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"Borrowing an item and not returning it on the agreed time"
/r/MensRights27/07/26 09:16 AM
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Cool, now do theft.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 11:20 AM
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Other than the usual suspects. I dont think I've ever seen a post that united in opposition, all genders and pills so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:47 PM
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To the one who works, he claims his wage. To the one who receives a free gift, he cherishes it. A wage is expected because it is earned, a gift is treasured because it is freely given.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:18 AM
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Thanks, never heard of bambi before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:12 AM
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Ok, same question but for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 12:30 AM
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TIL not being attractive enough for a western white woman, means you're a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:28 PM
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TIL not being attractive enough for a western white woman, means you're a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:53 PM
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Well these responses were as depressing as first anticipated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:45 PM
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You must pay for everything, then send home even more money to support her extended family. You are expected to never cry, never show weakness, never fail to provide the things she wants, and never ask for help. She will be a sweet caring wife as long as you are providing to her standard. If you fail to provide she will turn cold. So other than height and physical attractive requirements, no different than the west. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:32 AM
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There's never been a con artist who didn't accuse his victims of being naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:55 PM
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The decieved victim does the community service?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 10:55 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:59 AM
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I suppose its child abuse in a way too. Should a mother who abused her child have custody? What do i know, im not a regular redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:58 AM
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Perhaps because it's not just financial fraud. It's fraud involving time, life, identity, and emotions affecting at least two people. A fraud of the heart. So i can understand OP, in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:07 AM
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That can't be the case, because as we know hypergamy is some made up woo woo juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:39 PM
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Nonsense, plenty of men without a backbone get dates and relationships, you need to go touch Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:57 PM
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The dictionary definition of "disadvantage" is an unfavourable condition or circumstance that reduces your chances of success or leaves you in a less favourable position. Having access to fewer scholarships than another group fits that definition. It doesn't require anyone to have taken something away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:21 PM
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You're arguing against a claim I didn't make. I didn't say women receiving scholarships harmed me or that they shouldn't receive them. I said I was disadvantaged by not being eligible for scholarships that were restricted to women. A disadvantage doesn't require someone else to have wronged you. If 2 equally qualified students apply, and 1 has access to funding opportunities the other is categorically excluded from because of sex, then the excluded student has fewer opportunities. that's simply …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:06 AM
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I was asked, what disadvantages i have received, even OP put going to college in her post as an advantage. Pointing out a disadvantage is not pitiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:37 PM
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I was refused a scholarship, women only. There were no men only scholarships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 10:54 AM
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6ft+?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:48 AM
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Well researched and defended.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:43 PM
3

I personally know someone well-intentioned who is in his late 30s trying to socialize and be included in already formed social circles, and people are very reluctant to include him. He is not really a bad person, maybe slightly neurodivergent but I can see how people talk about him when he is not around and it doesn't look good. No gotcha or argument, can you tell us more?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:29 PM
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You just hate feminists and demonise them so of course you aren't engaging in good faith. I want no part in this debate. But I'd like to point out, the absurdity of launching an ad hom attack, and then doubling down with an accusation of engaging in bad faith. Truly amazing. Bravo keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:32 AM
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But if you tell them the truth, they might be able to do something about it, or understand their issue a bit better. All your doing is making yourself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:54 AM
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Yeah, exactly. I can only drink sheeps milk occasionally. Seeing as we're doing random non-sequitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:38 AM
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The w is going on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:57 AM
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If you've never been on a date, It would be seen a w.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:56 AM
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Someone asking you out on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:52 AM
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I just see having a date as a win. Albeit, a small win from your description.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:57 AM
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Wait, your unattractive and ignored but you managed to go on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:43 PM
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Yeah, like instead of short, we can say unconventionally tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:19 AM
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Yeah me neither. Sure some people may think that, (further down the comments there's someone sneering at the guys for being ratcheted) . But so what, if the truth is that their not tall enough or handsome enough to attract a woman in the west, then its quite pragmatic to move cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:23 PM
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Would you allow your boyfriend to take up the father mantle fully. And like, if there is a break up a few years down the line, does he get custody or visitation rights, or, if your not feeling like letting him see the child he helped raise, that would be a "nah"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:56 PM
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I agree with you. But I don't get why: he couldn’t attract women where he originally came from. Is something to sneer at, we can't all be tall, wealthy and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:43 PM
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What are you talking about? , plenty of women are attracted to the type of men you listed. They're not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:36 PM
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Maybe they're not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:43 PM
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Yes, i see it having a snowball effect, except instead of snow its shit. Then when the kids see their fathers behavior, yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:54 PM
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In other words you're saying, it’s like entering a running race with a 20 yard head start and a motorcycle, while the whole stadium cheers you on and even some of the other competing runners, help clear the path for you. And you still finish joint last with the guy whose shoelaces were tied together and who got kicked in the shins every time he tried to run faster?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:20 PM
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Don't have a partner. But it would probably be forever before i met someone else, so I'd stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:47 PM
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The people in relationships with robots are people. Most definitely they're people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 04:07 PM
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Yeah, similar in the past if they were in a homosexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:56 PM
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One of the points of the meme is that companionship or sexual access will be available to all. I also don’t really see the “how would you introduce them socially?” argument as some impossible hurdle. If someone genuinely viewed an AI or robot partner as part of their life, why wouldn’t they introduce them to friends, co-workers, or bring them to social events? Sure, some close minded, ignorant people will have something negative to say, but they did that with homosexual relationships, and divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 10:28 AM
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So if a dude does stuff with another dude, and theyre both wearing condoms, and keeping their socks on, it isn't gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:21 AM
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Would you also consider withholding labor, like helping move heavy objects or whatnot?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 12:11 AM
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Created the system? It wasn't thought of and drawn up, or debated over a negotiating table. It was born of necessity, of pragmatism.
/r/MensRights01/05/26 11:50 PM
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What should women say? “Don’t know what to tell you broski, you’d have women lining out the door for you if you weren’t ugly as fuck 🤷🏼‍♀️” Yes, if it's honest, that's something he can either work on, or, depending on the severity, figure out where he stands in the great scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:38 PM
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I dont think the boys who didn't "get the message" are stupid or being dishonest. I think most people do notice it. The issue isn’t awareness, it’s more understandinn. Seeing that it matters isn’t the same as understanding how much it shapes outcomes. Which is kind of my point, if it’s already there, there’s even more reason to explain it properly rather than leave people to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:28 PM
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Selection, and the importance of physical attraction should probably taught in sex ed.,it would save a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:47 AM
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I don’t blame women. I only object to being assigned a ‘bad personality’ by strangers, it is such a convenient explanation for what they cannot be bothered to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:06 AM
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Maybe the women who do that should be put on some watchlist and monitored by law enforcement. Calling for collective punishment is a crine against humanity. 0.5/s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 09:29 AM
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That's exactly what a murderer would say
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 08:55 AM
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What is the purpose of this survey?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 09:28 AM
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All of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:22 AM
2

