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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Partner doesn’t post me on social mediaHe's trying to appear single, simple. Call him out and ask him about it. 'Hey how comes you never post us?' My ex did this, and it upset me, I knew it was for all the girls on his insta. He got an ultimatum, and deleted over 200 women and posted me, lost another 50 followers after that 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/25 08:52 AM |
| 4 | He deleted his dating profile in front of me then redownloaded it behind my backEveryone I've ever spoken to about him has said he's ugly inside and out. No chin, bald. Hardly a looker. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/25 04:37 PM |
| 7 | He deleted his dating profile in front of me then redownloaded it behind my backTate is attractive? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | A man with kidsDoes she get jealous over him spending time w his kids? No, because when they're at his they all spend time together, only once a fortnight. Also she has two kids so it's different. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/24 07:31 PM |
| -2 | A man with kidsOp, go for it. There's plenty of good men with kids, don't write people off over their past when you could meet someone amazing. Especially if you don't want kids yourself it's perfect. As I said in a previous comment, me and my ex's new partner get along great, she's amazing with my kids, no drama. I would find out what his relationship is like with his ex - if things are cool I say go for it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | A man with kidsI've heard of this happen loads of time, sick of the negative rhetoric of baby mamas | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/24 06:36 PM |
| 5 | A man with kidsI have kids from an ex, his new girlfriend and I get on very well. I have her kids over etc as our children are close. Not all 'baby mamas' are bad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/24 06:26 PM |
| 3 | How to get over being pumped and dumped?Me too! Gives me hope, I think age really is a number and if you look after yourself physically and mentally ypu can meet a good man at any age! Social media is making women think they're worth less after 25, it's so sad! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/24 10:26 AM |
| 5 | How to get over being pumped and dumped?My sister is 45, slim and attractive and takes care of herself physically and mentally, she met a 53 yo hvm, 26 is a baby, stop it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/24 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Wish I found this sub before being baby trapped.Are there womens refuges who can help you leave safely where you live? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The last five dates I've had have had the same theme - the men aren't listening, but waiting to talk.💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | TeaDid he get custody? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 07:05 AM |
| 6 | Dinner + “Movie” = SexLol he deleted the post because the replies did not go in his favour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Saw this on my feed and just thought 'Wow'. Imagine being with someone so supportive and loving over a drawing of a flower (hes consistently like this) I can't at the moment, sadly, but hopefully I will soon.Yes, they're either jealous or just indifferent. My ex was the latter. I opened my own coffee shop, was successful, he never came in or said anything about it, it was weird. It hurt my self esteem, I was young. I wouldn't give two fucks now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 03:53 PM |
| 7 | Saw this on my feed and just thought 'Wow'. Imagine being with someone so supportive and loving over a drawing of a flower (hes consistently like this) I can't at the moment, sadly, but hopefully I will soon.Please lord. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 05:22 PM |
| 22 | Saw this on my feed and just thought 'Wow'. Imagine being with someone so supportive and loving over a drawing of a flower (hes consistently like this) I can't at the moment, sadly, but hopefully I will soon.I get that, but he doesn't do this often, it's probably the first time I've seen him do it I think. He's actually very dry and sarcastic irl so I can tell he means it. I guess you have to know the person. If it was one of those cheesy 'love my babes' post and you know there's relationship issues then yeah. Also his wife is a very strong woman, I'm sure he asked permission first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 04:49 PM |
| 17 | Saw this on my feed and just thought 'Wow'. Imagine being with someone so supportive and loving over a drawing of a flower (hes consistently like this) I can't at the moment, sadly, but hopefully I will soon.That's lovely. I can't imagine having someone proud of me, just seems alien. My dad was so I don't know where I went wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 04:15 PM |
| 28 | Saw this on my feed and just thought 'Wow'. Imagine being with someone so supportive and loving over a drawing of a flower (hes consistently like this) I can't at the moment, sadly, but hopefully I will soon.Thanks, I'm happy being single if I don't find that person too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:55 PM |
| 124 | Saw this on my feed and just thought 'Wow'. Imagine being with someone so supportive and loving over a drawing of a flower (hes consistently like this) I can't at the moment, sadly, but hopefully I will soon.My ex didn't say anything close to this when I took 24 hours to push out our baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Most times we don't even want to take an uber eitherIn London we have Ladycabs :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.God, this comment. So fucking true all of it. I just had a video date with a guy and he didn't ask me one thing about me, spoke over me. I could tell you his fucking life story, I bet you he couldnt tell you how many siblings I had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 08:01 PM |
