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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Experience of men who mention their ex and a past behavior that their ex called them out on, but claimed their ex was wrong. One talked about how he's been told he's insensitive and acts like he doesn't care. (And he claimed how he actually does care but it's just hard for him to show it/be expressive 🤡.) He also mentioned how girls tend to hate him and eventually stop talking to him because they can't accept who he is. Guess who turned out to be the biggest, most insensitive, manipulative, devoid-of-empathy douche I ever met 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 07:31 PM
12	FDSers who are married to or dating HVM, what brought you here? I believe I lucked out and met a decent man. This sub helped me understand why or what went wrong as my past pick-me self. I also like to read it to have a better idea on how to raise my future children and how they can protect themselves and not make the same mistakes I did. I also have a current pick-me friend still in the dating pool and I try pass on the stuff I've learned to her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/21 12:21 AM
3	How long is too long to wait? According to my husband, if you're in a relationship with a guy and it's not long-distance, if he hasn't proposed by the 2-year mark, he's just wasting your time (and probably hoping for someone better to come along). It shouldn't take a man more than a year or 2 to know if he wants to marry you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/21 07:59 PM
6	Stoicism and the journey of leveling up This. Word for word. The stonewalling, the gaslighting, the grooming, the coldness, the smugness. I had a past NVM refer to himself as this and was apparently pretty into the philosophy. The concept just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 08:09 AM

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