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chainlinks/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 04:21 PM
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Take a look of the picture of the girl. If you can't land a chubby plain-jane like that, you still have a lot of work to do. The 80% rule alludes to getting beautiful women, not average ones.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 06:18 PM
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No offense but you look like a big ass geek. I get laid at a pretty decent frequency but I'm not going to claim I'm a Chad. An example of a Chad is an ex-athlete high earner in the finance industry. Not goofy ass ex-fatty Art Director in the gamin industry. Cmon now man.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 06:04 PM
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That girl.... is a whore. And you should probably text her this weekend.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 11:31 PM
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I went through the this in college: cheated and got caught she insisted we work through it she would bring it up over and over. "She couldn't trust me" and start crying. I felt terrible every time I was letting her systematically break me down until I was a shell of myself. Became a sulking loser sweet, so she achieved her plan. She tells me she's finally gotten over me cheating and then proceeds to merrily fuck a LOT of guys and made sure I knew about it (call me at 1am right before the act, ma…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 04:56 AM
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I once told a girl "you make me feel hungry." I just kind of babbled it out because I meant it at the time. This was while we were staring into each others eyes. The result was nothing short of remarkable.
/r/seduction15/02/16 08:01 PM
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This conversation has been popping up with a friend of mine the last couple of years. It's just good fun and you're flirting. The middle ground is just that. You seem to take yourself seriously (which can be good or bad depending on how you exercise your social criticisms). But when it comes to women, allow your self to loosen up. Like you said they loveeeee the BS, it's fun for them and it's fun for you too if you let it be. Women don't like being taken seriously. Save the Nietzsche for you and…
/r/seduction05/02/16 02:58 PM
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Step 1: Be smooth enough to get girl interested in you. Step 2: Be unconfident enough to blow it when it's getting close to sexy time. Step 3: Be pissed. Step 4: Learn to find your failures amusing and laugh at yourself and don't make the same mistake nextime. Step 5: Go back to Step 1. Eventually your skills get better, you start winning a few and hence, are less nervous during the interaction and less attached to the outcome. I guess if there were a "trick," it would be Step 4. Learning to lau…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 02:50 AM
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This is true only if you're attached to the outcome. I'm starting to figure out something I call "detached desire," where I'll pursue a beautiful woman with no attachment to the outcome. By really internalizing this, my advances convey more of a playful offer instead of coming off as a sales pitch. It's not perfect, but for the most part, I don't give a shit if my advances don't work because I can always try again with the next girl I meet.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 08:58 PM
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Yes, OP was a bit misguided on Empathy. There aren't two forms of empathy. There is empathy and sympathy. Empathy - Understanding what others are feeling because you have experienced it yourself or can put yourself in their shoes. Sympathy - Acknowledging another person's emotional hardships and providing comfort and assurance. Sticking to the yin-yang theme empathy would be a masculine trait and sympathy a feminine one.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 04:32 PM
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The Way of The Superior Man is worth it's weight in gold.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 04:26 PM
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While I don't disagree (pussy was primary for me in college. Got useless degree I don't use), you'll never be in a situation like that again. There are women willing to/have the time to sleep with you literally everywhere. My confidence with women comes from previous success. My most successful period was between the ages of 19-24. Achievement & poon do not have to be mutually exclusive if you're disciplined in your college years.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 02:39 PM
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The first half I thought he was getting somewhere. Then he starts babbling on about some story with a girl he lived with.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 03:43 PM
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Man, this is a great fucking quote. When it all breaks down, we are learning how to play her game better than her. I started this shit about 6 years ago, and I'd be lying if I said I don't feel like I've lost a part of myself. Men are inherently passionate people. We love our friends, our music, our home town teams with a fever. Part of learning how to get better with women is learning to be apathetic towards their behaviors. Taming yourself to be less passionate about them. This quote is a good…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 02:04 PM