Quasi black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:22 AM
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Death by a 1000 questions, deliberately trying to bore you into abandoning your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:39 PM
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I've also seen some women freak out at being asked out by an untermensch, I'd take these answers with a pinch of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:12 AM
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Yes, a man should not meaningfully risk his life for a strange woman, or someone else's children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:52 AM
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Must be a bear market.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:07 AM
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... but there’s women who are just nasty.. Met a few, they seem to get great joy in it. But I do appreciate their honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 03:03 PM
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The irony of getting downvoted for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:58 PM
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Don't need to imagine, it's sitting right here. Just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:39 PM
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Maybe if the posts were written in an entertaining and engaging way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:47 PM
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Thanks I looked that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:58 AM
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Well yeah, less traffic in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:32 PM
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You mean, a lack of genetic diversity would mean 1 nasty virus would likely wipe out the whole lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:30 PM
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I don't think so. I can change it if you wish, I am open to suggestions. But I sort of like it's whimsy, and hopefully it gives others a chuckle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 05:02 PM
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They haven't wronged me, otherwise I wouldn't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:27 PM
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I don't know, I'm not trying to attract anyone, I've accepted these circumstances long ago. I don't see the point in making someone I like, feel awful. Male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:19 PM
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Thanks. I did use common sense, and came to an appropriate conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:12 PM
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I think so too, surely if you like someone you'd want them to feel positive and good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:37 PM
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Well I asked why, and got told. Are you saying they were lieing? And if you say they were lieing, how do I know you're not lieing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:28 PM
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Of all the comments to down vote lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 01:22 AM
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I've nothing against single mothers, but that's awful. Where you shocked to hear that confession?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:54 AM
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Do it, it hasn't stopped anybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:59 PM
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You don't need confidence, look at all the couples out there, you think all these men have confidence? Go touch Walmart bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:29 PM
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Plenty of pushover baby simps are in relationships, as well as uncharismatic people too. Just go to wall mart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:44 AM
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Outside of getting bullied at school. "you look like ET" girl I was making small talk with at a club. While waiting to use the photocopier, and I was waiting outside the toom"you really are creepy" girl in the upstairs office. Those the ones I remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:39 AM
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I can agree with that, top 60 - 40% upwards. Just from life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:05 AM
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What would all options being exhausted cover? Because regardless of what examples people provide, you can always add an additional criteria, rendering your claim unfalsifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:18 PM
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You know what, on second thoughts, you're right. I'm abandoning my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:00 PM
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I said “thrive” in the sense of women recorded in history as having agency, which your restrictions ruled out. Before Joan led an army, she was just a peasant, exactly the kind of person your original question asked for, I'd say leading an army is doing quite well compared to most people of the era. As for ordinary women who could earn a living, the evidence is right there in the language: the Anglo germanic -ster suffix shows recognised female trades, Brewster = woman who brews ale, Webster = w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:28 PM
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But that’s a big leap from “survive” to “doing well,” plus all the extra restrictions you’ve added to make the question harder to answer. Off the top of my head, Joan of Arc, a peasant woman who did well enough to lead an army. The old Ingrid Bergman movie is a decent starting point, and you can read around it from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:32 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:41 PM
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Insecurity is an internal anxiety, that can cause anxiety in others. So a bit like shitting your pants because the guy next to you has diarrhoea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:06 PM
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I'm not sure if this is entirely true, there have been numerous women throughout history who did not marry and they survived, and thrived. I am aware that many on this sub like to push the narrative that their grandparents were whores and whoremasters, but I don't think it's entirely accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:31 PM
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You could have chosen quite a few, but well done on the ones you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:46 AM
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Are you tell us, you've never demanded anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:57 PM
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So, they have pledged allegiance to an ideology that disregards any of their issues, in a relationship that is built on their subordination with, are surprised when they recieve asymmetric loyalty, like a medieval vassal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:59 AM
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The term "ran-though" needs to end. I've never heard "ran-though" in my life, "ran-through" on the other hand... A few times. Men who use this term are admitting that their own dicks ruin women. Not so sure, I dont hear husbands describing their wives as "ran through". Maybe it's the number of different penises. ...creating a great argument for why women should never sleep with them. All you seem to do is make arguments for that. ... women should stop sleeping with men--including YOU. How will I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:50 PM
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I may have not made myself clear, dancing monkey is one of the things that can lead to a bad date... Like uncontrollable flatulence. It's the cause, or part of the cause, whereas "bad date" is the conclusion. But yeah, if there is no feedback from the audience, even though the audience had "I've a good sense of humor" on their profile. It'll feel like a huge burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:47 PM
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Wasn't me. Yeah it does sound like that doesn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:11 PM
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I always thought the term "dancing monkey" referred to when one person carries the conversation, presents the best version themselves to an audience, who isn't impressed, gives one word answers, and hypocritically, couldn't tell a joke or amusing story to save their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:51 PM
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German saying: "There's nothing you can do about a bird flying over your head; but you can stop it from building a nest on it"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:29 PM
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Yep, I thought untermensch was relic from the 1940s, and orc, short king etc. It doesn’t particularly bother me, I suppose exposure eventually reduces sensitivity to a point. But yes, men can be remarkably callous too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:10 PM
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They speak of men in measured tones, Of strength, of silence, robust bones, Of shoulders built to bear the load, Of boots that heavily pound the road. . They draw the map, they set the rule, They say a man must play the fool Must never bend, must never break, Must bleed in private, smile for sake. . So let them talk, and let them say What men must be from day to day. But truth is not in words or plan Only a man knows what it is to be a man. The crappy circular ending, certainly needs mending.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:35 AM
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Youre not trying hard enough to find a paper on the existence of unicorns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:52 PM
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Would you suppose if prior to meeting your gf, she had her fun and you didn't, an act like this would balance things out?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 01:39 AM
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Atlas shrugged, and released his burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:01 AM
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Indirect taxes is a contribution, whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:53 PM
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The elderly, the disabled, the children... And of course elderly disabled children. NEETs pay indirect tax. That's a contribution, so do the 4 groups previously mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:50 PM
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NEETs contribute nothing, isn’t even true. Existing people consume, pay indirect taxes, and keep the economy circulating. The state literally treats population as value. Edit punctuation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:37 PM
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To clarify your position: Something is only worth the cheapest price it was ever sold for? I have no intention to dip into this argument, I just wanted clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:52 PM
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Was tempted. The loss of bone density, gonadal pain, and mood swings made me reconsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:45 PM
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They side effects can be unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:42 AM
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Men are not lied to when women speak the truth, yet they misunderstand; but to know of that misunderstanding and say nothing, that is the art of polite deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:40 AM
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Egalitarianism and pro equality for all, isn't standard feminist behavior, it's about equal rights for women, not for all. Those you refer to should refer to themselves as egalitarian, if they are being sincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:53 PM
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I'm MRA and I call out misogyny, even among the MRA. Your counterparts would need to be stretched on the rack before they would reciprocate by "calling out misandrist behavior" because deminstrating misogyny is demonizing us. You're laboring under the illusion that your counterparts would ever stop demonizing MRAs. Look at how they behave to each other, straying from orthodoxy results in denunciation. Same applies to oppression olympics, oppression pyramid is weaponized against men.. It just gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:46 PM
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It's really unbelievable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:24 AM
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When you are accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. Edit. I don't actually believe this modern sloppy slogan, it's logically incoherent. But seems apt right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:14 AM
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Your mixing up unrelated posters
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:11 AM
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Excellent post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:23 AM
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Yeah, and yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:42 AM
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Congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:24 AM
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There's a lot to be said, to be rejected straight off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:27 PM
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A wall of woes, each tale confessed, Men spill their nerves, their very best. The OP grins, and savors the sting, Their private failings, now a public thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:26 PM
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No not really. Depends how you define desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 10:18 AM
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Well, I am a total novice in these things, I could be well off the mark with my observations. Ive been mistaken about lots of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:35 AM
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Ref paragraph 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:49 AM
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He may choose you in a room full of girls, if you are the one who is least likely to reject him. I think that is the case in a lot of relationships, but Im speaking as a novice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:09 PM
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Most men aren’t asking women for empathy or sympathy. They’re reacting to a broader pattern where male problems are often dismissed, mocked, or treated as self-inflicted. What would change isn’t that empathy “solves” men’s issues, but that the conversation becomes less hostile and less dismissive. When sympathy feels conditional or performative and is only granted if men speak perfectly, it doesn’t land as real empathy. It matters because when a group learns that expressing pain gets minimised o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:07 PM
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Well I can think of 10 that aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:16 PM
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I think it can be bad when a previously male dominated space is reshaped to accommodate newcomers who did not build the culture that made it appealing in the first place. What often follows is not simple participation, but cultural capture, a kind of polite colonisation, where norms, humour, language, and even the rules of disagreement are rewritten to suit the sensibilities of the latest arrivals rather than the temperament of the original community. Few things are more destructive to a culture…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:33 PM
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These internet weirdos. Rarely heroes for only in their own imagination lurks the courage for condemnation. The footage shows no blood, no panic, no fear, but that won’t stop the sneer of the “well I would’ve,” “I could’ve” mobs quasi-moral, middle-class snobs. His masculinity measured in upvotes, affection priced in digital notes. his spine examined, his love exposed, judged by a crowd, willfully ignorant of his woes. They pass sentence without hesitation, fed by footage, starved of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:37 AM
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I'm gonna blow your mind, but just because you go somewhere doesn't make you a pedophile Good point r/ TrumpFucksKidz
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:59 AM
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Where is he blaming women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:15 PM
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It's bizarre. According to the proponents of this procedure, when you look out of your European window, you should be seeing hoards of men, trudging around in agony, their necrotic genitals emitting noxious fumes. Just wishing... Wishing they had surgical intervention as an infant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:14 PM
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No one is arguing for ignoring hygiene until age 10 that’s a strawman. Most intact boys worldwide manage normal hygiene without incident. What clinics, as you work in, see is neglect, not inevitability, and neglect isn’t a justification for surgery. The BMA and the Royal Dutch Medical Association explicitly state routine circumcision is not medically necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:44 PM
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And yet the medical boards don't recommend *routine surgical intervention. Edit routine added.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:30 PM
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You can print out my reply and read it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:26 PM
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It's not necessary I'm not saying it's necessary. I'm saying a lot of little boys don't possess the mental fortitude to wash their dick. And yet we don't see hoards of men limping around Europe, South America, Australia, New Zealand and Japan cradling thier junk in stinky anguish. It is apparent, that most males, the vast, vast majority of males possess enough sense to maintain a reasonable level of hygiene. I'd dare say that this mental fortitude, could be innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:53 PM
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Your original claim was hygiene related. Now you’ve shifted to a list of statistics from random sources online. That’s not equivalent to professional guidance. The British Medical Association explicitly states that routine circumcision of healthy boys is not necessary. bma cirp The Royal Dutch Medical Association says the same. Dutch download.. it's in English The Danish Medical Association says the same, as do the Germans. I'll defer to recognised medical boards, as I'm neither a statistician, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:13 PM
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Told ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:18 PM
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European medical boards state that routine circumcision of healthy boys is not medically necessary. As a layperson, creating an open surgical wound in a bacteria-rich area of an infant’s body without clear medical need, seems unwise. I’m aware that proponents will cite statistics, suggesting that performing an unnecessary surgery on many may marginally reduce risks for a small minority. I neither have the inclination nor the patience for a spreadsheet battle over relative risk reductions, so I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:44 PM
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What’s strange is that parents across Europe, Australia, and most of the developed world somehow manage to raise intact boys without a continent wide epidemic of foreskin stones, infections, or rotting genitals. The obvious explanation isn’t that foreskins are inherently unhygienic, it’s that your clinic disproportionately saw cases of parental neglect, because that is precisely what clinics are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 12:37 PM
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Better looking than, the girl you wants personshe's interested in. Ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:40 PM
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"How soon is now" is the song.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:29 PM
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‘I know so many ugly men who are married’ is a non argumemt, easily countered with ‘I know so many who are not.’ Those who elevate anecdote into philosophy willfully ignore the obvious: physical attractiveness is a major filter in romantic selection. In doing so, they quietly reframe romantic failure as a moral one, accusing the unsuccessful of being dour, asocial, or boring, an improvement from the cruder insinuations of poor hygiene or misogyny. Marriage and romance are not egalitarian institu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:08 PM
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Thank you, thank you, thank you for giving me yet another definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:00 PM
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Currently sitting at about 20 different definitions of what confidence means. Maybe it does have a meaning, just a vague platitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:57 PM
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Confidence is the name we give to behaviour we admire in those who please us; when the same behaviour appears in someone less fortunate, we promptly rename it arrogance. Thus confidence remains universally praised, endlessly debated, and almost never defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:56 PM
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Just like you don’t TELL somebody that you are unattractive. It shows in how you act and behave with others. Wouldn't wouldn't you say that you're unattractive if you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:46 PM
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If people don’t want to apply character/morals etc to the moniker ‘high value’ then they shouldn’t use that term when speaking about trying to obtain women or relationships. Well good luck making them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:10 PM
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Sorry for your pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:04 PM
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Character, morals, honor... Don't have much to do with the "high value" moniker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:04 PM
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You go abroad because you lacking in swag. I’m chasing bargains for a bootleg Gucci bag. You swear she loves you, but you paid for that bond. I shout “fair trade” in clothes sweatshops spawned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:38 PM
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For some time now, I’ve been liberated from the charming illusion that I might set anyone’s heart aflutter. Knowing this, I refrain from pursuit, preferring dignity to a most predictable disappointment. As for many other men, I suspect the ready availability of pornography on tap (or indeed en fap) has rendered the heroic gestures of courtship somewhat obbsolete to a degree. Why chase a muse when one can summon a simulacrum at the touch of a button?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:35 PM
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I think you mean henpecked? What he calls marriage, others might call a lifetime of agreeable surrender. He probably wants to keep working to avoid the awful homelife, I've seen that before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:56 PM
1