| 8 | Saw this today, great mantra!Well done ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 07:43 PM |
| 8 | ......My sister is 43, men snapping at her heels. Age ain't nothing. She looks after herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 02:51 PM |
| 8 | Stop explaining basic facts to stupid peopleYup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 01:57 PM |
| 10 | Hell is wrong with these mfersHe did it on purpose to freak you out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 07:07 PM |
| 7 | Hell is wrong with these mfersI'd call the police | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 06:29 PM |
| 7 | Hell is wrong with these mfersI worked in a library and had some depraved men come in it. One guy used to watch toilet porn, he was banned finally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 53 | Hell is wrong with these mfersStarbucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 06:53 AM |
| 4 | In the last two weeks I've had two married older men try and kiss me.I'm v petite but I have a v serious face so that usually deters them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 07:11 PM |
| 44 | Mhmmhttps://youtu.be/L2XFY00UV-s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 12:06 PM |
| 3 | The prize that is marriage to a LVMGuess I was a goblin in my past life 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:52 AM |
| 2 | The prize that is marriage to a LVMDitto! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:50 AM |
| 2 | The prize that is marriage to a LVMMy dad was the same. I've lost faith that's there's any men like him out there now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:47 AM |
| 2 | How do I get men to approach me?Agree with this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:27 AM |
| 2 | 10 Hours of Walking in NYC as a WomanSame in London | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:18 AM |
| 17 | This made me laugh.I don't think anyone criticises those who want shorter men, it's more being told we should go for this or that. I prefer shorter guys too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 10 | This made me laugh.Link to article: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/jan/18/why-women-should-date-short-men?utm_term=Autofeed&CMP=fb_gu&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1579480560 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:20 PM |
| 60 | This made me laugh.Hence why there are so many incels, they won't lower their standards so they hate on women instead and die alone. And would rather that than lower their standards at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 01:54 PM |
| 51 | This made me laugh.I basically commented your first line in the article comments. Fed up with being told what to do all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a guy I like?I guess I should come off bumble then as women have to make the first move! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 09:46 PM |
| 3 | How to approach a guy I like?Thank you. Ironic that message has been downvoted too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a guy I like?I'm disappointed all my replies have been downvoted. I'm a newbie and learning. Not sure how downvoting and being harsh is meant to be sisterly tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:31 PM |
| 3 | How to approach a guy I like?Ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone actually found any of these elusive HVM?Yes, they're all married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Do you all think that dating apps attract more messed-up men?That's just an opinion. I don't agree with it. I'm not desperate at all but my circumstances (single parent, work FT with all women, no endless babysitting money) mean I can't meet people by going out to bars, meet ups, book clubs endlessly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 06:12 PM |
| 2 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.To be honest he was cool to chat to, very funny and made me laugh a lot. Just wouldn't date him as he's got way too much going on at the moment and the whole fighting over custody thing always puts me off as it's not healthy and will bleed into your relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.The realities of OLD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.Definitely, it's a good move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:46 PM |
| 4 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.Yeah just chat, ask a few questions to get a kind of idea of them. It's not going to weed out all the arseholes but I've learnt pretty quickly if I want to pursue a date. I chatted to another guy the next day and he seemed really nice, chill so we are going out next week. With online dating I would always chat over the phone first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:54 PM |
| 10 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.When they suggest a date, I say I like to chat over the phone before meeting and most guys agree, they don't mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:49 PM |
| 5 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.Men lie about height a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:35 PM |
| 15 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.Tbh we chatted for an hour about other stuff then I said I'm feeling really tired (which I was by then) and said I had to go. He didn't text me after that as I think he got the message. I did say while on the phone, maybe it's best you sort out your court cases before looking for dates and he agreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:25 PM |
| 5 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.Nothing to break off, we had just sent a couple of texts before the convo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:04 PM |
| 7 | TF is going on tonight; their ways of saying casual is evolving. Wasted my daily OLD 20 minutes!Basically looking for a free prostitutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Straight from my brother’s mouth: “men don’t respect women who approach them”Psssh absolute clown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:34 AM |