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Yup. This is my goto method. Always put your desires on the table. If you want to have sex with her, you need to let her know without scaring her. Best way to present any controversial topic is to introduce it through humor. You can get away with almost anything I'd you frame it in a fun and playful tone. Personally I do it early. Like 3rd sentence kind of early, just to address the tension. "Wow that's my favorite movie too. Want to go back to my place and make out? We could make popcorn and wa…
/r/seduction13/07/15 03:31 PM
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Smoking pot recreationaly vs habitually are two different things. I started smoking and drinking when I was 13 years old. Started going to school high when I was 15. By the time I was 19, I was smoking about 7 blunts/day (I was selling a lot, which is why I could afford it). This is obviously a problem. I know plenty of people who started smoking senior year of high school and would only indulge as a social thing. Most of them didn't develop a socially unhealthy habit. No problem there, in fact …
/r/seduction13/02/15 08:36 PM
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I second this. You have to slowly cut down on smoking weed. I was the classic pothead for the better part of 15 years. What happned to me is that I became unemployed a couple of years ago and for the first time couldn't afford it anymore. As I relunctantly stopped smoking for financial reasons, I started to look around my enviornment. Everyone around me that smoked weed was a loser at life. I always knew this instinctivly, but I never actually took an honest look at the situation until I lost my…
/r/seduction13/02/15 04:22 PM
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But if a nice guy gets to know the real me and then leaves...that's when the little vulnerable girl in me comes out worried that maybe me, who I am at the core, is unlovable. Patrice O'Neal's commentary on this topic.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 08:35 PM
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But The Enforcer is not the one calling the shots. He's not in charge. This reminds me of the episode in The Sopranos when Tony beats up "Muscles Marinara" to get his mojo back.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 10:51 PM
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Because I'm not 6'8" and can't run a 4.4 40? Ever heard of genetics man?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 03:44 PM
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The kids from my high school reference was used to show that your athletic history isn't at all impressive and is a useless crutch for an argument for not watching sports. It sounds like you're parading the fact that you're an athlete when you played amatuer baseball. David wells pitched a no-hitter while he was hung over. Baseball is less impressive than table tennis.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:56 PM
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That's cool. Three kids in my high schoolgraduating class (of 120) played semi-pro ball. What's your favorite TV show? Many of us don't watch TV and sports are used as our downtime to have a few beers with some friends. I've been working out or playing itermural sports 6 days a week since I was old enough to walk. Point being that everyone has downtime. I choose to watch sports instead of The Big Bang Theory. Get out of your own ass with this "I choose to better myself 24/7 and sleep in a hyperb…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:44 PM
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The same reason why Gladiator's were hailed as demi-gods in during the Roman Empire. These men are freaks of nature that can perform unparelled physical feats compared to the average human. It is exciting to watch people defy the laws of phsyics on a field of battle. Take the NBA for example: There are 30 teams, each with a 15 man roster. That's 450 players total. Out of a population of 7 billion humans that is 0.00000008% of people playing professional basketball. Pro athelets are insanly speci…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:39 PM
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You've gotta be kidding me. How is this being upvoted? Maybe for some fat slob, sitting on the couch eating potato chips, who's never been on a team before. Watching sports is about appreciating peak phsyical competition and bonding with your friends. You sound like someone who's never touched a football/basketball in your life.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:26 PM
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Watching (and more importantly participating) in sports is what you're supposed to fucking do as a man. I don't trust a man who doesn't participate in sports. That's feminine behavior.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:24 PM
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Hahaha are you from the south? Lived in TX for a year and I'll never forget how hilarious and awesome I found the concept of "breeders." Mother fuckers are serious about that shit down there.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:54 PM
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This is a fucking great way to look at it. I've never framed the experience as "practice." I currently have this 23 yr old girl hooked. She's 5'11", I'm 5'9". I've fucked her a few times but in a private setting. She's a fun, smart, party girl (not that pretty but big tits and ass). She invites me out to bars also and I'd like to go and get some social practice in. I barely go to bars anymore. I consider it a young man's game, but I know I need to get out of my comfort zone once in a while and g…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:52 PM
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That's the point. This guy in the story is a sheep in wolf's clothing.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:42 PM