What's the link between Argento and Bourdain?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:51 PM
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I must admit, I'm unaware of the details of the case. But, wouldn't the logical thing to do in such circumstances ... Inform the law enforcement authorities of the incident, and not broadcast the whole thing on social media. Furthermore, if the man is indeed a 'gentleman of theatrical impulses', wouldn't the exposure on social media 'get him off' even more? Peculiar times we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:46 PM
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Some people are never outraged by inequality in dating, only if the inequallity that does not favour them. A tall man is admired for his haight, a handsome man for his face, a rich man for his income. But let a man possess the modest advantage of a passport and suddenly he is a villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:29 PM
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It's called the "dating market" for a reason: dating is similar to commerce, the attractive receives their pleasures on credit, the lesser must pay their debts in advance. It's a question for the man really, does he think his performance as a harping seal is a worthwhile endeavour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:47 PM
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I don't know, I'd think a lot of women would get the "ick" if a guy had shoe lifts and a toupee. I tried to argue here that shoe lifts should be treated like prosthetic limb.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:45 AM
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Yeah so?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:28 PM
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There was the 5 minutes with each person, where the woman was socially obligated to speak with a man. Were those conversations as stunted and hurried as I imagine them to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:03 PM
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It's not my point though, not one bit. Age is condemned with a moral fervour that is rarely applied to wealth or status alone. If a man with a PhD in spaceship construction dates a waitress. .. For whatever reason, it is rarely criticised in the same vein, if it all. And life experience is such a vague term, it's rendered meaningless. Hypocrisy, or at least moral selectivity is always more fashionable than honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:26 AM
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Thanks. Doesn't make sense to me either, like why is age more of a problem than say, wealth, status, or a host of other traits... Weird thing to get upset about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:47 PM
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Could some explain to my brain what a power imbalance, between an 18 year old and a 24 year old looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:54 PM
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I wouldn't say I celebrated it. I took a few moments of reflection, to think of those men who perished, largely due to the White Feather Campaign in Britain. Then, with Jungian synchronicity, I found a feather, white as snow, floating down from above.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:37 PM
1

