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To be frank, especially if it's only happening to you, it sounds like you're being bullied
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 04:03 PM
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only retards don't see that it comes off as butthurt.. lmao
/r/askTRP14/12/18 12:22 AM
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she's 5'9
/r/askTRP14/12/18 12:22 AM
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You know it comes off as butt hurt, it's what someone would say if it got to them.. Affirm and amplify is better here
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:31 AM
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It comes off as butt hurt lmao
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:28 AM
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I said I'm almost 4 ft
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:10 AM
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A target uni? i am actually
/r/askTRP18/09/18 12:36 AM
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Actually i'd be interested in talking to you more, but I have my interview in an hour. Can I pm you to do a voice call? This is the first time someone has really admitted the nitty gritty without just brushing it off
/r/askTRP17/09/18 08:24 PM
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Management consulting; Monitor branch.. Just how to do the behavioural and things
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:47 PM
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I'm planning on staying a few years
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:47 PM
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Coming out of undergrad
/r/askTRP17/09/18 07:47 PM
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I'm not sure why they thought they could get away with it/that we'd take it sitting down! Especially as the girl who invited me has been a friend for a decent amount of time and I've known her for years. It's shocking ; it's as if they don't think they need anything wrong
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:24 PM
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They did actually threaten that! And by the time we got out of the car they were telling us how rude we were and we had called them out for being ass holes! Don't think we were complicit.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:03 PM
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What do you suggest exactly
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:01 PM
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We were at a stalemate for maybe 20 min where they wouldn't give us the keys so we could at least do our own thing or let us go to the spa either.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:01 PM
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No we did push to go to the spa and do our own thing to such they said girls night
/r/askTRP22/01/18 09:11 AM
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None of the ltrs I've had had stank..
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:39 PM
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Haha of course! Why ask for advice if I'm not going to use it?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 01:44 PM
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Nothing of the sort, it's just finals season. And I trust my best friends not to partake in anything of the sort. They are loyal to a fault.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:32 PM
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Indeed, I had enough ingrained RP knowledge to know not to apologize, especially as I'd done nothing wrong. But thanks for the reminder.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:32 PM
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On it!
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:36 PM
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Solid advice. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:36 PM
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Will do.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:36 PM
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Thanks. Will follow this to the letter.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 09:35 PM
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I know I messed up, which is why I came here. Why even bother posting if you are just going to attack my character?
/r/askTRP11/12/17 08:46 PM
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Okay so i'll just wait for her to respond. Her response was definitely unwarranted.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 08:16 PM
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Do I just give up or what should be my course of action now?
/r/askTRP11/12/17 08:16 PM
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How do I make her see that?
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:51 PM
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Because I did say I wanted to end up with a virgin for marriage if I do get married
/r/askTRP04/12/17 03:28 AM
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Wouldn't doing so just be entering her frame?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 11:37 PM
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I don't get what you mean, so she's not actually outraged? How do I respond when she gets upset that I tried to bed her from the first date?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 10:54 PM
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She only does it in front of me. I guess she is a very sweet and cute girl so it's probably affectionate. Why is your name kitten? hahaha
/r/askTRP26/11/17 07:35 AM
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I'd actually suggest to go skydiving; perfect high exhilaration/adrenaline activity, great way to meet cool guys, and makes for great stories as well. I'd then branch out to learning to pilot once you get your skydiving license.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 03:50 PM
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How do I determine if it's endearing or a loss of respect?
/r/askTRP23/11/17 03:31 PM
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Break up immediately. I would not trust her further than I could throw her. Ghost her, go MIA
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:49 PM
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This is solid advice. Thank you. I would actually like to be with her; she's great and has done nothing badly and is very considerate and would be a great mother, I just want to be older to be engaged. I think I will be unapologetic.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:28 PM
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She wants to get engaged right after university actually!
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:27 PM
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She doesn't have any, still lives with her parents, wants to go to med school. No, they aren't cutting her off. We are in early uni and she lives with her parents so I severely doubt she would have had the opportunity, plus knowing her friends its extremely unlikely.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:27 AM
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Whats the ABCs of life? And she wants an extended engagement rather than just stay bf/gf else her rep will suffer
/r/askTRP03/04/17 12:30 AM
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Is it a good idea to do this if i want to end up with this girl?
/r/askTRP02/04/17 10:38 PM
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She is essentially asking to have a lengthy engagement rather than just get married right away or be gf/bf for longer.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 10:35 PM
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I'm serious about her though, what do you suggest then?
/r/askTRP02/04/17 10:33 PM
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couldn't find it despite searching!
/r/askTRP02/04/17 08:59 PM
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She has already said she doesn't want to do it with other men and seemed relieved when I said I didn't want to do a MMF no matter what.
/r/askTRP02/04/17 08:10 PM
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Any advice on how to set yourself up for a freshman?