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If you are truly detached from the relationship, then fucking her is the same as fucking some other skank you just met. From a personaly standpoint, however, I know damn well that if I got close to my old "oneits satan's daughter" ex I'd jump right back into the pit of hell.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:41 PM
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Sounds to me like she's in a rush to have a kid or two and divorce the man in 5-6 years so she can finally be "free of her womanly obligations."
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:38 PM
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It's because they've been planning it for a few months. Slowly getting used to the idea and doing little things to prepare for the big reveal. It isn't apparent to the man when he is in love, but in hindsight you can see the small behavior changes pile up over time.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:35 PM
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only one person in the relationship can be up on the pedestal. So it better be you. This is a common theme discussed here put into a useful metephor. Well stated.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 07:18 PM
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That would make sense if the lyrics weren't "go ahead and tell everybody I'm the man, I'm the man, ect."
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 04:52 AM
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Telling everyone you're the man is the opposite of RP. The lion doesn't need to roar.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 01:19 AM
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This guy is overtly insecure. All but the last paragraph were completely unnecessary.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 10:49 PM
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A+ post. Very insightful.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 07:47 PM
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David DeAngelo was doing his thing way before TRP was concieved. This guy was part of the seduction community, which has some overlap but ultimatly has nothing to do with RP.
/r/RedPillBooks15/01/15 11:57 PM
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Although I did enjoy reading your post (that formula is well thought out), I don't think you've had enough experience dealing with whores that trick you into thinking they are chaste. Women who sleep around are more willing to lie/cheat and when you are in a relationship with one of these women and you both slowly agree to a monogamous relationship, chances are she's going to betray your trust. This will leave emotional scars which can turn a man bitter and untrusting of women. Even if we ignore…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:24 PM
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It's a tough life to be attracted to whores. I've been trying to look at it through the lens of A. A. You know how people that go through the 12 steps will tell you that they haven't had a drink in X years. "I am chainlinks and I'm an addict. I haven't loved a whore in 4 years and 8 months."
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:10 PM
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Lol the Briggs-Myers jab was a nice touch.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:07 PM
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One can identify with certain labels, but openly stating "I am a Christian/Republican/Atheist/Progressive" before trying to make a point takes the wind out of your argument.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:04 PM
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It's like when I hear someone proclaim "I am a Christian, so..." Like you stated, I cannot help but package them up into a little box of judgment and the next thing they say comes out like the adults in Charlie Brown.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:02 PM
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Upvote for the Macho Man reference.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 02:33 AM
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Did you just suggest to send his daughter off to a 'dance class' to find a real man instead of dating 'fags' that are in the military? Male dancers > Military men?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:21 AM
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You must fight to the death.
/r/becomeaman15/12/14 06:40 AM
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There are a lot of things you could do, but lifting weights is the most simple and direct way to get started.
/r/becomeaman13/12/14 10:28 PM
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"The Way of the Superior Man" was a real game changer for me. It really helped me alleviate the bitterness I felt when I first came to grips with the female nature. It's a quick read also. Each chapter is only a few pages. "Women are not liars" was one of the more helpful points he made.
/r/RedPillBooks13/12/14 07:57 PM
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Dated a girl like this for 3 years in college. The sex is crazy and the memories of these kinds of women stay with you forever. I learned more RP philosophy from my relationship with her and my reaction to it than any other experience of my life, hands down. Although I don't recommend it, if you find yourself trapped in one of these relationships and you make it out psychologically healthy, you will no doubt, be grateful for the experience.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 12:36 AM
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K.I.S.S. Solid.
/r/seduction09/10/14 02:51 AM
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Respect for your candid post and making yourself a better person.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 03:37 PM
