chardiddy04 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Are sororities high value? It varies so much by school and chapter but I think sororities are incredibly high value. As with any large group of people there are going to be some bad eggs but overall I met the most incredible, intelligent, funny women and my friends for life. They had all different interests/majors and I never would have crossed paths with them at such a large university without my sorority. It was always such a relief to always know at least a couple people in my huge gen ed classes and the study resource…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/22 05:13 AM
13	Beauty Standards Are Bullshit by Karolina Zebrowska. A look into historical beauty standards and how 'beauty standards' are all...well...bullshit. Worlds colliding - I love her! I think about this topic often when I start to play the comparison game with famous women. Bodies and faces have had "trends" for a long time and things will come and go. The heroin chic look of the 90's, the 80's was all about boobs and legs, the 2000's was about having a flat stomach and thigh gap, now it's all about BBL's and lips. It's fucked that body parts can be considered trendy but its a good reminder not to get down on yourself for not conforming to this …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/21 10:55 AM
59	How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men? Just a note from med school: men’s birth control research actually is unlikely to ever be approved or go further because the side effects of the birth control outweigh the benefits to the male body. Women’s birth control is approved by medicine because the risks/side effects of pregnancy are greater than the those of birth control so the side effects are “lesser than”. But men aren’t getting pregnant (obviously) so the birth control is only causing physical risk and thus isn’t good medicine. Hop…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 11:44 PM
119	YouTube comment about Netflix’s To All The Boys 2 (but really applies to pretty much all movies) worth noting that the first movie was directed by a woman and then after it became successful, the following two movies were directed by a man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 08:29 PM
13	Why FDS is Crucial if Motherhood is a Goal I read that NYT series you’re referring to and it scared the shit out of me - I was so pissed for the woman who described her husband locking his office door while she was expected to do her full time job AND help their child through school. This is all good advice	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 11:59 PM
35	Shes so young but she already knows what’s up with men and their goofy priorities 😂 god the comments on this are infuriating. I’m so sick of seeing women demonized for wanting a nice ring.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/21 04:21 AM
3	What do you guys think of this? (My personal opinion is in the comments) I hate to admit it but I think it’s absolutely true that your relationship with your father will impact how you see future relationships/confidence. As someone with an uninvolved abusive dad, it was harder for me to love myself and to learn how I should be treated. It took a lot of work on both my part and my mother (who is an angel) to undo that mentality. I do think it’s easier for girls when they have a positive male influence in their young life to model how a man should act and treat them a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 12:51 PM
12	Imagine rejecting a proposal and the first thing a man says is “I am rich, I have a lot of money”. So you can agree to marry him. This is clearly staged....right?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/21 07:32 PM
17	Bridgerton was a hot mess but I still binge watched it! I loved it but the costumes drove me crazy they were verging on Reign level bad. If y’all like regency dramas you have to watch the new Emma!! Costumes are to die for.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/21 10:02 AM
5	Dean (from 90 Day Fiancé) has his own problematic issues, but what he is saying here is absolutely correct, a man who values you will put in the effort, and do his best to impress you. A man who is cheap with you does not value you. Plus something the show doesn’t address is you can’t legally work while on that Visa! So she has no way to earn money and must rely on him and he knew that. So there’s no excuse for him calling her a gold digger because she has to financially rely on him!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 10:14 PM
5	Someone made this amazing piece of snow art. Comments are mainly objectifying the art, with a weird sprinkle of necrophelia and bashing women for being emotionally cold. Men equate being sexually crude with being witty	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 02:02 AM
15	Daily Reminder: A man’s sexual attraction to you means nothing. I agree - it’s so hard to unlearn this mindset when society trains women to value male praise and attention more than anything.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 12:28 AM
17	Great article from Emma Hartley (author of 'Fed Up') about women shouldering and cracking under the weight of emotional labor I was trying to find this exact article the other day and couldn’t! I think the house cleaning example she leads with is a really good illustration of what emotional labor (and it’s disappointments) looks like	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/21 06:42 AM
36	🤔 YES I was so glad to see this on tiktok I hope these young girls grasp this sooner than I did	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/20 03:57 AM
6	Am I the only one turned off by men on social media? I’m younger so maybe I have a different perspective than y’all but social media is so common with gen z that I don’t think having social media itself is a red flag (after all isn’t reddit social media?) I think it’s more about how it’s used. If he posts instagram photos every now and then of him with his buddies or rock climbing or something, posting a funny tik tok dance with your family that’s fine, it’s just connecting with your friends. The red flags are more about the type of content than t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 11:17 AM
14	Never had any real female friends and now I'm alone i’ve heard really good things about bumble bff!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 06:31 AM
12	Always look into a man’s background before meeting them like this (it’s free): I just checked mine and my own phone number is registered to someone else (probably the previous owner of the number?)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 07:02 AM
5	Typical Scrote attitude right here. It’s not fair that I don’t get sex right away when she had sex with other people! https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/iv4itd/a_lot_of_cynicism_from_men_about_dating_revolves/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf I love it when men literally compare women to objects - like say no more! I know exactly what kind of person you are!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 08:00 PM
30	Why do so many men claim to be into carpentry? This reminds me of that article that said 1 out of 8 men in a survey thought they could beat serena williams in a tennis match... https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thecut.com/amp/2019/07/poll-1-in-8-men-think-they-can-beat-serena-williams.html	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/20 04:34 AM