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Hope you find someone you're compatible with long term that also doesn't like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:57 PM
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Do you think that is because of the guys you've been with making it a bad experience or because you just done like sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:20 PM
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What way do you experience it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 11:18 AM
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Yeah, true I guess. I still think that enthusiastic body language can be its own consent. If she is grabbing your dick while you're making out, you'd come off as a complete dingus to be like, "want to have sex?"... Or maybe that's my own insecurity/ego to think so. In the instances they didn't like it, we were already having sex. The back and forth between you and the other two posters may have convinced me tbh. Spontaneity is still a good thing while dating/having sex imo though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:05 AM
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Yeah I clarified in another post. I pictured some dweeb saying this randomly on a date or something lol, but yes it could be part of dirty talk as well. I don't believe the OP was referring to dirty talk though. Just constant affirmative consent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:47 AM
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No, they just told me to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:45 AM
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Ideally yes. I'm vocal and like a vocal partner. And I will check to make sure she's not in pain if I have concern. Yes you're right but If you're in an ltr, you should know each other well enough. Usually were cuddling and I'll be playing with her hair and we're humans not robots, so what's next is natural. I don't mean caveman style where you wack her over the head with a club and drag her over by her hair. Yeah of course it's hot. I have only had women say that if we werent in a position to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 04:02 AM
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Lol ok true actually. But I couldn't resist a sarcastic remark. As with anything, context and nuance are needed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 03:55 AM
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It's also depending on the person ur with too. I have had some that really enjoyed that type of consent and dirty talk and others that hated it period. Feminists usually create these platitudes where they sound great for following the rules but most women do not like these things. In my experience. Maybe yours is different. Saying "you like that" is bordering on dirty talk and most likely is when ur saying it. And I've had feminists tell me that affirmative consent is getting consent before the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:50 PM
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Eh I can agree with that. I have asked for consent in the past but more affirmative, "you like that?" "You want me to eat you out?" Etc. Not "can I kiss you?" "Can I hold you hand" etc. I did try it out once and the girl(proud feminist) just laughed at me. Lol. We dated for 8 months after that but she brought it up pretty regularly as a joke. I think the common divide is not that guys don't want the women they're with to feel comfortable (the intent of the question), but that they're more concer…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 11:31 PM
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hell yeah lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 09:20 PM
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Have you never had a woman that genuinely wanted to have sex with you and you escalated together? I've never been in doubt when having sex with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 09:19 PM
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Hell no. Why even have a relationship??? Sex is an intimate and bonding experience, why would you choose to miss out with someone you care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:26 PM
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Relationship is infinitely better. Casual is like, I find this person attractive enough to fuck but not enough to date. Meh. Hook ups are even lower tier where you're just using each other to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:24 PM
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This entire interaction is in the top 3 funniest things I've read on reddit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:16 PM
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"Ma'am, do you m-mind if I give your pussy a kiss?" "Oh god yes please!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:15 PM
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Understanding your partner's body language and having yours understood isn't sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:12 PM
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Anyone who doesnt agree with this shouldn't be having sex... some of these replies make me lose hope in humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/21 08:08 PM
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We don't respect other men either. We don't respect anyone who doesn't earn it through actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:08 AM
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Can confirm. My dad chastised me when I started to cry as a boy and said men don't cry. lol I did cry after that of course but I would always make sure I was alone. Even parked on the side of the road to let it out once before going back home to my roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:06 AM
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Looksmaxing is a base requirement. You don't gotta go all out with surgeries and shit but get in shape and take care of yourself first, then handle the rest later. You might not end up looking like a 10 but if you can go from a 5 to a 6 that's pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:03 AM
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Yeah he's like 60 now. Idk anyone else still rocking it that age, maybe rob lowe but he looks greasy to me(male). what do you think about Pitt in Inglorious Basterds? I thought that was a good look for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:44 AM
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what if she loves tequila?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:33 PM
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I was hoping you would 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:24 PM
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Thanks mom 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:22 PM
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I'm kind of heading towards that stage. 31, no kids. Never wanted them for a long time, then met someone who did want them and I became open towards it. Feel like I need to shit or get off the pot & figure out if kids are really in my future soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:04 PM