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This sounds a lot like me about 8 - 10 years ago. Slowly over the years, I have found the power of silence. Locking eye contact, raising your eyebrows and most importantly keeping your damn mouth shut has changed my life more than almost any other "life hack" I've found in my almost 30 years on this earth. The trick is when you catch someone bullshitting, immediately categorize them as a toddler in your mind. Would you argue with a toddler, if he/she were lying to you? Nope. You would just pat h…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 02:57 PM
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Women have no loyalty to one another. They get pleasure from ruining their friends relationships.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 02:34 PM
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You have a twisted mind. I like it. I can imagine the conversation "Fine, we can stay together, but you need to bring me three other bitches so I can fuck all of you in our bathroom." Then dump her after anyway.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 02:29 PM
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I have a suspicion that it was something more like 3 guys and 2 girls. 4 v 1 in either direction is hard to pull off.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 02:26 PM
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Yup and the only way to be more consistently on the right side of that fence is to practice.
/r/seduction27/09/14 09:39 PM
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When I was heavy into the night game scene my friends would always call me creepy. While they were wall hugging and I was smiling and laughing talking to scantly clad young women.
/r/seduction27/09/14 09:37 PM
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I don't think you're picking up on the sarcasm my man.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:02 PM
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Haha yes! That book changed my damn life.
/r/seduction27/09/14 05:36 PM
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Ha! I can't remember what movie this is from, but I've used it and it works.
/r/seduction26/09/14 08:06 PM
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Reading stories like this make me realize how far a man's mind will go to justify a woman's actions when you think you love her. Binge drinking, pill popping, sex addict? Bringing back memories of the girl that helped me cross the bridge. Getting hurt by one of these sex-demon succubi will turn you red pill faster than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:15 PM
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Man I got flashbacks of my early 20s self reading this story. Waiting in her driveway for her to come home while she was "picking up pills from a friends house." I was too blind to notice her swollen lips and the fact that she was chewing an entire pack of gum when she finally got back to her apartment.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:09 PM
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Ahh the good ole false choice presentation. "Do you want to make out now or on the dance floor after you finish your drink?"
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:03 PM
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Start volunteering to be the driver.
/r/seduction15/09/14 12:15 AM
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This is such a great post. You have stated what many of us in this forum feel but cannot express as eloquently. Many of us were raised by emasculated, absentee fathers. My best friend's father abandoned him when he was 4 years old. My father went bankrupt emptying his retirement account to fund another woman's family (child and husband) with whom he was never intimate. We often muse that the reason we feel so behind in life was because if the absence of a male mentor. This post hit very close to…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:11 PM
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The timebomb thing is especially true for girls that are currently "in love" or in that pre-breakup phase.
/r/seduction10/09/14 03:45 AM
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I don't know. In my experience, I've found younger women to be very compliant. Again this is in my own personal adventures, but I've noticed that younger women (18-23ish) are usually in a position of power in their relationships with their boyfriends that are the same age. There's something very natural about the age gap when you bring a younger woman into the bedroom. You're able to offer them direction which in turn makes her comfortable. However, I guess it can work both ways when an older wo…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 11:56 PM
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Had a serious LOL when i saw "AskHampsters"
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 11:51 PM
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Haha I love "fat people" rants. My best bud from highschool moved down to Texas after graduation. Almost everytime I talk to him he goes on a "fat people" rant. I don't know why but it cracks me up every damn time.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:50 PM
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You're using fringe cases to try to prove a point. Assuming everyone is a trained fighter is like walking around assuming everyone is a Jeopardy champion. Real life is not like a 1960s Kung-Fu movie where everyone in town is a Shaolin master. The percentage of people that have taken martial arts classes is sub %20. The percentage of people you could consider "trained fighters" is less than %2. I used to hang out with a pretty rowdy crowd. I've gotten in over 20 fights in my life (high school, co…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:21 PM
