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Paul Janka's Attraction Formula was the best to me. He has the ultimate player mindset and corrects a lot of mistakes that new guys do.
/r/seduction14/06/18 06:10 AM
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How far into your studies are you? "I'm actually completing my degree in (insert study). I was just working before and decided to go for something higher and become a (insert occupation)."
/r/seduction07/04/18 06:58 PM
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For sure that counts! Yeah, make that list. You'll see you have more value then you've been giving yourself credit for.
/r/seduction08/06/17 12:14 AM
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My friend; you don't have a girl problem you have a self-esteem/confidence problem. Do you realize I'm arguing on your behalf to get you laid and you're arguing against me? With that said, you might be just what a woman's looking for if you gave yourself a chance. I want you to write down ten accomplishments you've had in your life big or small and then write me back. It's time you start noticing your success and value.
/r/seduction06/06/17 04:39 AM
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It can't work for you because you won't let it work. You're fixed on your position and aren't willing to try something to the contrary. Have you read The Game? Have you seen how Strauss transformed himself. Who's to say you can't too? Also, you have certain things a woman wants. For starters you have a penis. Second you're a man. Third you can talk to and engage with a woman. Those are all things that a woman who's single might want. Try both approaches and see what works best for you.
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:27 AM
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Jump around before meeting her. You'll be in a more excited state.
/r/seduction02/06/17 09:48 PM
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Why do you have to get over it? Can you get together with her?
/r/seduction02/06/17 09:47 PM
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For dating, talk to women you're REALLY interested in, ones you're so attracted to that you have to talk to them when you see them. Also, what do you talk to your family and close friends with? Use those same topics and approach when talking to women. Assume they're close friends you're reconnecting with.
/r/seduction02/06/17 09:46 PM
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If she is short answered and never asks questions back or takes an interest in you, she's probably not interested.
/r/seduction02/06/17 09:44 PM
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This is BS. You can use text to build attraction and cut right to the chase at times.
/r/seduction02/06/17 09:42 PM
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You can have plenty to be proud of irrespective of your social skills. And you're also assuming a woman is going to be looking for all of the factors that you deem important. I've been with PLENTY of women who don't care about all that as they see value in being with me as a person. How do you know improvement doesn't work for guys like you? Go take a comedy class, some speech classes, improve your fashion, body, and mind and then check back with me in 3 months. You could completely change your …
/r/seduction02/06/17 09:41 PM
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First, you shouldn't spend any time putting yourself down as that's wasted energy. And you should't spend your remaining time putting on an act to impress people. Social skills are just that, they're SKILLS you can develop with practice. Use your time to build your skills. Practice improv, comedy, approaching, and studying who's good while also improving your hygiene, build, looks, and you'll get as many women as you want.
/r/seduction01/06/17 06:25 PM
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Talk about what interests you with ENTHUSIASM. That's what interesting people do.
/r/seduction01/06/17 06:20 PM
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You're not doing anything immoral or illegal. What's the issue?
/r/seduction18/04/17 05:36 PM
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What's the issue? I brought hundreds of women back to my studio apartment. Some of these women were really successful models and businesswomen. If it's not a big deal for you, it won't be for them. And use it to your advantage. Joke around about it or use it as a way to escalate a sexual situation when it's time to do so. Be proud and happy you have a place to bring women back to. And if a woman likes you, she's not going to care about the size of your apartment.
/r/seduction13/04/17 07:04 PM
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"I'm not reall a big drinker. Would you want to go to (insert place)?" And go to a cool coffee or tea shop. Don't get plastered either way.
/r/seduction22/06/16 12:53 AM
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Who you are is a being who requires growth. Just about everything in the universe that is alive grows and expands. To do otherwise would mean you're not accepting who you are intrinsically. And who says you're not the best looking guy in the world? Tell yourself you are and see how much your perception of yourself changes.
/r/seduction18/06/16 06:57 AM
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Realize that people are people and are doing their best. You can be assertive without being authoritative.
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:06 PM
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You have been upvoted. I have seen guys get upset and start to hate women and this messes them up for when they meet a good one.
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:20 AM
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Just go out and grab a drink with her. After a drink or two it'll all "flow" naturally.
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:20 AM
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I am cracking up at your comment. Thank you.
/r/seduction30/10/15 02:20 AM
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You have to find the reason you want to improve yourself. Improving yourself for women is not the right motivation so what would it take to motivate you? Better health? A healthier more peaceful mind? More financial success?