What percentage would you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:49 AM
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So are you saying that ugly people (orcish) are between 0 and 1 in this system?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:50 PM
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This is the part that I don't get. Don't take it as criticism. The minimum threshold is the 7 points..... Plus the other aesthetic requirements. So, the 7 points are not the minimum requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:01 AM
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Points 1 to 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:11 AM
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No one is condemning taste. Just the sermon tacked onto it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 11:42 PM
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The moral ideal survives the short but not the shiney, progress of sorts. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:49 PM
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It’s a charming manifesto for moral excellence. I only wonder: does it survive contact with a five foot four balding man, or do we declare him disqualified on some unsaid aesthetic grounds? I expect the proclamation "The gates of virtue are open to all", yet somehow only a certain type of man can ever seem to find the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:18 PM
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SM "Hmm I'm not getting any matches." OP "Dress well and take good pictures" SM "... still no match" OP "Dress weller and take gooder pictures " SM "... Still no match" OP "Dress even weller and take even gooder pictures" SM "hey i got a match" OP "see..." SM "I used someone else's picture"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:35 AM
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Surprised flaunting desirablility hasn't arose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:07 PM
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It’s heartening to see the epidemic getting recognised, albeit begrudgingly. Men suffered in silence until women found the silence unpleasant. Then the concern became a fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:24 PM
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Society demands my enthusiasm for rights I shall never use it’s the latest fashion in charity, to give one’s approval where one has nothing to gain. Yet when men ask for anything, the world grows suddenly moral, and every door is firmly shut. It is curious how swiftly compassion turns to caution when the petitioner is the owner of an offending appendage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 11:48 AM
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Perhaps, the most strangest call for volunteers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:55 AM
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I've lost nearly 100 lbs My sincerest congratulations 🎊 It is a trap that pulls and sinks you in deeper the harder you try to claw your way out. I can imagine, it's not just a triumph of flesh, but of your will too. Still, some things remain beyond even the most heroic effort. No diet grants height, no virtue restores hair, and no amount of wishing sharpens the jaw. Nature, in her humour, lets us fix everything except what we mostly are judged on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:42 AM
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Society, can exhibit cruelty, it despises the unattractive for existing and, perhaps, the attractive for existing too easily. The plain are pitied, but never without envy; the beautiful are forgiven, but only because others wish to share their crimes. The lesser attractive are condemned for faults they never committed, the attractive for faults they are merely presumed to escape. The unbeautiful must prove thier virtue before they are allowed their humanity; a beautiful one may sin freely, for c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:12 PM
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Have you dug much into this? Like with a professional? For me, if I really wanted something for a decade, and what I did, didn't seem to be working, and but other people got that thing but I didn't know why, I would ask for help and insight. Who cares about down votes? I'll be brave and upvote you, and you can admire my valor. The post: Sounded a tad patronising and glib. Then in the 3rd sentence you become the subject and hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:59 AM
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... doesn't fit their idea of a "real man" Some women say to a man that he’s not a real man. I’ve always found that curious, how would they know? It’s an authority they can’t possibly possess. It’s like a critic reviewing a book they’ve never read. They speak with such certainty, but it’s borrowed knowledge, a mix of hearsay, fantasy, and whatever flattered them last. Edited for punctuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:39 AM
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Plenty of short and unattractive guys are in relationships ... And plenty aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:45 PM
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By all appearances, a prosthetic limb and a height-increasing shoe insert belong to different worlds : the hospital and the online-store. Yet both, i suspect, are born of the same exquisite human impulse: the refusal to let nature have the last word. The man who replaces his leg with steel and the man who adds an inch to his heel are united by a quiet rebellion. Each says, in his own way, “I shall not be limited by what i was given.” One to restore his stride; the other, enhance his stature. Bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:23 AM
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It's not so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:58 AM
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I must revisit Orwells Animal Farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:52 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:20 PM
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What is there to debate here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:13 AM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:53 PM
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They possibly found the question incredulous and mocking. To me, it sounds like an honest question, but sometimes innocence is more offensive than vice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 11:51 PM
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But I don't think we're talking about most men. In your own opinion would you say between 5 and 10% of men, or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:19 PM
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So, they want an orc approaching them. Hate to frame it in a simple binary way, but I can't be troubled with nuance this deep into my alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 06:53 PM
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Author of that last paragraph. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:09 PM
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If I struck myself on the head enough times, I probably would see things your way. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:59 PM
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Such foul language. Son... I'm not your mom. Bizarre. A first for me to witness : the celebration of misjudgment as a virtue. Very well, I’ll do what you do: You have daddy issues. You’re on your period. See how prejudice dresses itself up as insight?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 06:42 PM
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"I'm going to take what you show me at face value" Precisely my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:26 AM
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I guess it's easier to invent a moral failing, than confront the shallowness of one's own observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:06 AM
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Because "go to therapy" is a glib, Pavlovian response and truly tiresome on the ears, or indeed eyes. It's the habitual utterance of the addlepated, those who mistake slogan for sentiment and diagnosis for discernment. To divine a condition based on a few lines of text, ignorant of culture and context, is indolence of the highest order, the laziest remark conceivable short of silence itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:43 PM
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But won't you need a practice girlfriend, to get a practice girlfriend... And then a practice-practice girlfriend... to get a practice girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:50 AM
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I don't like it either but, Geneva Convention withstanding, "All's fair in love and war"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:48 AM
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I remember when clichés were cool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:13 AM
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So what if he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 03:04 AM
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Was there any side effects to steroids?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:56 AM
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Learn to code? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:07 PM
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Good post. Dressing sharp tells people you own a washing machine, but certainly yeah, it could be used as an indicator of mental health. I think being grudgingly tolerated, isn't much of a motivator, a sisyphean outcome, or at best pyrhic victory. Pursuing what makes happiness, or contentment , with achievable goals would be a better effort to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:11 AM
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That's not what the OP is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:42 AM
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They have a near universal aversion to a large portion of men with traits already mentioned. You can wax lyrical about preferences till the cows come home: skater style, sporty etc. But, what makes dating difficult? , the answers, the truthful ones layout the same traits, many of them immutable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:58 PM
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Interesting, and if the man doesn't find this one person attractive, he's shit out of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:39 PM
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The majority of anyone isn't seen as attractive, unless the group is "attractive people" Men rating of womens physical attractiveness follow a normal distribution (Bell) curve. Women's rating of men's physical attractiveness is heavily skewed towards the upper echelons.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:38 PM
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All I can say is that people insulting them were probably trying to hit them where they knew it would hurt the most, and you can't trust someone like that to tell the truth. I hope they end up happy, whatever they choose. Or probably not, probably not. How can we trust someone who says the opposite, they could be selling fake comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:34 AM
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Just don't be a net contributor, try to minimize the tax you pay, maximize the services you use. For your own benefit, don't need to worry about anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 10:45 PM
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Maybe I could have put it differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:47 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 11:30 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 10:48 PM
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Then they say Just because I don’t find you attractive doesn’t mean another woman won’t. This really has to go the way of the dodo. Attraction isn’t purely random or evenly distributed Some traits, are less desired in dating markets. Saying “someone else will find you attractive” assumes that attraction is inevitable, but in reality, some people struggle for years without being perceived that way by others. It risks dismissing genuine struggles by suggesting that rejection is always just a matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 04:01 PM
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Right, thanks, I'll have a think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:25 PM
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People who don't play sports do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:28 AM
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Do you go onto sports forums and ask the same question of the non-sporting patrons there? Validation that the circumstance /decision is correct for me. Some intellectual curiosity, I do occasionally learn something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:16 PM
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Can't get rejected if you don't offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:09 PM
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"I don’t understand why women want to bully and pressure a guy into accepting things he’s not into." I don't I've witnessed bullying for not being part of that culture, certainly I've witnessed denigraton and the labelling of boring by women who display a chauvinism that I cannot comprehend. Edit grammar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:01 PM
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Yeah on this sub., there was a to-and-fro the other day denigrating those who don't want to go to parties etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:24 PM
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Fill life with hobbies and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:47 PM
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Haha, you’re always fun to talk to Make sure you've actually spoken to them before, or this is awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:46 PM
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" ...Men fear being unwanted..." Why? Once you get over that fear, it's not so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:19 PM
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Yeah, I'm just saying that people have different definitions of what's fun. A party with loud music and dancing isn't everyones idea of a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:51 PM
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Or one, or two, or something else entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:40 PM
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Everyone has different definitions of what they consider fun. For some it's being invited to party's, some it's practicing a sport, and some it playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:27 PM
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The change allows for another stick to hit you with. Not only are you ugly and boring... But now you're stupid too. It's bemusing, depressing, but not unsurprising to witness the glee and cackling being leveled at men who, albeit slightly naive, acted in reasonable faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:50 PM
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🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:48 PM
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Not sure I follow your line here. Give teachers more money, or they'll mess up your boys? Bold strategy...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:39 PM
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Women on here claim that historically, they had to marry men for survival. Men read this and interpret it as: that gender has no qualms about manipulating a guy, or using him for money. Even when a post about passport bros arise, the usual harpies descend gleefully wishing financial and emotional ruin of run-of-the-mill unfortunate looking fellow, exclaiming "she's only with you for your money". So, it's not that men don't say it, but is there justification for thinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:40 AM
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Succinctly put.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:23 AM
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What if your SO was cheating on you with a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:41 AM
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Schlesinger’s routine falls short of what I’d call good comedy. Without men and sex as targets, she’d be short on material. More importantly, she’s not correct. It isn’t natural selection — it’s sexual selection. The traits passed on are tied to reproduction, not necessarily to survival. If she dug deeper, she might notice who’s really reproducing the most. It’s not the middle-class parents with two carefully protected kids in SUVs, but those having multiple kids with multiple partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:11 PM
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Out of 10,... 3., I got a 2.5 on a rate me thing, but I think it was a bit low. I used to socialise regularly, clubs, evening classes, dance classes, learnt 2 languages, and a book club. I'm not a good candidate for a hair transplant, I was saving for leg lengthening surgery but I don't see much point for an extra 3 inches. I dropped out of reading architecture at college, I don't intend to return. If you have a decent base to work from, I'd say a lot of guys can definitely build something. But,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:23 AM
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I'm agreeing with you.: Women get discount rate on drinks and entry. Men pay extra for entry and drinks. Only wealthy men will be able to afford to go clubbing. In the club women will have choice of wealthy successful men. Might be a good idea to have a height limit for men to gain entry too, 5ft 11 and up. Also men will be incentivised to get into a relationship with a woman as she will be able to purchase drinks at a cheaper rate for their group. Now for the untermensch, they get to be lavator…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:40 PM
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The men who do go to nightclubs, should pay extra for their drinks and admittance, this extra revenue will offset the overall cost of muh ladies night out. This should pan out, in encouraging only the elite men, whom can afford it... To go to clubs which promote muh ladies night, and discourage all but the most intrepid untermensch from setting foot on the premises. Perhaps the underclass of males could have a peripheral function as toilet executives, dispensing perfumeries and unctions to pissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:08 PM
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🏆 Brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:34 PM
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But if you tell the truth, then you are being nice. "i think you're unattractive" heard enough times, permits the guy to take stock, and leave the arena for those more blessed, and pursue other interests and hobbies. Everyone wins in this scenario so it has to be optimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:27 PM
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Passports only to men who are already married?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:00 PM
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What do you want to hear about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:38 PM
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What percentage of the male population is below average then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 12:18 PM
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When you wrestle with a pig, you both get covered in shit, but the pig likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:20 PM
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Go get em 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:50 PM
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OK, I never understood this. Why does a millionaire have to pay more child support than a janitor? If it costs 100 beer tokens a month or whatever, to raise a kid, why should a rich person have to pay more than a poor person? We don't do it with speeding fines, A Ferrari gets the same speeding ticket as a Honda.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:27 PM
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It sort of makes sense now that men as a group, use their vote, on things like abortion as a bargaining chip. Not sure what we'd get in return, bouquet of flowers would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:03 PM
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... but don’t want to face the cold hard truth What cold hard truth is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:03 PM
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For some, exercise and "self improvement" are going to be extremely beneficial, from the endorphins released through exertion, to the sense of achievement of moving the needle forwards. But for the orcs, best not mention those.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:14 PM
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It's a nice fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:07 PM
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If I could cut through all the verbosity, poo pooing, and harumphing. People are going to call out what they see as sexual deviancy, in this case it's your pet peeve: being called out for excessive screwing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:46 PM
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Possibly, he may not find another girlfriend for years, decades or even ever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:34 PM
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Ahh, don't worry about, the orc, I've been called worse lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:09 PM
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TRP never promised nor “guaranteed” an orc-looking guy was going to get the same outcomes as a “Chad.” Do you have an example of this "orc looking guy", and what their outcomes may be?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:23 PM
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If you think it's wrong then don't do it. If someone slept with someone else, with the offer of a relationship, then rescinded the offer, I really don't see what the problem is. People change their minds about relationships all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 10:22 AM
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A sensible take
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:04 PM
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What's mate copying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:57 AM
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Some have been trying to lower libido 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:32 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:08 PM
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Part time: supermarket, some day care, clerical work and some cleaning jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:56 PM
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It's defeatist because a lot of people are already defeated Thanks for the advice, don't know why you're giving it to me though. "... die of a painful but treatable disease lol." Lol? I'd get a refund from that therapist. .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:21 PM
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Actually curious, but when men say that if they don’t get a family they will stop working, then how would they feed themselves and afford healthcare (which are necessary to stay alive no)? I can't be certain, but it comes down to benefits, social security, or doing the bare minimum like you said. This is more a problem for whoever arranges the benefit system that the recipient of benefits. For me logically, that still seems worse than having a successful career or a job you’re genuinely passiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:06 PM
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Interesting, can you elaborate.. Not a gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:30 PM
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Don't know, I like trying to counter the galighting that the 80-20 rule is false. But it's apparent, that those without argument, just try to draw you into a war of attrition, and I can't be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 11:58 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:59 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:48 PM
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Insult not intentional, I was just joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:20 PM
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OK that's 4 people you've described, 1 of which has, what sounds to be like a serious mental illness. Is it any wonder you struggle with dating, dragging these 4 around, no dude would have enough money to feed 5 people. Edit :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:02 PM
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Ah, split personality, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:53 PM
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Wow 2 women on the same date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:43 PM
1