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How often are you going to encounter a trained fighter compared to an average person?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:53 PM
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If two average men have to brawl for whatever reason, who do you put your money on: The guy who can't pick up his girlfriend or the guy who can deadlift 2.5x his own bodyweight?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:09 PM
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That song has a lifetime of wisdom in it.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 03:21 PM
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I've been lifting for 12 years. It's a primal thing. It's not a fix-all solution by any means, but when you know you can whoop someone's ass if you had to, it makes you less defensive.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 02:54 PM
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Can't say this about a lot of literature, but this one changed my life. The story about taking your woman to the movies was worth the read alone. It's a short read, with 3-5 page chapters in most cases. Do yourself a favor and pick up a copy of this book.
/r/RedPillBooks22/08/14 07:18 PM
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Don't listen to this douche canoe or anyone else giving you shit about this story. You're showing maturity. Keep it up my man.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 04:16 PM
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This is the kind of stuff we're all really here to read. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:40 PM
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I was a drunk and drug addict for years. I loved to party and only dated people that were as unmanageable as I was. For so long these traditional things never had much appeal. But then I got sober, and saw that my life had much more to offer. Hmm I wonder why he didn't want to commit to her? I had to stop reading there. The hamster is strong with this one.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 04:15 PM
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If you want to see a bad guy that you'll unquestionably root for, check out the original series from BBC. Francis Urquhart is impossibly charming.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 08:59 PM
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A few years back I noticed that there was always "the other guy." By this I mean, when a girl breaks up with her boyfriend she has this other guy that she goes and sleeps with right away. I always got the sense that she kept him tucked away somewhere while she was with her boyfriend. I became tired of being the "boyfriend guy," and I wondered if it were possible to be the other guy instead. Long story short, yes, it is possible. I am now the other guy instead of the boyfriend guy. Your post is a…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 08:58 PM
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Haha I love her reaction after the "..at least you did in the dressing room" comment. That is exactly how a woman reacts when she is swooned. Forgot about this video.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:26 PM
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Thumbs up for this comment. I wrote a post about this a while back and accidentally deleted it when I was reinstalling my OS, but these are my feelings exactly. There's really nothing outlandish about this story at all, whether it's made up or not, it's quite typical.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:15 PM
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Yeah picture an old school Italian man, like from the Sopranos, instead of a flaming homosexual man and the conversation will make more sense.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:00 PM
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It's useless when people throw out insults to try to make a point. Pet names such as "honey, darling, princess, sweetheart" serve the purpose of charming a woman at the same time as keeping her beneath you. Learn to speak to women like you would a child and your game will improve.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:31 PM
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I tried to link it but it was removed. The title of the post is Entitlement/White Knight declined.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:28 PM
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Lol you poor guy. You don't know how to speak to women.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:27 PM
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Good observation, feet are the biggest tells. Did you happen to read "The Definitive Book of Body Language" also?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 08:07 PM
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Oh my lord. This image will forever be burned into my memory. I may never argue with anyone on Reddit ever again.. ..and why is there a wizard in the front?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 08:03 PM
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This is insightful. I never thought about the population that way and took the thought train one step further.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 08:02 PM
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This is necessary after reading that "rude taxi driver" post. Thank you for this.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 07:59 PM
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What is this glorious book? I must acquire it's knowledge.
/r/seduction13/07/14 07:58 PM
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This thread is annoying the crap out of me. But the well placed sarcasm placed in this comment made me smile.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 07:10 PM