| 26 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.A man who isn't allowed to see his child in this country, who allow the worst abusive fathers to see their kids (I work in children's services) made me very worried. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:32 AM |
| 18 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.He told me about the meds he's on and other details. It was just like woooah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:31 AM |
| 44 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.Too much work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:18 AM |
| 38 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.He said he thought having a partner would help with it...I thought I don't need that tbh unless you're doing something to help it first. I have anxiety but when it was really bad I thought no way would I want to put this on someone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 11:03 AM |
| 128 | This is why I always speak over the phone before a date.Oh, and he sent me a selfie and he'd put on like 25lbs and was now bald, whereas in his pics he was in shape and had hair, so yeah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:06 AM |
| 15 | Woman's boyfriend refuses to lend her $10 🤡Wow, the comments calling her an asshole. Everyday I lose more faith in men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 12:04 PM |
| 14 | What are the last words your ex said to you?Not last words, but words that rang in my ears forever and made me finally see the light: 'You were never my queen' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 10:26 AM |
| 15 | If guys have anything, it’s unearned confidence. Ladies, build up your self esteem!Their mothers usually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Am I being too picky?I've had so many unsatisfactory dates and I know it's because of online dating. I find it hard to meet people any other way due to my circumstances atm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 8 | Am I being too picky?'Why can a co-worker who I barely talk to treat me better than a man..' Because she's a woman, conditioned since a baby to think of others probably. A lot of men are raised to be selfish. My brother is one and my ex. Their mother's did everything for them up until nearly 28 yo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 06:06 PM |
| 12 | Am I being too picky?Yeah I agree. I'm done chasing. I want to be pursued for once in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 11 | Am I being too picky?I don't even think these guys are doing it maliciously, they are just genuinely thoughtless and have perhaps been brought up like that. My ex once walked past me in the living room while I was breastfeeding our newborn after being up all night, and cooked himself a breakfast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Am I being too picky?Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 12:10 PM |
| 12 | Am I being too picky?Also I knew after hugging him and smelling him I wasn't attracted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 11:09 AM |
| 22 | Am I being too picky?Thing is with online dating, you literally have no clue if you'll be attracted to this person and most women take .5 seconds to know if they are. Being quite an introverted person, I don't want to spend a good 2+hours with a guy eating when I don't like him, the thought fill me with dread. Half an hour with that second guy was painful enough, listening to him ramble on and watching him eat his food. I'm glad I could get out of it easily. If I met a guy in person, and I knew I was attracted, then… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 11:09 AM |
| 40 | Am I being too picky?I find it really awkward after a date he asked you to clean his flat...odd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 11:06 AM |
| 31 | Am I being too picky?This is why I don't usually bother dating anymore. Just all a headfuck tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 09:22 AM |
| 12 | Am I being too picky?Thing is, I really think the first guy was waiting for me to initiate contact first and was being stubborn. We had greay convo lots of laughing, lots in common, then touching my leg, then kissing at end of night, then he said I hope I can get your number now. Then nothing. My sister said some men need reassurance and for us to contact first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 09:15 AM |
| 9 | Gift of Fear author Gavin DeBecker on the #1 safety tip for womenThis is brilliant and so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 08:57 AM |
| 52 | Am I being too picky?Thank you. The second guy really annoyed me not offering to grab me something and then devouring it in front of me. I just kept thinking I bet you're selfish in bed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 08:56 AM |
| 5 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?Ditto to this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 12:48 AM |
| 19 | Ladies, choose wisely and ruthlessly!You can choose wisely but studies have shown that men can become abusive after you get pregnant after being fine previously. It happened to me. He screamed at me when I was in labour because I asked him to go slower over bumps when driving the hospital. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 02:48 PM |
| 14 | This is why you need to have your own money...My ex did this too but I had a newborn. It was fucking horrible. I ended it and now he has to pay me 2k a month child maintenance as he earns so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 02:16 PM |
| 9 | Had this conversation on tinder this morning. I truly can’t believe some men are like this about self confidence.I remember a woman did this to few guys; agreed with compliments men gave her online and they all turned nasty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:44 PM |
| 3 | $ Bailout Denied $It's very well known that men can become abusive once a woman becomes pregnant or they get married. It happened to me. He was nice as pie before kids. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/08/19 04:50 PM |
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