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Of course some do. But A. they're not 18, and B. they're much more likely to marry someone who's similarly professionally inclined these days (which is not the traditional definition of "trophy wife").
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:02 AM
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It's not difficult to get a commitment from someone of equal quality, so sorry (not sorry) to disabuse you that somehow women my age cannot find commitment from men my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:00 AM
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There are a lot of good men who like their peers, just like I do. Post menopausal means nothing except cleaner sheets and no more children. Not very many men really want to be raising children in their 60s, from what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:54 PM
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I've never had a problem with commitment, but then I'm usually the one who has to be talked into it. People (both men and women) tend to tell me things they don't always divulge to others. Men do ask "where did they all go" about the time they hit 30/35 and wonder why "all the good ones are married" much like the women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:52 PM
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I agree with this. They do often date younger. Just not the 18-year-olds the OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:50 PM
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I work in a teaching hospital. I have yet to see a resident or an older physician dating an 18-year-old. Some of the people who are getting an undergrad degree and planning to go into medicine likely are, but those people are mostly in that age group (and aren't doctors yet, and might never be if they don't get into medical school or if they change their minds)! Many of the younger residents, docs and medical students I see are dating or married to other doctors. The older single male docs tend …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 03:24 PM
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I'd agree with that, too. I've always been interested in those studies where people are blinded as to sex/race/age, and how they react differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 12:54 AM
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Word choice and phrasing. Men can also come across as sad, women can come across as whiny or entitled, even angry. Men, though, are socialized to more often go the anger route, not the sad, resigned route. Women are socialized to not show anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 03:13 AM
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If the (online) person complaining comes across as angry or entitled, people will often respond to that in an unkind way. This is more often men who are perceived as angry or entitled. Women, especially older women, more often come across as sad, and more people want to be encouraging in that case. Sometimes the "encouragement" from other women is throwing men under the bus by saying that they're shallow, which actually isn't true; plenty of men like dating their peers. The thing is, anyone who'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 07:53 PM
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I wouldn't ask a guest to bring something, actually. However, the man's response would have been enough to turn me off and that would likely have been a break up for me (smirk, no apology, no effort). I treat people nicely and expect to be treated nicely in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 10:52 PM
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Nah, man, I make my own money, own my own house, have my own retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 05:27 PM
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:D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:13 PM
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Didn't he say he wanted a non-redpill resource?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 06:19 PM
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There's Dr. Nerdlove, there's Captain Awkward, there's the Good Men Project. Not sure if any of those is exactly what you're looking for, but it's a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:27 AM
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I see spineless people as those who can't make decisions, and have trouble problem solving. Then whine about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 07:24 PM
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I find spineless people of any gender to sometimes be difficult to deal with. Depending on who they are to you, it can be extra work, and if that's the case, it's extra work all the time instead of shared work. I don't hate them (I have at least two friends who most people would think are "spineless" -- one male and one female), but I have to be careful not to have too many friends like this, as they can be emotionally draining. My two friends both had difficult childhoods, and I understand why …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 07:22 PM
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Yes -- but as a caveat, I'd also add that as you get older, that target demographic gets bigger again, or at least, that's been my experience. My dating pool in high school was tiny; a little better in college; and now that I'm single again, my intelligence is finally not intimidating, and sometimes even attractive to potential partners. It's no longer unusual for a partner to ask me what one of my vocabulary words mean...and looking back, I can see how intimidating that might have been to a you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 06:48 PM
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"I think there are things, usually small things, we can do in our day to day which put the world a little closer toward order and away from chaos." This is my day to day life, right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:04 PM
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That is my guess as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 07:17 PM
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I'm 61. There is no "wall" in most people's minds. I date as much as I want and I could marry again if I so desired. The thing is, many people are more interested in their peers than they are in people wildly older or wildly younger. Relationships that work depend on a lot more than physical attractiveness or wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 05:43 PM
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My son was in the military and not married. Came home with $80K after 6 years. I wouldn't say that was "stupid".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 06:49 PM
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This makes sense, except for very bad puns...which I also indulge in, and get eyerolls for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 06:39 PM
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As long as my needs are being met, and I didn't feel excluded (could join in if I wished)...then it's just like any other sex toy, and those can be fun now and then. No "brothel" though; not really sure how those things would get cleaned in between. (am a nurse, the stuff we use to clean things with destroys the look of vinyl, pretty much, even if you use armorall)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 06:16 PM
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