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I do tend to forget that there are varying levels of social aptitude between posters on this site. I suppose someone who used to have beta tendencies (OP's words) would still have to work on smoothing out the rough edges of social interactions. However, you speak to women like your brat little sister long enough, eventually the awkwardness fades.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 10:44 PM
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Last time I checked I was an average looking man in his late 20s that has had above average success at spinning plates, but I could be a woman or a bitch. I guess I'll have to check again soon.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 10:40 PM
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Semantics my friend. Check the big picture here.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 07:54 PM
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Quality response. I've noticed a lot of men on this sub rant about women. Really they're missing the point. The ratio of posts about women to posts on self-improvement should be 5:1. Unfortunately the opposite seems to be true. The trick is this: Treat a woman as an equal but don't view her as an equal. If you're mad at a woman for "wasting your time acting like a princess" you're coming from the wrong place. Instead of looking at a woman who is acting in a prissy manner with contempt, more usef…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 06:54 PM
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Thank you. My friend sent this to me yesterday and I got the same vibe. It was an irritating read.
/r/seduction09/07/14 10:51 PM
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Best post I've seen on TRP yet. Hope to hear more from you.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:31 PM
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This is fantastic. I'm going to read this woman's writing. She just made me feel all warm and tingly inside. Coming from Fox News, go figure.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 08:49 PM
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Theme parties. I went to a small school where the social scene was absolutely dominated by sports team and frat parties. We got around this by throwing theme parties. international party: every room in our house was a different country with a different signature shot rave party: replaced all the lights with black lights and only played techno gangster party: everyone dressed like thugs (I went with 1950s thug with my pants around my ribs and a sweet top hat, many people were confused) Bitches lo…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 05:30 PM
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You sound like a man who has been scorned but I like your vibe man. I'm not sure how long you've been in this place you're coming from, but for me the angst didn't last forever. I've been single for almost 6 years now and I'm finally starting to come around to the idea of a woman being your sidekick rather than your soul mate. I'll be honest I've had a decent amount of success with women my whole life (I'm no higher than a 7) so maybe that comes into play, but I think what really help me turn th…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:42 PM
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Agreed. These days my personal validation comes from whether or not I am acquiring the resources to be a good provider for my family in the future. ..but man, there's still nothing like slaying some new strange. To quote Marty from True Detective "it just seems to smooth all the other shit out."
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:18 PM
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You blew it in the mini-argument. Would have been better if you accepted that you were proved wrong instead of claiming the the other guy was arguing semantics and then linking to Webster's.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:15 PM
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I listened to a series of interviews with some of the characters in the book. It is most definitely embellished. First, some of the characters were combinations of one or more actual people. Neil said this helped create a stronger narrative. Second, the older guy that does the finger up the chest trick in the diner scene (can't remember his name, read the book in 2010) was teasing Neil about how he wrote about him humping Carmen Electra's leg. They both had a laugh about it and agreed it made th…
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:51 AM
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This always screws up my game. See girl. Label girl 6. I'm a boss, girl picks up on it. Loves me See girl. Label girl 8. I'm a schoolboy, girl picks up on it. Girl kind of likes me.
/r/seduction06/06/14 02:35 AM
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I've been dating multiple women and bodybuilding Lol what a douchey way to start a post. Your arrogance is only hides the fact that you're insecure. A sexy woman will catch on to that in less than 3 seconds. Work on real confidence, instead of enjoying exercising power over some insecure, fat chick.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 02:55 PM
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Depends on the situation and the mood I'm in: "What are you a good cook or something?" or "That's cool. Do you have any hobbies?" First two things that came to mind.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 06:47 PM
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Not where I live. I've lived in a few parts of the country and it is definitely location dependent. I recently moved back near where I grew up and I realized that I completely took location for granted when it comes to what constitutes the average looking woman.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 06:43 PM
2