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I've seen women here call Brad Pitt ugly so you do the math LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:43 PM
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Still wouldn't bother reading
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:40 PM
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Patriarchy is the boogeyman for women who need someone to blame for their unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:39 PM
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I can't comprehend it either but I still feel bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:59 AM
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Everyone settles eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:37 AM
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Kind of but not really. I get told I should wait more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:34 AM
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Male, have a kind of low, steady horniness in the background every day when single/not doing much socially. I'll probably take care of it twice a day usually. When I'm regularly around attractive women and single(events, gym, etc), the thought of eating whichever girl I find attractive's pussy will cross my mind several times at min. When I'm in a relationship or the girl I'm hooking up with is good at sex, I'll probably be thinking about her 24/7 and hungry for more of her. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 02:28 AM
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And that's how we end up with only fans and patreon girls stringing along a shitload of dudes desperate for a crumb of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:26 PM
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Good point, have an upvote! It's true. I think about my ex a lot and a lot of ironies, she used to like anime and I didn't, now I love it and pre covid was going to 3-5 conventions a year. I do wonder how much is just hormones. It's a sobering feeling and thought. As I get older, I have less interest in the opposite sex even which is wild to think about. In my early 20s I couldn't get enough, now I get that urge a bit and I'll hop on the apps for some random hookup with no consideration of a fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 07:24 PM
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Probably same. My theory is after 2 people are a bit worn out emotionally to give it their all. I think love takes a certain naivety to truly work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 08:34 AM
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Yeah, I like to say most people have 2 good LTRs in them before they become jaded or just stop caring much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 07:41 PM
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Yes. I still think about having sex with and cuddling with my ex. We've been broken up for 4+ years and I've had 2 relationships and several hookups since then. Though tbf, I usually forget all about her when I'm in a relationship or dates. If I get lonely she pops up pretty regularly I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 07:39 PM
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My Dad used to tell me that being a man is doing what you have to, not what you want to. He always has some dumb saying but that one stuck with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 07:37 PM
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They looked up to them because he reminds them of themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:55 PM
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You saw the new Borat movie right? They aren't bringing their best and brightest... oh wait they are haha
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:02 PM
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The Cheeto is gone!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:45 PM
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Those are just my thoughts. Doesn't mean everyone thinks like that. Average for males is 5'9 190 lbs and chubby. Just getting in shape will do you wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:44 PM
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Where did I call anyone an idiot? Been lurking for a few months. Just bored. We're in a pandemic. I can have my own thoughts on dating and still come here out of curiosity. This is not anywhere near the weirdest sub I go to. Why so hostile?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:40 PM
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RIP. You can tell someone's perspective based on their wording. I do agree this sub is pretty nihilistic these days. Makes for interesting reading I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:25 AM
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I don't blame her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 09:07 PM
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ideal length for an exclusive relationship? a lifetime if it's a good relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:45 PM
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Tbh tho poppy's posts are pretty entertaining most of the time. I especially love when she gets into it with the women on the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:29 PM
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Tbh yes. Average is not good these days. For any of the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:06 PM
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Maybe, but it's up to you to change your fate. Nobody is gonna hand you shit. And these days, it seems pretty common for people not to date in college. I like to play PVP games and all the younger dudes seem to think women will take time away from their gaming. Get your act in order and get in a relationship, or get a hook up, get a hooker, whatever. I wouldn't tell them you're a virgin, if you are. Women say they don't care about that but none of my female friends are down with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:43 PM
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Women can't really fail. They might not be happy with what they get, but they generally get what they want. A woman in need never has to look far for help. A man in need has to look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:24 PM
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Looksmatch doesn't exist. Leagues do IMO but you can always stay within your league IMO. Ex: I am a 7.5 so I can go up to 9.5 if I want to put in work(have done, wasn't worth the effort), or I can go dumpster dive a 5.5. Some people can get around this by being a fetish or apart of a fetish community or just being someone's type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 06:05 PM
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I'm just a lurker but it's mostly a place for incels and FDS(female incels) to yell into a void under the guise of debate, with a lot of boomery tut-tutting thrown in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 05:57 PM
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