charai_life Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why am I so resentful towards my ltr now that multiple girls want me... But sex feels the same but that rush of meeting new person How did you break the connection between seducing women and your ego/self-worth?	/r/askTRP	24/12/15 05:47 AM
1	Why am I so resentful towards my ltr now that multiple girls want me... But sex feels the same but that rush of meeting new person This resonates with me, however do you not want children?	/r/askTRP	23/12/15 10:25 AM
5	Quick tip for building confidence - pretend there is something else What you are describing has already been written about in depth, look up the terms "abundance mentality" and "outcome independence".	/r/seduction	23/10/15 06:46 AM
2	I want feedback on a recent incident. This whole situation would have been avoided if you led from the outset. You needed to lead and say you'd take the girl at the start, rather than George. George thought you were a passive beta after this. Then you needed to lead your girl to where you wanted to go, rather than just go along with her idea. If you'd established a dominant leader frame at the beginning she would have gone with you when you asked.	/r/askTRP	11/01/15 09:20 AM
1	So, I can't close. You can build rapport, now you need to escalate. Try the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder. http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf	/r/askTRP	29/09/14 04:52 AM
5	Changed my mind about her opposite-sex friend. You are being incredibly insecure about your girlfriend. You shouldn't need to make lists of who she can and can't hang out with - you should be able to completely trust her judgment. If you have any reason not to trust her then she shouldn't be your gf, just a plate. You need to work on yourself until you get to the point where the thought of your girlfriend cheating on you is unfathomable. Your problem is not "oh no this guy might hit on my girlfriend", it is your insecurity as a result of wea…	/r/askTRP	22/09/14 01:36 AM
3	Dread game If she perceives herself as much hotter, you will lose SMV flirting with the less-attractive girl.	/r/askTRP	19/08/14 11:08 AM
3	Girlfriend texting work colleague. What do? A lot of you guys are crossing the line into being too controlling. At the end of the day, if you are insecure about your girlfriend talking to other guys, that insecurity is highly unattractive and you will lose the girl. That being said, if she is texting him 24/7, that's a bad sign. However, you should be secure enough that Facebook friends and the occasional text don't irk you. If you say "I don't want you to be Facebook friends with other guys and I don't want you to text other guys", that'…	/r/askTRP	19/08/14 10:49 AM
0	What's your opening line? I seem to have no luck with girls online. In person it's no problem. But on Tinder or something, how do you really get a girl's attention? You get responses from 95% of girls when you say "Hi" to them? I find that hard to believe.	/r/askTRP	17/08/14 11:35 PM
0	What's your opening line? I seem to have no luck with girls online. In person it's no problem. But on Tinder or something, how do you really get a girl's attention? It does matter on Tinder, try saying just "Hey" and seeing how many responses you get. It doesn't really matter in person because she can tell so much more about you from body language, tonality etc.	/r/askTRP	17/08/14 12:31 PM
6	I got told I was the best guy friend of a girl after hanging out a couple times.. You need to escalate physically to show your intention. If a girl still makes a "friend" comment even after you do this, you need to explain that you're attracted to her and would rather be nothing than friends. There is an exception to this where you can intentionally friendzone a girl to meet other girls in her social circle or to increase your SMV.	/r/askTRP	16/08/14 07:39 AM
1	Dealing with shitty SMV while young? You can have high SMV through having potential and passion. That's why a starving artist who lives in a shit apartment but spends his time following his dream can have higher SMV than a guy who may be making more money living in normal accommodation working at a supermarket full time. Remember that you are pursuing what you want in life and women can come along for the ride and to vicariously feel your passion for whatever your goals are. Don't live for women.	/r/askTRP	16/08/14 07:34 AM
1	Everyone has their own special way of flirting whats yours? It's never 100% "safe", the main thing is that you go in for the kiss to show your intent, whether you succeed or not is less important.	/r/seduction	16/08/14 12:23 AM
3	Don't underestimate the power of "Hi, what's your name"? Did you get this from Ashton Kutcher on Spread? I use it 90% of the time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0tUNVwJKGw&feature=youtube_gdata_player	/r/seduction	28/04/14 06:31 AM
1	Hobby game Do you really think I sit there practicing armbars thinking of how it will make girls wet? My hobbies alone give me personal enjoyment and they are all conducive with each other and with picking up women which is more than a hobby, it's an instinct.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/13 02:48 PM
2	Hobby game This is pretty interesting, I'm always looking for new hobbies that attract women. So far I have: martial arts, lifting, playing guitar and singing, playing piano, speaking another language, salsa and other dancing, and being a military reservist. I want to get a motorcycle next.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/13 02:17 AM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma) You answered your own question, get her out of public. Some cultures are anti-PDA, just isolate the girl.	/r/seduction	19/03/13 01:47 AM
1	[FR] made a half-hearted approach and failed Don't apologize, and don't overthink your one approach. You gotta approach dozens more before you get even the slightest understanding of how to calibrate cold approaches.	/r/seduction	20/01/13 06:18 PM
2	Eating me alive...need advice. No (aka very little) problem picking up girls. Now I actually LIKE one....confusion hits me like a brick. This absolutely screams oneitis. I mean when I got to work I just texted her hi and got no response Not to be a dick but this is complete AFC behavior, you are meant to be a value giver and just texting because you miss contact with her is desperate. You need to take a step back and look at what you're doing from a third-person perspective - if you are as good with women as you say you are, you wouldn't be doing shit like this. Just imagine one of the normal girls you have sex with then lose int…	/r/seduction	22/10/12 10:05 AM
–	I want to hear TRP's thoughts on this...I'm incredibly jealous of how pleasurable masturbation, sex, and orgasms seem to be for women compared to men. Any advice for getting over this? Many women have never experienced orgasm, different surveys have different percentages. Conditions basically have to be perfect for them to achieve orgasm and if the guy is shit, forget about it. Whereas if a girl turns out to be a starfish in bed I can still orgasm. I prefer being a man.	/r/askTRP
–	Unintended side effect of holding frame She's just tricked you by changing her shit test to testing your ego. It's the same as a girl saying "I bet you're too weak to lift this" to get you to move something. Don't get consumed by your ego.	/r/askTRP
–	Urgent-GF cheated on me No. You should have the confidence no other guys can compare to you. If you're insecure you need to work on yourself. Secretly checking her phone all the time is a breach of privacy and emotionally unhealthy for you. If she wants to cheat, she will find a way. Controlling her interactions is not the answer. I've thought about this in the past a lot and came to the conclusion I will trust her until she proves otherwise, and that method makes me most satisfied. Nevertheless if she cheats, you must…	/r/askTRP