You know how everyone jokes about "women's intuition?" Well, it's real. Women are much better at reading social cues than men are. By the time a girl is 15 years old she's an accomplished mind reader. Well, use that to your advantage. While she's talking to you maintain eye contact and visualize you two ripping each others clothes off and having incredibly passionate sex. I mean feel free to really visualize it. The most exciting part for a woman when she is with someone new is that moment right…
/r/seduction06/05/14 05:57 PM
2

Let her know you want to have sex with her without actually saying it.
/r/seduction05/05/14 12:03 AM
14

This is a self-aware man. The honest truth.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/14 01:51 PM
2

Do you have any friends that are good with women? If you're serious about getting better with dating hang out with him. Often. Even if you don't like him that much. You seem like a smart dude. Pay attention to how loose he is. Do your best to mimic his attitude (not personality, just demeanor). Eventually you'll get better. You'll never be as good as him, but you will get good enough to be satisfied with that part of your life.
/r/seduction17/04/14 06:59 AM
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So what she's saying is that if a girl is extroverted, she'll become bitchy and come off like she isn't interested. However, if a girl is introverted she'll be come stand offish and it will seem like she isn't interested. Makes perfect sense. ... I'll just continue to always assume attraction.
/r/seduction04/01/14 02:01 AM
2

Second this.
/r/becomeaman02/01/14 04:01 PM
1

It could be a lot of things. Do you mumble when you start a sentence? Do you trail off towards the end of a thought? Obviously eye contact, which I'm sure other people have mentioned. Personally, I remember feeling like I was being interrupted more frequently than I preferred. I identified the problem as me being too long-winded. A few years ago I made a conscious effort to be more brief and to the point when I spoke to people. It's seemed to have worked well as I rarely get interrupted now.
/r/becomeaman02/01/14 03:59 PM
1

Thank you for this. I was beginning to become disenfranchised by the alpha-beta bickering, but you're right on, it's just simple bickering than can be ostracized. This is an awesome post, thank you for your continued effort.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 03:48 PM
1

Definitely looks like you're attributing your happiness to extrinsic events. That's the opposite of what game is about. What goes up must come down. Being over-elated leads to being underwhelmed. You're on a high bro, cool it and relax a little.
/r/seduction03/12/13 11:24 PM
0

I thought OP posted an enjoyable correlation.
/r/seduction19/11/13 10:24 PM
1

Whadaya know.. an actual unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 04:12 AM
1

That book changed my life. No exaggeration. If you haven't yet read it. It will soothe the resentment.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 03:27 AM
3

I think women know that 10 is the absolute threshold. I can't count how many women told me their number was '9.' Riggghhht... so every woman I meet has slept with 9 guys before me.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 03:06 AM
1

That poor sap. This is going to sound harsh (because it is), but all of the "Ted's" out there deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 09:31 PM
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Awesome analogy.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 08:17 PM
1

Ha nice catch. Wisdom of the ages can be applied in many cases :).
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 07:15 PM
1

Your humor... I like that shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 04:40 AM
3

If all your girlfriends friends are whores, then she is also a whore. I used to look at my GF in college and think "Why does she hang out with these girls, she's not like them." What a dope I was...
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 04:15 AM
2

I second this advice.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 04:14 AM
1

This made me laugh :)
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 04:11 AM
3

I've noticed this trend with some of my younger friends on FB. Saying something like "I think my eye is sweating." These are the kids who wear skinny jeans and listen to fruity-punk-screamo-metal (no disrespect to anyone's genre of music but if I'm listening to metal I prefer Megadeth and All That Remains). So my vote goes for the "young bros are getting more feminine" argument.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 04:03 AM
2

My grandfather was an alcoholic and physically abusive so obviously she grew up with male validation issues. She's not the type of woman to makes excuses. She knows she was a ho. She didn't get her act together until after she went through menopause. For better or for worse, we're not the type of family to dwell on the past. Shit happens you move on. By no means does she live in a state of self-pity. She's an energetic, outgoing, optimist of a person. I think she finds comfort in the fact that I…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 12:45 AM
1

Very well stated and I appreciate your candor. For those of use who grew up with an ineffective father and a mother with a stronger personality, you are right, it is a difficult journey to become emotionally independent. Here's to a better you and a better me my friend.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 11:55 PM
1

I don't disagree. But that advice is for a young woman. My mother can't change her past and the conversations simply offer an old woman some solace.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 10:49 PM
3

It's a long journey, but who wants to live in ignorance?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:16 PM
5

