exceeds that of the common dick. They tend to have way more options than men by default, therefore are less thirsty, less attached and less desperate. If dating was a MMORPG, average men would start with rags, a wooden sword and 100 gold, but women start with mythril armor, a diamond greatsword+5, and 100,000 gold. We all start the game as noobs, but women start with such good equipment that they can't help but run circle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 04:05 AM
3	What are some dating hills that you will die on? Yes they are. Whenever insecure men with small penises express their grievances, people always refer to the same simple methods of getting girls off that anyone could do. Its the same as people telling guys to groom/haircut/dress well, these are solutions that are available to everyone, but don't have anywhere near the same impact as the things out of their control like height/face, or extremely hard to obtain like wealth and status. Truth is, even a girl could get another girl off using these m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 11:50 PM
15	What are some dating hills that you will die on? Absolutely true, I'm just saying women try to act like they don't want to approach first for good non selfish reasons, when really its just another way to have an advantage over the man, another tactic in the games men and women play with each other. Waiting to be approached first is a good way to find someone who wants you more than you want them, this is game 101. Notice how women will be more aggressive towards men in the top 10%, its because they can't afford to wait for men who have lots of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 11:13 PM
3	What are some dating hills that you will die on? Kinda disagree. I always hear stories of word getting out about a man's size and that leading to women taking interest in him. It can be a snowball effect where you get hotter and hotter girls, partially based on your size giving you more and more clout with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 11:02 PM
1	What do you do if you are an unattractive commitment phobic man who doesn't want to visit sex workers? Here's a real answer for you. I call it "STR" (short term relationship) theory. Assuming you were able to attract a girl (I can't help with that lol) this is what you could do. I noticed that women have a tendency to invest more into relationships early on, this is a part of their bait and switch strategy. They spoil the man with sex, give him non expensive gifts and will be fairly submissive, all the while luring him into investing more and more into the relationship (moving in together, expens…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 10:25 PM
33	What are some dating hills that you will die on? Don't you realize men could say the same thing? The truth is woman don't like approaching first because it allows them to have the initial advantage in the interaction, which is understandable, but don't act like your reasoning for not approaching is any better than a man's.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 10:03 PM
-2	What are some dating hills that you will die on? Penis size is the primary key to being good at sex. Pointing to things like pussy eating, finger banging or clit play is the same as guys saying they are nice. It has no real value because these are things anyone can do so its not special, and woman tend to select for abnormal favorable traits in all areas. Basically the novelty of being well endowed far exceeds everything else the same way being confident/assertive holds far more weight than being nice and agreeable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 09:52 PM
4	How bad is negociated attraction really, as in being liked for something you provide? Its probably fun just don't expect woman to like you for you. If girls never liked you before the success you might be destined to betabu x x x.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 04:09 AM
1	Men and women’s looks decline at the same rate, men just idolize parts of mens appearance while also hyper-fixating on parts of woman’s appearance I think it depends on his understanding of the game and his expectations. Using money as leverage can be fine as long as you're not in position to be finessed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 12:31 AM
4	Men and women’s looks decline at the same rate, men just idolize parts of mens appearance while also hyper-fixating on parts of woman’s appearance I see what you're saying, but the whole idea of a man aging like wine isn't so much about his looks, its the overall idea of an older man with his life extremely together. A man can increase his value in other areas outside of looks that will allow him to have worth over younger men who are objectively better looking than him, women can't do this because men primarily care about youth and beauty. We don't care about how much money or status you have because we want our own, but women are always …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 08:02 PM
7	Men and women’s looks decline at the same rate, men just idolize parts of mens appearance while also hyper-fixating on parts of woman’s appearance That only really works if you didn't maximize your looks in your prime. If you do whats necessary to look your absolute best at 25, there is nothing you can do to compete with your 25 yo self at 40. I do believe that "the wall" is kinda overblown, but older women simply cannot compete with their younger counterparts because men value youth and purity (no baggage) more than anything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 07:38 PM
1	paying for the first date Worrying about who pays is the same as worrying about who approaches first, its all a power play to see who will have the leverage in the relationship. Its laughable how women will brag about getting they own bag but then still complain about guys not paying for dates, but the fact is its not about the money, its about knowing that you are going to invest more into the relationship than they are. Why else would working adults be debating who will pay for a 40$ dinner date? Its not about the mone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 07:25 PM
