charella8 Archive

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5	Stay at home moms or nannies? I use my mom and my husband's coworkers wife as nannies. They both do great. They probably do better than I would as they don't have to try to clean the house at the same time and can just focus on the child. The coworkers wife has a bit of a language barrier but she is super sweet and educated (in psychology), we found her on Care.com. My best friend worked as a nanny for 10 years and is amazing. You can find a good nanny you just have to vet. If it weren't for the pandemic we would be trying t…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/21 10:31 AM
5	Is anyone here able to take care of a child, cook and keep the house clean? It will be easier if you nail nap time. We never got the hang of it and she cuddled to sleep for naps the first year. There goes that window! As my daughter got older my husband helps much more with bedtime, baths, etc. I work full time so it would be challenging without his level of support. I think it would be "easier" if I was a SAHM maybe. It's very tough to be as productive with an active toddler. They want to do everything you do. You'll need to give yourself some grace. The kids won't rem…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/21 11:29 PM
1	What is you guys thoughts on prenup marriages? As a way for a man to make sure your their for him and not his resources, and that if you do get a divorce protecting his interest. I asked my husband if we should have gotten one, his response was, "we are going to stay together forever, right?" He did give an example of his colleague and his wife signing a prenup (she keeps the down payment on their house she made, he keeps his expensive guitar collection.) Prenups seem a little strange to me as they seem rooted in a place of distrust. I wouldn't have been really happy if my husband had insisted. Although he came to the marriage with a couple properties we have since maint…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/20 11:01 PM
7	Desperate for help - I don't want any intimacy with my husband anymore You're not an entitled baby. It's completely reasonable to not want your partner to make hurtful comments, especially after you said something about how it hurts you. I think it's fine for you to care about your appearance. But I've never heard the tummy tuck after pregnancy thing!	/r/RedPillWomen	06/09/20 12:22 PM
6	Can I have your thoughts on us, 29F and 32M of 9 years together Very helpful to see the cold and logical point you made. My husband is career oriented and I fault him for not being as emphatic as I would prefer. I would rather have cold and logical!	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/20 09:27 PM
4	Can a red pill woman let go of resentment from an affair that resulted in a child? Hey I just want to say one of my acquaintances from high school has four children (11 to under 1 yr old) and recently divorced. She is currently dating someone super sweet and is just glowing. It's possible to find love again but you've got to work on yourself. Your husband sounds like a gaslighting, manipulative person. I'm very sorry he is putting you through all of this. Do you have a good support network of you were to leave? Maybe work on this and therapy in the meantime.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/20 09:01 AM
1	Why do women have to do EVERYTHING nowadays? Have you tried putting the "self-care" label on what's important to you? Sorry you have the expectation to code all the time and such. It seems like you have been provided a great opportunity. You may find that working is rewarding. Have you ever had a full time job with nice coworkers and/or a good company culture? I really struggled with the fact I had to return to work after I had my LO and would complain to my husband. He asked if I could imagine being a single mother making minimum wage. Th…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/03/20 11:34 PM
5	How to figure out if he will be a good dad, would any FDSers with children be willing to share what vetting worked for them? I second the father being a good dad. I think this is a factor in my husband being a good Dad. My brother in law is also an excellent father.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/20 02:06 AM
5	Enough stories about LVM! Tell us a good experience you had with HVM :) My father in law and my husband are both HVMs. My mother in law hit her head from a fall a few years back and ended up having a stroke. Her quality of life has really changed and her husband has been her caregiver from day 1. She has difficulty walking and he was able to travel literally to the other side of the world with her for their other sons wedding. He takes care of all the household duties and keeps her motivated with PT and exercise. He was a great father to my husband and I'm so thankf…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/20 12:31 AM
2	Cooking/Meal Planning Aps This is so helpful and perfect timing. I was just about to make a pantry database and I've been wanting a way to save online recipes. Thank you!	/r/RedPillWomen	23/01/20 03:38 AM