Pretty much the theory of TRP. That women are naturally attracted to alpha males and they are not to be trusted. My dad was a typical beta and my mom walked all over him and cheated on him numerous times until she finally left him. He died young (54) and she harbors a lot of guilt about it. I think the conversations I've had with my mother about the reality of human nature has helped her forgive herself for the way she acted in the past.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 08:15 PM
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I can empathize. When I first read The Game in 2010 I was both excited and disheartened. Learning that the PUA 'tricks' actually worked made me realize that women have very little control over themselves. I mean honestly, you can't fault them for it. It's not like it's a sub-group of women who are like this, it's all of them. My mother and I have a very good, open, honest relationship. We both have a similar sense of humor and a pragmatic outlook on things. She actually agrees with me fully when…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 05:11 PM
12

emotional is better than horny. Yup. I frequently pose this question to younger gentleman: "Would you rather a woman be jealous or horny?" They always get it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 04:58 PM
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I read The Game in 2010, followed a lot of advice and came to a similar realization. Once you leave the cave you can never go back. Reading this made me feel enormously sad and alone. The worst part was the married women thing. Truth hurts man. Truth hurts.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 04:56 PM
17

"Speak Slowly" ...damnit.
/r/seduction06/11/13 02:14 AM
4

"you can't logic a woman." quote of the year
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 07:54 AM
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Agree with the sentiment, but let's be honest... bodybuilding is narcissistic masturbation. This is coming from a former Personal Trainer of 7 years with a B.S. in Kinesiology.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 05:58 AM
3

I was with you until you gave the ":-P" For god's sake, never use the ":-P" it's for girls
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 08:58 PM
9

Women are attracted to men who are self-assured. Money = ability to purchase women if necessary. Therefore, a man with money is not walking around looking thirsty all the time.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 06:54 PM
1

This is almost true.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 11:45 PM
3

Good points and I think you're right on with your conclusion (to be honest, I completely forgot it ended like that). I think I was too excited that the tools presented in middle chunk of the book (Body Language stuff, the Cube, Kiss Close) and getting out of my post-breakup funk that I was in. I think the only dissagreement we would have is whether or not we would recommend the book to a young man just to get out there in the bar scene. EDIT: man, this conversation is bringing me back. All the l…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 06:43 PM
7

Yeah, I checked it out. Lisa Leveridge, the guitarist from Courtney Love's band. It looks like the whole relationship was a scam to wrap up the book with a nice happy ending in order to not make himself look like a complete creeper. But I mean while, I was reading the book I knew it was semi-fiction. But again, the realization that the stuff he learned from the PUA dudes actually worked, was a huge pivot in my mental state. I believe the term is "pedestaling?" If you have that problem, reading T…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 06:25 PM
2

If that's the case, I agree. I'm not deifying Neil Strauss in any way, every man can have his hiccups, but the lessons learned from within those pages are golden for any man just getting started with the RedPill mentallity. Source for the breakup?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 06:07 PM
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I don't completely disagree. But remember in the end Neil comes to the conclusion that Sarging is for losers and the real lesson learned is how to actually create, not just demonstrate a high value. Looking back on it, I think every young man should learn the psychology behind the PUA stuff. In my experience nothing has more released me from the Disney Princess mental trap than going out and using stuff I learned from that book and realizing it works.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 05:41 PM
1

That's a good point actually. Saying "calm down" is taking the bait. Better to just put a neutral expression on your face and give the "I'll wait until you're done" face. EDIT: something like this: http://tinyurl.com/n2ygmwg
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 04:53 PM
0

Is that the default outcome in custody battles? If that's the case, that blows.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 04:39 PM
1

Ahh ok. I was referring to the chick in the buzzfeed article saying "Guys tell you "you're crazy" to make you crazy to validate them telling you "you're crazy."
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 04:36 PM
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I read The Game in 2010 and didn't like what I was doing at first either. It takes a while but really it's just breaking from prior conditioning. Keep moving forward and eventually you come to grips that it's the way of the world.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 04:34 PM
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"I'll be a kick ass dad regardless." = winning attitude for you and your kid
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 04:24 PM
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