/r/seduction31/07/14 05:23 AM
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Dancing to escalating kissing is some of the easiest stuff when you get use to it. You dance, you get closer, she gets closer, your faces get closer, you kiss. You just have to get use to doing it. If you want talking involved, dance, get closer, if she starts talking, "Let's go somewhere we can talk." Take her by the hand to that place, sit her down. Talk, you lean closer, she leans closer, kiss. Also, as you're going in when dancing, she'll put her arms around your head. If she does, you're mo…
/r/seduction25/07/14 10:29 PM
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Go to UCLA for daygame, or the Grove, or 3rd Street Promenade. At night, Hollywood is king. There is the Sunset strip and lots of great clubs and bars.
/r/seduction25/07/14 10:25 PM
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In reality there is no pressure. There is only the pressure you've created for yourself. Smile, she smiles back. "I'm addicted to GOT. You ever watch it?" Or, what is something you could have noticed about her? Does she have tats? Something you could comment on?
/r/seduction25/07/14 10:22 PM
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There's three parts of a conversation; opening, middle, and closing. Some people are good at opening, some are good at middle, others are good at closing (that's why companies have "closers" on staff to close big deals). You seem to have part 1 down and are getting into part two. Make a conscious note now to work on part 3; "You seem cool. We should grab a bite to eat sometime." "You seem cool. We should grab a drink sometime." "You seem cool, we should get together at my place and fuck sometime…
/r/seduction25/07/14 10:20 PM
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As a man she wants you to take charge at the moment of the walk-off and instead of doing that, you're showing your own insecurities and lowering your value in front of her. Also, you initiated what led up to the walk off. Why would you be upset when it actually happens? You're teasing her, she's teasing you back, you're supposed to keep it going so it gets sexual at this point.
/r/seduction25/07/14 10:15 PM
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Grab a pen and paper and write out all that you don't want. Whatever the opposite of that is is what you do want.
/r/seduction25/07/14 10:13 PM
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How long do you talk to the women for before getting their number? Either increase this if you're doing it for a short time or decrease this if you're doing it for a long time. How do you number close? Some guys do it awkwardly, some do it fine. I'll give you an example. I knew a guy who told me he was great at getting numbers but they would never lead anywhere. I open a two set walking by and he and one of the women start talking and he asks for her number. He then proceeds to fill in ALL of th…
/r/seduction25/07/14 10:12 PM
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My thoughts are go for whoever you want whenever you want! It doesn't matter if it's been a year, a week, a month, ten years, if you're interested and they're on your mind, hit them up! The worst D will say is "Sorry I can't, I have a bf now." Aside from the time spent texting her, you really didn't lose anything as you didn't have D to begin with and you'll feel better about yourself for having gone for who you want.
/r/seduction24/07/14 06:55 PM
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If you can record yourself, that would be ideal (both with video and audio). If not, be aware of your posture (how close you stand to them, how relaxed or tense you are), topics you discuss, how much shit you give women you don't like versus women you do, the speed you talk, and the tonality of your voice. It sounds like I'm listing a lot but you'll be able to recognize the difference in the interactions after a few interactions.
/r/seduction24/07/14 06:44 PM
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Let me ask you this. What are you doing with the women lower on your scale that you are not doing with the women higher on the scale? If you can answer this, you might enter a new level of dating success. And yes, you pretty much answered your question. Also, if they're still giving you IOIs (indicators of interest), then continue gaming them. They sound like they're warm to you, and just need a little bit more heat put on them to get really into you.
/r/seduction24/07/14 04:49 AM
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Slow down how fast you talk. Avoid uptalk (valley-girl talk). Don't agree with everything she says. Be more sexual. As you do more sets and have more success, this tends to die out naturally. And there's nothing wrong with being excited or energetic. This can be used to convince a woman or women that you just met that you're fun and they'll have a good time with you.
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:37 AM
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First it starts with you. Take the lead. Assume you can kiss close upon meeting or f-close her that day or night. This will convey more sexual body language and build sexual chemistry. Those who are interested will respond to it. How to know if she's interested? Her body language will convey this. If you lean forward, does she lean forward too? Does she touch you when she laughs? Does she look at your lips a lot? Does she keep fixing her hair? How close does she let you talk to her? If you take …
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:27 AM
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