chapster1996 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactions		chapster1996	/r/seduction	26/01/16 12:16 AM

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1	How to stop myself from lieing? Get the audio book 6 pillars of self esteem it's 3 hours long, take notes, and it will teach you how to have integrity, and assertiveness. Lack of those two will lead you to lie, because you believe the image they have in theit head is more important than the truth you have in yours. Authentic, or unauthentic, real, or unreal, congruent, or encongruent. Fake or genuine, trustworthy, or untrustworthy	/r/seduction	14/03/16 10:02 PM
1	she annoys me but hot as hell.. well that comes to you dude, you obvs got standards, and such, so those girls who are annoying or whatever... mess with them, have some funh with it. self amuse dude. that or use her as social proof to get a better girl	/r/seduction	31/01/16 12:32 AM
2	Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactions the trick is a little of both, honestly when i'm with chicks or my friends, best of all with randoms.(randoms assume your a fun guy) ill act extremely immature, and nobody cares, but that's because i am nonreactive to how they respond to my immaturity. but trying to act cool, and getting approval will feed the ego, or worse, feed the idea that getting peoples approval makes you happy, so you will sacrifice who you truly are to get approval. so it's better to be yourself, no matter how silly, but…	/r/seduction	31/01/16 12:26 AM
2	Girls approching me when other guys are hitting on them i wouldnt worry about the guys, more so what the girls thinking, but remember.. ASSUME ATTRACTION. so if she wants to touch you, just assume she wants you, and put your arm around her. just do it like its nothing... be indifferent. put arm around, then take it off. push pull push pull	/r/seduction	26/01/16 08:50 PM
1	[FR] - How I learned that no girl is out of your league ya its good to give yourself props.. i dont even care anymore about numbers. so good for him	/r/seduction	26/01/16 08:48 PM
1	Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactions i suggest watching the TV show scrubs, it's a comedy tv show about doctors. it's hilarious. In the show they are professionals but they still know how to have fun. be serious when its called for, but if your just talking to a nurse about whatever being serious is boring . Every other person in the hospital is serious, and boring, so if your acting like a goof ball, cracking bad jokes, and not caring about what anyone thinks, you'll naturally be the fun guy. but make sure it doesnt affect the way…	/r/seduction	26/01/16 08:37 PM
0	Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactions Social situations with friends is the easiest way to do it. when your with your friends, do you ever stop and try to say something to get accepted? no because they have already accepted you, and like who you are. so unless your really shy, you should naturally be funny, and expressive around them. What i used to do with my buddies is going out and making really loud female moan noises, or making lighter farts. DO LIGHTER FARTS AROUND GIRLS.. funniest thing. now lets say you guys are out, just ta…	/r/seduction	26/01/16 08:15 PM
1	Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactions thanks homie	/r/seduction	26/01/16 07:52 PM
1	Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactions Thanks i appreciate that	/r/seduction	26/01/16 07:52 PM
1	Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactions Well time and place for everything. But you can even make decisions in your head of how you do things, and how you talk, to stray from feeding your ego. you can even take your ego out. Like avoiding the opportunity to show off, or better yet, change it from showing off to expressing EXAMPLE: "im gonna go dance, oh wait im a bad dancer.. i dont wanna look stupid" or " im a bad dancer but THATS OKAY, im gonna have fun, doesnt matter how stupid i look.	/r/seduction	26/01/16 07:51 PM
1	Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactions well i think that comes down to more of being congruent with who you are. Anything and everything that comes into your head when your speaking with people, dont hold back, or change your behavior. be Congruent	/r/seduction	26/01/16 07:46 PM
1	Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactions at work, id start off by making the weirdest faces you possibly can, but do it at someone who will understand that your not just slacking off or being a distraction. if you have any work buddies, talk in a really weird voice, like an accent, or talk in a high pitch girl voice	/r/seduction	26/01/16 07:44 PM
1	Your Ego VS Self Esteem, and how they effect your interactions fail	/r/seduction	26/01/16 07:40 PM
1	Does learned confidence ever become second nature? It will only be true if you keep progressing, i am so different and evolved then i was a year ago, even with me not being lazy and not progressing	/r/seduction	30/12/15 09:13 PM
1	Does learned confidence ever become second nature? it never becomes second nature, but you evolve to new levels. what you struggled with last year will be natural to you now. your confidence will be natural, but you will always be working on the next step	/r/seduction	11/11/15 06:49 AM
1	Shit test? it's not needy or anything, it's just putting your needs and desires ahead of hers. That is more important, which ever way you put it.	/r/seduction	02/08/15 06:20 PM
1	Shit test? id give her the straight truth. in a nice way tell her what's up. say- " hey im totally down to hang out with you, however im not interested in hanging out with him, so if you want to hang with him, i welcome you to do as you please. but if so i will not take part, but if you'd like to hang with me, i'll be okay with going out another time". (on your terms not hers)	/r/seduction	02/08/15 06:18 PM
1	Good place for group of guys to meet women? Besides a bar mall	/r/seduction	03/04/15 09:36 PM
2	Why do some girls go above and beyond to elaborately contrive the opportunity to squeeze in something about their BOYFRIEND in conversation?! I don't even like you! she's a loser, and she wants to seem desired	/r/seduction	03/04/15 09:11 PM
1	My change Sydney Australia, or Sydney nova Scotia?	/r/seduction	11/03/15 05:33 PM