Care to elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:19 PM
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What makes them "eww"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:05 PM
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For me it was 23, but it depends on the person essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:11 AM
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Without going into details there are some drugs available, but you won't get a doc to prescribe them. The side affects are quite uncomfortable, and they sort of half work, yes you're libido drops like a stone, but you feel weepy at times, grin ache and terrible joint ache surprisingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:22 PM
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Sometimes you're lucky just to get a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:01 PM
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No, I think average to above average guys fair better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:57 PM
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"Better the devil you know, than the devil you don't."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:26 PM
8

"Discretion is the better part of valour. " Shakespeare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:33 PM
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Better safe than sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:00 PM
5

I'll touch my own boobs thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:15 PM
13

Fools rush in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:12 PM
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I think socializing is being actively sabotaged by tech companies for content, and it's ramped up in the last 15 years or so. They're giving the people what they want, they wouldn't make any money otherwise. I'm fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:50 AM
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Yep, pretty sure I've either been called a loser or had it implied on this very sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:13 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:35 AM
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It's alright, the fish have them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:01 PM
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No, to see the fish under the shine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:35 PM
1

Polaroid lens' take the shimmer off the water.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:20 PM
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I don't think the men here are exaggerating. Difficult question to answer considering the sub rules. Further, it is difficult with regards to what you mean by average, are there 50% of the people more attractive, and around 50% less, or is it the tinder study average, were 20% are more attractive and 80% less. No, never been approached, nor been on a date, I'm OK with that, I've said before: it's the gaslighting that bugs me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:35 AM
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And, more importantly, he's being accepted into the social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:30 AM
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How did you learn to control your anxiety? Not trying to have an argument and a gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:01 AM
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You need data that shows that some men who are unsuccessful on dating apps are also unsuccessful with in-person meets? I don't have any, and, judging by the discourse, any data I would provide would be hand-waved away. I get it, nothing could possibly convince you, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 04:39 PM
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People have had similar results using apps and in person meets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:43 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you say. There is nothing you can do to change women’s choices other than be attractive to a woman. And for a lot of men, there is nothing at all they can do. If anything, it'll be an entertaining future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:39 PM
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TLDR?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:37 PM
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Oh well, no big deal, no one is entitled to someone else's fidelity. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:22 PM
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I just discovered that I'm clairvoyant: I saw the title, and the inner voice said "about 90% of the responses will be virtue signalling, or deliberately misinterpreting the question, and the counter response of accusations of deception"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:16 PM
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Do you have any data to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:48 PM
1