23	Men and women’s looks decline at the same rate, men just idolize parts of mens appearance while also hyper-fixating on parts of woman’s appearance The difference is that a mans value is not as limited to his looks like women. I think the idea of men aging like wine is due to the myriad of ways we can increase our SMV over the years, while a women will simply decline. A broke 25 yo guy who is a 7/10 and at the peak of his physical looks could in theory increase his SMV 10 fold by becoming wildly successful at 40, but a women could do nothing at 40 to be more appealing than her 25 year old self.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 06:56 PM
2	Gender Narcissism is why both sides struggle in dating Personality is not nearly as important as looks though. The most successful men and women in dating are always the best looking/richest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 02:59 AM
1	Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck. Okay I exaggerate a bit because its funny, but I'm dead serious. Penis size is overwhelmingly the deciding factor on how your sex prowess will be judged. If we all sit here and really think about it honestly with no virtue signaling just world fallacy bs, the men who get the most praise for their sex game have big dicks, fact. The men who get shamed the most have little/average dicks, fact. You cannot tell me I'm wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 05:15 AM
0	Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck. Being good as sex is something that’s learned. Y’all are porn sick I'm in awe of how naive you are, seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 05:08 AM
1	Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck. It has nothing to do with dick size. lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 05:07 AM
2	Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck. guys who are blessed with a plump pipe but have no idea how to use it An absolute meme.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 05:06 AM
1	Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck. None of that matters if she feels nothing during PIV.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 05:05 AM
1	Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck. Thats why I said 90%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 05:04 AM
1	Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck. Women can have slightly varying preferences, but generally speaking its better to be big than small obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 05:03 AM
1	Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck. Porn is not the issue, I see examples of women shaming men with small dicks irl all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 05:02 AM
0	Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck. Because a girl is gonna be forthright and say you're not as good as her ex. Foolish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 05:01 AM
1	Hollywood has brainwashed men with false expectations of how easy it is to obtain a high value partner I don't agree. Its not like most men are ignoring average woman and are focused on the hottest ones, they are just ignoring the ugly fat girls. The real shame is that average men are expected to go for the ugliest woman and will be told they ave high standards if they don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/19 06:12 AM
2	didnt notice this when i was a teen The original cuck.	/r/MGTOW	03/02/19 10:29 AM
0	[Question] are there any studies about the importance of sex? I think its bullshit. Monks disproved this ages ago.	/r/BlackPillScience	22/01/19 01:55 AM
3	Thots are getting audited for tax evasion Lets not pretend people are doing this out of a sense of civic duty, this is revenge on thots, which is cool, but lets call it what it is.	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/18 12:55 AM
4	Thots are getting audited for tax evasion I can't endorse snitching, I'd rather men just not throw money at bitches in the first place.	/r/TheRedPill	25/11/18 09:39 AM
30	The Hypergamy Illusion lol she knows. The nerdy girl who is unaware of how hot she is is just a hollywood fantasy.	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/18 07:10 PM
1	Growth requires recognizing when we are below average Agreed. Why do people still believe this bullshit when monks and priest have debunked this ages ago?	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/18 12:06 AM
3	A List of Approach Invitations Yeah friends have told me they saw girls checking me out, they are much more aware than I am.	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/17 02:29 AM
2	A List of Approach Invitations I wonder how many signals I've missed over the years. Sometimes I feel girls checking me out, but I'm kind of a weirdo so I always assume they are shocked by how gross and unkempt I am lol. I'd have to be raped before I'm convinced.	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/17 10:43 PM
1	Rejection, and why you need to seek it Ah, "no game" game. Definitely not for the desperate because its an honest assessment of who you are. That's why I never get laid XD	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/17 03:15 PM
4	You do not DESERVE attractive women, you must EARN them. There is no shortcut. Become POWERFUL. Not for me. I accepted dying a virgin long ago lol	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/17 02:25 PM
2	You do not DESERVE attractive women, you must EARN them. There is no shortcut. Become POWERFUL. He could have worded it better but its pretty on point. Dating is like the jungle nowadays, get good or starve. There are guys out there shaping every aspect of their life to get pussy, and more who are just naturals, that's your competition. Its even tougher because girls would rather share one 8-10/10 than have one 5 for themselves. Shit is brutal for the lames lol	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/17 02:18 PM
2	You do not DESERVE attractive women, you must EARN them. There is no shortcut. Become POWERFUL. Working out is just fun in of itself, like dancing, fighting or playing basketball. You think guys who play chess or street fighter 5 are thinking about all the sweet pussy its gonna get them? Sometimes things are just fun, physical activity is one of them.	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/17 01:45 PM