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So you passed her shit tests like a pro, she stopped her bitchy tone and addressed her problems to you politely and respectfully. Was she still even testing you at this point?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/15 08:50 AM
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Key for me here is that your monster slow motion machine gun fart put her in her place. I should work on mine. You should teach your kids how too so then next time you tell them to stop squirming they will rip one at you and you can all bust out laughing. I would have gone for sex, but she had to work early. I bet she wanted it anyway. Hard and gassy.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 08:23 AM
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So in an appropriate tone, something as ridiculous as "You don't show me that you love me" can qualify as a comfort test? What I'm trying to get at is, if you establish a boundary where you don't respond to a bad tone, why don't you establish a boundary where you don't engage in discussion about her ridiculous unfounded allegations?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 08:53 PM
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OK so you've treated that like a Shit Test. In what tone or context should the same statement be treated as a Comfort Test?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 08:24 PM
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Thanks for the CH link. That article has some good explanations. I particularly like this one: "The best Comfort ... Test response alleviates a girl’s insecurity while strengthening emotional closeness." Now tell me this: Say you come home and your wife is pissed and before you can say anything she yells "You never do anything to show me that you love me!!!". What kind of test do you treat it as and how do you respond? My problem is, I'd have a really hard time treating that as a comfort test. A…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 07:24 PM
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Sorry to mention it, but isn't it what you did in the OP situation? You responded to her claim “Well, you don’t show me your love!” by justifying yourself with explanations of reality. You engaged her shitty "why don't you love me?" question with a serious discussion and she laid off. She knows you take good care of her. If she knows that , then is this even a comfort test? And then what about the fact that: Everything men do for women is pretty much invisible to them, because it’s not something…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 07:22 PM
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If teasing her increases her desire then this has got to be a shit test. In a comfort test you're not trying to escalate flirty tension; you want to release the tension. Reference to: /u/RBuddDwyer 's CH article link posted below. OP even admitted that when he used to address her insecurities she pulled him into her frame and went nuts on him - symptoms of a failed shit test. In the new situation, OP pulls his wife into his frame and talks to her on his own terms (not because he has to), and tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 06:58 PM
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“Why don’t you love me any more?” is a comfort test; He engages it with logic and reason then BAM. I don't understand how its a comfort test, and in the end, the OP even treats it like a shit test with his witty last words. I think if she's seriously gonna ask that question, then any explanation you try to give will go straight over her head. RP taught me that women are emotionally driven. If she is really comfort testing with this then she just wants to FEEL loved, not understand the complex lo…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 02:47 PM
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I have never seen such a collection of tough, strong, smart, confident, examples of ideal manhood, paired with such a collection of worthless, stupid, crazy, cheating, fat and not-hot-enough, "women" in any other context. I agree, but I figure it goes like this: Billy Bob from Indiana never got any attention from girls. He joins the military and they teach him to be confident and whip him into shape. Girls suddenly start to notice him, and he falls for the first girl who flirts with him.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 07:59 PM
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Norway For men the solution is to go south In otherwords, everything south of Norway should be a good place to find a mate :D
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 12:09 PM
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I know your feels, argibernd t. guy who saw the thread on /int/ :D
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 12:01 PM
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OP has a kid. For the first 18 months, kids will piss off the mothers so much that nothing can bring out the 'gina tingles.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:55 PM
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Just adding another perspective here, not necessarily RedPill advice but having a young kid is a lot of stress, especially if the mother gets left alone with it all day. They say they want kids, "I love kids" and all that shit but when the kid pisses them off, which it will, they tend to lose it, especially if they are stuck with the kid 24/7. Seeing as your kid is 18 months, and your wife has been pissy for over a year, this is most likely the cause. When my son was little, I was busy at work t…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:41 PM
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A different perspective would be that OP can feel himself more Alpha if he focusses on increasing his own income (for HIMSELF) and then limitting his financial contributions to his wife. I think he will have a much easier time restricting her spending than trying to convince her to get off her ass and work, which will only make her feel even more entitled. And if he spends his efforts trying to increase his own income, he will gain more confidence and indirectly become more attractive for his wi…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 09:15 AM
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Great observations. The first 2 points have helped me the most, but I had to be forced into these situations. Frequent and continuous exposure Example: I was crammed into a dorm room with 3 other guys for my first year of university. Social anxiety decreased significantly. Working in a social environment Example: My boss gave my cell number to all sorts of people who wanted all sorts of different shit done, most of which I had no idea about how to do at first, but had to figure it out and work t…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 12:40 PM
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What makes you think other chicks are any less hyperamous? Unless you mean, the world is wide open for non-US women to snag you as a provider.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 07:53 AM
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You now realize that they are not in any way "lusting" after Western men, but are desperate due to the lack of Beta Bucks in Ukraine. Just look at the ages on those women (27 is the youngest I seen). These poor American / Brit guys are in for a expensive relationship full of deception. She'll probably tell them stuff like she's still a virgin, lol.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 07:51 AM
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In Germany, most people under the age 30 seem to be pretty clueless regarding interactions. I'd say sadly that its mostly the guys who have no idea, and always complain "Why are these girls ignoring me while I'm worshipping them?" "Why would they rather date Jamal who treats them like crap?" etc. Older generations are more down-to-earth. The best is my grandma who told me : "If you want a GF, don't do your hair like that you look like a sissy boy!" and other bums of manly advice.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:30 AM
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I'll try to give you quick answers TheRedPill doesn't suggest anything about avoiding females as friends. It doesn't intend to objectify women either; I think you may still be stuck in /r/seduction. Just skim through the "Introduction" post in the side bar to see what TheRedPill is really about. After the intro, skim through some of the Theory Reading and you will see that none of those Double Standards from the Chart have anything to do with TheRedPill. A TLDR for you; most of them focus on bio…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:40 PM
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Not saying that you shouldn't tell but, here is story of a kid (17m) who got mixed up in some engaged couple's affair and the consequences included: losing his gf, threats from the slut's father / friends, and eventually police involvement. The Fiance GTFO just in time though thanks to the kid. Just be prepared for drama. http://redditlog.com/snapshots/621637
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:31 PM
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