Get more therapy then to stop feeling sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 06:02 PM
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I can agree with much of this, it's black pill couched in acceptable language. However, I don't think you have much chance in getting people to be quiet about their problems. I suppose there is a cathartic element to put down your thoughts, and let them offend who they may.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:32 PM
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Go to therapy to feel happier then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:23 PM
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Is it? I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:44 PM
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They already deemed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:42 PM
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It's an investment, either time or money, if you don't see a future, then there is no reason to invest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:55 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:49 AM
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Creepy is behaviour based, if you're an unattractive man, acting confident and flirty, will be seen as creepy, something out of place. A spider in a cellar isn't out of place, one in your bath tub could well be seen as creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:15 PM
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You're not entitled to my protection, and I'm not entitled to your protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 09:33 PM
2

Going to need citations for these 3 wild claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:08 PM
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Would you date a woman who is a different race from your own? Yes Would you date a woman who is a different religion from your own? Yes Would you date a woman who smokes? Yes Would you date a woman who goes to church every Sunday? Yes Would you date a woman who is asexual? Yes Would you date a woman who lives 1000 miles away from you? Yes Would you date a woman who is an alcoholic? Yes Would you date a woman who does OF? Yes Would you date a woman who has two kids? Yes Would date a woman who is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:52 AM
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Is it bad form to take the flowers back when the date is over? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:53 PM
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Yeah pretty much. ... that they insult the men in their actual league who are attracted to them. They're going to do it anyway, there's no social penalties for attacking /degrading a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:07 PM
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So if a guy says he's great in bed, and he's not, is that coercion?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:45 AM
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Yeah, like if the dude hints he's interested in a long term thing, and he really wants a short term thing, how can you possibly legislate that, assuming coercion is criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:42 AM
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If that's how you see it, I see it as a PSA, don't go near that woman if you don't fit her preferences. Vocalizing those preferences, isn't much different than putting them on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:32 AM
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Does this not contradict you're OP? Women are more forgiving when it comes to looks. Not in my experience, there's probably a threshold somewhere. And nothing says raw attraction more than "forgiving", like the dude just committed a crime for not providing the warm tingles straight out of the blocks. Men are more shallow when it comes to looks. Yeah I know.. Always make sure, that each post gives men a little kick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:51 AM
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Men need to work on being attractive as much as women do. Which men? Do you mean by gym maxing? Not all men are prone to being athletic. If all men go to the gym, the average just moves up. If all men became 6ft tall, the new desirable height would be 6ft5. This doesn't bother me at all, before you jump in with claims of bitterness. Men are told to get good jobs / make good money so that they can eventually have a family. There's people here, that will fight tooth and nail, claiming that doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:33 AM
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I'm joking nevermind
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:43 PM
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Tell that to these people who swear they "don't care what other people think" I did, they told me that they didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:37 PM
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Yeah, unfortunately I caught on to that a little later than most. Steep learning curve though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:17 PM
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You need to dust yourself off and have another go I don't need to do a motherboarding thing. A motherboarding thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:05 PM
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I don't regard them as being awful, and I certainly don't think there is any shame in having preferences, or limits. When a woman calls out a lesser attractive man for talking to her, all she's doing is letting other less attractive men in the vicinity not to bother her. It's a PSA.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:02 PM
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You're point does not stand, op is not making a comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:27 AM
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Yes. When you said women can spot incompatiblity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:40 AM
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Op, you could literally post about a man loosing a leg, and it would be diminished by someone who stubbed their toe... Or claim the man deserved to lose his limb. Every problem you face is your own fault, every problem they face is oppression. I'm tired boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:24 PM
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If a person isn't romantic relationship material, they'll unlikely be friendship material either. I think some people choose they're friends, in a similar way they'd choose romantic partners, and appearance is certainly a big factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:49 PM
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This makes sense, if a person is lacking in the covetted sixes, a successful outcome is unlikely happen, and both parties leave the interaction slightly damaged, or majorly damaged if the man was pinning his hopes in success
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:22 PM
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Yep, and a prosthetic hand can give the appearance of not having a hand missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:26 PM
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What's your opinion on prosthetic limbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 05:59 AM
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Rejected so many times I finally got the hint, think I'm a slow learner. Took a long time to accept I'm not exactly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:23 PM
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Straight/bi men: How easy and how often do you get sexually aroused by random women you see? Never really, if she's very pretty, I sort of feel a little sad, and push the present from my mind using brute force, usually by reciting the dates of famous historical events.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:39 PM
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Judged for what? Unattractive? Disfunctional, asocial untermensch? You've already pre-judged them, have at it. They'll never be a "real man" right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:24 PM
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Shots fired lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:36 PM
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Have whatever standards you want, just be honest about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:42 PM
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I dropped out of architecture college due to hairloss, you want to see the poop I had to endure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:22 AM
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Unfalsifable claims are unfalsifable. Source: I own a magical invisible cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:21 AM
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Have you read the posts here, they're riddled with fallacies. Ad homs, no true scotsmen and goalpost moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:47 AM
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"If you get a date, maybe once a month or every couple of months, there's a weird formal even platonic vibe most of the time." Chad! Some people don't get a date... Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:44 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:08 PM
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Thanks pal 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:58 PM
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I tried it once, I got all sweaty and out of breath... I think I'm allergic or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:35 PM
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Guess those people are lazy and can't do the bare minimum, any other names you want to call those people or are you done with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:32 PM
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Everyone knows. Love is a stranger in an open car.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:53 PM
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that every woman who doesn’t swipe right on him considers him sub-human… I wouldnt say every. We probably just disagree on the percentages. And a few might just be mean and think people that don’t meet their looks criteria aren’t worth their time Why would they waste their time on someone they have no interest in. Is that last person someone you’d want to date anyway? Me personally? Not important, other guys probably would. . Women typically don't lose social currency from being 'mean' to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:47 PM
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Yeah, sometimes they don't, and sometimes they do. Something something, not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:58 PM
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Just because someone doesn’t find you attractive doesn’t mean they think you are sub-human. Everyone is not obligated to want to have an physical or intimate relationship with you. Thats the point I’m trying to make. These 2 posts don't make sense together, or are you making 2 separate points and the rum has got to me? There are most definitely people out there who think others are sub human based on their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:52 PM
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There's a lot to be said about the harshest rejections being beneficial. Why endure continuous "You're not my type", "I'm not really looking" (at a singles event), when you can be black pilled and know exactly where you fit in, and what your expectations should be: inside 3 seconds. The desire, and how you handle it... is another problem. But yeah, I get that it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:42 PM
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That could be why married men live longer than single. Can't have the cash cow getting sick and slacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:40 PM
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Furthermore, the rules say no personal attacks. That doesn't apply to everyone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:29 AM
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Yes, and stamp out any creativity and joy you could ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:21 PM
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I don't think it's compassion, but more of, keeping the cash cow providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:13 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:41 PM
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The "she's messing up his bloodline" comments while there isn't a peep of that in tall woman/short man posts and instead everybody is congratulating OP. They really say that?????? Not disputing it, just shocking and depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:41 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 11:18 AM
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Are you saying people with self esteem issues can't make themselves feel better? Not in every circumstance. I'm saying he likely already knows he has self esteem issues, regardless of your diagnosis. He's wallowing in self pity. Blaming everything that's wrong on external non changeable factors rather than actually do a single damned thing to improve. He can speak for himself, I read it as someone who's gauged their situation, and acted appropriately. Improve like shower, touch grass, volunteer …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:36 AM
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Yes, sub, not post, you're right. Yes you responded, like the other fellow, to diminish my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:42 AM
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No, not occasionally. This is a serious, worldwide problem which most women (if u were friends with any of us) would corroborate How do you know I'm not friends with women? How is this valid, if a man is friends with a woman, does he turn into some enlightened being? Violence is a world wide problem and will always be. You're going to be a bit annoyed here, but I don't regard violence against women as any worse than violence against men. fuck, u dudes can be so insufferable to talk to, because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:14 AM
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This isn't about me Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can utterly destroy me. Huh. I should have put it in quotes, but I couldn't remember the precise quote. It's a paraphrased quote. Found it Robert Fulgrim. My point was the impact, that verbal abuse can have Child abuse is regarded more seriously than other kinds of abuse for a reason. Also it's typically from a stranger So don't abuse children then. I wouldn't associate with people who behaved as such It's called banter mate Is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:15 PM
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Are you six years old? Presumably not, so you have the mental capacity to understand that not everybody likes you and people can say mean things to you Do your mates not joke around and call each other the most terrible things for shits and giggles? You just let it flow in one ear and out the other No I'm not 6 years old. This isn't about me. I understand that not everyone likes me, this isn't about me They can say mean things about me, this isn't about me. My point was the impact, that verbal a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:03 PM
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Yep, I'm sure women do get attacked occasionally. Men get attacked frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:47 PM
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Here's an example, telling a kid he's dumb, continuously, all through his formulative years. You saying that's not going to have a negative effect on him/her? I'm getting back to you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:45 PM
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She can say much worse than a mere "no", much much worse. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can utterly destroy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:44 PM
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White knighting means, really just a goon for women, goon in the original thug sense. Like, she feels uncomfortable in the presence of an unattractive man, she gets a white knight to eject him. A smaller dude stands up for himself against a woman.. The white knight will fight her battle. The white knight thinks, that because he's such a good and loyal goon, that the fair maiden will touch his p p. But if you want to frame it as fighting back against incel.. Really just short guys going about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:07 AM
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have self esteem issues. Translation, "get some self esteem.. Dummy" How do you know his estimation is even incorrect? Not every man looks like henry cavill. Does that mean that all the men that don't are single? No it doesn't. There's unrealistic standards placed on women too "virgin/young/pretty/skinny etc" it isn't one sided. Man describes his issues "yeah but women.." You can throw a pity party, or you can make the best of what you've got like everybody else. Assumption he's throwing any par…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:44 AM
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I think more provision should be made to form clubs and interest groups. And I'd say those interest groups would be wildly popular. So popular, in fact that others, who have no interest in the subject, but an interest in the popularity, would demand to join. They'd demand rule changes and ethos changes to accommodate their narrow views. And those who don't really fit the mold, receive their labels, and are ushered out, despite being the builders of the group. And the group becomes a money grubbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:31 AM
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Maybe accept that there isn't going to be an "if"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:46 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:55 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:47 PM
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Oh well, not everyone gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:15 PM
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It's so refreshing when someone else gets it. Edited to remove "thanks"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:12 PM
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We've never heard this wisdom before. WTG Master Yoda.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:47 PM
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Was a while ago, deleted, burned and ashes shredded.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:19 AM
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Anyone else get a 2.5 on truerateme?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:03 AM
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Whats irl dating like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:06 PM
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Self deprecating humour is just some peoples type of humour though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:59 PM
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So someone like that is pathetic then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:57 PM
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Yeah, I think we probably only disagree on the percentages involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:47 PM
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The disadvantages that push them out of the average zone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:36 PM
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"Where are all the good men?" "Have you tried showering more?" "Why are you so short?" I've been drinking most of the day, so more sober minds can fill in the translations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:26 AM
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How would it be wasted? If you say they would be better spending that time looking for someone else,your missing the point, that they don't want someone else at that particular time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:45 PM
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Creepiness is tied to behaviour and appearance. A tall good looking guy acting confident, gregarious and outgoing =not creepy Shorter less attractive guy acting the same way, something unusual, creepy not expected. Shorter less attractive guy keeping himself to himself =normal, expected, unsurprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:53 PM
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And we all know what a marvellous place school and college was
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:41 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:38 AM
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Good post, can you ou elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:35 AM
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OR OR OR Vent, over analyze, debate bro, and complain till the cows comes home... while the entire world passes you by... OK deal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:25 AM
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"They seem so assured that there is no hope for them and it’s depressing to see." Why would it be depressing for you? "... instead of basing your worldview and self confidence on what the other men (or some toxic woman influencers) say." Why do you assume their worldview wasn't based on their own experience, some people had no idea what the pills were until about 10 years ago. "And people asking questions and being completely unwilling to change their perspective. They want the people on their s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:08 AM
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Congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:51 PM
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Don't be silly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:50 PM
1

