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If you say you’ve chosen to go down this path of righteousness, then you cannot take short cuts. This is because you need to look at yourself in the mirror. In other words, you’re only lying to yourself. So, to answer your question, yes, you should. And you should prepare to deal with the consequences. I am not religious. I just grapple with “you’re only cheating yourself” when I train, or present myself to people.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 12:02 AM
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It took me 18 months to learn how to spend time w/ myself and actually enjoy it. Like, no fomo, no pressure to date. Just me doing me and enjoying it. It takes time. I recommend working out. Not just lifting. But also yoga, running, and stretching (you’ll thank me for taking stretching seriously later). Meal prepping. Video games are great in small doses, too. It takes time.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 09:42 PM
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Heard a story once on how someone from the UK was sent to jail because he couldn’t pay. Like, how does that solve the problem and, wtf?!
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/23 02:27 PM
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Wishing you best. But be careful. Those attorneys sometimes promise the moon just get your money and not deliver.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/23 10:48 AM
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I wanted the condo when we split but she ended up getting it. Turned out to be best decision I made during divorce. A change of scenery is HUGE. It truly opens your mind as to how big the world is, and helps push you forward. Just reading your headline, I’m going to say let her have it and get a change of scenery. Like, this is the one piece of advice I give anyone who is getting a divorce, man or woman.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 11:22 PM
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This should be in a wiki.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 09:35 PM
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It's only going to be a matter of time that she regrets her disgusting decision to give up her own kids for cash. Savor that moment when it arrives. She sounds fucking awful. Good on you.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/20 01:09 PM
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Get a plan in place and stash money away before you make your move. This is going to cost you. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/20 11:43 AM
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I feel it's normal to have doubts before getting married. I did. People who I know are happily married did, too. Asking a sub that's mostly full of people who got screwed over through an ugly divorce isn't going to give you an accurate answer.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/20 06:55 PM
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Start making a long term plan to bounce back brother and come out even stronger. Head up!
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/20 10:39 AM
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Great tip on 401K for anyone reading; never seen that here before. And totally on rebuilding year. There are days things really suck, but I just keep reminding myself that I have a plan in place. My plan pretty much pegs 2020 as a full-on rebuilding year. 2021 is going to be my year.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/20 10:49 PM
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The best news for me is LoseIt! has a dark mode. But seriously, that's so awesome man. Everyone on this sub is rooting for you. Edit: Unless your wife is also on this sub. She's likely not rooting for you.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/20 01:49 PM
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Honestly, word gets out quick. People love to gossip about divorces, it seems.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/20 08:42 PM
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Totally normal brother. In time, you'll meet other women and when you get these thoughts again, you'll remind yourself that you're doing the same. And you'll just sorta accept it and be a lot better with it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/20 12:18 PM
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The fact she makes $100K gives you and edge because it shows she is capable of supporting herself. It's not like you make $400k and she makes $40K. You should talk to several lawyers, IDK what state you're in, but do so quietly and get a better idea of what you're up against.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/20 01:12 PM
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kinda was in similar spot (she cheated). Over time she stopped doing the door closed bullshit. Anyway. At first I wanted our bad ass condo. But I was then given an offer I couldn't refuse. Let me tell you ... moving out from that place was the best decision ever. Once she leaves, it might be worth exploring leaving your place. It does wonders. EDIT: In fairness, I think women do that stuff because they sincerely don't want to lead us on. That was my takeaway, but after a while, it's like, "REALL…
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/20 03:25 PM
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Also, get the fuck off social media. You legit don't need that shit.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/20 05:53 PM
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Fuck controlling the narrative. If words can control how you feel then everyone can control you. Moving forward is what's important. And frankly, nobody really gives a shit about your divorce or anyone else's for that matter. They gossip about it and then look at cats on Facebook. Focus on you man.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/19 07:42 PM
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I must have missed that. My apologies. It will get better, though.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/19 03:26 PM
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What you're going through sucks, but if there's a silver lining, it's that this happened 4 months in and not 4 years or 10 years, for example. In terms of moving forward, it gets better. Just don't spend all your time wallowing. Force yourself to get out there; go on a date just to go on a date and keep your head up.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/19 01:42 PM
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Totally. I hear you. Maybe something to plan out as you spend time with yourself :)
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/19 06:02 PM
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I'm about 2 weeks out from my divorce (which took 3 months from the day I found out about the affair to the day it was official). It's been incredible how much better I sleep. You are also so right about the dating scene in your mid 30s, with your shit together. I'm going on seeing my fourth date this weekend, even though I keep telling myself I want to stay in and not spend money. I am also not on any dating apps. One thing I have noticed is how much faster time goes by. We're approaching Thank…
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/19 03:55 PM
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"I'm giving her $50k to get the fuck out of my life." Heh. That gave me a laugh. You got a prenup, so just lock up your finances and let her burn her $ on legal fees trying to undo what's already been done.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/19 08:35 AM
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WTF did I just watch? Dude scribbled gibberish on a piece of paper. lol wtf
/r/seduction11/10/19 11:57 PM
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Hey dude. I already know what the deal is with this chick without reading your post. She got out of a LTR. You're a toy for her. Just enjoy it.
/r/seduction08/10/19 11:02 PM
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To me, the answer is a most def no. However, there are exceptions. I see the same people at the gym all the time. Sometimes, natural interactions happen and the two of you laugh. From there, we say hi to one another each time we see each other. So, if it does happen, it's a long game. Just my two bits. I hear from girls all the time that they hate it when dudes try picking them up at gym.
/r/seduction08/10/19 10:54 PM
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mini bonus: Her roommate was so flattered that I made the trip just to drop her off (and not to see her friend), so now she'll talk me up.
/r/seduction04/10/19 05:56 PM
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It sounds like you're insecure, bro. Spend time with yourself. Do stuff by yourself. If you haven't, I highly recommend traveling to another country, ideally one you wouldn't typically consider, by yourself.
/r/seduction04/10/19 03:03 AM
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Sounds like it's a matter of time before it happens, brother. Best to get a head start. Develop a plan. Speak with an attorney. Start squirreling away cash slowly. Because from where I'm standing, it seems like the part she can't figure out is where to stay for free while having her affair. Sorry to hear about all this man.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/19 12:07 PM
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You may have done nothing wrong; she might have just wanted one night of fun.
/r/seduction03/10/19 02:07 AM
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Sounds like she moved on brother. You should, too. Sounds like you had fun that first night, right? Go have some more fun. There's 3.6 billion girls out there.
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:37 AM
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Yea this the sound advice here, bro.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/19 04:06 PM
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