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changain/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:13 AM
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I used to have a yellow tint to my teeth. Now I get comments about how white my teeth are. I did not use dental whiteners or whitening strips. Here's what I did. I started brushing my teeth only with baking soda and water. This is a little gritty and the friction actually polishes your teeth. You can hypothetically overdo this if it starts to wear down your enamel, so only do this until your teeth are white or only occasionally to counteract stains. Avoid staining lifestyle habits like tea, coff…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 04:59 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:37 PM
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Gifts are reciprocal. My LTR recently complained to me that I didn’t buy her anything, like her friends’ boyfriends do. I told her I don’t show my love by buying her superficial things, but by doing things for her and with her. If she wants to be bought things she should break up with me and get a sugar daddy. She never mentioned it again. I dig it.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 01:42 PM
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I told her to get a therapist. She hasn't. I have one, I enjoy it. She's not on meds, neither am I.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:37 AM
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You said she gives you just about everything you need. Are you reciprocating this, is there a balance in terms of how much you both sacrifice to satisfy the other? I give her my time which is my most precious resource. She takes care of me. What do you actually want from a woman, can she give this to you, and if not, are you willing to compromise? I remember Elliot Hulse or maybe Brian Tracy was asked how to deal with women making you less productive. He said the right woman wouldn't make you le…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 03:44 AM
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I invite criticism and I thank you for providing it. It just didn't seem like an accurate characterization.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:30 PM
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I hadn't read Tears before. I enjoyed that. I didn't follow your LTR prescriptions to avoid entitlement. I've given her gifts on holidays. She expects them now. I actually tried minimizing the entitlement last Valentines, I bought her a gift and didn't give it to her. A week later she started crying about it, asking me why I didn't give her a gift. I gave her the gift. What would you recommend to fix that? I remember Patrice O'Neil saying it's better to like a woman than love a woman. I didn't t…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:12 PM
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Does everything look like a nail to the man with a hammer?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:38 PM
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Haha, ask Elon
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:54 PM
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I really enjoyed your posts on BDSM. I think you're right and that probably amplifies the need for comfort.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:54 PM
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I am actively working on this.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:31 PM
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I read the book many years ago. I will refer to the boundaries section.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:17 PM
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1) I think it's something I could be much better at, yes. 2) I'd like someone who takes care of themselves and can act as an intelligent confidante or effective subordinate. Or maybe no one at all. As an aside, you mentioned choosing sullen victory over happy diversion in a comment. "The harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly; it is dearness only that gives everything its value. I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:11 PM
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comfort tests The best Comfort Shit Test response alleviates a girl’s insecurity while strengthening emotional closeness. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/06/18/value-shit-tests-vs-comfort-shit-tests/ That was interesting, thank you. There's obviously an element of comfort testing going on. If marriage is her goal but not yours that's a problem, relationship wise. I'm open to it. It's just not a priority for me like business.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 11:55 AM
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Theoretically sure. However in practice you hire who you know and trust. The way tech companies hire the best talent is essentially by recruiting the most competent friends of current employees. At the time that she joined the company we were on the verge of closing down. We had just been ripped off for about $300k and had no working capital because we had just paid $200k in taxes. The company was completely broke. Simultaneously a high level employee caused a major crisis and hired his friends …
/r/askTRP24/04/19 11:29 AM
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That is how I feel. I won't be callous with her.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:57 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:44 AM
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I appreciate you saying this and I see the reason in it. I regret that early in life I let the judgment of others overrule my own. I will never allow that again. I think TRP is a hedgehog not a fox, it knows one big thing. But it knows nothing about intimacy or connection. I have read books about Crucial Conversations, being vulnerable, etc. I have made an earnest effort to improve in this area and I did not feel that I made much progress or that it was appreciated. I give her my time because I …
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:32 AM
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I wouldn't really call it giving her attention. I will be annoyed by the distraction and she'll be hurt in my presence until I talk with her. She'll ask me why I'm ignoring her, she'll start crying, that kind of thing. She'll shiver. I'm not a monster so when it gets to that point I console her. I do reward her for being my sex pet and cooking for me. She does that and enjoys it. So what am I supposed to do if she's crying and following me around and asking me to just hold her? It hurts me to wa…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:33 AM
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You are right. We have a strong bond and she's been with me through thick and thin. My heart is heavy about it. I should clarify. I think she has a good heart and golden personality and would be marriage material but marriage and family is not a life goal for me currently whereas it is for her. It's funny you mentioned enneagrams, we got into this last week. I am an ENTJ 8w7 and she is an ENFP 3w2. The type 8 and type 3 dynamic is similar. Thank you.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:28 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:48 AM
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I don't have oneitis. I have reassured her for 8 hours straight before. I agree, I find it ridiculous. What am I supposed to do tell her to get the fuck out and she cries and has nowhere else to go? I am not so heartless. She is devoted to me. The poor girl is depressed and not eating because she's disappointing me. And of course I do care for her. No abundance mentality, no DGAF attitude. Perhaps. But I think this philosophy fails to account for how things change in a LTR and cohabitation. Than…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:37 AM
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I will.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:29 AM
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I'm laughing. You are prescient and speak from experience. You are probably right. Thank you.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:28 AM
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I tried this early on and she did not accept it and it almost resulted in us breaking up. Now if I say something to that effect it makes her cry. I think this may be an incompatibility, which of course saddens me because I know what must follow.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:46 AM
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Never make looking for a girl/ doing things with a relationship a top priority over your life goals. Your money, happiness, mental health comes from what YOU do to it. I communicated this very early on in my relationship with her. That myself and my career came first. She did not accept this and I relented because I was in love with her. I said we would be a team and put us first. I think we would not have dated as long as we did if I had not budged on this. So I don't regret it, as it was a ver…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:43 AM
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Can you elaborate, what is taking the red pill in this context?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:34 AM
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BDSM is whatever you want it to be. If you're not into humiliating, degrading, sadism, etc. then it might not be for you
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 02:18 PM
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