Good points thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:34 PM
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Most men didn't have a surname, they had to be earned, or were handed down from the gentry. What did your mother and grandmother do or achieve to have this accolade? Spoken like someone who's never done manual labor. Again, what did they do to achieve having a name, the children would have a claim to his efforts/achievements. This last part is pure misandry, you're denying paternal instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:37 PM
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Her father's name. His kids too. Anglo culture, they are a single unit with a single name. Other cultures have it where she keeps her name, hyphenated... Touch grass... In a different country. His kids too. Submitting to someone who is expected to give up his own life for her safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:23 PM
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How much experience is required to be a expert? And if someone with more experience than you comes along and challenges your beliefs will you acquiesce?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:46 PM
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And people showed up, nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:43 PM
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Wait.. You got invited?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:36 PM
1

Bit like the term "toxic masculinity" just another way of trying to control behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:03 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:03 PM
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It's just another manipulation method that unimaginative people use to try and get you to do something, or think something. They usually say something like "a real man would carry those heavy boxes up the flight of stairs for me" "You're only 5ft4, you're not a real man." "real men like sports and inhaling their own farts" It probably works on some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:51 PM
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It only pushes the average up, then some other immutable trait is favored.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:25 PM
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Did she falsely accuse a bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:15 PM
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Then height, baldness and charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:00 PM
1

What does xD stand for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 06:22 PM
1

Didn't know women like you existed. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:35 PM
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Feel free to insult me more if you want to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:30 PM
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I don't see how it could.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:44 AM
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That part goes without saying. Once you hear, kind to animals, sense of humour, etc. Just remember, that those are the traits on top of being tall, handsome etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:44 PM
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"... Go out and date now,..." Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 10:12 PM
1

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:43 PM
2

This isn't a Diss, How much did you lower your standards by? And how do we know who has to lower their standards and by how much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:25 PM
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Yeah I just assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:23 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:06 PM
1

What's wrong with being online?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:03 PM
6

Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:44 PM
4

Define asshole? I don't think it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:34 PM
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Yeah sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:33 PM
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Replaceable and also, disposable. With that added benefit of being... Bio-degradable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:33 PM
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I'd say it's mostly shit talking.. Mostly. I don't associate in those circles so I can't say for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:26 PM
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Then stop reading it if it makes you feel queasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:23 PM
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The target of violence is much more likely to be turned inward, directed towards the self. So you can hit the snooze button and sllep soundly again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:21 PM
1

What's a harmful belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:17 PM
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Are you labouring under the impression that morality and attractiveness are linked,?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:17 PM
2

What's a decent person in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:16 PM
1

All these strawmen are playing havoc with my hay fever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:05 PM
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Took him about 8 paragraphs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:00 AM
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A male bear or a female bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:30 PM
1

I blame climate change too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:26 PM
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I've a feeling most of the comments are going to agree with you, but then tell us how those men are supposed to be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:20 PM
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Monkey shit, dolphins can't walk on land.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:18 PM
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What legal authority does that church have, is it a voluntary authority were the church members, by their own free will, adhere to it? Wouldn't that also cover the husband refusing to get physical with the wife? So it's not gendered. It's 2 people, who are members of a club, following (as they both see fit), the rules of that club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:16 PM
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Making a joke. Wasn't very good sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:34 PM
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Strange your posting this Windy, yours isn't till next Monday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:48 PM
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Sorta true 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 09:12 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:25 PM
3

