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| 213 | "just be confident" is a shallow advice for men | Debate | chapohc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 04:58 PM |
| 51 | How "find a hobby" people think that cities are / How it is in real life | Discussion | chapohc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 04:56 PM |
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| – | What are some secrets men dont tell women?So on a date, asking something like "What are you looking for" is irrelevant. We won't answer frankly, we know that women don't like the honest answer. yes. The experience told me that nothing makes a woman dried than hear that I am looking for a relationship. It sounds like women want to force a man to want a relationship with them instead looking for somebody who wants it naturally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If dating feels like a competition, your standards are too high.I hate how internet created a myth that men are suffering for the tall slim D cup sized blonde rich girl, while most of us are suffering because the cashier of the grocery store who hasn't even joined the college is ghosthing on us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.part is because we aren't taught about that women are taught about how to work with dating market since they are really young men are raised to do a lot of things that aren't related to dating, then when they start to date, POOF, here you are, with no tools and having to learn how to date by dating! Plus, the girls at your age have already experienced things with older boys, and the only way for you to improve is by failing ang giving women more power in the dynamic (because rejecting a man make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 03:14 PM |
| – | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" lol no they aren'twomen might have unique tastes, but I bet that they wouldn't mind dating a classic top guy instead an unique guy. Yeah, some girls do like chubby guys, but I've never seen a girl rejecting a gym guy because she wanted a chubby one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 01:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datinghow many cis women have hobbies? most women life is strict to: work -> school -> gym -> netflix ->parties Yeah, some girls like D&D, some like MTCG, some like fixing cars, etc. But the here's a reality check: most of 'em are already dating. So, unless you are a REALLY LUCKY, you won't find girls in that miniatures paiting workshop or that hinking club | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 12:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingplus, 90% of hobbies suffer from this problems: -being few if you don't live in a big city -being almost all a sausage party -girls in thobbies are usualy coming with their boyfriends or are too old or too young -when you join a hobby group where girls go more often, you'd be seen either as a gay guy or "that guy who joined a yoga group in order to get girls" -most hobbies are split by gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice cliches are also ruining modern dating.women know that if a man is in a dancing club or yoga class, he's probably there in order to get girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Men, on the other hand, don’t care about status like that. They like famous women because they’re hot. That’s it. Sabrina Carpenter, Margot Robbie, and random Instagram models. You don't see guys obsessing over their personality or talent. And then there’s the pornstar obsession, which is 100% just about sex appeal. To put it simply: women like hot men because they’re famous, while men like famous women because they’re hot. plus, men will be just "ok, she's hot ... back to the other topic ..." I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth.we don't feel intimidated we just know that we have no chance a CEO man might get married to his secretary a CEO woman will never get married to a man who isn't above her or MAYBE the same level. a CEO woman might get married to another CEO or a famous doctor, but never with a cashier, a school teacher or a blue collar job man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone.yeah, then all women need to do is to give some crumbs to the dozens of stranger guys on their DM it doesn't matter if they will never do anything, they feel powerfull with dozens of guys telling "you so beautiful" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:59 PM |
| – | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.women suffer because "men don't want a relationship", but men don't say "I want a relationship" because if they do so, they will be known as desperated and needy. It's a stupid game that women suffer because they created it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Stop saying "just be yourself" to menIf more men wake up to this fact and actually start improving themselves then we are going to have a lot more competition lol. "men should improve themselve more .... I'm tired of rejecting only average guys, I want to reject better men too, so I'll feel even more powerful" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:23 PM |
| 9 | Stop saying "just be yourself" to menI'm sick about how men can't be less than a legend in order to get scrubs of affection. I have tons of hobbies: writing, reading, gaming, cosplaying, collecting books, cityseeing, riding my bike, cooking, etc. But NO .... I have to visit a spa in Thailand Monday, climb a mountain on Tuesday, do some xtreme sports Wednesday, run a marathon Thursday, go to a party Friday, play piano to a lot of people Saturday and win a martial artist tournament Sunday ... so MAYBE ..... MAYBE I'll be worth of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:21 PM |
| 5 | "just be confident" is a shallow advice for menyeah. 99% girls who broke up with me or stop dating me just ghosted me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 11:26 AM |
| 7 | "just be confident" is a shallow advice for menSo, when you try these things as a beginner, it might feel awkward. That’s expected, and that's what is referred to as "lacking confidence.". But if you practice intentionally, the delivery improves. And as your skills grow, so does your confidence—because now you get more comfortable, less nervous, and can act more naturally. you underestimado how much experince can give us bad moments. The 5 wins I got from 500 approaches can't cure the 50 hard frustrations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 05:55 PM |
| 3 | People (and red pillers) often underestimate the necessity of young love/teen love and the impact it can have on am average guy's dating life in the future.bro, a girl can smell bad, being boring and she still can get married. Women only have to exist in order to get attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Losing your virginity "late" is far better than with the wrong personthe right person won't like you if you don't have enough experience, stop believing in fairy tails. plus, it's easier and harmless to lose a random girl because your performance wasn't great than losing the right person for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating."get a hobby" so it said Lucy, 31 years old, whose Tinder bio is: "I like to travel, Netflix and chill. I hate lies" with no hobbies at all and has +99 matches even with only one picture on her Tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 06:48 PM |
| 4 | How "find a hobby" people think that cities are / How it is in real lifePorto Alegre - Brazil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:38 PM |
| 2 | How "find a hobby" people think that cities are / How it is in real lifeno, Porto Alegre - Brazil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | A lot of mens problems would be solved if they date women who are pick me'sthe time I gave my guard to a pick me girl was the worst decision in my whole life. She wasn't pick me for a reson: she was a borderline freako, tried to break up day yes day no, dumped me for even stupid shit like don't buy her favorite icecream flavour while I didn't know which was it, cheated on me for no reason and always told me that I was cheating on her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 12:10 PM |
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