/r/askTRP02/09/15 05:40 AM
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Girls in hijab are never worth it. Stay àway unless you're planning to convert to Islam or be beheaded
/r/askTRP05/05/15 02:30 AM
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Merci pour ton conseil. Il est bien apprécié ! Je parle en français aussi donc n'hésitez pas de m'adresser en cette langue. Je suis un peu curieux: il me semble que dire à une fille de mon âge que j'aimerais la baiser ne serais pas la meilleure des idées. Pourquoi cela marche-t-il?
/r/askTRP24/03/15 02:51 PM
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I always move around after the initial meet-up bit the moment never seems quite right.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 06:32 AM
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Note that I'm still in high school though I have a car. I'll keep this in mind for university though.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 06:31 AM
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Could you give an example to try out?
/r/askTRP22/03/15 06:31 AM
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That makes a scary amount of sense. So many wasted dates holy shit. Thank you for your feedback!
/r/askTRP21/03/15 08:38 PM
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Yeah that makes perfect sense. I thought because my cocky teasing routine was going well and I got lots of laughs and IOIs that the date itself was going well.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 08:29 PM
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So even if everything else goes well, no escalation means that the date will go nowhere and would have been a waste of time? I'm just confused, I thought I'd be Friend zoned or something if they had fun but that's clearly not happening because I'm being turned down as a suitor so what are they seeing me as?
/r/askTRP21/03/15 08:20 PM
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Any reason for this? It seems counter-intuitive
/r/askTRP21/03/15 08:04 PM
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So I have to bring them over to my place to watch a movie
/r/askTRP21/03/15 07:55 PM
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And do what at hang outs?
/r/askTRP21/03/15 07:21 PM
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In the sense that I find it curious that just like that the dating is over. I must have done something wrong on the first date. Is it better to make a move and be rejected then not to make one?
/r/askTRP21/03/15 07:19 PM
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Are kisses so important as to override everything else? These dates are fun and I'm a fun guy, so you'd think at the very least they'd be interested in more. It just seems arrange they wouldn't be interested after a first date without any, discernable at least, fuckups on my part
/r/askTRP21/03/15 06:59 PM
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How should I go about doing so? I am described by girls as charming and confident but unless it's at a dance or a party I have literally no idea how to escalate that much without it being awkward.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 06:57 PM
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Literally that. Get a coffee or a bite to eat for lunch and the vibe seems always good. I keep them laughing and the IOIs are definitely there (unless I've become retarded with girls recently). I'm too busy for anything more than 2 hours anyways so it's it's own filter. It seems to go well and they verbally say they want to see me again and then it's radio silence or nah not interested
/r/askTRP21/03/15 04:42 PM
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So you're saying to avoid uvic
/r/askTRP03/03/15 10:20 AM
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But then aren't I being too easy?
/r/askTRP12/11/14 12:37 AM
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What do I say exactly?
/r/askTRP11/11/14 11:49 PM
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So what would you recommend in this field? Just "put myself out there" or is student council enough to kill me by association?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 10:49 PM
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And yet as soon as we graduate all this soft power you speak of will be rendered mostly useless, will it not? I'm fine social skills wise so I understand what you are saying, and it is somewhat true I don't have as much hard power as id want but you did really hammer away that point. Thank you
/r/askTRP01/11/14 09:48 PM
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There certainly is.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 08:39 PM
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So power is not appealing?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 08:38 PM
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Well I got elected so I know how to do this already, it's got me nowhere.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 07:22 PM
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Ahh how do I do this?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:48 PM
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These trips are rather rare though; I was just pointing out that I had much more success with girls there. Trp works wonderfully
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:47 PM
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And I'll take you up on ithat thank you!
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:46 PM
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Oh yes there definetly is an undercurrent of some that are doing this. I have a few people who hate me; comes with getting into power of course. But I didn't think that they would matter to this extent.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:45 PM
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Not too practical on high school. Doubt I'm good looking enough to pull it off.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 07:21 AM
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Perhaps people are jealous of me, though I doubt it and it seems a cop out. Though many say I'm on the path to success, I feel it's not an excuse and is just the special snowflake bullshit. By the way thank you so much for helping me man.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 06:29 AM
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My school never has fights; might be out of place
/r/askTRP01/11/14 06:28 AM
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You have no idea how hard PC is nowadays. I do that and get expelled. Someone lost their scholarships (all school ones) because they complimented(!!) a girls ass over social media.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 06:28 AM
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And I've started dressing well ( I have had compliments from a few (hot) girls for my fashion so I must be somewhat cool. I have much more success socially when I'm with people from outside the class. Like much more success with girls at national events but that might just be the trip factor
/r/askTRP01/11/14 06:27 AM
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As class president I do the leadership stuff like host events like dances and create projects for the school. I have business relationships with people that have skills; scratch my back and ill scratch yours type of thing but nothing conducive to partying.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 06:26 AM
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Nope, and they always bring me when On vacation. They're strict about me being past 10 too.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 06:24 AM
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Could you give examples?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 05:49 AM
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The other big thing is super strict parents
/r/askTRP01/11/14 05:19 AM
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Ah I wish. I've spent too much time on my academics, extracurriculars and sports and have really let my social life go. I just want a fun senior year, I did not think this would take much work.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 05:19 AM