Tldr?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:28 PM
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I've thought about this, I'm not sure how things work out, can someone explain what usually happens? So say a man dates a woman with a child, they develop a relationship, and have another child. And the man wants to take his child to Disney World, does he have to pay for the other child that isn't his too? So, if he wants a vacation with his child and the child's mother, is he at the behest of the father who isn't in the picture, to cough up for the trip? Or do you just leave the child from a pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 10:35 AM
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I thought women didn't want creepy (average and below average) men... creeping them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:02 PM
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I can read between the lines, windmill. .. What would you like to be complimented on today?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:40 PM
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I couldn't find a single example no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:16 PM
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Did that link work?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:36 PM
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There has been numerous posts on this sub reddit of people being labeled creepy, ejected from social settings and worse. I take those posts at there word.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:06 PM
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This is you trying to control people's behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:03 PM
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I think so too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:00 PM
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Why do you think a woman would align with the black pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:02 AM
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I'm not trying to do anything, my point was, eventually sometime a person is going bow out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:30 PM
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A lot of people have already reflected. It's not a conspiracy theory, it's an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:18 PM
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How about 30 times, 60 times or 5 years? "Y'all must be creepy or doing something wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:50 PM
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Suppositoried... Nope, still not understanding it.. Im reading this like you have a lisp.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:22 PM
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Good luck bro👍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:33 PM
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I find this somewhat hatstand
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:28 PM
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"Your ability to attract a mate is entirely down to you. Its esch individual man who has ownership over it and responsibility for changing it simply because there IS not other answer to it." This reads like something a bullying gym teacher wrote. Ability.. not everyone has that ability, or will ever have that ability. All you're doing here is trying to picking on people, you're not helping anyone, but I suppose, if it makes you feel superior, have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 12:21 PM
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Some probably white knighting going on. Some maybe religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:48 PM
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I'd say that hard to swallow, there are benefits to having zero investment in the future, society or even nationhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 07:01 PM
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Alls fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:55 PM
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I've never heard of Bella Ramsey, and I'll let you shame men for having a small penis all day long, it just tells me who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:09 PM
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I note sanity wasn't on that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:04 PM
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Perhaps a common belief is that if they employed those compatibility checks they'd go from 2 matches per 1000, to 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:03 PM
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If you filter by height, then baldness, then job, you could remove 80% quite quickly. Ive never used OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:00 PM
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Take it you.. Mean general you.? That's actually a pretty good clarification. But I think if you're with a person, say, who has a history of cheating, you're going to assume that, that, person is going to cheat, regardless of how 'secure' you are. General you, not personally you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:00 PM
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If they don't meet expectations, why would they be with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:45 PM
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Average is confusing, do they mean slap bang in the middle average, or the skewed 80% average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:45 PM
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Why is it wrong to feel insecure? It doesn't appear to hold him back from anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:42 PM
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If most kids being born, have absentee fathers, single mothers, half siblings, and no domestic stability: those kids will be directing the future culture, traditional family units don't stand a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:36 PM
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You're never going to win, it's like sword fighting a fart
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:17 PM
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I'd say it's some of my fault: some of nobody's fault. 20/80
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:07 PM
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I rarely complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:03 PM
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Yes, in general. But the expressions of disgust, the summoning of white knights to issue a kerb stomping, and the general insults aren't necessarily a bad thing. Sure they sting, cause severe mental trauma in some instances. But they teach you that you shouldn't be trying to be that flirty guy, that ain't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:19 AM
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Well adjusted?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:13 AM
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They have to make it as that way for the narrative, it can never be, "unattractive man acts in a friendly manner" Edit, I see you addressed that further down, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 11:00 AM
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Got a point though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:12 PM
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I did, very informative
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:03 PM
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Who pities and why is it pitiful? Sorry for your former husband beating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:34 PM
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I've no issue at all, have whatever standards you wish, whatever go for it. Just don't gaslight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:43 PM
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They do that anyway, it's the default setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:24 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:22 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:37 AM
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Any woman who'd marry me would be desperate. No deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:26 PM
3

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:34 PM
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So when he says, “I don’t date single mothers,” it’s not always about logistics. It’s about dignity. About not wanting to be the consolation prize for someone else’s story. About not wanting to raise a child whose very existence reminds him he wasn’t the man picked when it mattered most. So, I don't see a problem with someone choosing/rejecting a partner for whatever reason they see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:57 PM
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Why would you believe your own eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:17 PM
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Uhh thanks I guess. Wouldn't say no one, quite a few would ascribe negative traits to physically unattractive men. Every Disney movie villain for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:52 PM
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I believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:05 AM
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I can imagine, I'm not on those apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:33 PM
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I prefer to call it the BS. And why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:14 PM
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Yep definitely not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:09 PM
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You can believe that if you want to. I was refering to someone for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:23 PM
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Thank you for your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:20 PM
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Nah, no real evidence of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:21 PM
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Pretty much agree with this, the small subset who are successful, would become hyper successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:18 PM
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Not sure if mass plastic surgery is the answer, if 6ft2 is the current desirable standard, and the men under 6ft get surgery to them up to 6ft2,..then 6ft4 will become the new desired standard. Sorry for the ham fisted attempt to explain my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:04 PM
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Lmao, 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:58 AM
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They'll never do that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:34 AM
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Well, apologies for not getting to the point but adjectives like small and average, are not considered positive traits. Edit, hence you wouldn't use those terms on a significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:55 PM
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And you're free to think the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:54 PM
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Do you tell him it's average then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:53 PM
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How often do you tell your significant other, or anyone really, that you love and adore your mans small/below average sized penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:40 PM
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They ARE saying that that guy has a chance and shouldn’t give up trying. They are saying that that guy can attract a woman for a variety of reasons, even though he’s not a male model. Gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:23 PM
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Yep, and if its the woman who cheats, they'll make every excuse under the sun of how it's the dudes fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:08 PM
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Lmao,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:11 PM
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A casio costs very little.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:29 PM
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I could wear it in my wrist to tell time, push the button for a beep, and speak into it, pretending I'm communicating with a mothership... Lots of things really.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:10 PM
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I guess you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:28 PM
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If its the only option, then it is the best option, if it's not the only option, then it's up to the individual to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:22 PM
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I've no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:18 PM
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A casio
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:16 PM
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Probably less than are spending it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:14 PM
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It is, but what else would you spend it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:12 PM
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Abstinence in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:52 PM
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Strong disagree, a tad blunt yes, but quite useful in figuring out, where you stand and who you are. This may sound weird, but I'm actually quite grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:25 AM
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I can whole heartedly agree with this. From my own experience, after countless "no.. I'm not looking for anyone", "I don't think we're a good match" etc. I finally benefitted from some blunt directness, ironically I had no intention of asking the girl out, I merely mentioned the club was much busier than last week. "fuck off, you look like ET". A few people she was with looked away at the floor and sniggered. I was sort of stunned, and turned on my heels and went straight home, leaving my new ja…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:37 PM
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Are you say that this fellow would be just as successful in a western country? How many of them women in this sub would be interested in Mr Baguma?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:49 PM
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Big dick game. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:47 PM
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Survival. You can avoid being bullied at school or other places if you're clownish. Bullies will occasionally grant a 'fools pardon' if the victim can either throw out a quip, or engage in self deprecating humor, enough to cause a distraction. I've witnessed this sort of evasion tactics in boys, but never girls. Over time it would become a well honed skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:30 AM
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Forever isn't that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:18 PM
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Why does this read as: not asking is some sort of failing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:52 PM
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I'd say it was behaviour based too. . Creep = short and/or (below) average looking guy... Acting like a tall above average looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:51 PM
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Avoiding women doesn't take much effort, 70% of the avoidance is done by them avoiding me. Approaching women in public.. You mean asking for a date? Been rejected so many times, the message has been received loud and clear, and I'm OK with that now. Helping women in public - why help someone who sees you as some kind of untermensch, it would unlikely be reciprocated anyway. Gym - don't go. Workplace - not many women in my place, there is a canteen, and I do overhear their conversations.. Hard no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:29 AM
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Most of what you've said has been debunked elsewhere on this thread. But why do you care if most (50%+1?) are giving up, surely that leaves the ground clear for guys like yourself? And women benefit also by being left alone and not having to view creatures that lack aesthetics. It's win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 01:49 PM
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Example: at the bar, slide next to her to order a drink. Comment on her drink: "That's a good looking drink. What is it?" Go from there "hey bartender, this guy tried to put something in my drink"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:29 PM
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I don't feel offended, just inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:35 AM
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