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How do I obtain such reliably lol. I'm fine with paying because I have a job
/r/askTRP01/11/14 04:50 AM
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It is a smallish party
/r/askTRP01/11/14 04:49 AM
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Don't even know how, plus parents super strict
/r/askTRP01/11/14 04:49 AM
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I'd like to say no but can't rule out t he possibility. I used to be a pain in grades 9 and lower but mellowed out. Elections are basically a popularity contest to some extent so idk. I'm not religious or a snitch.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 04:48 AM
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I did. Generic bullshit of being third party invited (invites of invitees) so it wouldn't look good and to ask the host myself
/r/askTRP01/11/14 04:37 AM
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Sounds like college is awesome. Went to one of the young adult parties. It was hella swank but only a few people
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:58 AM
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I have my own car ish. And I see, I'm SOL then. So no chance for winter formal either and I should just resign myself to university?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:58 AM
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How do I do this? I was elected and am quite known but apparently this is false. What is social leveraging in this context?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 02:19 AM
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Heh. I'm sure I'll be forgotten or it'll be more awkward than anything but I'll give it a shot thanks.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 01:19 AM
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Ok, I will keep that in mind for the future if a guy hosts. What if it's a girl host?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 01:17 AM
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They all know me but the ones I asked used a bullshit answer. I didn't ask the host even though we used to hang out some years back. Perhaps I simply lacked the balls because I hate to be a subservient position where I ask to be invited. I have already done so and it is not a good place to be in.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 01:16 AM
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I see. I have never been to a high school party but I have been to a young adult party and I was extremely well liked there. It looks like I'm on track to never being able to go to one. Any way to make this possibility change?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 01:14 AM
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Yes someone I know is hosting it. I was not invited explicitly and didn't ask. Friends told me they were going but when pressed said they were asked by a third party and if they invited me it would look bad (basic bs)
/r/askTRP01/11/14 01:11 AM
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Are high school parties worse than college ones? How are college ones?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 12:55 AM
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Also I don't really know how to act at parties
/r/askTRP01/11/14 12:47 AM
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What if it's a girls party?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 12:44 AM
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How? Can't even bring girls if you aren't invited
/r/askTRP01/11/14 12:40 AM
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What's it supposed to do?
/r/askTRP01/11/14 12:33 AM
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It depends on your personality and how you present yourself. And yes, if you had 100 plates you would be annoyed by one taking up your time even after you've been subtly clear that you don't want none
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:41 PM
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Biggest mistake was leaving with her instead of staying with the girl you were hitting her up. You failed that test hard. You dropped everything to be with her. Major dread game must happen now. Ignore her in text and just be polite in person and almost seem semi annoyed.
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:16 PM
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Don't respond or say "stuff."
/r/trpGAME21/09/14 01:41 AM
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Obvious shit test. Shut it down or perish! Call a friend or plate (preferably a girl) and make plans then tell her "Anne called, made plans, don't come."
/r/askTRP18/09/14 11:44 PM
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Exactly this. In fact it was on the second date that this came out.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 10:05 PM
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How should I have handled it?
/r/askTRP16/08/14 01:51 PM
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I Met her a few weeks ago at a party and only recently started hanging out. This is new actually.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 01:49 PM
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Shit hadn't thought about it like that. Thank you. I'll pull a move next time we hang out and I'm fine not being friends because I have plenty
/r/askTRP16/08/14 03:22 AM
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I have not validated her once. I always tease her and have not complimented her once. We did not talk about her prior relationships and it was out of the blue. The rest of high school is handled, I'm doing well academically and athletically, if either was lagging I would not even think about my balls.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 03:11 AM
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It's absolutely disgusting and apparently this woman has a phd as well
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:59 PM
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C'est de la merde, je suis d'accord. Cela a été partagé sur mon Facebook par une fille qui est devenu folle
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:58 PM
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Walk the walk about income inequality. Women still earn about 77% as much as men. If you are in a position where you are financially able to do so, consider donating a symbolic 23% of your income to social justice-oriented causes. If 23% sounds like a lot to you, that’s because it is a lot and it’s also a lot for women who don’t have a choice whether to forfeit this amount or not. Speaks for itself.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:52 PM
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Find female mentors/leaders. (i.e. Be subordinate to females.) If you are seeking a mentor, or want to volunteer with an organization, go with a female, or female-led organization. Know that there’s a lot you can learn from females in positions of authority. This is the best one by far because its so direct. Be subordinate to us, you pesky male.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:51 PM
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Pay attention to the gender of experts and key figures presenting information to you in the media. When you are watching an expert on TV, reading articles, etc., notice how often this information will come from men and, at the very least, wonder how a female perspective might be different. Sexism is bad! But only if its against a woman.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:48 PM
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Have progressive name politics. If you and your female partner decide that the institution of marriage is something you want to be involved with, be willing to both keep your existing surnames. If having a common surname with your spouse is important to you, be willing to change your surname and treat this as a preferable option to your spouse changing hers. This is such blatant emasculation.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:46 PM
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